Selfharmerproblems I do feel they are nessasary to have I always skip them because although I’ve gone through these issues they are not triggering to me
@itsbeenawhilehowareyou48253 жыл бұрын
my brother doesn't know I cut and he likes dark jokes so one time he walked up to me and slapped my arm and went "I like ya cut G" and I was like lmao that's a good dark joke haha haha ha ah ahh....
@rywe40173 жыл бұрын
Lmao my online friend made a joke about that and sent me a picture of somebody with a ton of scars across their whole body and I was just there like ‘😀’
@turntoallah31483 жыл бұрын
PLSSS😭
@misskilledu9543 жыл бұрын
Joke so dark the cops shot it 😂
@itsbeenawhilehowareyou48253 жыл бұрын
@@misskilledu954 oh my lordie I forgot I commented this- MADE ME LAUGH CAUSE THAT JOKE IS ACTUALLY FUNNY THO
@misskilledu9543 жыл бұрын
@@itsbeenawhilehowareyou4825 YEAH 😂😂😂
@Cr33pysku114 жыл бұрын
Cons of cutting myself: - It would hurt a lot - It might get infected - I might have to go to the hospital, where I could get Coronavirus - I'd have to cover the scars Pros of cutting myself: - It would hurt a lot - I could make jokes about my arms looking like the climb walls in doom eternal
@fingerlesselliewilliams4 жыл бұрын
ikr
@devilhorndoodles94874 жыл бұрын
The pain just feels so real.
@BobBob-ys4uu4 жыл бұрын
or your thighs
@catlikemeew2 жыл бұрын
I can’t feel the pain anymore…
@Yourmom-fl9mq2 жыл бұрын
You can’t swim either sadly
@carolinedamsgaard91624 жыл бұрын
We did it. We made it on youtube
@skylersaget25593 жыл бұрын
🦀🦀🦀🦀
@katequestrian27473 жыл бұрын
yes
@NLewis-rb6od3 жыл бұрын
WhoO
@steph94523 жыл бұрын
I'm proud😌
@yuyu-bubu3 жыл бұрын
we did it gamers
@orangebox25763 жыл бұрын
One funny thing that happened to me was when I was buying concealer to cover my scars and I bought nyx concealer and in giant letters on the front it said “CANT STOP WONT STOP” and I thought it was hilarious cuz it’s so accurate but also terrible that it said that lmaooo
@Jeff-fp8qx3 жыл бұрын
XDD it is funny and sad. How have you been doing?
@orangebox25763 жыл бұрын
Jeff that’s so sweet thanks for asking. I’ve been doing pretty good a lot better actually... I started being able to go a few days at a time without relying on it. How are u doing
@Jeff-fp8qx3 жыл бұрын
@@orangebox2576 that's awesome! I a proud of you. I feel very good, thank you for asking ^w^
@ruqiaabdirahman24373 жыл бұрын
LMAO so what concealer do u recommend?? 😭
@orangebox25763 жыл бұрын
Ruqia Abdirahman honestly that concealer is pretty good it works pretty well so ya... u doing ok
@xv63353 жыл бұрын
My friends : * fidgeting * Me: * stims by rubbing my arm cause it feels Š w à N kÿ *
@flameepidemic48393 жыл бұрын
😂
@juipiterg15803 жыл бұрын
Me too but with my legs 😭
@callouscloud2 жыл бұрын
Trueeeeee it feels so satisfying
@piney_studios4 жыл бұрын
mY aRmS lOok LiKe a ZEbrA
@Raven-ll9lm3 жыл бұрын
That's why my boyfriend calls me his zebra. He turned this into a positive thing by saying "a zebra isn't embarassed of its stripes, it just makes them special"
@ace-nd4mz3 жыл бұрын
iM cOsPlAYiNg TIgER fOr HaLlOwEeN
@teehee57003 жыл бұрын
@@Raven-ll9lm DAMN HES SO SWEET
@Raven-ll9lm3 жыл бұрын
@@teehee5700 yes he is😍
@flameepidemic48393 жыл бұрын
@@Raven-ll9lm awwwe
@nightshade91773 жыл бұрын
My sister, who thinks I started in high school: Stop doing that. It's not cool or edgy and it makes you look pathetic. And you say you don't want attention. Me, whose been doing it since the end of fourth grade as a punishment for making other people feel bad: Ok but I would like to kindly remind you that it's hard to stop. My sister: How hard can it be? Just stop. Me: Whatever you say dear. So that's how my week ended. I have made it to two days clean. How I did it? I use a heck of a lot of flare pens and draw on myself. The good thing is that they aren't too hard to wash off. The bad thing, my mom hates me drawing on myself so I get yelled at constantly.
