My Birth Story (new mum, water birth!)

[@Nilesedge]

I can’t believe you’ve had a baby, I remember when you would get homesick going away! You’ve grown up so much in the last few years, congratulations on the baby and Mr Grack, he sounds like a fabulous dad and partner ❤❤

[@beth7886]

man alive. the nhs is a riot - i love it, but i haven't heard a single woman say that they had a straightforward birth story lately. it's such a shame that women are forced to "wait" for staff when we can't really do anything about the pace of labour. i hope midwives are treated better asap so we can get more of them. they are beautiful souls. I'm glad it all went okay for you in the end. and congrats on having a huge placenta! i'd be proud of that fact lol x

[@rebonky]

This video has such a cosy vibe, feels like two old friends catching up with a brew (or a hot water in this case.) I've loved following your journey on YT Grace. From uni life to married life to mummy life, congratulations on it all

[@user-nc7jj7vx2z]

⚡️💯⚡️

[@uniquelady1234]

Aw, congratulations again Grace, its been great seeing you from university to now being a mother, so glad your husband was able to advocate for you ❤

[@76alison]

So true about the dignity.... I've birthed twice, and honestly, all just goes out the window, you just throw it all to the wind and hope for the best. Thank you for sharing, all us mums can relate.

[@tillygerrard8784]

I’m a silent watcher and have never commented, but I just want to say you are AMAZING and I’m just so in awe of you! And mothers in general, I don’t know if I could be a mum as childbirth scares me so much but you handled it like a champ. Women are amazing. Lots of love xx

[@michaelsherck5099]

Wow, this really brings back the memories! (My wife had three.) I've heard it said that if men gave birth the species would have died out ages ago. Your video reinforces the truth behind that. You're very brave to relive this. Kudos to Mr. Grack and congratulations on your new life!

[@Sophieisherexo]

I can’t believe the nurses told you to get it under control I would of been so annoyed! But Mr Grack sounds like such a good man helping you out. But also so good you got the birth you wanted in a way, like in the bath. Thank you for sharing I know it’s such a private thing but really appreciate hearing your story!

[@shannonanndavey4024]

I’m 19m pp and I had a bit of birth trauma and I LOVED birth stories before I had experienced it. But this is the first one I’ve been excited to watch ♥️♥️♥️

[@jemschofield1295]

I’m normally a silent listener. But I’m so proud of you. I wish you all the best with your little one. ❤️❤️❤️ love you loads.

[@forestfull8079]

I’ve followed your content for years, I feel like we grew up together and I’m so proud of you. I’m pregnant at the moment and this story feels realistic but positive and not a horror story and told in a calm way which is so refreshing 💙 I really hope you post about your breast feeding journey to in the future

[@mixelle_0]

I’m 30 and have zero interest in giving birth or having kids BUT I love listening to birthing stories. Idk it’s so fascinating. So glad you and Tiny are healthy and doing well and props to mr. Grack for being a great advocate for you two 🫶🏽 Congratulations 🩵

[@TS-eo9uf]

Same age and same - I love birth stories!

[@mania.v]

Aw, Grace 🥹! It's been lovely growing up with you - I've been subscribed to you since your early uni days and I feel like you're a part of my family. I am so happy for you 🫂! Thank you for sharing your birth story with us. I wish you and your new little family all the best, may God bless you.

[@laurahughes4550]

I love birth stories! I'm glad all went well and that you kept an open mind. I know of two people out of everyone I know whose birth went exactly to plan. These things don't always! I ended up having an emergency c section which sounds scary but it was incredibly magical. I was awake, my husband was there, the lights were dipped low and we were just chatting to the staff during the procedure as if we had just gone for a cuppa. It was all very relaxed and I couldn't have wished for anything else. Then my baby was born and she was and is the most perfect being I have ever seen in my life. She's just about to turn 2 and she's just so sweet and kind! I feel very blessed!

