Everyone Is Extremely Disappointed In Jihoon | 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way

Deavan and the kids have arrived in South Korea but when they get to the property they've booked they discover it's not what they expected & Armando gets ready to meet Kenny in Mexico.
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[@secretsquirrel7374]

They belittle and humiliate Jihoon at every opportunity. Its awful to watch.

[@imlost3708]

He kinda brought this upon himself. He shouldn’t have lied so much

[@theosh1930]

How did they meet

[@imlost3708]

Theodoro S.H. He went on I think tinder because he saw it in an American movie

[@imlost3708]

Sophia Kim Let’s play What was his reason? To get her there knowing he can’t handle fatherhood or even being a husband yet?

[@imlost3708]

Sophia Kim Let’s play No. Why do you ask? If your going to say it’s a cultural difference then save your breath.

[@neilavolkov812]

As a broke ass college student, how is this bad? This is HEAVENLY. Honestly, I was almost in tears just watching Jihoon. He did not deserve that.

[@sofia_blhj]

Yea he didn’t deserve that at all 😐

[@jakeraught4939]

Jihoon ripped out a 5 year old little girl’s hair, kicked her in the face and ribs. Not to mention she has Bell’s palsy. YOU ARE A COLLEGE STUDENT. He is a THIRTY YEAR OLD MAN WITH TWO KIDS. this is not an acceptable apartment for children. Stop infantilizing these men, it was HIS responsibility to find a suitable apartment because HE lived in the country, not her !!! I am so sick of everyone saying “oh poor uwu softboi he looks like a kpop idol!” He is a 30 year old, ABUSIVE, MAN CHILD. And sadly, MOST South Korean men act this way and are EXTREMELY abusive towards women!!!!

[@rhyndawatson4173]

Deavan's mom is rude and Deavan is being extra because her mom is there, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree

[@uyaiabasiekwere5742]

Ikr the house isn’t that bad

[@uyaiabasiekwere5742]

They should be happy it’s not like rose and Ed’s house

[@user-bi5op4tb4q]

@@uyaiabasiekwere5742 exactly! such a drama queen

[@fender1000100]

Exactly 100%. If all she cares about is MONEY and being comfortable. Maybe she should have thought about that before she spread her legs and popped out a baby. That is the PROBLEM with the world. People breeding who can barely feed themselves. And thats all thats being highlighted here. Make some MONEY FIRST. Then make the babies. Simple logic.

[@doomslayer1984]

these 2 are innocent angels compared to some of the other women I've seen on this show.

[@aarrccyy886]

Jihoons has a bad financial state and is irresponsible at the beginning. But the way that Deavan and her mom treat him is really torture his mental health

[@thefrustratedneetaspirant7777]

Dude come on he gotta take that responsibility now he's a father now. Take your mental health shit somewhere else. Stress is sometimes necessary and unavoidable.

[@hannahgoodell5931]

i feel so bad for jihoon. he really is trying, at this point it’s just devean and her mother complaining. the apartment isn’t that bad .. it’s just small and they’ll only be there for a month. sheesh

[@sabz_1675]

Ikr

[@heroisdomar4248]

That apartment looks great to me , she just ungrateful.

[@wilterfilho]

Girl… he lied to Deavan twice about his financial situation, get the whole story straight before commenting.

[@paularodriguez9540]

@@wilterfilho finally someone who is aware yeah they may be hard on him but they wouldn’t have been if he had been more truthful about his situation

[@LA-fr4gp]

@@paularodriguez9540 yeah. They don't understand. They wouldn't be so mad at him if he didn't consistently do crap like this. And be irresponsible and let them down. Idc what you say, that's not a healthy and happy place to raise a child. Let alone a baby and a young child.

[@twentysevenand]

I've lived in this Seoul, and this apartment looks totally normal. Korea is so safe. Nothing ever happens, and they feel unsafe there? Have they ever been in a real ghetto? Deavan and her mother are spoiled Karens. I can't believe her mom would do the clap talk in the car. So rude.

[@dhsf5937]

Korea is safe,but not so safe.

[@capperthepaul3285]

@@dhsf5937 Korea is very safe, much safer than the US by miles A real ghetto looks worse, that's just a normal neighborhood

[@dhsf5937]

@@capperthepaul3285 Still a dangerous place to walk alone at night,I agree that is safer than US.

[@christina9111]

@@dhsf5937 Every area is dangerous to walk alone at night, Korea's not any more dangerous than other countries. In fact it's probably more safer than most areas

[@111min5]

@@christina9111 I totally agree with you. I don't know why these people on comment is saying Korea is dangerous . I agree if they say landscape is ugly (yes, it's super ugly) but safety level is one of the best on the planet (quite different to women though)

[@hettybl]

Jeez that apartment is fine...wtf. they are just bullying him! Poor guy.

