Expecting Fathers Play Truth or Drink | Cut

[@emberurban]

Bring them back a month or two after their babies are born please!

[@QueenPam1]

Agreed

[@dmedits2271]

Please!

[@ilhuicatlamatini]

Yes!

[@theguywitdamohawk]

bump

[@TPark-rf3lt]

i dont think they'll have time or energy if they have a 1 to 2 month old! 😂 maybe after a year!

[@sarahbi8811]

The guy in the blue shirt that said you can't expect things from your kids that you yourself can't do as a parent, preach!! All the fellas seem like they'd be funny awesome dads

[@andreaus.]

‘Blue shirt’ wins for best answer. “Either one…as long as you’re my kid.” ANY nuance beyond that, is a private discussion for when that child is of-age and has the language to speak on it.

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

No psh that was a POLITICIANS answer.. smh

[@user-kx6fw8ub9g]

@@TheKatarinaGiseller maybe they’re just an accepting parent?

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

@@user-kx6fw8ub9g 😂

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

@@user-kx6fw8ub9g learn to *LIGHTEN UP!* 🤪🤣

[@katerinasvoronos4964]

absolutely agreed

[@1997mclarencongo]

as a man, this 1000% warmed my heart to see these fathers-to-be get along so damn well and are all on the same page for the vast majority of things they’ll encounter as fathers. these are good role models, and if i’m even half as good as these guys are when i become a father, i think i’ll be alright 🙏🏾

[@UnBesoDeCristal]

misogyny is wo wholesome

[@mymydigitaldiary]

that’s a low bar

[@KeatrithAmakiir]

Really? there was a lot of sexism and ignorance on display here. They almost all admitted their partner is doing all the work / prep for the baby's arrival and they're just chillin. Not cool, and not how to be a supportive partner at all

[@1997mclarencongo]

@@KeatrithAmakiiroutside of blue shirt, did any of the other men say they weren’t doing shit around the house? and for the others, could you point out the specific instances of misogyny outside of the “thot daughter/gay son” question? since i’m evidently not seeing what y’all are seeing

[@KeatrithAmakiir]

@@1997mclarencongo I never said that one question was sexist, that was a good question. Their answers are problematic because what's inherently the problem with a promiscuous daughter? That concern is more applied to young women than men. Additionally, several admitted their wives were doing all the prep for the arrival of the baby and they were just doing business as usual, which is a holdover of archaic societal gender roles where fathers don't help around the house / with kids equally. I could go on, but I feel that clarifies my point sufficiently, hope that helps

[@Vanessa-bl7cp]

It’s honestly so nice to see men wanting to be involved in their kids life, being a role model and just all around wanting to be there for them.

[@sarahdemartin1183]

I agree. It is pretty nice to see the bare minimum

[@ChrisBX89]

Can happen more often if women didn't have shitty taste in men. Stop going for the good looking, tall, popular, rich guy with a nice car and actually go for a man with good character & qualities

[@yurinater6003]

@@ChrisBX89 Blaming the women again instead of the deadbeat dads 😍

[@ChrisBX89]

@@yurinater6003 I know women are allergic to accountability but can u please tell me who's choosing those deadbeats? & It's funny when men opt out of Parenthood we get called "deadbeats" but when women do it they're "responsible" FOH, at least when we leave the kid is still alive🤷

[@sarahchoi2657]

@@ChrisBX89 women are not choosing deadbeats. men are actively becoming deabeats after being chosen. "at least when we leave the kid is still alive" u sound dumb. so it's better to abandon a living kid and leave them in a shitty situation than to prevent that from happening in the first place?

[@sooploopz]

I hope they all stay friends and all their kids grow up and become friends with each other

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

Not happening

[@ninadobrevicon]

​@@TheKatarinaGiselledamn💀

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

@@ninadobrevicon lol just being realistic

[@ng3855]

@@TheKatarinaGiselleno ur so real lmao💀💀

[@twiddle7125]

I think it would have been interesting to see dads with adult children paired with these soon-to-be dads and see how time changes their answers.

[@amitabose2232]

YES

[@Kortney0718]

That’s a good idea!

[@birdie_.]

I absolutely have 0 interest in having kids but seeing people who want kids so excited about having kids I absolutely love🥹

[@ztarr]

Aww that's nice. The desire to have children does bewilder me a little. It just seems like one of the scariest journey's to embark on in life and people are just out here jumping on the wagon everyday 😂

[@birdie_.]

