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The Apples

The Apples

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@scubachix4215
@scubachix4215 10 ай бұрын
It would seem the clinical trial wasn’t working. That said, there was no other choice for a woman in the prime of her life because she couldn’t just do nothing. Maybe it bought them some hope in her last years. Such a sad story.
@cherylekelly4564
@cherylekelly4564 8 ай бұрын
My heart still breaks when I see her :-) gentle face, what a brave soul she was, and how proud she is of you, Kyle, taking care of the children and loving them like you do
@Meganmama
@Meganmama 11 ай бұрын
I’ll be cleaning in honor of Jenny from now on. ❤️
@MomMom-kc4ee
@MomMom-kc4ee Жыл бұрын
You are the sweetest, most lovely person on Utube💕💕 We don't watch you just because you have cancer. We watch because you and your family are just delightful !! You are in my heart and prayers 💕💕
@nicholamc2629
@nicholamc2629 Жыл бұрын
So very well said ❤❤❤❤
@missiris1234
@missiris1234 Жыл бұрын
Yes this is true. We love Jenny. She is the sweetest❤️👌🏻❤️
@vaniareyneke4761
@vaniareyneke4761 Жыл бұрын
Yes, very well said. You handled that pain episode admirably. Love, love to all of you. ❣️
@janetdriscoll9277
@janetdriscoll9277 Жыл бұрын
That is so true 👍
@debbriggs5811
@debbriggs5811 Жыл бұрын
exactly, the are the dearest.
@sandrapanico6357
@sandrapanico6357 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad I’m backtracking and seeing these older videos because now I know why Jenny’s story is so compelling. So much courage up until the end. Better keep an eye out in your garden because if you see a butterfly, that could be Jenny visiting you.🦋🦋
@gracynolivia
@gracynolivia Жыл бұрын
omg Ellis is so polite “sorry for interrupting”
@Cyndi59
@Cyndi59 Жыл бұрын
You faced your battle with such grace and beauty ❤
@olivedog1880
@olivedog1880 8 ай бұрын
She was an absolute angel. I miss someone I didn’t even know. I miss you Jenny. You are so special. Never, ever forgotten. I cannot believe you were a real person ❤ Kyle is the best daddy there is, we know you’re proud❤
@terigarcia6674
@terigarcia6674 Жыл бұрын
You and Kyle are amazing parents and perfect examples of putting your children first in spite of all you're going through.
@missiris1234
@missiris1234 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree. Great parenting there
@betsybabf748
@betsybabf748 Жыл бұрын
I am sitting here crying because I have to scrub the toilet. I just unclogged a clog the kids did that was a nightmare, and now it is a horrible mess. Crying because my husband always handled clogs and he died. The second I started crying because I have to tackle this, you told me to be grateful I can clean a toilet. I swear my late husband made this video on my autoplay.
@prosaically
@prosaically Жыл бұрын
My husband died unexpectedly 16 months ago. I still miss him terribly, but he would be unhappy with me being so sad all the time. I'm so sorry for your loss! Please accept a virtual hug from another widow 🤗
@JenDoe1
@JenDoe1 Жыл бұрын
Virtual hugs to both of you 💗💗
@saraallen4263
@saraallen4263 Жыл бұрын
Sending you both hugs💕
@dnagoddesshealings2212
@dnagoddesshealings2212 Жыл бұрын
Hugs to you both. I really couldn’t imagine. I’m so sorry. 😢
@kathleenmetcalf6767
@kathleenmetcalf6767 Жыл бұрын
Jen - I was so impressed at how you handled your pain in front of Ellis - it's so very hard to do! Ellis seemed more interested in his goggles than anything else - so well done! You are a warrior princess sweet girl - keep on fighting!!! Love you!
@Jenna-Roo
@Jenna-Roo Жыл бұрын
So true. We love you all ❤🙏🏻✌🏻✝️🌠🌈🌞🦋👟🌴
@maryann823
@maryann823 Жыл бұрын
I came in here at the last couple of months. Is jenny and Ashley twins? I saw where they had a double wedding.
@gabielaa240
@gabielaa240 6 ай бұрын
I’m ugly crying right now. My house is a disaster zone right now. I have a sprained groin and sciatica pain at the moment and have not been able to clean properly for about a month. Jen I feel like you sent this video to my suggested for a reason.. I miss cleaning. I promise you Jen, when I get better I will clean in your name. This world was so blessed to have had you. RIP Jen you are extremely missed 😢
@elizabethhoward1023
@elizabethhoward1023 11 ай бұрын
🦋Miss you Jenny.