[@jamie3027]

How is it fine it doesn’t even have a stove top?!?

[@eroccha]

@@jamie3027 There was hotplate. Same thing as stove top. It is fine for a month.

[@hettybl]

@@jamie3027 they have jihoons ma to cook for them....sure it's grand

[@feliciarodriguez545]

Facts

[@reuben8324]

Seriously

[@lauraclow6507]

Druscilla: "This way? Okay!" What a freaking cutie!

[@nikitonsumi4197]

Right? 🤩🤩🤩🤩

[@Ange-ns5be]

Horrible parenting by DEAVAN. Her mother is the worst just go back to America. Straight up abuse. Everything is always Jihoons fault.

[@komatsusakura]

it was if he had scooped drisilla instead of stop let her run . she should scoop her talk later .

[@komatsusakura]

devan and mum on the other hand suppose to educate drissila

[@uyaiabasiekwere5742]

I fucking know rightttttt

[@lotussavage1283]

@@komatsusakura Deavan and her mom didn't raise well that little girl, she doesn't has good manners, if they have raised well she would have stopped when they screamed stop and why they scream and jihoon instead of running for drascilla, it's her daughter not his

[@komatsusakura]

@@lotussavage1283 they didnt train drasila is their fault . But ji hoon should scoop her first instead of stop and yell back then scopp . lol

[@L.B-h4i]

He is so patient with her, and yet she treats him like shit. I can’t believe she has the audacity to embarrass him in front of everyone. He deserves someone so much better. Like- at least he found a decent place, takes care of the child and is polite with her ಠ_ಠ He really tries his hardest to meet her needs, and yet she spits on him like a dog. She is so selfish

[@rebeccaasaro7426]

Jihoon is trying, nobody knows what he's trying, but he's trying something... Good thing, ladies, whenever you think you partner screws up, think about Jihoon...

[@breonnawalker7804]

Plllllpppp0p

[@jamie2672]

There are two people in a relationship, she is negative about him all the time so I cant blame him

[@suzannetessier5666]

He needs to stop lying to her

[@lotussavage1283]

@@suzannetessier5666 and deavan and her mom need to stop being racist and disrespectful, they raised drascilla she's still wearing diapers and bottle at the age of 5 years old, they never admit their own mistakes, deavan did the reservation of that apartment but then complained she's a hypocrite

[@komatsusakura]

one year with no progress he not meant to be a parent at all . poor tae yang

[@Col_Grisoat]

"We stay here for a month, then we move" "I dont wanna stay here for a month" DAMN YOU PICKED IT!

[@_n_a-ez5pc]

EXACTLY

[@nataliasadek6392]

GIRLLL WHEN HE SAYS A MONTH. YOU CAN WAIT IN THE APARTMENT, IT'S NOT BADDD. PEOPLE ARE LIVING ON THE STREETS BE GRATEFUL YOU LIVE IN AN APARTMENT, AND HE TOLD HER JUST FOR A MONTH.

[@imlost3708]

Jihoon showed her images of a home she was supposed to be paying for. She asked him to confirm the place to make sure it was nice and worth HER money and yet the neighborhood sucks and the house isn’t what she saw in the images SHE’S the one paying for all of this. He was supposed make sure everything ran smoothly and yet he couldn’t even do that! It’s nice that they have a house but she has KIDS This isn’t them just living out on their own. They have A LOT of things ahead of them and Jihoon is messing up constantly. Even his parents acknowledged that he’s at fault! A month may not seem long but when your a parent to 2 kids and have to figure out how you’ll support your family basically on your own then I don’t think sitting around is going to solve anything. Even if he says he can find a new apartment can he really? He hasn’t delivered on ANY of his promises so I don’t know how she’s supposed to trust him to find them a new home! I get the frustration with seeing Jihoon get attacked or portrayed in such a manner but he messed up. You can’t blame anyone else to HIS mistakes.

[@suzannetessier5666]

@@imlost3708 I totally agre with you.

[@ladydie1234]

There's no stove top. No living room. Its small. And I'm an unsafe area.... How do you expect her to Cook. Or go anywhere with two kids. Nope. Its time to move.

[@Phoenixe1986]

@@ladydie1234 There is a hot plate, she can cook on that. The bigger room could be turned into a living room if they changed the furniture. And the neighborhood doesn't look unsafe at all. Korea is a very safe country compared to the US. They are overreacting.

[@ladydie1234]

@LongArmFossils no it really isn't.