@@ztarr yeah I’m like why does anyone wanna deal with that??😂 nah I am not built for parenthood but for those who are, I get so excited for. Just keep that poopy crying thing away from me🫣

[@babibrii]

I thought the same before I had my surprise son ! I was SO upset at first when I first found out but now i can’t imagine life without having him ! He’ll be 5 in September and now I want one more lol !

[@birdie_.]

@@babibrii Aw congrats 🥰

[@ztarr]

@@babibrii lmaoo I'm so glad that worked out for you. I've always felt called to adopt. I never want to endure pregnancy and I personally don't feel the need to bring more children into the world, but I do know that I have a compassionate heart that would make some kids in need of a mom happy. So yeah, one day when I've done all my running around the world, I'll hopefully adopt some older kiddos 🤞🏽

[@EffinFatai]

Can't believe they asked the "gay son vs thot daughter" question 😂😂😂

[@bojuu]

its weird because theres a lot of questions on the internet that go viral once and then at one point most people reach a conclusion and it dies down. (e.g. the blue/white dress, is water wet? etc.) but this is the only question that i've never been able to personally answer to this day. even though it seems so dumb

[@BonShula]

It is not weird since a lot of stigma still in society about these topics. Especially sex work since at least homosexuality has been increasing in approval rating

[@poejavelski148]

@@BonShulaSex work should be stigmatized.

[@Sam-tb4im]

@@poejavelski148 moneys money better than working a 9-5 until you die

[@poejavelski148]

@@Sam-tb4im No, only the top tier creators make a lot of money from sex work. Most make less than a 9-5. Also, nearly every sex worker has mental health issues, not to mention their personal relationships are challenging. That’s gonna be a no from me dawg, you have to be in a pretty dark place to ever want to do that.

[@Kyle-vp2dk]

The CUT team member who thought to make “gay son or thot daughter” the thumbnail is INSANE

[@alyssakordae]

insanely hilarious

[@fia1712]

Def got the views up tho😭😭😭

[@aphaseelec]

Made me watch.

[@jessicahill3310]

Truly unhinged lol

[@tonybirimisa859]

You the one who clicked

[@RaiyaSaleem-vn6jw]

I need the white man and the man with the blue snapback to meet up every few months and re do this - they seem like they could develop a good friendship

[@hazelmiller2217]

“MY GIRLS DOING HER WHOLE NESTING THING AND IM JUST GOING ABOUT MY DAY”

[@lilyhutchison4714]

Red flag 🚩

[@nemashan3701]

@@lilyhutchison4714 how is that a red flag

[@sebaekons1534]

@@nemashan3701 he isnt doing anything to prepare for the baby

[@mel-pd8tf]

@@sebaekons1534you forgot the context. He’s prioritizing working meanwhile she is focusing on things inside the house. In order for her to do the whole nesting thing and making the house safe for the baby you need income which he is providing.

[@rebeccadavidson6416]

The guy sooo excited to be a dad warmed my heart, he couldn't stop smiling

[@kristen7938]

I appreciate Ben so much for doing research and keeping his son(s) whole

[@alunoodalmheiri7028]

The black guy with the blue cap seems like the sweetest person ever!!

[@WadeIsInsane]

Which one? There were two with the long braids/locs

[@oooladip]

@@WadeIsInsane i bet they are talking about the light-skin father. he has an exuberant personality

[@alunoodalmheiri7028]

@@WadeIsInsane Right 😆 the guy in the blue cap

[@vp9549]

Besides him wanting to mutilate his child's genitals unnecessarily.

[@WadeIsInsane]

@@alunoodalmheiri7028 i gotcha, ya i agree 😄

[@tantanjafin]

All these guys seem like they could be friends after this. Hope for safe delivery for all

[@polinabckff]

the blue shirt guy is so funny and kind :) i think he's gonna be the jokester kind of dad

[@platinum4187]

Touching to see men talk so deeply and personally about their feelings and such an important topic. Disclosure builds intimacy and literally saw them connecting and liking the other man. Love to see it. And its hopeful to see men with values shared here will be putting kids into the world. ❤

[@starlittered]

What an eloquent answer!! Wow ❤

[@sophiaisabelle027]

These are fairly entertaining to watch. Happy Fathers' Day to all deserving good dads out there.

[@stuts527]

I didn't expect this episode to be THIS WHOLESOME, I WAS SMILING THE WHOLE TIME ❤

[@rampagedingo]

This is refreshing seeing dad's share moments. Nice one CUT.

[@Ravenshade_5]

I'd really love to see a follow up with these same pairings. I hope that the one dad (Ben?) who kept talking about money and working a lot realizes he needs a healthy work/life balance to be a good dad. Quality time is valuable, too.

