ASMR| I'm so sorry baby.. [TW: Intimacy Related PTSD] [TW: Control/Abuse] [Comfort]

[@michaelunderwood5138]

My heart goes out to those who have had the joy and enjoyment of intimacy stripped from them due to a controlling ex. Man or woman no one deserves to have that taken away from them. However i pray strength and wisdom to overcome the past. To all those people who have experienced that type of trauma.

[@LittleMoonI]

As for someone who’s been through an abusive controlling parental family relationship for the entirety of nineteen years of life on earth audios like this help me deal with much of the dark days and nights I’ve gone through❤️

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

So sorry you had to go through that. Nobody deserves that ❤️

[@LittleMoonI]

@It’s Alfie! I am doing better nowadays things are a tad bit brighter not as bad as things use to be I’m working through medical mental help from professional assistance therapy etc I’m happier

[@trilobiteerlive2873]

@@LittleMoonI stay strong dude you’ll become successful in life without the toxic people in your life. Stay strong

[@marvalfan199]

I been thire bro keep ur head up bro

[@MentallyInsane356]

Yea man I went through something where my dad did terrible things,inappropriate things almost every night for months. He was an alcoholic and died later on due to unknown causes (probably because of alcohol)

[@Tethra12]

Man, If all people would understand communications is the absolute msot important part in a relationship we would all be happy! Thank you for your videos, have a great week!

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

Yeees to that!!

[@ssevenstarz]

listening to this as abuse and sa victim makes me so happy

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

Always breaks my heart to hear.. Nobody deserves to go through anything like that ❤️

[@ssevenstarz]

@@YourgirlfriendASMR

[@darryldouglasmarbaniang7162]

​​@@YourgirlfriendASMR Agreed. It's downright heartbreaking... 😢

[@ryanlarsen6326]

The thought of someone being this kind to me is so foreign that it feels like a complete fiction. It might happen for others but not for me. I hope one day I can feel differently, but probably not in this life. Still, thanks for the beautiful asmr.

[@talhaomair1455]

Same dawg, same.

[@mrcwillis6970]

Even tho I’ve never been abused by someone this is so lovely to listen to. Its stuff like this that makes me really love ASMR channels like yours, they bring such comfort and love. The hugs, kisses your giggles and laughter from the tickle part was so cute, everything about your voice is so relaxing and beautiful. Ty ❤

[@k-idol_wannabe]

These type of audios are some of my favorite they comfort me so much and remind me if how far ive come and that hopefully someday i will find someone out there whos this kind

[@yahelzilber890]

This is somthing i wish i could hear from a partner irl. this video is really comforting to me, as someone who's been in a sexualy & emotionally abusive relationship & always froze when my ex wanted to "have fun". This, even tho it's a video is really comforting. It's really hard to trust people after how my first relationship was. I haven't gone back to dating but this gives me hope. so, thank you. thank you so much!

[@pixelle16136]

How do we do to have one after that?😅 it feels impossible. I would just froze all the time and keep the person at arm length. Too anxious, trust issues and ruined body image. Thank you to my ex 🙆‍♀️😇 courage to you❤

[@leah2271]

I didn't know how important it is to have Asmr video until now thank you very much I have not been through anything like this but this video made me feel even a little bit about them and I am very sorry for anyone who went through this experience A little note: they were only two days but I missed your videos 🦋

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

Yeah.. It's so sad to think about how many people that has went through something like this.. 🙁 Thank you Leah ❤

[@pikasome2585]

I never had any abuse growing up or experienced PTSD. But my Uncle who served in the Air Force got it bad. He was out in Iraq and saw some stuff people should never have to witness. For anyone dealing with it, no matter how you got it or what it relates to, there’s always help for it.

[@samanthacristinaburgosmera4160]

Yeah I would to see her doing an asmr talking about this like if the bf has nightmare about his experience and his gf comforts him it would be soo cute

[@koikun]

I just started sobbing. I appreciate this video so much. Being told someone is happy that I could open up.. being given a safe space to do so.. I couldn’t take it.. my heart is so happy.. thank you for this audio. 💗

[@arraelle7453]

I listen to this kind of video because it is packed with so much emotional wisdom and empathy skills that I genuinely want to learn from this. I do think your videos can help people be better at handling difficult situations like that, now I have more compassion for others. Thank you for that.

