Father Cheated On His Wife of 40 Years & Had A Baby By A 31 Year Old Woman

[@kimlove8834]

Dear son, don't worry, the same woman will destroy him, trust me. Tell your mom, this is God Protection & Blessing!

[@prayingmother]

It's crazy how these things be lying and living double lives smh...he done told her all about their kids like he had everything in line lying dog! The reason they dont tell the truth because if that wife get their money not only will they not have money to live but getting ass is out 😂 just sad and slow !

[@mellajoe]

She’s going to eat him up!!

[@melanier7309]

He is going to regret what he did. Mark it down he. and the woman will eventually hate each other and regret being together. I heard a lot of stories like this when I was growing up because I was eavesdropping...lol. One of these days I'm going to muster enough courage to ask my Jamaican mother why she married an American man. 🇺🇲🇯🇲

[@baemahogany9167]

❤

[@SunshineEmpress]

@@kimlove8834 Karma at its finest! Didn't they watch Diary of a Mad Black Woman? I wouldn't be surprised if she takes him for all he has and then leaves him. 😂😂😂

[@TheJocha31]

The father betrayed his entire family. The mistresses always think they snagged a good man...and they grabbed the worst kind of man ever.

[@melanier7309]

Exactly! He had to lie about his whereabouts when he spent time with the mistress. Typical Gyallis.

[@NewLifeJourney24]

💯

[@WILMA_]

Hun, if he is willing to leave his wife for you, what makes you think that he will not do the same thing in turn for you?

[@rashardstallworth9240]

How do you know that? Without talking to the father, mother, or other woman how do you form a conclusion? I know a woman who's husband left her after years of her cheating, he eventually found another woman, divorced his wife, and relocated. Their children have no idea what their mother did. I only know because I know the mother and she shared her life with me. Children should stay out of their parents business and keep it off the internet.

[@Hotboywes-kk8ot]

​@@rashardstallworth9240AMEN! PREACH 🙏🏽

[@jupitersworld244]

That’s evil for him to leave her in the blue alone with zero finances! She should have taken him to court to make him pay.

[@wisdomdantecourt8179]

It would not have had the same impact if she was financially independent. That's how narcs roll.

[@AllAboutPurple]

Huge lesson learned

[@sherriew36]

@@wisdomdantecourt8179 💯

[@mbrown2776]

OHHE GONNA PAY. HE GONNA PAY PAY 💰💰💰by the time the courts are done with him & FIDELITY, of which is an OFFENCE 👀💯🇬🇧

[@purplelover9633]

Praying for his mom’s mental space and spiritual protection in Jesus name. She was in that 40yr marriage since she was 16 😢

[@taunyb5429]

I feel she'll be alright. She had the strength to leave, so I know she will eventually be okay. My mom never did leave. I wish she would have believed in herself enough to leave.

[@chelseahoney31]

Usually the girls have the TIK TOK stories on lock. But I’m glad to see the men telling their stories now. This has become a form of therapy for free.

[@sunkissed6413]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yooooo I’m cryin! It’s true.

[@charmainestampley5321]

Guys usually pr9cess hurt different

[@touchyournose7332]

He Is A Great Son. You Can Tell They Raised Him Right!! Well Done To His Mom ❤

[@TeeBee-yj5tt]

Dad doesn't get nun of the glory from raising a great son because after 40 years he made horrible choices.😅😅😅💞💜

[@mosesmartin588]

@@TeeBee-yj5tt crazy ain’t it lol

[@akofarlazanetor123]

He said he doesn’t have the kind of relationship with his mom to where they would be FaceTiming. But when speaking of his dad, he said he was a great dad. So as far as raising him, well done to his dad as well 😉

[@rashardstallworth9240]

Children should stay out of their parents business and keep it off the internet.

[@Czipporah]

​@@rashardstallworth9240No, men should respect their families, wives and the children they make within marriage or deal with the shame that comes with their bad choices... SHAME is something that needs to come back.

[@simplywonderful3591]

Your aunt never liked your mom.

[@paralegalkc]

Messy decrepit old bat

[@feleciagmiller872]

That is exactly what I was thinking.

[@prettylady7893]

🎯🎯🎯

[@SunshineEmpress]

@@simplywonderful3591 the aunt is part of the problem. Enabler

[@AllAboutPurple]

And the worker that the mom helped…I guess they wanted to keep their job. But literally multiple people knew & said nothing or offered any tips, she probably hosted these people in her home too. So many people smiling in her face & holding this major.