[@HopeCoreEspañol-w2j]

Expecting parents expecting the approval from other expecting parents. Pure cinema

[@liljordlord]

i like that the “gay son or is thot daughter” question was asked because even though it started off as a trendy meme joke, it does say a lot about society and how patriarchy sees things such as sexuality outside of the status quo (cisgender males). i think most of the answers were very real and came from genuine places. although they weren’t the best answers to hear i’m sure these guys grew up with men saying stuff like “i want neither” or “GAY??”. a lot of progress in terms of parenting and fathering off a question like that.

[@jesusbarrera6916]

here's a little secret.... women can get pregnant and the guy could just bail leaving her with the issue by herself and it becomes a family issue if the daughter does not wish to abort but cannot take care of it by herself mindblowing I know..... damn that patriarchy for basic biological functions

[@jedinight235]

Please don't use cisgender, a lot of people don't like when they are referred to as a term someone else made up for them. An analogy could be how LGBT don't like it when we misgender them. Similar thing applies.

[@Savannah-]

@@jedinight235 All terms are "made up" for people. Cis is just a latin prefix that means "on this side of", it's simply a way to refer to non-transgender people. It's a neutral term, there's nothing offensive about it. An extreme minority have decided to take offense because of their own wacky views on gender and transgender people. The vast majority are fine w it, stop telling people what they can and can't say based on a handful of weirdo opinions. Also, the LG and B have nothing to do with gender. You can't compare being misgendered with being called cis. Misgendering is calling someone something they're not. Cisgender people DO identify as people who agree with their assigned sex at birth which is all cis means. Should we stop saying straight because a couple fuckhead straight people get mad that we're implying there's something other than straight that's valid so it offends them? Go away.

[@DrunkenEros]

​@@jedinight235do you get mad being called heterosexual

[@jedinight235]

@@DrunkenEros No because thats the scientific, and in my opinion sounding better, term.

[@amielynn8506]

Didn't like the "gay son vs thot daughter" question. Gay is more like how you were born and thot can be more about others perception of a woman's promiscuity

[@letlotlosibanda]

Guy with the dreadlocks is so pretty. He has such a beautiful smile. 😭😭😭

[@bntin]

Watching this from the UK, being cut down there isn’t the norm- it’s sad to see parents deciding bodily autonomy for a baby… they get no say & I’ve been with cut men and they feel it far far less than un-cut. I think it should be the kids decision once they’re old enough

[@christineg6123]

Canadian here. 100% agreed

[@MrJungle123]

Exactly. 'Hey look, our perfect little baby boy. Let's go and mutilate his cock' is basically how I view circumcision.

[@mimu6700]

German here, agree as well

[@Ed95366]

American here, felt weird about it as well when almost all of them agreed. Forgot how normalized it was here.

[@sk-nb5tl]

Getting circumcised as a grown man instead of child im guessing would be more painful/ difficult

[@heyLORDitsme]

The guy in the blue hat and the white hoodie seem like they’d be solid friends and the strongest parents

[@1rkhachatryan]

So sad to see how normalized circumcision is in America, I'm so glad my parents never did that to me. It's the fact that they don't even question it that is so weird and I will never understand.

[@Superbatmanbro]

I never even knew that people did that until a while ago and just grateful for having my foreskin on me still.

[@trevorpeterson8528]

I’m glad my parents did it too me and my son will also be glad I will get it done for him

[@1rkhachatryan]

@@trevorpeterson8528 real great mind reader there aren't you lol.

[@boredguy5805]

I really don't get it, even as a Canadian, it's alot more uncommon here compared to in America. Idk what it is there across the border that makes them so comfortable doing it

[@akumayoxiruma]

@@trevorpeterson8528: Why would you want to permanently destroy a part of your child's body for absolutely no medical necessity? Leave them alone until they are adults and can decide for themselves whether or not they want to mutilate their body.

[@robert7567]

As an uncircumcised American, Americans can be so backwards in their understanding of circumcision. Having a foreskin isn’t so uncommon as y’all would think - South and Central America, Europe, Asia - there are loads of men walking around with their willies intact.

[@nintendo1709]

Why do you care about that either way? If that’s what the culture or religion normally does then do it. If you don’t want to do it on your child that’s your choice.

[@robert7567]

@@nintendo1709 if the culture does it because of misinformation, then it’s a problem. Go do your research and quiet down. Pfft.

