In 2013 I was the male victim of repeated domestic violence offenses which began after I informed my childs mother that I wanted to end our relationship. She was undocumented and it soon became apparent that she was behaving this way hoping that I would retaliate enabling her to receive a U-visa. Instead I called the police and filed over a dozen domestic incident reports. The police had been to our home numerous times and repeatedly warned her to stop or she would be arrested. On the final night we lived together she assaulted me and was ultimately arrested. The DA declined to prosecute her due to her immigration status and the sanctuary policies in NYC. A month later she filed a false report alleging DV on the date that SHE was arrested. I NEVER even once raised my hand to her and wtf is an "attempted" assault anyway? At trial all of the NYPD officers involved testified in my favor, video footage proved that her testimony and allegations were false, her only witness was a family member who arrived after the police were called. That family member pretended to the courts that she did not speak english despite having been born here, attending school here, living and being employed here for over 30 years. Her lie was discovered during examination on the stand and she was admonished by the judge. Upon realizing that the prosecutor had no case against me they reduced the charges to a midemeanor held a bench trial and found me guilty of misdemeanor attempted assult. The judge having a nasty disposition and bias towards men remanded me to rikers island for two weeks without bail. I lost custody of my son, was ordered to pay for and undergoe a year of anger management, parenting classes and received a year of probation. I was forced to quit my civil service employment of 10 years in order to make more money to afford the $500 weekly I paid in child support. My civil rights have even been lost; they defiled justice and wrongfully convicted an American veteran to enable a lying illegal immigrant wronfully obtain status. I immediately filed an appeal and after months of checking on the case status with the clerk I was told that there was no record of my appeal despite me having proof of filing and correspondence between the DA and the appellate courts arguing that I should not be provided a public attorney for the appeal. This was nine years ago, life moves on I remarried had another child have been an excellent father to my first child who now wants me to go to court for custody (filed over a month ago but yet to receive any response). I always pay my child support (over $100,000.00 so far), have been a business owner for 7 years, received a relief of civil disabilities from that conviction and I even found the grace to maintain a friendly relationship with the spouse that falsely accused me (we had breakfast together with the children a few days ago) but I will never stop telling my story until this injustice is reversed, reforms are made and things are set right.
@billcastanedo4467 Жыл бұрын
ANT6184 sorry you went through that but glad you’re doing better hang in there & God bless you & your family!
@dustinbest002 жыл бұрын
Great informative video. I’m thinking about going Pro Se after 7 years of my pockets being drained fighting for my son.
@mymodernlaw2 жыл бұрын
Good luck! Thank you for watching, glad we could help!
@equaljustice89582 жыл бұрын
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@tyroncline5978 Жыл бұрын
Family court is not a constitutional court. It’s an unlawful legislative court . Under the spending clause conducting commerce and profiting off of the separation of children from fathers. Keep track of everything and hold them accountable. Your attorneys you’ve hired are a part of your problem. They are in on it in my opinion. I’m not an attorney do your research.
@dekotalane Жыл бұрын
How do you handle receiving by service of mail; a declaration to FL300 that has NOT been filed with the court? Do I even need to file a response? If so what would I be responding to as far as the court is concerned? Should I submit copies of the unfilled paper work with my response? Thank you!
@litigious3 жыл бұрын
I follow you on TikTok and you just appeared on KZbin! You know your stuff!
@mymodernlaw3 жыл бұрын
Very cool! Glad to hear you enjoy our TikTok channel too!
@javed65983 жыл бұрын
Hello. Hope all is well. You are very knowledgeable. Every time I watch your video, it makes me wish to have you for my case.
@mymodernlaw3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching, Javed! We hope our videos continue to help out!
@libbad74193 жыл бұрын
@@mymodernlaw Hello. Please see my deformation situation about clearing my name as a non violent person. The person has no evidence or proof. Thank you
@Kvp-f8pАй бұрын
URGENT Q -is there anything the PARTIES COULD FILE AFTER TRIAL PRIOR TO THE 60 day period to assist judgement toward their favour or CAN A PARTY REQUEST EXTENSION to provide relevant info to the case?
@sandybrown56312 жыл бұрын
I viewed this video from a different perspective.... I imagined that you are opposing counsel and what type of defense thst I would have to deliver. Then, how you would use the LAW and only the LAW to solidify your position. This way as a mom, I can best control my EMOTIONAL reactions thinking thst you're being mean to me or something! Lol! And naturally you're not! Thanks for this video ma'am! ❤
@tyannatheempress8583 жыл бұрын
I have a very unique case in Kankakee. When the judge is not following the law. Who do I go to?
@mymodernlaw3 жыл бұрын
Contact us at info@mymodernlaw.com and we'll try to find you a referral!
@gerrybrown25528 ай бұрын
I had this problem too
@EmilyJohnson558 Жыл бұрын
Is a joint Statement of Evidence the same as a Pre Trial Statement?
