Eto mga gagawin mo kung di na sya happy sayo.

[@Kristijunes]

"Ang bawat relasyon kung gusto mong mag work, dapat ang sentro ay ang Diyos. Because that is your guiding compass." ❤️😊👌

[@jeng4297]

Thanks po talaga Sir, the

[@davebanayyabolpt2320]

Kung di na masaya walk away nalang. Misan kasi if we keep on hanging on a certain relationship, tendency it might be toxic. Don't waste each other's time. Sometimes love doesn't mean colliding... It's also about parting and letting go.

[@joycii029]

I will listen to this every time I blame myself for losing the person I love the most. One day I will be okay. One step at a time. Thank you Kuya Darbs ♥

[@misteralien8313]

Problem sa step 4 is, most girls wont tell you "how" or "what" to do to fix it. Kasi katwiran nila "kung mahal/kilala mo talaga ako, dapat alam mo na gagawin mo"

[@rijudane]

Mr. kung nasa relasyon kayo, sensitive ka rin sa feelings nga babae. Hindi naman required na alam mo lahat ng gagawin, magtanong ka rin kung bakit . mag effort ka rin , mag initiate .

[@TheRside08]

Agree with you bro, they will entertain someone instead to fullfill it. In short papacomfort ✌️

[@themadsofsandiego]

What if you gave so much chance to change but he still chose to do what upsets you. No compromise no remorse. Just repeatedly doing the same thing which can be avoidable and make the relationship work. It’s a redirection. And this pain is pre requisite of happiness. I claimed it. LORD Kaya pala.

[@RealTalkDarbs]

Walk away

[@Kristijunes]

How to save it: Ask..."How can I make this work?" ❤️ How to make it last: Make God the center 🙏

[@kukkical3962]

I'm glad I have found your channel. I've been going through a lot lately. I had a relationship with a Narcissist and even though our relationship was toxic, I still feel hurt and miserable. I am moving on though. Thanks for your content. Have been watching your videos after work. God bless you.

[@lyravillorente]

God is the master rebuilder. More than capable of taking our disheveled brokenness and creating a new foundation for building a remarkable legacy of his grace and love. Idol, kamuka mo po yung professor ko😅🙂😊

[@nyzelledofz3507]

Thank u so much RTD.. 9years failed marriage.. niloko na ako ilang beses and still I am the one who chase. Kaht na may mga pagkakamali dn ako in the past kung mahal nga naman talaga ako ttanggapin at papatawarin ako. I did my part to save our marriage but he still let me go.

[@loversdelight3198]

Yung 4 yrs kami naging magkarelasyon. Until one day sinabi nya na hindi nya na ako mahal. At ang dahilan daw ay hindi nya makalimutan ang kanyang ex. At inamin pang gusto prin nya. Awwwwwww hanggang ngayon nasa healing process prin ako.

[@tiffanyanncruz6116]

cheer up

[@ShamSham-mp7zl]

Tagos sa puso talaga lahat yung mga payo mo kuya darbs 😭💖

[@RealTalkDarbs]

Salamat po! Continue supporting

[@aladine7446]

Ang sarap po talaga makinig ng mga realtalk mo sir darbs🥰🥰🥰

[@RealTalkDarbs]

Wag ka pong magsasawa

[@krisellerufino2573]

Silently in pain, surviving and healing.

[@opevillialeon2100]

Thank you dahil napanghinaan ndin ako pro Lumalaban pdin ako pra sa relation namin kht tingin NG iba tanga na ako pro dhil nrinig ko po sa in. U na pwde PA po tlga mging OK lahat salamat po napaiyak po tlaga ako

[@charmengraceescander5687]

Dabest ka talaga Kuya! Napapacomfort mo yung puso kong nowhere to go 😭

[@rajuujaysonlunoy5494]

Ako din

[@dolfahaguinaldo3295]

#5 is yes and amen..sa ex ko..hindi na si God..naging Idolatry kasi ako at xa na ang nakaupo..tskk😔😔😔😔.. that's why I felt jealous for God and needed to leave para mabuo sya muli sa presence ni God..