@brendarubedor722
@brendarubedor722 Жыл бұрын
Watching and missing you😭💔 praying for Kyle, Ellis, Winnie, and the family 🙏🫂😭💕
@kathrynbruton9065
@kathrynbruton9065 Жыл бұрын
I believe in prayer, so I am praying for you.❤️🙏 With my first cancer diagnosis I was inoperable and now 31 years later after more cancer diagnoses I am still fighting. I have been blessed to raise my children and now have grandchildren!
@cazzib51274
@cazzib51274 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@wendymichiko
@wendymichiko Жыл бұрын
You got this Kathryn! Thank you for sharing your words of encouragement. ❤
@KMyer
@KMyer Жыл бұрын
This is so good to hear! Never give up.
@angelbasham6631
@angelbasham6631 Жыл бұрын
That's so encouraging sending prayers
@Bethanyview
@Bethanyview Жыл бұрын
Jenny, thanks for taking your free time and chatting with us. It’s always a pleasure to see your smiling face and to hear your enthusiasm for living. Hang in; we know you miss Michael. He’s along for your ride.
@marylamb991
@marylamb991 Жыл бұрын
Jenny, I love watching you and your precious family. I keep you in my prayers every day. Your the sweetest person and have a great personality even with your struggles with your cancer. Keep looking UP !!! XOXO Mary Ann in Tx. 💜💜
@parkerrose3590
@parkerrose3590 Жыл бұрын
Oh Jen! I was tearing up when you were struggling to breath. You so brave and strong. I've been through health issues and breast cancer and stuff, it only makes you stronger. Please take care and DON'T overdo it!!!! Pamper yourself. Let others help you. I pray for you!!❤ I have wonderful news. I just found out I'm going to be a grandmother. My daughter is 7 weeks pregnant now. I pray for a healthy baby and that I be here for them. I'm 72 years old with only one daughter. I'm very grateful.
@nicholamc2629
@nicholamc2629 Жыл бұрын
OMG Congratulations!! That is such wonderful news to have and share! 😭❤️💖❤️
@KMD2832
@KMD2832 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations :) I hope that your daughter has a healthy and easy pregnancy, and that you and your grandchild have many happy years getting to know one another x.
@Sandstorm_.
@Sandstorm_. Жыл бұрын
That’s the sweetest news congratulations💕
@parkerrose3590
@parkerrose3590 Жыл бұрын
@@nicholamc2629 Thank you so much!
@parkerrose3590
@parkerrose3590 Жыл бұрын
@@KMD2832 Thank you so much! I was 41 years old when my daughter was born. I had a wonderful pregnancy and healthy baby!!
@stephanielynn3844
@stephanielynn3844 Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy you have an open dialogue with your kids. You still communicate with them what makes them happy as well like him talking about his birthday party. It’s okay for your kids to see you in pain. You have cancer and that’s not your fault. You’re such a great mom and your kids see that everyday.
@nataliebrooks6822
@nataliebrooks6822 7 ай бұрын
An amazing soul. Love & miss you sweet Jenny!!!!! 🦋🐞🧡
@butterpecanrican_
@butterpecanrican_ Жыл бұрын
The way you handled your pain in front of Ellis is a testament to a mother's love and, quite frankly, the superhuman strength that takes over when it comes to protecting our babies. I'm sorry you had to go through that alone, but you are amazing.
@jeyd87
@jeyd87 Жыл бұрын
Rip😢 I’m sorry you had to leave your little ones
@mercibeaucoup2486
@mercibeaucoup2486 Жыл бұрын
An army of us right here rooting for you ! your silent soldiers ❤
@JenDoe1
@JenDoe1 Жыл бұрын
That’s right! ❤️❤️
@lesliedelp3565
@lesliedelp3565 Жыл бұрын
We were hit by a drunk driver when we were in our thirties. My hubs and I have had so many limitations because of the long term injuries. My hubs has had five surgeries so far but we keep pushing to feel normal. I love when I have days where I don’t ache when I get up in the morning! I thank God for those mornings! Good for you for recognizing those special days when your body does not betray you! ❤
@catherinelumley2817
@catherinelumley2817 Жыл бұрын
Oh jenny I'm missing your stories about your day so much.x
@lindanugent4294
@lindanugent4294 Жыл бұрын
Hi Jenny! You handled your pain like a champ. I am amazed at the strength and determination you have to give so much to your babes. Ellis's party was amazing! I am 72 and have 2 grown grandsons and 2 grandsons ages 3 and 4. Children are such a blessing from God, and He gave Ellis and Winnie the most loving and nurturing mom!!! 🫂 🙏
@eugeniabuitron172
@eugeniabuitron172 4 ай бұрын
Cancer is cruel. To see Jenny so alive and full of hope and to know that she is no longer with us is heartbreaking. You will remain in the hearts of those you touched forever. You are truly missed
@sallygreenfield6991
@sallygreenfield6991 Жыл бұрын
I have chronic, severe back pain, and I second your call to enjoy cleaning! You don't know how nice it is to be able to do that until the ability is gone.
