Most Men Are Just Looking For a Nesting Partner...

[@SDC214]

I can 100% confirm that what she says is true about "builder" kind of guys. The only reason I got with my wife was because I wanted a point man, a general manager I could trust to run my businesses. If she wasn't willing to do this, things would've never progressed beyond the bedroom. I've always viewed myself as the coach and my wife as the quarterback, not a partner or friend. Of course she wasn't with it at first. It took time for her to see my way was best for us and that I could be trusted in that way. Had many talks with her parents and friends saying I was being unreasonable and that I should compromise. But I couldn't care less. I wasn't going to let her work for another man and I just settle for the leftovers. Im not going to dedicate my energy and life to a woman that dedicates her time and energy to another man.

[@worldadventuretravel]

You do realize you're toxic AF and have nothing to be proud of, right?

[@yasminogbu8929]

Wow eye opening. Thanks for sharing. Do you control all the finances in the house too? Or do you have separate bank accounts. Have you ever cheated within the relationship? Many thanks

[@SDC214]

@@yasminogbu8929 My wife is an actual W2 employee on my company. I pay her a check to her own account. Never cheated. Never had to.

[@Sportylottie]

Damn!

[@AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult]

Do you pay her a living wage? Or does she at least owns 50% of the businesses? Anything other than that and you're exploring your wife.

[@LeilaniLight11709]

Unpaid employee, unpaid coach, unpaid support. BAD DEAL. Don't do it.Sounds very egoically self-serving and selfish.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Right ! So I have to be a maid, a sex worker, a life coach,a cheerleader and a therapist? Yeah I’m good

[@sarahrobertson634]

​@@ExoticalsUnitedThat's a big hell no from me.

[@NoPickmeishasAllowed]

My boyfriend told me a lot of men get married in the first place for financial benefits. For example, healthcare. I was shocked because I thought women were the “gold diggers” more often.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Exactly! if you look up the stories of a lot of homeless men, a lot of times those men are homeless because a woman kicked him out of her house…

[@attitudeproblem6462]

*Projection

[@legslikewhoa]

It’s all projection.

[@venda1008]

Men are the original gold diggers

[@moonfish8229]

Not of of them are looking for “love and romance ,“ when they get marry they look at how much they can benefit from women .

[@_komiichan9509]

All the things I’ve learned about men over the years has solidified me staying away from romantic relationships. I’m taking all this love and energy I have and I’m pouring back into myself.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Smart !

[@EconomicWarfare]

Add Steve Harvey and Kevin Hart to that list. They used their first wives as employees and helped them build and moved on to what they really wanted. I don't do romantic relationships because I know the truth about males. 😂😂😂

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Omg I totally forgot about Kevin hart that’s so true !

[@Miss_Cali]

It’s called the come up woman.

[@Marina.cm.]

Amazing vid. You’re so smart and brave to tell the truth! Thank you! Wish someone told me that when I started my love life cause men are clearly very much aware of all that and they use It for their own advantage. Most men do not love women, they consume women.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Omg yes! I’ve even had a man tell me before that he wants to devour me, isn’t that an interesting choice of words? A lot of men have said stuff like they want to devour women, impregnate them etc- they get turned on when they see a smart ambitious woman then it validates him to humble her and get her to submit to him either seggsually, domestically or emotionally

[@kantik2118]

​@@ExoticalsUnited yup getting with some men is like just disappearing in a hole. You become their extension. That's why when I see a very obessive guy chasing after me and he also have other girls after around him, I'm like "hey girl, you can have him. You'll see what you are getting in" 🥴

[@21Cherrylicious]

Don't forget the whole "what your wife don't know won't hurt her mentality"

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Yup! The “don’t ask don’t tell” relationships !

[@gonegirl9114]

My friend who is engaged to a man who lives in her house she bought alone and goes 50/50 actually had the nerve to try to get me to help her build a fence because she knows I’m a handy woman. First of all she tells me she got quotes that were too high for her so she was thinking me and her could do it ourselves. That’s not gonna happen, I do handy stuff for myself I don’t labor myself to others. Secondly she had a gun with a bullet stuck in the chamber for years. I just moved to her state and she ask me to help her get the bullet out. Mind you this thing she’s engaged to told her he use to be a cop. He can’t get a bullet out? They went on a cruise and he left his money and cards at home, she had to pay for everything. But hey she got that silver ring she doesn’t like because she wears gold. All in all this man is useless …oh he also has diabetes and sleep apnea. My friend is a nurse . He picked good …her not so much 😏

[@Mstorrance]

Wow 😮

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Lmao well she got her Prince Charming! 😂😂

[@msteach3082]

😩😩😫No, no, no!!! This is awful. Poor thing.