[@monmonjamajik6356]

All i can say is THANK YOU KUYS DARBS 💪🏼👊

[@ritamarieendrina9094]

there are a lot of relationships that can be saved if we don’t jump into conclusion of walking away right away

[@lharheaven6790]

True kahit San relasyon kailangan center si God. Kase darating at darating yung pagsubok sa kahit anung relasyon meron tayo.

[@kikaylifeadventures]

Haller Idol Darbs. Super Relate much ❤️❤️❤️ Watching from 🇱🇻 Europe

[@Nevermind9192]

Thankyou Coach mabuhay ka more videos pa❤❤❤

[@marieflores8354]

Yes 5 is the best 🙏🙏🙏🙏 true relationship is always argue..after argue,but stay together.

[@Agrihalflochels]

Sarap pakinggan❤️🙏

[@MegaTitaGanda]

paano if di na sya masaya syo 1. notice it and ask about it in a non judgemental way. 2. acknowledge it 3. have a sincere talk and ask them of their definition of being happy 4. ask them a solution and do your best that you can to execute it 5. make God the center of your relationship 6. if all of this has been done and still nothing worked to make them happy..let them go

[@Everlasting1234]

Wow...galing niyo pong mag advice....

[@joahnabulanadi5382]

makes me smile 😊

[@djoiantonio5396]

Grabe ka s galing tlga Darbs .. Napaiyak aq😭

[@lyssamoslares2014]

All i did. Pero sa huli mag isa pa din ako😆. Pero that's life eh, need to accept and let go.

[@Anata_13]

Ginawa ko na yang from 1 to 6 hahaha! almost 10 years kame pero wala sabi nya may gusto na syang iba kaya ginawa ko ang six pinalaya ko sya di nako nag pumilit or kung ano pa man nag paalam lang ako nag thank you at goodbye ngayon 1 year na mahigit di pako naka move on alam ko pero feel ko naman na medyo okay na ako compared sa dati masakit pero alam kong umaabante ako at darating ang araw na kilala ko nalang sya sa mukha pero di na sa damdamin. isang maskait na kwento sabay tayong nag mahalan ngunit di tayo sabay na lumisan may isang naiwan sa dating pareha nating nararamdaman.

[@loversdelight3198]

Just pray everything gonna be alright

[@anntv4654]

There is no permanent in this world but only change

[@jeremiecruz4731]

minsan nauna na ung last step before ung 1st . ma nnotice mo n lng mali and kulng if wala na . but still you learn from it

[@mhaemhae5713]

Thank you Kuya Darbs.. Ngaun na sobrang durog na durog ako.. I will just listen to your advices. Para maliwanag ang icip ko. Hope one day makaya ko na, na tanggapin sa self ko na wala na ung taong pinakamamahal ko. 💔💔😢😢

[@mrsnow2001]

Stay Safe and healthy Kuya Darbs...God bless you po💯🙏❤

[@francisroyamis6999]

Bakit bigla nalang ako naiyak 😢

[@vanieacuin7369]

Thankyou rtd😊

[@chocomartyr3822]

Nalala ko na naman 'yung previous failed relationship ko. It's been five years pero marami pa rin tanong kung bakit biglang ayaw na niya at nakahanap ng iba. Labyu Kuya Darbs! Thank you sa mga payo at wisdom na naisi-share mo.

[@jasminkylel.abiera6439]

kuya darbs can you make an episode about online, alot of my friends was in an online relationship but it didn't really go that well, they all had fights and broke up.

[@gmelmoit]

thank you kuya darbs. sa gantong situation ko need ko to marinig. thank you

[@princessjoylupango2894]

Thank you so much. I do really need this now 🥺

[@ivamari8490]

thank you for your words of wisdom kuya darbs. ❤

[@isaacdiego5132]

salamat po

[@sanaoltalaga4732]

Thank you..

[@masterchoitaekhoad801]

Nagising ako sa katotohanan dahil sa mga vids nyo po

[@jacquiloubuo436]

make sense, tagos sa puso grabe huuuuuu🥺

[@MarilynFernandezVillamor]

Ang hirap ng bumalik sa taong nag igay ng sakit s kakooban kc may Lamar na mas gugustohin kopa Ang mag isa bkit pba aq babalik don Kong nbuo Kona Ang Sarili ko

[@iskodiver1916]

It's not a rejection it's a redirection Damm it hit me

[@atienzacm]

hi., sana matagal ko na napanuod yung mga videos mo kuya darbs di sana nasayang yung time, love and effort na binigay ko sa ex ko.. sana nalaman ko gad lahat yung signs na hindi aq mahalaga sa knya at hindi n ko masaya sa relationship nmin.. tnx sa advice and iisipin ko n tlga sarili ko..tnx kuya..