@ninasparadise-e4p
@ninasparadise-e4p 11 ай бұрын
Hey Jenny you are missed!!🙏🏽🙏🏽💙💙
@mayaluna11
@mayaluna11 Жыл бұрын
I bet many of us wanted to climb through the screen and drive you when that pain flare started in the car. However, Ellis got to see mommy manage and focus on him despite pain. I so wish you didn't need this parenting while in pain skill. Yet, in awe of how good you're at it.❤
@judithsimolke678
@judithsimolke678 Жыл бұрын
Ellis showed so much love on his face when he waited for you to feel better. You are a precious family.
@ellyne3863
@ellyne3863 Жыл бұрын
Hi Jenny - I often think we're our own worst critics - I struggle with thin hair too, but I genuinely think your hair looks great as it is. Especially with the headband, it looks just like normal hair to me! Wouldn't even think twice about it :) you are looking great, girl!! 💟
@genevievepawlak7203
@genevievepawlak7203 Жыл бұрын
Your hair can use a little trim if you want but the way you wear it will be less to deal with than getting it shorter,advice from a x hairdresser
@ericafields2079
@ericafields2079 2 ай бұрын
Unfortunately I just came upon this KZbin and just virtually met Jenny. You are impacting people and making friends even after you’re already dancing in heaven somewhere! What an incredible soul you have!!!!
@marynamurray9385
@marynamurray9385 Жыл бұрын
You and Kyle are so fortunate to have such great support from family, friends and school. Not everyone gets such great support. You are doing the right thing by waiting in the car until your pain subsided a bit. Pain is exhausting! Sending strength to you and your family!
@teresawells9281
@teresawells9281 Жыл бұрын
You handled your pain at Ellis' pick up like a champ. The positive is that you are right there for your kids. My kids are grown up and gone. All they remember is me trying to keep up with everything and hold down a full time job.
@blueseptember2174
@blueseptember2174 Жыл бұрын
@@freehugs8670 I guess everyone handles it differently. But when I'm in a pain flare I do tell my kids. I keep it age appropriate. It helps me feel even keeled mentally to know that we're all on board.
@janna4994
@janna4994 Жыл бұрын
That what tough to watch. Wow Jenny, you are one tough woman! It's crazy how much we take for granted like cleaning and breathing without pain. Praying for your healing 💗
@Scotsman-On-The-Spectrum
@Scotsman-On-The-Spectrum Жыл бұрын
I lost my Mum almost a year ago to secondary terminal breast cancer that spread throughout her body. She was 64 when she passed. I’m 36 and it was extremely difficult. I’m at the beginning of a pursuit of a diagnosis for Autism myself so not being able to pick up the phone to call my Mum is affecting me daily. My Mum passed away in April 2022 and my Wife and I got married in July 2022. It was one of my Mum’s dying wishes to see me settled down and married but unfortunately, she couldn’t hold off that little bit longer. My heart really goes out to you and your partner and the kids Jenny. It breaks my heart knowing what you are all going through as I’ve been there when my Mum went through it all. I was 14 when my Mum had breast cancer first time round and it really messed with my head. My Mum didn’t talk to me about it and I never had any support from anyone. What you’re doing with being open with your kid’s is the right thing to do. It may not feel like it at times due to worrying about what all this is doing to them but it absolutely is. Sending all my love and positive vibes all the way from Scotland. You’re stronger than you know 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿❤
@aliceobrien8390
@aliceobrien8390 Жыл бұрын
Don't talk about people dying of cancer .to people who have cancer, this don't lift people going through cancer and fighting it
@Scotsman-On-The-Spectrum
@Scotsman-On-The-Spectrum Жыл бұрын
@@aliceobrien8390 Given that cancer affects so many of us, I wanted to share my experience of dealing with it as a child when my Mum was first diagnosed with it. I’m certain that everyone who is diagnosed with Cancer is aware of the seriousness of the illness and how it can go. Perhaps before jumping down my throat over my comment, you ought take a moment to realise that I was offering support to Jenny and particularly backing her being open with her children. As I’ve already stated in my initial comment, my Mum wasn’t with me and it caused me to suffer as a child. Children process information a lot more differently to adults and need to be kept in the loop. The fact that you are saying that nobody can ever share their own experiences with Cancer with someone else who is suffering as a result of the horrible illness is a pretty narrow minded view from you. I think anyone who is suffering from Cancer and sharing it publicly on a social media platform, will be looking for support in what ever way that is. I’ve offered my support for Jenny and considering what I’ve experienced at the hands of the illness, consider myself in a position to share how it’s affected me. If sharing my experience helps a single other person out there, then great. Please don’t jump on my comment attacking me because you have an alternative view. There were other people who liked my comment and saw it for what it was. Someone suffering at the hands of Cancer doesn’t need to have it directly. Whether directly or indirectly impacted, it is extremely difficult. I’m still finding it extremely hard to grieve the loss of my Mum. I won’t ever get over it. I have adapted to living with her loss but won’t ever get over it. Maybe show a little more compassion for other’s who are suffering too instead of taking your ill-informed judgmental stances.
