ESSENCE OF LIFE - Life Is So Unbelievably Precious. Make Every Day Count

It can be unpredictable and last only a few minutes, or you can see it coming from a distance. The thing about dying is that it’s not something you can negotiate. Whether you’re prepared or not, it’s going to happen, and on its own terms, too.
But what helps is making those last days count. They’re still with you. They haven’t gone yet. Make their last days comfortable. Be honest and talk about what’s to come. Nothing has to go unsaid because you have the opportunity to say it. Tell them you love them, and more importantly, show them.
Life is so unbelievably precious. Make every day count.
This film features Theunis Cilliers
Filmed in Franschhoek, South Africa
Theunis would like to thank the following people who have lifted him up onto their shoulders:
Carl, Godfried, Wilhelm, Liezl, Rina, Juan, Francois, Hester, John, David and Diana.
Also all the others who have helped to carry the baton in this relay of life.
And to Oom Jat van de Vyver, whose essence continues to live on.
All of our films are made possible through the generous support of our patrons.
To be part of this journey : / greenrenaissance
If you'd prefer to make once off contribution, our PayPal details are : paypal.me/greenrenaissance
Who is Green Renaissance? We are Michael and Justine - passionate filmmakers, living off-grid and dedicating our time to making films that we hope will inspire and share positivity out into the world.
Editing - by Jackie Viviers
Sound mix - by Tamryn Breakey
Music sourced from ArtList - bit.ly/2KfrAt2
A Waiting Universe - by Miles Kredich
Reconciled - by Sean Williams
Godnattsaga - by Beneath the Mountain
Shimmer - by Alon Peretz
Hope - by Simon Wester
A huge thank you to these guys, who so generously gave of their to time to help with language translations:
Arabic - by Mohammad Alkhudhair
Bulgarian - by Slavena Slaveva
Catalan - by Pau Zabaleta
Croatian - by Davor Bobanac
Czech - by Zdenek Hampl
Dutch - by Patricia Rossel
Filipino - by Genesis dela Cruz
French - by Natalia Hoffsteter
German - by Tanja Pütz
Hungarian - by Anita Máté
Indonesian - by Ary Nuansa
Italian - by Vincenzo Mocerino
Korean - by Chloe Park
Malayalam - by Vishnu Reji Haritham
Polish - by Anna Konieczna
Portuguese - by Jonatha Koeller
Romanian - by Iulia Nastase
Russian - by Assiya Marzhanova
Spanish - by Marianne Carrere
Turkish - by Ahsen Aygören
Vietnamese - by Tam Do

[@lylemacdonald6672]

In this age of some people shouting from the roof tops that all males are toxic I say this video illustrates what true masculinity is about; sacrifice, courage, humility, compassion, sensitivity, devotion, being a role model and above all else love of others. I am humbled by this man and can only hope that when I find myself in the same situation I can rise up to be as good as him.

[@rubberbiscuit99]

Beautifully said.

[@silviamonz2062]

You sound like you could🌸

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful, thank you Lyle. Theunis is such a brave wonderful man, he is so inspiring. Sadly Lydia passed soon after making this film, but her essence lives on. Thank you for taking the time to watch these little films. Best wishes, Justine and Michael

[@lylemacdonald6672]

@@ReflectionsofLife Thank you so much for making them. Truly inspirational. Kindest of regards from Canada.

[@almounasaddiyeh8685]

Lydia got so many blessings by this man. Lucky her

[@lindaparisi74]

I can barely breathe. Your film came in the middle of me rushing around in all my busyness, stopped me cold and stripped away all the non-essentials. This story...his words...his heart...his choices...the way you captured it...I can’t stop crying. You took what he entrusted you with and are giving it back to him as a gift which honors how holy and dignified this time in his life is. Thank you for sharing him with us. The way he is choosing to BE in the midst of such a heartbreaking time is deeply moving and inspiring. He is showing us how we can take the high road, to be our best selves and still be of service even though on the inside we want to collapse in a puddle. This film is going to bless and inspire so many people who are tempted to rage at life when it doesn’t go our way. I am getting up from my seat right now changed in a way which was needed. This may be my favorite film of yours yet (which is saying a lot!) GR - you are healing the world with your art. You are healing me. Thank you.

[@paulinayevenes2899]

Couldnt have said it better myself...im still crying having watched this...🧡

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Linda, thank you for your beautiful words, it means a lot to us. Theunis has become such a good friend, he is a beautiful man. Sadly Lydia passed away shortly after making this film, but her essence lives on all around us. Thank you for your kindness, thank you for being on this journey with us. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@sheilaboop3284]

🙏💜🙏

[@paulinawaas9204]

I felt the same way!

[@anitacerny7626]

I have read many of your insightful comments…. Grateful for the food other people’s journeys have fed your soul. Something tells me you have the gift to write of the human experience in the way they use film to tell stories and inspire others. I wanted to encourage you to write…. even if you choose to only write for yourself 💕🕊

[@anneshadasgupta1594]

"Don't look forward in fear,don't look backward in regret,but look around in awareness" What a lovely humble man who loved his wife immensely. Through the heartbreak he suffered he kept every bit of her with him. And he left his essence with her in the coffin he carved for her. A love so pure and divine. Thank you GR,another meaningful video!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@kevinegan6311]

"To be grateful rather than regretful" - This is what I needed to hear. Cherish the memories don't mourn what may have been.

