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[@CharlotteCC68]

I went through this in my late thirties early forties . Really bad night sweats. Periods stopped at 46 . Then Anxiety started . It’s a battle for sure . I am glad you are talking about it because people don’t. HRT made me more depressed . The things that help me the most is limit sugar,wheat. Get out for a walk I go to the beach with my dog . My oldest children live away and my youngest is autistic. And became a single mum 6 years ago . We got this , you are doing the right things xxx

[@kirabrightwell1955]

My little girl got diagnosed with autism last month she 7

[@CharlotteCC68]

@@kirabrightwell1955 I hope you are managing to get the help she needs . It’s such a long process xx

[@janeplatt8254]

Juliette there is no need to apologise, and if people give you grief take no notice, they are not worth it . Keep your chin up girl love jane

[@BeingMrsDudley]

Thank you so much Jane ❤️ xxxx

[@marielouise9126]

I would have thought you were too young for peri menopause but your symptoms are very similar to mine but I’m 50. I keep waking up in a state of panic, my anxiety is through the roof and for no reason whatsoever. Mine is cyclical and I’ve also been suffering with severe insomnia. I’ve never suffered with anxiety before and this makes me feel detached from reality at times. I’ve had to go outside and breathe in air as I feel like I’m suffocating sometimes. I’m on HRT now but I’ve had to have the dose upped so we’ll see how I go. It’s really horrible and I totally understand where you are coming from. I love watching your videos as you are such a real genuine person.X

[@BeingMrsDudley]

Hi Marie, I’m so sorry to hear you’ve suffered with the same symptoms. The waking up in a panic is just a feeling I cannot explain but it’s not nice and can just throw your whole day off. I completely can relate to going outside to take deep breaths of fresh air! I do that a lot. I hope you are ok and thank you so much for sharing. It’s a nice feeling to at least know we are not alone xxx

[@rosielee1831]

Can relate Juliette, have you looked into PMDD? I've got this it's awful. I went onto low dose sertraline and honestly, saved my life. Healthy diet and exercise definitely helps too x

[@mizzithorpe1079]

Hi juliet listen bab take one day at a time it just proves your normal,these things do happen ,but you have got to realise it’s being a woman you will and can over come this keep your mind filled with good thing s tell yourself in that week I’m not going to except this it’s not going to rule me , and keep telling yourself that ,you’ve come along way I’ve been watch your vids for years and you have come a long way focus on all your good negative throw it away you are special and beautiful and you are what god made so that in its self is great stop worrying,cuz you will get over this you are a overcommer, please juliet just chin up we all love you and so dose the good lord sweetheart you will be ok .

[@SusanRyder-o3l]

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[@BeingMrsDudley]

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[@heathermcconnell7742]

Juliette hi if you can keep a diary of your symptoms for your doctor it sounds like you need your hormones checked try to talk to a female doctor if possible! Im currently going through the menopause after having endometriosis all these years so hormones have been a nightmare (ask my other half lol) take time for you we will all still be here x

[@BeingMrsDudley]

Hi Heather! Yes! I have started to do this over the last month, I’ve been trying to follow and track my moods. I love that- ask my other half 😂 sometimes I think Matt deserves a medal sorry to hear you’ve had such a battle with it. I think my only fear is that it gets worse which is why I’m trying to get a good understanding now. Thank you so much for watching ❤️ lots of love to you xxx

[@heathermcconnell7742]

@@BeingMrsDudley if you feel you need to ask to be referred to a gynecologist, you know your body best! I had to fight to get my endometriosis diagnosis saw so many gynecologists over a couple of years but it was worth it to know I wasn't imagining it x take care x

[@BelindaChapman]

I really feel for you. I’m suffering really badly with menopausal anxiety. Have you considered you could be Perimenopausal? What you’re saying about being in contact with people and not responding to messages resonates with me so much. Sending lots of love xxxx

[@carmencamilleri8421]

I am pre menopausal ( have been told that until my periods stop completely ) as I still have maybe 2 a year. I am suffering terribly with my anxiety and shut myself off too, I get very tearful for absolutely no reason. I have been offered HRT but have refused it, I am currently researching natural remedies to help instead.

