Ex-Wife Who Cheated & Abandoned Our Family Years Ago Shows Up At My Door With Another Man's Kid, Wanting To Be A "Family" Again - I Slammed The Door In Her Face. #redditrelationship #redditupdate
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@Brittanyknuckles14272 ай бұрын
“And there was no better mother than angela” ARE YOU JOKING? I’d cut my parents out for that level of delusion lmao op sounds like a great dad.
@Tomiisomaa2 ай бұрын
and it only got worse after that like wtf is wrong with ops parents, why do they hate their son so much that they would betray his trust and bribe his young daughters to also lie to him. That's vile.
@Brittanyknuckles14272 ай бұрын
@@Tomiisomaa OMG RIGHT I posted my comment before I finished the story and once I heard they allowed her to see the kids I was like damn these people are garbage
@rem93672 ай бұрын
My pet hamster is a better parental figure than the mother and the parents
@rionat13142 ай бұрын
What's crazy is the whole "god will punish them" to fucking kids. Crazy religious undertones from the grandparents. Better off they don't get contact with the kids
@DancingAngelz2 ай бұрын
Wish I had a half decent one.
@tothewonder62482 ай бұрын
Honestly his parents are worse than the wife.
@lazallewillemse36172 ай бұрын
Agreed
@rogueshark232 ай бұрын
They are both POS all three want to play f****g happy family.
@princessmarlena13592 ай бұрын
Undermining OP like that is unforgivable.
@kilamkam2 ай бұрын
Nah she literally signed her rights over her kids away, after cheating.. What she did was just evil all around.. The parents we're we manipulated by her tears and sob story....
@Shadow_Blade-cx8gf2 ай бұрын
I dont think his behaviour for his parents were right just as an Indian in which we take our Parents like God. (Specifically in sanatan dharm) . Whqtever they did i dont think he should have removed them completely from his life. Since they were the one who gave birth to him.
@taylordaenzer48522 ай бұрын
It's not your fault it's Angela's fault she's the one who cheated not him.
@sheetaljoshi80492 ай бұрын
You are right
@BestMster2 ай бұрын
It's not anyone's fault because this entire story is fake
@DaRealCariQ2 ай бұрын
@@BestMstermhm
@zachary64252 ай бұрын
@@BestMsterit is but sadly this happens in real life more than you want to know
@KietTran-sn7du2 ай бұрын
@@BestMstereven if it's fake, jit shit happens nowdays bro.
@Rj-ij6ko2 ай бұрын
I’ll be honest: it takes OLYMPIC level mental gymnastics to think that the lazy, abusive cheater, who signed her rights away for her children over a man is somehow the victim when her ex doesn’t want her around HIS children… Good luck Op, i’m sorry your family sucks though.
@jbcroos9182 ай бұрын
I have a mother like that, they seem to always know better and see their sons as little children and their reactions as exaggerating, mine tried to get my brother to marry a very conservative christian cheater and pass the baby as my brother's
@BestMster2 ай бұрын
The OP doesn't need luck, this is obviously made up
@DatAsianGuy2 ай бұрын
@@jbcroos918 "Conservative christian cheater" that shit is funny as hell lmao.
@Zeltesh2 ай бұрын
Not to mention she failed two marriages - one to a 'childhood friend' too. LOL delulu
@matthewgabbana5021Ай бұрын
@@DatAsianGuy😂😂😂
@okiamherenow63722 ай бұрын
I rather have my wife cheat on me than my own parents manipulate my kids and betray me behind my back with the cheater wife, that would be unbearable 😢 you are strong my man
@toigo682 ай бұрын
Bc I'm hor
@darkknight30372 ай бұрын
hm i choose option 3: being single
@deathknight12392 ай бұрын
And yet he got the worst of both options unfortunately
@nr1fan4all2 ай бұрын
I am so heartbroken to hear about the plot his parents had with his ex wife, this kind of betrayal...
@zachary64252 ай бұрын
People in this life can prove their really nothing but backstabbers
@thedemoman882 ай бұрын
The manipulation of the kids was just disgusting. Threatening them by divine punishment? That’s just sick man
@IwanttoblowmybrainsoutrnАй бұрын
That's religious people for you
@sultryjmac25 күн бұрын
They'll pay for that. There's a third party who doesn't take kindly to that. Actually, that third party has very specifically warned about this BS.
