Exercise #1 - To Develop Quick Thinking And Humour

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@faredreyes5754
@faredreyes5754 2 жыл бұрын
“Sweaty Betty” that’s where ur sister lives😂😂that first one killed me
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@The_Quaalude
@The_Quaalude 14 күн бұрын
Bro started off just roasting us, like wtf did I do 😭
@The_Quaalude
@The_Quaalude 14 күн бұрын
Honestly this is why I was funnier as a kid, we would just be bored walking around places and roasting everyone 😂
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 9 күн бұрын
@@The_Quaalude hence everyone is getting worse at social skills 🙉🙉🙉
@Ailyloves
@Ailyloves 6 күн бұрын
Same haha, we used to be more imaginative! When we got older, most of us start caring more about the social rules and etiquette. And I think that trying to abide to those “rules” VERY strictly can hold us back from being natural and easygoing; we become stiff and awkward. That may be why our social skills are getting worse..
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 4 күн бұрын
@@Ailyloves if you’re aiming to be normal you can only ever be a bit above average at best, secondly what’s normal is not necessarily good social skills 😄
@dantheg4691
@dantheg4691 2 жыл бұрын
he got them balls to make a socialising video in a place full of mankind
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you =D
@shammahnzaana214
@shammahnzaana214 Жыл бұрын
Mankind 😭😂😂
@sandycheeks1580
@sandycheeks1580 Жыл бұрын
@@SocialShortcuts 🙏🏽Where did you get your confidence from? I’m a quiet person who hates American small talk that goes no where. I’m a fairly attractive woman who is also modest. But, I’m constantly bombarded with peoples vulgar sexual or racial curiosity, purely attention seeking comments, or unearned anger. Every time I turn around there’s some idiot desperately seeking my attention. 🙏🏽What do I do or say to these thirsty human beings to make them avoid me???🙏🏽
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
@@sandycheeks1580 hi very difficult to answer this in a short way and would need more info to solve this for you. Might be worth you booking a free trial session you can see info on our website www.socialshortcuts.com or just message me and I’ll send you a voice message, thank you for tuning in by the way 🙂
@vdubbin
@vdubbin 9 ай бұрын
Women really got the short end of that word. Were women not kind when that word was created?
@jno7
@jno7 Жыл бұрын
The replay one killed me
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
Wow I hope your recovery from the near death experience is swift
@jno7
@jno7 Жыл бұрын
@@SocialShortcuts I love your dedication of still joking, even outside of the video ;)
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
@@jno7 hi as you can see I am actually still in the video I have been trying to escape for about 5 years now if you could please get some kind of computer programmer to extract me and re-download me on Earth that would be amazing.
@threepoint5
@threepoint5 Ай бұрын
@@SocialShortcuts Brb getting Neo and Trinity to help you out. Hope that the matrix doesn't get bombed until we get you out of there. 😁😁
@SuzukiHalwende
@SuzukiHalwende Ай бұрын
​@@SocialShortcutsThat reminds me of an old Gorillaz interview where they were asked what Clint Eastwood was about, and 2D was like "I don't know if you can actually have sunshine inside a bag, might have to get Stephen Hawking on that"
@grumpyyellowfang3344
@grumpyyellowfang3344 2 жыл бұрын
I genuinely laughed at these; it's starting to make me realize that humor doesn't have to be complicated but just unexpected
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks I am just about to upload new videos
@guitar300k
@guitar300k 2 жыл бұрын
@@SocialShortcuts i used to exercise like this but not for humor, just for normal social conversation
@Eunistars08
@Eunistars08 Жыл бұрын
You got that
@Oblisk
@Oblisk 8 ай бұрын
That “drain one” was really good. Wasn’t expecting it with the way you set it up
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 8 ай бұрын
🤣
@iwontreplybacklol7481
@iwontreplybacklol7481 Жыл бұрын
"I dont have a face for radio" nice one 😂
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
Lol I forgot about that thanks for reminding me 😺
@Keralite29
@Keralite29 Жыл бұрын
This was a simple yet effective demonstration of how one can practice engaging the facilities which humor is produced by. Free association skills are absolutely key to being spontaneously funny, taking one element in your environment and placing it in an alternate context whose incongruity to the familiar reality of that element serves as unexpected to the listener and this often results in laughter from them. Thank you for this video.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot 😄 word play jokes almost entirely are based on something having 2 plausible sounds, spelling (by text) or definitions. I have an exercise that can be practiced for making them on the exercises playlist. I’ve had some more level ups for it since then so will re do it at some point 😄
@TechWithNigel
@TechWithNigel Жыл бұрын
Cheap Monday is really expensive on Tuesdays 😅
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
Don’t even bother looking when it gets to Wednesday they really just start ripping everyone off at that point
@simpleman7203
@simpleman7203 11 ай бұрын
Genuinely keked at this one
@jozefkozienka7998
@jozefkozienka7998 Жыл бұрын
LOL scalpers one was hilarious. You are good at that. This practice could be really useful for me, thanks! At elementary school I was really quick with jokes which made people laugh for minutes, but I somehow lost this ability with rising anxiety. This could revive it.
