Explaining Divorce to Our 5 Year Old Daughter - She Surprised Me

[@piddly]

I’m not crying, you’re crying. Thank you Skyler for taking a really big topic and making it relate in a way that not only children can understand, but also adults too! Sending you and your family all the love.

[@letsgofather]

Thank you for watching! 🤗

[@erinsoper2514]

OK your crying, I'm crying anybody else crying? Skylar you are awesome, Jamie is also awesome, I love your co-parenting style. Thank you and yes Mrs. Doubtfire was my favorite movie and still is.

[@christine0418]

@@letsgofatherI cried this whole episode just because I know what you wanted for your family. To not be able to make her wish come true is very hard. That’s what really made me cry, they are all so young and will be okay as well as you. You both are beautiful amazing parents and I wish you all nothing but happiness and love!! That was a great way to explain to your 5 children that are 5 and I’m sure will see this one day. I can’t wait to see what the future holds for you all. Sending love and hugs 🤗 from sunny Florida ❤

[@debbiecrum7585]

Sometimes people look at children and think they cannot understand things like Divorce. Yet, given a good explanation that they can understand and being honest and truthful, kids can and will surprise you with how much they do understand. I am a retired teacher. I taught different grades but my best was preschool. Your right Skylar, 4 and 5 year olds are the best. They sure can be creative, entertaining and honest. My body would be tired by the end of my day with my students, but my heart was overflowing with love and happiness. You and Jamie are doing great.

[@elmoette11]

I think we are all crying

[@libbyworkman3459]

The more I listen to Skyler talk, the higher my opinion of him goes. He always seems to say exactly the right thing to the children in the videos also. All the children are very lucky to have such wonderful parents.

[@surpriseme4275]

The hurts these children are or will experience is so profound that no Hollywood movie can repair.

[@darleneengebretsen1468]

Divorce is never easy on the kids or the adults, but living in a home where the adults can't get along is much worse for kids than divorce in most cases.

[@susanschultz8142]

Skylar, This was the best video explaining divorce. It should be made into a book or short film to be used for explaining to all young & not so young children experiencing their parents divorce. I'd be lying if I said I didn't shed a few tears. I sincerely hope your children including Shayden and Landon see the video. So proud of the way you and Jamie handle co-parenting.

[@GreatScotts]

You are a great father, Skyler! We are so proud and grateful to have you in our lives. ❤❤❤

[@letsgofather]

Love you! ❤

[@DoctorJoanieTool]

Your family, @GreatScotts, is also a real inspiration for this world. With the same message. All that truly matters in this life is love - and the safety, respect and compassion that comes with loving each other unconditionally. I’m thrilled to have found both of your families (which is also one extended family) online and to follow along as you help the world become a gentler, more accepting and loving place. Gratitude to you all. ☮️❤️🌷

[@kathiedel4647]

This made me cry, but so happy Daisy Kate felt free to express herself to her Daddy. And I imagine that all the kiddos wish this in their hearts. I love how you handled it. Love to you all!!

[@letsgofather]

Thanks Kathie! 💛

[@RoadkillbunnyUK]

Make me cry why don’t you! So lovely. I wish my ‘kids’ (19 and 16 now) had a father like you rather than the deadbeat I inadvertently lumbered them with in regards to my ex husband. Your whole family, Jamie included is lucky to have a man like you. It’s not been easy and you have had many ups and downs but you haven’t wavered on being the best Dad and coparent that you can be.

[@valarya]

You're such a wonderful dad. Truly. 💜I'm 42 years old and am sitting here sobbing wondering why my dad wasn't capable of saying words like this to me. Whew. Those are some lucky kids!

[@vjannelle723]

I love the daddy walk idea. Skyler I think you'd be a great parenting coach. Even being a father of a teenager, you are so wise in your parenting

[@tinajanette7103]

Keeping it honestly simple is best. Daisy Kate smiled after your initial explanation and carried on being her own sweet self. Well done!

[@samg873]

Children understand more than we think

[@sherylheidecker9025]

I read the comments and thought I’m not going to cry and then you said the last part and now I’m having trouble seeing through the tears. What a sweet and tender way to explain a hard topic to Daisy and her siblings.