[@nintendo1709]

@@robert7567 well for instance in my culture, I come from Polynesia, we have been performing circumcision for thousands of years and now we have white Europeans telling us how to do things and it’s quite irritating. I wish non-indigenous people would stay out of our affairs. If you want to do something in your community or your home that’s fine, don’t force us to go along with you.

[@faugina8843]

@@nintendo1709 It shouldnt be the parents choice to mutilate a part of their childs penis, when the kid grows up they can choose to cut it and eat it with some bbq sauce if they want to.

[@ariagonzalez1326]

as a mom who chose not to cut my son’s, theres so many reasons not to do it and aesthetics seem to be the only reason to do it outside of religion.

[@mariahp.6993]

👏 Ben is a real man! ❤ The respect you have for the role you’re coming into is so appreciated! You will be a great father! 💗

[@linnearose832]

Already having expectations before the baby is even born....calm down a bit. As someone with high expecting parents: it affects everything Children are not supposed to be a better version of yourself!

[@og666]

idk bro... that kids got D1 genetics

[@Ray03595]

Maybe not a better version but you should want your kid to have a better quality of life. Which means better education, quality of living, and overall happiness. I understand what you mean to not put specific expectations on them, but the man was talking about his child reading a lot, that should be encouraged in every household.

[@arianam6430]

​@@Ray03595exactly. I would want that my children don't have to go through the same hardships that I did so they can focus on thriving and enjoying their lives. They would be happier, intelligent, kind, confident, etc living their best lives- that's what most people are saying when they want their kids to be "better versions of themselves".

[@zorazen8684]

Sad to hear most of them are getting their sons circumcised :( wish people would do more research before just making a snap decision based on tradition.

[@Pondwater466]

Agreed, it’s awful and the opposite of beneficial

[@trevorpeterson8528]

Glad I got my ant eater cut off thank god

[@akumayoxiruma]

@@trevorpeterson8528: It's fine when you are an adult and decide it for yourself. However, it's not okay to mutilate a child's body like that without medical reasons. Like what insane parent is interested in how aesthetic they find their child's genitalia? Eww.

[@vp9549]

@@trevorpeterson8528 Bro, you're coping everywhere.

[@evennotodd]

We need to see a follow-up on this. Like a Truth or Drink: Play Date edition. Shots have to be taken via sipping cup.

[@pleasedtomeetyou1284]

Of course no one wants their kid to be promiscuous but when you ask it in the way of "gay son or thot daughter" its ignorant because those two things are not interchangeable. Ask them the real question "thot son or thot daughter" or "gay son or gay daughter". THAT is what we need to hear. If your daughter chooses to sleep around safely, just be there for them and let them know what's up. Be open with them. You can change their mind about sleeping around. Lol it's not the end of the world. EVERYONE! Please read the idiotic things @jesusbarrera6916 is writing in this comment section about how he prefers to have a thot son and how he won’t make his son take responsibility of a child he helped create. It’s a goooood laugh!

[@doobie245]

thank you❤ you’ve put into words what I felt for so long

[@blessingn8571]

Very well said 👏🏾

[@APhizzle]

I came here to comment this. During Pride Month too? And from Cut? Like what?

[@whitwhit1043]

yes even “would you rather have a gay child or promiscuous child” instead of forcing the gender aspect would be an improvement

[@ritamarie3652]

agreeeeeeeed!!!!!!!!

[@tantanjafin]

Chris & Michael is my fav duo here. Love to see more from them

[@everythingvonia9516]

Chris Michael is the tall one's name the other is Ben 😂

[@ctyesixteen5162]

it is still so WEIRD how americans view circumcision

[@akumayoxiruma]

Precisely, and it's also horrifying considering that it's permanent, unconsentual mutilation. At least pierced ear lobes can grow back together - the foreskin cannot.

[@kendobc]

Yah, they just assume it's a normal thing and you MUST do it. I wish they would do some research and shit. It's scary the brainwashing.

[@favouronwuchekwa]

so you are not circumcised ? @@akumayoxiruma

[@samantham7545]

As a female I hope that circumcision is one day illegal. It is genital mutilation. @@favouronwuchekwa

[@Nersius]

​@@akumayoxirumaYou actually can regrow the skin itself, but it will lack important parts and be less sensitive.

[@freya-valiedo2640]

Why was having a gay son even a question like???

[@pristinedecision1877]

It’s kind of a meme question that’s been making the rounds on BPT for and real life for years.