@sachaielijah3904 Жыл бұрын
This video was really helpful ! Thank you
@hannahsinclair72242 жыл бұрын
I don’t have a lawyer but going into circuit court. Do I need to hire a lawyer for the discovery? There’s questions I know he will lie on and I do have the proof showing it’s a lie. For instances medical care for our children. He says he took them but records show he hasn’t in two years. Is that something I admit into evidence and then just cross examine him on? I can’t afford a lawyer. But I need this case to be heard properly and my babies deserve that.
@mymodernlaw2 жыл бұрын
Good luck with your case! It always helps to have an attorney on your side! Where are you located? We might be able to help with a referral. You can contact us at (480)-571-0346 if you need.
@shawneseward11482 жыл бұрын
Do I have to provide documents and evidence I have in a custody case to the other party before we go to court. Or just the court
@mymodernlaw2 жыл бұрын
Under the 6th amendment, you and the other party have a right to know the evidence against you. That information must be available to each party, but always be sure to check with your attorney. Thanks for watching!
@shawneseward11482 жыл бұрын
Also if I don't get copies of his documents Will they be able to be used on our court date?
@EmilyJohnson558 Жыл бұрын
@@shawneseward1148 in our county all documents must be filed with the court clerk before serving them on the other party. If they don't follow the rules you can file a motion to compell or sanction or other form of court discipline against them. Maybe contact an attorney through unbundled services and get only the services you can pay for ... even if it is just instructions on how to do all the paper work steps. I am in similar situation nd am truggling to figure out what all steps I am supposed to do in preparation for trial. Courts have their rules listed on their web sites, but the rules are written in legal language so hard for me to understand.
@michelej94963 жыл бұрын
What would cause the courts in and of itself not to divulge to an interested person/heir their share of an decedent's estate?
@mymodernlaw3 жыл бұрын
If said individual is not mentioned on the will, they do not have to divulge information to that person. There could be other reasons, though, you might want to check with whoever is handling the arrangements. Thanks for watching!
@malaicacrawford41927 ай бұрын
If you know the other parent has a tendency for misrepresenting the truth, do you have to start with discovery or can you go straight to a subpoena?
@dbiedler4 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@lkpeay2 жыл бұрын
Don’t EVER get married
@mymodernlaw2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@jennipennyhernandez70062 жыл бұрын
What about an ex comeing jn late for pick up more drip ofd 5 min late or something 2 min late.?
@mymodernlaw2 жыл бұрын
Some small inconveniences should be taken into consideration and forgiven at times, but did you have a specific question about that?
@urbanmetis13962 жыл бұрын
This process is disgusting. They want you to sell your home. Lose everything you worked for while they help themselves to your financial situation. Sick. You definitely got character issues.
@mymodernlaw2 жыл бұрын
We appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment!
@lkpeay2 жыл бұрын
Exactly she basically endorsed sand bagging a case, dragging it out to drive up her fees. She’s a complete scum bag. Family “law” needs to be completely reformed
@sandybrown56312 жыл бұрын
Really?? Ok. You now need a complete stranger, a Judge, decide for you because you and the person YOU chose can't agree on how to end things properly. You'll be entering an unknown arena, and you won't understand its rules. Fortunately for you there's someone who have studied the law that YOU ARE UNCERTAIN about can protect you against yourself. Then you complain about fees? Here's an analogy: you've got a huge wrestler coming after you...of course you want to defend yourself...but you're going to need some help. Wouldn't you like it to be a seasoned wrestler who knows all of the wrestling tricks and maneuvers? Make it make wense!
@billcastanedo4467 Жыл бұрын
It’s sick the court is a for profit corporation & has no respect for the family or the father !
@MichaelDavis-fb7fl7 ай бұрын
Truly, the Devils work right here....
@donfaulkner852 Жыл бұрын
The Social Security Act of 1975 Title 4D is sexual discrimination, 2 totally different sets of laws for the sexes. What health and human services need the most is to actually promote child welfare. We need family law reform. The Federal Child Support Training Manual needs to be abolished. A new plan where every cent of every dollar actually goes to the child. Judges are involved in conflicts of interest caused by performance Rewards of Federal Grant Money after reaching a percentage of support revenue Actual federal incentives to destroy families, Every single day, The Judges, lawyers, and clerks hold kangaroo courts with full judicial cognizance that they are committing multiple felonies while acting in Executive, performing ministerial duties, making judicial rulings from the bench, and making decisions reserved for a jury. Any alleged order unsigned by a clerk and not entered is void, a forgery under 28 USC sec 1691 all writs from courts must have a judicial signature, and under CPLR 5016 all money judgments must be signed and entered by a clerk. FCA 460 requires signature and entry with the clerk, therefore all orders of support are forgeries of official instruments of commerce. These Judges jump back and forth between Executive and Judicial roles during the kangaroo court. The support orders, garnishment orders, and everything involved with the forgery of those instruments is criminal activity, producing official documents requiring recording with public office, as an incomplete written instrument.