Failing a Fiance

[@DanLee8884]

Is it just me or do many of these litigants treat buying a car like it means nothing? It's not like a TV. For me, a car is the second biggest purchase after a house. It is a huge decision because it take lots of responsibility and money to keep it up. Why would you purchase a car with a gf or bf?

[@crystalshaw8744]

They just wanna drive not realizing actual finances are involved.

[@getin3949]

It would be a huge decision if it was something better than a hooptie.

[@kdmac7425]

Because they were in love. LMAO!

[@urnotfromvictimville2543]

You have common sense these morons do not

[@PlugJh]

Cuz they are morons!! Plain and simple lol

[@GummyBearWA]

Holy crap, they're paying 150% interest! These "buy here, pay here" sub-prime car loans should be outlawed.

[@ccrow86]

Yyes

[@Rain-oq7vh]

I'm pretty sure there is a cap on interest, they could have negotiated it way down by saying they would put a bbb complaint but nit many know how to do that

[@cinnamonrollonapancake]

It’s most likely a simple interest loan, which most consumer loans are. It’s where in the beginning of the loan, more of the payment goes towards interest than principal and as time goes on, less goes towards interest and more towards the principal.

[@onecuet]

The interest is high because people who purchase from these places. Either have bad credit or no credit. A large majority are not reliable to finish their contracts.

[@DonziGT230]

By that logic we'd also have to outlaw pay day loans, pawn loans, credit cards, layaways, title loans, etc. While doing so would protect many morons from doing stupid things, it would also prevent a lot of people from acquiring something that could make their lives better at a time when money is tight.

[@greenenergysolutionsteam]

Kids never want to listen to their parents. Experience is NOT the best teacher, someone else's experience is a better teacher

[@UnicornFamilia]

I think they say experience is because young people “usually” don’t listen to others advice. They don’t learn until they actually have the experience. That’s how it became known as the “best” teacher. Because every experience is not the same.

[@highpretty]

I love how judge milian looks at her husband 🥰 theyre the cutest

[@Irod567]

I disagree. I've always found the dynamic between them weird. I wouldn't have thought they were a married couple if I didn't already know.

[@Ororeoalpha]

Omg him talking about his wife with so much love and so proud I'm dying 😭😭😭

[@kristineo2926]

you can see she is tearing up as he is talking about her, she knows how proud he is of her and how much he loves her

[@joeybiden7755]

Shorty got her hair and makeup done, but house damn near looking like hoarders buried alive 😂.

[@kay44422]

This is bugging me so bad ! Ur on national tv even if my house did look like that . The tv wouldn’t know 😂

[@latoyiab79]

Yeah i peeped the boxes too. She should have cleaned a space and made it look nice in the background.

[@nicolesmith583]

I thought the defendant was a woman.

[@spacecase8791]

As did I lol

[@Bebe777333]

Me too!

[@Channel-JJ]

you and me both 😂

[@highlander666]

same

[@Channel-JJ]

he's a soft momma's boy, I expect he'll still be nursing when he's 30

[@paperbackk]

I love hearing the judges talk like that about each other after the verdict ❤️

[@poohbear23270]

I love their relationship 😭😍 you can tell he’s so proud of her. They are so cute together

[@Pinkdiamond12]

That's a hard 21 and 26.

[@theycallmequeen6273]

Nah she looked her age.

[@WeezyJeffersonYo]

@theycallmequeen6273 she doesn't. She looks at least 30, he looks 40..

[@supportvawa2213]

@@WeezyJeffersonYo no, she looks 29 and he looks 38.

[@highlander666]

hell yeah🤣

[@Teetoy4]

@@supportvawa2213 are you serious 😂😂 that’s not much of difference then other comments

[@mermaidmama7880]

Are we sure the defendant wasn’t questioning something else?

[@WeezyJeffersonYo]

These folks don't give a crap about cleaning their background for the show. 🤣😂

[@wb3381]

Wow I just noticed that this tells me a lot about her character

[@payableondeath9091]

She probably ain't even wearing pants 🤣

[@leggs4113]

Awwww the ending. You better hype your wife up. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@dontaskmewhy1322]

They keep saying “in this for the car”. If anyone is in a relationship with another person because they have a vehicle that’s crazy 😂.