[@tiffanystevenson9237]

Dad is a coward. His family messed up keeping that a secret

[@aisha2672]

I am sorry it is kind of common for island aka caribbean men not all of them but some of them will have outside children. The song papa was a rolling stone it is very and I mean very common.

[@TheresaofTheWorld]

I don’t understand the children being this involved in the parents’ marriage. But to each his own.

[@brigittefavron3362]

What were they supposed to do both parents called him so yeah he involved. Thats his mom so he was supposed to say fuck her too? Yall diabolical. His dad left her high and dry he stepped in and did what the dad was supposed to do. She should have divorced him and took everything if it was me. Kudos to the sons for helping mom out. ​@@TheresaofTheWorld

[@SixFives5StarChic]

@@TheresaofTheWorldmy feelings are the same it’s too much

[@SunSoakedAndGrounded]

@@aisha2672 I always thought American men cheat more. My husband of 12 years (but we’ve been together 14 years) has never been in a cheating situation that I know of. Now that doesn’t mean he’s never cheated but if he has he’s really good because I haven’t had a clue. I have his phone often too so he’s not hiding anything there unless he has a phone I don’t know about. Long story short you never know with these men but so far he’s an AMAZING husband and father. I couldn’t ask for a better husband.

[@WarrhiedUnbuntu]

This is why you gotta leave at the first sign of infidelity. This man wasted 40 years of his wife's life and tried to destroy her . Wilddddd

[@steveurkel9097]

His mom is gorgeous. She deserves more.

[@everydaypj]

She is very beautiful

[@showboat4613]

Yes she is very gorgeous

[@jupitersworld244]

She’s stunning…

[@rahkeenclark2254]

U don't know what that man when through just because she pretty on the outside don't make her a good person

[@Dbrecemac]

I gotta say, the mom and the dad both are attractive. That's why I like my men with a splash of ugly 😂😂

[@tiffanyjackson8133]

He is tucking his tail and running because he is ashamed.He can't be truly happy.The young girl is probably using him to provide for her.

[@lorainemorgan3905]

Exactly

[@Ve.Glorius]

Oh yea she is and now he’s stuck in the tar he intentionally stepped in.

[@AllAboutPurple]

Probably? No definitely & he is foolishly going along with it, I guarantee you that Colombian woman got a pimp/someone she providing for in Colombia. If the dad got sick/disabled right now or couldn’t pay the bills, she would leave him quick. Hope she runs his pocket like the f00l he is. 😂😂

[@AllAboutPurple]

Probably? No definitely & he is foolishly going along with it, I guarantee you that Colombian woman got a pimp/someone she providing for in Colombia. If the dad got sick/disabled right now or couldn’t pay the bills, she would leave him quick. Hope she runs his pocket like the f00l he is. 😂😂

[@copperamerindian050]

Of course she is.. But she will never be truly happy either.. That man is ashamed of himself because he became the same man as his father.. By the time she reaches her heightened sexual peak, he won’t have it for her and she’ll leave him for a younger man and put old man on child support..

[@TheLamba444]

She should divorce him and get alimony support, division of all property, it is only right after what he put her through.

[@Roni-Ron]

He's been cheating throughout the 40 years he's just elated to know that your mom knows and now he doesn't have to hide it 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@wickedtowise]

This is the one.

[@tanisha.r.thomas]

Yep

[@shaychauntaye7047]

This betrayal is heartbreaking. I pray his mom heals, finds peace and true love. As painful as it is, rejection is gods protection 💕

[@dianalogan6185]

The same thing happened to me but I wasn’t married

[@shaychauntaye7047]

@@dianalogan6185 I’m sad to hear that you went through this. Hope you’re happy and healed now 💕

[@prettywymnshelly2658]

I’m going through it right now . I’m so glad I’ve kept my cool. 13 yrs in and I’m done . My ex didn’t have an outside child but was an active cheater.

[@lindacarswell3276]

CAPITAL"G" WHEN SPEAKING ABOUT GOD, WHOSE NAME IS JEHOVAH!❤❤❤

[@shaychauntaye7047]

@@prettywymnshelly2658 cooler heads always prevail. Wishing you an abundance of peace and happiness. Remember karma is bitch 💕

[@the1lique182]

Oh Wow. Talk about Black don't crack!!! That sis is GORGEOUS, CLASSY and looks very REFINED. She deserves so much better.