[@kiwikush3444]

Did she really say she can’t wait a month!?! Girl there are people that are HOMELESS BE GRATEFUL omg I feel so bad for jihoon

[@Sunnyso24]

These women are horrible to jihoon. I hope they read ALL of the comments and it wakes them up and makes them self reflect. Jihoon you don’t deserve to be constantly shot down like this! She doesn’t really love you. Clearly. She would have more patience .

[@adamaturay6272]

I don't think they will last, she's always nagging him for money when she literally knows that he is broke and he doesn't have enough to support her. Even when he tried his best she always complaining and stressing him and herself for everything, no smiling face, no encouragement, no praise or thank you for him to do more. She need to find job there to help and support him to raise more money that she want to support herself and live her best life instead of always putting him down always complaining for money when she knows that he doesn't have a better job to supply all her needs. Even her mother is not helping she's also horrible to him and his family. The best thing for this guy is to tell her to go back to the US when he get money he will go and visit them to see his son, by doing so they will live in peace and if the relationship didn't work I believe he will find true love one day. She forgot that he never had responsibilities because he has been living with his parents this is his first time to facing responsibility so because of that she need to understand it and give him some encouragement.

[@isbltgn]

Yeah

[@jrm3319]

This is what it's like being in a relationship with far too many American women. It's like they want to see if they can get you to commit suicide.

[@Bratzismylife]

There’s definitely underlying issues here. We don’t know the whole back story.

[@Bratzismylife]

Adama Turay she needs to look after the baby and your saying she needs to work? Your not very realistic here

[@Martarioos]

Extremely rude family to the husband. He's trying his best and I think everyone has to be patient...Things always get better with time...

[@janadweny8890]

dude the apartment is literally fine and he’s trying his best they are only four people two of which are small what do you want a mansion? be grateful you even have a home and all she does is complain and embarrass him like he’s only been a dad for a couple months and she expects so much from him like ugh both her and her mom get on my nerve so much AND it’s only a month you can’t last a month? the apartment won’t eat you girl.

[@narudayo5053]

She is the one who paid the rent until Jihoon got his jobs (so she paid for most of it during those first months). Plus, she just asked him to get the appartement she seens in internet to see if it's really like in the photos he did go but he did not told her that it's was not like in the photos. If he had inform her of that in first hand they could have got a better place.

[@eroccha]

@@narudayo5053 He was not asked to look at it

[@beefcake9126]

@Horner 37 Not gonna lie, I would not live there especially if I had children. Is it a place to live? Sure. Does it look remotely safe? Fuck no.

[@beefcake9126]

@Horner 37 I'm not talking about the apartment its self. I'm talking about the area. It looks like an alleyway where at least 13 people were mugged and shanked

[@KaylaCherrie]

Maybe Castles seen in korean series. But this is real life. He's trying his best.

[@josephpark6502]

2:55 it breaks my heart how happy and innocent children are even in worst of circumstances. Do it for the children

[@amberwest7846]

I understand what you mean and where you're coming from, but this is hardly the "worst of circumstances"

[@snowwhite9274]

The mom and daughther have the same 'victim' voice

[@spector1334]

Fr

[@jan1351]

👍

[@heroisdomar4248]

That's what they teach in the states. Being a victim is the new cool, everyone wants to be a victim

[@Azr721]

Yeah they be using thet shaking on the verge of crying voice for no reason. Like can they communicate like adults without tears and drama

[@SourSoul]

Like mother, like daughter. It's concerning how Drascilla will turn out as an adult.

[@miss.shrewd424]

Not his parents also being like bro what the hell is this???? I’m dead.💀

[@BelLa-vc6re]

They both look exhausted, this is not a healthy relationship.

[@aibunny2930]

Well their zodiac signs don’t match either 😅

[@o.eax07]

@@aibunny2930 girl-

[@sintura]

i wish jihoon would know how many of us are proud of him for finding decent lodging and trying to make amends

[@toyo5078]

I feel so sorry for Jihoon parents,having 2 American Karen's inside the house😢😢

[@user-bi5op4tb4q]

For reall, they're making such a big deal out of it

[@sewcustomhandmade5803]

for reallll!!!

[@joanan7395]

Thank u for saying that !!!!!!!!!! they are the ultimate Karens here. "Oh my god this is so ghetto.. I can't do this and that M an American !!!. " This is not the place that i wanna put on my Instagram even though m selling my half naked pics on social media looool. .....plz shut up karen.

[@ruthkirwan1025]

@@user-bi5op4tb4q t cells t f detracted from the university you

[@inklover7188]

@@ruthkirwan1025??

