EXCLUSIVE: Was Destiny FIRED? She misses Melody? Issues with Kimmi? Would she would RETURN to LAMH?

[@gadgetgirl99ds]

This was the most insightful interview yet. Carlos and Destiny let it ALL hang out. Yes 👏🏼

[@gamewatcher13]

All but accountability

[@ladyd2500]

Zero Accountability

[@Justeb930]

Totally agree

[@vanessasmith7957]

What interview was they watching?

[@Tawilliams1980]

If no answer or answer a question with a question was a person. I was team Destiny but she is who she is and there’s just no growth.

[@BrowneSugarBabe]

This interview shows that Destiny is not ready to be a reality star and that’s ok! She still appears secretive and guarded. Stop trying to force it.

[@ms.keedajohnson]

🎯 🎯 🎯 That's part

[@barbaramorgan6313]

Carlos is loyal to crooks liars and thieves.

[@denisetaylor1028]

But Melody is ready? although she is guarded and secretive -- be she doesnt share ish.. and the fans give her a pass.. what is her storyline now? NOTHING!!!!!

[@Shaylaset]

@@barbaramorgan6313 👀👀

[@jacobandree]

@@denisetaylor1028 she shared her whole life going through divorce and co-parenting with a narcissist. Plenty of women should relate to her and support her, but there are people like you who criticize that. She’s just not sharing her love life because Martell does everything to her in the way of it

[@Celenababyy]

Pls leave Destiny where she’s at! She was on national TV serving nothing absolutely nada 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@cassius4177]

Still serving nada.

[@bobbieblue8013]

Exactly

[@denisetaylor1028]

What is Kimmi serving? NOT A DAMN THING-- women dont like other women who are real and tell the truth and who doesnt kiss Mel's ash --this is why Ms wanda got let go. Destiny decline their offer ..Good for her. -- Please someone tell me what is Me's storyline now that Martell is not her hubby any longer..I'll wait

[@diamona2214]

@Celenababyy Facts!!!😂😂😂

[@Texasbama2]

Amen 😅

[@chynee35chynee48]

Mel and Destiny will never be friends and we are ok with that, especially after what she said at the reunion...lets move on

[@Trixiemiss1211]

First of all she called Mel momma a pimp and Mel a hoe she lucky she ain't get dragged by her 3$ hair.

[@LAYABOO29]

What did she say???

[@marilynjohnson6298]

Mel and Martel put LAMH on the map. The first 3 seasons Mel gave her guts to the show and nobody can say she didn’t. Martel did to. So F what these other people are saying about somebody being delusional about Mel. No one on that show had given as much as Mel and Martel that was their real life.

[@tootlatrice689]

The realest ish spoken. Hate them or love one of them, they did give it all to us--the viewers. This woman who is not Mel's friend has no clue as to what Mel's real life is.

[@chysel4860]

Well, Melody was forced to talk about it because it was happening in real time. It's not everyone else's fault that their spouse wasn't actively and openly cheating with a woman for 3-5 years. She had to talk about it.

[@marilynjohnson6298]

@@chysel4860 I don’t think she was forced. She was living her real life out loud.

[@chysel4860]

@@marilynjohnson6298 No. No one wants to be embarrassed. She had to discuss it.

[@marilynjohnson6298]

@@chysel4860 she didn’t have to. Carlos told her it was her choice but if she did choose to speak about it he would hold her hand every step of the way. No one is forced to speak about anything they don’t want to. That’s from Carlos mouth and several of the cast.

[@yo-a]

You can’t be close to two people going through a divorce, it makes no sense. Mel probably saw Destiny was close to Martel so decided to withdraw. Who knows what information Destiny might (even accidentally) share with him. Destiny even said that’s her brother. The stuff we’ve even seen Martel do to Melody, is probably just 1% of what has actually happened. I don’t blame Mel at all.

[@neashahorton9754]

Exactly! Wasn't it Destiny, who constantly went to Martell talking about Mel knowing that he was gonna talk down her. She's also was the one who played a recording of Mel talking about Martell, she got caught talking to Tisha who hate Mel, but then she acts so clueless about why Mel don't fool with her anymore.

[@valz4050]

Why can't you stay close to both people? Do family members have to cut one of the spouses off?

[@yo-a]

@@valz4050 no one said cut off. And I made my thoughts clear why in my initial post.

[@RobynBowie]

I’m saying cut off bc that’s how you detach for the bs

[@nancygill2109]

Carlos you address everything but the revenge porn. You're a user and disrespectful just like Destiny. Martel should've been fired a long time ago. Yes you protect all the evil ones with misplaced anger issues just like you. You try to make the men on your shows out shine the women especially those men on LAMH when we all know that they used their wives for personal gain. Carlos you know why Melody pulled away from you and the cast because of Martel lies and people brought on the show to attack Melody. Melody gave them the blueprint and they failed because they wanted her to do all the work while they reap the benefits. Melody moved on without Martel and the Scotts and that wasn't in your plan and that's when evildoers started.

[@2BReal718]

When ask a question about herself she deflects but when it’s about Melody she have all answers SMH🤦🏾‍♀️

[@khakifan3678]

It’s sad that she so fixed on Melody

[@sarahsselflovelifestyle463]

Right

[@MissMeChelle]

She STILL avoided answering questions about herself. We don’t need to know Tisha threw up at Blaque. What are YOU up to?? What do you have going on?? I understand the need for privacy but we got/get nothing to connect with her personal journey. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@dantecox820]

It’s really interesting she’s still recovering from being married for a year while Mel’s trying to recover from over a decade while having someone use the court system, TV show, mistress , her children to continue to abuse and attack her….if my friend at 40 changes their number stop texting my concern is about their well-belling not whether we still cool.

[@van2820]

💯

[@BravoRecs]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@chysel4860]

But, Melody knew for years that her husband was cheating. She brought up the cheating rumors first. So, she used the show as an exit plan. Destiny was married for a short time, but her ex-husband filed for divorce 3 weeks after she became a mother for the first time (after several miscarriages).