[@jenniferbeas7220]

This is a beautiful way to explain divorce and how it's ok to be sad at times to your sweet Daisy. Many blessings to you and your family.

[@2000calleen]

I went through an unexpected divorce 2 years ago. It was very traumatic to me and my 5 kids. My kids are older than yours but they have basically not had their father in their lives since then. It is really hard to understand. It is really great that your kids have their dad in their lives just as much as their mom. That is great parenting through divorce-it’s just hard when that’s not the situation that happens.

[@truthlovenow]

Holy crap, bawling over here. Powerful video! Skyler you are a precious human and your children are so so fortunate to have you as their father. This simple explanation and parallels to Mrs Doubtfire is remarkable and awesome sauce.

[@letsgofather]

Thank you so much! 😊

[@bk644]

That was a beautiful post Skylar. I was crying watching it but it was truly heartfelt. All of your and Jaimes followers fell in love with both of you and all of your kiddos so that's why most would love nothing more than to see you back together. But we also know that life happens. What a precious moment with your sweet Daisy Kate, and what a wonderful response you have her. You're doing great Skylar!

[@tweety34ful]

I’m usually the silent viewer I don’t comment, but this made me cry and want to say your right. This made me think a lot with my life. I’m not divorce but hoeing thru a rough patch and I have a preteen and it’s hard. I’m over here crying like a baby. Skyler your such a great a Dad & your kids and lucky to have both of you as parents.

[@sandygeswaldo2245]

I was not ready for this video today. I cried many tears watching it. Skyler, you are so right and this video is a keepsake. Daisy, and all the kids will thank you for it one day. Thanks for sharing.

[@debbienowlin1268]

Wow😢

[@susanrnbc]

Thank you Skylar, for being brave enough to share this in such a thoughtful, open, and honest way. You are absolutely right-families are not all the same, but as long as there is love, it is OK! Your sweet Daisy so innocently expressed her wish, and was just fine with your answer. You are doing a wonderful job parenting all of your kids-and I know it is not easy to be a single dad. I am thankful the kids have you and that you have worked out a co-parenting arrangement with Jamie that seems to be working for your family.

[@JennSafari]

I love this comment ❤️ Thank you for being so kind.

[@christeinsanders1]

Skyler as a single mom this is a great way to explain to a child that families can be different but to know even in those differences you are always loved. I truly hope one day my daughter can also understand this. She is nine years old and even though she was only months old when we split, she still has this same wish. I think you did a wonderful job talking to her about this change. Keep your head up you got this! Blessings

[@Kamarca]

I'm glad it's okay to cry, 'cause you just made me. Beautifully said! Skylar, I think you have at least one more children's book in you.

[@locket5312]

Oh my word- did not expect to be crying in a car park in the middle of a town centre in England- but here I am. You appear to be such a kind man and living father. What a blessing for your family.

[@elizabeththorson5184]

Skyler, what a beautiful message you shared today. Yes, it made me cry. I’m going to share it w/ my son and daughter-in-law, divorcing after being together for 13 years w/ 2 little ones, 2 1/2 and 4 1/2. Thank you. You’re children are very lucky to have you for their father.

[@sheilawarren9808]

Im so crying, you are so special, Skylar. Jamie is too! Ya'll are doing fantastic. Prayers for continued strength for both parents. I'm a Grandparent of triplets who's parents divorced. Beautiful way to show your Littles for later. Much Love to all❤

[@vanessavanderkramer6588]

Skylar, the way you explained loving children no matter what, is really beautiful and special, just like you. It was such an incredible moment so thank you so much for sharing that. You’re a wonderful dad, Jamie’s an amazing mum and you have seven incredible children together. Families come in all shapes and sizes but at the heart of them all should be love. You and Jamie have an abundance of love for your children and respect for each other. This vlog is truly special! ❤

[@letsgofather]

Thank you so much! 😊

[@elainetaylor2564]

Your message to Daisy was really beautiful ❤

[@karenlloyd16]

What a beautiful way to explain divorce to your kids. ❤ Such a serious topic but there's a little part of me that can now imagine you dressed up as Mrs Doubtfire, knocking on Jamie's front door asking for a job.

