Facing Heartbreak And Breaking the Narcissism Trap By Sadia Khan Psychology

[@arykahleigh4570]

I do take personal responsibility & accountability 4 choosing the wrong man. Who pretended 2 b the right man. Cuz he’s a Narc. Straight up.

[@Aye_Yo_E]

"who- who's that knocking at my door? Narcotics! Break out- Break out artillery, Hide the mf product"😂😂😂

[@deborahserafin8253]

I remember this resonating with me when I saw the full interview. THIS PERSPECTIVE MATTERS!!! Take responsibility for choices-good and bad!

[@konsyansnou8623]

"We show our red flags and we either choose the one who is naive enough to believe us or the one whose redflags are compatible with us" makes lots of sense. I also heard that women test us daily, and many of them will try to make you believe things

[@joyhayes7299]

Everything you say is true! I do not want to male the same mistakes that's why I am will to take my place and responsibility for my failed marriage and Other relationships

[@nataliergauci]

Both people are to blame. What is this?

[@dawn6232]

I don’t like her extreme thinking across interviews. You can have multiple truths in a situation. Yes, the word narcissist is overused, but the word does apply to certain individuals. I agree take accountability for your dynamics in a toxic relationship, but completely take the blame, that pendulum is too far swung one way. May this woman never miss a red flag. She’s quite arrogant thinking you see ALL red flags on day 1.

[@Lucybluee]

Exactly. It’s insidious abuse, it’s not a teenage toxic love relationship. This is awful for real victims. Victims don’t want to blame someone. But they do need validation that it’s true abuse.

[@dawn6232]

@@Lucybluee I think her opinions about how the real victim is to blame for not seeing the red flags from day 1. I’m not sure how she has the audacity to speak the way she does.

[@Lucybluee]

@@dawn6232 Agree. Shameful. And she’s unqualified. People throw around the term yes. But that doesn’t mean true abuse doesn’t exist. Similarly, I wish people would stop telling people to forgive themselves too. Forgive ourselves for being abused?? Silliness !

[@dawn6232]

@@Lucybluee it is very frustrating and condescending when others say forgiveness heals. Most likely, all these clueless people have never dealt with this type of abuse.

[@jordansharp7081]

The problem with Narc Abuse, true narcissistic abuse, is that you are slowly slowly slowly conditioned that you deserve the abuse, that you are to blame, and that you "aren't a victim" Saying things in this video is just hurtful to true survivors of this terribly manipulative and damaging abusive relationship. The whole point of narcissistic abuse is to make the victim feel crazy, small, and that they are imagining things. They are gaslit daily, the abuse is minimised and they are told by their abuser that its their fault.

[@Lucybluee]

Bad advice. Having agency is one thing but victim blaming is ridiculous. Not all narcissists show red flags. We wouldn’t tell a victim of physical or sexual abuse this. Narcissist abuse is real abuse. And Australia just recognized and made coercive control a crime.

[@jordansharp7081]

Unless you've been through it, you can't always see it. It's slow, malicious, and disguised so you don't see it. I specifically chose my ex because he demonstrated all the traits I wanted in a partner. It wasn't until 5 years in, that he changed and became horribly controlling and hurtful