[@Gem-n-life]

I had someone attempt something similar. She’s married, and recently moved on the same street. She thought, I was going to be her sister-wife, as it pertains to sharing the responsibility of keeping her child, or taking her to appointments. She gave the cliché, “I just figured out I don’t need a man.” I was like, No Ma’am, you definitely need a man, because I can’t be that for you. I kept her son once, and quickly turned the spicket off, and removed it from its supply.

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

Serves her right

[@Chillikilli]

I have a woman cave in my apartment and its all pink 🥰

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Cute ! 😍

[@kaleidojess]

Please, women do not believe men when they say they are monogamous. Protect yourself, always.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

This is how women end up in marriages and they still catch STDs

[@kaleidojess]

​@@ExoticalsUnited That is soo sad.. we really have to be strategic

[@cynthiapickett7403]

Exactly why self love is so vital!

[@ExoticalsUnited]

exactly! you will always be able to love yourself better than a guy can because you are the only one who knows all your deepest thoughts and desires. when a man begins to know more of your deepest thoughts, he often uses and manipulates your desires to get you to serve him more (for example, pretending he wants to get into a relationship with a girl in order to get sex, etc. )

[@nothingbutme1150]

That’s why men ask you as soon as you meet them : what do you do for work and can you cook and who you live with? They do risk assessment in their heads to put women they meet into categories so they know how they can use them. I tell men I don’t work or have a job and you should see how they respond it’s very interesting but amusing to see.

[@adarateranroldan]

❤

[@ExoticalsUnited]

once i became an accountant, it was crazy the amount of men i began attracting. almost all the guys i attracted were above 100k income.... and they were most likely all 50-50 guys . in fact some of them even admitted it. just because guys have money doesn't mean they're generous . when men say they want their counterpart, its because they want her to provide labor and work for him. when i became an accountant, my skills became more valuable to wealthy men lmao. it was as if i was less of a risk or more of a labor asset for that mans business endeavors etc. meanwhile if women do the same thing we are gold diggers.

[@adarateranroldan]

@@ExoticalsUnited 😬

[@nothingbutme1150]

@@ExoticalsUnited oh ya then you are a prime target as they say. Accountants have stable jobs and know about the tax loopholes that some of these morons have no idea about. But the guys who are high earners get taxed a lot so either someone with your background you help them big time but when they save on those taxes who are they spending it on ?

[@ExoticalsUnited]

@@nothingbutme1150 exactly. I started attracting lots of business owners who would’ve loved to have a free accountant on staff 😂

[@Xarynnaxarynna]

Men just want a hole and free domestic labor....realized this at 39 years old.

[@nosphosferaoneeyedcat701]

A bang maid

[@shani.ninety]

@@nosphosferaoneeyedcat701 and a mommy they can screw 😅

[@ExoticalsUnited]

This !

[@nameunknown1519]

Also someone to show off to impress other men 🙄

[@ExoticalsUnited]

@@nameunknown1519 then when they get home they ignore her and jagg off to other women 😂😂😂

[@kaylafavor]

Wow really needed to hear this ❤ I’ve been feeling bad about being single in my 30s but I knew there had to be a reason why so many women were complaining to me about their husbands.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Right !

[@redleeks6253]

Elon Musk told his first wife and mother of his kids that if she was his employee he would have fired her already. He also didn't let her mourn the death of their first child and immediately decided to do IVF to get more kids faster. In the beginning his wife was a status symbol, then an incubator, then a nanny and finally made redundant.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Right. She was his domestic employee and raised the kids so he could spend more time building his money and fame

[@charlotteschnook1351]

If society had any real men in it - Elon Musk's head would be on a pike

[@Mgc3270]

Marriage is not a good deal for women.

