Is This the WORST Muslim WIFE on the Internet?

[@FaiyadFit]

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[@mspacey6230]

Brother Faiyad, how can I get married when sisters constantly reject me due to my young age? I’m 20 years old and have been mentally ready for marriage since I was 17. By 18, I was already financially capable of supporting a family. Currently, I can comfortably provide for a family with at least five kids. I have no problem marrying someone even 15 years older than me, but it seems that almost every woman in this world wants someone older and doesn't want to compromise on this. I've been rejected multiple times, even by sisters younger than me, because they want someone at least 3-5 years older.I feel frustrated because I’ve been actively searching for a bride since I was 17, and it's actually harder for me than for most other brothers, because I’m on my 3rd year streak of NoFap. On top of that, I live in a European country where Muslims make up only 0.01% of the population. I have never rejected anyone, and I’m not picky at all. I’m okay with my wife being much older than me, I'm open to any ethnicity. But I always get rejected right at the initial stage. Even the matrimonial site you promoted didn’t help. It’s an amazing platform that is 100% halal and filled with traditional sisters, but I’ve been rejected by everyone except one sister, and I couldn’t marry her due to visa issues. The reasons for rejection are always either my age or my appearance, even though I've been told I’m above average in looks.

[@MuslimahWoman]

@FaiyadFit Can you please explain the job part to me? Can women work because she has a goal to do something that pleases Allah in her life and she does all the household chores and contributing to the household? I have a goal that I hope inshallah to reach but I will need to work to get money to reach that goal, and my husband can help (doesn't have to). Is it haram for women to go into an online college, even though it's mixed and she won't talk to the men in class but she has a male teacher but she has to get degrees because without them, no money? Jazakallah khair

[@wotizit]

@@MuslimahWoman Best to ask local knowledgable sheikhs, also depends on what opinion (methodology) you follow - some are stricter than others but from description, it seems aight

[@MineMeMineMeMineMe]

Where is the original source of this post? You are copying from Denial haqiqatjou?

[@MuslimahWoman]

@@wotizit thank you so much jazakallah khair

[@joanmorris186]

I'm a woman, and none of this is normal. Marriage is supposed to be about compromise and a partnership by both partners. He has compromised, too much, and she isn't comprising at all. For him to do the housework after working and her not to do anything at all is a problem. I hate to say this, but he needs to divorce her ASAP

[@FaiyadFit]

May Allah help them

[@DeathSkullFire-hv3pm]

man listen woman does housework TOO MUCH DO U THINK MEN HELP THEM NO THEY DONT SO THINK BEFORE TYPING SOMETHING UP

[@Fifi6799]

As a woman too, this definitely ain't normal. If he is doing 100% of the providing, she's supposed to do 100% of the housework. If he were to do 60% of the providing, it would be fair for her to do 60% of the housework and he do 40%. It's simple mathematics

[@alperenbaytimur]

bro if anything, what that woman is doing is absoluty haram

[@alperenbaytimur]

@@DeathSkullFire-hv3pm hey kuffar listen, we are not like you disbelievers, allah has set clear rules for both men and women, if you dont like that, well that is a you problem

[@K__kelly]

She never loved him in the first place,she just settled for him

[@MrRoundhousekid]

Truth spoken. 👏👏👏

[@Muslim-87]

Always pick a righteous Muslim women for marriage

[@FaiyadFit]

May Allah keep them righteous after marriage

[@nsd861]

how do u, define righteousness, I saw a comment of brother who married a women, who is an Imama'h, leads women in prayer at masjid, got Islamic education and working as an arabic teacher in a Madrasa, together they got three children, one girl is has attained puberty as well. now she is having an affair and cheating on her husband with a non muslim guy and can't forget him and want to live with him, still she is leading prayer in mosque

[@saqeebkhan3668]

​@nsd861 that's not righteous that's a hypocrite

[@nsd861]

@@saqeebkhan3668 that's why i am asking, how do u identify such people

[@saqeebkhan3668]

@nsd861 I wish I could tell you, but it's basically impossible. Only thing you can do is make dua to Allah

[@Time.Stamp.Productions]

$400 a month could easily go towards a home gym

[@mufasahm8238]

Towards a home gym? You mean make a gym at home pricing of $400?

[@alperenbaytimur]

@@mufasahm8238 bro if you pay monthly that much, you might as well save it up and in 2 years your gym is complete

[@common2475]

@@mufasahm8238I think he means several months of that prince combined could easily go to a home gym.

[@marmedello]

$400 could easily get an excercise machine. Or two used ones. Doing that for a few months and you’re basically set with a home gym. No you won’t have all the same machines, but you find some variety when going from one gym to another. Gone gym aside, he should easily be able to find a much cheaper gym for 1/4 or less of that price

[@H786...]

fr this man needs to be smarter, and read these comments. this is what happens when you let someone walk all over you and removes your perspective.

[@noranzahran9104]

As a sister, I agree with you.