@nathanael_rzf
@nathanael_rzf Жыл бұрын
Same here
@TheSplendidus
@TheSplendidus Жыл бұрын
go for it dude
@smoothfreak1732
@smoothfreak1732 8 ай бұрын
Wth hell bro the same happened with me i was good at jokes until middle school after that i lost that ability with rising anxiety especially after changing school
@smoothfreak1732
@smoothfreak1732 8 ай бұрын
I was like the funniest bro in class till 8th grade
@encouraginglyauthentic43
@encouraginglyauthentic43 6 ай бұрын
Being witty is easiest when calm, cool, and collected.
@WillyJunior
@WillyJunior 4 ай бұрын
Corny as hell but the replay one got me 😂
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 4 ай бұрын
Ha ha yeah that was a good one
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 4 ай бұрын
Ha ha yeah that was a good one
@jersonoliveros7779
@jersonoliveros7779 2 жыл бұрын
That's effective exercises to learn how to have a sense of humor.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u
@Submersed24
@Submersed24 Жыл бұрын
I used to have really bad social anxiety in highschool and I was able to pull off this really perfect deadpan where I could get an entire group to laugh really hard at something because of how I was able to keep composure in a joke, but ever since I went to college and got a job in a really linear thinking field and improved on of a lot of my anxiety issues, I became totally unable to pull off my best humor anymore because I lost the ability to use silence and timing in my jokes. I no longer hold the intense "pressure in silence" I used to create by using silence and super in tune feeling of social pressure I had, which I lost since I'm not anxious 24/7 and practicing holding composure. When you aren't anxious you really start to lose that edge of seriousness that comes with humor tbh. I think the reason why many comics have anxiety is because of a heightened 'understanding' of social pressures that allows people to really nail timing. That's why typical 'bros' and otherwise relaxed people don't have a natural comedic timing. They aren't typically in uncomfortable situations and therefore they never really practice suppressing it like people with anxiety. Being able to sit right on the edge of composure is what makes people feel tension and really find a joke funny. Basically, I think having some social anxiety can be a good thing, because it lets you practice composure much more effectively and really understand it.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this. You should be able to access how you felt before and use the good parts without any of the bad parts if you do some reflection and practice.
@aston_beats4285
@aston_beats4285 Жыл бұрын
I relate to this from personal experience first hand. being that person in school with social and general anxiety, it can sometimes aid comedic and just social timing, self awareness and awareness of certain social situations/ dynamics
@gangatalishis
@gangatalishis 2 жыл бұрын
Some actual good practical advice with examples. Great video!
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Would recommend practicing from time to time. I’m mostly on TikTok my name there is social_shortcuts
@adonisvillain
@adonisvillain Ай бұрын
wow, this is like free writing exercise but walking down the street gonna try today
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Ай бұрын
@@adonisvillain yes and with social skills you need to be fast as well. Speed is more important than quality
@wwer5266
@wwer5266 2 жыл бұрын
I cant properly connect to this vid bcuz i cant feel sarcastic jokes so much and jokes that mock things.But i think it have helped me how to quick think and i find it funny bcuz it's titled humour.
@Shellings
@Shellings 5 күн бұрын
What’s important to learn from this is tone.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 4 күн бұрын
@@Shellings in what sense? 😄
@Shellings
@Shellings 4 күн бұрын
@@SocialShortcutsWhen you speak you use a laidback/serious tone that makes me pay attention to what you’re about to say like it’s something “important” but you’re saying silly jokes.