[@venda1008]

It never was thats y I don’t want to get married

[@Mgc3270]

@@venda1008 Indeed.

[@LeilaniLight11709]

BAD DEAL, pay 50% AND do all the wifely duties, as in WORK for FREE to retire him early? REALLY>>>> BAD DEAL!

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Right !!!

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

We should also follow the "don't ask, don't tell" as women and be single 😊

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Yes, it’s crazy how many don’t ask don’t tell men there are. This is how women get into marriages and end up getting swindled or baby trapped etc

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

@@ExoticalsUnited True. At the same time, they're the ones asking if we're talking to other men 😂

[@CaramelPoppin-zg8hr]

"A soft landing," that was funny 😂... I never heard of nesting partners, but I've always referred these types of relationships to be roommates.

[@joycumfycozy3601]

This is so sad are we all ment to be alone 😢 thank God for self love ❤

[@ExoticalsUnited]

self love is a more powerful form of love anyway!

[@venda1008]

Yes we are meant to be alone,we came to this world alone

[@Sportylottie]

Once you keep pouring all that love into yourself you will get to a point when you’re so full and free, the loneliness will be gone and peace moves in 💕

[@mpazinambao2938]

I stray further and further away from the idea of marriage😐

[@hiniewinie]

Yup, this is my 6th comment glazing Ms. EU I literally used to listen to Kevin. The women he would interview were entertaining but damn... men are ruthless. But we must be more ruthless than them. So, what I understood was that, Uncle Kevin was trying to encourage men to go and get nesting partners so they can go and spread their seed? That's cute. Sounds like it's at the disadvantage of women. I asked my dad about red pill talking points when I was on that side of the internet and it's so crazy how he doesn't really agree with it. My dad literally told me " Hinnie, stop listening to that shit. Men will always come. Just focus on your education."

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Exactly

[@hiniewinie]

16:31 Honestly, we as women need to make ourselves more valuable. I'm listening to this stuff and I feel sick to my stomach. I feel bad for these women that are doing this to themselves. Wasting their lives like this. And red pill tube would tell women that " basically, your only purpose is to cook, look hot and take care of my kids." Then they make you feel bad if that gave you the icky feeling. I have dreams. I have hope's. I have aspirations just like how they do... I need to stop feeling sorry for men because it seems like, they would feign weakness for my empathetic ass.

[@hiniewinie]

Also, EU, do you do videos on tips with guys? Recently, I had a guy approach me in public and he asked for my number and I gave it to him. I have a feeling that was a stupid move though😔😔😔... I can't believe I surrendered that to him so quickly. Like I was 100% sure he wanted to be friends or something

[@yamiletsoler3464]

​@@hiniewiniewomen need to stop giving their number to random men on the streets, even if he's cute, please just stop, this is also affecting other women cause when these men approach other women and they reject them, then these weirdos start to act up in public, embarrassing us because they feel entitled to our phone number just because other women gave their own.

[@hiniewinie]

@@yamiletsoler3464 I can't lie, I'm very inexperienced when it comes to this department. So I'm really thankful for it. I really should have trusted my gut...

[@BCNena]

Blasian born in Spain here, just wanted to express my gratitude for your channel. It's a hidden gem, resonating with me deeply. Your content mirrors my thoughts, and the uplifting messages are something I wished for growing up. Keep up the amazing work! ❤

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Oh wow thank you so much! ❤️

[@AFocusedLiving]

Thank you for educating us on these topics that people want us ladies not to know about.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Right ! So many predatory men and miserable women want to hide this information from us! Most married women simply have a nesting partner husband and are just dealing with whatever crap he brings into the marriage while maintaining her image of a wife . Things wives often sweep under the rug include her husbands corn addictions and side chicks, gambling and drinking problems, 50-50 or hypogamy, side babies, etc

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

Bruh that thumbnail was funny asf 😂😂😂

[@ExoticalsUnited]

😂😂😂😂

[@strangefruit2438]

I'm not going to lie, this video triggered me to no end. I'm in a " healing" stage of my life right now. I thank you for this. Subscribed!