[@manchesteryoutube2108]

Subhanallah wow. A woman who agrees and takes some accountability

[@FaiyadFit]

May Allah bless you

[@Abdur-Rahman862]

Something would be very wrong if you didn't. This is basic human deceny and empathy.

[@72-bit]

may Allah grant you a great husband

[@wafia333]

Same!

[@wilddon5363]

$400/month for a gym membership 😮😮 is the gym inside the whitehouse what on earth.

[@rahmatoullahbah5230]

i also agree with you, this is not normal for a wife to do this smh 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@FaiyadFit]

May Allah guide us all

[@snowecaddel9454]

I’m a sister, her behavior is disgusting. This isn’t how a wife should treat her husband.

[@Beautylifestyle222]

Allah will punish her !!!

[@HabibiDubaiAbdulKitty]

Feminist slowly brainwashing Muslim women May Allah guide our sister and grant them righteous handsome Muslim men❤❤ BTW I am ugly 😂

[@FaiyadFit]

Ameen it’s tough nowadays

[@HabibiDubaiAbdulKitty]

@@FaiyadFit Yeah brother 😅

[@Abdur-Rahman862]

Relatable. Alhamdulillah

[@ytrk2j]

Our Prophet (PBUH) mentioned that most of the denizens of hell will be women. Well the prophecy is fulfilling itself.

[@diarrandiaye3983]

Why would you say that you're ugly? No creatures of Allah is, please be satisfied with the way Allah created you

[@Sofyh-l4u]

He also cooks, cleans and takes care of the kids!!. Wow am speechless 🙊. May Allah make it easy for him.

[@FaiyadFit]

Allahumma ameen

[@meryemkaya376]

I think there is one thing you get wrong. Woman also NEED a life outside e.g.: volunteering at the mosque, a little job or anything I don't know. We are also HUMAN who need our own lives and on top of that can get extremely toxic if we just stay at home cooking and cleaning.

[@fatumahussein9604]

That’s true, but that not what he’s saying the problem is when we put other things our desires over what Allah and the prophets have said when we don’t do our duties as Muslims and as wives we don’t put Islam first, yes we can do things outside but Islam is always a priority first and anything that goes against that we need to leave it, we cannot jeopardize our ahkirah for anything

[@FarradMuseumofTruth]

So then go out. You're missing the point of the video

[@wildbeast1016]

*May Allah protect us, this is what happens when society dives away from Islam* 😢

[@FaiyadFit]

Allahumma ameen wild days

[@rebeccahenkins1697]

As a woman, and a Muslim Woman - this woman has terrible selfish behaviors! He is doing his best but she is taking advantage of him! I would never think of being like this with a husband. I am hoping to find a good husband, I will never be like her!! It sounds like it’s time for her to support herself since she is taking all he does for granted - extremely! And allow me to say - being a full time homemaker is more than a full time job! I personally would rather not have to work outside of the home, but have never had that option! If I have to work - then it would be for my medical insurance and medications - but not more if I don’t have to - home needs the focus so I can give my spouse peace and happiness in me and me in him!

[@amaanivand.8455]

Why do the evil women always end up with the type of men I would dream to have haahah and good women get men who take advantage of them so often. It's just wild

[@حياةبالعربي]

we definitely need more massege responses like this

[@FaiyadFit]

Jazakallahu khair

[@antonia9464]

This is why people need to learn about their rights and responsibilities within a marriage, and talk about their expectations before getting married. I don’t understand how this even happens. Plus rectify your intentions! Look at the Prophet ﷺ marriages and how they interacted and supported each other. Being a good wife can literally be a means of entering Jannah! However sadly many people marry just to have the party and focus on their own desires.

[@FaiyadFit]

SubhanAllah

[@faseehaariff8594]

As much as I do agree, people are still capable of lying nonstop & "cheating" psychologically, manipulate emotionally, etc. Deception & hypocrisy are sadly, very real. And gaining more of its own deceitful "popularity"... Communication helps only so much. I only don't understand why we assume Allah Is Sufficient but not for "important" things. إن الله يكفينا.... ....comes with the full package. In one word, "Islam". When you seek more connection & comfort in Allah, it helps in ALL matters. All of Dunya is temperory - even our physical health is test.... When you KNOW HIS Commands & Rewards, you understand your worth, your inevitable part to play & WHERE exactly the lines are - how much to endure, when to be strict, etc. Live Islam. None strengthens you more than Allah Does. He Is our Salvation.