@flopilla20124 жыл бұрын
I love your channel, I feel bad for laughing lmao
@Selfharmerproblems4 жыл бұрын
Honestly I felt bad too ^^'
@devilhorndoodles94874 жыл бұрын
Your channel is so helpful thank you. I cant tell poeple about my tendencies and this is so helpful.
@luanamaria47034 жыл бұрын
It's not related to your content but your accent make feel so more confident and improve my English skills so much. You're a incredible person Malika
@Selfharmerproblems4 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you xx
@misskilledu9543 жыл бұрын
@@Selfharmerproblems I heard a horror story about a black eyed children and I'm scared now
@zachmiller53024 жыл бұрын
We made it boys
@applef1uffy3 жыл бұрын
I love how your able to go over really morbid humor as coping mechanisms without glorifying it. Not a lot of people can do that
@EmmaTH19984 жыл бұрын
The 2nd one really got me 😂😂, if u can't laugh about your scars what can u do!! I self harmed for 6 years, so things like this actually help me forgive myself for the hundreds of scars! Love u ❤
@truewhissan4 жыл бұрын
My body looks like I went through a car wash naked XD
@flameepidemic48393 жыл бұрын
@@truewhissan MOOOODDD I FEEL THAT!
@nancyicesparrow3 жыл бұрын
I always kind of felt like my problems weren't big enough because I wouldn't self harm frequently or because I didn't do it as deep as others, but this channel made me feel more valid
@Zakuchanhatesyou4 жыл бұрын
I mod that sub and I got a heartattack when I saw this video
@prageruwu71482 жыл бұрын
Lol
@tsntnccot73344 жыл бұрын
I relapsed today after 6-7 months clean :_( I’m trying my best to get better but today just wasn’t my day. I’m working at getting better tho :(
@Catcat555664 жыл бұрын
яѧṭṡ ıṅ ѧ ṭяєṅċһċȏѧṭ it’s perfectly human to relapse, i just want you to remember that relapse means nothing, other than, well being a relapse, it doesn’t mean all your efforts were “wasted” or “useless” Take all the time you need, be gentle to yourself, i believe you have the strength in you to make it trough this, sending much love and positive vibes okay:) 🥰💕💕
@tsntnccot73344 жыл бұрын
Cat Cat omg 🥺 thank you so much! It’s been hard in my life in the past few days. Thank you ❤️ 💕
@Catcat555664 жыл бұрын
яѧṭṡ ıṅ ѧ ṭяєṅċһċȏѧṭ anytime:)
@Alys9133 жыл бұрын
ik you commented this ages ago but i just wanted to say that 6-7 months is still a HUGE step forward so a small step back doesn't even matter that much. don't beat yourself down you're doing amazing and i'm so proud of you
@Eowyn1263 жыл бұрын
You got this! One step back doesn’t erase all that progress!
@pigeon_person4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for always advocating for understanding and compassion even during videos like this. It means a lot xxx
@mirandajauregui99814 жыл бұрын
I really love this channel, there is actually no one who uploads this kind of content and I appreciate u so much for it! You are beautiful!
@swaranbains83264 жыл бұрын
Man your accent, I could listen to you talk for ages
@anklebiter223 жыл бұрын
As someone who’s been struggling with self harm for years I love your content and I’m so glad I found your channel 🥺
@bloodfire76364 жыл бұрын
Its like that sometimes lol
@flameepidemic48393 жыл бұрын
Random story because idk i feel like sharing it. My niece (shes 4) always meantions my cuts when she sees them i dont want to introduce her to those things but she follows me to the bathroom and wont bath unless i get in with her. So instead of telling the truth i always tell her this huge tale about how i saved my dog and he just scratched my legs a lot (she hasnt questioned my arms or ankles most of the ones on my fore arms are gone and well ankles aren’t noticeable so that’s probably why)
@heatherjohnson79823 жыл бұрын
I had the same problem with my niece. Shes older now and doesnt ask anymore, but if she did I feel like I could be honest with her now
@harryp0ppins9283 жыл бұрын
I just wanna say this girl showed me how to take care of my cuts so shout out to you
@FrilledMayfly_AmberlyFerrule3 жыл бұрын
These memes, I feel so validated. Finally other people with my sense of humor!
@acooper59413 жыл бұрын
So I was 3 years clean but last year I was struggling more and ended up relapsing. I was a year, but now I'm a week Clean...