[@bewusstsein3527]

Beautifully said

[@Jeremy-4037]

In December I lost my husband of 25+ years to COVID. Since then I've learned to cry every day because I feel so much better afterwards. Grief is so personal and because of this, that's when I feel alone the most. I reach out to friends and family and stay as busy as possible which has helped me tremendously. I have begun my journey with him in my heart and realizing that nothing is forever helps me let go of "things" both tangible and mentally......I'm finding peace in this new way of feeling.

[@kevinegan6311]

@@Jeremy-4037 Hi Jeremy, what you said is so true. Personally when I cry is when I deeply feel emotions and then afterwards it's almost as if something has been reborn inside. Sorry for sounding deep or over the top but to really feel the emotion of a loss can be so beautiful and comforting. God Bless you.

[@jennifergonzalez5809]

Beautiful ❤️....thank you

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful - thank you Kevin.

[@scribbleartie]

Oh, the shocked tears he was fighting back in his eyes. The breaking voice, the shrugs of helplessness. What a brave brave man. Letting go is all we can do and it takes such courage.

[@mountainman4859]

Beautifully said.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing those beautiful words, we agree Theunis is such an incredibly brave kind man. Lydia has passed since making this film, but her essence lives on. Thank you for taking the time to watch these little films. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@phoenixs8398]

His eyes showing the immense pain through his courage, his compassion through his grief...him thinking about how to help his wife during this most difficult phase. His love for her in making her the coffin, knowing that it would be her final resting place....how profound, how articulate and how humane. Thank you Green Renaissance for your sensitivity in handling what must be the most painful part in his life, with such softness.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your very sensitive words. We are thankful that he was so courageous to share this. And through that maybe encourage and help someone in a sad and difficult time.💚

[@johnhigginson5079]

This is a masterpiece, Theunis is an inspiration, his compassion and empathy are nothing short of breathtaking. There's a man I'd be honoured to call a friend. Not only that but you did him and his wife justice with such a beautiful film, flawless in execution and gorgeous to view, thank you to all involved.

[@lindaparisi74]

Amen, John. So well said.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

John such a beautiful kind message to receive we are very moved, thank you. Lydia has passed since we made this film, but her essence lives on. Thank you for being on this beautiful journey with us. Best wishes, Justine and Michael

[@MariaLopez-hc2nm]

Indeed❤️❤️❤️

[@carolnewlands8630]

You said everything about this..I can not help but feel so different after watching it..this channel is life changing..

[@andreabgc4442]

I am a member of your club. My very loved and very loving husband died in December at age 54 of prostate cancer. I felt him leaving me in the last month and terrible last few days before he died, but his spirit is coming back to me. I have felt him very close to me as I have made some big decisions in the last few days. To grieve deeply means we have loved deeply.

[@lindaparisi74]

My heart goes out to you, Andrea. And still you share beauty in your pain. Thank you.

[@paulinamorrow1452]

Thankyou Andrea for sharing this.You are right,their spirit does come back to us and we can sense it strongly in certain moments. The veil that separates us from our loved ones who have gone ,can become almost translucent at times.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Andrea for sharing your beautiful personal message. We sending you lots of love and strength. We love what you said "to grieve deeply means we have loved deeply" thank you. Lydia has passed since making this film, but her essence like your husband's essence lives on. Blessings, Michael and Justine

[@mariejohnson736]

I fell to my knees watching this. I don't think I have ever heard anyone speak so eloquently about life and death. The tears...I hope he can find peace.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching and heartfelt message Marie... thank you. We are glad it meant so much to you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@joydavis8030]

Building a coffin for his dying wife, such a beautiful and intimate thing to do. I feel for this man and what he is going through. Another heart moving film from these film makers.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Joy for your kind words. Lydia has passed since the making of this film, but her essence lives on. We appreciate you taking the time to watch these films. Thank you, Michael and Justine

[@sanjithsathinadhan6547]

The hardest part of life is truly letting go of someone you love. We don't want to, but we are forced to say our goodbyes. All we could cherish is the last few steps we have with them, though we know clock is ticking and we can't slow it down. It's always easy to fall in love but never easy to say our goodbyes. Thank you for this video, absolutely brings out the true essence of life.❤️

[@merabalaji6665]

Yes absolutely correct. Easy to love but not easy to say gòod bey.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such beautiful kind words Sanjith, thank you for them. You are so right it is so painful to say goodbye. Lydia has since passed but here essence lives on. Thank you for watching and writing to us. Have a beautiful week. Best wishes, Justine and Michael

[@sarahgarcia6120]

Thank you for sharing this. Much needed. Sending you peace and love ❤

[@auntmayme8119]

The love this man has for his partner is true, unabiding, and solid. Not too many have it.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@cottagemommy5116]

I understand about the coffin. My mother died a few weeks ago from Covid. I asked to fix her hair and my sisters dressed her. It was a beautiful thing and like our last gift to her. I knew she would not want strangers to take care of her, so we chose not to embalm her. I feel that we gave her dignity even in death. Caring for our loved ones ourselves is also a helpful way to get some closure. To me it's like the flip side of a homebirth, if that makes sense...