[@isabellasebree3353]

Am I the only one who feels so bad for jihoon especially when he was calling himself an idiot and crying:(

[@pringlesdeka9573]

데이븐과 데이븐엄마는 지훈이를 아무 이유 없이 비난하고 가스라이팅 한다. 그 두 여자는 미친 여자들이다. Daven and Daven's mom criticize Jihoon for no reason and gaslight him. The two women are crazy women.

[@katherinefields250]

I would cry if my in-laws treated me this way.

[@yoda8321]

The ghetto of Korea hahaha has she seen the ghetto of America yet?

[@toriplayssg]

I was gonna day I lived in Brooklyn that apartment was way nicer than where I lived and way bigger

[@eyeamnej5984]

@Pen Pig most definitely safer than American ghetto

[@neeoilacl.2683]

Hahahahaha!!!!

[@alexandriageiler687]

Lol if that’s Koreas “ghetto” then they’re doing pretty damn good compared to the US

[@jan1351]

I think that he is too young, he has only 23, so...what have I done when I was her age?😆

[@gigeorge6sic6]

If there’s one thing that watching these videos has taught me: it is to never marry a white woman.. especially considering they don’t understand the concept of culture

[@carolinegallegos_]

White American woman here…please don’t judge us based off the white American women on this show. What I’ve noticed about this show is that the Americans on it are usually terrible people. Like absolute bottom of the barrel people. Just know that even white American women are embarrassed of these women and their behavior.

[@ryanm4769]

"i don't feel safe here".......... Korea is literally like the safest country in the world, chill

[@toyo5078]

They miss American free flying bullets...

[@blobeach1418]

@@toyo5078 🤣🤣🤣

[@tionne1341]

@@toyo5078 😂😂😂😂

[@ilovesandwichesandihaveanx6007]

the SNES 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sofehd4696]

No, it depends on towns in korea. Some towns are very dangerous to children. But most areas r very safe to live.

[@robzombean6717]

I felt really bad for Jihoon, I can tell he really is trying his best and it looks like they are knocking him down at every chance they get. I get it’s not ideal for a family of four but it’s their own shelter for only a month. I couldn’t even imagine how horrible I’d feel being Jihoon right now.

[@bbiinuu]

jihoon just looks so depressed and overwhelmed, i hope he's okay :(

[@sabz_1675]

Ikr

[@doesitrainwhereyouare]

Right! I don't think he wanted to be trapped in a relationship with this girl

[@chesleycharlenesvlog5831]

His not she divorced him and took the baby and now is over here with another man

[@user-id5yg9fc9k]

Y'all never blame the man for anything he isn't a baby he's litereally grown and has to get his shit together especially having the responsibility of having a little family

[@bbiinuu]

@@user-id5yg9fc9k sure thing, but he clearly looks so overwhelmed and drained it just hurts to see

[@careysullivan1650]

She’s always miserable, and always complains. Everything upsets her. I feel bad for Jihoon, she’s so annoying, rude, and constantly having really high expectations. Be happy you have a man who loves you and has a child with you, and he’s trying to figure it out. And I’m sure there’s lots of beautiful things in Korea she can check out.

[@jessicaibe970]

Deavan’s mom is so rude🙄🙄🙄

[@toyo5078]

She fit the American woman stereotype very well.

[@Sunandmoon1397]

The mom and her daughter. This is so embrassing to watch like two grown ups acting more childish than the children here. They expected a palace with royal guards omg

[@Josukes]

Bruh they complain so much its annoying

[@na3na3tube96]

they should cause like don't lie then when they complains you say its annoying

[@Shaylanadyonne]

@@na3na3tube96 but like who tf moves with 2 kids without seeing anything and making proper choices. Its her fault to.

[@na3na3tube96]

@@Shaylanadyonne no its not I think k that you didn't watch previous video cause he was lying to her about his financial capacities that's why I think and look well at this video she's saying its not even the apartment we saw ... that's it

[@Shaylanadyonne]

@@na3na3tube96 i did. I watched everything and i feel like the man shouldnt be the only one doing all those things. He had a entire breakdown infront of deavan and she gave him the nastiest look. He is at least trying. And As a mom myself i Would NEVER move to somewhere far if i dont know how the neighbour hood or whatever looks. If she wanted a nice life with how she expected then she shouldv helped him. They are in a relationship together.

[@na3na3tube96]

@@Shaylanadyonne yeah exactly that's true ... but we will never know what they told each other and I hope everything will be good for them

[@MomoLuv49]

I feel so bad for him, him and his children deserve better. I wouldn’t mind living in that apartment as long as my husband tries his best and looks after the kids and cares for me and them. They’re worried about the wrong things.

