EWW! Why did I let you know me like that?

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[@ladyt4478]

I don't get mad at the person, I get mad at myself for not keeping my mouth shut.

[@mariag8307]

Yes, I totally agree. I've learned that I keep my mouth shut because I don't like feeling that way.

[@Gabi2484]

Omg, same! I thought it was just a Scorpio thing because I get absolutely heated w/myself

[@LesTwinsSociety]

This is the one ☝🏽☝🏽

[@naturalgalwilliams]

Facts!🤦🏾❣️

[@melissacopeland5147]

Facts 💯...me 2 ...I can relate 😅

[@stephaniehicks9614]

I have, SMH. You live and you learn! My mother would always say, "Never give folks ammunition to use against you."

[@mariag8307]

I'm just like your mama, I say that all the time and have drummed it into my son.

[@angelacleveland75]

I've absolutely felt this way....but I can't tell y'all about it.

[@lovebug6388]

You've learned grasshopper 😉

[@CallMeErie]

😂

[@dlynsky]

Well played, well played 😂

[@cocosaucier1902]

Funny yall bring this up. I just had this conversation with myself yesterday 🤣

[@joan.nao1246]

Coworkers are NOT friends❗How many times I gotta regret & remind myself 🤦🏻‍♀️🙎🏻‍♀️

[@reginechanelle]

Yessss it is the worst when it’s a co-worker or even boss🙈 I’m learning staying to myself isn’t bad at all👍

[@arletteherry6413]

That's like when you look at an EX and ask Y😢

[@lovebug6388]

And realize you were in the throes of depression, low self esteem and loneliness. Cause my healed self wouldn't have given you a second glance nor thought. Whew Chile 😩

[@ab.6031]

@@lovebug6388😂😂😂. Facts

[@LadyAtheOnly]

@@lovebug6388This!💯🎯😂

[@Spaceandgrace-z7p]

@@lovebug6388 I told my ex he should have never been talking to me, doesn’t matter if I 17 about 18. You were 12 years older than me. I was still in high school. This guy was living a double secret life. It blew up in his face. So glad I saw the light and got rid of him. You live and learn.

[@tjax5534]

YES! Ugh! It’s been years and to this day I STILL cringe🤦🏾‍♀️

[@InLoveWith41]

I randomly remember when I've done it and get mad all over again. Second hand embarrassment from a first hand encounter 😂

[@teacher_nat84]

Yes ma'am! I have absolutely felt this way before. The coworkers definitely do the most sometimes. At first I was mad at them, but after thinking it through I was mad at myself for allowing my guard to be down enough to trust them with my business.

[@traceycurtis1005]

I keep my real self to the 3 people I'm still friends with from childhood and my husband. No one else.

[@pattywilliams788]

It wasn’t really that the person learned something about me that I didn’t want others to know; it was why did I waste so much time and energy on you and I didn’t see your true colors? I will never get those months, years back. I did all the giving to someone I thought was my friend and they had nothing to give to me when I needed them most. Yeah, ewww is right. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Spaceandgrace-z7p]

I feel you on this one.

[@ashleyblansett2755]

EJ!! I know exactly what you’re talking about. I’m 44, and I’m guilty of saying too much to a coworker. I’m sure we’ve all been there. It’s embarrassing when it happens too. I’d be so mad at myself. But I’m such an easy going person who likes to make friends everywhere I go. Lol! But I’ve been wrong about that. Geesh!! I know better now. You are not alone. ❤️🧸

[@missrockeysworstnightmare203]

"It's only because I don't have no friends." Realizing why that can be a good thing is peak adult.

[@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds]

No, that's not a good thing, not at all. Instead of not having any friends, what we really have to do is stop calling any and everybody our "friend", and start building real friendships with people who actually deserve the title.