[@kadenwagner9401]

I also been through abuse and childhood trauma and watching this helped me relaxed a little

[@thegoldavenger.3829]

“If your body hasn’t said yes, then it’s a no” powerful statement

[@JackBrady]

Thank you so, so much for making this Sarah, I keep coming back to listen and it’s incredibly moving every time. Your voice just sounds so gentle and caring that although there are so many feelings coming up, it’s amazing how soothing listening to it can still be at the same time. Thank you 🙏

[@rocket2739]

Aaaaaaaaaa the rare kink of wanting to be truly loved

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

It is a good one^^

[@KrayaFcknRiver]

I have the same kink…

[@JayeA-x4j]

Real

[@naturesuniverse1]

thank you sm for making this

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

You’re so welcome 😊❤️

[@jacobytes8720]

Remember guys and gals when ever ya feel uncomfortable in any way you should gtfo of the situation. I was almost pegged by my ex. I hoped the heck out of there. I don’t need to experience the whole thing to understand it wasn’t for me.

[@jameshilton3769]

I have a huge intimacy problem, it's actually painful in my groin when I get intimate with a woman the first few years. It's all from childhood sa by my stepmother

[@ImPurpleGuy42]

This was definitely something new to listen to. I have watched alot of asmr videos from other channels but never have I listened to one like this one. It's honestly shocking but heartwarming because of how the scenario goes throughout the video. And for someone like me who's never had a girlfriend, these kinds of videos give me a future scenario that could possibly happen. Even being on the other side of the scenario too because then it'll give me an idea on what to do or say towards my future partner who like us, the listener, is suffering from this PTSD. Anyways to wrap this up I would like to say that this video was very beautiful and admirable. Also I'd be damned if I had a girlfriend who would want to play Fortnite with me lol 😆

[@michaelunderwood5138]

Part of the healing process is to look it in the eye and let it know you wont let it control you anymore.

[@konajohnson6182]

Man the Jurassic park in the beginning reminded me of my ex. She loves Jurassic Park and I’ll never see the movies or games the same way without thinking about her. We are thankfully still really good friends and her parents have basically adopted me into the family so unless I either get into a heated argument with her or her family, we are friends for life!! I may have lost a romantic partner but I still have a lifelong friend and I don’t see that as a failure in the slightest!! 😊

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

Aw, that is such a sweet story!

[@sarahk.2381]

I appreciate this I avoid relationships because I learned as a little girl that I don't deserve love and I know that anyone I am with would treat me how I treat myself so I just avoid them wish I deserved a girlfriend who would treat me like a princess but I don't see it ever happening if I was worth anything maybe it would

[@Jemini4228]

I don't know who taught you that but they are wrong. You are a human being. You deserve to be loved and treated well and I'm sorry you have been given the notion that you are not worthy of that. X

[@sarahk.2381]

@@Jemini4228 thank you for your kind words I am doing better than I was when I wrote that comment and with help from my therapist and a few others I am unlearning that belief have a wonderful day and again thank you for your kindness

[@mcgrathswife5356]

As someone who has been through abuse on her childhood, I would love that my ex would react like this when I didn't feel comfortable about doing something. 🥲 This kind of videos show me that it is possible to be treated different... You Sarah are raising my expectations for a relationship, so If died alone for never founding someone, that would be your fault 😌🥺 Also thank u so so much for all the effort that u are doing🥰 I love all your videos sweetheart 🥰 Have a nice day btw ✨

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

I'm sorry... You deserve much better than that. Someone who loves you would want you to feel safe and comfortable around them. ❤

[@Ghillie_Dhu_]

Im pretty sure jurassic park was the first ever movie I watched, I will love that movie till the day I die.

[@RnbwQtz]

This helps me heal slowly..

[@jameshilton3769]

I experienced sa and physical abuse as a child at the hands of a woman I will not call her stepmother or anything mother related

[@madi.1187]

you are my new favorite channel my love 😭🫀 im in love with your voice

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

Aw 🥺❤️

[@GraceSquad13]

I’ve never been SA’d but I know people personally who have been through it who have opened up to me and nobody else. Il

[@yang-bj9ql]

I wish no one would go through what i went through

[@horseface470]

Ok imma just vent cause its like 1 and im not gonna sleep. As ive been looking back on my life, i realize that having to go to therapy for depression in like 6th grade was a major sign of "hey your family isnt that great for you" and its like, i refuse to fully believe it but part of me knows its abusive. Even if its just verbal or mental, its still causing damage. But i refuse to believe its abuse cause its not physical or actually caused me to self harm or shit cause im way too scared of pain. I just force myself to game or sleep as i cant think of anything else as normal. I dont know if im just looking for excuses for laziness or selfish behavior, and would love for an internet strangers outside perspective

[@yang-bj9ql]

I went through sexual abuse with my ex i still have some of the trauma till this day im making a shorter ersion but what coincidently is this asmr scenario of being pounced is exactly what my fiance did and it triggered my trauma and i freaked and i asked her and she did and i told her why because what my ex did and she was sad i never reported because i genuinely thought that was normal my ex gaslighted me to believe things and i thought they were normal in a relationship