[@keluvnme]

This story kept getting worse and worse and worse. What a piece of shit man!!! That woman is absolutely stunning, the least he could have done was provide answers to his wife. He owed her at least that!! And to just financially abandon her on top of it. I was hurt for her!

[@sunkissed6413]

I hope and pray she is taking him for everything he owns and has

[@CLance-mo7bo]

DAD,IS GOING TO BE BROKE, THAT WOMAN IS GOING TOTAKE HIS MONEY, RESPECT, AND DIGNITY 😢THE SIDE GIRL IS GOING TO WIPE HIM.OUT😢

[@CLance-mo7bo]

IS DADDY SURE THOSE ARE HIS BABY?????😢😢😢

[@akiracrawley7988]

Thank you, young men, for helping your family to keep it together. Especially your mom during her rough time, God has a special place for you and your family

[@evelynwanjuki2936]

Yes, He is a Blessing to His Mother and Family,

[@mekawarren]

A family’s true colors will show when the relationship end. Their behavior was despicable.

[@mrs.tcampbell1249]

Right! You can tell how a family truly feels about you when a divorce, fight, or death occurs.

[@nilaja-itsmylife]

I’m from Trinidad. My father is from Antigua. I don’t talk to any of them people on either side. The toxicity is generational 😩

[@sasynd6827]

Chile! Me too, im Trinidadian & our people especially people who should be matriarchs & patriarchs can be the most toxic, childish, dishonest beings. I don’t deal with any of my siblings because of my mother AND father.

[@brwynn]

You’re great son to have.Being strong for your mother is courageous, honorable, loving . I pray my daughter’s have my back like this.

[@aprilmuhammad5601]

I went through this in 2019 without the baby part. My adult children are still affected by their father’s actions. I will never understand how someone could do this to people they say they love. One thing is for sure, karma will balance everything out. I’m now remarried and he is no longer with his younger mistress.

[@tanyamickey4684]

This happened to me in 2004 no baby but the person left my husband and got married. And he called me and told me she was getting married and I asked him was he going to the wedding . And told him I would go with him and laughed.

[@soniapinkney1342]

Some men give up so much for so little ..

[@TheLadyj8402]

@@tanyamickey4684😂😂😂

[@sunkissed6413]

Has he tried to get back with you?

[@truestkiss3699]

Selfishness that’s the only thing I can think of

[@demonslayer9905]

This is why I don't believe in house wife, at anytime the husband can snatch your security away when he gets ready.

[@nilaja-itsmylife]

True story

[@latashaepps1060]

Yep I keep telling women this...always be able to take care of yourself.

[@C_Alleyne]

To each their own. I somewhatb agree with you. Just make sure you have the necessary resources ie.money, being collected and stashed away especially if you are considered to be a homemaker/housewife.

[@melanier7309]

I've felt that way since I was a child. Being a housewife is not for everyone. My mother became a widow when she was in her twenties. Thank God she had an education and was a registered nurse. If she was a housewife without any funds, how would we have survived after my father passed away?

[@jolewis2057]

I'm from the Caribbean, and all the women in my family always said women need to have their vex money

[@faye_bulous]

I’m so proud of this brother who’s standing on the truth and protecting his mother through this hardship 🌸

[@triunnawalker1117]

He definitely fumbled the bag. Mom is gorgeous!!! It's insane how people can be so selfish these days.

[@keluvnme]

Not just selfish but cold hearted

[@prayingmother]

These days these married men be on one and can't be trusted and they always put it in the woman ,they get out here and end up with a chick all about money it's like u can't leave them alone smh...then when they lose something good they look crazy smh..these things be living double lives

[@hell2thennnaw]

These type of stories are not new, a lot of people live double lives whether they have second families or not

[@RRSportGirl]

It’s a different 🌍 everybody out here cheating. Well not everybody.. 🥴🥴

[@Ms.Iah08]

It’s crazy how ppl wake up with different feelings seemingly “out of the blue”. You just never know if ppl are being honest with you or not. Smh

[@jaslyn5501]

Terrifying actually..

[@ellevinny]

He always felt that way deep down

[@msbennett1978]

It’s because it’s not out of the blue

[@soulsistah5738]

It’s not crazy that’s what they do

[@weathamorris4251]

He’s most likely was cheating for years.

[@rickiericktv3320]

Damn! How do you be with someone 40 yrs, create a family and just up & leave! The aunt is foul! SMH, upholding his madness!