[@megantomkies8988]

This is the most calming birthing video I have watched, you are the best Grace. I am 26 weeks and this has really calmed my mind. I share the same openness with pregnancy and birth and that things will happen as they happen❤️ You go Mama!! X

[@peachy4988]

I was told my baby was gonna be massive, he was barely 7 pounds. Growth scans are so hit or miss. Girl this video is an amazing to hear. You're amazing, I'm 25 weeks pregnant so this just put a pep in my step to watch ❤congratulations again

[@ReginaCoeliJMJ]

❤ ..... thank you for sharing .... I'm so grateful for Mr. Grack taking such good care of you! What a blessing. I had back labor for 3 day! I screamed and hollered thru it all. The nurses told me I was scaring the other mother's trying to give birth, with pain it's difficult to be quiet! So I hear ya! 😊 May God continue to bless you 🙏

[@meursaultscourtroom8886]

It's very true that you are not able to have very much control over your birth, a very hard thing for most people. But once the baby is there the joy replaces any angst. It really does help to talk about your birth experience to help process all the feelings you go through. Best wishes to you, Dad & baby.

[@francescakacary8947]

It’s not true at all. Every single thing in birth and labour is the woman’s choice. No one can do anything to you without your permission.

[@lesley1346]

Congratulations on your baby boy and on your extra large placenta! Glad everything worked out well in the end 💜

[@ellinor9777]

Thank you for sharing this with us Grace. I love hearing birth stories, even though I never want a child myself. I find it so fascinating what the human body can do ❤❤

[@Krysb107]

Props to Mr. Grack for advocating for you!

[@kaliladenver2884]

Oh my gosh Grace..how exiting is this. I’ve been waiting for this one 🥰🫶

[@jenniferpaul437]

Love this video❤❤. You are such a good mommy!! I’m a nurse and I always tell my patients when they feel vulnerable and immodest that for us, it’s another day at the office! We don’t judge and try our best to keep some modesty. Love from Texas!!

[@Flipflopgirl156]

I freaking love your birth story! So beautiful and wild! That was such a quick birth for being a first time as well, you are a superstar. Also gas and air sucks, I felt awful on it too. Counter pressure on my back is what helped me cope - honestly look that up for next time it was so incredibly helpful.And yes amen to advocating for yourself ( and having an advocate)

[@katielouise210]

huge congratulations grace!!! you feel like a little sister to me in a way, so it's so strange now you've got your own little family. so happy for you - you deserve it

[@amyschneidhorst1384]

Congratulations! And thank you for sharing your experience with anesthesia. I am not a mother, but as someone who also has has sensitivities to alcohol, caffeine, and otc drugs, I always thought that anesthesia (and feeling out of control on drugs) would have been one of my fears if I had gotten pregnant. So terrific your husband was such a terrific advocate for you both..

[@clojo368241]

My baby is 14 weeks and have lived going through pregnancy and motherhood with you. We've had one hell of a ride with our feeding journey. No one warns you how hard breastfeeding can be. I would love if you could share your feeding story so I don't feel alone ( all the other mums I've met seem to be bottle feeding)❤

[@jmb2202]

It is hard. Second time around is easier. The thing is that I found though is that breastfeeding is not really supported. Especially in the hospital If you are not saying that you want it and stand on that they have you feeding formula in a moment. With breastfeeding you need to be determined and have good support and know how it works. It is so rewarding but also heavy. But also so easy you never can give to much always have it with you. When they are sick you can give extra. And its always perfect for your child. I just stopped after almost 2 years.

[@clojo368241]

@ I go to a feeding group twice a week. I don't know where I'd be without them. I constantly think how much easier it would be to formula feed but feel too attached to breastfeeding to give it up. I think I'll be very sad the day she isn't feeding from me anymore 🥲

[@NEC353]

Long time silent viewer and midwife here so I’ve been really looking forward to hearing your birth story! I’m so sorry to hear that some parts of your journey were difficult and your birth didn’t go exactly as planned but I’m so glad you managed to have a water birth! Congratulations to you and Mr Grack💕

[@sandyk8523]

Congratulations Grace! I have been watching your videos since you were a baking student, now you are a mum! You have achieved a lot and really bring happiness and joy to your viewers. Thank you!