[@madliarcharlie9695]

He needs to sue whoever did his hair

[@Teetoy4]

Dam* 😂😂😂

[@troyneishajames4822]

It’s probably a birth mark… google is free

[@madliarcharlie9695]

@@troyneishajames4822 so is a sense of humor

[@hollyjames4622]

I swear on everything... yall never fail me! 🤣🤣

[@Channel-JJ]

but his mom worked so hard doing it 😂

[@mmmfun77]

I love Judge Milan. I never skipped a grade but I was 24 going on 25 when I became a dentist. Hard work does pay off…🙂🙂👍

[@shaunlewis8484]

Judge M is so intelligent! Very impressive!!!❤

[@aderonkesalisu4035]

💯

[@TopherGrant]

No way that's a man. I thought he was wearing big hoops

[@WeezyJeffersonYo]

Defendant looks like a 40 year old mother of 4 who works 2 jobs.

[@spacecase8791]

Omg 🤣 that's so accurate

[@Channel-JJ]

👍

[@mirsan6705]

😅😅😂

[@mmmfun77]

No you didn’t 😂😂😂😅

[@NotAsItSeems]

When she said she was only 21, I was thinking, “Wha???”

[@latishagreen9776]

Yeah I'm not too sure about this one. Why should he pay the full amount of the repairs? If anything it should be half. Who knows how she was driving the car while she had it. It could be her fault the brakes are bad.

[@crystalshaw8744]

He's so proud of his wife.

[@spacecase8791]

The plantiff comes across like she can get a real nasty attitude to me. I think she was just playing nice for court.

[@anonuser4806]

I agree. She has a certain air of attitude around her.

[@0207khenry]

Yup. Soon as the show started. I was was like, yeah, she mean.😂😂

[@Miszez]

Absolutely

[@mmmfun77]

@@anonuser4806 totally

[@Channel-JJ]

I thought they were both girls at first. The mother's need to step out of their business especially the 26 year old momma's boy. Dude you're 26 cut the damn cord already.

[@sunnyblake1980]

Boyfriend? I thought that was a girl 😮

[@IsaacDaniels777]

I thought he was gay

[@lovemii3kids]

His cheek bone structure is amazing.

[@Sheya404]

I did too..

[@jacquiecase8396]

SAAAAAME!!!!

[@neisci]

21 and 26, whew! Let me go moisturize and drink water. Black does crack.

[@Yeakeepgoing]

wow

[@fintyeli3]

🤣

[@veronicamoody3981]

He doesn't look old. Why do people feel the need to berate others?

[@juanmanteca95]

😂hell naw 🤣

[@crystalshaw8744]

Dude looks like Scottie Pippen.

[@quincebanks1732]

Right! Looks just like him. I scrolled thru the comments because I knew I couldn't be the only one who thought the same thing.

[@WesleyLindsey]

Her boyfriend got a boyfriend

[@blkbutterfly58ify]

That’s why they broke up….💅🏽

[@Ma-cm7ft]

Lol you see how JM asked both of them 🤣🥴 yikes!

[@N_Frazier]

I just spit out my water. 😂

[@mmmfun77]

😂😂

[@CynLG]

Yep

[@radrew684]

When they said their age i said myself "well that explains everything"

[@edyann]

I'm not a very religious woman- but ladies AND men: Don't loan your significant other money unless you're married. PLEASE.

[@TopherGrant]

Or at all. Help your SO get a job. Besides, if you can't afford it, you don't need it

[@edyann]

@@TopherGrant Well, to each their own but I would lend my husband some money... only that I don't think I'd call it a loan because we're married. But I guess my point is that if we're just boyfriend/girlfriend- no way.

[@firstladypie760]

I lend However I lend whatever I can lose. Simple

[@mrshappilymarried1]

My husband (then boyfriend) loaned me hundreds of dollars during our courtship so I guess it depends on the individual and the relationship. He was very generous then and even more generous now🥰😍

[@Childfree334]

I don't believe in giving/loaning men money PERIOD no matter who they are: boyfriends, husbands, relatives, friends. I just will not do it. If I as a woman can financially support myself with no help from anyone, then men have no excuse.