[@pattygeee2298]

People do it everyday

[@KandiFacesMUA]

this is very common today…So sad 😢 Stay Prayed up 🙏🏽

[@d.b.israel3214]

This "kind of activity" has been going on since mankind turned its back on the Creator and chose lies over Truth and the consequences of deception. Like my mother told/warned me when possible consequences were on the table for my disobedience, "I'm not going to get you now, but when I get you, I'm going to get you for old and new." Like Truth and her Consequences," my Mother was not a liar.😊

[@Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv]

He seems like an intelligent, well-rounded young man. The way he cares and protects his mom melts my heart. His dad is a freaking coward and I hope karma gets his ass.

[@Kristinnnnnnlaughs]

He is a shameful coward. He can’t bring himself to do the right thing.

[@fishnets4177]

Her in-laws never ever really cared for her that's all I have to say 👿 probably was jealous of their beautiful family together. I pray for healing for your family young man

[@MyLifeAsRaphael]

That’s always the case unfortunately.

[@intentionalgreatness]

Exactly! They are HIS family at the end of the day.

[@JukuduB]

There is no Juju, Hoodoo, Voodoo, conjuring work, or anything on that man. He is simply a manipulative narcissist! He had his son befriend (a possible other sibling) on myspace! Come on now!

[@soulsistah5738]

Exactly

[@JukuduB]

When he said narcissistic father, I already knew. That man has made his family (siblings and coworkers) in on all the f*ck sh*t he has been doing. He gets off on the fact that he is torturing his wife. He has gaslit the mistress to where she believes she is more important than the wife! Her intuition to divorce long ago was correct. She knew she couldn't be with this man. There is no telling what happened back in the day for her to want divorce. A narcissist will do it to you every time!! 💯

[@autobotdiva9268]

#selforphan

[@carolynn626]

Thank you PJ!! I so needed this distraction! Tell this young man to put me in touch with his mom, I'll help her kick the dads ass!

[@nilaja-itsmylife]

Narcissists are masters at triangulation. They keep groups separated. Also his narcissistic sister, the aunt, wants that money that your dad has.

[@MyLifeAsRaphael]

Divide and conquer.

[@naturalvirgolady6547]

Crazy as it sounds, it was normal for men to have multiple families back in the day. My paw paw did this to my granny. So my granny turned around and had a baby on my paw paw🤦🏾‍♀️ They’re still married today😂

[@Tyrah1120]

Oh she said two can play that game. 😮😂😂

[@IndianG-Trini]

That’s right grandma!!! A strong dose of his own medicine. 😂

[@TheresaofTheWorld]

Normal? Or just more common?

[@AllAboutPurple]

Lmfao dang Granny was fed up 😂😂

[@soulsistah5738]

I know that’s right she wasn’t playing

[@alesiagomillion3444]

Karma is going to whoop that dad's ass so bad he's going to be begging for yall forgiveness. I'm so disgusted with our black men. Ugh

[@jacquelynn2051]

I hear you, but it isn't just bm yesterday a 26 yo white girl was on Dr. Phil pissed at her Dad for marrying and impregnating her 22 yo girlfriend. She is also spanish...these 3rd world chickies from Spain to P.R. to Philipines ain't playing people want to survive on somebody else dime and bm in general and older white men are simply Easy Licks for foreign women.

[@stacyanb]

I have 2 words…Brian McKnight.

[@queen4c414]

That part.

[@exoticalrants]

Sad.

[@tanisha.r.thomas]

Word

[@c.celess3662]

Some people are disgusting 🤮 and these weird side chicks are very disgusting as well

[@tenelleharris5696]

Naw but these husband be disgusting and trifling 💯😒

[@toyarivera1585]

All im going to say is KARMA

[@ImaLayD]

It's Crazy how many people are saying this is common "today"... sorry to burst many bubbles & fantasies people have about their grandparents & beyond but this has Always been how it's been. So many of my great-aunts have told me Never get married lol! Friends have told me similar stories of their relatives. Side "Families" being discovered when the wife has grown kids smh. My mother always told me to make my own money & succeed so I could be with the man I wanted Not the one I needed. That way when it's time to leave I can skedaddle with No hesitation 😆

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

T H I S !! !! Speak ON IT, boo! 👏🏿👏🏿💯💯💕❣️💋 Ain't nun changed. These men BEEN dusty.