[@juliecorby7794]

My last daughter ended up stuck and they had to break her collar bone and a paralysis arm to get her out which they did not know they had done until 3 days later so this video did make me cry as it brought back all those memories. I’m so glad your birth was so much better than mine. Congratulation Grace, it has been a joy to see you become a mother.

[@BT-bv1or]

This was great, you told it so well! And a very good idea to have this vid to look back on, a lot of the details definitely fade with time! I love this new stage for you, I think you have completely changed but in a wonderful way ❤

[@AmberleyWalton]

as a student midwife and a watcher of 4 years this story has been so lovely to hear. tinys so lucky to have you as his mummy

[@jonap5740]

Well done Grace and Mr Grack! It sounds to me like you did the very best you could under the circumstances, and that was very good indeed. I am sorry the NHS is a bit of a mess, and I am sure the doctors and nurses and midwives feel sorry also. Good for Tiny to make his way here with yours and God's help. So glad you have a community you love and that loves you. Take your time in healing, remember to be kind to yourself, and if you can, sometimes reserve your energy. If Tiny is sleeping, put up your feet even if you feel you could run a half marathon.

[@meriambenouis5318]

I first started watching you at the start of covid a little while after having my first baby. Now 3 pregnancies later, 4 kids all together. I love that we were pregnant at the same times, my twin girls are 6 months now. I love listening to birth stories, this was amazing! But I'm with your mum and sis, gas and air was a MUST. I loved it all 3 times i gave birth and for me it helped numb that apkie of real pain you get at the end of a contraction. Then again, my sister hated that whoozy feeling. Do what works for you! CONGRATS AGAIN❤❤❤

[@aTheoryofFlight]

I have been watching for a long time and always think of you as being too young to have a baby and husband so this is just amazing to hear. And when I say young I mean that in a good way, like you seem always to have young and fun energy that I love. I am impressed that your hospital has a water birth option. This story also just sounds like you were so brave.

[@lynneleverton8825]

Aww Mr Grack sounds wonderful. So happy for you Grace! I'm sure you'll both be the best parents ever!

[@alicejames4401]

You absolute hero. Watching at 32 weeks and absorbing your wisdom. Well done you, well done mr grack for being in your corner, and well done baby for making such a timely appearance. Lots of love xxx

[@pandemmonium]

super excited to listen to this story, you may get some new eyes on your videos from this and i hope everyone is kind in the comments. love ya ❤

[@paulawhittaker3538]

I've never given birth but I definitely agree that having someone able, capable & can advocate for you is such blessing so Mr Grack sounds like an amazing partner to have by your side. My husband is sadly not built that way.

[@nameluc955]

Thanks for sharing this Grace! What a roller coaster! Would love to hear about the next days after birth. Also so curious about how different everyone is: some locking away no visitors at all, some opening their door to everyone, some only wanting their own parents etc. It's so individual so always so nice to hear different stories and perspectives on what helped etc. Glad Tiny is here safe and doing great 🎉

[@Cat-sw3jn]

Congratulations, Grace! I don't think anyone has like a wonderful birth story but we all take it in stride! With my second, I had a pre-labour emergency c-section, I was told there was something really wrong with him but they didn't know what, that he would go to the NICU and that they didn't know for how long, that the biggest thing they were hoping for was that he was going to come out alive. You can only imagine the stress! Especially that my first was also premature and was in NICU for 6 weeks. Turns out his umbilical cord was knotted and hadn't fed through the placenta for a month. He was very skinny but he was fine! Oh and my first was measuring small and turns out she was way bigger than they had predicted. The growth charts are complete lies!

[@BeckyTucker2010]

Thanks for sharing Grace, we are SO proud of you! ❤

[@Jeddieco]

Ok very excited for this video! Congrats on your baby! I'm 5 mins in and I just wanted to say that I gave birth 10 days ago at 35+3 weeks to my first baby. So i am Very excited to hear your story!

[@outoftheklosset]

Congratulations!!!!💐

[@wdestrempsmecke]

Congratulations Grace! Thank you for sharing these details bc 20 years ago when I had my daughter, NOBODY told me about any of this and we had a very similar birth experience.