@V3ganBr33
@V3ganBr33 Жыл бұрын
My mom had cancer when I was 13. She had what we thought was terminal brain cancer. She loved 26 years after her diagnosis. But I remember being in Winnie's position. It can be scary. But. I promise. Watching you and how strong you are will help her know how to fight in any situation in the future 💜❤️
@standup2982
@standup2982 Жыл бұрын
Jenny it's not cringy, not at all. You handle it all so well with your children. It's impossible to hide it all from them. I'm poorly, not cancer, and am now disabled, as of three years ago. I can hardly walk and have carers come in twice a day. I'm a single Mum of five with two minors at home and three who have grown up and left home. The one thing I miss the most is walking. I used to walk our dog for miles and miles, sometimes eighteen miles on my day off, in open countryside where we live. I hate that I won't ever see those places and views again. It was my happy place, just me and the dog and quiet time. Such a simple thing, walking, like you said about cleaning, which people take for granted. I'm so sorry that you're bleeding again. That must be miserable for you. Yet you carry yourself with grace throughout and despite of it. You are wonderful. Sending much love from the UK 🥰💜
@SonetLandman
@SonetLandman Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear. 😪
@standup2982
@standup2982 Жыл бұрын
​@@SonetLandmanthank you, that's so kind of you 😘
@Secular-Serenity
@Secular-Serenity Жыл бұрын
I sing those thank you songs to my doctors, nurses and all the other tireless healthcare workers. I wish I could hug them every day 💜
@debradavis3935
@debradavis3935 Жыл бұрын
Sweet Jenny-your grace, strength and compassion for yourself are awe inspiring . As a disabled older woman with both mobility and breathing issues, I do know some of what you experience and you do such a heroic job handling those challenges. Your children will be so enriched throughout their lives with the memories of this time as you struggle with cancer. May God bless you. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻. Sending all my love to you, Kyle, and the kids! 💜💜💜
@RonF386
@RonF386 Жыл бұрын
Anytime you want to talk Jenny everyone on here is here to listen 💕You are an amazing lady with a beautiful family ❤️
@veronicaotto6326
@veronicaotto6326 Жыл бұрын
Dear Jenny,love and healing from Italy .God bless you!
@KMD2832
@KMD2832 Жыл бұрын
I am astonished at just how incredible you are, keeping talking calmly whilst obviously in significant pain and struggling with breathing. You know, I think your children are very fortunate to have you as a mum, xx.
@ckerspilo
@ckerspilo Жыл бұрын
Bless her heart in Heaven. RIP
@jackietaylor5035
@jackietaylor5035 Жыл бұрын
I love you Jenny ❤
@spoiledmilky.
@spoiledmilky. Жыл бұрын
rip jenny. 💕
@GS-kv3zy
@GS-kv3zy Жыл бұрын
They featured City Of Hope this morning on the Today show. It was about a new way to detect Lung cancer earlier. Amazing progress. Wish they had it before you were diagnosed. Praying for you!!!
@m.coline
@m.coline Жыл бұрын
What is the new way they can detect lung cancer?Sounds fantastic!
@GB-zg4yu
@GB-zg4yu Жыл бұрын
I couldn’t help but think as you spoke about Kyle’s therapy, that speaking to us is your form of therapy. And in speaking to us, you provide us the same. Thank you so much for showing us what we shouldn’t take for granted in our day to day lives. You are absolutely right-we should never take our abilities for granted. I will remember to be grateful that I can clean my toilet. Go to work every day. Do my dishes. Those “simple” things aren’t always so simple Thank you, Jenny. You are so brave and so very so strong. Our hearts are with you in this 💪🏼🙏🏼💕
@suemoo22
@suemoo22 Жыл бұрын
I hated to see your pain but you handled it so well. You’re such a brave,beautiful mom. I thought you looked so good today.