[@LaBorious69]

Are you offended

[@Aliciaavgt]

These men saying they aren’t prepared or ain’t doing shit around the house. That’s CRAZY

[@Tessa_Gr]

It's so weird how no one in the comments talked about that part. All about how great these dads are, the bar is really in hell. They seem nice enough, but definitely not outstanding dads at all. Just average

[@Aliciaavgt]

@@Tessa_Gr literally, I could NEVER

[@Julia-ye1bj]

AGREE

[@bulo-.]

Imagine they did this with expecting mothers 💀

[@nasavibes]

idk man taking shots while pregnant doesnt sound like the smartest of ideas 😭

[@brookemcb]

@@nasavibeslmfaooo

[@samanthav1234]

they did

[@SLYKM]

​@@samanthav1234yea I Believe they took shots of water lol

[@bulo-.]

@@SLYKM Well that kinda gets rid of the point lol

[@reynomatt]

The question about the gay son or sexually active daughter really bothered me. I have always loved how accepting this channel has been but that question was offensive in it's context.

[@caspercomments]

i love all the pairs they’re all so funny and genuine

[@PirateCaptainArthur]

they all seemed to vibe so well i hope they stay in contact

[@MrJose72289]

Man. I know so many guys who wished they were not circumcised. Tbh its,Barbaric. No way am I making that decisión for my son. He can when the time is right. I won't deprive him of something irreparable for my own satisfaction. That is a deeply, personal decision that should be made by the individual undergoing the process, not people standing idly by think they are making a decsion in the best interest of the child. There should be some formcof consent imo

[@fey9915]

he said it's part of religion so he's Muslim or Jewish.

[@zorazen8684]

@@fey9915 Religion is not a good reason for genital mutilation. In fact there is no good reason to mutilate children.

[@revmaillet]

@@fey9915 even christians do it sadly

[@Theorimlig]

@@fey9915 Doesn't really change anything. That explains it, but doesn't justify it. Lots of bad things are done in the name of religion.

[@rcc8347]

I’m glad my parents did mine when I was young. Now I look great and didn’t go through all the troubles

[@kidart1763]

This video affirmed that I made the right choice choosing my (female) partner. So many of these answers are BIG YIKES.

[@kukaweber8301]

Facts

[@chevysmith6723]

SO MUCH OF IT WAS cringe. It makes me sad that this is a lot of people's "normal". Giving birth will mature their partners. I pray, for the mothers' sake, that these dads keep up.

[@Mole-Esther]

No these were great answer wdym except the foreskin one lol

[@MEpeopleannoy]

@@Mole-Esther not wanting sex bc ur disgusted that ur partners organs have moved and that your kid might TOUCH ur penis? what kinda nonsense is that? ahhh lord have mercy americans and their iq

[@rorey9074]

There is nothing wrong with these answers. Some of you just like to live in your own bubble of misunderstanding

[@dakotac180]

Ponytail glasses is just an Au naturel type dude... I love these questions though. I love them talking about their future kids together.

[@dylanpierce]

Happy Father's Day to all the Dads out there and to the men who are father figures for many.

[@rawburtmartinez]

Shocked by the circumcision answers, everyone i know who's circumsized hates it

[@tunaballooney4713]

I really don’t understand the stigma or judgements toward foreskin

[@Killbayne]

more than 60% of Americans are circumcised and mostly they just do it because they themselves were cut, as the guy said in the video "like a me 2.0" the other half does it for the religious reason, but why keep doing it for non religious reasons? Cut rate in Europe here is like less than 13% across countries and I myself am not cut. It's not like the skin is useless, it has a function. A lot of people complain about being unwillingly cut

[@pristinedecision1877]

Because it’s so common that most people don’t think about anything contrary to their own experiences. Those conversations aren’t common either. I wasn’t aware that I was even circumcised until I was a teen learning about anatomy and found out that foreskin was a thing.

[@fatcatontario]

There is a good health reason for being circumcised and has to do with increased potential of infection even as a toddler. I think what is nature intended should remain and parents should clean the child properly and teach the little boy proper hygiene from an early age.

[@akumayoxiruma]

@@fatcatontario: That's not a good reason because you are also taking away something that has protective and stimulative functions. IF the toddler has an infection, only THEN you can consider the option to surgically remove it. Not as a prophylaxis but as an acute intervention.

[@fatcatontario]

@@akumayoxiruma there is really no need to remove the foreskin unless it is a very severe infection. I am not advocating for it, but actually stating that our bodies should not be modified unless absolutely necessary.