[@h-townsfinest4216]

Not having friends is not a bad thing either. The need to have friends is in part a societal ideal that we are taught we are supposed to have to somehow feel "whole" in life......Not true....Building friendships particularly in this day and time is an overrated experience...And many people are choosing to hang solo and protect their peace instead.

[@sheilapate7604]

I don’t tell my coworkers shit 😂😂😂 and I don’t want to know shit about them 😂😂😂

[@georgettewilliams115]

All of that, I clock in, do what I get paid to do then clock out...deuces

[@melissacopeland5147]

😂😂😂😂 I know that's right 💯😂

[@sheilapate7604]

@@georgettewilliams115 yess 😂😂😂

[@Laquita146]

@@georgettewilliams115 period that’s it that all 💯👏🏽😂

[@katsneed7623]

I have felt it and then some. Too many times. That is why trust is difficult for me. I let the wrong ppl in. That's another reason why I stay at the house more. It's better for me...less toxicity.❤❤❤

[@mrsh5606]

Yes a co-worker now I don’t talk with none of them 😂

[@theresac3891]

Yeeeees man… I was engaged a few years ago and I was completely vulnerable with him. I’m very self conscious about my hair, because it’s very damaged and I’m practically bald on top, ands I wear wigs everyday of my life. I didn’t want to show him, but I did and he wasn’t the ONE, and now he knows

[@charlottemccombs9931]

I been there and ewww why…😂

[@Thehighpriestess108]

1:25 is A Whole Sermon! I’m convinced EJ be on here Preaching 🙌🏾

[@jamielunes1841]

And that's why we have therapist 😂😂😂

[@sunshineb-d5006]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@Everythingfreshandsassy]

“Get a ticket…”😂😂😂😂😂

[@Cheray_]

"Why did you let me know you like that?" used to just happen in person, now I'm saying it about social media posts🤦🏾‍♀️ Call me Jackie cuz...This is all so upsetting to me!

[@missladyanonymity]

I bet if you bought yourself a new lunch box with your favourite scripture on it, you'll feel better.🤣😂

[@Cheray_]

@missladyanonymity 🤣🤣🎯

[@adriennesmith2653]

Right, don't know how to shut my mouth sometimes. Smh

[@concernedcitizen8373]

There were a few "ewws" in my life but now? None of them have my current number and address. Lesson greatly learned.

[@evolved93]

Girl yes, and FATHER GOD IVE BEEN BETRAYED 😢, neverrrrrr agaaiiiinnn!!!!

[@gabrielmaroto18]

That venting before you realize it that’s happens to me in a Lyft recently and told all my business.

[@tanyag1160]

During my brief stint as a Lyft driver I found that people treat it like a confessional. I think it's the anonymity. They feel lighter after unburdening themselves and they leave the driver with a 2 star rating and feelings of Ewww.

[@sxm76]

I keep saying, "EWWW!" about the same person.

[@jessicaaudate]

It bees like that

[@jessicaaudate]

The way...this hit my SPIRIT

[@you_can_call_me_T]

I won't be specific, but there is a certain... errrm... demographic that I make a point of not trusting too soon, because their true self only comes out after knowing them a good long time. Whenever I've opened up too soon to said demographic, I've nearly always regretted it.

[@lovebug6388]

There's so many...top 3: Black American males, Asian males, and Caucasian males. You don't have to confirm or deny... it's been majority of our experiences, starting at home unfortunately 😞

[@you_can_call_me_T]

@lovebug6388 lol well I actually wasn't thinking of any of those. My experiences with black men have been okay in that area. And I don't open up to Caucasian or Asian males because... well Asian men aren't really in my orbit like that and white men... I hate to say it but my guard is up by default with them.

[@you_can_call_me_T]

@lovebug6388 lol well I actually wasn't thinking of any of those. My experiences with black men have been okay in that area. And I don't open up to Caucasian or Asian males because... well Asian men aren't really in my orbit like that and white males... I hate to say it but my guard is up by default with them.