@RPBMB-he4zz
@RPBMB-he4zz Жыл бұрын
Jenny- your selfless bravery and love for your family brings me to tears. You are truly a noble and beautiful soul. You all are in my prayers. Love to you and your family from Vancouver, B.C.
@nan-x8l
@nan-x8l Жыл бұрын
What a good chat that was, Jenny! And don't worry about your pain episode in front of Ellis. You handled that so well! Just matter-of-fact and then moved on to talking about Ellis’ day. You're a great Mom, Jenny! Truly you are. 💖 Sending hugs to you 🤗🤗
@shannontorres214
@shannontorres214 Жыл бұрын
The first time my son saw me have one of my cancer pain episodes it broke me down emotionally. You did such an awesome job fighting through the pain!!
@TrishaLouise-g7u
@TrishaLouise-g7u 10 ай бұрын
Thats was so loving so heart breaking and beautiful
@kkmhj
@kkmhj Жыл бұрын
Hi Jenny! City of Hope is on Today Show today -I’m watching right now! Pretty interesting that they’re talking about those suffering from lung cancer among non smokers♥️what a blessing that you have so many linking arms with you and your family to FIGHT this. I continue praying for you and others…
@jaqlyn7603
@jaqlyn7603 Жыл бұрын
I know what you’re saying. Before my dad got diagnosed with stage IV he was a hard hard worker and on the go all the time (even while he had cancer and we had no clue). Now after so many chemo treatments he’s slowed down so much and it makes me so sad to see. I hate cancer so much 😔 the good thing is that when he’s feeling better he is still out and about and taking advantage like you. It makes me happy to see.
@ninarines588
@ninarines588 Жыл бұрын
We know and it's normal Jenny to have those feelings!!! We love you!!!
@lucilleeidse9407
@lucilleeidse9407 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the reminder to enjoy the everyday things such as cleaning! Jen, you would look so cute with a pixie cut- it would be a great way to work with the shorter layers. How special to be close enough to Disney to go there when you need a healthy distraction. You are doing amazingly well and your strength is inspiring 💕
@davidallen2211
@davidallen2211 Жыл бұрын
I know how you feel, for different reasons though, you never understand how much you miss the little things until you can't do them
@susano7587
@susano7587 Жыл бұрын
I thought you did a great job of down playing the pain you had when you picked up Ellis. You’re a good Mom, and it is plainly clear your Children love you more than anything in the World.❤
@AGallagherGarden
@AGallagherGarden Жыл бұрын
There was a doctor that tried treatments with neostatins, I can't remember his name but he had incredible successes with it and won court cases over it when the pharmaceutical companies tried to shut him down. Idk if maybe you already had heard of him or not so I thought I'd just write just in case. I am a recovering addict of almost 8 years now and love watching your videos. It brightens my day to almost have a mini group session watching these just thinking I have so much to be grateful for. You are such a humble and thankful person and I pray you beat this! My dad died from lung cancer in 2019, and I think that was hardest thing my family as a whole ever went through.People like you and him, make the world a better place to be in! Thank you for inspiring the rest of us to do better and not forget how lucky we all are to just be here.
@lindseyb9267
@lindseyb9267 Жыл бұрын
I found your channel about a month ago, and wow Jenny, you are a remarkable woman. What a gift your channel is to your family…and to us. Thank you for sharing your time 💗💗💗
@debbiewilson2247
@debbiewilson2247 6 ай бұрын
I can't stop watching this until the end...You were such a brave & beautiful soul. You are definitely missed ❤😢
@MermaidQueen64
@MermaidQueen64 Жыл бұрын
Jenny, I’m so sorry you are suffering with your pain. I am amazed by your ability to be calm and interact with your kids even when your in terrible pain! You are amazing and you are not fighting this beast alone, we stand with you! I pray everyday for you and your family. Love from Florida. ❤
@collettewhosthatgirl1330
@collettewhosthatgirl1330 Жыл бұрын
You handled your pain situation like a BOSS! What a woman you are! I love watching your videos so much! You are a great mom, better than I've seen some without any medical issues. Big hugs 🫂 and see you all next time🥰🥰🥰🥰
@kayleighmorris2453
@kayleighmorris2453 Жыл бұрын
Ellis is such a sweet polite boy his a credit to you. Sending you all lots of love. ❤️💙💜
@karenmccabe2371
@karenmccabe2371 Жыл бұрын
My heart just breaks for you Jenny! I can’t even imagine. Strongest lady I know! ❤❤❤
@andygossard4293
@andygossard4293 11 ай бұрын
Love you Jenny Apple forever
@Yxna_gacha
@Yxna_gacha Жыл бұрын
I am going to miss you so much. Love you Jenny girl fly 🕊️🕊️❤high
@somersetflower
@somersetflower Жыл бұрын
Hi Jen ... I am trying to clean today after not being able to get outa bed yesterday. I was hoping your post would spur me on but I haven't got it together - no breath and no stamina darn it. I wanted to say I wish everyone would have your lovely attitude about living each day in the present . We are none of us promised tomorrow and I love that you spend as much time together as a family and are grateful for every minute. Poor Winnie struggling must be so difficult for you she is such a little star and so loving bless her - Ellis is good with her so mature.loved his party. Please feel better our friend I have you in my prayers. Janice 👵 🇬🇧 xxx
@csc1641
@csc1641 Жыл бұрын
I love that those special women are helping you out with dinners, etc. This is what life is all about loving and caring for each other. Bless you, Jenny with warmth, peace and calm during this time. From a "C" sister.