[@dantecox820]

@@chysel4860 your assumptions are not based on facts it’s your opinion. We don’t know what she use the show for it could have been to guilt him into being faithful considering she took him back and having a baby isn’t a good way to exit a marriage. I’m not a Mel fan but it’s clear whether you like her or not she was going through things that caused her to move a certain way and as an adult you should be able to respect that!!! The other husbands were complicit in the affair so those other people were not a safe place. We saw the convo between Destiny and Mel what did we learn she gave Destiny 5k and she stop talking as much when they stop filming. Women need to stop being so needy in friendships and allow people to go through their shit and stop thinking everything is about them… Destiny made it a problem people process shit in a different way especially when it comes to their kids I might need to shut everything off to get my mind straight it doesn’t mean you and I are not cool

[@chysel4860]

@@dantecox820 The only opinion I stated was that I think she used the show as her exit plan. And if she did, good. I can't stand Martell and what he did to her. But, I was pointing out that the OP made it seem as though Destiny's marriage being short-lived makes her divorce not as traumatizing as Melody's and she should have more grace for Melody because she was married longer.

[@perpetuagautier515]

Destiny is still deflecting and is very guarded. Not sharing and not lying are two different things.

[@ShawnteAmoure]

It most certainly is. But she's doing both.

[@DP-vh9ug]

💯💯

[@Tweety_Thee_One]

She wants grace for not knowing who she was while going through a divorce however, she is not willing to give Melody that same grace! And that is how I know she is full of it!! If she come back to the show I wouldn’t watch it! That’s how much I don’t like her, she gives low vibrations! Lived all over the US but the only man she still CLOSE friends with is Martel, okay girl!

[@MSBLADE1970]

She's jealous because Melody was able to pick herself up and keep going, and she's still stuck like Martell.

[@marilynjohnson6298]

@Bronz5280 straight facts, I agree.

[@chysel4860]

The difference is that she didn't hurt her friends while she was going through the divorce. Melody lashed out at people.

[@MSBLADE1970]

Melody didn't lash out at Destiny, She just kicked her and the rest of those snakes 🐍 to the curb. Melody found out that she was a fake arse bish, and instead of her staying out of Mel and Martell's business, and stayed neutral like a real friend would've done, but they all took Martell's side and formed an alliance against Melody and where did that get them!? Now Destiny still mad and bitter because she picked the wrong side and couldn't ride Melody's back like a leech anymore!

[@Tweety_Thee_One]

@@chysel4860 the lies you tell!! Melody ain’t lashed no where! You reaching so far you arm should be broke. It’s okay to disagree but to tell lies is not! Y’all be killing me with the distain y’all will have for someone will cause y’all to make up lies to make y’all feel better is sickening! And I’m NOT a MeloMeter!

[@kimberlyanicegregg8212]

This interview was Boo Boo! This is exactly why she wasn’t invited back. She did more giggling than actually answering the question. She’s extremely evasive. If you know someone is not being their real selves just answer the question

[@Lee-fu]

SOOOO Divorce was so hard for her that she wasn't herself, yet she expected Mel to remain whatever she wanted Mel to be for her? She couldn't understand Mel needing space and whey Mel looked at her side ways after finding out conversations she had with only Destiny was getting back to Martell...from Destiny. Mel was going through a divorce and couldn't even trust you as a friend anymore but you want us to understand why you had your walls up when you were going through it? Lol girl bye 👋

[@BravoRecs]

Exactly

[@exertionathletics5353]

That’s not what she said. Her point was off camera we were good and on camera you had an issue. Nothing about the divorce

[@chocolatte7772]

Exactly, she wasn't married to him even half the amount of time Mel was married to Martell.

[@Lee-fu]

@exertionathletics5353 Destiny clearly talked about her divorce at the beginning of this interview what are you talking about.

[@leyla7108]

Nobody missed her bad energy and aggressive behavior. Her bitterness was very hard to watch on tv

[@yolandabrazille1853]

Looks like she is in a much better place now.

[@leyla7108]

After this interview nothing has changed. She's the same person.

[@Lelethatsme]

Yeah we don’t miss it because Mel is still giving her nice nasty passive aggressive energy and attitude! I do miss you though Destiny!

[@easterwashington8151]

Carlos is so messy. I hate supporting him

[@Mikaboo-yi2gt]

​@yolandabrazille1853 yesss. I also feel the fans gave sooo much grace to Mel, when she was going through her stuff. Mel exhibited a lot of aggression. I understood it. I may not have liked it as much, but it was understandable. A lot of fans didn't give Destiny the same grace

[@tinajohnson5028]

Destiny is still a NO for me. She goes to church, but she's pointing the finger at Melody, but she has three fingers pointing back at herself. They both were going through a divorce. Melody shut down, and Destiny felted rejected, so she turned on Melody by talking about her to Latisha. When Destiny first came on the show, I loved her because I thought she was a real true friend who would have Melody back, especially since they were going through the same thing and the same for Stormi. Stormi did the same thing Destiny did, so sad. This is one of the reasons I no longer watch the show besides WANDA, too many snakes in the grass. However, the comeback show should be about Melody and Destiny truly rekindling a real genuine true friendship with an apology to Melody, Ms. Van, the melometers, and share her true story. Going through a divorce would help so many other women. Destiny confessed, looking back at the show she wasn't herself due to her divorce. If Destiny can do that, we will forgive her, and the fans will return to Lamh. On that note, I'm all for it. However, watching the interview, I don't think she has enough humility to do that. You show your growth by your actions. That part......

[@ms.peewee504]

I feel Melody is the one who should be reflecting on how she’s treated everyone because of what she was going through. She is definitely a mean girl. Destiny did not take her hurt out on anyone else.

[@tinajohnson5028]

@ms.peewee504 I would have to disagree because Destiny attitude was so nasty. Real talk who would want to continue to be friends with someone u over hear them badmouthing you and let's be clear Melody was a real friend to Destiny being there for her. Melody probably was in shock and hurt by hearing the badmouthing. That part!

[@chysel4860]

​@@tinajohnson5028You're right. Destiny's attitude was bad. But, she never came at her friends or blamed them for her pain.

[@checkingyouboo6554]

Destiny is a YES on LAMH and Detroit for me and a lot of people who love her. The ratings would skyrocket.

[@ClassiLadi]

She’s answering?

[@kjsmith287]

I was here for this interview until Destiny started revisionist history…. We all saw you go from person to person discussing Mel before the coffee shop

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

Exactly!!! She was telling any and everybody that would listen!

[@Its_Mechele]

Exactly!! She’s full of it. She knows good and well she was talking trash about Mel to Tisha at that reunion. She tried it.