@DarkEinherjar2 ай бұрын
Man, I'm having a hard time trying to figure out who is worse in this story: Angela for being a narcissistic cheater, her parents for letting her cheat on OP in their home, or OP's parents for lying to him and going behind his back for half a decade for Angela's sake, not to mention endangering their granddaughters. I'm glad justice has been served in the end.
@samsonxd2 ай бұрын
I think the parents, they basically switched up on OP and have become senile.
@samsonxd2 ай бұрын
And they also went behind OP's back and talked to his ex
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
IMO the parents are the absolute worst in this story. They knew what Angela did to OP but decided to take her side anyways. They snuck around OP to allow Angela to visit the kids she abandoned.
@BestMster2 ай бұрын
There was no justice cause none of this happened, all this channel does is post fake reddit stories. You can't take these at face value
@Shyhalu2 ай бұрын
@@samsonxd They listened to her poison willingly, never underestimate a woman's ability to lie and manipulate.
@Riri_7342 ай бұрын
I thought his in laws & ex were already pretty f up. But it turns out his own parents have gone senile. Hopefully OP can totally cut out his ex and parents from him and the kids. Definitely looking forward to a positive update.
@Olimar922 ай бұрын
He has a Restraining Order for his Ex and Parents.
@mazthebear2 ай бұрын
If i was him i would get out of dodge. F the parents and in laws and definitely f the ex harpy. Again why should ANY guy really be expected to “ let by gone be by gone “
@BestMster2 ай бұрын
You won't be getting one cause this story fake
@omegasquadlderАй бұрын
It’s safe to say, mom and pops are going into that shitty nursing home.
@ImnotBritish166Ай бұрын
@@BestMsterit isn't.
@DarkEinherjar2 ай бұрын
Sounds like all Angela wanted was a rich sugar daddy... Also, if my spouse ever laid their hands on me, that would've been the end of the marriage right there. Full sc--ched earth divorce, full custody with only supervised visitations to ensure my kids wouldn't be in danger. I'm sick of people using PPD as an excuse. It's so overused, it's become the female version of "boys will be boys".
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
Except for the fact that PPD gets used as a weapon to belittle, manipulate, gaslight, and control men.
@princessmarlena13592 ай бұрын
Well said, especially with PPD as an excuse for women on par with “Boys will be boys!”.
@AntiqueMilk2 ай бұрын
No. No. PPD is a real mental illness that has a heavy, heavy effect on the mother and still does not get enough recognition or support. As opposed to 'boys will be boys' that gets pulled out as an excuse to harass and rape women (or the actual version which is ride a shopping cart down a hill). That said, my mum, who had PPD did not do half the shit this woman did. This woman, like many men and women, is just an arsehole that had a legitimate mental illness. She was given every opportunity to overcome the illness, three that aside and instead chose to stick her tongue down another dude's throat.
@mysticspace14752 ай бұрын
You censored scorched, really
@TheSergio10212 ай бұрын
@@mysticspace1475yeah why the hell censor scorched?
@gotenblack25422 ай бұрын
crazy thing is i bet if op was the one that cheated instead the parents would never let him see his kids again
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
Yep I was thinking just thst when the glass table broke. OP would've been in jail had the roles been reversed. Neither sets of parents would've allowed OP to see his kids. Which begs the question did OP's mom and mom-in-law cheat on their husband's for them to be so accepting of Angela. When the wife cheats and the in-law-parents still accept her it's 100% always because the mom cheated and the husband was a doormat.
@gotenblack25422 ай бұрын
that or the typically she is a girl you have to fell bad for her and blah blah
@ren96706Ай бұрын
@@frantheman1287 definitely sounds plausible that OPs mom cheated at some point in her marriage and the dad took her back. It doesn’t make sense for a proper man to see his son get cheated on and believe its right for him to take his wife back… unless he went through it himself
@michaelmoreno1683Ай бұрын
@@ren96706that’s exactly what is seems like. Cheaters defend cheaters all the time. They never see is as a reason to get a divorce
@itsharperoffi2 ай бұрын
I'm glad he got restraining order. His parents and ex don't deserve to be in those kids lives after what happend
@Big_Tyrone1382 ай бұрын
Let them have Angela and the other kid.
@pujitarao6002 ай бұрын
First of all, she wanted a family with her 'One true love' so she gave up on this family that she created with OP?! And now she's like 'Oh I'm so sorry let's resume our family again' like wtf?! Edit: Hello, it's sad that I need to say this, but: THIS DOES NOT APPLY TO EVERY WOMAN.