@108Existences
@108Existences 8 ай бұрын
That was pretty good man. Thanks. This included inferences/associations as well as extending jokes/themes which is actually just a phenomenon I noticed happening at work recently but not something I've learned about.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 8 ай бұрын
Extending jokes/themes is really really really powerful if you can do it good. Applies to other areas as well as humour also
@108Existences
@108Existences 8 ай бұрын
@@SocialShortcutswhat other areas of life?
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 8 ай бұрын
@@108Existences all of them but I think they’re most relevant to humour, flirting, arguments, debating, holding conversation
@macrons593
@macrons593 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting thing is, most of the jokes sucked. But so far at 4:39 "draining" got me to blow my air out and Ray got me to laugh. So the trick is not to expect every joke to land, but stop censoring yourself and keep tryig until u get better and better at making good ones. One question though, is it more effective to say em out loud?
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 3 жыл бұрын
"Stop censoring yourself and keep trying until you get better" - Yes, but also generally socialising favours risk takers for many reasons, one example of which is that you rarely lose much from a risk that goes wrong and usually gain a lot from one that pays off. Also with humour especially it's more about expanding when you find something that works, so for example if I were talking to you in real life I would expand on the "draining" joke after seeing you liked it. These were made up on the spot in quick succession under pressure so I would expect most of them to suck in the opinion of lots of people. "Is it more effective to say them out loud?" - I don't think it makes much difference if we are talking about using this exercise as practice. If you can do it with a partner and say them out loud so you receive feedback from another person that will be better though. Thanks for commenting.
@michaelobrien3483
@michaelobrien3483 3 жыл бұрын
@@SocialShortcuts i personally thought the most of the jokes were funny especially the one where you said “that’s why they have running shoes to run away from the snow leopards” ahah
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 3 жыл бұрын
@@michaelobrien3483 Thanks! A lot of the time relating back to an earlier joke makes it more funny.
@KeyserTheRedBeard
@KeyserTheRedBeard 2 жыл бұрын
astonishing upload Social Shortcuts. I smashed the thumbs up on your video. Keep up the high quality work.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot! Just about to upload new videos
@kw9568
@kw9568 Жыл бұрын
I searched for exercise comedy. I was looking for standup on working out and being too lazy to go to the gym. I got this instead! 😁😁😁
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
hope it was helpful :)
@kw9568
@kw9568 Жыл бұрын
@@SocialShortcuts yes thank you very much!!! ☺️
@jennyvantonder8634
@jennyvantonder8634 3 ай бұрын
Loking at this guy. The sing Wiggle that Whatsit"by The Hollies, comes to mind. Sooo energetic.😂
@aryanramola12
@aryanramola12 5 күн бұрын
this is really awesome
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 4 күн бұрын
@@aryanramola12 thank u. I’ve filmed a bunch more videos they will be released soon
@mharkjhoshuatorres947
@mharkjhoshuatorres947 2 жыл бұрын
My problem is that I really have great humor in person but am extremely weak when implementing it in messaging app conversations.
@manasibaindur3880
@manasibaindur3880 Жыл бұрын
I'm opposite. I can be funny while writing but not in person because my jokes get embarrassed as I'm to trying to be very proper.
@Natuer7Vlogs
@Natuer7Vlogs 2 ай бұрын
Facing the exact problem rn. Did u fixed it?
@draxl0
@draxl0 2 ай бұрын
I have longed for this video. Thank you now I understand what to do and HOW to do it.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Ай бұрын
@@draxl0 will be posting more humour exercises in the near future 😄
@wastefellow2129
@wastefellow2129 2 жыл бұрын
This is extraordinary ❤❤
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks. If you have TikTok I post a lot more on there than here now
@rraa2699
@rraa2699 Жыл бұрын
Great skills, you impressed me with this video and your wisdom
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
Thank you I’ll be posting more videos now aiming to work up to a video a day 😄
@XtonX
@XtonX 2 жыл бұрын
I’m already knowing this video is gonna help me out a ton! Just worte down plenty of exercises I can do from this
@user-xz1wy4to4o
@user-xz1wy4to4o Жыл бұрын
not even going to share the knowledge? smh.