[@VesselOfYAH]

Oh because you were there and also major editing does happen 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

​@@VesselOfYAH 😂😂😂 All the lame "excuses" that you bird fans come up with for Dustiny aka Desti-lie...YET, you have ALLLLL this hate towards Mel and no grace. That's interesting 🤔 😊

[@VesselOfYAH]

@@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha you're illiterate and a fan....we are not the same ✌🏾

[@Financetrapper]

Tisha became friends with everybody who had an issue with Mel! That friendship was due to trauma/hater bond!

[@Claudymaze]

Destiny can’t come back until she tell us why her husband left like a thief in the night

[@missbae_]

That part!!!! 😂

[@trinabby88]

Lol not a thief in the night 😅😅

[@michellesimmons6332]

Right! 😂😂😂😂

[@barbaramorgan6313]

I would rather hear Labericks truth

[@JustTippinN]

@@barbaramorgan6313yes let him tell it not Dusty Destiny

[@jacquelinerowe3064]

Destiny is delusional.. she really thinks she didn’t do anything to Mel

[@chysel4860]

What did she do? Facts not speculation please

[@CelieJones]

@@chysel4860 She used Mel as a storyline and spit negativity on her name every chance she got. When Mel mentioned she financially helped Destiny to prove she’d been a good friend to her, she tried to villanize her for that. It’s ok when she brings Mel up and speaks badly of Mel, but they want Mel to be silent and take their verbal lashing.

[@chysel4860]

@@CelieJones Most of what you wrote was opinions. We all know that Melody introduces new people every season to battle her enemies on the show. But, even if I agree with all of what you wrote (I agree with some it actually), all of what you mentioned came after Melody stopped being her friend for no reason.

[@jacobandree]

The gaslighting during this post-firing interview is crazy ! Carlos be killing me with his fake ass. He doesn’t protect his women on this show. He knows he’s the one who basically said Destiny was fired during filming. To me, it’s more crazy that The narcissistic men on the cast been getting platforms to try and clean up their bad behavior.

[@BellesView]

Good point.

[@baps511]

Why don't he address marhoe and Coleslaw and the video? He has been quiet as a mouse about what Melody is going through, I pray Melody is done with his azz after this season. Carlos doesn't give a damn about females.

[@baps511]

Ain't nobody ask him about keeping destiny 😂😂😂

[@sharlaflowers8811]

Wow! I can’t believe you just said the exact thing I mentioned to my daughter 😳I feel as though Carlos does not protect the women on his show only the men with bad behavior.

[@baps511]

Amen

[@akattorney]

The fact that Martell would ask you to reveal stuff about Mel says a lot about the conversations you would have about Mel. Destiny, you can’t be trusted.

[@chysel4860]

Did she reveal it though? And wasn't it Martell and Melody revealing things about the Scott's finances and past struggles when they were covering up the fact that Martell was still cheating? If you throw down with the gang, you own what they do. Melody knew who she was dealing with.

[@yoladock4505]

​@@chysel4860 yes she did reveal

[@laurisa_marie]

I’m over the Destiny & Mel talk. Let it be what it is

[@JacSON2001]

YES, I thought we were done with that

[@traveler1077]

I totally agree. I’m sure they would be cordial to each other but friendships and people change due to circumstances.

[@ew0711]

Amen 🙌🏽

[@nicholeslater5498]

Destiny IS STILL FOS!... nothing more

[@sweetali1495]

She's mad bc Mel gave her the duces, periodt point blank!!!!! Fyi, She's also mad bc she can't ride on Mel's coat tail....poor tink!

[@tiffanylynn6839]

Nope let her stay gone! She was problematic! It was giving bitter

[@galacopez1113]

Can someone tell me WHY Melody was stay close with someone who claims her ex husband as a "brother" and still interacts with him? I mean, she literally defends the man who treated her like sh*t...and shes supposed to be close with her? Nah - we'd be coworkers. Period.

[@theculturekeeper6230]

Exactly

[@dlb4129]

Go back and watched past episodes! Destiny stayed on Martell’s butt! Y’all just refuse to acknowledge it! I have never seen so many people have a condo up Melody’s butt to point they can’t think objectively! Geez!

[@thundercat6709]

@@dlb4129Yeah, until she didn’t. No one has a condo up Mel’s butt. Come on now. We all saw Destiny turn on Mel for a storyline. So much easier than creating her own based on her life. 🙄

[@dlb4129]

@@thundercat6709 Melody turned on Destiny for a storyline! You know it

[@donnadavis7496]

@@dlb4129 thanks delusional

[@edwardurham9520]

This didn’t make me like her. Nothing is her fault. She been divorced longer that Melody with only one child and still excusing her behavior smh!

[@Billysgirl2014]

This interview just proved to viewers who Destiny is truly is, and nothing has changed. Still throwing shade at Melody, even off the show. Still having an attitude. I could've, should've, would've BS... You need to tell me that producers prevented you from showing your true self or telling your story??? Oh no, my fault, you were also forbidden in talking about your divorce...So there's only one layer about you. Going through a divorce??. You had a business. Couldn't make a "storyline" out of that. Your only storyline was fighting with Melody, just like everybody else except for Kimmie. And she says the biggest misconception about her was that she always had an attitude. Well, in this interview, I didn't see nothing different.

[@Jagaban1264]

Everybody cannot be friends with Melody. She cannot be everyone’s cup of tea. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@phillysfinest215]

Her and destiny are enemies y would she talk highly of her. Get real

[@sharlaflowers8811]

Exactly that’s why I have no urge to listen to it I’m just reading the comments and replying😂😂😂😂😂

[@trayc3600]

I agree! And I remember when Mel confided in Des abt what she was going through with her ex husband, Des told her that she went through the same thing a yr ago. She never mentioned it to Mel. She was with Moses, so she wasn't feeling herself then either? Destiny is full of it. Mel is the blame for everything. She didn't do a thing, according to her. In my opinion, she was jealous of Mel. She basically mimics Mel's life. Like I never knew she sings. Even had on the same color as Mel during her photo shoot. So much more. Smh

[@angelangel4476]

Yes! Say it again!

[@lotusstormz]

Calling Melody the favorite when he literally did a press run with Martel and refuses to speak on his blackmail and sex crimes is giving big hater energy. And a little delusional.