@Treegonaut2 ай бұрын
Ya didn't ya know you can just resume like a video game save file!
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
@@Treegonautonly delusional 304s can have that sort of mindset and think everyone else is crazy
@joet71362 ай бұрын
No surprise. That's how some women actually think.
@ew31502 ай бұрын
She doesn't respect him one ounce.
@jamegumb72982 ай бұрын
@@joet7136 My mother too. In her words: Why are you so weak that you will not take her back after she had bigger and better dick? Out of this door and make up to her! Or I will make usre I have that abortion extra late term." To explain: she wanted to abort me, but was too late, tried to get it done 8th month in Spain but I got out in time.
@matt32482 ай бұрын
She ditched the horse who won the race for the horse who slipped and broke its leg at the beginning, and acted like she was the winner until reality hit.
@Shyhalu2 ай бұрын
No, she ditched 5th place for 1st place. 5th place bends over backwards for you, 1st place pump and dumps because there are 1000 other wmn fawning over him. "Shawn" was a Chad. She dropped everything for him to run her through, then started the betatization by 1000 concessions BS with him and he wasn't having any of it. Can't even blame him, she wanted to hinder his career so her child could stay in a school.....As if where he was moving didn't have good schools.
@lolaakram98362 ай бұрын
Really like your analogy 👍
@bgcorporation2 ай бұрын
Lmao. What? She wanted alimony yet she wants to give up all rights to her children, and was cheating? What Judge would go "Ya, she makes sense, let's give her alimony".
@C.G.Gaster2 ай бұрын
The ones in a no-fault divorce state
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
Most courts would actually allow that. The fact OP didn't have to pay was actually mind blowing. Not sure if you know or not but alimony and child support are 2 different things. As a man you're most likely liable for both.
@lordmars23872 ай бұрын
This story was one of the worst examples of gender roles, cultural bias, and female entitlement I've heard in a hot minute. Shame on the grandparents.
@cvpoct466Ай бұрын
A Democrat controlled state that #BelieveAllWomen with a diversity hire judge😂😂😂 Its a real possibility especially in California
@yamispadeАй бұрын
Thats the sad state of family court, a woman can be completely at fault and unfit and still come out on top in most cases because they're the birth mother and its financially lucrative(for the government) to ensure the man pays child support and alimony. To be fair, there are also plenty of dead beat men out there, in this story the guy she cheated with is definitely a dead beat, but he's the real winner in all of this since she isnt pursuing him for child support and he effectively walks away from all of this scott free. This is why men and women need to be more selective about who they have children with.
@Bucketus.Lord.of.Buckets2 ай бұрын
"I almost filed for divorce" You were pushed onto a glass coffee table. You should have filed for divorce and criminal charges. *ETA* Also, I am so sick of PPD being an excuse for abhorrent behaviour. Depressed male acting out? incel! Depressed mother acting out? PPD! she's a victim! F Off with that crap. She was terrible. Wouldn't do work at home. Wouldn't look after the kids. Just sat around watching reality TV. Cheated on husband. Holy crap. L to the parents too.
@AllmostLucy2 ай бұрын
I had PPD after first. Don't talk if you don't understand. It's something you can't fully control especially if others around constantly calls you stupid or stop acting.
@mahanyasingh1392 ай бұрын
Finally someone I can agree with but sadly this the real truth and even if we try change is almost impossible.
@rem93672 ай бұрын
@@AllmostLucy Stop acting stupid then bish
@Vic-pg4rg2 ай бұрын
@@AllmostLucy That's still no excuse. Especially with Angela seeing how OP did everything he could to make things right. Not only that, a lot of women were pregnant or after pregnancy didn't become like that at all. I sure as hell wouldn't had tolerate that behavior from the get go and had her committed.
@ornerylurker82962 ай бұрын
“Don’t talk if you don’t understand?” Well unfortunately the problem with that is, we can’t control when people are self centered degenerates who refuse to get help and act more like an animal. Ooooooor! Are you just using it in the very same handwavy excuse the commenter was complaining about? Pick one.
@GamerstudPrime2 ай бұрын
That lazy cow would definitely have put OP in jail if the assault had happened the other way around.
@georgia30432 ай бұрын
"" and there was no better mother than angela?"" You mean the 'mother' who made at least one child scared of her the 'mother' ignored her children and then abandoned them and the 'mother' who only came back as she had nothing else and wnated a husband for her son?