[@carolbarrett9059]

You do for you hun.......I am 63 and still having problems with my hormones and my anxieties are so bad I hate going outside even, but I try to stay positive. You are such a lovely person with a wonderful family, I always see you so cheerful and positive and found myself wishing I could be more like you. I have been going through the change since my late 30's had the coil fitted which helped and had it removed when I was 56......now for the last 6 yrs my periods came back. I had tests, a histeroscopy then 3 yrs later I have had a biopsy and they decided to put a coil back in but since then which was early march this yr I was constantly bleeding and just settling down this last 2wks. So sorry to give a long run down on me but as I say you do what you want for yourself and not to worry about others. Most of your followers will always be here for you no matter what. Take care ❤xx

[@jackieedwards2023]

Hi Juliette I will start with I don’t always comment but I do watch all your amazing videos I think u r one of the nicest people on here and I do watch a few and I must say how pretty u r without makeup 💄 u look so young and fresh so sorry u r going through this bad time I have been through a lot with all this hormone struggles it’s not good and it sounds to me u r going through it at the moment please get help as it takes a long time to get it right it could be me u r taking about the is so many women who go through this so well done on speaking out u have done a good job already so good on u we all know how caring and kind a person u r so don’t let any silly sad boring people get u down u r too good for that good luck with everything don’t apologise to us we r your friends and we understand take care lovely lady keep smiling 😊🌈🫶💐u k Jackie

[@lollipopspiper2376]

Aw Juliette 😢 I get the same, a friend of mine does too. It’s like you know how short tempered and unrational you are being, but you can’t stop the red mist. Go to your drs they can help, evening primrose oil is good too xx sending hugs ❤

[@julesj9217]

Thank you for making me feel human and not alone im going through the change and some days are hell i also have a long term health condition which has changed my life we all support you Juliette and so many of us will totally realate to what you are going through x wish i had answers for you but one thing my doctor said was please take time for yourself! Rest up and take care of yourself lovely lady 💓 xxx

[@emmaprice5605]

I completely empathise with you. I’m having major hormonal issues at the moment and am in perimenopause. By the way I’m 39 and people often say “too young” but I’m under a consultant and it’s not too young! Trying to figure out how to get through the hormonal imbalances and anxiety, brain fog, weight gain, mood swings, acne and all the other delightful stuff 😂 You got this though and no one will ever judge ❤

[@JSSAN]

perimenopause is a nightmare isn't it? Why did no one ever tell us about this. I was only ever told about hot flushes. I hope you will get the help you need xxxx

[@shirl528]

I really feel your pain, I know exactly what you're going through, I'm premenopausal, and the anxiety, low moods, wired brain is just awful but I find taking supplements for it has definitely helped and I highly recommend ashwagandha it really has been a massive help to me. Xx

[@angelasimkins5300]

Hi juliette , everything you are saying is exactly what ive been throught . In my 40s. Peri menopause. I struggled on for so long taking herbal tablets . Hoping id get through it . Then went to the doctors. Hrt is now my best friend . Dont wait i feel like ive got my life back . Take care my lovely x

[@emmawilde7806]

I feel for you I really do, what you describe is exactly how I used to feel for about 10days a month and it was utterly horrendous!! Mine got worse and worse over 7months and I got to the point I wanted to walk out of my home and just disappear or i would have ended up hurting myself if i hadnt done anything, I felt awful, I had the implant which stopped my periods and I've never looked back! The best thing I have done!!! That was nearly 9 years ago and I am 43 this year and I dread to think where I'd be if I hadn't had it done, not saying it would work for everyone but it definitely worked for me, wishing you all the best as I know exactly what you are experiencing xx

[@zandrajayne]

Hi lovrly I am so happy to see you again. I feel exactly the same I have had depression for 19 years and this last 2 years has been the worst ever I just get anxiety about leaving the house I get anxiety when it’s bee to hot I just shut myself away and go to bed I’m sending you lots of love and hugs 🤗💕

[@Charlik1968]

Bless your beautiful soul Juliette , can I just say watching all your old videos the past few years late at night , when I was not feeling the best , u really pulled me through with your positivity , kindness and graciousness , ur such a beautiful soul , I hope you sort out ur hormones , maybe get checked for perimemopause it can start early although your quiet young , lots of love sweet lady 💖💖🥰🥰💕💕

[@laurawithington8132]

Listen to me carefully. I was the same for the 3 years after having my baby. Snapping at her and my husband for no reason, being paranoid that people at work were against me and trying to take my job, angry at my friends for being happy and rational……my doctor prescribed Escitalopram and I haven’t looked back I am a new person. Speak to your GP, j don’t take them all the time just when I get in the down spiral. You’re gonna be fine and you’re gonna sort this all out, but please don’t feel like you’re alone, I look in the mirror and feel like crap but then someone on the school run will say I look so healthy today- it’s perception! You’re beautiful and an amazing mum and hard worker, you’re be fine sweetheart x

[@janenicholls3572]

Hi lovely. I’m just watching your vlog and I’m up to the part where you are talking about periods and mood.I’m a 50 year old woman who has gone through exactly what you are. I’m not sure how old you are but mine started around 35 years old. Everything you said was me.I felt like a different person.I struggled on for years and last year (age 49) I went to my nurse with all the symptoms I had.she put me on HRT and honestly shugs I’m back to myself I’ve never felt so good. Please please go to your nurse. I’m sure there’s something they can help you with maybe not HRT but there will be something. Xxx love your channel and I’ve followed you for years. Love you mrs. Xx