@shooster5884
@shooster5884 Жыл бұрын
You are so positive and courageous dealing with this cancer, you have motivated me to work much harder on a mobility issue I've had along with a chronic fatigue problem. I am now forcing myself through the pain of the exercises and walking up and down hills I need to do to get the better of it.. following your advise... Do Things now because you don't know when you won't be able.. there are so many things I want to do when I beat this chronic stiffness and work through the pain doing so. You motivate me.. I wish you relief from the pains that are bothering you.. you are a delight to watch and listen to. And you have a beautiful family.
@Broadstairs26L
@Broadstairs26L Жыл бұрын
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@SonetLandman
@SonetLandman Жыл бұрын
Chronic fatigue and pain is exhausting to deal with. Wish you the courage to push through it.
@JFSRN
@JFSRN Жыл бұрын
Jen, I just want to mention that I've noticed the last two videos you have been looking so good....healthy, and relaxed. I noticed it immediately. I hope that you notice it too, that it means you are healing!!!
@jimkuntz8423
@jimkuntz8423 Жыл бұрын
We are praying for full recovery. Miracles happen and you so deserve this miracle!!
@eclecticaustralia
@eclecticaustralia Жыл бұрын
Hi Jenny, my name is Robyn & I'm in Western Australia. I'm relatively new to your video. I've been binge watching your videos for a few weeks now. I'm so, so sorry that you're going through this. You have the most beautiful family & you all are such valiant fighters. I love how close you all are, especially you & Kyle. It's just so beautiful to watch. What a sweetheart he is. 🤗🥰 I feel that it's important to have no regrets & you are definitely making that happen. Being open & honest about the realities of what your battling, means that all of you know where you stand & how to help each other cope. I believe that some people are put on this Earth to be teachers, so that they can pass along helpful information to people who need it. Your family are all great teachers, pardon the pun to Kyle. 🤭😁 My Mother-In-Law also battled non smoking lung cancer. Unfortunately, she has now passed, but she survived alot longer than anyone expected. She had no idea she had it, until an incident while cleaning a window flyscreen made her have to have an x-ray. She discovered she had lung cancer & that the cancer had eaten into one of her vertebrae. She had to have surgery, to have a cage put into the vertebrae to stabilise it. It was absolutely awful. My husband is now battling PTSD & struggled for years to come to terms with it. I'm not going to talk about prognosis stuff, as I feel it would only add to the anxiety you feel. But just know, she lasted far longer than anyone expected, even her doctors. So anything is possible & people such as yourself can really push the limits of possibility. For me, I suffer from chronic pain. I have scoliosis from an accident when I was 10, I have severe bone degeneration in my spine, hips & joints & I have Fibromyalgia. I struggle to clean. I struggle with everything really. But I try to be positive & appreciate everything good that comes my way. I love nature & the environment. My son & I love photography & we go out bush & photograph our native Orchids. I also collect model horses. I have a video on my channel of my collection. I have around 800!! I also love doing arts & crafts. So throwing myself into my hobbies really helps me mentally. My Burmese cat Baji is my sweet angel. I love her so much. Ok I think I've said enough. I love your videos & eagerly await your updates. All the very, very best to you & your family. 🤗🥰🤗🥰
@SunniRayzz
@SunniRayzz Жыл бұрын
Jenny, You Rock, and can, and will fight this. You are such a Strong Confident Woman. My family, Prays for your Beautiful Family Always. Big Hugs & Love to You and Your Family. 🤍🩷🙏
@lisagreene4193
@lisagreene4193 Жыл бұрын
you handled the pain in front of Ellis really well. He's got the best mom ever. Winnie too. ❤
@jaxx8973
@jaxx8973 Жыл бұрын
Communication is the key, I know with my mum, who had cancer, hid it from us for as long as she could, we knew something was up but when we found out I resented her for a while, cause I felt like time was taken from us that we could/should have spent with her. Now I am older I fully understand why she did it. The bond you have with your children is so strong. Take care.