[@yumire7255]

Bruh... you not marry millionare, what you expect 🙄😤

[@bleerr2413]

Gurl... He was supposed to be responsible for their accommodation, Deaven is taking care of her 2 kids give her a break human.

[@narudayo5053]

It's HER money she is the one who paid the rent until he got a job, she only asked him to confirm that the places was good like the photos and in a good neighbourhood, wich he did a bad job of.

[@Content_clown]

Naru Dayo on some 90day page on Instagram it was shown that the apartment was exactly as it was shown in the photos so she was just being a cry baby for no reason

[@komatsusakura]

they dint read the exchange rate department

[@kikyaaakun]

Idk, expect her husband not a totally useless trash?

[@nairababayan5963]

I’m sorry to say it but Deavan has made so many bad decisions. She’s super young and has two children form two different men, that is just ridiculous. She never seems to take responsibility for her actions.

[@ventanniii]

I live in Korea and this apartment is NICE. To have a seperate bedroom instead of everything in a one big open room? That's a luxury. Deavan, you're in another country and you can't expect everything to be up to your American standards.

[@danielagoldbaum2673]

Sure, the apartment may be nice but she’s concerned about the area too. A family shouldn’t live in a area that could potentially be dangerous

[@NaijaMonroe]

@@danielagoldbaum2673 oh PuhLEASE . It’s Korea. Ain’t nowhere that damn dangerous lmaooo esp that Neighborhood

[@luredinthedark]

Even the parents said it wasn’t a good apartment so clearly something was wrong

[@NaijaMonroe]

@@luredinthedark I mean yea it’s not the super nice super expensive current officetels but she didn’t get no business man or rich ass idol so her broke 2 kid having self better be humble imo😆

[@luredinthedark]

@@NaijaMonroe he was using her for money though lol

[@eleonoralotoahea805]

The apartment looks so cute and cozy, she is just a spoiled American 🤣🤣🤣🤣i feel so sorry for Jihoon, he literally is trying his best 🥲..... THEY JUST NEED TO HAVE COMPASSIONATE FOR OTHER PEOPLE OTHER THAN THEMSELVES.

[@daniellelewis7829]

I'm so tired of them saying 'to be a man' that is literally bullying tactics Ave belittling him constantly. You get told something often enough and you start to believe it and act accordingly.

[@jrm3319]

Exactly, Danielle. I can only imagine if the shoe was on the other foot they would be screaming abuse.

[@leoraderechin4786]

how they are treating him is so sad. Getting a house ANYWHERE is difficult. Yes he was irresponsible and only thought of himself, he admitted that and is no taking small steps to change and grow, for his kid. It’s sad that now at this time they aren’t together and Deaven has moved back to the USA with their kid and he can’t see them and she has a new boyfriend who’s basically the father to Taeyung

[@amarisdenae]

she doesn't understand that apartments in korea are normally small. if you want a bigger living space , pitch in and get an actual house lmao. not everything is going to be the same as the states. he apologized and tries to fix everything yet they still have to be rude. poor jihoon

[@unholyxdoll]

I feel sorry for Jihoon he is trying his best to do everything for her and I’m pretty happy that he didn’t left her from the first place when she became pregnant. It shows that he really cares for her.

[@xVlghsjakdbsha]

Damn she is really destroying this man is confidence and self image

[@cutieelise]

Deaven and her mom are both emotionally abusive to Jihoon. It’s honestly really sad. They don’t take responsibility for how Drascilla acts. It’s due to THEIR bad parenting. Many people are actually thinking Deaven’s so-called “abuse allegations” are because Jihoon just disciplined Drascilla.

[@emilyxiong95]

Do they really want to see the “ghetto” side of South Korea because it’s worse than that? Also every country is different from America so why do Americans expect everything to be exactly like America?🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@bubble-nutchewing-gum149]

So true! That house may not be a mansion or whatever but it's got a Garden in SEOUL, it's not an apartment but a house. Those r good signs.

[@user-pk8er6kx7e]

Deavon doesn't understand most immigrant people without special job skills have to work hard to survive.

[@therese6551]

Complain,complaining and more complaining. If your suitcase dont fit ....well than your suitcases are to big. They are two and she puts him down all the time....shame on her

[@Shaylanadyonne]

Also who moves with 2 kids to a other country without seeing anything like their home nothing. She shouldv helped jihoon more its all new for him this and i never seen her smile once. He is a good dad.

[@jrm3319]

This seems to be in line with far too many other American women.