[@Spaceandgrace-z7p]

Yup black males. I recall sharing something with a friend of mine when I was 20 he knew my Mom passed he tried to use that as an excuse, because he was interested in me but he was spoken for. He knew I was alone, like you have no one, I’ll be there for you. I kicked him out my place. He got mad I didn’t want to sleep with him. Another guy tried that 10 years later. I hung up on him. He thought I was a virgin just because I didn’t want to talk about sex.

[@VideoFanfromNC]

Eww, why did they tell me that!!! TMI²!

[@barbaraedwards5675]

Too many times, I’ve made this mistake 😢😢😢

[@ohdamnman]

I feel like when you give somebody some of your good good it should be something you can recall back to you when you realize you should not have given it to them in the first place

[@lovebug6388]

YEESẞSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! Cause why did I even 😩 Especially if they were trash. I need them take backs expeditiously!!!!

[@dawnravenel2473]

Yep, that's why he will be an ex-husband this year......Disobedience costs too much, I am listening to God next time. God's spirit of discernment works, I bet you I use it now.

[@denisebrown1678]

My granny used to say “don’t let the right hand know what the left hand is doing.” 🤚🏾✋🏾

[@rhondagoodwin5711]

Choose wisely....... choose wisely......

[@purplecapricorn79]

Why is it that ALWAYS that one coworker that is out to get you!!!!!

[@ahrensean]

I’ve been done by family 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@patwilson1257]

I let someone know a deep revelation about me, and that person used it to try and control and shame me. I’ve done that twice in my life. Both times I really thought the person cared. I have learned my lesson. I take my concerns to GOD the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit………………PERIOD……………..

[@Girl.In.Tha.World.]

Maybe I was having a psychotic break down. Hahaha 😂

[@joanneG75]

Oh yesssss..... That's foolish me......

[@MisMariaRosee]

Thanks sister❤️🙌🏼One book I recommend everyone to read in 2025 is Your Life Your Game by Keezano…it beautifully shows how embracing faith and building meaningful relationships can lead to spiritual growth and success in both your personal and professional life. This book truly changed my life-a must-read, amen❤

[@riccky707]

thanks

[@James.NewYork]

😇😇😇😇

[@Cruzan9]

Do not tell coworkers your business! At the very least don't tell them anything you don't want other people to know. If I don't know you outside of work then we aren't friends.

[@maryfields877]

Ugh, yes. I left the city and that life, never want to go back, ever!

[@BrooklynSaunders718]

THE HAIR is looking good healthy and gorgeous 😊

[@LuccaAce]

I hate it when a coworker shares something extremely personal with me, and there's an expectation that I'm going to open up and share something back. No offense, but while I love my coworkers, genuinely, I've avoided the same level of trauma that they've experienced AND even if I hadn't, I'm not going to share something intimate with you just because you opened up first. Take me to dinner a few times first, please.

[@Wrappedinhisglory]

Sometimes I say to much at random times. I can only be mad at myself

[@sunshineb-d5006]

Yes i regret 💔 it it's been year's ago! I learned my lesson. And you find out quickly, whose really 🤔 your friends. Till this day I'm private.

[@Heartcoachtalk]

#haters I’ve experienced all of this😬💔 thank you for making it funny😂🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

[@vmfjae1180]

Hair is flourishing ❤❤

[@asiam7329]

Literally just did the biggest ew a few days ago. I'm still dead from embarrassment.

[@ipeefreely9865]

Damn near ALLLLLLLL my previous jobs because I gave entirely TOO much and it's never EVA appropriated!! Now everyone is ONLY getting the basic requirements.

[@erickah-f1219]

I love you so much

[@hanifahevans]

Yes. I have Ewwww a few times with romantic relationships and friendship with co workers and women I met in college. Nowadays, I also only avoid this cause I be at the house and don’t really have friends like that anymore.

[@trishakaaay3720]

EJ stay off my street and in my lane 🤣🤣🤣 - EWWWWWWW x Infinity and beyond.