[@lindaparisi74]

Wow, Cottage. Beautiful and powerful.

[@susannolt1967]

Beautiful. So true. Honoring your mother. Precious.

[@JaxAndree]

Sorry for your loss. Sending love to you and your family. 💛

[@silviamonz2062]

🌸🌈🌸

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful - thank you so much for sharing your beautiful message. We sending you love and strength. Thanks for being on this journey with us. Michael and Justine

[@sherylrice7435]

Oh gosh... building her coffin... what's more loving than that?

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Dedication to love, so moving..

[@earthgrazer5511]

"I want to make this last climb of hers as easy as possible." I couldn't help myself. I burst out crying on this part. What a beautiful soul.

[@earthgrazer5511]

And what he said after that was just very comforting perspective about death. 😭💖

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Yes, he shared such a deep and touching message with us. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@joyceconnolly1065]

I was so moved by the depth of this beautiful man's feelings for his wife. What a moving video. Thank you sincerely. ❤️

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for seeing the beauty and for allowing this story to touch your heart. We send you love. Justine and Michael x

[@valerierogers9609]

Brings back emotions all over again. How do you release someone who's half of you... They live on in your soul, that's how.

[@patjos7719]

Yes

[@nicolegenerale]

exactly

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So true, their essence live on. Thank you.

[@mariecuriedepona2040]

I suffer from bipolar disorder and all my life, I have been struggling to hold on to life, constantly beset by thoughts of death. It is a life always on the edge. So what he said about life as now, not the past nor future is a very true message. For me who struggle with a mental health problem, holding on just for the next hour is so precious.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for watching, take courage. We hope that videos like this one can be of help to create a positive and kind atmosphere around you. We wish you all the best on the road ahead. Hugs, Justine and Michael.💚

[@megalakshita1185]

I wish someday I will have genuine husband like him....This brought me to tears. 🥺🤍 Whoever working on this channel, I just wanna say thankyou. I am so grateful I found this for my healing journey, whenever I felt low I always watch your videos to heal myself and to be grateful. Thankyou Green renaissance, I hope I can see you guys someday cos I’m a big fan of this channel. Warm regards from Indonesia. 🥰

[@lindaparisi74]

Yes, Dulce!!

[@patjos7719]

@Dulce 92 I hope for you too my friend :)

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Dulce, we really appreciate your very kind words. We so love making these films, one day we hope to get to Indonesia. Thank you for being on this journey with us. Best wishes, Justine and Michael

[@halimsukiman5158]

Similar with my conditions, whenever i feel low and feeling insecure i always turn this channel on Warm rgds 🇮🇩🇮🇩🇮🇩

[@donnaryan6711]

Beautiful film. Amazing Man who understood the process of his Wife's death with such tenderness and dignity. As a Hospice Nurse, it is truly a gift and pleasure to take care of another Human being AND their Family during this phase of life. God Bless you all who have created this channel and the people who opened up their lives to tell their stories.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

@Donna Ryan - And such love and blessings to you for the work that you do, being there for so many during the final steps of the journey through life x

[@estella2lenne]

The 'essence' - I treasure this whenever I share the moments with my mother who has Stage 4 colon cancer. Her presence, her little giggles when I say something funny, the small but useful advices she gives me...those things last moment to moment. But I can tell that she's beginning to lose her thoughts and understanding to some things that I say. That's a biological process, I understand and I go along with her, explaining if I have to. She's still my mother, but just not the mother who is at her prime anymore. However, her essence never left her and I keep bringing that back to our shared moments. Her consciousness seems to recognise that and that essence, will always be the mom that I had always known. Thank you Theunis and Green Renaissance.

[@silviamonz2062]

you savour every moment with her☮️❤️

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such a beautiful message Estella - thank you for sharing it with us. We are sending you lots of love and strength. We have just finished making a film with a nurse who I think you will really resonate with, we will share it soon. Thank you for being on this journey with us. Sending love, Michael and Justine

[@guineverebachelor6089]

So sorry for what you are going through, Estella. I find your words as courageous, loving and inspiring as Theunis’. Thank you for your openness in sharing this with all of us.

[@QuestforBeauty]

"Be grateful for the 30 years we had instead of regretful for the extra 20 years we didn't have." WOW! Masterpiece. I will never forget these words of this beautiful video. Gratitude.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@igorbukovy4313]

The most important thing in life is to feel real love, to give and receive the love. If You found your love so be thankful for It because many of us are not able to find the real love and probably many of us will never find her.

[@evesperspective7662]

We can't feel love until we accept ourselves unconditionally. We are love and complete but we don't know that because of our experiences growing up. When we love ourselves, we will not judge. Then we can receive love and give love because our hearts are full and overflowing and needs to be shared with others.....It can't be contained. Love you

[@igorbukovy4313]

@@evesperspective7662 I think I have bad luck.

[@patjos7719]

@@igorbukovy4313 I think together we are fortunate to meet here amongst good friends, my friend. Peace.

[@igorbukovy4313]

@@patjos7719 I was talking about love between man and woman.