[@therese6551]

@@jrm3319 I agree

[@therese6551]

@@Shaylanadyonne So true 👏

[@BeyondChosen]

Bruh I can’t deal with this show 🤦🏾🤣

[@SoftGvibes]

She the toxic negative one not him, she really verbally abusing him at this point

[@Sunnyso24]

Right?!

[@SoftGvibes]

@GapYear so, you would blame someone all the time? That little girl been running around and no discipline has been given, that's not his fault it's hers. She is dramatic asf and always in her feelings about something, she blamed him for that little girl running away when it wasn't his fault

[@eroccha]

@GapYear She is way past calling him out. This is just berating him for everything wrong. She is projecting her screw ups on him as well. She screwed up with apartment. She screwed up with not disciplining her daughter but yells at him for her running off and not listening to them. Every incident she says your not a good father it's over. She knows it's not over but this is how she handles people because her mom does the same thing.

[@lotussavage1283]

@GapYear that was only the first months deavan was pregnant, he started saving money when she was around 6 months pregnant and to avoid spend the money on himself he gave the money to her mom to save it for him, what was deavan expecting getting pregnant the FIRST NIGHT she met him? he was a stranger, she didn't know him, it seems she thought he was rich, she just wanted a daddy for her child and she didn't raise her well she's so lazy and let her be so wild

[@rosestrife1498]

@GapYear Okay and Deavan screaming shes gonna take Taeyang away every two minutes isnt abusive??? The fucking grandma says shes scared to get close to her Grandchildren because Deavan kept screaming she was gonna take them away forever. Also her Mom is a fucking enabler. Jihoon this, Jihoon that. Did she ask Jihoon to look at the apartment beforehand??? It isn't clarified. Yo how is it Jihoons fault Driscilla misbehaves???

[@elinalevonen]

I really feel so bad for jihoo and his parents, that apartment was good, like be glad that u have roof over your head.

[@genesismdelgado7223]

Idk I really liked the house, I understand that it’s 4 people living there but it looks like nice for a starting house. He wasn’t the very best at the beginning and he needs to get a job but I feel like he’s trying and they are putting too much pressure on him

[@glowblank17]

@Genesis M Delgado, *Damn, you sure are a lil’ CUTIE 😍! May I PLEASE make direct payments towards your college tuition/student loans (Soon-To-Be Dr.) 😩?*

[@komatsusakura]

Is still ok if she complain so much ask her try hk or singapore . she pack her bag abd head back to the US faster than the flash

[@lotussavage1283]

jihoon does has a job, he's a delivery boy what deavan and her mom were expecting? he's no rich, it seems they thought he had money, that's what happens when she had sex witn some random dude from the internet and getting pregnant the first night

[@komatsusakura]

for us asian alone is ok . but for.more than a couple and visiting guess to stay over os impossible

[@komatsusakura]

@@lotussavage1283 part time . plus in asian country no degree is hard to get a job . even a diploma is start to have it tough and jihoo have none .

[@galena6701]

I feel so bad for him, they embarrassed him in front of his parents. The bratty behaviour and the extreme disrespect. Some people would do anything to live in such neighborhood and apartment.

[@allevie8129]

You could hand deaven and her mum a castle and they'd still be dissapointed and complain about everything

[@glowblank17]

@a l l e v i e, *Damn, you sure are a lil’ CUTIE 😍! May I PLEASE make direct payments towards your college tuition/student loans (Soon-To-Be Dr.) 😩?*

[@bubble-nutchewing-gum149]

So true

[@toniton1221]

Poor babies getting caught up in a mess for doing profits for other people. Their lives are so exposed gosh can't imagine myself being humiliated like that on a television. Poor jihoon's family.

[@a_f_13ps81]

Bruh, some people grow families in small apartments, idk why they complain too much, they’re just used to their old lifestyle that not many people can have.

[@Cheer4lifeAmberMarie]

He beats himself up so bad cause everyone is picking on him. Poor guy... I feel so bad for him. Girl, if you don't want Jihoon I'll take him !

[@alrado4491]

Poor jihoon ;( bet he wishes he kept It in his pants

[@martabeatriz6896]

Or wrapped it up

[@yoleeisbored]

Contraception

[@amberwest7846]

I completely get that he's overwhelmed and needs help but even his own parents were like WTF?

[@ItsJimmy710]

They are all so critical of Jihoon. These people are acting very entitled. He didn't get the best apartment, but it's still something

[@credendovides20]

I mean, she is paying. His only job was to go check the apartment to see how it was and he said he didn't do it cause he forgot... So, yeah, I get why she is pissed about it.

[@eroccha]

@@credendovides20 That is not what happened. Rewatch.