[@MyLifeAsRaphael]

Women are expected to tolerate this poor behaviour from some men but the women will be shamed if this was to happen. The double standards.

[@RitaCannon-ef2sg]

The dad wants the mom not to thrive and miss him and want him back but let him go karma definitely is gonna spin the block

[@NewLifeJourney24]

Exactly, they want you to cry and chase them. Do the opposite. I learned my lesson. Now he's looking crazy....

[@rubigee4397]

My first thought when homie said the sancha is Colombian was, “I bet she did some brujería on Al”. Homie confirmed it

[@thatbeaatcch9884]

Lol not you all being openly racist

[@XyThree]

Immediately. I said, “She working his a55 over!!”🕯️ 😂😂😂

[@loveyb9090]

Wow that's crazy

[@rubigee4397]

@ What’s crazier is that most love spells backfire, especially if it’s cast upon unrequited love

[@soulsistah5738]

No he just ain’t shit

[@cruzan8183]

My dad cheated on my mom and got his mistress pregnant just before he married my mom. I found out about this after my father passed. My mom was an angry bitter woman . I didn’t understand why . So many people in my mom’s life let her down. I considered my dad a saint . My mom held my dad’s secrets until he died.

[@sunkissed6413]

I wish she didn’t do that. She should have never held his secrets. That festered her soul. It slowly kills you on the inside.

[@mercmerc9442]

Omg….. his mom is beautiful 😮

[@poohlisious88]

The realest shit .. men have routine and when it changes there is a reason !! I knew immediately! Pay attention ladies 💯

[@cliquesnvues]

Sir, you're no longer his resource.He doesn't care about your feelings.He doesn't care about if you're hurt or not.. You have been discarded. You have been replaced.... Narcissist are Not empathic.

[@honeebeeleehoneebeelee9476]

🎯🎯

[@autobotdiva9268]

yes mam. #selforphan

[@jupitersworld244]

As a parent myself how do you just not speak to your kids. Like how do you sleep at night!

[@soulsistah5738]

They be snoring sleeping great guys ain’t shit

[@prettynikki73]

As someone who is half Afro Puerto Rican and Taino, who has a grandmother, aunt, etc who practice… This definitely sounds like this columbian woman has used Santeria on your father. If not her., her family but still with her help. For your father to completely separate from not only his wife of 40 yrs, but his own children and to act as if none of you no longer exist… he is definitely under a spell. Once you’re able to take everything back from your father (property, money, etc) for your mother.… she will get ghost sooner or later.

[@laciejavonne352]

I was thinking this, I pray that he is okay soon!!!

[@destay100]

My coward father stopped speaking to me . His caucasian wife didn’t want him to support me as a child. Which he did not. I couldn’t ask him for five dollars. She also verbally attacked me as a child. No mind you , I was there before her. To this day when my coward father sees me in public, he runs in the opposite direction. I had the opportunity to air out my grievances. The only thing he did was blame my mother. He took no responsibility…what a coward!!!

[@nilaja-itsmylife]

Can a man please honestly explain how men can have two families? No judgement. I just really want to understand

[@everydaypj]

Cheating is hard as hell. Let alone have two families lol

[@MyLifeAsRaphael]

It’s expect for men to do so. Society is OK with this. We have accepted this sort of behaviour. If we leave when there is infinitely maybe this will stop.

[@abtree2770]

Your mother knew.. one thing that I have learned in my life is that the wife is the first one to know when her husband is stepping out.. men are not capable of serving two women and then he's going to start mistreating the wife..facts.. I hope she takes that b i t c h for everything he is worth

[@showboat4613]

🫢🫢🫢

[@mellajoe]

Knowing or having a hunch is two different things

[@abtree2770]

​@@mellajoeShe knew 😢..

[@TheJocha31]

Yes she definitely knew there was a woman, but not the baby. He got too messy and he was letting those $$$$ slip out the house. that's were wife drew the line...

[@flychic7]

Not always, every situation is different pls stop it.

[@XyThree]

A story as old as time. SMH. Ugh! Disgusting!!! These are the “your grandmother stayed with your grandfather” stories that dustballs drool over 😒

[@Tyrah1120]

Exactly, the women back in the day didn’t have it any better. 🙄😒

[@tgrant6518]

My dad came up with a child too after my parents had been married for years. My sister is the same age as my older brother, they are a month a part. I remember when it all came out as a child. My family instantly changed for the worst.