[@sharonhughes7895]

Most women go through the same. If they don't they are very lucky. Never doubt yourself. Your a fab mum and influencer. Just take care and love yourself. As we all love you xx

[@redgirl01]

Thank you for this video. So many women struggle hormonally each month so thank you for sharing this with us all. Have you looked into supplements like evening primrose oil and maca root? They both help to balance your hormones. After ovulation our esteogen levels can plummet and that could be what’s affecting your mood. ❤ Also… I think sanding those stools down and varnishing them to match your worktops would be fabulous! Hang in there❤❤

[@paulinepratt6624]

Just go with how you feel . If you know it’s just a weeks worth of feeling down . Love your videos and you are relatable in all your ups and downs . Lots of us shop with Temu X

[@jennypops02may]

Please never worry about us and not putting videos out, we understood and will always be here for you. I think we can all sympathise with how you are feeling and have experienced some of those intense feelings. I am older than you and before I started on HRT I felt I was having out of body experiences, I would shout at my husband over nothing. I can hear myself say it but it’s not me thinking it if that makes sense! Things will get better perhaps go and speak to your GP. Just remember we love you and if someone doesn’t like a video they should just turn off. Big hugs. Xxx

[@janew1226]

Stay strong, we will always be here for you, anyone who badmouths you isn't worth it and they only do it for a reaction! Love your videos ❤

[@lisas-j]

You are just lush and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!! I also make KZbin videos and get the odd nasty/negative comments, like you I also delete! We sound so similar as people, I started to struggle from the age of 40 (now 46) and knew there was changes but got fobbed off every time. Drs don’t take Perimenopause seriously until the age of 45 which I think is disgusting as you can suffer for 10 years! I’m now on HRT but also take Sage capsules as they are supposed to be good. I still suffer with periods and ovulating each month and as well as working full time plus KZbin it’s hard going and like you sometimes don’t upload for a while. We are only human and a lot of people don’t realise how much time and effort goes into these videos. Just carry on being the beautiful soul you are ❤️ I only live about an hour away if you ever wanted to talk xxxx

[@BrookelynnesBeautyCorner]

Awk Juliette I’m so sorry you are going through hormonal problems. Could it be PMDD? That’s a worse form of PMS that causes severe mood swings, bad anxiety, depression etc. if I were you I’d be straight to my doctor because it needs treated especially as it’s really affecting your day to day life. Big hugs and hopefully it gets sorted and you feel better soon xxx

[@cstracey]

Juliette, you are one of the most genuine and down to earth KZbinrs out there. Your honestly is humbling and relatable as a woman. Keep doing you and don’t sweat the small stuff. ❤

[@JSSAN]

Anxiety and depression and all the feelings you say you feel about yourself are awful to live with Juliette. I completely understand why you find it hard to even describe it all. I've lived with the same thing since childhood and the self doubt and feeling not good enough are probably the hardest part to cope with. I was taking hormone supplements in my teens as part of my problems would be worse at certain times of the month, but also anxiety and depression was something I saw in some adults around me and because I was a sensitive child it got me bullied so that made it all worse. Also on the subject of what people may say to you online. There are some vile people out there who use the internet to say stuff to youtubers or vloggers/influencers and I don't think they even realise that you are human and you have feelings and words can hurt, even if they are just typed to you and may not be meant in a bad way..when you are inundated with multiple comments every day, even when the majority are good comments, you will focus on the ones which upset you. Personally, I find you very realistic and refreshing to watch. You don't brag and don't put a foot wrong flower, honestly. Even if you did, you still wouldn't deserve the ramblings of vexed viewers who want to moan at you over stuff. Hark at me, I'm rambling now lol. I just understand that you're a kind person who wants to please your viewers and who wants to be realistic and relatable..and you take things to heart a lot which I for one definately understand. People you know may tell you that you over think or over analyse stuff.....but people with anxiety, depression, hormonal fluctuations cannot help doing that. It's who we are. Sorry for babbling on. Just do videos when you feel like doing them. It's like with friendships, we can go weeks without speaking to a good friend, but it doesn't make us think any less of them. You have to take care of yourself, and know that those of us who enjoy your videos won't mind as long as you are ok. Sending love to you. xxxx Sorry for writing a novel in your comment section

[@amyb8693]