@yamispadeАй бұрын
To be fair this is the premise of how Family Court usually decides which parent is more fit for sole or primary custody.
@legiontepes34742 ай бұрын
Op is amazing and his ex was a lazy pos.
@Maninawig2 ай бұрын
"So, mom, you believe the best mother in the world is one who neglects her kids, beəts their father, abandons them, then kicks them out of their lives for a Richard.... so glad you went above and beyond what a bestest mother could be." - click -
@Shyhalu2 ай бұрын
Make you wonder wtf nonsense his own mother is hiding. We all damn well know it was his mother convincing his father to go along with it. It wouldn't surprise me if his children aren't his at this point or if his "father" isn't his.
@Olimar922 ай бұрын
"We did this so you could give her a second chance" nope, that was what the marriage counseling was.
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
2nd chance? I don't think OP's senile parents realize OP already gave her a 2nd chance and she cheated with that chance 🤣🤣.
@thorcadail58122 ай бұрын
Bet the ex's parents feel "real good" with how the relationship turned out with their daughter and the AP. Why have a loving husband for your daughter when you can have a pos instead?
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
They always wanted their daughter to be with Shawn a low life scumbag who cheats with a married woman and then once he's had his fun abandons her and his son. Those parents sure know how to pick a guy 🤣🤣
@Arcane_Route_662 ай бұрын
As OP pointed out, its very warped backwards logic how his parents couldn't "in good conscience" not let a woman who signed away her parental rights to appease the man she ran off with have a second chance she DID NOT deserve. But their conscience was clean in regards to lying to their own son who took care of HIS daughters and then go on to emotionally blackmail those girls. Again, all for the woman who abandoned them. I guess the ex promised to take care of the parents in their old age because they sure as hell won't get any help from OP now. Who wants to bet the ex will dump her son on her former in-laws and run after her husband or look for a new guy?
@C.G.Gaster2 ай бұрын
It's quite the possibility, op was just a fall back plan.
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
@@C.G.Gastershe knew OP was a good man/father which is 100% why she came running back when her "true love" didn't work out. It always happens. Just like the zombies in CoD they always come crawling back.
@tallyp.76432 ай бұрын
They must be the type of parents who insist only women can really raise kids (or the grandparents helping). They tried to leverage their years of help against the OP like it was proof. They could've refused, but then again... they were using that as a chance for Angela to show up covertly and spend time with the girls. I really wanna know what the girls thought of all that, especially with the lies and manipulation they had to go along with for years. I hate lies and would've spilled the beans WAY earlier if I was one of them (plus I was always terrible at lying, anyway).
@ArtsyShikigami2 ай бұрын
Man, i wish i could be a fly on the wall when the parents realize that because they backed the wrong horse, they lost both their son and their granddaughters. Pretty good chance they'll blame Angela for that
@Shyhalu2 ай бұрын
You'd be sitting on that wall for a looooong time. People that have the audacity to dictate your life like that, just because they helped you out, will never admit they were wrong.
@trinityharmon51072 ай бұрын
Op sounds like an awesome husband
@jean30302 ай бұрын
What job does he have that he's able to go to therapy sessions and pick the kids up from school?
@trinityharmon51072 ай бұрын
@@jean3030 a job that understands about being a single father
@Alice152102 ай бұрын
@@jean3030 my nephew is a data analyst.... I found him babysitting his niece and watching a movie, I asked him what he's doing.. he was working 😂😂😂😂 I still don't know the mechanics of the work but he gets awards for his contributions
@URLHASBEENBANNED2 ай бұрын
10:28 why did the audio change
@trinityharmon51072 ай бұрын
@@URLHASBEENBANNED i realized that as well (I know nothing about why dude)
@blazingzombiex17242 ай бұрын
Hey guys pro tip here, once a relationship gets physical. Get out. No excuses no “it was a mistake, I was a mental break, it was blah blah blah” get out cause no matter what they’ve shown you their true colors and it WILL happen again no matter how many times they say it won’t
@gtdc46852 ай бұрын
What do you mean by physical 😏
@Njordin20102 ай бұрын
Hm no. Thats not for married couples with kids. Really depends on the situation and severity.
