"You’re not something to be fixed you’re someone to be loved. The absence of love is what broke you and the presence of love will be what will heal you." This saying helped me a lot with accepting love and getting into my first healthy relationship, even if I always thought that I was not worthy and needed to heal first. We all deserve love, no matter what we've been through. I hope that it may help some people in this comment section too :) Great Audio Kat!!
@PineKatAudio2 жыл бұрын
That is a beautiful saying, I love it!
@ShadowyFox_86 Жыл бұрын
Having gone through a marriage and several relationships like the abusive one described here, I just want to say thank you. This is the first time someone has articulated my feelings in a way that I can now share with others.
@rogue_03142 жыл бұрын
I've been in an abusive relationship for years, and I didn't realize it was abusive until somewhat recently because it was my only experience, and some lovely people came into my life and have helped me realize and deal with it, and ive finally decided to cut my abuser out of my life, and im terrified. Listening to your audios, including this one, is so unbelievably helpful for dealing with that fear. I know it likely doesn't mean much, but you are playing a serious role in improving my life, and I appreciate it endlessly.
@Dystopian_k1ng2 жыл бұрын
Take my like. It's not much, but you deserve it.
@rogue_03142 жыл бұрын
@@Dystopian_k1ng thank you. It's stupid how happy that makes me
@Dystopian_k1ng2 жыл бұрын
@@rogue_0314 👑
@PineKatAudio2 жыл бұрын
That sounds very difficult, I’m sorry you went through that. I’m so glad you have people in your life you can be there to help you heal!
@okaywhatdidyousnort2 жыл бұрын
I might be just a stranger on the Internet but i hope you're okay ❤️❤️ sending you hugs 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
@SolarGirlASMR2 жыл бұрын
That was so beautiful and in the most healing way, thank you for creating such audios! 💛
@JakeSm4sh2 жыл бұрын
👋👋
@t-void76332 жыл бұрын
This doesn't relate to a relationship but my life overall. When I was young I was picked on about always getting in trouble. I adapted to mean words and blame. I grew to dislike thank you's and praise in general. Whenever I do something good it feels like something that has to be done. I've stopped being grateful for a lot of things because I see there is a logical reason to not care.
@TheAutoman2172 жыл бұрын
Me too, that's how I've felt ever since I was little.
@uNdAdrAIt2 жыл бұрын
I can also relate to this a bit; not liking compliments because it may have been from pity and such.
@reaperinplays2173 Жыл бұрын
Everytime my boss told me i did a good job its just meant they will never pays me for that spesific job. And i only did it because there was no one else around to do it. Its kinda makes me realise i never actually did any great job.
@Nikki-Kitten Жыл бұрын
@@uNdAdrAIt I can so relate. And although I know it and my environment is different today, I'm really bad at accepting compliments. I have learnt now to just say thank you and not respond something out loud that waives the compliment. But in my head I still reject whatever nice was said to me.
@shadowmewfred092 жыл бұрын
"The more I care about you the angrier you get" I understand that all too well it's like why didn't I have this sooner what was punishing me before now
@scarywalrus2752 Жыл бұрын
A relationship can be romantic or even just casual friendship. Abuse doesnt have to be physical or something verbally explicit, it can also be things like neglect. But in the end its so easy to blame yourself for it and change your minds inner workings to paint yourself as the evil one, and it becomes frustrating when people treat you any other way than how you tell yourself that you deserve. I really appreciate this video for just giving me food for thought for whats going on with myself and why i struggle with my relationships.
@mrcwillis69702 жыл бұрын
Beautiful as always Kat. I’ve never had an abusive relationship, or any relationship at all and maybe never will. But these are still nice to listen to. Hope anyone who has been through abusive crap will feel better listening to this and I hope your doing well. Btw love the thumbnail, love the autumn turning into winter, so beautiful, you always pick the best thumbnails for these ASMRs. ❤
@Lodethebig2 жыл бұрын
A relationship will find you, to some it just happens sooner than others. Always keep a positive mindset, other people can sense that!
@XVIXXi1i2 жыл бұрын
“There’s nothing wrong with you, there’s a lot wrong with the world you live in.” -Chris Colfer
@SenailCooledge2 жыл бұрын
Sorting out your emotions after abuse is such a roller coaster x.x
@Blindluck922 жыл бұрын
This is something I deal with a lot after I finally got away. But I'm getting better every day, one day at a time. Thank you so much for this one, Kat.