[@manchesteryoutube2108]

And yes brother. Do more message responses like this. Very insightful

[@sem_786]

As a sister i agree with 95% of the stuff you mentioned. I know for a fact that as a woman i am supposed to obey, respect and care for my husband. But there is one thing that bothers me and that is about us women working alongside our husbands. I am raised as an independent woman and i am still unmarried, i find it uncomfortable imagining myself asking my husband for my own personal expenses excluding the household expenses. Like i would like to freely spend on myself instead of asking my husband every time. Now don't get me wrong, i don't mean anything haram, like going to the gym when men are present (Astaghfirullah) or anything else that is outside the islamic boundaries. There are alot of stuff my future husband may find unnecessary but it isn't in our eyes, spending money on ourselves and also helping my family out voluntarily and giving my own zakat. Basically being fully dependent on my husband does not sit well with me and i would love to help lessen his burden financially. For that to happen i will have to work, and interacting with men will be unavoidable then but as long as we stay in our limits and dress modestly and don't interact unless for work reasons, then what is wrong in that? Another point is that nowadays working for a woman has become a necessity, because not all men are trustworthy or righteous like you and just mistreat women so easily, I am saying this because of all the men in my circle of people and i have seen how they treat their wives who are fully dependent on them in every way. Basically being independent is in some cases a way to protect ourselves from unforeseeable events in life like the passing away of family/husband or divorce and they know not to mistreat us women as we demand equal respect in return (May Allah protect us from these events) But this is the sad and harsh reality of life. SO naturally when we both work and share the financial burden, then there is no harm in sharing SOME and not all of the household responsibilities. Now is that a sin? That is what you call a healthy marriage and good partnership in my opinion. BUT everyone thinks differently and these points should be discussed before marriage, so as to avoid issues in future, And by all means it is very clear on how women should treat their husbands, i am speechless because of how that woman has mistreated her husband all those years, may Allah guide her, she should ask for forgiveness from her husband and Allah, it's such a huge sin to disrespect your husband.

[@Aalijah_Matyevna]

I agree with you.Not every woman gets a good husband.It is good to have an income of your own so that difficult financial situations can be overcomed.Some men go on a power trip of abusing their wives because they have no financial security unfortunately.

[@ramaalrefaai1637]

Not going to lie, the video angered me in that aspect but your comment cooled my heart alhamdolillah. Every woman, I know, has ended up needing to work to support her husband. It’s just not getting an education before and then needing to work because of financial struggles leads to you working a low paying job and more hours.. I just think saying it’s a red flag, if the woman wants to work a part time job, is so tone deaf and just so unaware of the world. May Allah bless us all inshallah. (Also of course, I agree with his opinion on the 400 Dollars gym membership story lol)

[@sem_786]

@@ramaalrefaai1637 Exactly! Muslim influencers need to be very careful when discussing such topics. To me it seems as if they completely disregard our point of view and speak only for one side. What if a man who is in a happy marriage watches this video and his wife works although within the islamic boundaries, so dressing modestly and not interacting with men outside of work, then he would suddenly see his wife as a red flag and would deem it right to restrict her from working even if she might have valid reasoning behind doing so. Now you may be unintentionally causing issues between happily married couples. So i request these influencers, please address more appropriately, men who have issues with women working, discuss it before marriage and problem solved but it does not apply to all couples who are okay with their wives working. We are in 2024 so please consider that nothing is the same as before so we need to walk with time and not impose the lifestyles of old generations. But besides that the woman in the video was 100% wrong and there's no denying in that.

[@alperenbaytimur]

miss I have not read you entire comment, only some sentences, but listen, something I saw with my own parents is that my father opened a bank account and put money in it every month, so that my mother can use from there, so from that account our groceries and for example if there is more left also something my mother may like is bought, so you can just ask for something liek this, you guys can also just talk about how much needs to be paid and how much is left, and based on that you can choose what the budget monthly for that bankaccount will be

[@alperenbaytimur]

@@ramaalrefaai1637 well dont marry for only looks, but for iman as well, if someone does not pray than dont marry them, and then you will have a higher chance of finding someone good, although you guys come over as neo nazi feminists with al due respect, I am just going to say this as well, allah is the one making the rules, not you nor me, so just like how you are supposed to, obey allah, and by that also respect and obey your husband, because (“It is not for a believer, man or woman, when Allah and His Messenger have decreed a matter that they should have any option in their decision. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger, he has indeed strayed into a plain error.” [Al-Ahzab 33:36])

[@muculmana1]

Baraka Allahu fik. I am a muslim sister alhamdulillah I do not use social media from the time I married about 9 years ago. I knoz my self I am very easy to be influenced... So i choose to not have alhamdulillah... Allah has saved me from becoming this type of girls. I love to be a house wife. I can't imagine my self working again just if we need ... But alhamdulillah ly husband provide the necessary to have a decent life. Alhamdulillah. I pray that Allah almighty guide the muslim sisters back to the deen. Ameen ya Rab❤

[@FaiyadFit]

May Allah preserve you

[@hanzalaenam9661]

19:16 saw that coming from a mile and still bursted out laughing 😂😂😂😂 and that sound effect tho😂😂😂

[@FaiyadFit]

Haha

[@TH7BYT]

As I didn't see the following mentioned anywhere here before, a note about the final Hadith referenced in the video at 21 minutes. It's chain of narration is considered da’eef (weak) by those who know better than us, so, not to make rulings from, however, the lessons from the subject are an example not to take such actions lightly In sha Allah ✅ This video is excellent and may Allah forgive, reward and protect us all.