[@sepiajoy2871]

This was a great video and these guys seem wonderful but damn, I cannot get past how many of us Americans are so comfortable with circumcision. This is a part of a person's body. Taking that away is so stupid. I feel just the same about when people pierce their baby's ears. Bodily autonomy, man... gosh.

[@trevorpeterson8528]

I’m glad my parents did it to me

[@rumpelstilzchen4202]

Let the kid decide for themselves. You can always do it later but you can never reverse it.

[@iveseenstrangerthings]

Truthfully anyone is going to do as they please because it’s their kid. There’s pros and cons to both sides of circumcising I believe the main point was infections and cleanliness, at the end of the day it’s their decision. Can’t do much about it. A lot of the time it has to do with culture and religion, and we have to respect that as well.

[@lindok]

Americans doing it at birth is still a practise we are trying to adopt cause the way its done here is worse. At birth is 100% the better option

[@vp9549]

@@iveseenstrangerthings There are only cons. At the end of the day, it shouldn't be their decision just like they should not have the option to remove a baby's limb when it is non medically necessary.

[@neilrandolph9353]

Omg what a great group of soon to be dads and their responses ❤ 😊

[@nopenope9118]

All of these dads-to-be sound like they’re going to do an amazing job raising their kids. It’s great to see them all bond over fatherhood. My mom disappeared from my life when I was like 22 and hasn’t spoken to me in over 10 years, but my dad is my biggest supporter. I just got off the phone with him before watching this. I wish I could see him more often but we live in different states. Present fathers who try to be a good influence on their kids are so necessary.

[@vp9549]

Besides him wanting to mutilate his child's genitals unnecessarily.

[@marcusgomez1372]

i hope they are all great dads 😊

[@cicelyodom]

Hands down one of the best episodes. I would love to see these men & their families again.

[@nongcebomngomezulu]

This man is calling 6ft4 woman 'shorty'😂

[@bathroomshoes]

guys soon enough you’ll be able to play video games with your kids. my dad and i bonded over playing halo together.

[@sydneygeddes]

6’6 and 6’4 imagine they babies max height in adult hood is 5’1 💀 I’d feel soooooooo robbed

[@laruetodd]

What a wholesome video, I love all their honesty and how good they got alone

[@jacob4evr_]

The amount of them saying yes to circumcising is ALARMING

[@jedinight235]

Why? There is *literally* nothing wrong with it. "oooohh it's body mutilationmn" ever heard of balanitis? Its an incredibly easy to contract infection that's very painful. Its a infection of the foreskin. Removing the foreskin literally has medical benefits.

[@jacob4evr_]

@@jedinight235 anyways… no one said there wasn’t any benefits I’m saying it’s alarming that there doing a life changing procedure before the owner of said penis an have a say in it

[@jedinight235]

@@jacob4evr_ it's better to do it as a baby. It's easier, less painful, and prevents the future infections that happen before the person with said penis can talk. I've had balanitis when I was younger. It sucks. Its painful. And you can't keep your mind off of it because it's *that* kind of pain that's. Not searing but really pisses you the fuck off It can last months. Sometimes you need to see a doctor and you gotta go through the embarrassment of having a doctor look through your foreskin n shit. But I have had friends who have been circumcized who have had the same hygiene issues (that's how you get balanitis is by shit hygiene which all young boys have) when they were younger too, and they never had that issue. One of them said he'd rather have foreskin but his reason was because using lotion and tissues is a hassle. No shit that's the only fucking reason 😂. My other friends either didn't really give a shit if they were or weren't or said they are fine with it.

[@kelsiewest9280]

All these men are 💯💯 Sad to say, but I don’t think I’ve ever seen so many men in one place who are as emotionally intelligent, dedicated, and respectful as these men were to each other and are towards their partners and their soon to be kids. Real respect for them.

[@cynthiavanteylingen7922]

Can we get a video after their kids have been born and how they feel after?

[@Killbayne]

circumcision doesnt have to be done at birth, the son can decide later on in life if they want the skin gone or not but i see way more people saying they want their skin back cuz that skin aint growing back

[@lawinaabraham3073]

Yeah good luck with that, I read about one guy who, at his girlfriend's request, got circumcised cuz she didn't like that foreskin. Well he caved, went to surgery, it HURT LIKE ABSOLUTE HELL, idk what anesthesia they gave him but I doubt it worked. He then said it continued to hurt for weeks on end, and his sex drive took a huge hit because it just didn't feel as good. Dude got depression, they broke up, prolly still regrets that shit to this day.