@BREAKOUT444 Жыл бұрын
Aren't ya glad they're gone, everybody? That person who made you feel so crazy for doubting your initial perception and hurt you in ways you never thought possible... You never have to deal with that ever again ❤️
@Christopher-hi6rw Жыл бұрын
God this woman is talented she can practically single handedly fix complicated emotions and fold laundry at the same time
@andrewdavido9632 жыл бұрын
Its Audios like this that keep me coming kat knows how to upload I love them ❤️✨
@Endergod47542 жыл бұрын
Thank you I had a previous relationship that was just like that and that I’m still not really over. Hearing your audio really helped
@amehayami9342 жыл бұрын
If I had a girlfriend and she told me "meeting you is like finding gold." I'd say " you mean gold from a dumpster fire." 😆
@romanking29962 жыл бұрын
"we can throw ice" Me:- I've already got 9 bags let's go (STAY HYDRATED AND YOU'RE LOVED ❤️👍😍😻)
@ComfortsSpecter Жыл бұрын
Amazing Coverage of an Incredible Topic Your Stori Near Perfectly Represented The Concepts I Love The Coomf and The Soothing Dialogue So Cute and Natural
@Ethanol2452 жыл бұрын
This is amazing 🥰
@Jaksonranger2 жыл бұрын
This script turned into quite the therapy session eh
@that_jester_el Жыл бұрын
This audio can get frustrating m serious talk to silly goose on the flip of a dime, and I love it
@MrSHADOWANGEL9992 жыл бұрын
lovely and wholesome
@romaramirez55782 жыл бұрын
Wonderful as always Kat 🙌
@Orangish_13 ай бұрын
on my birthday two years ago, thanks for this.
@chrisbarrowes93509 ай бұрын
Thank you. This helped me
@wifie93212 жыл бұрын
I need healing for not having a relationship ☠☠☠
@Short_insomniac_2 жыл бұрын
Same omg💀💀
@SuperSpike472 жыл бұрын
Fantastic video i hope you are having a great day 😺
@OGNotSoFun2 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@Harry-yx2onАй бұрын
I just dreamt that I confronted my abusive ex.
@cimol81112 жыл бұрын
Hi there!
@Zoogore67776 ай бұрын
I..I think I just realized I was mistreated in the past thanks to this video.😳
@make756perday2 жыл бұрын
"Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears." _Les Brown
@jossmcgonagall46312 жыл бұрын
Comment for algorithm bc I don't know what to say... Hi :D
@JakeSm4sh2 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the algorithm party
@totallynotcarter2 жыл бұрын
❤❤
@TheReapersSilentMessengerАй бұрын
their partners right, griefs never a straight line, in my personal opinion, its never a straight line, its a zig zag
@JakeSm4sh2 жыл бұрын
Comment for the algorithm
@OGNotSoFun2 жыл бұрын
Will do
@Dystopian_k1ng2 жыл бұрын
King Dedede is a better character. Reject the titty, embrace the penguin.
@CrystalMermaid610 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@dreamlessking92 жыл бұрын
Noice
@cardo35662 жыл бұрын
❤⚘
@angelmatiastorres2 жыл бұрын
First! Take care!
@Synthetic942 жыл бұрын
Generic script of angry boi. Lame.
@zeeba39992 жыл бұрын
Generic hate comment without any actual constructive feedback. Lame.
@Synthetic942 жыл бұрын
@@zeeba3999 here's my feedback. Anger from past abuse is certainly real. What's unrealistic is that I, as the listener, understand that and wouldn't project on others. Not to say I haven't, but certainly not in that way. The script implies someone seriously unhealthy and I feel it struggles to write (or rather, imply) a relatable character. This roleplay doesn't do it for me because I wouldn't want to put someone through something negative I myself have endured.
@zeeba39992 жыл бұрын
@@Synthetic94 I can see your perspective. However, speaking as someone with anger from past abuse who actively worked towards and is still working on not lashing out at others due to it, its entirely possible. You can absolutely be in a relationship with these problems, and work on them so you do not mistreat others. Being perfect at it? Yeah, thats unrealistic. But, assuming the speaker is going from a smaller timeframe, it's entirely viable in my opinion.
@NoNono-o3h Жыл бұрын
Both of you cringe
@fredericksaxton9782 Жыл бұрын
Then it isn't for you *specifically.* Not everyone has the same experience or reaction. Also no where does it say the listener WANTS to put anyone through anything, anger is a feeling and it can be confusing just like any other feeling in certain situations. That was no excuse to insult the video and call it "lame" because it didn't cater to your experience specifically. Plus, you're basically calling other people's experiences "lame". If everything had to be catered to one type of experience, many people would be left out and alone.
@Hereandqueer Жыл бұрын
Are you actually a therapists or how do you know all these things haha 🫶