[@gamewatcher13]

Destiny full of something but reality is not it! She messy and everyone can see why Mel removed Toxic her space

[@SassyandSweet609]

Right...She had the nerve to say Mel sacrificed their friendship for a storyline, meanwhile, she is the one who said she didn't know where their friendship was ON THE REUNION STAGE. Sooooo who created the storyline. That whole next season she talked about Mel cutting her off!!!! lol Destiny is truly delusional

[@lady_hustlenet6290]

Yup an she kept talking about Mel to hoetel

[@missbae_]

Love this comment!! Lol full of something! …I got a feeling that something is SH*T! 😭

[@daddyschoc]

So every cast member on the show is toxic and that's why Mel is only filming w Senior Citizens n yes girls because the entire cast, all 5 of them did something to her? Math ain't mathing

[@CelieJones]

Martell is Carlos favorite. Melody’s enemies say she Carlos favorite so they can all use it as an opening to talk badly about her. If Mel is the favorite, I would hate to be his enemy.

[@ohheyhappymommy]

Whew! Exactly!!

[@Nanbebe7]

Man crush lol

[@2BReal718]

Facts

[@slovesthelord6825]

And please note, how she felt through the divorce is likely how Melody was when she was going through it and still going through it. Divorce causes mistrust and detachments. Melody probably questions everyone’s intentions, especially those still close to Martell. The only relationship she doesn’t seem to question is Kimmi’s (even though Kimmi will defend his behavior and say he’s a good guy.) You can tell in her and Mel’s interactions that she trust Kimmi and cares for her. Everyone else on the cast for Mel she keeps at arms length . Nothing is wrong with that. They are her coworkers.

[@josiekirtz6871]

She wants Melody to tell her real life (something she wasn't capable of doing) but the Scott's are telling their?? Lawsuits, Liens, affairs. And what about Martell with this RP. In my opinion, Mel is the ONLY one sharing her life.

[@Lizzievbutterfly]

didnt destiny record melody for martell?????? who is dishonest??? destiny giiirrrll take several seattssssss!!!!!

[@lakeishasmith112]

Good point. I never thought of it like that

[@chysel4860]

In real life, nothing is wrong with that. In reality TV, it doesn't read well and it makes it look like your better than the show you keep signing on to film.

[@chysel4860]

​@@LizzievbutterflyNo. That was a lie that was started by Melody's fans after Melody pretended like the recording wasn't from her interview with a blogger.

[@mi2andme4]

She’s made it clear that Martell is her friend and I can’t blame Mel for not trusting her.

[@OakCliffTX]

Exactly

[@frankanderson5294]

Very immature!

[@karenfloyd9574]

Mel is a ride or die friend, and she is all about loyalty, I think they have had their season, some friendships are for a season😊

[@QueenRissa_34]

I have my doubts….😬

[@jazzywazzy4761]

@@karenfloyd9574 True. Although I'm not a Scorpio, those Scorpios are very loyal, and once you cross them, there is no going back, they will act like you never existed (like us Virgos)

[@maryannenganga3552]

I want to know why destiny threatened Mel with Revenge P at the reunion..She colluded with Nartel, and the rest..I can see The jealousy seething through Destiny..

[@KJ-tf3vi]

Exactly, ask the real questions.

[@shan2424]

Exactly

[@lets-talk-about-it-ok]

you dont know what destiny was going to say

[@daddyschoc]

@@lets-talk-about-it-ok they make me SICK!

[@maryannenganga3552]

@@daddyschoc you better feel double sick 🤢!!!

[@dorethadavis724]

As if Melanie’s divorce, businesses and single parenting wasn’t enough of a story line. Stop it Destiny!

[@goodfoot8063]

Destiny talks out of both sides of her neck! If she was a different person during her divorce, Mel was too! Destiny wants the grace she dont give to Mel! Im sure Mel has real friendships outside of this cast, just like everyone else does.

[@treset6272]

Said perfectly

[@chysel4860]

Everyone gave victim Melody her grace for the last 5 years. Yall want Destiny to excuse Melody's nastiness and scheming as so called "grace." She don't have to like that liar.

[@goodfoot8063]

@@chysel4860They didn't give Melody sh#t, especially not no grace! They including Destiny nasty attitude having ass gave the grace to Martell and turned on Melody!

[@eleanorcarter8795]

The irony! Destiny implies that she didn't know who she was nor how to process it all, yet you sacrificed a friendship to forge an alliance with LaTisha whom you knew Mel had issues with and she's supposed to trust you? You were extremely vicious in your actions towards Mel and to suggest that you have the "tea" on Melody after she came to your rescue when you needed her the most, with a friend like Destiny, it's hard to distinguish her from an enemy. Healing, maturity, growth and forgiveness need to take place for Destiny to truly know how to be a friend. She expects so much from Melody yet she's not willing to give the same in return.

[@chandratrimmings8110]

Don't missed Destiny and her negativity. She always trying to gaslight certain people on the show to make herself look innocent. We are good over here.

[@melglenn6556]

HER negative energy, but YOU in the comments talking s***! Y’all crazy as hell

[@barbaramorgan6313]

She is so jealous of Melody

[@ThePhoenix-me5ni]

@@melglenn6556but YOU in the comments calling folks crazy as hell. You must be crazy as hell…🥴. See how this works

[@shamswt]

Imagine dogging the shit out of someone just because they don’t want to be close with you anymore. People reserve the right to be selective of their friends.

[@HRH_WHR4]

Facts!

[@vanessasmith7957]

He don’t protect Melody period

[@chysel4860]

No. He just got her paid

[@Yonette101]

Two things: why is it that Destiny can come to terms with the fact that she was going through something i.e. Divorce. And we understand that yet destiny couldn’t understand that with melody. She hasn’t come to terms yet. Why is it on this season everyone (Tisha)can’t understand it with melody again. She can’t and won’t talk about Martel (business) etc.

[@Mrsmcgill2017]

THIS!!!!!

[@unpopularopinionpodcast24]

It’s how it’s down. Y’all conveniently skip that part. Mel gaslights and plays in people face.

[@GoddessPower777]

she’s jealous of mel

[@kizzyv.williams25]

@@unpopularopinionpodcast24 That part. Conveniently skipped where she said she feels the friendship was sacrificed for the show because behind the scenes it wasn't that.