[@patjos7719]

@@igorbukovy4313 yeah, sorry I knew. It must be difficult. I was just trying to cheer you up. :)

[@garryreed6410]

Making the coffin was such a beautiful things to do for his wife. 😢

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Yes, it's so touching and beautiful. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@nguyenthanhnhan4621]

Tell to your loved ones "I love you" everyday. Don't put your love in the inanimate grave when their sights are away but now, please!

[@deborahjohnson3876]

So beautiful. I love that he understands the importance of allowing her to let go of people she cares about. I have seen people suffer longer and greater pain because they were worried about the impact of their passing on others.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Deborah for your very kind words, it is so true what you have said. We have just made a film this week about a nurse talking exactly about this, which I am sure you will relate to. Thanks for being on this journey with us. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@stefanianatalini901]

Sono italiana e seguo questo canale con la traduzione. Condivido questa esperienza totalmente perché L ho vissuta credo che L essenza di ognuno è Divina. Grazie per ascoltare la vita

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing this message with us, we are glad his words resonated with you. We are thankful to Vincenzo Mocerino for assisting us with the Italian subtitles as it makes it possible for many more people to follow our channel. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Bearcub599]

Profound and utterly truthful! “Yes we must let go but equally we must let our loved ones let go of us” never truer words have been spoken. This beautiful video will stay with me forever. When going gets tough(as it surely does in life), I will always remember to look around with awareness right there and then what life is still offering, not look back with regret or to look ahead with fear. Thank you xxx

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such touching, comforting and encouraging words, thank you. We are glad his message meant so much to you. Thank you very much for your contribution, it means such a lot to us. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@ilsekrabben_]

I never understand and can't get my head around people who are able to press the unlike button on incredibly beautiful video's like this one. How bitter and unhappy they must be which also makes me feel sorry. Maybe it's an idea for youtube anyway to only have the option to press a like button if we wish to, but delete the other option. Why spread negativity. Anyway, thank you for making such beautiful videos that make me appreciate and love people and the world more every time I watch one. Which is so good during this time of life.

[@patjos7719]

I like the idea :)

[@nicolegenerale]

i completely agree

[@trustchristy8769]

I’m always hoping their bad eyesight or fat fingers got in the way of hitting that like button instead ❤️

[@Bambotb]

They're cancer

[@dbiswas]

Just a humble suggestion ... Maybe you can focus on 4.4k likes rather than 14 dislikes. And see if that makes the difference. Peace ✌️!

[@Andreee73]

My God, these little documentaries are pure gold for the soul ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are so glad that these videos are pure gold for your soul. Your words touch us. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Andreee73]

Are there any "extended versions"? Long version documentaries?

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Because we release a new film every two weeks, we don't have the capacity to release longer form content. So our films usually range in length between 8 to 15 minutes in length. Hope that you enjoy them. Hugs. Justine and Michael. x

[@kenike007]

To be human is to find humility..to find humility is to feel with the heart ...to feel with the heart is to fully live. My heart is with you. Love is forever,no time,no space ...always present. Rest in peace and walk the road rightoeously with the wind at your back.💖

[@ReflectionsofLife]

@Denise DeStefanis - Thank you for these beautiful and gentle words. x

[@theuniscilliers8010]

Thank you Denise,your words are beautiful and powerful inspiration

[@AtoZ-lq1ur]

i could see the pain in his eyes and in his words.but he was soooo brave to face the moment of losing someone he loves.i am trying to hold my tears but i coudn't.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@jenjen9313]

My grandfather died last month, the man in the video is right, even if you know what will happen it still hard to accept but still life goes on. 💕

[@makaila2646]

💗💗💗💗

[@nazdelopere7660]

Its still hard to accept that i have lost my husband 14 months ago. :(

[@makaila2646]

@@nazdelopere7660 💚💚💚💚

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Jen for your words, we sending lots of love and strength, we are sure your grandfather's essence lives on through you.

[@marianavanderlinde8698]

You are incredibly strong...she is so blessed to have you... it's a terrible thing to go through...to see your love one dying.... 😢😢😢

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We appreciate your kind and caring words. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@rachaelsica4113]

"Hold on to the essence of the person. The rest is gone" The epitome of true forgiveness, love and care. We all fall short many times but nearly everybody has a beautiful side. Thank you once again to everyone involved for another thought provoking film.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Rachael for your kind words. This film was made with love. Lydia, has passed since the making of this film, but her essence lives on. Thank you for taking the time to watch these little films. Thank you for being on this journey with us. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@Lucyvanb]

Oh my goodness this is so profoundly beautiful. The purest love. My heartfelt warmest wishes to this wonderful man & his one in a million wife, Lydia 💖

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are so kind Lucy, thank you. Lydia has passed since making this film, but her essence lives on. Thank you for taking the time to watch these little film. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@Lucyvanb]

@@ReflectionsofLife aww I'm so sad to know that. Bless Lydia & her loving husband. I hope she rests on peace. thank you for sharing these beautiful videos 🥰

[@VincentFulco]

As a member of the widow/widower club no one wants to be a part of, I wish you peace, comfort and strength in the months and years ahead. Namaste...

[@ReflectionsofLife]

What a kind thing to say Vincent. Thank you. Theunis will need all the love and strength he can get. Thanks for you comforting words.

