"Tunakula Beans Sana Kwa Hii Nyumba." Men, Marriage & Motherhood Ft Wakavinye Pt 1

[@mwathilena0824]

Wakavinye ametuleta huku .alafu tukasubscribe mbio .hit like yake hapa

[@puritywangari5720]

wakavinye ameleta pia

[@FashionableStepMum]

Welcome guys. Subscribe. Remember Part 2 is coming up soon

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[@jojobrown2021]

Cele brought me here...aki mwenye amefanya mama Tugi make up atume paybill nibuy chai...Mama T umewezaaa

[@euniceopuyachannel]

She's pretty today

[@adrianneakinyi2156]

I think she is called Nzilani on IG

[@njokindungu6770]

I know she looks gorgeous 😍😍

[@gathenyakamau3444]

I think ni M.U.A WA fashionable step mum amefanya coz she's always on fleek.

[@evelynemunene9841]

Ameweza sana

[@jandykanini]

Aki that pressure for ‘mzee is coming back, that cup is still on the table since morning, atafikiria aje???’ That pressure is soooooo real! I am not alone!

[@pauladenise8250]

This is the last combo I would have imagined. But you've done well.

[@justmo6896]

So do I!😂

[@slyedwards4776]

Me too!

[@mwangiemma7634]

I was surprised... Beautifully surprised

[@sandywanjiru4188]

I know right,? But they did well

[@mjofficial8964]

Nani amejikuta uku ju ya Wakavinye??? Let's show her some love with a like ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@zeitunstevenson6354]

Nimewasili

[@linettejoseph4158]

Mimi❣️❤️

[@stephaniegesare7324]

i love the maturity of these two..they mind their business and no dramas...just simple mature, beautiful women

[@veronicalumbasi]

My love for wakavinye is natural. Nampenda tu bure...thanks for bringing such an elegant, humble lady to our channel!! Keep it up !

[@FashionableStepMum]

Hello Veronica, she is absolutely amazing. Thanks for watching

[@lifeasrudi]

She is amazing

[@missflorence2545]

likes za wakavinye zikuje

[@ashleynjeri4817]

Fashionable stepmum speaking in Swahili😂we need more of this. My favourite video of all time...

[@ruthdede2555]

She always does, i have never known her to have a problem speaking in Swahili ... She throws Swahili in most her videos

[@deekerubo1593]

Ladies, it’s very possible to share chores with your husband if yours is a true partnership. Been married almost 5 years and we’ve always handled chores 50/50. In fact he insists on it. Why would he allow me to do all the house work when we are both busy professionals and I sometimes get home from work even later than him? I don’t see it as a favor either because we both live in the house and our relationship has never lost its spark. We are both happy! (And yes, I showed him this part of the video and this comment)

[@roughpetals4061]

louder for the ones at the back!!!!! am not married but i tell my friends that 50/50 house chores is VERY POSSIBLE but they think it cant happen. Kudos to your hubby for being a good sport!!

[@esthermuthoni2267]

Same here, and even his parents have lived the same way for 26years. Ni venye mmeamua, no rule book.

[@roughpetals4061]

@@esthermuthoni2267 Big Facts!!

[@deekerubo1593]

Esther Muigai True. It depends on the values that were instilled in him growing up. 👌🏾

[@deekerubo1593]

Rough Petals Don’t let anyone tell you it’s not possible. Create the life you want, and look out for these traits right from when you start dating. It’s possible.

[@nimogatero]

I would have never imagined these two mums can come together, I didn't even know fashionable mum knows swahili- wololo that is another side of her that has never come out on her previous videos. I love this discussion I can relate with everything, I have been married for 10years and seems like we face the same challenges.

[@rubiruby6764]

I'm not married but I love this conversation 🙂

[@reshyB]

This video has made me ask myself two questions. 1.When was the last time I had me time...over two years ago. 2. When was the last time I bought clothes...over a year ago... Women we have both societal and personal pressures to b perfect.