@timbradshaw5481
@timbradshaw5481 8 ай бұрын
I wrote down 20 pages of exercises from this video and I plan to start practising 8 hours a day, 7 days a week for 12 years.
@QazDiaries
@QazDiaries 3 ай бұрын
Hows it going
@nicksavov5027
@nicksavov5027 Ай бұрын
@@QazDiaries It's going well, how are you doing?
@himanshubalasamanta4752
@himanshubalasamanta4752 22 күн бұрын
I love exersizes on sense of humour
@timmytam8072
@timmytam8072 Ай бұрын
I used to do this all the time with my brother haha, always cracks us up lmao
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Ай бұрын
@@timmytam8072 that’s good haha keep it up!
@timothygilroy1629
@timothygilroy1629 6 ай бұрын
This is fucking brilliant. What a great way to make life more entertaining, please God I wanna be this witty!!!
@vijayarchitect
@vijayarchitect 9 күн бұрын
Practical dale carnegie you are , how to win friends and influence people
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 4 күн бұрын
@@vijayarchitect thanks, I have that book in my room and haven’t read it 🙃
@16.deepakkumar8
@16.deepakkumar8 8 күн бұрын
When I saw the size,Everybody knows what’s gonna come
@MeYou-Sick
@MeYou-Sick 8 күн бұрын
That's better than many stand-ups.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 4 күн бұрын
@@MeYou-Sick thank u. stand up and humour in social situations is a lot more different than people realise for a bunch of reasons
@LoyalT401
@LoyalT401 5 күн бұрын
Ray ban was hilarious lmao
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 4 күн бұрын
@@LoyalT401 lol yeah I think that might be my favourite
@mcdermott9656
@mcdermott9656 6 жыл бұрын
This guy is great. Highly recommend the group sessions on his meetup
@kw9568
@kw9568 Жыл бұрын
INTERESTING!!!!!!!!
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
Get practicing! I have a playlist on humour if you wanna see.
@klaingarjosue
@klaingarjosue 3 жыл бұрын
I hope this really works, I’ve been trying it for a couple days
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 3 жыл бұрын
We have a lot of other humour exercises too, if you want to book a free 45 minute call on our website we can go through them.
@zahuraalam2998
@zahuraalam2998 3 жыл бұрын
Harrison update?
@klaingarjosue
@klaingarjosue 3 жыл бұрын
@@zahuraalam2998 it does work. Im seeing little changes. I think it make me better and better overtime but over a long period of consistency
@unobruno_
@unobruno_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@SocialShortcuts yo i wanna book a call!
@Themankiratshow
@Themankiratshow Жыл бұрын
Wooh, I just realized how intelligent is this humour
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
Thanks. I have some other exercises for humour on my social skills exercises playlist
@TheMelonhead360
@TheMelonhead360 2 жыл бұрын
Scalpers really dangerous barbers 🤣
@CFFRecords
@CFFRecords 9 ай бұрын
I was watching the video like… ooook? Till he got to “Office” yea that was the one for me😂
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 8 ай бұрын
Think my favourite is Ray Ban
@TheJourneyDude
@TheJourneyDude 3 жыл бұрын
While I think this is great, you should probably disclaim that you're British as hell and that it's reflected in your humour, haha. Well done man, thank you.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 3 жыл бұрын
Haha thanks, it's still an easy way to practice regardless of culture, my examples in this video might be more a British style of humour as that's where I am.
@Nileshkumar-lf7oc
@Nileshkumar-lf7oc Жыл бұрын
It's really helpful 😊😊
@AntonySammeroff
@AntonySammeroff 4 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this
@DaDarkForce991
@DaDarkForce991 Жыл бұрын
What a wobbly guy! Lol Made up in 3.782 secs! New record
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
Great joke and even better accuracy of timing there must be a stopwatch used for physics experiments or something like that.