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

​@@unpopularopinionpodcast24Everytime I ask, none of you can EVER answer...so, I'll try again: Can you please provide examples of Mel "...playing in people's faces"? I'm SO waiting for this reply :)

[@speakingfromthepurplecouch]

Her trying to emphasis that Mel doesn't want to take people along--THAT IS NOT True--SHE HAS HELPED EVERYONE ON THAT CAST AND YOU ALL TURNED AGAINST HER--SO REALLY???!!!

[@cassius4177]

RIGHT & Mel has 4 kids for goodness sake. She doesn't have to help people yet she did.

[@Mzhoward2020]

Exactly. Who would be crazy enough to take a snake(s) with them.

[@TiffG007]

She has some strong entitlement. Destiny is lazy.

[@moniqueking6086]

I don't care for Melody's personality, and even I can say you are 100% correct. Mel has helped every single loser on this show: Marsau, Tisha, Maurice, Kimmi, Tiffany and of course the 🤡 Martell.

[@kekelah7857]

She gave her $6,000 and she only have 1 child but Mel got 4 kids. Even after that I wouldn't bad mouth Mel. Hoetell don't have money to give her. Her and Hoetell are users.

[@CelieJones]

Reconciliation between Destiny and Melody is not a good storyline because there is a user and liar between the two. A producer creates, but you can’t put your will on someone. Destiny showed Melody who she is and she showed her self to social media. She acted as if she hated Melody. We don’t want to see a Cabo 6 situation. Let sleeping dogs sleep.

[@SheDreams-ed4km]

A user?

[@thelyrik178]

Carlos! WE DO NOT WANT HER BACK. Thanks management!

[@Leolove48]

Amen!!!

[@Deneese3347]

Destiny NEVER admits when she has done wrong.

[@chysel4860]

None of them do. Except maybe Stormi

[@theculturekeeper6230]

Y’all not friends because your friends with Martell very simple she don’t mess with you move on

[@JWay1911]

Destiny saying: She feels like Melody is protected in the sense of not showing who she really is… Is Exactly why she is on the outs.. ✂️✂️ #IsupportMelody

[@Kedia12]

She absolutely danced around all these questions. This is why we question her authenticity. Maybe if we could see her life past the divorce we would understand Destiny more. This interview did show a little more of her. I feel like y'all replaced Destiny with Keekee cause Keekee don't care what she says. Lol

[@shay6722]

So she used this interview to talk about Mel. I wish she would’ve kept it short about Mel and talked about herself. So in the end she proved why she’s not missed on the show.

[@donnadavis7496]

She was ask questions about Mel so she responded y'all want her to kiss Mel ass huh

[@Annieb562]

@shay6722 Carlos is literally asking the questions, lol! HE used this interview to talk about Mel. Destiny simply answered the questions.

[@t.nichole5637]

She’s still so evasive. Reality tv is an invasive type of job. If she’s private than honestly she needs to stay off reality tv.

[@yourvahomegirl3290]

How was she being evasive?

[@troyjackson122]

Mel is the most evasive one of them Alll

[@bobbieblue8013]

Facts

[@RSVPwithLori]

I would think she would have had more empathy for Mel going through a custody battle.

[@maryrobinson128]

DESTINY DOESN'T CARE ABOUT MELODY SHE IS JEALOUS AS HELL OF MELODY AND WANTED HER FRIENDSHIP ONLY TO USE HER FOR WHAT SHE COULF GET FROM HER. MELODY SHARI DID THE BEST THING FOR HER LIFE WHEN SHE GOT THAT DEMON 😈 DESTINY OUT OF HER LIFE.

[@maryrobinson128]

MOSES IS DESTINY BEST FRIEND JUST LIKE MARTELL AND DESTINY AND WILL BE JUST LIKE SHEREE AND MARTELL LOL 😆😂🤣😅😜 FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS LOTS OF BENEFITS 😆😂😄🤣

[@maryrobinson128]

WHY MOSES DIDN'T TAKE YOU TO GET YOUR PISTOL DESTINY GUESS HE WASN'T THE ONE YOU WAS SLEEPING WITH THAT NIGHT 😆🤣😂😹😆🤣😂

[@maryrobinson128]

BYE DESTINY AND CARLOS YOU SO FULL OF SHIT OK ENOUGH OF THIS PATHETIC INTERVIEW NEVER HEARD NOTHING ABOUT DESTINY LIFE 🤷🙃

[@OakCliffTX]

Exactly! She chose Martell's side which is why Mel shut her off.

[@nicklebaby]

So hypocritical that she went through so much with her divorce but couldn't understand why Mel reacted the way she did.

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

Exactly!! That ho3 can stay gone!

[@shayshay7409]

In that case, Mel is a hypocrite, too

[@nicklebaby]

@shayshay7409 no because she came at Mel first. She initially had the issue with Mel being withdrawn. When her divorce was finalized she didn't speak to Mel about it but Mel didn't react like her. I just think she's a sensitive needy friend which is probably why her and Tisha have grown so 'close'.

[@shayshay7409]

@nicklebaby Mel & Destiny are hypocrites - you like Mel so you can't see that they're both hypocrites

[@nicklebaby]

@shayshay7409 I actually liked both and enjoyed their friendship. But from the time she confronted Mel over the babysitters and not having a village on camera, knowing what Martel had been saying at the video party, she definitely lost me.

[@shamswt]

Destiny has trashed Melody so much, Mel shouldn’t reconcile. It wouldn’t make sense.

[@pkjoe285]

You can tell from this interview/conversation that Destiny is still very much jealous (Destiny is hateful) of Mel.

[@Jagaban1264]

If anyone doesn’t like Melody them they are jealous 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@daddyschoc]

@@Jagaban1264 I'm so damn tired of Mels fans that I'd rather the show just go off the air altogether. I ain't lying. They're so damn delusional.

[@chysel4860]

​@@daddyschocThey don't realize that "boss Mel" and "Ms. Unbothered" was a nobody in a small town, who without the show and her crappy marriage would be irrelevant and probably still married to Martell even after the baby with AC. They are so delusional.