[@BruvahSulaiman]

Right out the gate, it seems obvious that the foundation of the brother's problem is that he got married when he wasn't practicing.

[@FaiyadFit]

SubhanAllah may Allah guide us

[@saqeebkhan3668]

Yea it's always the guys fault

[@BruvahSulaiman]

@saqeebkhan3668 The post didn't provide context for how their marriage got the way it is. So, there's no way to place blame for where they are now based on the post. She probably has her own version of their marriage where he is the one who encouraged her to go to school and work and go to the gym.

[@saqeebkhan3668]

@@BruvahSulaiman yea so let's place the blame on the brother

[@BruvahSulaiman]

@@saqeebkhan3668 Or you can focus on what actually matters. 🤔

[@monjoaliuk7033]

Some sisters are becoming a joke now, absolutely embarrassing.

[@farryqaadir8812]

💯

[@MrRoundhousekid]

Thank you, Bro!💪 😎

[@FaiyadFit]

May Allah bless you

[@khalifbih]

⭕ So you're afraid of that your wife might become a lesbian, if she goes to a women-only gym? Come on bro.. I agree with most of the things you said in this video, but I don't agree with this advice, as wife-health is also important as well and beneficial for everyone in the family.

[@yumni.0334]

You always have a balanced and understanding take of context, I appreciate watching it. Compared to the stereotyped 'podcast bros' who simplify far too much, the nuance is good. Completely agree with everything said.

[@lunaa2926]

Thank you for mentioning that not all educated Muslim woman are unmarriagable when they have been raised to have a career. That's what they were brought up to do and the parents invested time and money and drilled in thier minds that they need to be independent and have a career as a shield in life. They are not bad in heart just misguided on a few points and don't have their priorities right. They are confused and lost themselves. Give them a chance. Also thanks for mentioning that the parents most of the time do this with good intentions and don't realise the devastating effects this will have on the daughter and her marriage and family.

[@itswild.]

Yep , obviously there is NOTHING wrong with us women working

[@PCcardboard1354]

Ive NEVER heard a more appropriate "Bruh" sound effect than when I heard "I help with the household responsibilitys" 🤣🤣🤣

[@shainasalmanshekh4976]

A women should obey her husband As I 16year old (not married yet) know the right of my future husband (i don't know who he is ) and pray for him and make dua for him that may Allah(swt) guide him and give him all halal bountie because **** 1.I fear Allah(swt) and his questioning 2.I want to be the best and best wife I want to be rainbow🌈 in his heart and eyes 3. No matter how he treats me But still he is the King 👑 of my heart and light of my eyes. 4.I want him to be first 🥇🏆 so that he will be insallah the man whom Allah(swt) had made permissible for me And he is going to be the MOST HANDSOME MAN MOST LOVING AND CARING thats why I always lower my eyes and stay away from mixing. 5.I will be insallah the best wife and I will try my best out of best to help him and make him happy and relax.

[@Sabreen.1]

Hold your horses sister this sounds more like an advertisement than a regular comment … may Allah grant you your dream husband but please refrain from praising yourself in comment sections you may attract the wrong audience …

[@RealTimeCuriousity]

Desperate woman

[@common2475]

@@Sabreen.1True. The internet is full of predator and the sister is only 16 years old. May Allah protect the sister from ill willed individuals.

[@amatulfulani6390]

Typing all of this is making yourself a target. This doesn’t look as good as you think it does, but you’re 16. So you really don’t know any better. And to say it doesn’t matter how he treats you, just shows that you’re naive and easy to manipulate/abuse. Also is an indicator of low self-esteem/ people-pleaser. They won’t respect you. You’ll just get used. Don’t advertise yourself as prey on social media.

[@shainasalmanshekh4976]

Shukran(Thank you) brother for pining me May Allah bless you with lots of happiness and prosperity and grant you the highest level of Jannatul Firdaus And Shukran my beloved sister for providing me guidance and discipline 🙏🏻.

[@mahakhalil1468]

Why does she have student loans in the first place if he really pays for everything? That said, 400$/month is unreasonable, almost seems like a mistake? Perhaps he meant per year?

[@holographist]

Raging feminists incoming in 3..2..1..