[@Noname1234nc]

My dad had a baby a month after my mom had my last sibling 15years ago. His wife of 25years, mother of his 6 kids at the time. His mistress left him, after my mom left him.He is 60 year old now, living with his new girlfriend who is pregnant with their second child. I am 33 years old with a 9 year old and a 15month old, and now have younger siblings that are 2 years old and a newborn.

[@tamigage2537]

Don't underestimate the power of pain. Your Mom may appear to be ok, she is putting up a front but shes probably not ok, at all. 🥺

[@jameslenon9645]

In his last days he will reach out, as my father did.

[@MaryJane11221]

Listen , this is why God blessed her with a great first Son !!

[@NewLifeJourney24]

I said this, too! My firstborn son was murdered, but baby, if he was alive today while I'm going through this bull crap. He would tear a hole in this narc soon to be ex-husband of mine.

[@tanisha.r.thomas]

Amen

[@ms.5779]

He went thru a midlife crisis and threw away his family. Sad. His family supporting his wrong was wrong

[@bajangal8142]

Actually, you bring up something I've been wondering about. People always focus on women hitting the so called "wall," and having a midlife crises, but the midlife crises for men is something I don't really hear about.

[@sunkissed6413]

No he didn’t. He had another child when they got married. He was cheating the entire time they were together

[@justred5164]

That side chick is the puppet master…dad’s so naive! He’s way too old for this nonsense! Thinking with the wrong head! SMH…old as he is having babies! He’s pathetic!

[@rhondamorgan4289]

Mom needs to file for divorce she will get what’s deserved after all these years. Plus the autistic son she’ll have assistance.

[@Courtney-c6n]

Women always know. The mother knew she just couldn't confirm it until the evidence was very evident. Marriages this long only last bc there are a certain amount of years that the wife taps out completely mentally and is just in it for the sake of not divorcing.

[@Honey_mama]

I disagree. I was married for 29 years and had no idea. Sometimes narcissists are REALLY good at what they do in hiding a second family. I only found out because my job switched my schedule after years and my husband and I worked the same shift in which I could see his “routine” whenever he switched up.

[@sunkissed6413]

How you gone tell another woman what she knew and didn’t know.. go sit down somewhere and be quiet

[@Coilygirl1]

Thats so sad! He is heartless! 40yrs!!

[@baemahogany9167]

This is crazy and sad. And momma is beautiful.i pray he gets a DNA and the kids ain't his. I hate what he did to your family. I'm sooo disgusted with this man

[@meed8738]

Yes that would be a slap in his face cause he got used

[@paceauto5382]

PJ you said “ DAMM “ like you ready to risk it all for moms?🤷🏽‍♂️🧐😂😂😂

[@mellajoe]

As you should

[@Nishá_luv7669]

😂😂😂

[@everydaypj]

she is fine. I would definitely risk it for her

[@paceauto5382]

@@everydaypj lmao “ WE “ know‼️💯🫣

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

​@@everydaypj Dang. You're disrespecting your wife so freely like that???? I hope she doesn't read your comment. You men are really all the same 😳🤷🏿‍♀️

[@trinathompson2152]

Almost my same story. Sorry ! My dad passed a few years ago and I found out from social media. Shame on anyone who says get over it.

[@TheLadyj8402]

People ain’t 💩 and never 👎🏾 gonna be 💩!!!

[@RainChannel36]

His mother is young and beautiful enough to get her another man if she want to, she gotta be about 55 years old, her next man will want to grow old with her.

[@lashernedickson8675]

❤❤❤ Your Dad fumbled CRAZY YOUR MOM IS BEAUTIFUL 😍

[@melanier7309]

I'm American of Jamaican descent. I can only imagine. Lawd have mercy! The Jamaican woman that gave the wife the info, probably experienced the same thing or her mother did. Some Jamaican men love being a Gyallis. 🇺🇲🇯🇲

[@caribmaroon]

This has been happening in Jamaican families from donkey was a boy.

[@chynafortune3235]

That sounds like pure witchcraft

[@caribmaroon]

It has nothing to do with that. It's a time old thing that many persons, especially men, have been doing in Jamaica, i.e. lots of extra marital children when husband and wife together. I remember holidaying to Jamaica with a friend and her family, and while there going with my friend to find a brother she heard that her father had with someone. The surprise was that she did not find that brother, but found another brother she nor her siblings ever knew of. Note that going to look for the extra marital siblings was to get to know them and nothing negative.