Hi Juliette, im 43 and can completely empathise with the rage out of no where, not wanting to talk to people and defo the anxiety. To be honest theres loads more on top of that for me, aches and pains restless leg etc etc. You arent on your own and tbh theres prob an element of all these symptoms that wont go away until the menopause has passed 😕 However doing the things you are like making yourself feel better with diet and exercise etc, plus taking oil of evening primrose and b12 are meant to be beneficial although it might be a good idea to consult your GP (id ask to see a female dr or nurse practitioner). Have wanted a folding treadmill for so long! Will defo check this out 😊 Keep your chin up, you can only please some of the people some of the time, people can be ridiculous at times 🩷

[@karenwhale6087]

Hi Juliette 1st time commenting here, have you had your thyroid checked. For years, I struggled with everything you are struggling with. I am now in my mid fifties, and I was only diagnosed 6 years ago. Please insist your GP carries out a thyroid blood test, if not look at Thriva on line, I ended up contacting a nutritionist in Stourbridge who has supported me throughout, I am on medication from the GP and supplements from the nutritionist. Research Under Active Thyroid, please don't suffer like I did for years xxx

[@nicolacousens2839]

I take Nature’s Aid PremEeze Angus Castus which I buy from Amazon. I take one a day and it’s helped me with sore boobs and some of my anxiety/mood swings. I also had the Mirena Coil fitted to help with my hormone levels and am waiting for a blood test to check my levels again. Lots of love and hugs xxx

[@tinastone7368]

Juliet, please Google a lady called Barbara O’Neil. She’s an Australian lady who own’s a retreat but she’s extremely knowledgeable. I’ve just been diagnosed with breast cancer and was looking at alternative treatments. Try and find the tutorials on breast cancer. Very informative and she talks in great depth about hormones. One thing I picked up on was your recent gym gear having phone pockets included. You really need to research everything she has to say … good luck 👍

[@alexandrahaynes8130]

Your hair looked lovely wavy. Also sounds like you are at the beginning of perimenopause. See your gp, research hrt, don't ignore it. Hrt has major benefits to preventing dementia, anxiety, etc. But please talk to your gp x

[@jocanham44]

It’s so hard to explain and describe these feelings. My hormones were up and down and I felt the same as you did. My GP said that quality of life was important and as much as I wanted to do things naturally, I eventually gave in and am now on HRT hormone gel. It has helped so much but I have to keep telling myself I am not adding anything, just replacing what is lost. Why don’t you have a blood test to see where your hormone levels are. You don’t need to apologise for anything. Your one of the nicest and best out there. 😊

[@Jane-dg3rr]

You are a lovely lovely person. Completely understand all your feelings and moods - I think a lot of us have been there and still are 🌸🌸

[@chrisjackson-smith5236]

Oh bless you Juliette, your candid and honest description of the depression that you feel made me quite tearful on your behalf. I can empathise with you and understand the debilitating effect of feeling this way. If I could wave a magic wand for you I would! Take care x

[@Nattymason118]

Just wanted to say I love you to bits and you absolutely don’t need to apologise or justify yourself. There are people who live for drama and keyboard warriors that like to make others feel rubbish to make themselves feel better, but the majority of us watch KZbin for our own enjoyment and if I don’t like a certain style of someone’s videos or a particular video for whatever reason, I just don’t watch. We don’t pay you to show up every week, so you don’t owe us anything if you need to take time for your lovely self. You are human and you have a life and a family just like everyone else so you and your family should always be priority. Keep just being you and if we get to watch your videos then we are the lucky ones. Sending so much love and hope there is something amazing out there that will help during the tough weeks. X

[@rosinaspeakman5162]

Juliette would say its time to see gp get your bloods checked 💖 you don't have to apologise for anything sweetheart i know that when you dont pop up your not feeling up to it been watching long enough to understand why 😘😘 ooh block and delete because they are not doing it because their upset they think they have a right tobsay whatever they want as for the one you did about how foundation affected you i would say it was informing anyone who uses it that it could happen to them did you go back to primark about it???? You are very beautiful and amazing mum and wife who does 3 jobs plus think you still do cleaning for a family member correct me if im wrong 😘😘 love and hugs sweetheart 💕💕💕

[@sueanderson9860]

Juliette. This made me so sad. I just love your channel and you are so sweet and genuine. My daughter has a terrible struggle with anxiety and I’ve seen her exactly the way you’ve described you feel doing those times. It’s a shit hand to be dealt! Maybe see a hormone specialist and see if you could could get something to help you through this. I was thrown into very early menopause due to radiotherapy for pelvic cancer and was a wreck until I got on some bio identical hormones. Sending hugs! xx

[@patriciaportman7933]

I think you might be going threw peri menopause hun I had a hysterectomy because of Endometriosis so I had different symptoms to you my cousin is struggling with the same as you just been put on h.r.t...I diddent take it myself but there will be alot of ladies understanding how you feel its bloody hard being a woman we understand don't beat yourself up xx

[@vivmatz1189]

I think your lovley followed you for a while ,I love all your videos,geek th coming chick xxxxxx❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@tonyahall395]

You have described the way I have been feeling lately as well. I panic in my dreams then wake up feeling horrible. My moods are so up and down. I want to cry for no reason. I have decided it’s my hormones too. Maybe talk to your doctor or gynecologist for a hormone test. I pray for you that you feel better.