[@friedashifotoka6556]

Hi Fashionable StepMum, kindly include subtitles for us who don't understand Swahili.

[@waihiga124]

Talking about kurandaranda, I am so grateful that my spouse just let me be. I have walked into my house every hour from 8.00pm to 8.00am at some point bila kuulizwa maswali. Yeye on the other hand anafurahia kukaa tu kwa nyumba na hana shida. 20 plus years later I realize how blessed I am that I have always had freedom to do me and be me without pressure.

[@ruthqym5906]

You guys back in Kenya mko very lucky, at least before getting married you get people to sit you down GUTARWO, as for us here in diaspora we moved here when we were so young with no idea what married is really is, we got married and we do it freestyle

[@stewiesewe]

My goodness I have heard so much of things my husband and I went through. For me that one shirt just "disappeared". You should have seen me helping him look for it kumbe I already threw it away. 🤣🤣.

[@daisyogony8354]

Didn't know Cathy speaks Swahili that well, anyway this combo was awesome with real situation kwa ground. Camping here for more.

[@that_truth_teller001]

The combo we didnt know we needed, yaaaaay!!

[@thatsmytwocents2024]

I'm not married but my long term relationships so far have taught me so far is pick your headache and swallow your pills in peace.

[@Cinol-d8p]

wow well said

[@Wanyiha-G.1]

The dressing is so on point. I cant even comment on the pressures, societal or self-inflicted 😥, but the talk is so necessary for young wives to emulate.

[@ruthwanjiru7762]

Haha hio pressure ya tidying up the house ukijua hubby anakuja! 8 years later bado naifeel!

[@FashionableStepMum]

Hahaha aki tuko wengi 😂

[@ziggymarleymarley7]

Lol I thought I was the only one

[@shiruochieng]

Hii nayo haiishagi 7yrs later

[@wanjiruciru6237]

😂😂we saw our mothers do it hence the reason we doing it.African women we go through alot.

[@margemagic3196]

Am guilty 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@anne_mwangi_]

I love how mama tugi is a Listener 🤗.

[@koko.ndirangu]

Fashionable stepmum and Wakavinyeeeeeee two you are amazing ❤️ I love your authenticity ,the content is bomb We need more and more of this

[@FashionableStepMum]

Hi Khisa, thank you. More amazing content to follow

[@MamaAK12]

Great natural conversation. I like how Fashionable Step Mum engages Wakavinye...the conversation just flowed seamlessly.

[@GirlofNyakach]

Boom my favourite youtuber and woman Cathie... keep moving mama

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thank you Christine

[@judy-et1vm]

Aki Catherine kumbe hizi mashida zinakupata pia.am happy the way you've opened up and I can relate to all those things.we keep on learning.

[@FashionableStepMum]

We all go through these things. Thanks for watching

[@tabithamwende7470]

The pressure is real.Been married 4 years,every time someone will be telling me"lisha Mzee aache kukaa kijana mdogo"(he has a small body).inachosha

[@FashionableStepMum]

That is not very polite of them

[@naimawalendo5341]

Mara ya first I cooked and did a lot. They used to take advantage, I gave them a piece of my mind. I've never cooked again. Kwangu wakija nawapikia, nikienda kwao wanapika. We respect each other

[@LolaBugzy85]

I also said I won't conform to pressures of being a good wife. Hell no!! Proving that I am good wife. I try to help my mother in law when I go visit and she declines sometimes. So I just decide to chill and not care. I dnt even cook cs if I cook she is monitoring how I am cooking it annoys me. I prefer to go visit and go back to my house the same day. I hate to be in an environment that I feel pressured.

[@Ndaps1]

Am learning Kiswahili because of this channel. Great content by the way, it’s not easy especially with pressure from in-laws and society

[@esthermbote7763]

Karuheni 👏😂😂😂 hii inafaa kuwa segment on your channel. You make a good duo for the Married and mummy folks. Good job

[@lizngima1597]

Why is this such a good combination♥️......I love love the content . I felt like I was getting advice from my mum🌹 Cant wait for more .