[@Hoda8855]

❤He could marry again so he could forget the pain, but he didn't. He wanted to live alone with the memories of his wife. How great this person is. I loved him the way he spoke.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Very touching words, thank you for sharing, Randa. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@barbara7282]

Beautiful! "Don't look forward in fear. Don't look back in regret. But, look around you in awareness." Thank you for that statement!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are glad you liked the message shared in this video Barbara. We send you warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@kamalikabhattacharya7560]

Guys, I wish I could work with you in some capacity. You people are so high vibrational. It is a privilege and an honour to have come across this channel. My heartfelt gratitude and blessings to all of you who are involved in the process of bringing such transformational stories to life. 🙏

[@departmentofgooddeeds9785]

Depatment of Deeds Approved✅✅

[@lindaparisi74]

Yes!!!!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such a special message to receive Kamalika, we really appreciate your very kind words. Just by writing to us, by watching and sharing these films makes us all connected. Thank you that you resonated deeply with what we are doing. Have the most beautiful week. Sorry for the late reply. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@bob_._.]

From all of us who have found ourselves in this situation, thank you so very much for this eloquent and sympathetic insight into this most difficult time. And how unfortunate that we humans must go through such trauma to find this wisdom. I am honored to recognize this noble man as my brother in grief.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Bob for your beautiful words. Thank you for being on this journey with us. Best wishes, Justine and Michael

[@nancygra]

How beautiful to be loved by a man like he🙏💞

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing, Nancy. It was very moving to do this video. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@katnip198]

To quote: Look around in Awareness. This Dear Soul knows the truth. Bless him.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@lynnmking3008]

Beautifully done! What a dialectic...to be holding onto someone he loves and to be making something that requires him to let her go in a sense.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It was very emotional filming this, Theunis is such beautiful brave man. His wife Lydia has since passed, but her essence lives on.

[@lynnmking3008]

@@ReflectionsofLife Oh my goodness! So sad to hear about Lydia. Thank you for sharing their story and for the work you do. It's so inspiring, humbling and refreshing to see positive based videos.

[@wendyperrone3319]

What a beautiful and inspirational man...many blessings for his loss and his wife’s transition

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Wendy, he really is a beautiful inspiring man. Sadly Lydia passed away shortly after making this film, but her essence lives on. Thank you for caring and taking the time to watch these little film. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@user-mm1zd3kz8q]

I appreciate his honesty and willingness to show his emotions. It's a tough passage but he is learning and growing as he goes. Admirable.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautifully described. Glad his message meant much to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@joanhenschel3511]

If we had more people like Theunis in this world, it would be such a kind place.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We agree. 💚

[@cathleen537]

I feel an inexplicable love and profound connection to you, Theunis. I send right now, in this moment, great waves of love and peace to you. I am grateful.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Cathleen for your beautiful words. We sending love and peace to you to. Thank you for being on this journey with us. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@vanja222]

Thank you Green Renaissance 🍃for showing us these stories filled with real and raw emotions. We are learning from these people about life, love, compassion, and I hope we are all becoming better humans. ❤️

[@lindaparisi74]

Yes, Vanja! So well said.

[@louisianarainwater]

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[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your very kind words. We have changed so much from making these films, they have taught us about life. We really feel grateful to be able to make them. Thank you for being on this journey with us. Best wishes, Michael and justine

[@kathyandersen1339]

My Oldest Son suddenly passed away 5-13-21 from a medical issue we weren't aware of, but he'd been with numerous health and mental health issues due to alcohol. I'm so grateful for our last 3 years to be closer, more that I could be closet to him and we reconnect Our Essence with one another! Knowing his Essence was thriving more than ever gave us peaceful love, between Son and Mom. What a gift this man was to his wife!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Kathy we sending you lots of love and strength. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Here is a little film we did about grief - kzbin.info/www/bejne/qnOcaZ-ao7qWiqc&feature=emb_logo Love from Michael and Justine

[@talitavermaak5214]

Precious. Simple, deep, soulful. I resonate. Compassion for him. Life.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@chiefonelung3416]

This is so powerful. I have no words. All the comments below say what I want to say and even more. I have watched this several times and I am still crying. Such beautiful beautiful words. What an incredible man.

[@lindaellis9349]

Blessings to you dear man...thank you for sharing this painful journey you and your wife are on....

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Linda such a kind thing to say, Theunis is doing as well as he can since Lydia's passing. Thank you for caring and watching these little films.

[@jennyc5132]

Wow...hugs to this man..every woman should have a husband like him.💜🙏

[@vagabondslot-machine8832]

Strength and gentleness are the same energy, shown beautifully here.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such beautiful words, thank you so much. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@douxchats2868]

To live while letting go, thank you Theunis for your courage and wisdom. Lydia's essence is very much continuing, worldwide...Peace and light...💜

[@stevewithers5317]

@Jair Shantianatta Spiritual Awakening Shameful! Stop adding links to your pitiful channel on the back of this beautiful mans story. You should be ashamed of yourself.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful message, thank you Doux for sharing. Lydia has since passed but you are right her essence will live on. Best wishes, Justine and Michael

[@robertmason2076]

Far out mate, I wasn’t ready for that one. Was enjoying a snack and killing time after work while waiting for my wife and kids to get home and wow, this video came out of nowhere. A number of tears just rolled and an even deeper appreciation for the things in life that can be taken so easily.