[@tamaruknight7872]

your dad is the one with the money that why his family knows. they not gonna bite the hand that feeds them.

[@intentionalgreatness]

Super good point.

[@154angel154]

Let's see if she will be there if he takes ILL!!!

[@lareinelester685]

She'll move on to the next pappy.

[@TSixSix]

People definitely using Tik Tok as therapy. It’ll be gone on January 15th

[@MadeInKanadaa]

And you think their won’t be another platform 😂😂

[@everydaypj]

Wherever they go for therapy, I will be there lol

[@MadeInKanadaa]

@@everydaypj 😂🤣 facts 🤌🏿

[@TSixSix]

@@everydaypj 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@soulsistah5738]

@@everydaypj lmao

[@quelray43]

His father was never the man he described. To handle them that way, they AALLLLLLL seen the jerk in him growing up

[@joelaundabeauty]

This is insane but not far fetched! He is completely WRONG the definition of a coward. I hope she knows she’s beautiful and keeps her head up and definitely gets legal advice. I hate they put you in it but I understand they trusted you. Your mom knew a long time before she went to that women’s house. I hope she can heal and live her best life after this.

[@caspersbestfriend]

This very thing happened to my mom except the baby turned out to not be my dads. I pray for all of them to heal. It hurts like hell just being the kid. Imagine being the wife in the situation. God bless them.

[@latashakearse]

I'm sorry this happened. But you stand tall sir. You're a good man and an amazing son. Thank you for loving and holding your mom down.

[@nikicrowe2768]

He definitely made the wrong choice. Mom is gorgeous and sounds like a class act. How sad she was married to a selfish narcissist for all those years, just for him to burn it all down. I hope mom is living her best life now; full of peace, laughter, love and the joy of not having to find where he set down the remote anytime she wants to watch tv…❤

[@katcole4779]

So his Dad’s siblings are just as toxic, narcissistic, and lacking character as their brother. Wow.

[@copperamerindian050]

He behaved that way because he didn’t like himself for being just like his own dad.. That’s why he avoided accountability with extreme measures and leaned on the ones who didn’t tell him about himself.. I’m proud of you for being your mom’s biggest advocate and supporter.. Mom is definitely a baddie and she can definitely heal and find a nice man who can give her all of his time because he doesn’t have minor children and self esteem issues.. I do understand what you mean about carrying the burden of your parents issues because my siblings and cousins have been through it with our parents.. And it wasn’t even nothing to the extent of this situation.. But why yuh fi call di Yardie ooman fi lose she job? 😂😂 Don’t even respond to these bitter and toxic men about what you do for your family.. Those are the type of men who don’t like accountability either.. My dad is my world so I couldn’t imagine the betrayal at all, especially not to this extent.. Nothing really surprises me anymore, because one thing I’ve noticed is that ppl change whether it be for better or for worse.. Change is inevitable which is why I don’t take it upon myself to advocate for anyone’s character.. Ppl wear masks/traits that you’ve never seen that only other ppl have seen.. That’s why I think the ppl who promote marriage as the ultimate goal and safety net are highly delusional.. A relationship without a ring has the same potential to be reflected in a marriage.. A ring doesn’t stop cheating, betrayal, abuse, single parenthood.. NOTHING.. And I say that as a married woman with a decent husband.. Just because it’s not my experience doesn’t mean it can’t ever be.. Life reflects all of our experiences as a whole and I’m not blind as to what goes on with other ppl.. My parents had their moments as well, but it wasn’t toxic nor did we see them disrespect each other .. Sorry for the essay lol.. I just hope this family’s hurt becomes their strength.. And I hope ppl realize life isn’t no fairytale no matter who you are or what you have.. Love, pain, sunshine and rain; that’s life 🤎

[@happynewbeginnings]

Yup!! I grew up wanting to emulate my grandparents who I put on a pedestal and wanted a marriage like theirs but was forced into an arranged one instead, once I got out of it and was intending on setting my sight on a potential, found out after he died, that my grandpa stepped out of his long marriage and had two other children by a side piece, long story short, I can never take any relationship seriously and no longer interested in being one, the betrayals are unreal and uncouth. I intend to forego any thoughts of romanticizing any interactions with any man.

[@HEAVENLYSONGBIRD777]

You’ve been removed because the Colombian, wants the bag!!! She needs the insurance policy, off your name and mom’s name, because he will be 80! Home wreckers, no shame and pure nefarious. She definitely has some Brujeria on him.