[@GardenerEarthGuy]

That's a dude?

[@elvickRULES]

He should lose for that hairstyle alone

[@edyann]

🙈😄

[@Ricksmomie]

🤣

[@thegrouphomegoddess9684]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bell6012]

🤣

[@fintyeli3]

Ikr, saw the thumbnail and said wtf is going on with him 🤣

[@kathyweagley1273]

She's a wonderful lady she's got to common Sense which is rare. Bravo to her and best wishes to her and her family

[@user-nn4ue5ng5x]

I like it better when the crowd is there. Makes it more exciting and entertaining. Does he know he's gay?

[@enolahastiin6811]

Harvey is sitting there talking about thinking about all the relationship you've been in that went badly, I'm like I've been in 2 relationships my entire life. 🤪

[@Geronimo2Fly]

So what happens now? He has the car, he keeps making the payments on the car, but the loan is still in her name? That means if he defaults, it is HER credit that is going to be ruined, not his. Also, how did they both think that both of their names were on the title? Didn't the dealership ASK how the title should be held? Most likely, the salesman just assumed that the man would own the car regardless of who was paying for it. As a woman, I have experienced such blatant and ubiquitous misogyny at car dealerships that it is seriously mind-blowing. When I go by myself everything is usually fine, but the moment I go with a man, all the attention is on him. Virtually every time.

[@lavernebenton4800]

I was trying to figure out what was going on with his head 🤔🤔

[@manthony777]

"I Loved Her Or Whatever" smh

[@racqueljae]

😂😂😂

[@laughnatyu]

I love that her and the husband find bonding time even between working 😍

[@its.teetime]

Thought this was a lesbian relationship

[@Ualari]

Great verdict this was a very messy case but she dodged a bullet, at 26 he didn’t even know he signed for a car? And his mom (and her mom) were way too involved. They both need to grow up.

[@chuck9380]

Why is the mom involved in their business and didn’t want to come to court to get embarrassed.

[@JJDOOM99]

@@chuck9380 lol ok!

[@Channel-JJ]

he's never going to grow up, he likes it when his mom pushes him around the grocery store in the cart.

[@flyingrover9022]

@@Channel-JJ 😂😂😂

[@ariannasantina]

honestly sounds like the both NEEDED their moms to be involved tho with the amount of bad decisions going on.. mom shoulda been around MORE lol

[@righttoouropinionthanks4710]

“It’s all good” JM says!! Lol! Is she trying to sound hip or cool?? Lol!! Then she says “slow your roll”!! Lol!!!!!!! Too funny!!

[@highlander666]

they look awfully old to be in their 20s

[@wb3381]

He looks younger than her

[@leelee185]

I was thinking the same thing, they don't look like they're in there 20s

[@headstampballpythons3783]

I thought the defendant was a woman, and then when they started referring to the defendant as “he”, I was so confused. Then he started talking and I heard a man’s voice.

[@cheyanneseda8742]

😂😂 I thought the same

[@Jahmai203]

A brake job doesn't last "for years".... what is Milian talking about?

[@Channel-JJ]

It depends on how often and how far his mom lets him drive the car 😊

[@joeybiden7755]

@@Channel-JJ 😂 this sh1t is crazy man

[@ortizg88]

I love how he didn’t want to SEEM like he only used her for the car. Your name ONLY is on this title. Wowwwwwww 😅

[@PlugJh]

16:15 because my mommy said I didn’t have too lolol

[@dianeallen5803]

So many cases with a woman sues her ex-boyfriend for car payments that she made for him. So many loser ex-boyfriends! Sometimes commitment demonstrated by marriage is a good idea.

[@Claybo]

At the end of the day, who chose the loser?

[@lovemii3kids]

I dont think think this young man is a loser. I think they should have never got a car together.

[@terripratt2807]

He don't even like women she blind if she can't see

[@lothasav1861]

I wouldn't give her shit for the attitude 🤣

[@Miszez]

Lmaoooo 😂😂😂😂

[@AP-uo7sp]

Judge Judy would tell them to quit playing house! Take the loss and move on. Everything isn't a lawsuit.