[@rutbrea8796]

Sensitive, loving man. I'm pretty sure his essence will live forever in the universe, not only with his family.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@gillb9222]

Darling, kind, loving man. How lucky they were to have such love. So sorry for your sadness and your wife's pain. Such love, compassion and bravery

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thanks Gill for your beautiful kind words.

[@barbb8117]

This was painfully beautiful if that makes sense. Thank you for sharing this.

[@anneshadasgupta1594]

It so beautiful that it hurts!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Barb, is was a beautifully painful film to make, we were crying most of the way through it. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@sietzevandeburgt681]

YOU help save the souls of the ones still here !!! Thank you !!!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Sietze that is such a kind thing to say. Thank you for taking the time to watch these little films. Best wishes, Justine and Michael

[@zendog8592]

Everything has the essence of mystery! Loved this video it's rawness held in the tranquility of music, scenery. Mum died five years ago Alziemers. Her last months she said nothing, head down constricted. Visits were painful, the silence deafening. One day as I was about to leave, she was mumbling, at first I was unable to decipher, she slowly lifted her head and smiled. Mum was a soldiers wife born from rough Glasgow stock. She uttered " My fucking arse is killing me" stunned I could only reply have you got piles Ma? Aye son, still smiling " Well I replied, I am not putting on the cream". Smiling she lowered her head, those were my mother's last words. I like to think that when the clouds of Alzheimer's broke up for a brief moment, she was letting me know nothing had changed, she was still there, not to worry, regret nothing. Painful as it was to watch her physical suffering, her true self shone through, she gave me the opportunity to offer patience, kindness, Love, just as this beautiful man did. Thank you for sharing your story and lifting me up on your shoulders.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Wow, we are touched by what you shared with us and can imagine that this video touched you deeply and was also uplifting. So significant and special that you were able to be with your Mum when she spoke those last words. That she had this clear moment and recognized you as being her son. Treasure it! Thank you for watching our videos, we send you warm hugs zendog. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@nishantchhetri5961]

I rarely encounter such beautiful people. I wonder where and how does GR find such beautiful humans in each of their videos. This has to be one of the most heart touching videos on the internet. Couldn't hold back my tears....

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching message, thank you. It is a very moving video, we agree. The people in our videos surround us all every day actually. But often we don't take the time to truly listen to each other, with open hearts and minds. We all have a story to share if we think about it. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael.💚

[@michellesoo3106]

Theunis's words are simple, touching and so true.... Thank you GR for the reminder of what life is about and for the great filming of this video...simplying mesmerising

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Glad you enjoyed it Michelle, this was a very touching film to make, we were often in tears. Lydia has sadly since passed, but here essence lives on. Thank you for your words and for watching. We hope you have a beautiful week. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@teresachamp7289]

Such comfort and wisdom in his words. I love how he conveys that the person leaving leaves with us their essence and how it becomes part of you. I see this each time I'm blessed to spend time with my Mom. My biggest fear is how I will cope when she's gone but I believe living by these wise words will truly help. I'm going to share with my Mom cause I believe it will give her comfort to. Thank you so much GR, you literally are changing lives with every film you release. It's amazing to me how in just 8 minutes and 30 seconds you can unravel pain I've dealt with for a lifetime. 💚

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Teresa, you have sent us such a beautiful message thank you so much. It means so much to us to receive messages like yours. We make these films with so much love, we feel blessed to be able to make them. Thank you for being on this journey with us. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@paklongteh7987]

Theunis teaches us to appreciate fully what we have before they're gone forever. Thank you Green.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Gratitude - such a powerful lesson to learn. Justine and Michael 💚

[@tainatrevic]

WORD OF HOPE..." LIFE".- Thank you for this testimony so heart breaking, at the same time, so BRAVE🙏✨

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Yes, it is a touching and also powerful story. Thank you for taking the time to watch it and share your thoughts. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@richardmeyer4859]

This is so beautifully filmed, and a loving tribute to Lydia. My heart goes out to this dear man. Thank you for sharing yourself with the world. You have portrayed courage and much love in this video. Blessings from Elizabeth in North Carolina, USA.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you very much Richard we appreciate your kind words. Lydia has since passed, but her essence lives on. Blessing to you from South Africa, Justine and Michael

[@irenemann671]

Such a courageous, feeling man. My heart goes out to you and your dearest soul mate

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you so much Irene, we agree thesis is a very brave man. Lydia has since passed, but her essence live on. Thank you for being on this journey with us. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@centurione6489]

in the last 40 years I cried three time. When my mom passed away. When my dad Passed away. And watching this video. Thank you for spreading beauty. It is much needed. MUCH!!! If I had to save ONE KZbin movie, THIS would probaly be it.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

A truly deeply meaningful message. Thank you 💚

[@yolandaloza4858]

This is a true man. It’s hard to meet a real good man. I felt every word he was saying.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Yes, he is so kind and caring, we are glad you appreciated what he shared. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@blucodilla5036]

If God takes me, I know in my mind and in my heart that it will be the greatest day of my life. Some will mourn, but everything will be alright. Since I had a glance of what's on the other side, my motivation to pursue the greatness of this life was gone because this life is the ugly version of our dreams on the other side and none of this existence are real except our love ones. Our real family in an infinite number are waiting on the other side.