[@credendovides20]

@@eroccha Not in this clip. The issue was dragged for like two episodes, here they present only a fraction of it. For example, his parents are mad with him because they said that he rather play videogames than taking care of his child, but that's also not shown here, this is a sort of "The best of".

[@eroccha]

@@credendovides20 I watched the episodes and she said you should have not I told you too. Not to mention she had already found it and paid it on her own

[@credendovides20]

@@eroccha Not exactly, she found it and asked him to check how it was. He didn't think that much about it because there were pictures on the website, so he told her that it was fine, so she paid for it. So, yes, I would be pissed off too: she found it from the US and was willing to pay, he had just to check it out and see if everything was ok. Like, come on, step up your game man!

[@christina9111]

"It just feels like I'm doing all the heavy lifting in this relationship" tf girl you're not doing anything, you make Jihoon do everything and get pissed off that it doesn't meet your standards.

[@libraw864]

I was Homeless for about 3 months...I'm 56 and had never experienced homeless..I have learned it's not were you live..BUT HOW YOU LIVE.... BE GRATEFULL

[@finlav335]

yes same here. How you live matters much more than physical objects.

[@dee59]

The house is not the problem it's nice the problem is that the neighborhood it's not safe for a child they have two kids

[@robingonzalez2563]

Her and her mother are annoying. This guy can’t catch a break. Her daughter should not have gotten knocked up from him. She should have married a 40 year old rich man who has it all figured out. They need to give him a break. He is not perfect and either are they.

[@jiyu124]

Jihoon is not very mature but he still has a good heart and he will improve, there is no many men who would stick to a young woman after a hookup who lives with her mom, has another baby with another man and lives thousands miles away. Deavon you’re not a catch.

[@leizel7259]

how rude daevan's mom is

[@grapejuice3988]

I wish I could just give him a hug

[@sabz_1675]

Same he looks so stressed out

[@brittany5416]

I feel so bad for Jihoon. Everyone treats this poor man like shit.

[@Sophassofa]

I actually feel so bad for Jihoon bro can do anything right 😭😭💖

[@pennyschuerch2806]

When that little brat ran off and didn’t listen to her mother or grandmother, that wasn’t jihoon fault, that’s the mothers fault for allowing her brat to do and act however she wants. Shame on the two so called women for blaming jihoon.

[@cyncyn4140]

Jijoon was not his fault,Omgs she needs to tell her daughter not to run like that into the streets.

[@simplyphenomenal695]

American woman make autistic brats and dont discipline their kids

[@angelicaillingworth4870]

Uhmmm... how is this not Jihoons fault? 1st he got her pregnant, then he agreed to help and to keep the baby. Then he doesn’t get a real job in Korea, doesn’t find a place for his new family, he didn’t even come to see Deavan when she gave birth because he didn’t wanna spend the money to change his ticket. Deavan paid for the apartment in Korea because Jihoon never did, and he never saved money like he promised. He even admits he was selfish and embarrassed, so how exactly is this not his fault again?

[@simplyphenomenal695]

@@angelicaillingworth4870 cause lazy American woman like her dont discipline their autistic bratty kids this is typical in america and no man was dumb enough to be with her so she went foreign

[@Cicadareal]

Angelica Illingworth A lot is his fault but him finding whatever apartment he can afford and agreeing to want to be a father to his child is showing that he wants to take responsibility. You’re a woman so you don’t understand how difficult it is to grow extremely huge BALLS AND do everything you can to do something selfless like taking care of children and having a woman you love to not leave

[@credendovides20]

@@simplyphenomenal695 I completely agree that it seems to exist a huge lack of discipline in US kids, but your use of the word "autistic" is simply very ignorant. Your shouldn't recurr to ignorance to prove a point, especially while degrading others.

[@rileyhope5517]

What’s funny about this is that there are apartments in America that have regular shoot outs in front of them lmao

[@danniayang947]

Men Jihoon's life is just depressing. He can't seem to get anything right, and everyone has too high of an expectation for him.

[@epilepticfrog4673]

That's life when you're a man

[@enami_0136]

@@epilepticfrog4673 no not All men For sure

[@ForeverPapoy]

On the inside the apartment is actually really nice and comfortable like.

[@AniMal-rj1xh]

*has 67+ people in the room* Devil - “I have no space for my suitcase”

[@Nanas460]

I have never seen such unhappy couple. Watching them makes me stress. God bless them

[@jessicajamesspeaks]

Don't forget Paul & Karine or Corey & Evelin or Ronald & Tiffany! I would never travel overseas just to sleep with some guy! Deavan and her mother are 🗑️

[@lemon9860]

Drascilla doesn't seem to play with children her age she's just with adults all the time of course she's going to have a ton of energy and act up!