[@marinongpaul4114]

Sana nalaman ko to nung una pa kuya darbs.

[@LambanFritzGerald]

salamat sa advice po😢

[@melodyarevalo5938]

Galing po..Thank u sir 😊

[@JustBallUp]

We just broke up kanina lang 😢 and I'm here watching this 💔

[@RealTalkDarbs]

Keep strong brother

[@Kristijunes]

Baka kaya pang isave kuya, ask: how can I make it up to you? and ask yourself too if how much are you willing to risk. Virtual hugs po...

[@mikeedem646]

Hi Darbs, let me know if you're going to visit boracay lets have a drink 🍻

[@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369]

My husband didn't want to discuss our problems..di ko alam may karelasyon na pala siyang iba kaya ayaw na niyang ayusin kami..💔

[@djkristv2592]

Thats true lods. Nag lalove advice din ako lods sa ytc ko and isa ka sa mga idol ko. Yes totoo yan sa relationship talo kayo kung parehas kayong ma ego so we need talks and solve sa mga hindi nyo napagkakaunawaan.

[@amaze5698]

Thanks po. It enlightened my mind

[@Febrinasvlogs]

The best 😊

[@bems.0e0]

Thank you soo much!

[@imcherig.3776]

Very well said.

[@joshvelasco7080]

I tried the #4 nag tanong ako kung ano gusto nya just to save our relationship cause i do really love him so much and he said nasakin ang problem… inisa-isa ko lahat and tried to make it much better but still hnd padin sapat now my mind wants me to just walk away but still my heart wont let go for 13yrs na bf ko sya. I dont know what to do anymore.

[@Helen-pk4kx]

My partner cnabi nya Yan skn na nde ndw msya skn.. At nde dw kmi mgiging msaya andun ung subrang Skit pro nde ako lumayo nde k xa iniwan

[@MR.JD_STUDIO]

Ang sakit kuya darbs 😥😭

[@meisadesu7595]

Kuya darbs, baka pwede magrequest ng japanese translation. Para maisampal lang dito sa mga taga japan. HAHA 😂 Char!! Love you kuya darbs, Godbless ❤️

[@krisellerufino2573]

I fought for us but unfortunately he told me hindi na nya kaya :( I don’t want to be selfish kung hindi na sya happy saakin. Kaya pinalaya ko sya kahit hindi nya alam kung gaano ko nasaktan. :(

[@charlenekateramos5220]

I've been in a relationship with him for almost 9 yrs, but we broke up because he cheated on me. Which he did it not just once, twice, thrice, bahala ka na magbilang. I gave him multiple chances but he keeps on doing the same thing. Parang hindi natututo. God told us na, if they hurt you 7 times, forgive them 77 times. Which I did. Mahal ko eh. Tao lng nman ako, why would I not gave a chance especially sa taong mahal ko. And now he wants us to try again. To reconcile. Pero takot ako. Takot akong lokohin nanaman ako ako. Takot akong masaktan nanaman ng iisang tao, nang paulit ulit ulit ulit. Pero paano? Mahal ko pa 😢

[@roselynfernandez8119]

Hi. Bhe we r n the same situation. 💖💖💖💖💖 Kaya natin to.

[@charlenekateramos5220]

@@roselynfernandez8119 how did u respond po? 😔

[@roselynfernandez8119]

@@charlenekateramos5220 i leave..14 years nga kmi ie. We have a son. Masakit sa masakit pero kng hahayaan mo lng masasaktan klng din... Diba sbi ki kuya darbs know ur worth...💪💪💪 Be strong kaya ntin to.