[@nikkion2140]

Please tell us more to share : "Since I had a glance of what's on the other side....". Your real story will change people perspectives of life in this world!. Thank You. God Bless. Peace.

[@blucodilla5036]

@@nikkion2140 All of us have known each other for a long time in that place so believe and trust in Him and need not to worry about what's gonna happen next because our existence will continue after this. Dying due to an old age or disease along with your pure and strong beliefs with our creator is rewarding. The place where I went had a very pure ray of loving light like the sun and everyone were all happy that I had finally awakened from a deep sleep or a coma. But I guess my time on this earth isn't done yet because when I felt that there were two hands laid on my back, it pushed me right back to my living body. The experience I had made me conclude that there's no point of living a life designed based on the expectation of our society like having a big house, expensive car and earthly desire because whether you like it or not, any second, any moment and any day or night could be your last so live your life each day as if it is your last.

[@richardmeyer4859]

Thank you, Blu. You had a rare glimpse of the other side. We are here in this life, I believe, to learn to love God + love others, and to trust God's perfect timing and His perfect will for us. "Faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen", Hebrews 11:1 God has a plan for each of us, and a finite number of days. Our life on earth teaches us many lessons through pain. No pain in Heaven. Just Love.

[@nikkion2140]

@@richardmeyer4859 Thank You. Well said. May the Almighty bless us and guide us.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing your faith with us. Lydia has passed since making this film, but her essence lives on.

[@guitargirl7452]

My heart goes out to you at this difficult time. Be kind to yourself. Xx

[@eparedes7165]

Thank you.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So true, we all need to learn to be kind to ourselves. Thank you. Lydia has passed since making this film, but her essence live on. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@eparedes7165]

@@ReflectionsofLife I am Crying Thank you I am being kind to my self

[@terryklinger1648]

I hope I can be as strong and as at peace as this man when the time comes thank you for all you do for us with your videos.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such touching words... May this video help and inspire you. Thank you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Cil3464]

“Don’t look forward in fear, don’t look back in regret, but look around you in awareness.” What a wise man, I can really relate to many of his words. I lost my partner of 30 years a few months ago in a matter of weeks to cancer… very hard to take in, but life goes on… Very much appreciative and grateful for all the teachings available online, not at least now as life has changed so dramatically for me… be it from spiritual teachers or ordinary people. I came across your videos by chance, or rather as it was meant to be… Lots of wisdom presented in a very easy way to understand for everybody. So thank you so much for your contribution to living life in a mindful and best possible way, 🙏❤️

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are terribly sorry that you lost your partner. It's always so hard to lose a special person, a loved one. We are so glad that we could share this video with you, that it helped you. May you heal step by step and find a new way of living. Two other videos you might want to watch too are 'Shine On' and 'Through the Storm'. It's good to have you with us on our journey. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Cil3464]

@@ReflectionsofLife Thank you so much to you both! Also thanks for the recommended videos, will check it out. 🙏😍

[@angelikafarrell3267]

Oh my heart.. breaking open to his pain and his journey ahead. Such beautiful and wise caption of this man's understanding of Life of Love of Death and of letting go... such important message. Sending him love and light and everyone going through this journey of letting go of grief and the allowing life to unfold however difficult 💛

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@ursulatee]

You are grieving in a beautiful form together.....but when there has been a death and yet the person remains alive there is the constant conflict of grieving what was and maintaining life as it is....my dear son sustaining a severe brain injury I look into his beautiful eyes grieving what was yet I must maintain hope and strength to give him the love and kindness now which he gave to others for 45 years.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

@Ursula Teegarden - I am so sorry to hear about your sons injury. Your expression of what lies ahead is truly beautiful, and we send you much strength and love. He is lucky to have you x

[@destinyadventures99]

very few in life would have felt those all the moments,the thoughts going through his mind, the feelings; when he was making that coffin for her.

[@fricaTenereWorldraid]

Elk beeld, elk uitgesproken woord daalt in mijn bewustzijn. Elke minuut dat we samen leven in liefde,vrede is dubbel zoveel waard dan dat we ons beseffen. Dank voor deze indrukwekkende video

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Your words touch us, so sensitively written. We are thankful this video meant much to you. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@nana_ginny]

Grateful to carry the Love, Life & treasured moments. What a special episode & a special man. Thank you for sharing & the Gentleman for such a precious gift to share with all of us. 🤗🙏🙌💛💜

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Ginny for your kind words. We agree we need to treasure all of life's moments. Thank you for being on this journey with us. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@sallycornwell91]

This is one of the most beautiful and honest films I’ve seen. I lost my Mum to brain cancer last year, and I really feel the notion of the ‘essence’ passing on to those closest to the dying. I feel she is now part of me, strangely. Thank you for sharing. X 🙏

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Sally for sharing you beautiful personal message with us. We are sending you love and strength, your mom's essence is definitely part of you. Just like Lydia's essence is now part of Theunis. Thanks for being on this journey with us. Blessings, Michael and Justine

[@kurtholtz6870]

Amazing Strenght and Spirit. God bless you and Family.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your kind and caring words. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@jljohnson1949]

Tears welled up in me when he talked about her coffin. Beautiful. My husband Mike died 5 years ago from cancer.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing this message with us Janice, we are sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. We send you many warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@norri123]

The only guarantee in life is death. Just moving on to another place but of course years of attachment and love cannot ever diminish

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Ad, Love cannot ever be diminished. We appreciate you watching these little films..