[@QueenBluntdanae]

@@chysel4860y’all tired of her “fans yet in the comments hating . Y’all her fans as well. Destiny will always talk about Mel because she wants to paint a certain narrative about her it’s weird . The $hit you just wrote was LAME. ASF

[@baps511]

She didn't need you for a storyline girl stop 😂😂😂

[@GrowingGlowing87]

She still isn’t giving ANYTHING!! She can’t even answer a question! Carlos please don’t waste our time!

[@cassius4177]

THANK YOU

[@janicestarks1212]

She just don't want to tell on the people y'all think y'all love on the show nobody knows these people real life

[@lindaharding-bond4326]

Totally agree.

[@shamswt]

Destiny needs to heal from Mel removing her from her life. She’s still so bitter. The way she keeps shading Mel tells me the two shouldn’t have been friends in the first place and Mel made the right decision cutting her off.

[@vanessaking3469]

Then why couldn’t she understand what Mel was going through with her custody battle . Her ex trying to take her children ?

[@mizzshay8310]

That part!

[@treset6272]

Exactly. So she can be going through things but when some else is to bad. Hypocrite

[@shereejones6190]

Because she was there to help Martel, that’s the real reason Mel got in her Uber and left!!!

[@barbaramorgan6313]

Because she is a two faced snake. Melody is progressing and Destiny is still cleaning up.

[@anicawatson469]

Because she was decided to leave the whole situation after she was accused of sleeping with Martel. Every input she gave was twisted and used in a negative light. I don't blame Destiny.

[@chelseamarshall1582]

I literally didn’t even notice she wasn’t there this season and that’s sad. I like her but she has such a daunting tone about her

[@jaedee6064]

How was she used for a story line again? Cause Mel had hella stuff going on and destiny didn’t, that’s the issue with the cast, no one’s wants to talk about their own business. Destiny is still miserable and it shows. It’s so hard to like anyone on the cast at times and gang up is getting old, people starting acting weird when you can’t get in their pockets anymore, throw whole cast away

[@ttown1395]

Exactly. She actually used Mel for a storyline and it failed. Mel had so many things going on that she could have had the show based on her life.

[@blairsession9729]

Facts!

[@celeste8271]

I think she’s saying based on the private conversation they had after the reunion they were good, then they film at the coffee shop and BAM this problem comes up again. Did Mel NEED it for a storyline? No…but Mel is at Own to make tv and that’s what she’s done and still doing. I personally think she’s outgrown the cast because outside of Kimmi she really can’t stand any of them

[@jaedee6064]

@@ttown1395 yep, Mel want feeding into her BS, that’s why she was mad, so if Mel over heard someone who thought was cool with her talking to someone she was beefing with, yeah I’m putting that ads on ice, she tried to make it seem Mel was jealous of her, how sway🤔 Mel cut her off how long ago and she comes with I got dirt on her, Chile you was never a friend in the beginning, she mad that Mel friend didn’t do business with her after the fall out. Destiny is another Martel will latch on to anyone for the ride, now she besties with Belinda , you can’t make this ish up. Martel is a whole BAN cause whatever destiny thinks she knows comes from him and he ain’t even have her phone number… just a bunch of damn liars.

[@jaedee6064]

@@celeste8271 destiny did a whole tour talking about this, thry was never going to be back on the same terms as they once where because to much had happened and other people interfering as well. At this point chalk it up to don’t say nothing to me snd I won’t say nothing to you. I honestly think Mel should leave at this point also cause , I’m not going to be the talking point and punching back it ain’t worth it, she had big enough fan base to launch her own KZbin channel all this mess ain’t worth it

[@crystalsutton523]

Destiny still can't give concise answers. She's evasive and so ready to be negative towards Melody and Kimmi as if they are pressed to be friends with her. This definitely was smoke and mirrors.

[@gloriadavis2837]

I have yet to see an interview that I learned anything about Destiny. Ten years from now, all of her interviews will sound the same. Reality tv isn't for Destiny, and she's forced on us at this point. She will not tell us her business. However, she will tell her castmates business. Side note: Destiny low-key feels a certain way about Kimmi.

[@leondrarobertson7140]

Exactly..still she gives nothing..just side laughs.. Carlos had to fake laugh to keep from the awkwardness in why the hell she laughing

[@SuperArvena]

She was the one who needed a story line. She throw Melody under the bus. From the time Melody had her first listening party. Destiny was trying to make it all at her. Remember that 😮😮😮

[@leondrarobertson7140]

Melody didn't need a story line..is she serious...like seriously if u can see that you wasn't yourself last season from your small marriage and divorce..and all the stuff you was going through You couldn't see Mel was going through hell mentally and still from her 10yr plus ..with 4 kids marriage/divorce Imma tell you.. y'all were some selfish women on this show...that chic had to walk through that door with her head held high in every scene while feeling all those emotions and all y'all crying about..she don't call me , she don't talk anymore boo hoo and she told EVRY last one u .I just need time to. myself..y'all were and still are some selfish winches...

[@vjfromaroundtheway777]

DESTINY!!! I too loved you and Mel as friends. My favorite scene was when yawl tasted the 🍉 and it was sweet. Mel NEVER faked anything with YOU. She finds out on the reunion stage that there is a problem...that should not have happened like that Destiny. Your alliance with Tisha and your friendship with Martell became a conflict of interest, PERIOD. You did NOT get sacrificed for a storyline. You absolutely cannot tell somebody else's story when you have yet told your own story. You went through a horrible divorce, I hated the way your husband handled you and his attempt to take custody of a nursing baby from his Mother, I wanted to fight him. But it really seems that YOU and the rest of that cast had no EMPATHY for Mel and was blatantly team Martell even though you witnessed him go on campaign to destroy her reputation after she left him. Clearly Melody is NOT Carlos' favorite. In spite of it all, we watched Mel rise like a Phoenix from the ashes of the house that Martell burnt down. People didn't have any empathy for you because you didn't appear to have any for her. It appears that you are the one that threw the friendship away and ran up the Ops azz. Even if it didn't happen that way, that is how it looked. Mel was the one sacrificed for everyone else's storyline. By the way, I am not Melometer. But by all accounts, Mel appears to be who she says she is and doesn't owe this show nothing. We never got a chance to find out who you are.

[@JustTippinN]

Well said

[@Honey_Green]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@KevinMoore-yn6ln]

Couldn't complete the interview, Destiny still lies, she was fired, a contract issue really means letting your azz go. You either get a contract you can't refuse, or a contract they know you gonna disapprove of.. Girl bye

[@mariel.4566]

Ask Destiny has she moved up out LB house? Why she no longer has her beauty shop in the building she keeps having the re launch. She never tells all her business, but stays in everyone else’s business.