[@emmapasinabao6748]

Sinabi ko din yun sa live in partner ko. .. lagi ka nalang walang time sakin.. date naman tayo kahit once a week. , Bigyan mo nmana ako ng time. Pero ang sabi lang niya.. ang dami mong drama na impluwensyahan ka lang sa social media. Grabe iyak ko he never understand my feelings . Lagi nlang ako sinasabihan ma drama . Pero totoo yun ehh... Masakit sya. Pareho kami work. Mas pagod pa ako kesa sa kanya. Pero di ko ininda yun.. gusto ko lang makasama sya

[@dengelongomuntingsari2xsto550]

Masama ba magtanong Kung my assurance o Kung Anu Ka SA buhay nya?? Kasi ang sakit

[@miraalzaga2782]

FALL OUT OF LOVE I GUESS IS THE MAIN REASON ....

[@mormonsmormons8672]

Ang sakit po subra pro I'm here for whiting

[@selflove428]

I did everything but I just have to do number 6. It takes 2 to tango

[@BenSoyVlogsChannel]

How will I talk about this hindi na sya nag rereply at walang paramdam .. kung tatanungin ko mag iiba ang topic at mood.. 😢 but I feel parang ayaw na nya..

[@rowenagarcia7664]

❤❤❤

[@rowenagarcia7664]

Its true 17 yrs im alone ,woman can live without man😅

[@jeannesacramento4208]

Pain 😅

[@szaaang189]

Hi kuya darbs. I hope you will make a content about chatting other girls and deleting messages. Is it cheating? Haha. Your videos are so nice. Keep going po💓

[@jehzrrelguiam8647]

Kua darbs pa advice namn po bakit po ganon sa 8years naming magkasama lagi nya akong niloloko binabalewala at siniseen at mas pinipili nya ang ang tropa nya at kababata nya kesa sa pamilya nya kapag sususko nko ayaw nyang bumitaw puro sorry magbabago pero wala pding nangyayare at kunting problema lahat wala na suko na sya limot na nya akong respetuhin sa mga salita .. plss advice po

[@mariatheresaguzman6410]

He didn't like to communicate to you anymore. He is always angry for smallest reason. He spend most of his time to his frends than you. Siempre, the solution is the opposite of what I mentioned. It takes two to dance tango. In my case, I have no faults but him. When some people wants to destroy your relationship, they compete everything with you. I just make him to know his priority or l leave him.

[@ilynnmalicse9417]

D na xa msaya, kya pinalaya KO na KC ayaw KO nnmn Makita sarili KO n ngmamakaawa

[@jaspherruiz6554]

Kuya darbs tanong kulang po. Pano po pag ikaw na yung toxic tapos nasasaktan muna yung gf/bf mo kailangan mo na ba silang bitawan pag ayaw na nila kahit gusto mo pa?

[@mrsnow2001]

🙏🙏🙏💯💯🔥❤

[@rajuujaysonlunoy5494]

Bakit palagi nalang ako umiiyak😭

[@johndavezamora9378]

Pero huli na kuya darbs😔

[@DisneyPrincess24]

Pano ung nd nya daw ako mahal pero gusto nya pdn daw magstay sakin🥺 pano nmn ako, parang ako ung magssuffer, gabi gabi iisipin ko ako lng ung nagmamahal samin dlwa, ang unfair nmm non

[@jashabright]

5 years failed relationship. all was okay during the first few years kahit saken lahat lahat yong efforts, and settled for the bare minimum, until naubos ako. talked to him, cried to him, plead to him but only received unfulfilled promises every single month.. number 5 hit me most. "di nako happy" mas nangingibabaw na yong anxiety and depression at wala ng peace of mind. I wanted for us to stay longer pero mas nag woworry ako sa future namin due to him being passive and unresponsive. i love him to the point na ayoko na sha pag salitaan ng mga mali. hurting him through break up i just pray that it will make him a better person kahit hindi na ako yong makakasama nya sa future ko. in the end, love made us who we are today.

[@dotakidz16]

kuya darbs, off topic lang po sorry, ano po ginagamit nyo para pumuti ng ganyan ngipin mo? thanks po!

