Family Constellations - Shame & Taking the Parents as they Are

[@safisafira]

And can it be: I acknowledge, honour and respect you as my lifegivers, with all the limitations that are present, and at the same time it doesnt serve in my best interest to spent time with you )

[@Shavasti]

Absolutely! Yes, honouring the parents as the lifegiver can be done from a safe distance if necessary - Shavasti www.familyconstellations.net

[@Candley1077]

Huh…see I find this as another way of the adults again gaining less of a consciousness and accountability in their part to the pain they caused and the hurt person AGAIN having to take on not only the sacrifice of self they had to make to take on the parents pain but now again almost be the parent role again. I don’t know how this could be healing in certain circumstances, especially with significant abuse. I feel it’s bypassing a validation that could lead to empowerment.

[@user-j7t8u]

I am so glad you acknowledged the Zulus in relation to Family Constellations. I, for one, am immensely grateful to them and their traditions as the source of the deep origins of this work. 🙏💜

[@Shavasti]

The Zulus from my understanding are not the 'source' of this work, but it was their honouring of the ancestors that influenced Bert Hellinger. FC really finds its roots in the work of Virginia Satir and is the result of many influences on its creator, Bert Hellinger. Thanks, Shavasti www.familyconstellations.net

[@sashasg11]

1st .... grateful 👍👍👍👍🙏🏻😇💕🧿😇

[@MetaFabienne]

So valuable, thank you

[@Shavasti]

You're so welcome! www.familyconstellations.net

[@sovereigntransformation2164]

Great Content - Though the listed website is blocked by godaddy and has a firewall

[@Shavasti]

My websites, both of them, are hosted by Godaddy... www.shavasti.com & www.familyconstellations.net

[@darrendemp]

Love this perspective

[@Shavasti]

Thank you - www.familyconstellations.net

[@kyekyllean9221]

That's deep

[@yolakin8210]

Thank you❤

[@Shavasti]

You're welcome 😊 www.shavasti.com

[@fabianleonaressi6107]

So real❤

[@Shavasti]

Thank you - Shavasti www.familconstellations.net