@DaDarkForce991
@DaDarkForce991 Жыл бұрын
@@SocialShortcuts exactly
@MaryMurrayIrishActress
@MaryMurrayIrishActress 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent tutorial, thank you.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
😁
@PinupSticknerd
@PinupSticknerd 9 ай бұрын
One-liners 😊😅 Preciate you ✊ #Exposure therapy
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 8 ай бұрын
Thanks 😄
@clementekpo7606
@clementekpo7606 Жыл бұрын
I'm impressed 👏
@seyyedmahdiseyyedmahmoodi4060
@seyyedmahdiseyyedmahmoodi4060 Ай бұрын
Nice job.👍🙏
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 29 күн бұрын
@@seyyedmahdiseyyedmahmoodi4060 thanks 😄
@bryantambracc
@bryantambracc Жыл бұрын
He started slow and then doing some actually funny ones.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
What in your opinion were the funny ones?
@HappyTechTV
@HappyTechTV 5 жыл бұрын
Happiness Technology in action
@ClaraJohari
@ClaraJohari Жыл бұрын
Sweaty Betty "That's where your sister lives" lmbooo
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
the job centre = your brother
@ZackeryBackery
@ZackeryBackery Жыл бұрын
The North face one had me on floor
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
You got your down face going then I see
@tommybell1786
@tommybell1786 2 жыл бұрын
Here's a social skill. Stop squirming while you introduce a video...
@thephatk4t
@thephatk4t 5 күн бұрын
I just Realized that that i did this shit without even realizing… maybe i am a secret comedian?
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 4 күн бұрын
@@thephatk4t sounds like you’re able to make jokes obviously 😂 if you do this more on purpose you’ll improve at humour even more which I would recommend
@tusharnandy6711
@tusharnandy6711 20 күн бұрын
What happens when you hit the g-spot too hard? you get a g shock
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 19 күн бұрын
@@tusharnandy6711 you will vaporise whoever you’re having sex with and yourself if you hit it at the speed of light but not sure about what happens at lower velocities but I’m sure if we cum to figure this out later it will be good
@ebenezerokinedo1748
@ebenezerokinedo1748 9 ай бұрын
Wooooooow,
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 8 ай бұрын
✨✨✨
@kapilprajapati3575
@kapilprajapati3575 Жыл бұрын
Any book recommendation for that level of humourous interpretations of those observed things in instances.....?
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
I don’t know of any books, as far as I can tell there aren’t any books that are great for humour in social situations (would like it if I could be corrected about this) If you do the free trial session of our coaching we can go through it there in detail with more exercises to practice etc. (just go to www.socialshortcuts.com) you might also find the humour playlist helpful. I have a video on how to practice making word play jokes & improve speed & confidence scheduled to be released either today or in the next 2 days
@beasty45
@beasty45 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this was pretty funny
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks! I’m mostly posting on TikTok now my account is social_shortcuts
@Fatih-ot5ur
@Fatih-ot5ur Жыл бұрын
Brilliant video, really inspired me
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😄✨✨
@mitotv6376
@mitotv6376 9 ай бұрын
Nice
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 8 ай бұрын
Thanks 😄
@theuntold3091
@theuntold3091 Жыл бұрын
practical shitt.... now i going to impress chicks with my humor.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
Make sure to practice it a lot. I have a playlist with other exercises too if you wanna see
@Nycolas9929
@Nycolas9929 2 жыл бұрын
I can do this exercise with common things that i see everyday?
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly but it’s better if you have a lot of varied stimulus quickly. The street on the video has a lot of different shops you can also do this exercise watching a movie or similar as well.
@Meehaly
@Meehaly 8 ай бұрын
replay, I went there yesterday. replay, i went there yesterday, replay, i went there yesterday 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 my fav joke
@ankitmallik6264
@ankitmallik6264 Жыл бұрын
where is excersise 2? I know i am always staying in 1st doesnot means I cannot reach on 2
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
Hey I have a playlist with exercises but didn’t end up numbering them just look on playlists 🙂 I have about 90 but only posted a few so far
@Dhar01
@Dhar01 Жыл бұрын
Man, this is funny!
@klausineliebtpeter
@klausineliebtpeter Жыл бұрын
dudes got that 40yr old living in mums cellar norman bates energy with patrick bateman music taste style jokes
@Nino_Row
@Nino_Row 17 күн бұрын
He is moving like a black g😊😊
@Nino_Row
@Nino_Row 9 күн бұрын
Much love and respect
@d1rtyharry378
@d1rtyharry378 2 ай бұрын
My humour is pretty good but only when I make fun of my sister. When it comes to others I can't speak even a word 😭
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 ай бұрын
@@d1rtyharry378 why do you think that is?