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thank you Liz. Keep it right here for Part 2

[@Nyakinuthia]

Two beautiful women 🌻🌻 supporting each other and giving us what to expect and lessons of "marriage" 😍😍

[@evathira490]

I've been married for 9 months and I've had those same same issues. This is enlightening

[@FashionableStepMum]

Sure is. May your marriage thrive

[@LondonExplorer1]

lol! been married for 16 years,but hiyo ya kuficha nguo, na ni pesa zangu tuko wengi, or even lying it was on sale. na pesa ni zangu. lol!

[@chepkiruingetich3613]

This was so much fun to watch, even as a young 22 year old, I've learnt so much. Thank you for sharing, am now even more excited and looking forward to part two.

[@FashionableStepMum]

You're absolutely welcome. We're always learning here

[@eddahwachuka1066]

Lovely ladies, lovely conversation. Cele's laughter is so contagious

[@antonettewambani805]

Am a newly wed learning a lot. I hope there is a part 2 and 3 .

[@desmondderrick24]

This the otherside of fashionable stepmum and I love it..I also love Celestine she is amazing..Keep up the good work/content.. always here to get inspired and motivated..God bless you ❤️🙏

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thank you! Will do!

[@deerose7026]

"Si mabacon na masausage ziko, si tukule!" 😂 😂 😂 😂

[@FashionableStepMum]

Exactly. After kuzikosa.

[@deerose7026]

Oh I know!!

[@itsbelle31afrique]

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[@KeziahSonia]

it has worked for us 3yrs now..... last year nkiwa na ball he decided to be doing everything till the baby was 4 months in april and i had recovered atleast. now our baby is 7 months and we decided kila mtu na siku yake coz we have no nanny still and it has been working.

[@trizamwangi6101]

Am really inspired by you ladies, Am in the same boat ya kuficha nguo, we really work hard with my hubby whom we are 3yrs in marriage but he kinda complains akiniona na nguo mpya, which SAA zingine makes me feel guilty and still I need to take care of myself

[@evekaggai4519]

I've learnt alot, just about to get married . This has really come in handy.

[@FashionableStepMum]

You're welcome Eve. May your marriage thrive

[@liziliwa7851]

AMEEEEN

[@wambuimuriuki]

Anyone else with a note book and nodding vigorously??? This was awesome!

[@faithwambui6243]

sure

[@yvonnesunday4475]

2 minutes into this and I'm loving it 😍,thanks for bringing wakavinye she's always so real

[@FashionableStepMum]

You're welcome

[@christinengari2857]

Make up ya Celestine imegewesss😍😍😍❤️ I hear Tugi talk about Esther 🥰🥰This lady is amazing

[@gutsby456]

This has made my day!...taken me back so many years....so REAL

[@gracemhina3252]

Oooh.. This is very real... Kuna vitu mumeongea mingi vinanipataga ...thank you for sharing with us...

[@mohtheesweet2083]

What!!! What a combo... I love this was never expecting this 👐🏿👐🏿👐🏿

[@FashionableStepMum]

I am glad you were pleasantly surprised. Keep it right here for even more amazing content

[@annnjoki2421]

How come this passed me! I salute you gals,,, I'm like 16 yrs in it n the story you're talking is the same to my experience 😅😅😅😅kwanza hiyo ya kununua nguo kisiri,,,, 😅😅😅 Yani hii maisha ni sawa kwetu sote,, ladies 👍 thumbs up let's keep it up,,,ati upike , na juu umepika uweke miguu kwa meza na yeye aoshe vyomb!!!! Ngaiiii🤦si ndio vita haitaishia kwa nyumba!

[@FashionableStepMum]

Ann Njoki Am glad you could relate. We are in this journey together so supporting one another is key..