[@Grandmotherof3]

You have such a good head on your shoulders! I’m sure Daisy understood your message. LOVE!

[@letsgofather]

💛💛💛

[@Rccr6554]

Gosh that little girls heart was broken. Sometimes divorce is necessary, but most of the time compromise is avoided and spouses just take an easy out. The burden always falls on the kids.

[@sharonmurray6982]

Such beautiful words for your beautiful daughter. Explained in such a beautiful, heartfelt and meaningful way and made me cry. I take my hat off to you as an amazing, thoughtful, loving and kind dad.

[@katelyncarmichael]

Being a child of divorce and just lost my father this was a beautiful episode thank you Skyler

[@sicilywyatt8396]

I’m 42 with divorced parents and I still wish they were still married. I think the big thing that impacted me the most was that no one really cared how their divorce really made me feel. Everyone wanted me to be ok with it…and I wasn’t. I would encourage you yes…to continue to tell them that you both love them etc but also to allow space for them to feel what they feel and to have the space to really share that. This was a beautiful video though.

[@briellebardot5252]

❤ This! No one can make the wish go away with logical reason. Sharing sadness when there's no real solution to it is the hardest for a parent for sure but it happens in life.

[@catistokes]

I felt the same way about my parents divorce until my 40s. But now I’m my 50s I finally understand. I realize now that it was best for everyone. The wish that they would have worked things out and gotten along wasn’t reality. As hard as it was on everyone, it was best that they didn’t live together. But they were both still great parents to me separately. ❤❤❤

[@peaceful525]

This is an exceptionally important comment. Divorce hurts kids, even if it's done the "right" way and even if we all wish it didn't.

[@tkathiee]

Hands down best approach to such a difficult circumstance for little minds. Daisy Kate will definitely blossom under your care, as so will all your other 6 children. You're the best dad ever Skylar and such an awesome human being. I truly wish you the best kind of happiness!

[@s.a.6082]

Wow! You brought me right back to being 5 years old wishing the exact same thing that Daisy Kate did. And I was also lucky enough to have two parents who loved and cherished me, although unfortunately they fought like cats and dogs and that had a really negative impact on me. You and Jamie are class acts, and always put the kids first. This life is hard, but it’s also beautiful when love wins ❤

[@chelle2093]

It doesn’t matter what age your kids are (mine are teenagers) they will still always want mum and dad under the same roof… but it’s how you respond to each other even after all the messy stuff that comes with separation… Your response was beautiful ❤

[@jackielowrey3032]

This was the sweetest thing I’ve ever heard. I refer to my “parents” when speaking to people but I was raised by my uncle and his second wife. 😢 this pulled at my heart strings.

[@dheck796]

That was handled so well, Skyler. All 7 of your children will always know how much you and Jamie love them. That is special.

[@angelaclausing5565]

Oh my stars Skyler, that was beyond beautiful. I'm balling my eyes out at how perfectly you put all of this together. Sweet Daisy Kate will remember this her entire life, along with all the other kiddos. You and Jamie are such beautiful parents and you both keep doing what your doing for those precious babies, all seven of them.

[@ace6285]

That’s a wonderful explanation Skylar. As an adult of parents who had a ‘difficult’ relationship, I can say that I wanted more than anything that they would love each other as I loved each of them. Impossible, I guess. It made me wonder why they didn’t. It saddened my whole life.

[@vicki9777]

Crying….. that was a very special message… great job Skyler.

[@jackieaudus9829]

So very touching… it’s an ongoing process and I know kids blame themselves… as adults we mess up so often. Beautifully explained Skyler. Movies had such a memorable place in my heart growing up as I lost my Dad, I hope they see your special movie when they’re older and can take it in.

[@arielmcgillacuddy6640]

That was always my wish when I was blowing out my birthday candles when I was little “I wish Mom and dad would get back together” I think you explained it really well.