[@heatherrose8480]

I was thinking the same thing.

[@afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154]

She is still annoying.

[@internationalplayboiii5018]

I feel so bad for jihoon u can clearly see he's trying and everyone's there telling him how disappointed they are it's so sad!

[@adrummond4942]

Jihoon has hella anxiety I can feel it thru the screen

[@abigailtrumbo178]

It’s the norm in Korea. Honestly the way the current and last generation are living is heartbreaking.

[@user-jy2gr4cr4n]

i didn't see anything wrong with the apartment- jihoon was trying. they were all just being rude.

[@Ana-xx3ld]

I hope Jihoon finds real happiness, and someone who can appreciate him

[@bluevalentine9894]

I feel so bad for him and his family 🥺

[@rachelann724]

I would be shocked if Jihoon could put up with this another five years, let alone the rest of his life. Not worth it!!

[@epilepticfrog4673]

He needs to provide for his son

[@livelife2324]

He at least WANTS to take of the child. Housing is super expensive in Korea, so if this was the best that the budget could get, there's no point complaining about it

[@coolranch7537]

Jihoon get affordable apartment Mom: 😒🤢

[@grandedee6886]

I always notice that deavan never takes responsibility n jihoon takes ALL the responsibility. She is a total gongju 👸

[@itsmehhlouisse755]

She's like "this apartment is small" bruhhhh can't u see he's trying his best??!??. Omg its hard to find a guy like him a guy who will gonna do eevveeerryyyyy thing for uuu bruhhhhhhh

[@sabz_1675]

Ikr

[@saratouzani1437]

She is paying for it🙄

[@i-deegamingvideos6016]

So sad. I pray God gives me a man like him

[@tsw2294]

I feel so sorry for Ji hoon and for his parents who have to listen to the two women constantly derailing their son.

[@KN-gl2xk]

Deavan is so cold toward jihoon. I dont think I've even seen them kiss. They dont show any affection towards each other at all. Maybe it's how the culture is there but they seem more like roommates that cant make it work...

[@mmaes7800]

I feel bad for him. They’re so critical and mean to this man smh he doesn’t deserve to be treated this way

[@akilipowellart9787]

Last time I was this early Karens were in the US 👀

[@chickenstrip5808]

4:00 deavon says she's done all the "heavy lifting " in the relationship. Girl all you've done is complain and had his child Noone wants to hear it 💀

[@queenrehg]

He said that she is the one who reserved the place. She just keeps on blaming Jihoon

[@lotussavage1283]

Exactly! thank you. Deavan is a hypocrite

[@ilovesesshomarusama716]

Yes! I’m like wait she got the place but it’s his fault? And besides, the place is actually kinda nice. Has a makeup table and all😂. I wouldn’t be complaining at allll

[@Sakura-jf3ll]

To make things worse. Deacon picked the apartment from online. So she’s beating up Jihoon for HER mistake!

[@Star-wh9lc]

He is a lieyer jihoon 😱

[@BoringEggo]

Bruh jihoon is literally TRYING! He's probably still new to this all of a sudden he has as family geez

[@alexandrathearmy4773]

There's rumors they're still married,but she doesn't live with Jihoon anymore and she has a boyfriend.Some Korean guy from L.A. And it's Jihoon's fault,right?🙄 She also accussed Jihoon and his family of abusing Drascilla.They literally accepted a kid that didn't even come from their son's balls,and she accussed them of abuse.

[@nazsdrovya]

I think they are behaving like that cause he is really kind also a good man. Deavan: BuT nOoo tHis gUy is so THOUGHTLESS.

[@asfanaaz33]

I would be happily running around and satisfied with the place. Jihoon tried his best and she's getting mad him. What did she expect? Jay-Z's house? I feel so sad for the guy. I hope he finds someone better if this relationship doesn't workout 😒

[@zamoomaw]

I can't help but feel for Jihoon.. Deavan is acting up bc her moms is there, dude has no support whatsoever

[@jazleens3181]

Why was she clapping at him like that I would feel so disrespected

[@francoiseyyys]

We know that jihoon is a man child but we have to think that he's also trying his best. Deavan must also carry her responsibility as a mother and partner, Jihoon is not a CEO or idol etc. STOP COMPLAINING..... Also deavan's mom is annoying.

[@louiejanedorian2825]

Both party is toxic

[@louiejanedorian2825]

Both party is toxic

[@triggahappyyt5420]

The show just makes him look bad, there vlogs tell a different story where he is the one supporting the whole family.

[@staywith8]

Why can't that girl's family be more thoughtful