@nathanielchieffallo42732 ай бұрын
@@Njordin2010 yes it is, especially if you have kids get a divorce if your partner is abusive
@Lynn.-_-.Ай бұрын
@@nathanielchieffallo4273 Not everything is abuse. Now if you want to leave a relationship or whatever it's your decision. But damn stop being so god damn annoying and scream abuse at everything. If someone just hits you once it's not abuse unless it's actually a beating or it's constant. We are humans. We can lose control in rage. Now if that's the line you draw that's ok.
@nathanielchieffallo4273Ай бұрын
@@Lynn.-_-. yeah justifying a significant other punching you "because it only happened once" is quite ridiculous. Is this the same ideas you have for children as well? Should children be kept in abusive environments because the abuse "only happened once?" Any decent human being walks away from a situation where they feel as if they are going to be violent. An abusive person doesn't and gets their anger out in a violent manner because they are weak. Abuse isn't a "personal preference" and nobody should be culturally forced to stay in abusive relationships because of age old nonsense about how man + woman = necessary. It never has been, never will be
@jetset8082 ай бұрын
imagine being forced to be with someone you don't like or love or trust to make someone else feel like a good person .. oh the irony
@Shyhalu2 ай бұрын
The narcissism of the parents is beyond mind boggling. "Hurr durr think of the childrenz!!" - the children she abandoned, even legally.
@catherinefijn62532 ай бұрын
Real dirty thing of the parent to manipulate the kids and force their son to give his ex a second chance when that's not up to them. How can anyone take the side of a cheater who wasn't acting like a good mother who physically abused their husband and sociologically turned their kids against their father?!
@mevan8832 ай бұрын
The moment the kids said they would be "punished by God" if they told their father, says it all.
@zack-wk9on2 ай бұрын
the nerve of the wife and the parents is unbelievable
@coriweaver43432 ай бұрын
What kind of insane bs did ops parents just do!!!??? Throw out the whole family! Using god to force the daughters to keep secrets from their father????? That’s so disgusting that they would actually do this to their son!! The mother wasn’t in a corner! She knew what she was doing and did it happily. She never cared about her kids. I hope Op is living a better life after dropping these toxic twisted people
@parrycup72122 ай бұрын
The parents are just " forget and forgive" kind of person, they didn't said it, but their words make it clear.
@LPL12212 ай бұрын
Delusional parents and the useless ex.
@WPDJF2 ай бұрын
"They couldn't tell me because they'd be punished by God" 💔💔
@arthaiser2 ай бұрын
at first it looked like the normal cheater wife story, until the crazy parent nation attacked! what i dont get is how op turned out to be so normal, taking into account that he was surrounded by insanity his whole life
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
Sometimes insanity doesn't reveal itself. It stays hidden.
@chanayplease2 ай бұрын
I come from a dysfunctional family, it can happen and at random. Genetics can skip a generation or more + their environnment. Plus, like Fran said, sometimes it stays hidden scarily enough and takes circumstances like these for it to come out. Some ppl know how to move in silence better than others
@daisyperez33872 ай бұрын
Those “parents” are disgusting for supporting the cheater instead of their own child
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
Not only that but they, in their own words, felt entitled to make decisions for the daughters because they took care of them. While it was awesome of them to do that, based on how quickly after the divorce Angela indoctrinated them it wasn't entirely out of good will. From day 1 they were allowing Angela to see her kids.
@BestMster2 ай бұрын
This story is fake man, don't give this channel the benefit of the doubt
@MetalHanyou12 ай бұрын
"They said that my daughters needed a mother and there was no better mother than angela." A cereal box is a better mother than Angela. She injured her husband, begged him for a second chance, he gave it to her, then she cheated on him and surrendered custody rights to her children and tried to sue him for alimony anyway. Angela is scum. The only reason she is reaching out is because her boyfriend dumped her. OP's parents do not have an equal right to decide what is right for OP's children. That is for OP to decide and OP alone. To hear them try to guilt trip OP into taking her back and to manipulate OP that way is absolutely disgusting. That they scared your daughters the way they did if they told you shows how absolutely unhinged and insane both your parents and your ex are. There's a very real possibility that the stuff she said about Shaun isn't true and that she (and maybe even OP's parents) made it up to try to get sympathy for their situation.
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
I hope OP sends a letter through a lawyer to his deranged parents and ex detailing the statistics of single father households vs 2 parent households vs single mother households. The first 2 are pretty on Parr with eachother with the latter being a complete $hit show. OP statistically doesn't need a woman to help raise his daughters.
@LeniBats2 ай бұрын
*His* parents sticking up for Angela is just as bad as Angela herself. Post partum depression is no excuse for treating anyone like crap or being violent/aggressive towards them.