@maddiemarquis58704 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I found this channel it helps a lot and I’m so glad you created it so thank u
@tessvanroessel80454 жыл бұрын
I HATE IT when someone says I am doing so well
@emiliew55534 жыл бұрын
we did it reddit
@saltydinonuggies18413 жыл бұрын
Its so rare to find a youtuber who actually talks about sh.
@conga7813 жыл бұрын
2:37 I REMEMBER IN 4TH GRADE MY FRIEND SAW MY SCARS AND HE CALLED IT ‘TIGER SCRATCHES’ 😭
@greyv91074 жыл бұрын
love this sub and your channel!!!
@noriii4 жыл бұрын
i didn’t have loving and supporting parents or i guess dont
@mysteryoctopus86993 жыл бұрын
I am here if you want somebody to talk to
@user-yc4gl2vg7k3 жыл бұрын
I love your accent!! It sounds really cool to me!
@helloamanda04 Жыл бұрын
the one about the bloodstains is so accurate lmao. me telling my mother the stains on my shirt are from chocolate......you know, all along one of my sleeves and in the shape of bloodstains. she somehow still hasn't caught on
@matoussaidl33004 жыл бұрын
Its probably really unrelated, but I just wanted to say that I really like your accent
@nebjeb49004 жыл бұрын
Yo I don't want to sound mean but it literally says in the subreddits rules don't share this subreddit on large subreddits and I think youtube would be counted within that
@Selfharmerproblems4 жыл бұрын
Oooooow... Really?! Thank you for telling me! I will check that out
@Selfharmerproblems4 жыл бұрын
Just checked and the only thing I could fiind was this : "Don't link to this subreddit in the wrong places. Of course we want new members, but we absolutely do not want to become the victims of brigading. An example of a bad place to link to this sub would be a in a part of reddit known for trolling or brigading, such as /r/4chan or /r/circlejerk.". I don't think this video would fall into that category?
@nebjeb49004 жыл бұрын
@@Selfharmerproblems ok yea I guess but I'm just kinda scared cause I really don't want mos to get brigaded cause we have had minor brigades before and I don't want a major one happening
@LiveManga374 жыл бұрын
@@nebjeb4900 dw I'm scared of it getting brigaded and possibly shut down too. I know it got really close back when that r/proanamemes sub got zapped. I won't even comment in some places because I'm scared of people noticing it in my post history.
@Bear_the_shepherd2 жыл бұрын
I'm 113 days and 1 hour clean 🥰 I think about self harm every second of every single day but I'm fighting it. I have had really bad urges a few times and it's been so painful- to try to ignore it but I have and I'm so proud of myself. Yay me! I hope I dont fall back into it but if I do I'll try not to hate myself and I'll try and give myself the love, support and attention I need. I am struggling with the whole number thing though, I want the biggest number of clean days but I'm not thinking about the long term or even the short term. I don't think about getting better, I just want to be clean for the longest time. It seems to be working for now and that's fine but I need to sort it out. I thought I'd come back to one of your videos to say thank you, I really appreciate you and all you do for other self harmers. You've made me feel so much better about myself and I definitely see light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you 💕
@summermccluskey45783 жыл бұрын
There was a hair salon in Colorado that is literally called "Cutters"
@misskilledu9543 жыл бұрын
2 possible reasons for the name 1: hair salon(cutting hair 2: crafts store(cuts paper etc)
@b1tchbvy4 жыл бұрын
omfg my post made it into the video
@b1tchbvy4 жыл бұрын
(P.S. the cutting lounge is a hair salon in my area)
@Layer03cyberia3 жыл бұрын
@@b1tchbvy lmao
@finnjensen43504 жыл бұрын
Hi, I was just wondering, did your snakebite piercings hurt really bad? I was thinking about getting some.
@Selfharmerproblems4 жыл бұрын
Hi! No not much, in my experience all my piercings hurt about the same to get pierced. I made a video on my piercings and tattoos if you want to know more!
@finnjensen43504 жыл бұрын
@@Selfharmerproblems alright, thank you! I love your channel btw.
@johnnycade.switchblade2 ай бұрын
I’m trying to quit. If you are in the same situation, I’m so proud of you. I love you so much. If you relapse, I believe that you will be okay. ❤
@gabbykallin93992 жыл бұрын
Ouch "the cutting lounge"
@cakcx3153 жыл бұрын
Ima need a part 2
@mitochondria_78773 жыл бұрын
2:43 i cant relate to this any harder
@ash334fjfjg23 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for watching this subject idk why
@martina63793 жыл бұрын
Hey Malika! I don't watch your vids too often but I do like them a lot, this one was great too! Anyway, neat shirt, I didn't know you liked Eluveitie! I love them too!!!!!!!❤️So...list of Swiss stuff that I like:Chocolate, cheese, your channel, Eluveitie, and the fact that you like Eluveitie😂 Anyway, take care!😊
@lounthery9564 жыл бұрын
the circus unites here
@elizaclouds2 жыл бұрын
i love these videos so much
@acel3904 жыл бұрын
i love mos
@lou71274 жыл бұрын
same
@constellation31644 жыл бұрын
same!