[@jeyoung2806]

😭

[@sarahysaycadut4340]

what nilalaban ko pa pero di na talaga sya masaya? ilang beses ko sya pinilit na pag usapan ung problema nya, pero wla lang saa kanya..as in wla talaga...do you think, its a good idea to walk away nalang? kase nakakapagod narin umintindi sa mga taong ayaw nmn magpa intindi... auko mamilit ng mga taong ayaw mag open up sakin... parang mukang tangang nag aantay ng response nya pero wala😒

[@ermshermo]

panotice po!😍

[@johndionio3088]

Sir Darbs kapag ba nagsabi ka nang mga maling ginawa nang partner mo masama ba yon?

[@emilymanalansan4682]

She doesn't want to answer, even if i have been asking her multiple times. Is there a way to make them talk, so that we could atleast discuss how to solve it?

[@bryancaadyang1163]

Happy valentine's day guys haha

[@witerone7246]

Ano po ba gagawin ko if sinabi niya na di pa siya ready to enter a relationship. When in reality i know may trust issues bescause of its going to be ldr

[@mayflorpadrones1997]

❤️❤️☹️

[@BiyaheNiCulas]

Sir paano kung hindi na siya masaya sayo may anak kayo oero nalaman mo sa mga katrabaho niya na may nakakasma pala siyang ibang lalaki na katrabaho niya pahingi po ng advice kasi nahihirapan nako ako nalang yung naghuhundle sa relationship namin ako nalang yung care sa anak namin .. pero sakin sobrang higpit niya na dapat siya yung oinaghihigpitan 🥹🥹🥹

[@DisneyPrincess24]

🥺🥺🥺

[@clarenzlerios8203]

What if you tried? Even told him that we need to talk and told him what it was all about... He just kept quiet and wasn't eager to have that talk, right now, we're on a stand still, he knows I'm not ok, we're not ok... But hasn't done anything to ease my pain or worry... Is it the time to step back and say, enough is enough?!

[@Yanyan2324-c8d]

Musta po.. ako din ganyan situation ko.. gusto kong pag usapan kung ano yung problema saming dalawa pero ayaw nya.. wala na rin syang pakialam kung nasasaktan o ano nararamdaman ko.. nag hahanda na ako.. mahirap pero mamahalin ko yung sarili ko.. baka sakali na kapag bumitaw ako, doon ko makita yung totoong para saken, yung hindi ko kaylangan mag demand.. yung uunawain ako at di magagalit kapag nag open ako ng nararamdaman ko 🙂☺️

[@anjelieluga8599]

Same sa akin kahapon kulang nalaman may kabit ang asawa ko may 3 po kaming anak. 8, 7, and 5 years. Hindi ko alam ang gagawin ko. Kasi hindi lang ang sarili ko ang e save ko. Ayaw kong masaktan ang mga anak namin. Pero paano? dib2x bin ko nalang ba kasi kahit isa wala manlang akong mapag sasabihan

[@rachelaguillon4980]

Kamusta na po kayo?

[@mrurbanitom3418]

Im one of ur follower subscriber anything that make people believe inyo po tanong kulang ...na heartbroke nadin po ba kau ..??? Ds is my partner account po ..pls give me some advice ...matagal na cla naghiwalay ng partner ko ..sa ex wife nya bago ako pumasok sa relasyon nmin ..maling mali po ba ako kahit love ko sya??? Negative kasi palagi naririnig ko sa ibang tao ..pati rin po ba sa inyo ..ka c ..alam na alam nyu about relation ehhhh

[@Helen-pk4kx]

Ano poba ang ggwen ko kc subrang cold nya na skn hlos auw nya na akong ksma auw nya akng tingnan auw nya Kong hawakan.. Auw nya na Kong ktabi Skit napo gusto kona sumuko pro xa pren ung Iniisip ko

[@sweetkudie4380]

kuya Darbz pno po ung una nlaman mong mgkausap pla cla nung ex nia na wrong send sau taz nag sorry' pinatawad mo' taz pangalawa nlaman mong ngsama pla cla taz ngkabalikan then nag sorry sau ulit ngkamali lng daw cia' ano po bng dpat kong isagot dun kuya? or totally lalayuan ko nlng po ba? ahmm mahal ko po pero dpat pa bng bgyan ko ng isa pang chance? or tuluyan nlng ba akong lalayo? (hindi ko po sineen msg nia) pero nkta ko po... plz help' thankz po

[@Rod-in7mv]

Late na ko sa lahat

[@roselynfernandez8119]

Ang skit kuya darbs😭