[@donnagoetz5146]

You answered exactly right, you gave her enough to satisfy her and feel very loved. To much info at this age is a fine line . Her smile tells you, you did good!

[@tonimendive566]

Skyler…I have followed since the quints were tiny, but rarely remarked. Today I must. Wonderful analogy…and even your first reply to Daisy was probably adequate…but worth repeating often to the kids for reinforcement. I was extremely sad for all through the separation…but now also find peace in your and Jamie’s choices. Stay true to yourselves and keep lovin’ ALL those babes…especially the nearly grown ones!

[@katiemccarthy5349]

We are all crying! What a beautiful explanation for you children and just how wonderful is it that not only will they feel loved but they will have this confirmation of family love all their lives

[@letsgofather]

Thanks for watching Katie! Glad you enjoyed the video. ❤

[@bkm2797]

Skylar that was so beautifully shared, made me cry and wish I had parents that would have shared with me like that when they divorced. I live about 3 blocks from the beautiful home that was in the movie Mrs. Doubtfire, it was a very touching film that many here have not forgotten, people still place flowers there in memory of Robin Williams now and again. Thanks for being such a great dad!❤️

[@sharaferrington8928]

😢😢😢 I always felt so bad as a mom that I failed my son when his dad and I divorced even though it was for the better. You explained this perfectly and had me tearing up. You’re an awesome dad

[@julia-leddybetty]

Nothing like a good cry on a Monday ❤❤❤ You have a special heart, Skyler. You and your kids are loved by so many people you have never met

[@letsgofather]

Monday crys are healthy! 💛🤗

[@jeansmith-tx3bd]

It is so impressive the way you interact with your kids. My parents divorced when I was 16, and my biggest wish was that they would get back together and keep our family intact in the way we were used to. My parents were amazing and we all found a way to make it work. Your words to Daisy made me cry and I found myself going back to the things my parents shared with me about how our family would work once they divorced. Keep loving those adorable children of yours and you are right-Everyone will be just fine. Sending you so much love and happiness.

[@vix.00.]

This literally made me cry... but in a good way. I love the simple approach and having nothing but positivity throughout. I'm happy to see that you're both working hard to make things as easy as possible for everyone. I've been here since day one of your channel, and I feel privileged to see into your lives and the love you instill no matter what the circumstance ❤

[@bonniejorgenson6677]

That was beautiful Skylar..brought tears...❤😢 with the 2 of you being there for your children...they will be fine.... God Bless 🙏

[@cindymanning3097]

So beautiful, Skyler. Your children are so fortunate to have you and the family that they have. Someday, they will truly see this and realize the gift of what they have come from. In the meantime, your openness and acceptance and nurturance of them as they work through this new family arrangement is a precious gift.

[@tammyfales7699]

Loved how you explained this in a way that little children can understand.. It made me tear up. I love how You & Jaime work together as parents & not bash each other to the children.. Great job co-parenting. The kids need you both now more than ever. God Bless!

[@michellelea5065]

This made me cry Skylar. I hope you and Mommy could always be friends and have love for each other. All the kids come first. You have a beautiful family.

[@sandijambrek2215]

Oh my goodness Skler! You made me cry so hard. I had chills all over the place. You not only a wonderful father but an outstanding man! May God continue to guide you through this. Sending love to all of you!

[@katiemustard-g4i]

Ohhh, goodness! Thank you for caring so beautifully for your children’s hearts, Skylar! My parents divorced many decades ago when I was nine, at a time when emotions were not discussed. It’s so natural for children to want their parents together as well. Children often blame themselves, and to have to deal with the trauma of divorce on their own is so sad. You’re all doing a great job at caring for your older boys and the quintuplets; they are surrounded by love. You’re an excellent, loving Daddy!! 😭💙💕🏡🥰

[@karmar8137]

Daisy has always been my favorite. There has always been something about her that touches my heart.

[@joyceallen2596]

Skylar, so beautiful! I love that you shared this beautiful moment with us.

[@LindaSponsler]

What a special way to explain the divorce to Daisy (and all the kiddos). It made me cry and that is okay. Love your family and keep on keeping on.