[@dorismays2448]

Ewwwwe will be our word for the month of January, lol ❤

[@Everythingfreshandsassy]

When it’s and EJ SPEAKS video, I got the like button before watching the video!

[@juniemcb]

“They would never” .”……let alone a baby from my womb “, “ its only cause I be at the house “ yes and amen EJ! OAN: have yall encountered the coworker that tell you stuff thinking you gone tell them stuff as a form of manipulation? Dont work no more. I was not that cool kid and Im cool with that now😊

[@donnabanks7656]

Totally felt like that at some point in my life.

[@stacyturner4058]

Every last relationship I’ve been in

[@pamelacohen5945]

Most definitely my ex friend

[@nikkibenjamin4231]

Just a word of caution: Don’t share about the issues you encountered with your ex to your next. If the next is sassy you will find out soon as he throws what you told him in confidence in your face and uses it against your character.

[@hawtnsweet]

It's your honesty fuh me 😂

[@Heatherfether]

I miss Ms Jackie❤

[@bridgetteyelder77]

Whewwww Chile I can write a book about this...

[@hazelwitherspoon2721]

Unfortunately, I let some person at work know exactly how nerdy I was. It did come back to bite me but hey, I have been nerdy since a young age, I just know how to blend on with non-nerds. When I was leaving that job, I left them a little trinket that braed him as a raging nerd.f

[@Londiebeantown]

THIS!!!

[@melsutubeification]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Ruffina12345]

Yes gurl!!!!

[@bec7080]

20s me lived this feeling

[@toshawhatareyoudoing6410]

I do regret not being so "platonic" with my platonic, male best friend a few years ago. I mean we're still friends but now we're friends with history if you know what I mean.

[@WhatchaCookinGlenda]

ABSOLUTELY

[@rasheida6502]

Preachhhhhhhh

[@nicolerobinson6294]

I'm pretty private. But let me tell you something, PERSONAL and then hear it from other people. We gonna have a problem.

[@LadyAtheOnly]

Hard lesson learned.

[@darlene196]

I just wanna know what the fluffy mic does??

[@ct580]

Yes I did. Years of regret but I love my son

[@mariaberry8611]

Ewwww....Yes

[@pockahantiss]

❄️🤍❄️🤍I’m wiser now. I replaced my lip gloss with crazy glue-✌🏾💯🙋🏾‍♀️🤍❄️🤍❄️

[@aseathompson]

How do I save this video? 🤔

[@2steppin2Vegas]

Like it

[@casscass230]

Save to a Playlist😊

[@wonderbutterfly3]

Yesssssss 😩😩😩😩😩

[@LupusQueen]

Yes

[@RacieRain]

Many, many times.

[@Millah323]

Your hair looks beautiful...

[@AquaLew]

Sure did! Shared my address 😡🤬

[@TheyCallMeCharisma]

Yes, I hate that for me or anyone who has done this. But you do learn because the person that tells it is trash.

[@nicolejohnson4023]

Love your hair

[@trinity72gp]

Yay ❤

[@teenqueenh5319]

Yes…..

[@tabithathewholistic]

BAYBEEE💯💯💯

[@Emilaria]

I like most of my co-workers fairly well, and they're nice people, but I'd only trust one of them with a secret. I'm newer to the group, and they're all friends, most of them for many years. Yet, they gossip, shit talk, and complain about each other behind their backs. Like, I thought y'all were friends.

[@benettabranch497]

Ummm hunny 😅❤

[@chanelrobinson8848]

I’m here first yasss, hi MrsEJ yasss

[@alco869]

Isn't that a good feeling lol. That was me the other day. 😂😂😂

[@Sarah-l2c4k]

Very interesting approach to channel development! What strategies do you use to attract new audience? 💖😘

[@tweetingsparks]

Eww! Why your energy down, EJ?! 👀