[@rosej5029]

JJ wouldn't ask why the broke up either. She would say & repeat if they kept talking "I don't care"

[@smiley_tingzzempire255]

Don’t watch her if you just gone complain. She does it for the audience duhh!

[@jessicawicks8680]

He's too immature uggg

[@peachycalmable]

Thought dude was gay

[@Childfree334]

Dude IS gay

[@shy_sorai_vlogs]

He is

[@carihenderson5944]

a early lesson learned for the plaintiff.

[@puppysayshi7848]

Yeah, female privilege.

[@Channel-JJ]

yea date men not momma's boys

[@wb3381]

@@Channel-JJ Should a man marry a masculine woman

[@bms0294]

Speaking from experience, being young and "in love" is, most of the time, a fairytale. Your credit is too precious. Think with your clear mind and not with your feelings🙂

[@belindarsmith85]

He sassy…..clearly likes men

[@ShankyLuv]

That relationship didn’t fall apart because of a car….

[@Indiasplace]

Judge Milian is AMAZING!

[@jennykit]

I understand that some men have a feminine side but this dudes a whole woman.

[@LucyGirl2023]

That’s what I was thinking 😂

[@puppysayshi7848]

I am going to sue my ex for 115 dinners and 3 boxes of rubbers.

[@mirsan6705]

Yesss😂

[@sheisme2]

This case is exhausting

[@richardpodnar5039]

"...because forever isn't as long as you think..." --- Hmm, profound lesson!😋

[@MyGoodenessGracious]

He is a mama's boy & looking for sombdy to take care of him. "I ask my mom, I asked her mom, she talked to my mom."

[@streetsofgold4310]

😂😂😂😂

[@Meanwhile107salvatore]

The background is distracting and messy on the plaintiff's side.

[@katalina1699]

Omg it's so distracting especially that box OMG oh oh Im going to have nightmares OH OH I'm going to need a therapist Maybe I should sue the plaintiff............GTFOH ridiculous🤡

[@Meanwhile107salvatore]

I think you do need a therapist

[@keemah28]

Her ex what??

[@robbbietheim2096]

Am I the only one that can see this woman has a serious attitude issue, dude seems like the one with sense to me, you can tell a lot by the way people choose to conduct themselves in a courtroom, Im glad he decided not to marry her, I can't do angry women at all 💯

[@WeezyJeffersonYo]

She seems very domineering and pushy and he seems like the type to get walked all over.

[@wb3381]

I can see it too she looks like she can be hard to live with especially her attitude

[@anonuser4806]

Yea I noticed that too.

[@rafaeltorres2460]

His mother ruled his world...

[@zariahtaylor762]

I like the defendant’s Birthmark in his hair so cool I love seeing that on people. They young , young love then will be okay

[@arianefr78]

It sounds like he was just after her for the car, because when asked if he misses her he says 'no', but if he had truly been in love with her, he would still feel a little something, she's lucky she got out of the relationship when she did...

[@blkcubwhtbear5361]

You been engaged longer than you were dating. 🙄

[@Carlos-ll7bz]

They adults lmao i get needing help but the fact the mothers were doing all the speaking back foooorth wow😅

[@RileyCullen1]

As a woman, I haven’t & wont pay for any guys car payments. I pay for my own car payment. And I won’t let a guy pay for my car payment. Things happen in life, where we all get behind in a payment or two, HOWEVER, if you keep making those payments, that’s a red flag. And why would you want a guy or lady in your life who has that bad money management? That will be your life for a long time. How desperate do you have to be?

[@adrianprince7266]

This is why you cannot purchase things like cars or homes jointly because you never know when something like this will happen.

[@Childfree334]

She has to know her ex fiance is on the DL. No way that person is hetero.

[@Channel-JJ]

🤣🤣

[@gdixon404]

Making him pay for the repairs is crazy

[@supportvawa2213]

JM said - I'm in my 20 year old's business (and that's understandable). But 26? That's a man child. Yikes!

[@elisabetpurve2908]

Age is unfortunately not a guarantee for maturity

[@Channel-JJ]

@Tamia Graves Leaving or not leaving the house is one thing, letting your mommy handle your business and personal life as a 26 year old male is something different.