[@D1vaDvyn]

Carlos: Ask Destiny what was she going to tell (you know the SECRETS I hold) at the reunion & Maurice said "No! Don't say it!" Inquiring minds want to know if she, too, knew about the "Revenge "P" plot that MarHell & The Bird was planning😳🤔

[@mooriabdul3861]

Damn the can’t hold a conversation without Mel. Dust stop trying to minimize your actions

[@thereviewhourwithEpodcast]

Wow! Destiny is still holding anger against Melody, let it go girl.

[@Billysgirl2014]

For real!! Still throwing shade at Melody, even off the show.

[@kjsmith287]

You would it’s Melody she is divorcing and not the chicken man

[@feliciarowser308]

Destiny still bitter about Melody. She must want Mel for herself

[@tiffanylynn6839]

I think she was sent there to try to tear mel down for Martel!

[@639ONELOVE]

Her dumb azz chose the wrong friend! Just because she knew Martell longer she stayed knowing he was digging his wife! Now she gotta support his broke azz!

[@KQueen305]

I think the hate for Destiny makes people incapable of being rational. She has the right to decide to not stop being both they friend and not choose. That’s fair just like it’s Mel’s right to say it’s a no for me. This is normal divorce stuff people go thru everyday and I’m not seeing where y’all see hate from. This lady looks glowing happy and moved on! Y’all should too😂😂😂

[@landrad2476]

I’m neutral, but she could have left out the commentary that Melody would be going to the top alone. That part had me like🥴🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@KQueen305]

@@landrad2476 I mean it’s her opinion. Everybody else can give an honest answer I think she can too. That’s her takeaway and she’s being honest. It’s how she felt. Carlos asked🤷🏽‍♀️😂😂

[@auntiel5301]

she then started a blame game for the person who said it is a no for me as that person made the choice first.

[@103lvm]

@KQueen I don’t get the dislike for Destiny??? I like Destiny

[@landrad2476]

⁠@@KQueen305that’s fair. Her opinions and feelings are valid and Carlos did ask. However, I can also understand why that comment alone may be off putting for some.

[@mrekendrick]

She’s still not giving up information in detail. Bring her back for what? What did you all learn today boys and girls?

[@Trixiemiss1211]

🤣🤣🤣I'm still waiting.

[@ttown1395]

She is still trying to blame Mel for her short comings.

[@DestinationTakeover.]

How to flip hair 😂😂

[@tonyaclaiborne727]

I learned that she should stay away from the show

[@mrekendrick]

@@tonyaclaiborne727 😂

[@dianesanders7067]

Destiny is so envy of Melody

[@shan2424]

Mel made the right decision when she cut you off.

[@OakCliffTX]

She sure did.

[@JoyceGoodwin-ew8wi]

Destiny is still not being transparent not believable

[@ritablunt5266]

Destiny is not giving Melody grace. Of course Melody had to protect herself. Destiny is still friends with the ops, that’s Martel! 🎤

[@bwilz2556]

Carlossssss, now you KNOWWWWW none of us asked for her 😂😂😂😂

[@missfranfp]

DIDN'T ASK AT ALLLLLLLLL

[@ElleB573]

💯

[@foxybrown1742]

Many of "US" did !!! Destiny is good for television.

[@naomimartin7986]

What’s crazy is people get on these reality shows and start calling people their friends when they are their associates, then start expecting way too much as if it’s a intimate relationship.

[@Voyant-cc3fz]

She's not missed! The energy is so much better without her bitterness. Girl you became friends with Mel opps. How you're friends with her Ex and Opp? You're to chummy with all her enemies. Mel ending the friendship make since just like you no longer being on the show!

[@cjordn]

Instead of answering the question, she asks a question. She's still doing that same bullshit. To say that their friendship ended because of a storyline is ludicrous. Mels divorce was her storyline.

[@ericacaldwell8899]

Melody didn't know who to trust

[@OakCliffTX]

Exactly. These people are Martell's friends. They smiled in her face & laughed behind her back knowing her husbands' dirt.

[@chysel4860]

​@@OakCliffTXShe laughed in their faces all the while knowing her man's dirt. She knew first.

[@ThePhoenix-me5ni]

@@chysel4860where’s your proof? Show the receipts.😂

[@chysel4860]

@@ThePhoenix-me5ni Her words. She said that she knew he cheated with the woman before, and she left him. Also, if you look at the Season 2 bonus episode/secrets revealed, she said that she called Carlos and told him she wasn't going to do the show because she found out he was cheating again.

[@preciousg8486]

Shes so bitter towards Melody . She literally talked about Melody more than herself on the show

[@chysel4860]

Did she have control over editing? She talked about way more than that but it wasn't shown

[@preciousg8486]

@@chysel4860 I’m speaking to what was shown. She still seems bitter

[@preciousg8486]

@@chysel4860 that also goes to show that she didn’t have much exciting to offer outside of the drama with Melody

[@coleyco580]

My thing is, spill your own tea! And stop worrying about what others have going on! And we are still talking about Mel!

[@dlb4129]

Because Mel is a reality show

[@chrisk2734]

Destiny wrote a letter to the courts in favor of Martell getting full custody of her kids. She tried to help Martell take her kids. Destiny would never be my friend, couldn't trust her. Mel is right to walk away from her.

[@lovefelix1566]

😮 Really? That's sad 😢😢😢😢😢😮😮😮😢😢😢😢

[@t.d.8829]

That's a bold faced lie.

[@alabamabornball9957]

She knows Martell is His favorite. Mel is the most unprotected on that show

[@sparr5132]

Carlos Mel is definitely your favorite. He lets Mel get away with being fake. So many cast members say she is fake and yet he allows her to get away with it. Happy to see Destiny!

[@auntiel5301]

They all fake

[@marilynjohnson6298]

@@auntiel5301facts, every single one of them. Mel chooses not to have these fakes in her life and that’s ok.

[@melglenn6556]

Yes she goes around with that fake ass high pitched voice just PRETENDING!! Annoying!!!