[@saijanaswamy7210]

Note even in polyamary: its all consentual. I'd imagine open honest communication is very impt since so many are involved in the relationship. To each their own but i judge ppl who use the poly excuse to cheat and have an "open relationship"...which lot do. Often. All the time. I'd be pissed if i consented to a poly relationship and the dude basically played me, don't tell me anything, then makes excuses when i confront them. His actions would affect the rest of us who are trying and putting in work..but they don't care or have self respect, i'd imagine..that's why they do it.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Exactly !

[@saijanaswamy7210]

@@tiahnarodriguez3809 good point!

[@overtremendouslyblah]

This is why your name has to be 50% on everything with that business. Never "help" a man uless you are also an owner. Just start your own business. Women need to stop doing free work

[@PrincessPowerranger]

In the IBLP cult (quiverfull movement), the women are taught to change their voice, think of Michelle duggar from 19 kids, and counting that poor woman had to change her whole damn voice

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Oh wow

[@sdot.corrine]

This video is actual and factual. It’s a hard pass for me. I already have a full time job. 😏 I am Unwilling to do Any with of this. 💯

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Yup!

[@izabela8295]

I am impressed how much knowledge and wisdom you have, take care! ❤️

[@AFFTFOMSICHTS]

Brittany Venti did an amazing exposing KS vid!! It’s embarrassing !! basically he was a dusty his entire life until he found he found success leading other dusties

[@_alycia]

💯 All facts!! The more I listen, the voice sounds almost exactly like another KZbin channel content creator I listen to.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Thanks for listening!

[@Wewereneveryoung]

I'm sure it's the Queen Maker 😏

[@sherry3465]

OMG this video was a pop up, i played the video out of curiosity, it sounds like my relationship, things make sense now, i'm glad I opened this video, Thankyou for sharing it...👏🏾🎉🙂

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Glad it was helpful!

[@sherry3465]

@@ExoticalsUnited I've also read alot of the other readers comments and I agree with what they say...

[@moonfish8229]

Please listen to this lady, she is so wise ❤️❤️❤️🌸🌺🌺🌸

[@moonfish8229]

I’m East Asian, a woman , living the US .I had seen this kind of behavior from all kinds of men regardless of their cultural background

[@Juliemaeblack]

Wow..I didn't know Asian men behave like this.

[@food4thought692]

Most men are benefiting from the marketing of them being protector/providers. If most women really did the math on what they get out of them, they wouldn’t bother. Even with rich men.

[@aeclotic]

Hii EU, could you make a video on the recent discourse that white men only get the darkest bw and are not attracted to light-skinned women, I've seen this said on twitter and on tik tok, though i'm not sure if this is true

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Yeah it’s 100% false. Isn’t it hilarious how one minute “the white man sees mixed and black as all the same” then the next minute it’s “white men see a difference and they only want DSBW” 😂 but yeah I can talk about this . How would the CREATORS OF COLORISM (white men) suddenly be the LEAST colorist in dating ? That’s laughable but ok.

[@lilsumpn]

I say get a male roommate that pays half the bills on time, no intimacy, that minds his business, cleans up after himself and handles his own affairs. Have friends male and female. Have hobbies. If you meet a man that treats you good, you enjoy his company, he is attractive and healthy then date him. If you're gonna have sex with him require he gets a complete physical first and be monogamous.

[@Iknowwhatiknow-r9e]

I had a male roommate that pulled the dick on me. I'd rather pay my bills on my own. As far as I get an apartment on my own, I was always got 2 BRs with a BF trying to talk me into having him move in. Luckily, I don't like a man hovering over me so I decline quickly.

[@daisymoraa8828]

Gems! You sound like Asha Christina🎉

[@bobbiebabb9305]

It was called shacking and cracking,back in the day.😊

[@ExoticalsUnited]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@sophialopez2079]

The thumbnail im 😂😂😂 💀💀💀

[@melanatedpurpose]

PREACH 🙌🏿

[@ericad8412]

Why buy the cow when the milk is free

[@222-p2q]

at the end of the day we are humans not cow. big difference

[@ericad8412]

Not with the way some of these guys think

[@msteach3082]

Unfortunately, even when they “buy the cow”, they still mistreat it.

[@laplusbelle7982]

Marriage is Not going to change Male Nature

[@Wewereneveryoung]

This old saying is tired and played out

[@gwenjohn8673]

I wish this wasn't true. Ugh.

[@morganalefay5454]

❤GREAT❤