[@Channel-JJ]

But him and his mom look so cute together when she's pushing him in the shopping cart at the local grocery store 😂

[@AuntDottie]

She should have only gotten half of the repair money because she drove the car which is wear and tear on her part too.

[@tiffanistrickland9146]

She’s so gorgeous.

[@thunderbrown55]

He told you judge, his mother told him to keep the car. This judge dont even how to be messy on the sly😁😆😅🤣😂#keepitinmotion

[@TammaraBarnes]

19:57 this was so sweet! Judge Milan was a prodigy! Making millions now. Genius!

[@mmmfun77]

Big time

[@steelwheels327]

Boyfriend????? where ?

[@aerotaken5357]

Wait, the defendant is a doctor? But has his mommy negotiating his bills and seemingly can't afford to make a $260 a month car payment. 😂😂😂

[@painestar]

Wow, JM was a 23 year old lawyer. Amazing.

[@DesignerBass]

If the defendant doesn't know who his dad is take my advice and order a DNA test from Scottie Pippen. Lol

[@Channel-JJ]

he ain't going to acknowledge that 😂😂

[@courtneydover7188]

💀🤣

[@DesignerBass]

@@Channel-JJ am I lying though? Lol

[@Channel-JJ]

@@DesignerBass there is resemblance 😂

[@YarnieGirl]

Playing grown-up, but both needing advice from their Mothers.. lol

[@atotibaby1006]

He won't do anything or get married until Mama approves😂😂😂😂

[@Fluffyzk]

I thought the plaintiff and the defendant were an odd couple. I guess that’s why they didn’t last lol

[@princesskyndall]

That hairdo should be getting sued.

[@joeybiden7755]

Both of them so broke that they both had to go on a loan for a $250 car note? Unreal … 😂 poor people problems…

[@nicolequasney1553]

He says “YOU KNOW” every other word omg

[@Ema_1999]

Judge doesn't listen does she.

[@MyGoodenessGracious]

He's very androgynous.

[@brickstine202]

The plaintiff is actually pretty. The defendant seems to think it’s Halloween. She fortunate to be rid of Scottie Pippen’s love child.

[@saramichele7366]

Who's parents are this involved in their relationship? Weird af

[@Crob100]

Parents with kids in their early 20's. It's called parenting.

[@kdmac7425]

Is his hair glued on.

[@write2btold]

His mother did and is doing a disservice to him. Let him grow up

[@Channel-JJ]

I think that ship sailed. Dude is 26 and its mommy mommy mommy. If she stops nursing him now he'll collapse 😁

[@payableondeath9091]

@@Channel-JJ 💯😬son husband

[@Channel-JJ]

@@payableondeath9091 👍

[@christylawrence1268]

The plaintiff's hair and makeup are on point! and then the background is a disaster! and what is up with the defendant's hair, i'm so distracted looking at it!

[@jessicamarsh9779]

1- there is nothing more annoying then a man who asks “do you still love me?” Hearing THAT question alone makes most women feel some sort of way & not in any good way. My husband has never asked me that. Once every few years he’ll ask me “are you happy?” but that’s him asking me genuinely if I’m happy. A BIG difference. 2- why don’t they just refinance the car, take her name off the loan since they’ve been making payments for about a year. He should have established some positive credit, the payments would/could go down & the interest would be lower & her name wouldn’t be associated with the loan. Or he could have his mother co-sign since she has so much control/input over this car.

[@M2161]

These people are too old to be having their mommies get in their relationships to negotiate things. So pathetic

[@payableondeath9091]

Actually you would be surprised how many people think this is normal

[@mclaybry]

When will women learn that putting their name on a loan for someone that no bank or finance company would extend credit to is a BAD IDEA?! How obvious the signs he's a bad credit risk are if a man comes to you and says, "I can't get this car without a co-signer" ? It's 2023, Ladies; if you have to sign on a loan for your man, then you need to be rethinking why you're with this man to begin with. A real man would work his ass off however he could and save the money up, THEN go buy a car with cash before he would ever step to his girlfriend and ask her help.

[@jaylsomething8653]

Thought that was scottie pippens daughter lol

[@sharifsalem]

I’m so happy for her