[@jaime4890]

I’m not crying, you are! 😭 😢 ❤️ Such a sweet explanation. And such a sweet moment between dad and daughter. You’re both amazing parents, don’t ever forget that! Btw Mrs. Doubtfire is such an iconic movie.

[@kathybasilico5686]

Skyler, out of the month of babe's. Daisy Kate is so open and honest. Perhaps the other quints feel the same way. What you said to Daisy was great. It gave comfort. I bet the other 4 would like to hear something along these lines too. One on one time is a good way to see how each quint feels. So good job Skyler. ❤ Long Island Kathy

[@janebuteyn2466]

Oh wow, Skyler! This was so very sweet. You and Jamie are so amazing at making sure your kids feel loved and important and valued. Your love for the children is so evident and even your continued love and respect for each other as their parents. You and Jamie are making this transition for your children to be as successful as it can be. I will continue to pray for all of you. 😊

[@joturnbull3699]

Beautifully said. Your kids will really appreciate you taking the time to address what most adults just pass off or ignore. Well done Skyler

[@jeansalsbury5098]

What a beautiful explanation! Your children will always know they are loved by you and their mommy! I pray you are doing well!

[@kristianwillson6185]

What you said was wonderful!! I am sad you aren’t together anymore, but all of you are doing your best! I love your family.

[@ValerieSpataforecom]

I cried so hard for her, but your the perfect dad, such a great way for you to explain it give her some extra hugs poor little thing her heart is broken

[@robertarohwer3861]

I have to say that was beautifully said. My first husband and I got a divorce when my 3 kids were much older. It was not a pretty divorce... and there was much animosity. The kids were shattered. Lives were never the same. Your kids will be fine. You're both doing the best job.

[@jodydark8102]

Hey Skyler please write a children’s book about divorce

[@grammydglc]

That was lovely, Daisy Kate is blessed to have such a loving and thoughtful daddy. Good job Skyler.

[@ruthc4458]

Wow… you are such an amazing Dad . Your children are so lucky to have such a caring, loving, and fantastic father. Love to the entire family! 😭❤

[@pauleengould998]

I’m crying too 😢 we are all crying 😢😢😢😢 beautiful words for your beautiful Daisy Kate. “ All we need is LOVE”

[@amberl6160]

That was so beautiful, Skyler. Your kids hit the mommy and daddy jackpot.

[@anthonyfalcone5605]

This is a beautiful way to simply explain a very hard to understand subject....even for adults. Great job,Skyler! Faith Falcone

[@737poison]

I’m not crying, you’re crying. thank you for the words of wisdom i my self grew up with my grandparents an i understand the struggles

[@Misticalmother]

Here come the tears. You did an amazing job with this.

[@serena1261]

Bless Daisy's heart 💞. Skyler, it sounds like your response to Daisy was just enough. I cried and cried when I saw Mrs Doubtfire. My 5 Son's and I were adjusting to living in our home while their Dad lived in his own home. It's been years for us since then but non the less a bit heart stabbing to hear Daisy's wish. Love is the answer. The children need the extra assurance at times. You and Jamie are such good parents. 💖

[@razorjean]

Skyler that was brilliant. We all wish we could have said something different or better in any moment in time. The fact that you thought it threw and came up with this is just amazing, you and Jamie are great parents. Your kids will be just fine with great parents and grandparents to support them.

[@gillregan4310]

Gosh that was wonderful. I'm in bits!! So brave of you to put that out there. And Daisy Kate, and all the others, will have it there forever 💕

[@maureenmitchell1167]

That was beautiful! You are a great father!

[@bobbyebordelon2608]

Ok I’m probably going get in trouble for this comment, but here goes! Daisy is my favorite sorry, but she has been from the beginning, there is something about her that really tugs at my heart! They are all wonderful, beautiful,and smart kids! So glad she felt comfortable to say how she felt!

[@JennSafari]

Why would you get in trouble? There's nothing wrong with you being partial to Daisy. 🤍

[@donnabasile829]

I am weeping, Skyler!! You are such a good man and Dad! Keep doing you:)

[@karmar8137]

Life is too short. I'm sorry Jamie broke your heart Skylar, what you both had was something truly God given. Keep on living the light and loving your family as you do.