[@chrissydoesthings2841]

Literally been watching you since you were a fresh KZbinr. Crazy that you’re a mom and wife now. Congratulations Grace! May the Lord bless you and your little family ❤

[@kathleensmith8365]

You are an amazing young woman, Grace. I think you were born to be a fantastic mother. Your birth story sounds like quite an adventure. So glad God gave you a good husband. Sending you love and best wishes.

[@cassiedominic1032]

So proud of you, Grace!! Been watching you for years and so surreal to get to watch this journey. I reached out to you over email some months back but in case you never saw it, I wanted to offer support in any way possible as a pp transition doula :)

[@EmJW98]

Ah I was so not expecting to hear these stories because I know some things are meant to be private… so thank you Grace for sharing your experiences with us! Happy Holidays ❄️🎄

[@wanderlust3292]

Congratulations, Grace! From one mum to another ❤️

[@Allietracks]

As a midwife, you should strongly consider a home birth next time. Also you’re right. Question everything and advocate for yourself. Props to Mr.Grack for his fab advocacy skills. Well done Grace, you did beautifully.

[@felicitydowns6651]

“Would not recommend to a friend” 🤣🤣🤣 grace you crack me up xx

[@bellajohansson_1]

Thank you so much for sharing Grace, you are so brave! I hope the journey is a little easier from here on out. God bless you xx

[@mellsbells6075]

What a warrior Grace!!! You’re an amazing mama!!! 😊😊😊

[@cassthomas9115]

The way I grinned when I saw this thumbnail - I feel like a very proud Aunty 💕 You did amazingly Grace! Re: birth stories, my first baby arrived 11 days late, took 94 hours between first contraction and him finally being out, and ended up being 9lb 12oz and super long (I’m only 5’ 2 on my tippy toes, so he was BIIIIIIIIIIG). He got himself a bit stuck as he tried to exit as he was presenting with the back of his neck, instead of the top of his head; so after all that time, he eventually came out his emergency c-section. It was a whole ordeal, but he is amazing and totally worth every second (he’s nearly 10 now, but I honestly don’t know where that time has gone 😮) Second baby took less than 6 hours from first contraction to having her in my arms. She caused all sorts of damage down there as she zoomed out (4th degree tears 😭), but again, totally worth every stitch 💕. She was pretty average in length, but still weighed 9lb 9oz 😳. Baby #3 was a planned c-section as I didn’t want any more trauma lol. She did attempt to come the day before, mind you; but she wound up being the smallest and dinkiest of all of my kids. Still 9lb 3.5oz, but very curled up and cute 💕. Long story short: apparently my body is good at growing big babies in my belly 🤪

[@TallulahMorgana]

Only a couple of minutes in, but I love the way that Mr Grack was speaking to you and the hospital. I get kind and comforting vibes. ❤ I'm so happy for you (having followed your journey since university days). I'm excited for Baby Grackle to have what I imagine to be a lovely family. xx I was born via C-section. I was what I think they call an incomplete footling breech? So Head up, one foot down and doing the splits so my other leg was up with my head! Apparently, the first thing that I did when I was pulled out of the womb was a big poo down the surgeon's scrubs haha, although I obviosuly don't remember it! x

[@ashleighsheridan5496]

Amazing amazing amazing grace!! Congratulations ❤

[@fionaalice1]

Oh Grace, you are are angel. Congrats to you and Mr Grack ❤

[@louisedurrant1804]

Awwww…lovely vlog, I still remember the meal before the birth of my two children…such lovely memories ❤xxxx

[@zakirah1587]

You tell the story so well! Also made me remember my own birth story, seems like ages ago but it was only last year😂 congratulations Grace❤

[@spaghettioh9424]

Omg I haven't watched you in a while and just got this notification for your video and YOU HAD A BABY???? CONGRATULATIONS 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🍼

[@leeza_danielson]

Much congratulations!! You are so fun. Thanks for sharing your birth story!! I loved hearing it, and hearing a bit about midwifery in the UK! I'm a midwifery student in the US, so it was really interesting to hear some of what it's like there. I also just had a baby boy a few months ago, and definitely agree with you about holding the balance of being open to whatever happens, but also being an advocate for yourself (or making sure your birth partner knows what you want so they can be the advocate for you). Enjoy your sweet little dude!!