[@sos-hb2gv]

im a young man and i really want to get married but i have to say that this scenario terrifies me

[@alperenbaytimur]

look for piety in your spouse first, and after that looks, and also make dua to allah for a rightious spouse

[@MouadBk66]

اسهل ٦ طرق الثواب بعد الموت ١_اترك نسخة للقرآن في أي مسجد ٢_ تبرع بكرسي متحرك في أي مشفى ٣_ شارك في بناء مسجد ولو بي كيس اسمنت ٤_ ضع مبرد ماء في اي مكان عام ٥_ ازرع شجرة ولك اجر من استظل بها ٦-ضع مسبحة في مسجد أو أكثر من مسجد 7- و الاسهل من هذا ان تنشر هذه الرسالة ليعمل بها غيرك ويلحق بك الأجر 8- ان كنت تعرف في البرمجة فبرمج برنامج او تطبيق للقران الكريم و نشره مجانا على الانترنت معلومة دينية بسيطه عند قراءة ايه الكرسي بعد كل صلاة يصبح بينك وبين الجنة الموت فقط لا تكتم علما

[@amaanivand.8455]

As a woman, I've never met any woman like this, or who thinks like this. I don't think it's that common among practicing Muslims. But.. Islamically, she's not obligated to contribute financially whatsoever. And husbands are still supposed to pitch in if the workload is really heavy with small kids, if there's no support from family members etc. Like what, you're just going to let her struggle 24-7 so you can feel like a tough guy? Masculinity is not the absence of doing dishes in life... Babysitting is just parenting sorry, and Allah WILL ask you about your involvement with your kids. And how are you going to bond with them if you're not spending time with them? And I don't mean sit on your phone in their proximity. That has nothing to do with roles, it's an issue of the rights of the children upon both of their parents. On top of that I want to mention that taking some of the housework out of your wife's hands will allow her to spend more time on their Islamic education, and maybe catch a moment by herself to read Quran and get her head right a bit. Kids don't need to be extremely rich, they need both of their parents to be involved and also to be kind to each other. So that's not the problem, the problem is her tabarruj, disrespect to him in words and attitude and traveling without him?! Simply haram. Sounds like a narcissist or sociopath tbh, not your average Muslimah.

[@josephine4611]

Unfortunately, alot of us don't take our responsibility to learn about our rights, responsibilities and obligations before entering into marriage seriously subhaanAllah.. alot of us also don't take the guidance given to us about how to look for a spouse seriously either subhaanAllah.. May Allah guide us, Ameen..

[@josephine4611]

Yt deleting comments..

[@cheetavontiebolt9971]

Are they both muslim

[@purnamanight]

I'm disgusted by these women. I dont know how to cook and better of working 😭. I would be appreciated it so much if my husband did the chores and pay anything i can for his work . He can provide mehr with amount of he can.

[@akifkhan2932]

I agree with most of what you said but why would you not let your wife go to an all women gym? Just in case there’s a lesbian? If you use that logic then men shouldn’t go to the gym either because there could be gay guys. 🙄

[@Muslim-87]

@@akifkhan2932 the truth modern Muslim men are simps

[@Hijabiwarrior]

wallah

[@alperenbaytimur]

with all due respect I am planning on just stopping with the gym and changing it up for only muay thai, because there are no men only gyms and I am done seeing women in underwear there, it just makes me wanna puke, like have some shame and put on clothes, are you training or going to bed

[@nailahussain2855]

I agree, because if Islam allows women to be in a gathering where there are only women present then he is no one to stop them.

[@frozone1973]

I agree! Gay men (I'm talking about arabs here uno 👀) be hunting for straight men. I got molested by a gay arab muslim in the mosque literally 5 mins after jummah ended. Its a dangerous place out there my brothers 😂😂

[@T.O55]

As a sister living in the west and was an extreme feminist (astagfiruallah) I agree w. U 100procent. Keep making these videos to wake up our sisters who are lost in life.

[@cocoo456]

As a sister, wife, and mother. My heartbreaks for this brother. May Allah alleviate his situation.

[@patrikbahrin]

Ameen

[@muslimah211]

If he was a traditional guy and practising y did he let his wife go on girlie holidays ? The problem lies with him now hes complaing

[@its_noorzey7775]

Divorce can cause depression and anxiety.

[@FaiyadFit]

Absolutely May Allah protect us

[@rebeccab4560]

And relief alhamdulillah

[@htxhallitronix1569]

Bad marriages cause more depression and anxiety 🙃

[@ndean3296]

It can also kill this poor man if he doesn't exit this marriage!

[@maqboolusman2914]

Divorce should be the last resort, better to start making changes towards the right direction, slowly but surely.. things will get better InshaAllah, but if you don’t try things will only continue to get worse, i think thats just how women are, we have very different minds (men and women) we have to put our foot down and not be too easy going with them n let em do what ever they want just to be kind (trust me) i learned the hard way, Also keep asking Allah to guide you, Salaam

[@ÄãbirIslam98]

1:35 yeah.. I'm so sad. My opinion is who ever get this situation just as soon as possible change your train because as train passing wrong direction that will cost you more energy and more money.

[@LeandroCrease]

Sadly enough this conversation was long overdue. May allah guide us all

[@yourfellowsister]

I hope all the kids of the ummah who had these types of parents still turn out to be alright, obedient and pious to Allah ﷻ , and therefore also to the people as well. Ameen.

[@mosaquatics1802]

7:10 The comment on compassionate imaams is so true and something my friends and I have discussed in the past. May Allaah guide and protect us, aameen.