[@courtybear12]

Your children will always know you put them first, above everything♥️

[@flowerchic8287]

You are a wonderful father to all your children. You love them so much and it’s obvious.

[@christiliablitch2485]

Skyler, after watching and listening to this episode, I'm convinced that you should write a children's book about divorce. Also, a side job could be narrating books for other authors. You have a great storytelling voice.

[@allisonwright2664]

That was superb! So heartfelt! God bless your daddy heart.❤

[@nancyvanschaack6136]

Wow, this brought tears for sure. Divorce is so hard, I've been there, but you and Jamie are handling it great. What a great answer for Daisy Kare. You are a fantastic Dad and doing the best you can. The kids are very lucky to have so much live around them on both sides of the family. Bless you all

[@dedub4068]

Skylar, you’re looking and sounding great. Sounds like you handled your chat with Daisy wonderfully and I love that you’re exposing them to nature. You’re doing a great job. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@skybluewater]

Oh My Gosh - This video melted my heart and I thought of my kids when their dad and I divorced (they were 6 and almost 9). It was tough at first, but just like you and Jamie, we co-parented well and 20 years later we are still very good friends and are there for each other. Daisy's wish was so sweet and heartbreaking at the time, but you explained beautifully, in 5 year old terms, how much you and Jamie loved them and that it's love that makes a home. I loved your analogy using the movie Mrs. Doubtfire in explaining divorce and how families look different. Well done Skylar - now I'm going to dry my eyes! ❤

[@JenJean1234]

That was beautiful ❤ You're right, everything is going to be fine! Keeping communication open is the key. Often in divorce children get ignored because of the adult problems. Glad you are so nurturing to your children's feelings.

[@60margie]

Wow, I never comment but today your words were beyond beautiful. Your children are truly blessed to have Jamie and you as parents. I wish you all forever happy and filled with love xxxx

[@letsgofather]

You are so kind. Thank you 😊

[@tammyrothwell2738]

very well said Skyler that is something Daisy Kate and all thekids will treasure in their hearts forever what great parents you both are touched my heart x

[@jennygrossman441]

Skyler, what an amazing message for your kids. It can be so confusing for everyone. Hugs! ❤❤

[@ShinyNickelBlades]

That was such a beautiful way of explaining it. You have me in tears!

[@daniellesavaria9920]

Im so proud of you Skyler 💙🫶💙

[@letsgofather]

💛🫶🏻

[@daniellesavaria9920]

@FiveTwoLove you're the Best Dad the Quints and boys could ever dream of 💙🫶💙 One day and one step at a time 🤗 I love you and am so proud of how well you're managing your babies emotions 💙🫶💙

[@mackiemadepapercreations]

Oh wow! I bet that knocked you for a loop! I think you handled it the best way you could, especially for a 5year old! And this video will be so special to them one day. I hope you plan to keep it in a special place, to not be forgotten or hard to find for them in the future. ❤️❤️❤️

[@lynnbrunn7865]

Oh my goodness, Skyler your message to Daisy was so beautiful and lovingly expressed. She is a very lucky little girl. I am quite certain this message will be something she views many times over her lifetime and will hold close to her heart forever. I am glad I viewed the vlog with a full box of Kleenex close by. I truly needed them. ✨💕✨

[@georginajoyce2238]

Skyler your one in a million dad and all you children will grow up to be happy smart adults because of all the love, patience and time that you and Jamie give to them. Keep doing what you do

[@carolgadles7045]

This is a priceless treasure for when they need that comfort and love. Thank you for sharing this with us. 🥰✨🥰

[@angiemcguinness340]

You honestly are such an inspiration. I too have children who struggle to know why some things have to be as they are. Your words really speak to me and I admire yours and Jamie’s parenting styles. With love we will all be alright x

[@letsgofather]

Sending love to you and your family ❤️

[@laffratmom]

I'm sitting here crying I'm so sorry you all have to go through this. But it's true that where there is love there is a family.