[@annnjoki2421]

@@FashionableStepMum By the way I must congratulate you so,so much ! Must admit you've a big big heart, if you became a step mum at 20s na ukavumilia haki I've just loved you dear, I admire you ! Congratulations dear. Not many can survive it !!! I love your talk for sure it's very mature n not misleading even but though homes are different advice them that talking n letting your partner know your plans is beautiful n very important if at all it's a marriage manenos but if it's about friendship then each can go their direction,, kudos👍

[@reginagitahi7563]

Best combo. Hands Down!!😃😃

[@irenenjeri3544]

Waooh from today i subscribe to this channel...fashionable step mom is so lovely...mama Tugi ameimprove sana nowadays...its evident she is a good wife....

[@lilagauchi3631]

Your both looking very lovely n the combo with mama tugi is great.

[@FashionableStepMum]

She is absolutely gorgeous. Thanks for watching. Remember part 2 is cooking

[@annkiarie5343]

This is the best best combo so far,can't wait for part 2

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thank you So much

[@billiekui3273]

Celeste welcome on board,we.love it here.Cathy I have been married 11years,with three kids.I can tell for your sure that our expectations while getting into marriage are very different from reality.Our expectations can be likened to what we think an ideal marriage is,but ideal is never realisty...1-3yrs, 5yrs, 10 yrs etc are all very different and with different experiences as you both go through different stages of life.Along the way we drop our expectations and accept the reality marriage becomes more manageable and interesting

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thanks for sharing. We've got this

[@sarahthuo]

Married for 3 months and I can relate to you guys. #Pressure # expectations Also, I have learned soo much. Thank you for the talk, Its an eye-opener to us getting married now

[@lifeasrudi]

All the best my dear 😘

[@FashionableStepMum]

I know, right?

[@sarahthuo]

Yesss

[@paulinekungu7919]

Vyenye nimeona wakavinye nimejipata mpaka nime subscribe ❤️good content gals

[@carolmutiso2433]

My favorite real people together in one video. Yeay!!!

[@nginandiba3409]

This is very true, societal expectations have our womxn being part time slaves and they seem to be okay with it. Thank you for sharing your experience on marriage with us. You all have good partners. 😊

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thanks Ngina

[@alisonbungey7466]

Please part two ikam through.... Powerful information

[@julietwainaina3937]

Bring Celestine back I enjoyed and related with the conversation

[@sonniecharity2353]

...i loved this..in my 2nd yr of marriage and what youve talked about imeniguza sana..very helpful..looking forward to part 2..

[@FashionableStepMum]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@sylviamonayo9095]

Y’all blended in so well! Didn’t expect it.

[@noelinechepchirchir313]

wakavinye amenileta huku,fashionable step mum u awesome

[@kabkamafrica4284]

Cathy umeweza this was a good combo ENLIGHTENING!!!!!

[@maukadante3218]

Wooow it was worth it, Cele is such a mature soul.

[@anniewanja8789]

Such a great conversation! A lot of wisdom from you two lovely ladies.

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thanks Annie. Keep it right here for part two of this series

[@debrairungu506]

Loving this talk...as a millennial...its an insightful talk.. Love you ladies

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thank you so much

[@kalumbuleahnjovu2167]

Please put subtitles... Am depending on my Bantu roots to understand😪 Am turning 3 years in marriage in September with 2 babies already...women in marriage is hard... I love this it is timely... Before Covid I would go on random outings to breath now am married mom 24/7.

[@FashionableStepMum]

We hear you. You gat this mama

[@FashionableStepMum]

We hear you. You gat this mama

[@agapejosceline7683]

Nice message. Kindly prepare another topic Like this one. I really appreciate 😊

[@estherkamugi6291]

Wow guys, can we have more of this talks especially with wakavinye, I feel she's more real and and educative too. Kwa ground surely vitu huwa different Waiting for part2

[@suewayesu5908]

Nice conversation, next time get a step mom like you...to share experiences and help us into this life.. loving it!!

[@nernytiestos4355]

The makeup is just awesome...hadi the words are becoming wiser.