[@MouadBk66]

اللهم يَا مُقَلِّبَ القُلُوبِ ثَبِّت قَلْبِي عَلَى دِينِكَ

[@lebolebo3826]

Calling someone a loser is not nice 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@joelmorales9048]

Dealing in riba not only in the cars but student loans too

[@AmyasTech]

I grew up in a very toxic type of family where my father used to give all his m money to his mother my grandma. if my mother wanted something she had to ask for her permission, but she was cheap. Even during her pregnancies when she was nauseous and had cravings, or any other things like clothes medicine my grandma says endure it. Even I as a child grew up deprived of many things and I think grandma is at fault, no matter how well your husband earns financial independence is a must. Do you even know how much she goes through for not being independent you become disabled (cripple). I dream of becoming a professor and definitely still working after my marriage. I saw my mother being humiliated even for simple things and I don't want the same for me. My aunt(mother-side) is a widow and none of us are financially good to support her yet she is doing everything possible for her and her child's sustenance. Only if she was well educated and knew how to work and earn. You don't even know how hard it is for women, they are basically treated like animals. I'm so afraid of marriage cause never in my surroundings I have seen a good husband and a happy wife.

[@Mailman_mo]

Damn man. Bro is cooked. Should’ve follow the sunnah and looked for piety first but I’ll go out on a limb here and this is my theory is he and his parents went for status/looks and wealth first. But my piece of advice is run and divorce before the kids arrived then you’re toast. This is not a relationship advice

[@btother7667]

For 400/month i would ask my husband to save it up for a few years as capital to build me a small ladies only gym and give me the business.

[@Floki013]

Opressed women? Seek freedom democracy is here for you

[@btother7667]

@@Floki013 i am not oppressed. If anything, after watching this video i feel i am leaning towards the oppressive side. My husband seldom asks me to do anything and he is the sole bread winner, also often helps out with house chores. He does his best to give me anything i ask but i try to consider and understand his limits and we compromise. If i take care of the house and children i do it because i want to. Muslim women being oppressed is just islamophobe propaganda. You will find oppressed/abused women in many non muslim households.

[@Floki013]

@@btother7667 false , that’s mainly in Muslims society, also Muslims women get brainwashed and become different from than civilized women . Muslims women are very uncivilized

[@EnergeiaRhythmos]

Great

[@ultimatebrickRBX]

@@Floki013 thats not your problem tho?

[@muslimcosmetics]

400 for a GYM?? I do not know what country they live in but the top top gyms I have seen around the world are 100 tops. May Allah protect us.

[@almostmybedtime]

You can still work and take care of your household. I see no problem with that. A lot of amazing mothers out there do that!! Sometimes one income isn’t enough.

[@nxronite9994]

But in this situation he’s doing more than just providing lol. There’s a lot of blessed brothers in his situation who provide everything. So what do you say to them? There’s a problem when you husband does all the providing as he should but has to do housework as well which was sacrificed by his wife to have a job 😂

[@almostmybedtime]

@@nxronite9994 no I wasn’t talking about the situation, I was just talking in general. because it felt like he was trying to say it isn’t good in any circumstances.

[@deltaechomusicnh555]

$400 a month gym membership? Is everything made out of gold in the gym she goes to?

[@JEAGERlST]

Bro. Daniel Haqiqatjou made a video about this. The guy was on Reddit.

[@OT_MADZ]

Madness

[@FaiyadFit]

May Allah protect us

[@yousra1181]

asalamualaikum brother, as a girl I agree with the points you made to call out the behaviour of the wife in this case. This is just a small reminder of the comment you made on the gym membership because as Muslims, we should always be assuming the best of others before jumping to conclusions. Aside from the $400 spent a month, which is just insane, you said it's embarrassing you have more ghayrah than the husband for allowing his wife to attend the gym and squat in front of other men. As a hijabi girl, I go to the gym but in a women's only section, so I can workout without any non-mahrams present, which could be the case for this sister. Aside from this, I agree this is a tough situation for this brother, but just wanted to give a gentle reminder inshAllah.

[@Hijabiwarrior]

Love the video bro! keep it up🔥🔥 May allah save us all and that brother ameen.

[@Hijabiwarrior]

also btw why dont u like girl trips?

[@FaiyadFit]

It’s haram for women to travel without a mahram. And let’s be honest we know what happens on these trips ;)

[@Hijabiwarrior]

@@FaiyadFit ahh ok brother sorry

[@ZawajCards]

As a man you need to make the decisions that are best for you and your family, even if it means putting your foot down. Be kind to your wife, but that doesn't mean you have to obey her. Roles are entirely flipped here 😬.. Great video though!

[@FaiyadFit]

Being kind and nice are two different thinfs

[@Altair-El-Haddad]

We all know what happens in those "girls trips". I felt for the lad until he went on about how he pays 400 quids for other dudes to check her out at the gym. Bro is cooked.