[@MultiAsus2011]

Hi Juliette! I understand you so much! I am struggling too and I feel so alone with that 😭😭 Thank you for sharing and take care ♥️

[@michelleknapp8686]

Juliette never say sorry for not loading I went through and still going through this stage of peri menopause and had to start HRT as it got to the point I wanted to end my life . I was scared to start HRT but it’s helping . I’m on a healthier lifestyle too hello fresh has helped me Loads on meal ideas I’m not the best cook x I know I was hard for you doing this . But honestly sharing is better than hiding lots of hugs 🤗 sent your way from not so sunny Wiltshire x

[@kristinparry5269]

Sorry you are finding things so tough. I know you are still young but have you thought about the possibility of being perimenopausal ? Xx

[@juliehall3987]

You aren’t on your own for sure with your hormones. Can I ask what you did to track what was happening to you to get a pattern maybe a short vlog. I love watching your vlogs I found you a couple of months ago😊take care x

[@joannejobling5754]

It could be perimenapause as this can start in your 30s. Maybe see a doctor. Lovely without makeup and lashes ❤ x

[@lisajones542]

Hay juilette I was feeling like this the last Yr and it was pre menopause May be you should check its not that even thou you get periods it still can be I have just gone on patches and feel better I really lost my way and felt so sad and low and lots more things but won't bore you keep being you and look after yourself and any negativity ignore ❤

[@mandyrobertson5263]

Aww beautiful lady, i no exactly what u r going through, i was just the same as you when i was about 35 tears old, i found out that it was the start of peri menopause, so maybe try and talk to your gp, i am now 51 and was constantly told you are too young to go through the menopause, but my nan and mum went through it early too. I may not be this, i have been there in that dark place, and it is soo hard to live with, please please if you need to talk i am here for you darling xxx

[@alisondoughty2194]

Juliette you have lots of friends .When a vlog reply arrives only read the first few words and that will inform you if it's a nasty one.Sooo not worth reading them.🎉😊

[@roseannadonovan5493]

I've just watched your video..I love your honesty..please don't be too hard on yourself ❤

[@cindypiccirillo4323]

Bless u . I hav been there in my life . Every month wen I was due a period . Please go and talk to your doctor they will help xx

[@nicholecox3108]

You're amazing lady. Amazing mom is all when you feel like that. My heart was at you but you are amazing

[@trudydenston4465]

Just be you and don't make any apologies for being yourself everyone is unique and we all have different opinions and views on things it would be boring if we all thought the same. As long as people are kind and respectful to others thats all thaf matters. Dont take any notice of negative comments its not worth your brain power when they dont even know you.

[@maxinebowater4211]

Hi Juliette I love watching your video . Can you tell me the name of the protein powder please. I looked on the site I can't find it

[@cindypiccirillo4323]

Please don't worry about anyone else but u . Go see your doctor and tell them how u are feeling Please . I'll pray for u 🙏. Xx

[@3Chattymum]

Good to see you back and for your honesty. Have you seen a Dr about how you are struggling? Xx

[@melanietiernan8771]

Aww Juliette, I feel your pain. I'm through the worst of it now. But I had mood swings, night sweats and anxiety. I found that evening primrose capsules helped me. I love to see anything you put on KZbin. I feel like I've got a connection with you. My husband and his family come from Birmingham. We now live in Lincolnshire. I understand the crying, I've just had a brain tumour operation and it's left me with my emotions very sensitive. I cry at anything and feel so sad. But there's no reason for me to be upset and sad. Anyway I hope you can find a treatment and feel better soon. Keep ya chin up. Sending best wishes.