[@marykares7956]

Ladies you are full.of wisdom,l.love it

[@nicolletnyoni4371]

Great conversation. Please may you put subtitles for when it's not in English. Love from South Africa😍

[@FashionableStepMum]

Well noted Nicollet. Will work on that. Sending you love from Kenya

[@nicolletnyoni4371]

@@FashionableStepMum thank you. Still watched till the end though I didn't understand 🤣🤣🤣

[@joywangui8918]

Wow that convo imeflow it's like you were reading each others minds. Love it❤

[@doreenwerunga6421]

Good content.....coincidentally both of you didn't have rings on this video

[@wairimucooks3753]

I loved this conversation na ninapenda wakavinye

[@FashionableStepMum]

Tunampenda pia sana. Thanks for watching

[@lisperm8289]

Cathy I have great respect for you as a mother.

[@juneadongo6972]

The question men ask avout the future and sustaining lifestyle should they not nbe there is exactly what my husband asks. "Should I die now, will my family be able to sustain this lifestyle?" Touched a cord

[@carolinemugo4830]

Learning alot...thank you ladies

[@kristenbriah788]

I came here to watch the lovely Cathy , and then guess who i find , Celestine 😃😃 , I didnt think that was her in the thumbnail , cuz i rarely see her with make up . Two inspiring ladies in one video. The discussion was really informative and entertaining and it was interesting to hear Cathy speak in Swahili , the only thing we have in common LOL , the rest kurelate ni ngumu , from skincare , to where she shops , her hair , wueeh . 😂😂.

[@kristenbriah788]

The suspense though 😥😥

[@lkj809]

Thanks for sharing. Really enjoyed watching this

[@eunicewambui9381]

Nimekwama hapo kwa manguo,countless time i have done that she show is lit 🔥

[@FashionableStepMum]

The team is growing

[@JejeNdungu]

What i have learned is to accept that both of you are different, that sometimes the things you want are not the same things your partner want, learn to appreciate your differences. That was my hardest part!

[@klyn7623]

Wakavinye who does your make up ?? It's always on fleek ! you always look super cute !

[@klyn7623]

Wow! Nimmoh your work is great! Keep it going

[@tonuicarol2717]

I still feel that pressure after 18 yrs I think it’s a lifetime pressure.

[@FashionableStepMum]

Haha looks like it never really goes away

[@nyamburangugi4024]

A talk i didn't think i needed. As some of us prepare and pray to get there.. Thank you, we appreciate this talk🙏🏽

[@janemwaura8023]

Love love this conversation... you two rock. Load of wisdom .... the talks flows good ...

[@FashionableStepMum]

Thank you so much

[@pyrnick4979]

Love this sooo much , thank you❤ … please add English translation next time for us international followers 😢 ❤

[@mochaleaves]

Celeste you look 👌🏾 you need your own channel please

[@nikkilicous1]

Love the authenticity...thank you for being vulnerable.

[@rithianmutindi5986]

Nice one for the upcoming mums..wives...

[@sandyjyn8473]

Thank you for the lessons, at least when I get there I’ll say hayo nilifunzwa

[@stewiesewe]

Wow! This is the combo I didn't think I needed but clearly I did.

[@sarahnjeri320]

Make more of such videos...Ones that talk about real life(vitu kwa Ground)Not yet married but I find the video educative...Def worth my time

[@nc9802]

Cathy my all time favorite, I must say though am surprised! I didn't think you have such story like mine in regards to marriage! You're great.

[@agneswairimu7770]

great collaboration....you gel well and the conversation is seamless....Great video.

[@FashionableStepMum]

Much appreciated Agnes

[@cynthiamulama4393]

This has been so interesting. can't wait for the Part 2

[@FashionableStepMum]

This is the place to be

[@Rhenadhis]

I didn't even know i needed this but i have leant alot, hizi ndiyo vitu inafaa watu waambiwe kwa bridal showers badala ya ufala zile nimeskia kwa hizo showers

[@LucyChegeM]

Interesting conversation. Every wife to need to watch this!