@russell85353Ай бұрын
Shout out to this dad for standing strong in his position on this crazy situation.
@droganovic68792 ай бұрын
Should probably do a DNA test on your daughters as well, just to be sure 😕
@JustMeDidii2 ай бұрын
That would only hurt him if they aren’t his. He has already excepted that they are his daughter blood does not matter
@droganovic68792 ай бұрын
@@JustMeDidii I thought of that right after I posted the comment. "He probably doesn't care if they're not biologically his" and all that But from a medical standpoint it would still be very beneficial to have a history, so I kinda just left the comment. Figured someone would be as pessimistic as I was and I'd just clarify then 😕
@BaeBunni2 ай бұрын
it really doesn't matter legally either he is on the birth certificate though i'll be honest it would be sort of a moral justice if he found out both his daughters weren't his and he showed his parents the dna results just a "Look at that literally throwing everything away for grandkids not related to you."
@C.G.Gaster2 ай бұрын
There is not much he can do now, blood or not they are his children
@shaszun2 ай бұрын
They are already divorced, better not to do it. This might make him hate the kids and be left with no one anymore.
@lizlemonline29512 ай бұрын
A better mother wouldn’t frighten her children, and disown them for a man. A better mother also wouldn’t sneak around. She’d go to op directly with her true concerns and figure it out. She also wouldn’t let someone threaten them with “punishment from God” or tell a child to lie and keep secrets. They deserved that restraining order. I hope op moves and finds someone else who will truly care for him and his children.
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
I agree. I would 100% be moving and make sure not to tell anyone. If he has 1 or 2 real friends I'd tell them but make sure they know damn well not to go telling anyone else
@GreyLeo2 ай бұрын
If a husband or wife works 12hrs a day they should never have to clean up the house when they come home. On off days sure butt not when they are working
@Shyhalu2 ай бұрын
No, not even on off days. That is for yardwork and etc. Cleaning a house, cooking, and doing laundry are not difficult things to do. We all do them when we are single, children eventually take care of themselves and help with chores. The laziness of modern women is insane.
@redbonehaitian2 ай бұрын
The fact that she still chose a man that who told her to abandon her children is wild . Hiw you look at that man and say " yup he is the one for me "
@tallyp.76432 ай бұрын
And her parents wanted her with that Shawn guy... would love to know how they felt about him after he abandoned their pwecious daughter, considering they reveled in OP's misery and helped her cheat with the Shawn guy in the first place. OP seems to be the only sane person in crazy town.
@JRMAV12 ай бұрын
Boomer parents showing their true colors once again
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
My bet is OP's mom cheated on her husband and he didn't have the ballz to get a divorce. He chose to reconcile and be a doormat cuck. Only way I can see them being ok with a cheater who singed away her parental rights
@flavioilda12 ай бұрын
It's ok to feel sorry for the people who hurt you. It's *not* ok to reconcile right away, especially if you still don't trust them. You'll know that the person who hurt you has truly changed when they either only try to reach out to apologize and then leave you be, *or* when you don't want to hear them and they respect your boundaries.
@patricklitterallyit41642 ай бұрын
I actually feel so awful for poor OP. For so many years he was lied to, manipulated and betrayed by everyone around him. Nobody was on his side. And the monsters used his own daughters against him by threatening them like an abusive parent would. Poor guy how can people be so evil???
@thisisastrobbery3632 ай бұрын
My ass would be telling Shawn she went behind his back and to take her son in the divorce so she cant have any lmao
@KK-452 ай бұрын
His entire ecosystem is working against him.
@akiko3688Ай бұрын
Lol he needs to run
@InsatiableMonkey2 ай бұрын
So thankful to have a wife who is faithful, works hard on maintaining our home, shopping, planning, feeding us, etc., etc., etc. A good marriage is built, not found, and it takes both parties.
@elitefdc21712 ай бұрын
why not contact the cheating partner new company? who in right mind will hire cheater and homewrecker?
@lyra66952 ай бұрын
Oh his parents is asssss
@chandrarice90002 ай бұрын
So glad that he got a RO against all of them. Those parents are horrible.
@curtisjackson40902 ай бұрын
With friends (family) like that, WHO NEEDS ENEMIES
@annabellegarcia42402 ай бұрын
Parents were wrong.