[@nicholecox3108]

I get like that but I write things down so I can look back and see what's triggered my dep

[@daniellebrogan8699]

I have a walking pad, i do like it but it seems to hurt my knee and hip unfortunately

[@kimsmith5514]

Thank you for sharing something so personal. There is no need to apologise. I find I apologise too often and someone helped me realise that by apologising I am reaffirming my negative self talk. There is a time to apologise when we have truly done something wrong. But feeling your emotion and being honest is not one of those times. I have had the hormonal rollercoasters too and it‘a lonely. But please know you are not alone. I had Adenomyosis which created heavy periods and excessive bleeding and my mood swings were horrendous. So I had a hysterectomy which really made a difference. But I had one ovary left which means I am now experiencing the mood swings again due to menopause! It’s not easy being a woman but you are doing great 🥰

[@theeggtimertictic1136]

Aww don't beat yourself up ❤ Hormones can be a drag and get us down or angry ... I've experienced this for the first 3 months of pregnancy and one of my daughters has a really hard time with all that 😢. Everytime she goes to the doctor they suggest the pill (which she tried but she got worse). I dont think doctors really know much about womens problems! Negative comments are a given on the internet but most people forget about them after they make them so don't worry (easy to say I know). I probably said something about shopping with Temu (I actually can't remember). But my daughters shop with Shein occasionally and we have discussions about it. Its not the end of the World ... I'm a hypocrite a lot of the time truth be told. Look after yourself and thank you for sharing... it makes us feel more normal 😊

[@kathleenbirch7953]

You only have to be true to yourself the people who love your chanal will understand.

[@emilycollis7636]

Juliette!! So sorry you have to deal with this. I have had this throughout my whole adult life. I’ve wondered if it is PMDD but got fed up of going to the doctors. They would just say stressed/depressed but I knew I’m not. I’ve really found changing my diet has helped so much- the hunter/gatherer diet has changed my health so much and my mood is more stable on it. I’m older than you so maybe things have changed- speak to your GP it’s got to be worth it. Also, I have done a lot of self help - a counselling course, learned about myself through the enneagram which is amazing at hello you understand yourself well it has been for me. The thing that I really identify with you is the sensitivity and the people pleasing and this last year that has changed from counselling and my life has changed. Not saying you need counselling but I have learned to get I. Touch with and name the feelings and sit with the feelings and accept them and that has worked wonders. Also going grain free has really helped with my energy levels and mood. Sounds mad I know but maybe these things could help you too. The main thing is that you are not alone ❤

[@emilycollis7636]

Helping not hello 😂

[@nicky25294]

I was 40 when my hormones started see if you can get bloods done

[@beckyjanejen]

I completely understand what you’re saying. I suffer terribly the same as you so please don’t feel alone in this. I’m sorry I don’t have any miracle answer. I wish I did, I would share it with you in a heartbeat. What I tend to do is spoil myself a bit, eat what I fancy and if I want to soak in the bath or watch Netflix in bed then I do it with no guilt allowed! I got the 5 minute journal from Amazon. Filling it in every day really helps me as it forces me to think of something I’m grateful for, a positive thought to end the day as well as identifying good and bad things that have happened that day. If I’m having a dark day mentally then it helps my brain go somewhere else. Hope this helps, sending so much love. Xx

[@jensarson6937]

Get your blood work done & test your hormones levels with your GP

[@joannedigby9512]

Juliette just take one day at a time and remember that when it’s hard that good days are just around the corner. People who enjoy watching you will be here for whenever you’re ready to share a video so please don’t worry about times when you’re not ready to upload. Hormones are tricky things at all times of your life. Really mess with your head. Take time away when you need to and always do what makes you happy 😊 xxx

[@tereshbotes4338]

Hi Juliette ♡... Im so sorry you are having such a hard time. I often feel the same way so I'm sending all my love! Thank you for taking the time even on hard days to share your life ❤... you are very much loved by all of us.

[@BeingMrsDudley]

Hi Teresh, it’s honestly ok, I just felt it important to share and I’m so glad I feel I can share with all of you lovely people. Thank you for being so supportive as always. Lots of love to you xxx

[@tereshbotes4338]

@@BeingMrsDudley ❤️❤️❤️

[@shatfield1307]

I’m glad you’ve highlighted your struggles. I also get woken by panic attacks where I feel like I can’t breathe and maybe this is cycle related. So thank you I’ll explore this xx

[@BeingMrsDudley]

Hi my lovely. So sorry to hear you suffer with them too. They are genuinely awful maybe you can start to track them too. I’ve started a diary of all my mood and when they happen. I think even then knowing of what week I will struggle has already helped me massively. Kind of gives me a little bit of control in a some way xxx

[@annaris1605]

I feel for you as I have similar issues but am perimenopausal. I hope your GP can advise you.