[@lovelyjubblyy2657]

You done amazingly well! Can’t wait to hear what his name is 💛💛💛 God bless you all!

[@jonap5740]

I think his name is going to remain "Tiny" for the internet. Grace wants to preserve some privacy for him.

[@LouiseFranklin-k2q]

Childbirth is a painful, scary yet memorable experience, congratulations and well done momma you did great xx

[@JodieRogers]

Thank you so much for sharing! I'm due in April and realised recently I need to allow myself to be open to all possibilities, it's so helpful hearing your experience ❤

[@jeansmith4615]

Thanks Grace. Appreciate you sharing. Thrilled you got through with such positivism. ❤

[@kirstiepea]

This was so interesting, especially in terms of the hospital and different wards/areas. I had no idea. I didn't realise there would be so many different staff either. The first ward sounds like chaos!

[@lornagooday9508]

YES PLEASE to a part 2 / breast feeding journey ❤❤❤❤ Well done Grace!!

[@amyjones8791]

Congratulations! My grandson is about the same age as yours and Mr Grack's Tiny. He loves to talk with his mommy and squeals and laughs while talking with her ❤ just like your precious baby boy 😍

[@gracens5548]

Congratulations & thank you for sharing your story. 🎉🎈

[@TwinkleKaur05]

Congratulations again girl, you did well ❤ your story just reminds me of mine 😂 honestly you will forget all about the pain and just the memories of Tiny will take over ❤ sending love to you and the family ❤

[@brionyhall4250]

My mum, when pregnant with me (1990) went to a scan and was told I had downs. She spent the next month debating whether to abort. Then they did another scan and went "oops, sorry, we were wrong" 😂😂😂. She said she likely wouldn't have aborted, anyway, but having to think about that option was stressful.

[@1964Potter]

Thank you for sharing your story. I could listen to you speak all day.

[@juliebrooke6099]

Personally I loved the gas and air and particularly when I had to have stitches. I’d also thoroughly recommend a tens machine which worked brilliantly for my second delivery which accidentally happened at home. I’d hired one and started using it soon after the contractions started. I wasn’t really sure if it was making any difference until I accidentally unplugged the wires and noticed instantly. So happy for you that all was well in the end.

[@hefferwaldron]

I was cut like a jacket potato when I had my daughter (episiotomy)💀😂 because my birth was so bad I’ve requested my maternity notes to read. I’m so glad everything worked out in the end and you’re both safe and healthy xx

[@lucylocketsthinkingpocket]

Awwww thanks for sharing. Which song were you singing in church when your waters broke? That would be a great story for Tiny to hear in the future!

[@isabelle8836]

Congratulations on being a new mom Grace! Love this type of video! Love from NYC

[@snugglepuss5557]

Love a good Birth Story, me! Excellent…you will never forget it. I love that you can share these things. We love ya and Tiny is the luckiest boy 💞You are the sweetest glad to have found you on You Tube years ago

[@Geeeee217]

Wow crazy that happened on your due date! Yes please part 2 on the first few weeks and breast feeding

[@jmb2202]

It is normal to have still shivers when you think back. Because it is a very impactful experience. With my first I had a very traumatic birth. I could not look qt pictures until he was one. The second one was much better but still when you rethink it it still is a lot. But as long as it gradually improves you will be fine. It is always so annoying that in the hospital they push you to do things you don’t want. Also I think if you would have been at home and would be relaxed and in the ‘zone’ you would have probably been more able to cope with the pain. And haha I screamed like crazy too. I didn’t let them check me because it was painful to be on my back. I think the most important thing is a supportive partner like what you said your husband was. And a good midwife that will stand up for you.

[@LisaCarmen92]

Been waiting for this one …I’m currently 29 weeks pregnant and have gathered all the snacks and juice to watch on the couch 🤣🤩

[@gal1l33]

Congratulations!!! Thanks for sharing your experience. I just had my 4th a few days ago. It was our first home birth (planned). So much better than a hospital birth. Your story reminds me of all the reasons I chose to do it at home this time! Yes hospital births can still be wonderful and beautiful, but there can also be so many yucky things about it too. I’m so grateful home birth with an amazing midwife is an option where I live.