[@FaiyadFit]

Astagfirullah

[@monstazedd2442]

can someone tell me what happens? Genuinely asking

[@Name-yo2hc]

@@monstazedd2442cheating

[@ShifaNas-g2y]

May Allah guide him. Ameen ya Rabb!

[@itshaleemah_]

Subhanallah I go to work because one income is not enough for our family but I’m praying for one day that ‎Allah ﷻ makes it possible to stay home. I’m so sick of being in a work environment, I want to be a homemaker

[@mahumramzan5690]

As a sister ,as a wife ,and as a mother myself I completely agree with you, and SubhanAllah yesterday I saw this same message on Daniel haqaiqajou show as well !!!! And man he nailed it😂 he was literally laughing the whole time while reading this message 😂

[@MythicqI]

may allah guide our ummah

[@FaiyadFit]

Allahumma ameen

[@nxronite9994]

I honestly don’t know why men are expected to take care of the house and do housework if he’s literally providing EVERYTHING he’s obliged to? Like what’s the purpose of even marrying then? Why marry someone where you have to work outside the house PLUS having to do MORE work inside the house compared to your Bachelor life? It’s not fair and I fully believe this is dhulm on modern day Muslim men who provide everything they are commanded to. May Allah hold those accountable that have pushed our beloved sisters into this mess instead of staying intact with their fitrah Allah has blessed them with.

[@TetroFlight]

Don't you think that all this is to confuse the ummah for the preparation of Dajjal? There's a lot of fitnah happening everywhere on the Earth, I cant imagine how things will get worse. May Allah have mercy on the sincere and the innocents, Ameen.

[@saussauss1642]

As a muslim married woman with kids. I totally agree

[@H786...]

all women should read about the hardships of imam maliks, imam shaafi and imam ahmeds mothers went through.

[@FreeP4l3stine]

Don’t marry a career wife😂

[@FaiyadFit]

May Allah protect us

[@MrCassiebish]

Her actions are seen alot in my community. I dont blame the men for awaiting. Some girls be crazy

[@rebeccab4560]

I would tell her to hire a maid and she has to pay for it period. Just stop helping in the house and move out if it’s dirty. Wild.

[@FaiyadFit]

Preach sis

[@aufrin1]

I’m not sure on stats but I do not know any female like this. I’m sorry that this brother is going through this. But more common that i keep seeing is that women have to help with paying the bills because its just not enough for a household to have one paycheck. And then men dont want to help out because its not the ‘man like thing to do’. And forbid she asks for help.

[@hanzalaenam9661]

Brother your videos are JUSSST.....how do I even say this..💥💥💥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@FaiyadFit]

Jazakallahu khair

[@ashu.j]

It's not normal, Allah said to raise children correctly and facilitate the husband not to depress him😂 So I think this woman should compromise to build a healthy environment.

[@nailahussain2855]

If I were in her place, and my husband would do all of that, I would consider myself lucky and would never try to earn money by doing job😂

[@Azothoth827]

Men should know how to cook and clean after themselves but mainly to provide ease for their wives and to surprise them just to make them happy,i can make REALLY good pizzas and I can definitely see how I can use that skill in my future marriage ,Once in a bluemoon to keep the surprise element.

[@MouadBk66]

قبل لا تشاهد المقطع : كَلِمَتَانِ خَفِيفَتَانِ علَى اللِّسَانِ، ثَقِيلَتَانِ في المِيزَانِ، حَبِيبَتَانِ إلى الرَّحْمَنِ : سُبْحَانَ اللهِ وَبِحَمْدِهِ، سُبْحَانَ اللهِ العَظِيمِ. صل على النبي ومشاهدة ممتعة .

[@imjustvisiting5397]

Isn’t this the Reddit post Daniel recently shared on a livestream

[@Simply.Amirahhh]

I agree with everything you said apart from the baby sitting comment. You can’t baby sit your own baby, it’s called being a dad.

[@nxronite9994]

He was referring to babysitting his wife not children because he works AND cooks/cleans while she does nothing and just focuses on paying off riba loans, astaghfirullah

[@Simply.Amirahhh]

@@nxronite9994 ohhhh okay that makes sense, thank you

[@amalalqadeeri9736]

Kids need their dad so its good for men to do baby duties for the connection with ur baby u learn soo much from them in those times

[@BahiyaAreez-S]

Being a career women does not make you a bad Muslimah .This women herself is bad but you cant bash other women to work specially in this Economy.

[@nxronite9994]

Huh? Her husband is literally fully providing for her? What need is there for her to work when he has to do her part on top of providing for her fully plus funding luxuries? 😂 People always use this excuse but most of the time it’s used to fund their luxuries. Not that there’s anything wrong I mean if you want to sacrifice children and the marriage for some dunya luxuries instead of living within your means then go on ahead 😂

[@Azothoth827]

Wallahi this is manipulation! husband is only obligated to atleast do the minimum of her food,clothes and house related things yet she has the audacity to falsely use Islam to justify bankrupting her husbands with luxuries!