@sophieb7772 ай бұрын
You're the only parent in this whole messed up scenario who seems to have any loyalty towards your kids. They're all insane!
@mailmuncher93462 ай бұрын
I was %100 positive that the parents were religious after they try to make him forgive the cheater and i was like "yep i knew it" when the kids say they got threatened to be punished by god. Religious parents are always the same
@micaholson10522 ай бұрын
This really is just heartbreaking all around....Having not just your wife cheat on you but her AND your parents manipulate you behind your back makes you feel like you're all alone in the world....That no one had your back. And that you have to force yourself to stay strong because you have kids....I swear that op needs a hug from someone and needs to hear that everything will be ok.
@kidhoodmealz2 ай бұрын
does anyone else have a strange obsession with reddit stories like i watch like 3-5 vids a day esp when im eating
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
I do too, it helps me realize how blessed I am to have amazing parents and sisters. Our problems have never been 1% as crazy as reddit stories
@wambamimsam37802 ай бұрын
i wish more were on spotify because i listen during work
@Zaine_022 ай бұрын
Imagine this : what if the roles we’re switched, like Angela gets cheated on by her husband, do you think Angela would want to see him EVER AGAIN, exactly so why should he let back the personne who ruined his marriage back into his life just because he SECOND ex-husband dumped her
@sy8jr80Ай бұрын
Good man, I am proud of you for standing up for your daughters and trying to make their lives as safe as possible.
@donaldkue2364Ай бұрын
Great job brother! Even toxicity from family could ruin your life. You did the right thing!
@itzghally13112 ай бұрын
That facts that the parents thought they had a say in his broken realationship just because they helped take care of their grandchildren is ridiculous
@randomusername38732 ай бұрын
13:40 "It was a difficult choice" It's not supposed to be a difficult choice. If a guy tells you to choose between him or your children, you shouldn't even think about it before telling him to eff off Why do people always hear this arguments that make the person look worse and use them to excuse her?
@vinaydavis67862 ай бұрын
Hello my name is Vin, and i fully support you being a father whose mother abandoned their own children is not an easy thing, you have my respect 👍 And God bless your daughters and i wish my part of happiness also goes to you and your daughters. Whenever you feel low always remember we are here for you 🙂.
@royal-wolf2 ай бұрын
With family like that, who needs enemies?
@mehdimusa63272 ай бұрын
The simp power is strong in this one😂
@Twittershouldceasetoexist2 ай бұрын
I don’t know what’s worse betrayal by your parents or betrayal by a cheating spouse
@FrutoseDeMorango2 ай бұрын
Crazy how op is ok with killing the kid and how he didn’t do a single big move against that woman when she assaulted him. That woman is a monster, hope that he has a happy ending after all and don’t get mistreated again
@darkness50192 ай бұрын
The grandparents don’t get to decide who their grandchildren mom is going to op ex wife is no longer their mom she didn’t care for them the only people who can decide who the kids new mom is going to be is their dad and the children
@georgeblair38942 ай бұрын
I haven't gotten through the story - but the reason "Angela" is so moody after the second one is because it wasn't the OPs.
@ThickestSkull032 ай бұрын
Bruh, even his own family turned out to be crazy in the end. Glad he got that restraining order.
@jacquelinenovak21272 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear this happened to you! My husband was cheated on by the woman he was with before me. He kicked her out and filed for divorce and she stalked us for several years after, acting like it was our fault. When in reality I didn't even meet him until about 6 months after he filed for divorce. So Much I could share about that crazy b**** but we'd be here for hours lol. But know that you did the right thing looking out for your daughters and I commend you for seeking out family counseling. Beautiful to see a dad looking out for his family. If she ever cared that much, she wouldn't have seriously planned on leaving her family to begin with... some people are just ridiculous! Best wishes to you and your family!
@calebthedoomguy2730Ай бұрын
I would never let my parents see those kids again. That level of betrayal can never be forgiven
@dthomason11922 күн бұрын
I would never, ever speak with parents or ex-wife ever again. As a matter of fact, i would get restraining orders against all of them.
@uncommon_name9337Ай бұрын
I feel bad for the other kid in these cases.
@thousandyardgavri2785Ай бұрын
I swear.... when the cheater say "IM WILLING TO GIVE US ANOTHER SHOT" its so funny and disgusting at the same time. Its like saying "Im willing to be forgiven now" alltho to them its actually "Im ready to forgive you for not forgiving me"
@crimsontzy723416 күн бұрын
Imagine being lied to behind your back for 5 YEARS MAN.