[@jessicamayne3394]

I can’t believe I’m hearing your birth story. This feels so grown up. I had the option to labor in the water but I was so sweaty I knew the water would get me overheated too fast. Plus I really wanted to move around the room. Pretty much same exact birth as you. Baby was sideways so I had sooo much back pain. Went for the epidural but dilated to 10 before they could get me set up 😂. The epidural dulled the back pain though (for me it was like someone squeezing my spinal cord. Very fun) but kept the other pains, which felt fine compared to the back pain. They had to use the vacuum because baby’s head did the same thing as Tiny’s, just going in and out and apparently she was stuck on my tailbone 😂 Also had to stay an extra night at the hospital because I had my baby at 11 pm. My hospital bill would have been so much less if they just allowed me to leave the next day, but they have a 24 hour rule at my hospital. My oldest had a great time having multiple sleepovers with our friends who were watching her for two nights lollll Thanks for sharing your birth story!!

[@yuyi_tv]

Hi new mum, this is the first time I saw your lovely vlog. Congratulations sweet Grace💗You are so so brave!

[@TheUrbanFamily1]

I'm cold, tired and very emotional after a kong hard week, but clicked on your video as soon as I saw it. wow what a journey... I love how Mr Grack was with you, knows you and fighting for you. blees you all ans tiny

[@nonamerooster5413]

I don’t think I would have kids at this point in my life, but thank you for the information about different stages of labour…that’s interesting! Oh and Congratulations to you and hubby!

[@katescott275]

So proud of you❤

[@outoftheklosset]

Thank you for sharing your birth story. That was a ride for sure! I am curious about epidurals as in the US many women have them. I've never heard of anyone having gas for laboring. In my experience gas is used at the dentist for some but not at the hospital. That's so interesting!

[@jacquelinewatt1241]

Congratulations 🎉😊, bless you ❤

[@zaramitchell7746]

Stopppp🥺🥺from a silent watcher congratulations on Tiny and congratulations on becoming a mummy! You will never look at scrambled eggs on toast the same way ever again🤣🙌🏼🫶🏼

[@ellexpress111]

Thank you for sharing what is indeed the miracle of life so lovely Grace

[@cassidybailey2376]

Congrats on your gracklet!!! 🫶🏻

[@christine4670]

Thank you for actually being honest lol! Really honest! I'm 50 now and I remember my daughter's birth (and only) like it was yesterday lol God bless us all❤

[@michaelalittle3622]

Loved this, thanks for sharing Grace 💕

[@katiebwheeler]

Thanks for sharing! I had the same experience with my first baby going from like 6-10cm in a few minutes then did a “practice” push and there was baby it was crazy! Also had some not fun tearing…. I knew about the contractions with the placenta but no one told me about the cramping with breastfeeding!!! That threw me for a loop! Also no one told me that those get worse and more intense with each kid.

[@melissafraser4984]

11:30 I would have absolutely lost it.

[@mirjamrettig1977]

Yep. Like what the hell

[@vikkistacey1290]

That comment of ‘I either just peed myself or my waters have broken’ are the exact words that came out of my mouth when my waters broke for my first baby 😂

[@luciebombara6857]

love you grace ❤

[@raniawebber2007]

Grace, having found you(r channel) in the pandemic, I'm so very glad I stuck around. I'm a bit older than you, and a bit further on in life stages, and even though I've made choices different to yours (and am happy with them), it's absolutely wonderful to see your life shape out exactly how you wished it would years ago. I remember you so excitedly talking in all the baking and 'experience' videos about how you couldn't wait to be a mum and bake such and such for your children, and now to watch it happen in real life is a blessing indeed.

[@emmamenzies3904]

I was a back labour gal... it was so painful. I had gas and fentayl blocker. Congratulations Grace and Mr Grack

[@brewsterkits]

Thanks for sharing, glad you got through it all and had your special little boy💙💙💙🤗😍💙💐