[@priyankasharma5974]

How would he has made his heart so strong....to describe his emotions in to words!!....his words are just water on firey soul. 🍃

[@ReflectionsofLife]

He is such a beautiful brave man. Thank you Priyanka for watching and writing to us. Lydia has since passed away but her essence lives on.

[@anaraquel2932]

Michael and Justine, your film making became part of my life' s rituals. Because I am a visual person, and one with so much love and compassion, I can relate to all your films, those more joyful and those more tearful. This man and his wisdom, his humility and his depth, are an inspiration and godly made. I thank you for how deeply you touch me. Every time. Live well, and stay blessed. Ana

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Oh Ana, what beautiful words of support and encouragement, for the stories we share. We are lucky to say that we truly love what we do. And yet, the real acknowledgement goes to every person who has shared their story so openly with us - all the ups and downs, the laughs and the tears - without them, we'd have nothing to share. We hope that each new story makes your heart smile. Sending much love. Justine and Michael x

[@jamesl.o.h.6000]

I've learnt from him that all the treasures and glories of life means nothing when one comes close to this moments of life and death. This courageous man and his beloved wife have thought me look forward with hope instead of regret. I would deeply want my wife and children to feel the same if I've to go first. Each one of us are given a life to enjoy it the best we can with our loved ones and together with other fellow human beings who share the short span of life on this planet. I also learnt that to rise above my near and small horizon is essentially an endeavour I've to break through to be able to see the wider perspective of the life and the world. Thank you all who put this film together and for lighting a huge part of my journey.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such a beautiful personal message to receive. Thank you James for sharing. We so glad that you resonate with this film. We wishing you strength and love on your journey. Have a beautiful week. Michael and Justine

[@Astridos78]

What a beautiful man, what a beautiful soul ♡

[@ICTicon]

Beautifully presented 💕💕💕 A million thank you and more ...

[@ugluduck2]

The Bible says: " With that I heard a loud voice from the throne say: “Look! The tent of God is with mankind, and he will reside with them, and they will be his people. And God himself will be with them. And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes and DEATH will be NO MORE , neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” And the One seated on the thronej said: “Look! I am making all things new.” Also he says: “Write, for these words are faithful* and true.” Revelation 21: 3,4,5, . . . and He NEVER lies.

[@enjoypladecorrals]

A truly great man and his words hit me right in the heart. Thank you

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We send you love. Justine and Michael x

[@neishacedeno1656]

I broke down as soon as they transitioned to the completed coffin that he had made. That's when it really hit.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thanks you Neisha for your words. This was a very moving film to make, we were in tears through most of the interview. We grateful that Theunis has become good friend since. Thanks for being on this journey with us. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@MariaLopez-hc2nm]

Me too! I jolted! ❤️omg😃 WHAT else is Better than That!!

[@elizabethfinn6174]

Thanks you for sharing this experience. We've been married 47 years now. You helped me understand what my husband might be going through when he discovered l had breast cancer too. Thanks allot.please be well and stay safe!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

@Elizabeth Finn - Big hugs of love to you x

[@Cordelia-again]

Oh my, I bawled when he said they were giving Lydia space to release them.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@aaron___6014]

In 2016 I realized I would lose my girlfriend forever. Prior to that I was caught out in trivial problems with our relationship. The moment we learned that it would end changed everything. It was insanely weird, but so freeing and open to just being and loving each period of time we had together. Miss her. Death can be a giant that lifts you up above the daily minutia.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So sorry to hear of your loss. But so beautiful to read of how much you appreciated and loved the time that you had together. We send you much love and care. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@monicalauber2934]

Yes, it is very difficult to let go of a person we love very much .... everyone knows the deep pain they feel when that moment comes ... but this gentleman is right .... it is better to be thanked for the good times together and not regret for the time that has not arrived ....... who knows, one day, we will be together again .... Thank you, Green Renaissance, once again for those comfort messages that make us think about life and make us see that we are all the same!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you Monica for your beautiful words. We agree it is so difficult to let go go the person we love so much. Lydia has sadly passed, but her essence lives on. Thank you for being on this journey with us. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

[@monicalauber2934]

@@ReflectionsofLife 💖💖

[@raulmur4772]

Beautiful.....Life!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It sure is beautiful and so precious. Lydia, Theunis' s wife has since passed, but her essence live on.

[@mitterpe]

" Dont look back with regret. Dont look forward with fear. Look around in the present with awareness." So touching.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We loved his words especially this quote so much. Thank you Petra, for watching and writing to us. Have a very happy weekend,. Michael and Justine

[@christelstephenson1936]

I feel this in so many ways. Lost my husband to brain cancer 4years ago. Wise words spoken

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are sorry to hear about your loss, Christel. Glad this video resonated with you. Wishing you strength and all the best for the road ahead. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@CyborgNinja7]

Be strong and courageous. Do not be fearful or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you. He will never leave you nor forsake you.

[@bewusstsein3527]

There is lord but no god

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing your faith with us. Thank you for watching these little films.