[@Killbayne]

​​@@lawinaabraham3073 then that's fault by the doctors and he could sue them for damages. If the story is true then im sorry for that guy, but a single story doesn't rule out every other time where it wasn't so bad. Atleast if you're uncut you still even have the chance to decide yourself whether or not you want it removed instead of just having to live without it. also, at his girlfriend's request? damn she should just like him how he is. Also what's there to dislike about the skin lol? It's not like it gets in the way when it literally retracts out the way.

[@lawinaabraham3073]

@@Killbayne Exactly, I hate how fixated people in America are regarding the removal of foreskin. It's a unnecessary, barbaric, completely subjectively attractive practice that should be heavily discouraged. There is NO risk of infections nor poorer hygiene if you have foreskin, it's very easy to clean, the foreskin has MANY nerve endings and makes sex more pleasurable. "Oh but I was cut so my son should be too". WTF ????

[@zorazen8684]

@@lawinaabraham3073 Good thing he got to make that CONSCIOUS DECISION as an adult and not go through that same pain as an non consenting INFANT :D

[@Elovho]

​@@lawinaabraham3073you shouldnt circumcise for aestetic reasons cus you can just pull back the skin and it looks the same as uncircumcised just girthier

[@noor9115]

such a wholesome video and group of dads

[@alexpalaciossantos4940]

its so weird how infant genital mutilation is so normalized in the us. entire groups of people up in arms bc "gay people are performing surgeries on children's genitals", but when it comes to messing with a baby's penis, its totally ok for parents to cut it up for their aesthetic pleasures

[@kaimobley5324]

Exactly

[@littlepumpkinseed]

Yeah its so so weird and not oké.... as an European I can not imagen choosing to cut your baby's genitals..

[@CM-bt5bq]

!!!!!!

[@dollphobicc1947]

Wake it up.

[@truebornseeker9767]

It’s soooooo weird, especially since a lot of them bring up the fact that they had it done to them so they want their child to be cut too, which is just strange? Wouldn’t you prefer to have that choice later in life rather than having it decided for you??

[@GQkid13]

Love this video!! Also guy with the hair up and multi colored shirt has a great smile!!

[@macarenahitos1148]

I feel so calm after watching responsible men who are going to became parents being so excited about raising children

[@wiebkestein8826]

I cannot believe how normal it is for these guys to cut off a part of their kids bodys. and how is it legal anyway?!

[@krisdaschwab912]

Part religious propaganda, part lobbying from some pro-circumcision assholes.

[@lucerocastaneda9497]

To be fair, all of the guys in this video were white or black. If they had chosen a hispanic-american or asian-american for example, there would have been more of a variety

[@NotYouAgain28]

@@lucerocastaneda9497 I think in Europe it is not a thing as well.. I think it’s more of an American thing.

[@user-ds8gf3ki2g]

@@NotYouAgain28it’s purely a religious thing and that how it started so in America 100yrs back most were white Christian Dyu get it

[@kimberlyd9755]

​@@user-ds8gf3ki2g In North America, it's not though. So many decide to circumcise because either they themselves are circumcised, for cosmetic reason or because "it's the norm".

[@Iloveme715]

These kids are gonna be so lucky to have such good dads.

[@OpEditorial]

These are mostly innocuous and stupid questions but these guys are gearing up to have their lives changed forever

[@Thatsmrladytoyou]

I got real excited thinking this was dads who were having kids TOGETHER 😅 This is cool too

[@ilhuicatlamatini]

This one was fun! Great bunch of new to be dads❤ Though gotta say, based on all the answers Ben had the responses I’d most look for and want from my partner re: coming home/working late check in, circumcising, pregnancy sex 😂

[@lyssalopez-l8d]

i LOVE LOVE LOVE how excited they are

[@alexandertomlinson4517]

Honestly disappointed in this video because of the circumcision question. Its not normal and it should not be promoted on social media like this. Mutilating children is not something to joke about and not something that should be normalized at all.

[@akumayoxiruma]

Exactly.

[@jedinight235]

Just on the off question, I'm assuming your also not okay with child sex change surgery? Not trying to argue with you I am just asking. Don't care if you are or aren't.

[@nataliep1528]

Would be cool to do a part 2 when they have their babies

[@gjcanada7454]

I’m with the man who said no! I’m not circumcising if I had a male baby!

[@sarahhudock2171]

1:37 dab up was smooth

[@TreavorUnion]

If the guys are reading this comment, it's good to have a crew to lean on. Moms have mommy circles. Dads should too.