@vintagecrayon45042 жыл бұрын
Same
@whoknows24203 жыл бұрын
Thank you for these videos
@juliakaminska71993 жыл бұрын
IM SO HAPPY BECAUSE IM 6 DAYS CLEAN THE LONGEST EVERRR
@alfiebunch32062 жыл бұрын
first time my autistic brother saw my cuts, he said “why are you pretending to be a tiger”
@harudubs95483 жыл бұрын
3:14 i think you found my shower
@Lezu.3 жыл бұрын
You have a really calming voice
@that_loser12563 жыл бұрын
I’m 3 mouths clean in March!!
@thekamikaze7893 жыл бұрын
without watching the video: i love your shirt :) i have one those aswell. great band
@thekamikaze7893 жыл бұрын
wow you reacting to an 8 months old video o.o thx. and yes the video was goot too. guess from what reddit page i got recommended here ;)
@killuaalfred76982 жыл бұрын
The cat one is so true
@itsbeenawhilehowareyou48253 жыл бұрын
for some reason I feel like I don't cut deep enough for it to be considered self harm-
@heatherjohnson79823 жыл бұрын
That's not true, and it's a bad mindset to have. I used to tell myself that and it made things worse.
@itsbeenawhilehowareyou48253 жыл бұрын
@@heatherjohnson7982 ┐(‘~`;)┌
@thebeardedhamster11953 жыл бұрын
What band is on ur shirt??
@caleb75173 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to ask, but your accent is so cool where is it from?
@Selfharmerproblems3 жыл бұрын
Switzerland, french speaking part!
@soberrelativelyspeaking4 жыл бұрын
Oop there goes our sub. let the brigading begin.
@bleachsmoothie39964 жыл бұрын
I think that her subscribers are not the kind of people who would troll/raid.
@aaliyahetc.66873 жыл бұрын
Luckily she's not that famous.
@uranuslightwood20393 жыл бұрын
Omg I love Eluveitie \m/
@estellamendoza36542 жыл бұрын
im so f..ked up this made me laugh
@lou71274 жыл бұрын
I love this sub 🙈😅
@miss._em964 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for laughing at some of these🤭😂.
@lee62284 жыл бұрын
Your honestly great
@benkleve41993 жыл бұрын
I am using this to cope without sh
@Lily-ut7wg4 жыл бұрын
Ayy i love MoS
@toatao77564 жыл бұрын
Eluveitie is the fucking best! \m/
@fl6ur9 ай бұрын
2:37 I relate
@scpf49323 жыл бұрын
Pretty and wise woman Looks good with blue hair😊
@ghost4133 жыл бұрын
3:52 one time my brother asked me why there were marks on my arms and i told them they were red from volleyball PLS
@julie45433 жыл бұрын
Mom im a zebra
@PIKL_Creep3 жыл бұрын
I've been on there and it's mostly low effort r/memes stuff as you can see in the video.
@nitsuakumu27954 жыл бұрын
how long does the blue dye stay on ur hair ?
@spicebag303 жыл бұрын
cool shirt dude
@starstruck49403 жыл бұрын
I was wondering is Taking out eye lashes is self harm? just wondering, Ive seen people do it and wanna help.
@heatherjohnson79823 жыл бұрын
Hair pulling is related to anxiety and is a form of self harm. My best friends kid was pulling at her eyebrows and therapy really helped them
@trinchen14144 жыл бұрын
Eluveitie
@Pirsanth173 жыл бұрын
Repping Swiss pagan metal band eluveitie
@caithaney50744 жыл бұрын
first!! i love youuuu
@Petergriffin17384 жыл бұрын
Tfw you see one of your posts :/
@whyyoulookin87703 жыл бұрын
GosH
@MeowrPower4 жыл бұрын
Eluveitie :)
@sophiebach28343 жыл бұрын
* me going through all the comments to like every single one that mentions the eluveitie shirt * :)
@emilylloyd16843 жыл бұрын
eluveitie is the best!
@Obituary3444 жыл бұрын
Ah shit I haven't watched yet but I know I'm boutta be called out😬