[@storiestotell]

Settled to say the least and the man is a dayuth. How do you not become head of family as a man ?!

[@islamquransunnah5351]

May Allah give us all rightful spouses who know their deen and their role in the marriage and may Allah bless all people who are married and never let anyone come across hardships like this, amin🤲

[@FaiyadFit]

Ameen profound

[@Azothoth827]

I m ok if my future wife were to work part time but if she were to tell me that she is career oriented that that isnt the "future wife" for sure,I dont know why pain and burden makes me feel oddly masculine even though it may cause severe depression,i also wish to carry pain and burden to provide for who ever my future wife would be.

[@ndean3296]

This poor man needs to exit this marriage before it kills him from stress ! It seems she feels NO LOVE OR AFFECTION FOR THE HUSBAND. HE IS JUST AN ATM TO HER ! Should he decide to remarry, dont make the same mistake...marrying a HIGH MAINTENANCE WOMAN!

[@Azothoth827]

I always thought bengalis were gigachad and it seems like faiyad is one of the alphas for sure!

[@monicaxnyc]

he married a woman like that ~ I don’t feel sorry for men who marry superficial, lazy, feminist women because he chose her. I cook, clean, iron, do laundry and do not spend my husband’s money if not needed but he knew what I was like before we got married. I don’t do nails, hair (I’m a hijabi), etc but if I do want to doll myself up I do it at home on a budget for him. So Alhamdulillah I have a good husband which makes me want to become an even better woman and wife.

[@itshaleemah_]

Lolol compassionate imam AKA mufti menk 😂

[@amaanivand.8455]

It's not tabarruj if it's an all women gym. The woman in this example doesn't sound like a good person but overall it's positive if a woman can go to a female only gym, because it helps being out of the house sometimes for mental health and mood, health is important and we all know that nobody is disciplined enough to do exercises at home lol. Bonus, she looks good for her husband.

[@khadijayacine1040]

What if the wife is not working? From where she can pay things?

[@MuslimTemplar]

Your comments from 15:52 - 16:55 is not only some hard facts for men to learn from, but it also some deep wisdom for those who are paying attention.

[@FaiyadFit]

May Allah bless you

[@HMNawaz]

As the man you get to decide how your money is spent.

[@emerytylerreid]

Genuine question, what your background in Islamic studies?

[@nobody.6451]

This same message was sent to Daniel Haqaqatue . I think it’s fake and you’re being trolled . Nonetheless, Muslims shouldn’t be reading bout this out loud in a comical nature . But the worst part about it all, is how you attacked the imams . SubhanAllah . ‘Simp imams’ or not . a layman teaching other layman to attack knowledgeable men, is a recipe for disaster .

[@5xh4r101]

She might go to an all girls gym

[@almostmybedtime]

Yeah because they are quite expensive

[@sabanasheikh4108]

I feel as a muslim women ur husband is supposed jst cover ur needs which is food and rent thats it and some personal expenses which is only when u don't earn money (a women should always keep her demands less and according to her husband income ) and i feel i personally would help my husband financially coz I don't want my husband to have any financial burden and stress ,i want him to be happy so that we could focus on deen and life together happily

[@moniakissa4753]

Salaam, i am a muslim woman, single, i never thought that there would be something wrong with a woman going to the gym. I travel 40 minutes to get to the gym 3 times a week, the reason i travel that far is because the gym has a women only section that is completely closed off from the mixed side. I would have been more than happy to train at home but i use gym equipment that is too expensive for me to purchase and have no space at home. I wear an abaya and hijab and always lower my gaze. Could you please explain why it might still be wrong for me to go gym?

[@itswild.]

I think it is ok but man if that gym is expensive I wouldn’t go there bc i am rich

[@amina8772]

Well, I'm a walking black flag (1. The sister is wrong 2. I feel like the man commenting is saying everything is bad what women does...I would die to make my future husband feel safe, loved, and cared for BUT I WILL WORK because not in hell ignore my 13 years of studying not use my information and NO I will not sleep with my husband after marriage because is that the only thought he has after we had the wedding party!?...Bro chill and saying it's sinful to work… NAH I'm more than just a housewife and a mum I'm an IT girl but let's be for real I can do nothing after marriage!?.…again my top priority is to make my husband feel and see that I care for him and that he is more than just the breadwinner because unhat both sides fr fr lets NOT ignore man's feelings and use them as a money machine ) (and pls don't talk bad about lesbians...i feel safer next to a lesbian than next to a man) Ps 🌻 not even I would read that essay of a comment BUT I needed to tell my view remember to drink and eat 🌻

[@mydisneynme]

I take care of all expenses of the house.. im the man of house technically still he uses 4 wives sunnah slangs to hurt me..

[@user-mu3ic1zo4t]

So you’re saying a women shout not be allowed to work in a Muslim marriage ?