[@2002nikkihow]

Mel has shown her whole life on camera 🤔 Martel is his favorite. He has revenge p , yelling and screaming in women faces 🤦🏾‍♀️ Stop it

[@tracylewis2166]

If dusty and Mel don’t speak at all how would she know Mel’s truth girl bye

[@russellchestnut607]

Destiny isn’t being realistic about why Mel not friends with her. I ABSOLUTELY get it. Destiny picked the wrong sides with all Melody opps, so stop acting like you don’t know what it is. It is what it is!!!!! Let’s keep it 💯!!! And I’m from Detroit!

[@VonvonB24]

she didn’t bring anything to the show. I remember she didn’t wanna talk about anything on the show. Thanks Carlos for letting her clear up why she was moody and unlikeable during her time of filming. Great interview

[@unpopularopinionpodcast24]

Sounds like someone else….

[@startingpilates]

I thoroughly enjoyed her on the show.

[@Deneese3347]

She can’t just wish Melody well and have nothing more to say.

[@MessyyMissyy]

@Deneese3347 She’s being ask 50 million questions about her. She’s simply responding 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@GirlfriendChronicles]

Destiny child please stop acting slow … you know why you’re not friends with Melody. You’re even being disrespectful calling her Melody Holt on this interview. You sided with the wrong teams

[@niolab7]

Till today, Destiny can never say what she did to ever support or help Melody. I know why you’re no longer friends, Stevie Wonder knows why you’re no longer friends but Destiny is trying to pretend that she doesn’t know ???? It’s the gaslighting for me !

[@mommagotit3073]

Carlos you have to stop forcing folks to go down memory lane about Melody. Destiny did not initiate this Melody piece. Why can't people just exist without pushing Melody on them as if they aren't allowed to move forward? There are so many things that Destiny can be asked about pertaining to her personal life and growth. But because the producers/Carlos wants to pigeon hold Destiny into dwelling on her fall out with Melody she isn't given an opportunity to showcase her real life. I can look at Destiny and immediately know that she is living and thriving but yall won't show her life. Yall not giving Destiny no airtime without bringing Melody into the chat. Stop asking her if there is hope for reconciliation in order to drag that dead conversation out. They not friends anymore. Let it go and stop bringing it up. The cast members should be able to film organic scenes of their life having nothing to do with Melody. I know these folks life doesn't end when they aren't with Melody. Film these people's real life even if Melody isn't in it and everyone will see eachother at the reunions with less animosity and real flashbacks to organic scenes without force fed manufacturered drama.

[@luciew9089]

Exactly

[@fahtimawilliams887]

I love Mel, but I totally agree sometimes people are meant to be in your life forever, each character would be more interesting if they talked about themselves, not Mel. I believe that’s why they all dislike her because producers keep pushing them to speak on her, adults don’t constantly speak on people they don’t like, they move on.

[@auntiel5301]

But these people you speak of have not really wanted to showcase their real life. We know 5he you tube they have things happening in real life,but guess what they not allowing those stories to be told on them. How did the Scott’s become Blaque ambassador? What & why is Marsau being sued? What job does Maurice do? What business does Scholt do? Tisha said she was opening a real estate. Heck even here Destiny talking more about Melody than herself again. Just say Carlos that is no longer open to discussion. Melody blamed for what other people do or don’t. How can I trust you when you best friends with my ex who is cheating and treating me so bad? Make it make sense

[@auntiel5301]

Everyone knows those Scott’s boys except Carlos & their wives

[@dorothysalomon8321]

Destiny could have pass on anything she did not want to discuss, she continue to make Melody her storyline even off the show smh

[@jeristephens8757]

The friendship would not continue when Destiny has a real friendship with Martell since school age and when the divorce and subsequent court case dealing with Martell, would have automatically decimated their connection. How could Destiny not understand this. Now take Destiny’s ride or die new off camera friendship with Tisha, would make it impossible to have a relationship because all of them with the exception of Melody were Martell’s friends. Melody’s friendships with them were through Martell, and the wives stuck by their husbands, who are all friends. For Melody and anyone in that kind of situation all those friend ties to her ex, would not be optimal in her new life divorced from him and all of his associates. She wouldn’t know who was pillow talking to their husband giving her ex information and that would also apply to Destiny who has been and is Martell’s friend.

[@chysel4860]

Then why is she so cool with Kimmie?

[@yolondabrown7240]

Martell turned her and whole castmate against Meldoy 😢 I don't think Meldoy wants anything to do with her😮

[@Tashie__0]

I agree with Destiny, Melody was acting funny toward her because her and Tiffany wasn’t getting along …. Mel on that couch was patronizing Destiny. Mel has fails too.

[@josiekirtz6871]

I see she still hating on Mel. SMH. Some things never changed. 90% of this interview was about Melody. Destiny know darn well that CK can't stand Melody

[@user-bn8ui9wm3u]

we dont miss destiny! we are glad that she’s gone. to say that mel has shared the LEAST is crazy. we went through mel’s marriage, her divorce, and now court hearings due to martell’s greed. destiny never answered why she got a divorce from her husband before their baby was even 6 months. she never shared that she was squatting in that mans house. but MEL doesn’t share?

[@idawallace6330]

So basically the interview is about Mel🙄

[@RobynBowie]

Who wants to be a friend to someone that close to her narcissistic ex ? No one

[@CelieJones]

Melody has been genuine in her friendships until she becomes their storyline. Let it go. We don’t want to see fake friendships or fake storylines.

[@chysel4860]

Cap

[@elanefields1836]

She can't recognize where she went wrong with the relationship with Mel

[@kelissamack8954]

I've always had a soft spot for Destiny and still do. However, she absolutely was evasive while on the show and this made for an unpleasant viewing experience at times. I do believe that other cast members don't give their 100% unvarnished truth but if we're being honest that's normal. The breakdown and aftermath of Martell and Melody's marriage is an example of people baring their souls and it gets very ugly.

[@LuvScorpio]

Me too, I have a soft spot for her as well. But I haven't watched this full interview yet, so hopefully, she doesn't disappoint me too.

[@TheVoiceOfReazun]

I concur. I like her, I just hope her end Melody make up I feel like the cast got in-between that honestly.

[@pinkchocolate305]

​@@TheVoiceOfReazunNah, some things are better left alone. That relationship is done.

[@TheVoiceOfReazun]

@@pinkchocolate305 I agree and it is.