[@wzackwzackw]

the circumcision answers and the "gay son promiscuous daughter" question was effed up wth

[@blacksheep2396]

Pony tail dude is an absolute freak

[@Annikaymusic]

How wonderful, I bet it was great to relate to another expected father.

[@isisraelreal7701]

These circumcision comments are not it. One thing is to prefer one vs the other but to belittle and act as if having foreskin is inherently “bad” doesn’t rub me the right way. I’m not here to tell you what to choose but be kind and open minded when talking about it.

[@allysonwademusic]

There is a reason for foreskin. it moves on purpose to move with a persons body. it feels better and protects it. people should absolutely look into cause homeboy with the ponytail is speaking facts.

[@GalaxyPotato17]

I think everyone is taking the gay son/thot daughter question wrong (based on Cut's intention -- the wording is still poor and suggests comparison). Rather than equating being gay to being promiscuous, and this is where the son/daughter difference is important and not just insensitive, but they are traditionally EQUALLY scary or uncomfortable for a FATHER -- a stereotypical male parental figure. ~ The standard manly man relationship between father and son ~ The standard protection and view of innocence from father to "daddy's little girl" It isn't intended to push the idea that only a son can be gay or that only a gay son would pose an issue and not a gay daughter (visa versa: only a daughter can be promiscuous or that only a promiscuous daughter would pose an issue and not a promiscuous son)

[@riley4964]

I have to say, it’s absolutely heartbreaking that non-consensual non-medically necessary genital mutilation is so accepted in our society

[@the_real_anna_reed]

It’s actually hilarious to see men’s pov of “expecting” 💀🤣 Definitely need them back in 6-12 months 😂

[@Kellyannejones]

It’s just so funny how guys know how guys are, but they’re the same ones that’ll say not all men

[@NZKiwi87]

Oh wow, as a non USA person I was gobsmacked by the circumcision thing. Gobsmacked. It’s pretty rare here. Old fashioned even.

[@akumayoxiruma]

Indeed because it's cruel mutilation. But just like labour rights, healthcare, public transport and measurement standards, Americans are behind the times and stick to tradition rather than what is logical and ethical.

[@jedinight235]

​@@akumayoxirumaCruel mutilation? That's not exactly it.

[@daaayum_gena]

This was the best group - can you have them all back a. year from when its filmed for them to do it again once their kids are here??

[@talkingtochapri]

So they are agreeing women do everything and they are existing.

[@Jonglohn]

Seems like they’re all gonna be great dads. My first born turned 2 last month. All of these fears and thoughts just mean they actually give a fuck.

[@w.whoisrio]

Blue shirt guy wins best dad award for the gay son/thot daughter question. Hands down.

[@zaichini]

what a wholesome video. Big up these daddies🙌

[@nopenadaOG]

Really grateful the two pre dads spoke about the why of not wanting thot daughters. Was getting all worked up lmao and feeling their responses 🙏🏼👍🏼

[@peachyautum]

I believe they will be great fathers!

[@dangusmedia]

Let's have a follow up in 18 years where the kids watch this.

[@dsyoutube-y2s]

Took me a minute to understand that they are not same sex parents expecting kids

[@VishisTV]

All these dudes seem like they would be good friends with the person they are playing with

[@gjcanada7454]

THE MISOGYNY LIIIIIVVVVEEEESS STRONG IN THIS VIDEO!

[@AngelHoliday275]

How? Genuine question. Im not trying to say it doesn't or be disrespectful. Just wanna know like where?

[@gjcanada7454]

@@AngelHoliday275 the “thot daughter” comments.... So what if you have a young woman who’s in charge of her own sexuality? How does that affect her father in any way? It plays into the whole “fatherless behaviour” narrative.

[@AngelHoliday275]

@@gjcanada7454 Oh probably just because thot women are disgusting. If a woman can't have any respect for herself why should anyone else? U can disguise it as "being in charge of her sexuality" but it's legitimately nasty. These "in charge" women are broken, and carry these things with them for the rest of their lives. Promiscuity is unsavory on both ends, don't get me wrong. Men and women shouldn't just sleep with whoever, but if you think it's the same you've just got some growing up to do.

[@cassandragunkel6101]

My favorite cut so far! I clicked like before watching. Captivating fathers!

[@Pondwater466]

So sad that the majority is going to circumcise just because the dad has been, has nothing to do with the child and ur literally mutilating them

[@freedomm]

There are studies showing circumcision lowers risk of STIs exponentially. Respect their decision just like others will respect your decision not to circumcise your son.

[@vp9549]

@@freedomm That's hilariously untrue. Respect science and not the will of morons who simply creamed in a woman.