@donnaa9581
@donnaa9581 Жыл бұрын
Jenny, there are no words to describe you. You are just the epitome of grace and strength. You and your family are so sweet.
@sherrydaut4910
@sherrydaut4910 Жыл бұрын
I know you told the kids you have cancer but, I was watching Ellis in the car when you said you were having pain. His poor face was worried. I think talking about it in front of the kids lingers in their minds.
@joanabug4479
@joanabug4479 Жыл бұрын
As someone growing up "protected" from the tough reality of my father dying in a car crash, being told he "left briefly overseas to work but he'll be back" and him never returning, I can tell you it's much better to process these things as they happen than to go for years and years to therapy trying to get over the unnerving feeling that whenever someone leaves they might never come back - even if it's to the shop, even if it's a trip some miles away. Panic attacks during childhood and teenage years - I never understood them back then. Our single parent, dealing with everything, didn't have the knowledge to recognise the signs either, they always assumed we (sorry, my brothers and I - I was 6, they were 4) were either too sensitibe, too anxious, claustrophobic or anything else. While I don't want to advise them on their parenting choices, I'm telling you, from my perspective, the alternative seems to be grimmer.
@sherrydaut4910
@sherrydaut4910 Жыл бұрын
@@joanabug4479 of course, I would never tell a child a deceased person has "left" with them thinking they would eventually return. I was just concerned that when she had a bad pain while sitting there, I would have quietly sat there, knowing he was watching and listening. He probably thought about it long after the pain eased. I am a 3 time cancer survivor, I know these moments well.
@sidneywaddell7765
@sidneywaddell7765 Жыл бұрын
Ellis looked concerned but not freaked out. When you were talking with him and waiting out the pain he looked like ok it’s all good. Yes you need to let them see some rough times so they know it’s only temporary. They know cancer life and handle it well. Your so tough and brave. Your an awesome loving mama❤️
@debralynn2443
@debralynn2443 Жыл бұрын
As a Stage 4 lung cancer soldier. And hairstylist I would get your hair blended so the 2 layers go together. Love watching your channel and am cheering you on. Hugs
@wendymichiko
@wendymichiko Жыл бұрын
I love you Jenny! I’m so proud of that strong body of yours and what it was able to accomplish over the weekend! Thank you Lord that our girl was able to do some chores! 🙌🏼 How adorable is Ellis?! Such a sweet, caring boy. In the car, I believe he was checking in with you to see if he was interrupting you before he started his conversation. So thoughtful . 🥲 You are incredibly strong Jenny! Not only did you manage your pain with so much grace, you even explained to Ellis what was going on so calmly! You are a super mama! I’m sorry you’re getting styes. Might I suggest you avoid wearing eye makeup for the time being as the makeup plus the removal process may be contributing/aggravating your sensitive eyelids. Thank you for sharing your life with us. You truly are an inspiration. YOU GOT THIS GIRL! 💖🙏🏼
@virginiaterrore7784
@virginiaterrore7784 Жыл бұрын
You communicate so well with your children. I know it’s a hard conversation to have with your children. The best thing is your daughter talks about what’s bothering her❤️. Love you and your family!
@aliceschmid9697
@aliceschmid9697 Жыл бұрын
Open dialog is EVERYTHING.
@anneefroc4234
@anneefroc4234 Жыл бұрын
You are living your best life given your situation Jenny, you inspire and motivate and are fill of life. Keep at it and may you be blessed with miracles. Everyday is a gift.
@mariatoth2649
@mariatoth2649 Жыл бұрын
It's such a joy to listen to you, sweet Jenny. Your strength is admirable. You're a wonderful mom and your beautiful sprit sparkles in your eyes. Prayers and hugs for you.
@patriciasmiderle9181
@patriciasmiderle9181 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your inspiration. You are a blessing to us all. I am grateful for you Jenny. ❤️
@janwoodyer735
@janwoodyer735 Жыл бұрын
Oh Jenny, seeing you having that really bad pain episode was so hard. I recognise the panic when you have so much pain you just don’t know what to do with yourself…what positions to get into, to try to ease it. 😢. Also, I’m so sorry that your period has returned…as if you don’t have enough to cope with at this time! 🤦‍♀️ I really hope things start to improve for you soon. 🤗
@jennifermorley6487
@jennifermorley6487 Жыл бұрын
Hi Jenny, 11 years ago I became ill with a chronic illness that attacks my central nervous system and causes severe pain in my body 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. I just wanted to say I totally relate to what you mentioned about cleaning. As a wife and mother, one of the hardest things has been not being able to help put with the housework. I took a lot of pride in helping keep the house for my family. When I am able to help out on a rare occasion, it feels so good. I miss it so much and wish I could help more!