[@stanleyrichard4678]

Love your content

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

Thank you 😊

[@jameshilton3769]

It actually causes me physical pain to be intimate with a woman the first few times, if she kisses me while I'm fully clothed it only hurts for a few seconds

[@jameshilton3769]

Wow, I really need therapy from a dr that can prescribe drugs

[@stephanyy6067]

Hope you're doing okay ❤️

[@That1Knife]

5 seconds in and you already know I’m the only person in the world who hasn’t seen Jurassic park. Or Jurassic world or anything else

[@Jdmj1703]

Me too lmao

[@MrSHADOWANGEL999]

That was lovely

[@Dazaiosamuofficial]

I have honestly never watched Jurassic park but this was great 💕

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

Thanks! I can highly recommend watching Jurassic Park if you’re ever scrolling trying to find a new movie to watch . ^^ Sooo good!

[@Dazaiosamuofficial]

@@YourgirlfriendASMR no need and I will try to watch it when I'm free

[@KrayaFcknRiver]

I’m so upset in an episode and needing comfort

[@jameshilton3769]

This one's going to be difficult

[@aliasfakename-mf2jh]

Intro had me screaming because Jurassic park is my favorite movie. I watched it 67 times last year.

[@cowboy_crow]

Thank you 💛

[@nivgaming1255]

You: No. No tickles. Me: Yes. Yes tickles. *Laughs*

[@timetraveler9518]

I need a girlfriend like that

[@1Dreamsmakers]

You did amazing job ...

[@nomaanarshad786]

what do you the about the idea of doing domestic kinda Wife (family style) Audio i think that would really suit you🌷🌷

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

I'm a bit hesitant to make those but maybe in the future ^^

[@wisetree7604]

Stop making out with tree I'm trying to watch the movie

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

I'm sorry!! You were looking all green and cute 😶

[@GoldxDog]

Thank you :)

[@amandagresham1298]

Your amazing as always loved this audio Sweetheart your soo real great audio Sweetheart love you ❤❤❤

[@t26e3pershingtank]

Jokes on you Jurassic park was and still is my favorite movie from my childhood but I said no as an excuse to watch it again

[@Cr3ative2u4]

I should’ve just said no and left it at that instead of just continuing after I felt like I made her feel bad

[@Gray-Miller]

I don't know if I made the right decision when I forgave the person who sa me they're still my friend but the fact they ruined spooning and being held from behind still gets to me

[@themoure2650]

I hope you're doing okay

[@Gray-Miller]

@@themoure2650 If I'm being honest I don't know if I am sometimes I joke about and sometimes I can't sleep because of it I don't understand it and it's frustrating

[@SkieRadesi]

Considering the the fact that I was SAd from the ages 0 to 3 or 3 1/2 by my father I have a god damn shit ton of trust issues when it comes to men..... Well good thing I'm lesbian 😅😅😅

[@twenuggie]

How dare you say I have not seen Jurassic park I am a nerd of that stuff

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

The old or new? 😮

[@odin0707]

Very nice

[@jameshilton3769]

I've got really bad trust issues, it took me 3 months to be naked in front of my wife, due to the abuse I went through as a child

[@-Lucifer__]

👋

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

👋

[@Jack_sparrow-am-different]

Of course relationship is not sss …..

[@BrendanBraica]

I need to hurry up and fall in love

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

Oh, don't you worry Geralt. You already have, more than once I'm told.😉

[@Emily_North]

Comment For Engaygement🏳️‍🌈

[@KrayaFcknRiver]

🥰

[@hihighchuufromloona9715]

Hi high chuu from loona

[@ssevenstarz]

you attack my heart

[@hihighchuufromloona9715]

@@ssevenstarz your here too

[@AuralsAudios]

Is the trapping listeners down supposed to be romantic? Sounds a bit dark.

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

It is depending on if you are coming from the VA’s perspective or the listeners. From the VA’s pov it just a playful/flirty way to stop the listener from tickling them and to show that they wanted to be the ’Dom’ as things progressed. It is not done with the intention of hurting the listener, as they don’t know about the listeners past. But if you see it through the listeners eyes, it is controling and intimitating, hence their reaction. I guess the shorter answer to your question is; could be either.

[@nivgaming1255]

You: We could play fortnite Me: Do you really want to play fortnite against me? I started playing since season 4

[@YourgirlfriendASMR]

Sounds like beginners luck won’t save me here 😬

[@nivgaming1255]

@@YourgirlfriendASMR no it won't. Though I didn't play in a while. So you have a chance at winning. It's a 50 50 chance

[@gabeitch9142]

Jurassic park is like, my favorite movie movie. Immersion ruined.

[@I_urge_to_count]

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[@sametucar9544]

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[@KoraySalman-br1ye]

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