[@BeingMrsDudley]

Sorry to hear you have similar problems, it’s seems I’m definitely not alone. Thank you ❤️ xxx

[@nicolasadler6795]

Omg you have the same birthday as me 😌

[@jacquelinekeaveney5421]

Sending love to you with your struggles ..I struggle with depression and on mild medication but its a horrible feeling thinking people don't like when you feel down....but I do colouring in adult colouring books or diamond arts or reading to try keeping myself out off way ...having porridge in morning helps as I was told by nurse there's something in it that helps with depression xx stay strong love ❤ love you treadmill xx

[@BeingMrsDudley]

Thank you so much Jacqueline. Sending love back to you as I’m sorry to hear you struggle too. I have actually bought myself some colouring books and have also started reading the Lee child’s books to help so it’s great to hear you recommend it too. Really! I do like porridge especially the chocolate one form protein world so maybe I will start that again too! Thank you so much for watching and taking the time to comment xxx

[@myraconnelly7965]

I follow you Juliette because your such a lovely lady and I enjoy ur content hope you get the help you need sending big hugs ❤

[@HappyNannyDeb]

Awww sweetheart, you are NOT and NEVER will be on your own. Anxiety, clinical depression, any mental problems are suffered by millions of people. It's very well documented and talked about. Please make an appointment with your doctor and DO NOT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER. YOU WILL get through this hunni. Just a thought have you tried Evening Primrose Oil, I found it helpful when I was in my middle 30's up to about age 49-50 when I had completed my Menopause. Holland and Barrett have a great range of supplements for women. It might be a good start to ask your doctor for a hormone level blood test, to see what your levels are. They are obviously not quite right as they as rollercostering and dipping up and down. I really wish I could help you more, I'd go with you to get things sorted, but please feel free to contact me if I can do anything at all. But for now I'll send you a virtual big hug and let you know all your KZbin family are, always. Lots of Love Debs xx chin up and smile 😃 xxxx

[@sophiepaterson7545]

Juliette just look at all of these comments!!!! So many women (me included)are going through the same or similar hormonal issues/perimenopause!!!! Do not apologise, its a part of life that can (in time) be sorted, you are not alone, any negativity like you said just block theyre not worth your time or energy!!! WE LOVE YOU!!!!!💜🧡💙

[@nicholecox3108]

You are an amazing person

[@annbyer3023]

You don’t have to explain, because lots of people are experiencing your symptoms. Have you had tests to see if you’re menopausal or peri at least? Please do. Also find out if it’s possible that you could have PMDD….I’m not sure social media is what you should be worried about right now. I know a few people who’ve been helped if it is menopause related. Tell people if they don’t like the company you work with to go elsewhere. I buy what I like and I don’t care what anyone says. Again, I stress please see your doctor. Thanks for sharing.

[@sabinelloyd8532]

Unbalanced hormones are horrible. I went through Peri menopause and menopause fairly easily, but post menopause I still struggle with with hot flushes, bouts of anxiety and sadness. I don't watch many bloggers but always enjoy your videos.

[@marycarter7623]

Hi Juliette, Listen my darling girl. Stop beating yourself up! I dip in and out of your channel and I'm 61 .... in number only ... and I think you are amazing!! I wish I could do what you do pet. You 'show up' on your terms. Hormones are a part of life and you are entitled to feel off so do not beat yourself up. Go with the flow....mmm is that too literal!! You are important and you are a fabulous girl. I love your confidence so please keep doing what your doing and fook the begrudgers...they will ALWAYS be there pet xx love you Mary Carter Ireland d xxx

[@sunshine-bs2jx]

May i also just a thought but would the pill not help all this hormones imbalance. Ive been on it yrs , im now 50 and zero symptoms of pms ever or menopause thankfully but just a thought xxx ❤️

[@sarahhammond1519]

Great video, you don’t have to explain what’s going on in your personal life,but when you talked about your monthly concerns it related to another lady I watch called ‘It’s Em’s channel. She is going through exactly the same and talked openly as you have about her conditions, she may be able to give you some advice x

[@andreamcaloranjones915]

It's called pre menstrual dysphoria juliette, look it up, I can relate have been suffering for 8 yrs now xxx

[@mlxlmewq7733]

And thank you so much for sharing about your mental health journey, it is soooo important that people talk about these experiences xx

[@BeingMrsDudley]

Thank you so much. I do think it is important because for a long time I genuinely thought I was loopy and it was just me. I’m starting to learn that actually there’s alot out there that suffer just the same and I hope it can at least help one person know that they’re not loopy either! 😂 xxx

[@margarethogan4882]

Here are special blood tests that you can get done to let you know what's going on with hormones. Maybe it is a Vit B thing. I know in Ireland the regular blood tests with HSE does not include all blood test so you need to pay for this tests. Around 50 to 100 euros. It's worth a try. My daughter had it done and it is definitely worth it. Take no notice of the negative people. The menopause brings global depression that's why hrt is great. Good luck ❤

[@kirabrightwell1955]

Yep I feel you I’m 45 and I feel like crying over silly thing hot mood swings I been in to the nurses and ask if I’m in early stage to menopause she said I am I had my implant taking out last week as well as dealing with this I have bad anxiety IBS and I got a prolapse my womb come away so you deffo don’t need to apologise I come crossed you and enjoy watching