@d1rtyharry378
@d1rtyharry378 2 ай бұрын
@@SocialShortcuts it's because I think my humour is based on making fun of others. And I think I can get too insulting? My sister never takes it personally and she knows I love her a lot so my jokes are not real insults. But with others I think I might offend people. And also I think maybe if I make fun of them, they may make fun of me for a lot things. I am too insecure about a lot of things too. I think it's the latter. If I can maybe own my insecurities, I won't get care if I make some offensive jokes that I don't mean. What do you think?
@ymaaw3735
@ymaaw3735 2 ай бұрын
@@d1rtyharry378 Wow I realized this about myself a few months ago too. That's so strange that another person has the same experience including feeling insecure when others make jokes at my expense. I'll share my experience with you to maybe help you and myself too. I realized most of my jokes were at the expense of others a few months ago. This actually lead to two female coworkers hating the hell out of me over time, every interaction becoming more and more nasty and subtly disrespectful, and eventually them stopping talking to me altogether. Their issues and toxicity aside, I realized my contribution was not being respectful towards others when making jokes at their expense. Funny people often have the attitude of being positive and respectful with others. Weird, right? I didn't realize that before. I also figured out that being funny in other ways is 100% possible and is what most funny people do most of the time and only using light teasing instead of what we are doing. They know their limits of teasing people by returning to their base of being positive and respectful. Lessons learned about humor: There are different types of humor (mine are sarcasm, exaggeration, self-deprecation-self-enhancement, dark humor...etc), you can recognize what makes something humorous (surprise, incongruity, superiority...etc), and there are ways to develop humor as a skill (exercises for word association, or what this video shows and so on). Knowing this enables me to become better at humor over time. It could help you too. A feeling of superiority can make something funny, did you know that?! I didn't. That's probably mostly why we laugh when jokes happen at the expense of others and why others laugh at us when it's our turn to be the butt of the joke. Self-enhancing humor and self-deprecating humor operate on that as well as the element of surprise that the joke has. So, I suggest focusing on surprise to make humor. There's a way to create surprise for laughter. Two skills: Main skill is to recoginze the expected or assumed meaning of a sentence, the sub-skill is to twist the meaning into something else. I learned this from a guy online with a site called a funnier you. Check it out. Hope this helps.
@elitemindset-fz1yc
@elitemindset-fz1yc 19 күн бұрын
Try this in America and it would just be traffic noise
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 9 күн бұрын
@@elitemindset-fz1yc 🤣 sounds so monotonous I bet you get TYREd 🛞
@TiberiusHassius
@TiberiusHassius Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this gift.
@papabear90
@papabear90 3 ай бұрын
Lol I had no idea this is the same channel as the command and conquer man
@spoopyscaryskelebones3846
@spoopyscaryskelebones3846 Ай бұрын
CEO of British Humor
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 29 күн бұрын
@@spoopyscaryskelebones3846 this made me laugh looooool
@joshklinger1
@joshklinger1 6 жыл бұрын
Killed it man! Hahaha
@exo01938
@exo01938 Ай бұрын
I thought you were rayan gosling im thumbnail
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 29 күн бұрын
🤣
@leonardliang7778
@leonardliang7778 2 жыл бұрын
The only funny ones: -treemendous -that's why there's running shoes there
@TuNguyen-rh1rl
@TuNguyen-rh1rl 2 жыл бұрын
Love video
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! We have one about how to generate topics in conversation from nowehere scheduled for tomorrow.
@taiwofakayejo9684
@taiwofakayejo9684 12 күн бұрын
😂😂😂 I don't have a face for radio
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 9 күн бұрын
@@taiwofakayejo9684 😏
@shrav7-
@shrav7- 2 ай бұрын
Where is this shot? This street look sleek!
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Ай бұрын
@@shrav7- Carnaby street
@Asdaq454
@Asdaq454 7 ай бұрын
can I do it while scrolling KZbin on thumbnails and subtitles?