[@swtcarmel1]

She’s been married for 40 years …. That contracting business is hers too whether he knows it or not. And the BM gone end up like Sharina Hudson.

[@private1491]

God is leading his mother in the direction she's needs to go. Her faith is what is keeping her going trust and believe that. Karma will get the father soon enough.

[@sharisseg7214]

Where there’s smoke there’s usually fire, I wish the mom would’ve moved on a long time ago. I know someone that went through a similar situation and the husband just took care of the baby on the side, paid child support and the whole nine, had his mail going to a different address, but what’s done in the dark came to the light. The child was the same age as one of the kids he had with his wife.

[@cynthiastevens8302]

I usually don't listen to long drawn out stories.i like when people get to the point but this guy is a great story teller and held my attention.

[@RRSportGirl]

💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@veronicajohnson3684]

His mom is very gorgeous & I pray for her & her family healing journey

[@prettypinksurvivor]

Hey PJ so glad you shared his story! Something similar happened in my family so, this resonated wirh me. He is also concise in his story telling!

[@cartercarter2837]

I definitely wasn't expecting this kind of storytime. Very interesting

[@everydaypj]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@prettywymnshelly2658]

I pray my God heals my heart and remove any hate I feel towards my ex. His coward self has not apologized to me or my children but I leave it in God’s hands

[@jacquelynn2051]

My ex was so diabolical. But God took care of him. He went to prison for almost a decade and must now register every year on the Sex Offenders Registry. This happened about 16 years LATER after he put me thru pure hell and I left him. So...keep hope alive. I never prayed for his downfall as I was too young and naive and hurting. I never imagined he would do what he did but see when people do not listen...it catches up to them and there are so many weirdos out here it's too easy to stay to myself. Just focus on yourself and your children if any and stay positive like live in the Light of love, decent, forgiveness and positivity and trust me on this one...the truly evil wayward ones will get theirs every time. Any goals you have for yourself...write them down, set up plan and do them! Me and my children are good because I didn't chase down horrible men to try to make him be a good man...I left because I couldn't live with such toxicity many of these men are out of their ever loving minds. They want doting servants who do not complain about any of their misdeeds. Shut up and put up is basically their motto. I'm not that type of woman. God made me strong. Blessings to you❤

[@caribmaroon]

May God give you the strength to forgive in order to heal and be free from your past hurts, even though you may not receive an apology. You're the one who has to somehow take the practical step to do so. God has better instore for you, and your children, but you have to bravely let it go, so as to embrace joy, hope, and better times.

[@mimiarnismom6678]

This is soooo unfortunate for this family and others who have to go through this. This is just sad that loyalty and legacy mean nothing to some people. It really makes me sad that this is even a thing. Just sad.

[@PamAftertheStorm]

What a beautiful woman she is! She didn't deserve ANY of this, but just wait and see....the Total and Complete KARMA, BACKLASH, etc., on That "Father" as well as his new "mistress" will be something they can't even come from under...because that was totally and irrevocably WRONG and that Always brings Consequences!! Praying that Mom and this young man as well as his siblings, get healing because Better days are coming, you don't see it yet, but watch how God shows out for you guys!! 😊😊❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@rubytuesday863]

The fact that men told him he should mind his business shook me.

[@serenitywisdom7944]

Morning PJ family… we here working and all have a blessed day everyone! ❤

[@everydaypj]

Good morning!

[@honeebeeleehoneebeelee9476]

This so familiar to me. Those demons are diabolical

[@brandana4857]

Great son fr

[@K.P.0629]

Wow, what a story, praying for the mom and children ❤❤

[@rickiericktv3320]

People are acting weird to be questioning “why you’re not talking to your dad!” They need to listen!

[@AuthorLHollingsworth]

Firstly, his mother is beautiful and I pray that she finds peace. Secondly, anyone that told him to mind his business is just like his Narcissist of a father. Women are dying from AIDS and are getting other STI's from their husbands. It's not okay that people don't see how this adulterous ex-husband, and his siblings are evil. God, bless the brotha that spoke his truth.

[@MsNovember26]

This story is so sad to me. I’m so happy that she has a support/family there for her. Praying for his mom.

[@FourSeasons04]

Unfortunately, this may have been who his father was all along. He simply played a role until opportunity allowed the true personality to emerge. Such a sad tale.