[@debbieardern3573]

Hi, love your long wavy hair, I noticed your pictures in the background have you a link for them or something similar. 🌺

[@gemmasheldon1985]

I couldn't do what you do. There's too many horrible people hiding behind a screen. They'd never say these things to your face. You look fab by the way, glowing and healthy well done 💓

[@coffeeandcleaning]

Hi Juliette, Just wondering (maybe self explanatory or maybe you already have) have you spoken to your doctors about how your feeling to do with mood and periods? If you tell them you've tracked or logged it, they tend to take you more seriously ❤ also google/research pmdd ❤

[@jakeandlol123]

Juliette that sounds exactly what I feel like,I know I need to talk to someone but just can't explain the feelings,it affects how I feel about people in my life then when it passes I feel so guilty 😢, thankyou for sharing as it makes you feel so alone xx

[@julieenefer2628]

Juliette iv been through, well I'm still going through what you're going through, mine started when I was 38 and I'm now 63, some days I feel great just how you said and then other days I feel like I'm standing at the top of a black hole and I have to fight not to slip into it , the other thing I get ,and from what you said you also get, is a feeling of complete foreboding and that something has happened or is going to happen . All this is a sign of going into the menopause, that is what my doctor told me ,. So go to your doctor and explain how you feel , my doctor put me on citoapram and it really helped but it dose take time. Don't worry love it dose get easier and a lot of women will understand what you are going through. Good look with this part of life but please go to your doctor. Speak to you soon Julie. Xx

[@vivmatz1189]

Keep dam phone

[@christinemurphy8017]

Hi Juliette You have no need to apologise to anybody. Please ignore if you get any negative comments. As women we all go through hormonal problems, once we reach a certain age. I can totally relate to you. I have suffered from panick attacks for years. It all started after the sudden death of a family member, who i loved very much. Ive been told that has what has triggered them. Panick attacks are really scary , you feel like your taking a heart attack. Unless you have suffered from them , you have no idea. Juliette , i can be the very same as you with your symptoms. Im also very sensitive like yourself. I have watched your channel for a very long time & never commented . But , i feel the need to reach out to you. You are a super mum with a lovely family . You can turn your hand to anything. You should be proud of yourself & everything you have achieved. You have did soo well with your channel. Believe you me , you actually sound the same as myself. As an ex nurse please dont be too hard on yourself. Maybe a wee trip to the doctors would help. You are soo down to earth & that is why your subscribers watch your channel. You.ll get their Juliette. I promise , give it some time Sending a hug to you. Take care Juliette. X

[@kimberleybobeldijk]

Oh Juliette, I absolutely love watching your uploads. It doesn’t matter what you film I always love watching them. You’re such a lovely down to earth lady, and so relatable which everyone loves. If these people out there don’t agree with what your filming about then that’s their problem, I loved your Temu haul and I’m obsessed with the app! You just keep being you because theres thousands of us who still love you for realness. If you have to take time out, take it. You don’t owe anyone an explanation, we’re all here behind you for support xx

[@angelamuncaster3424]

Hi juliette Please don't think we will not be here for you ❤life is difficult sometimes Make sure you go to your doctor you need some help with this , I know I started to struggle when I started with the early signs of menopause in my late 30's , I started yoga classes to help with my mind and regular exercise but the biggest change was my diet I'm mainly vegan / vegetarian which was an absolute game changer for me I'm sending you lots of love xx

[@alisonrice5126]

Dear Mrs D you do not need to explain yourself to anyone on here. Everyone is going through something at some point in their lives, we are here for you, we support you and most importantly, listen. Take care until next time xxx

[@adriennejelley]

Juliette, you are amazingly and so many of us ladies going through the same things and thank you for sharing because we don’t feel alone. It seems to get better and then menopause hits and the struggles start again. I am also sensitive and battle not to take things personally. Just don’t change, you are great and real. Sending lots of love x

[@rachaelstronge4123]

So sorry you feel like this - but I have to agree you do sound like you’re going through peri menopause. I’ve been there and it’s so awful, please look into it sweetie, you don’t need to feel so sad ❤

[@sunshine-bs2jx]

Juliette i love your channel but believe me when i say do not worry about small stuff like people being negative. So much has happened to me in last few yrs i really really dont worry about other people stupidity any more . I lost my beautiful best friend tragically and now my beautiful sister has Cancer. I struggle to believe all this actually happened . You are doing your best . Ive always done my very best too im like you i try my best and work hard . Please know you are great xxx ❤ love from Ireland. Ps my anxiety is from trauma losing my friend and now my sister so unwell. That's where my anxiety comes from now. Its eating me inside at times but i fake it for others to look normal. I now take magnesium too and the gym definitely helps me 4 times a week for sure x