@kalcibone2 ай бұрын
secretly start looking for work elsewhere so you can move while they cant find you.
@elreyes777Ай бұрын
The parents are more than free to take her in if she’s such a good mother.
@od3rfla29 күн бұрын
His parents really said to his kids “don’t tell the truth to yo daddy or God will punish you!” Boy! Lying is not what God wants bruh!
@justmika6964Ай бұрын
Dang, shattered his trust like that glass table.
@gamefan7321Ай бұрын
Abused him, cheated on him, and gave up all parental rights, and the cherry on top of manipulating his parents and daughters behind his back for years. Then had the unmitigated gall to show up on his door asking him to take her back and raise another man's kid. Like it makes you wonder where she learned how relationships work.
@2BreezyyyАй бұрын
Bruh the beginning of this story already had me fucked up but then it only kept getting worse, damn, may god be good with this man.
@boomerhunter5705Ай бұрын
His parents changed teams😂
@RG-vs8qzАй бұрын
People will destroy their family, cause pain to them and then try to come back like nothing happened.
@user-hq6nh3yh3kАй бұрын
the betrayal of your own blood is much more painfull than betrayal of your wife.. protect your children from them at all cost
@MrDucktastic2 ай бұрын
Angela pushed her husband through a glass table and both sets of parents took her side. Either OP is a massive douche and not self aware or he should have ghosted them all a while ago. They are clearly ok with domestic violence going one way.
@NoanIsVeryEpic2 ай бұрын
Op's parents were fully kn op's side throughout the divorce. Also op didn't know that his parents were still in touch with angelo
@MrDucktastic2 ай бұрын
@@NoanIsVeryEpic Ah yes. Forgot that part. I am not normally a "nuke this relationship from orbit" type guy but his parents are fucked up. Who the hell puts a psychotically violent woman in touch with their grandkids? Mother or not she sounded unhinged. If the gender was reversed she would have seen jail time and never seen those kids again.
@jessicapyropeАй бұрын
"They would be punished by God if they did" Wow what a great way to religiously traumatize your grandchildren.
@TheoTungstenАй бұрын
Statistics: if one person makes more than 70% of the total income of the household, both parties are more likely to cheat.
@haroondaman7162Ай бұрын
What about 100% and 0%?
@TheoTungstenАй бұрын
@@haroondaman7162 If the wife makes 100% of the income the man, the husband has a 15% chance to cheat, if their income was equal both would have a 5% chance. Didn’t find statistics of would happen if the husband makes 100% of the income.
@haroondaman7162Ай бұрын
@@TheoTungsten huh, that's very odd, traditionally the husband would make all the money, and they didn't collect data on that?
@Valiant062 ай бұрын
"This all ends now" is a cold a## line
@ElRay64Ай бұрын
I still think she should have a relationship with her kids, divorce still stands thou
@ethanisom3720Ай бұрын
Bro was flying in the Minecraft clips
@maebell2272 ай бұрын
You did everything right. You are an amazing husband and father. The world would be a wonderful place if more men acted ur way. 🎉😊 Great job dad!!
@maseridesu2 ай бұрын
Are the OP’s parents on DRUGS?! WTF!!
@frantheman12872 ай бұрын
Nahh my bet OP's mom cheated. You know what they say about "birds of a feather flock together". And OP's dad is a spineless cuck so he sees no problem either
@josephg3739Ай бұрын
Time to get rid of his parents and move away , those aren't good parents
@daylightzero2 ай бұрын
In the parents eyes, its against god to get away from your cheating wife and also against god to tell the truth to your dad.
@mikesimms57508 күн бұрын
At around 9ish minutes, where he explains the divorce/alimony arrangement, he fucks up and the lie falls apart. Ain't no way a sole breadwinner with a kid doesn't get a monthly bill out of a divorce.
@gidneybeansАй бұрын
Angela signing away her rights as a mother tells you everything you need to know about her.
@kyodarkness9243Ай бұрын
That "shawn" guy must've done Angela pretty good for her to be willing to abandon her own daughters to be with him.
@jamesalexander81932 ай бұрын
The only way karma could have hit her harder would be if shaun was cheating on her like she did op. I have a feeling she might do time in prison for this, she had no rights to the kids and has a history of violence. The grandparents might even get something like criminal conspiracy, child endangerment and emotional abuse if not psychological abuse and that is without the threats to the children.