@naomisgram1
@naomisgram1 Жыл бұрын
😢
@MissBe737
@MissBe737 Жыл бұрын
I don't understand why the sweetest people get cancer.
@christinedavis5813
@christinedavis5813 Жыл бұрын
Just want to make another comment you are someone who I admire so much you are giving me the courage to face my own Trials I have a heart failure Thank you, Jenny
@gloryshouse5198
@gloryshouse5198 Жыл бұрын
Bless your Heart. You are such a good mom and Kyle is a great Dad. You all really encourage and keep a positive attitude. It is good that you talk to your kids about the cancer. You and Kyle make a good team. My Husband is in remission from lung cancer. We just got the scan results. He had small cell lung cancer. It is hard but you are handling it so well. I love that you talk to us and let us know how you feel and share your heart with us. I love you all and you are in my prayers. ❤
@TheMissymoo100
@TheMissymoo100 Жыл бұрын
Even without cancer you are quite obv an amazing Mum. To do that WITH cancer is beyond amazing.
@robertahardwick4886
@robertahardwick4886 Жыл бұрын
I think about you so much and your family… It’s funny how we don’t know you, but come to know you through your videos and all you’re going through and I just so wish you didn’t have to go through all this. I just wanted to tell you today that I love your laugh it’s so cute.!! 😊 you’re so strong and brave and loving ! Hang in there as best you can, and know that so many of us have you in our prayers and thoughts!! 🌸🌺🌷🌻
@aliceschmid9697
@aliceschmid9697 Жыл бұрын
You allow people to enjoy the gift of generosity.
@maureenharzinski504
@maureenharzinski504 Жыл бұрын
Jenny - I really don’t have the words to adequately express my admiration for you!!! I’m in awe watching you handle this!!! You are an amazing mother and wife!!! You are so lovely!!!!Thank you for sharing your beautiful soul and your beautiful family with us. Much love and prayers!!!
@muncgrl53
@muncgrl53 Жыл бұрын
Jenny, you are such an inspiration. Continued prayers for comfort and healing.
@aliceschmid9697
@aliceschmid9697 Жыл бұрын
Love your color palette! Peach, pumpkin and black. BEAUTIFUL!!!
@elizagrogan9454
@elizagrogan9454 Жыл бұрын
You look so good in that cardigan. The colour really suits you. You have definitely looked so much better in recent videos. I hope it's a sign that things are looking up. I think the children love you so much that it helps them to know that you are receiving the best of care.
@sundoesshine8583
@sundoesshine8583 Жыл бұрын
I've been thinking the same, you are looking more like your old self these days!
@heatherronan
@heatherronan Жыл бұрын
Jenny, I think you do an amazing job of being present for your little ones despite the struggles you may be having and while they do know mom is sick, they also know that they are so very loved and have many great moments and days with you. They're learning that life experiences are diverse with ups and downs, rather than just rainbows and candy 24/7 and this will help them to be well-adjusted and empathetic humans. I'm not sure if there is any kind of support group or therapy for children of people dealing with cancer, but if there is then it may help them to be a part of that as that could provide an objective person or program where they can voice their own fears or concerns without feeling like they're possibly hurting mom or dad's feelings especially Ellis since he's older and more aware of what's going on. He seems to be a sweet, sensitive little soul who internalizes a lot of his feelings (my own son was the same way at his age) so he may benefit from being able to talk to someone outside of the family who allows him to just say what's on his mind and helps him to cope in a different way. I think people tend to forget that children are a lot more aware and apt to be struggling than we give them credit for and I did that with my own son at first too. Just as we need and can benefit from someone who isn't emotionally connected to us, they may need that as well. ❤ I also wanted to say one thing to keep in mind about accepting help from people is that you are actually helping them as well. Most of us love helping people and it's sooo good for our own mental health when we are able to show kindness to others so let them be kind to you and accept whatever is gifted to you without guilt because you're doing them a kindness in return. 😊 Oh and about the sty in your eye that keeps happening. I kept getting them over a three month period and was so frustrated but I finally discovered that it was my mascara! I threw out the one I had and got one that's organic and it stopped happening. I think because our bodies become more sensitive during and after cancer treatment, the products and things we used before may just become too much for our current physical state or there may just be bacteria in the eye makeup you're currently using. I had to stop using many of the products I used before cancer because I seemed to be having allergic reactions everywhere. You have to remember that chemo and radiation are toxic poisons that are harming us to heal us. Yes, they can work but they alter us biologically in the process too so you may need pure body products with as little chemicals and ingredients as possible.
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