@alexspel100
@alexspel100 2 жыл бұрын
👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
@finishme2753
@finishme2753 Жыл бұрын
Exercise #2: To Hire a Cameraman that Doesn't make the viewers dizzy
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
Sorry I’m only good at social skills
@finishme2753
@finishme2753 Жыл бұрын
@@SocialShortcuts Great, then you can socialize with your videographer with regards to his/her camera operational skills! But I honestly did like the bit, and I did practice quick association with things i saw at work and during the drive.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
@@finishme2753 thanks 😁 good to hear
@jdudefun1755
@jdudefun1755 2 жыл бұрын
I need this.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
How come? 😁
@Allejito
@Allejito 2 жыл бұрын
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
@WeConnectHumans
@WeConnectHumans 3 жыл бұрын
Where is this area guys, please?
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 3 жыл бұрын
Carnaby street
@LerogFR
@LerogFR Жыл бұрын
He got me at diesel
@BrunoCorreiaIRL
@BrunoCorreiaIRL 4 ай бұрын
Did I just found a tutorial about how to Yap (in a attempt to be funny)?
@genesissutton8307
@genesissutton8307 6 ай бұрын
wow i can't do this at all
@welshie2007
@welshie2007 4 ай бұрын
I must be funnier than I thought...
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 4 ай бұрын
That’s good!
@ankitaaarya
@ankitaaarya Жыл бұрын
Is it green screen??
@ankitaaarya
@ankitaaarya Жыл бұрын
No it's not
@ankitaaarya
@ankitaaarya Жыл бұрын
Or is it 🤔
@ankitaaarya
@ankitaaarya Жыл бұрын
It's definitely not, really really hard to match timing perfectly.
@ankitaaarya
@ankitaaarya Жыл бұрын
Not impossible though.
@alexunder7214
@alexunder7214 Жыл бұрын
that tree looks treemendous xD
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
So much that it deserves special TREEtment
@Valentino016
@Valentino016 Жыл бұрын
Any techniques how do you do humour so effortlessly? for me I don't want it to look like I'm trying to be funny and I dont want my humour to come of as cringe. I'm good at making jokes but I'm not always confident with them.
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts Жыл бұрын
One of the most important things in social skills of all (IMO the 3rd most important thing) is to follow the rule “if not sure take the risk” for everything but especially for humour. There are a bunch of benefits to this following this rule but the most important ones are that A-the risky option is usually the better one (a bit to long to explain exactly why) B-you learn way way faster. It’s worth coming off as cringe etc a bunch of times for the progress you make which will = being more funny & less cringe in the future. I think I have a video about this on this channel. Seems to me like by far your best level up for humour right now is follow that rule and care less about how you come across.
@sandraconstanzagualteroley5518
@sandraconstanzagualteroley5518 2 жыл бұрын
👍
@PeterQuentercrimsonbamboo
@PeterQuentercrimsonbamboo 2 ай бұрын
You mention body language… I might wonder what it means when your body is wobbling and bobbling as you talk to us… -:)
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 ай бұрын
@@PeterQuentercrimsonbamboo I have ADHD hahaha
@PeterQuentercrimsonbamboo
@PeterQuentercrimsonbamboo 2 ай бұрын
@@SocialShortcuts Ah... I see... in that case I'll certainly add it to my list of notes about observing bodylanguage :-) - thanks muchly for an actually insightful giggle :-)
@CincyPhotography
@CincyPhotography 2 жыл бұрын
oops he almost hit that guy in the face
@camilafaundes1709
@camilafaundes1709 2 жыл бұрын
😍😍😋😍😋
@LordNotlek
@LordNotlek Ай бұрын
These all seem like dad jokes lol
@firewolf7108
@firewolf7108 3 жыл бұрын
Howw ;-;
@aliasspitzburger6590
@aliasspitzburger6590 2 жыл бұрын
No doubt my sense for humour is really low or non-existent - yet. So what if I don't find barely anything funny? Does that come with some sort of practice too? Perhaps my mindset? The world is too sad otherwise... :(
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
It’s generally better to have a lower barrier for what you find funny both for your own social skills and your own happiness so see if it’s possible to edit. There might be some types of humour you find funny but haven’t really come across so explore some things online or whatever. If you’re just generally a serious person though that might be a strength in other more serious areas of conversation
@nano927
@nano927 2 жыл бұрын
How did you do that you're witty af
@SocialShortcuts
@SocialShortcuts 2 жыл бұрын
Remember your brain changes same way your body changes when you exercise. After lots of practice you get a lot faster. Thanks btw
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