WEEKLY VLOG | MAINTENANCE: HAIR + NAILS + DEALING w/ Anxiety + INFLUENCER EVENTS

[@chumamonakali2687]

God did not give you a spirit of fear/anxiety but of love, power and a sound mind.

[@terronhill9185]

Amen

[@finestgrowth]

One of my favorite verses.

[@antoniawilliams2627]

Amen. That’s beautiful

[@moon_sie7794]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@jaquii77]

You’re not alone for sure. I’m shy, introverted and definitely have social anxieties, I’m working on it too. I just force myself to be in an uncomfortable position or setting to get out of my comfort zone. You got this 😉

[@susanx6782]

Same, I just got into uni and I find it difficult to interact with other students. I'm easy to talk to but its just vetting started that's my problem. I find it too hard, especially when there are lots of people

[@mayamayaaymaiya]

soon as i got the notification, i had to click. it’s been so longgggg

[@claudettemckinney2666]

I am totally like you when it comes to social anxiety. I cannot fake it. I want new friends but I get so drained from a lot of talking as well, but I’m very nice. I wish I could improve this part of me. Praying it gets better for both of us

[@khusblogs]

i just wanted to let you know you’re YOU are my comfort youtuber

[@EzraMonthy]

Gurll you are never boring ❤

[@ObiageriAnanaba]

I know you may feel like your content is “repetitive” and “boring” but please know that you’ve built a community strong enough to the point where you could literally post yourself staring at the screen, and we would be very much entertained❤

[@Hfc467.]

Fatima stop! you're not boring...whatever content you do we enjoy watching them because we love 'YOU' and 'Your Content' that's why we subscribed. I can't speak for everyone but regardless of whatever you post I'm happy to watch bc i love seeing you do stuff, speak, travel etc, you're like a virtual friend. any how sorry for venting and i hope you get the motivation to keep posting what 'YOU' love to do. will always have my support xoxo

[@mermer418]

God puts you into situations to answer your prayers. You want to have less social anxiety therefore God puts you in those situations for you to overcome and prevail! You got this and God got you!!!

[@FatimaBah]

So true ❤

[@bre731]

I definitely can relate to having social anxiety but God doesn’t give us a spirit of anxiety or fear. You just have to continually pray for God to remove it and continually step out of your comfort zone. I know it’s more easily said than done but I can 100% relate to you. Thank you for sharing your struggle with anxiety.

[@k.niicol]

I completely understand being socially anxious! Working in sports I am often times around coaches, athletes, owners, etc and I would and can still feel the need to present myself in a more polished way that isn’t exactly me. Which would often times lead to awkward breaks within the conversations or even worse I would just start talking about random things and I could feel the tension from me trying to force a conversation. My biggest advice to you is PRAYER… I took sometime to grow spiritually and I can say that it has been extremely beneficial for me in many ways. God is the God of love so therefore any thoughts of fear, confusion, anxiety, etc are not of him. Once I started changing my mindset about those situations I started to become more comfortable putting myself in social situations. Granted there are times where I’m still nervous, but I have so much peace with myself that even when I do find myself in an awkward situation I am no longer anxious. Typically what I try to do now is just renew my mind to think comforting thoughts before entering those spaces. Another tip is to practice including more open ended questions in your conversations. These are questions that do not require a simple yes or no answer. Most times when getting to know new people conversations can become awkward if there are a ton of pauses or breaks in the conversation. So open ended questions allow the person to elaborate a bit in their response which will give you the opportunity to piggyback off something that they may mention in their response. I know this is a bit of a long comment but I do believe that you are capable of overcoming this challenge! Love your content ❤

[@FatimaBah]

Super helpful ❤ thank you

[@Gichure01]

4:31 you are my comfort youtuber❤

[@Faith_okonne]

Regarding anxiety,I can totally relate. It just gets exhausting not being able to interact when you want to. For some reasons,when I go out, I just feel like I'm boring but I'm originally not,it's weird.

[@deejaas7392]

omgg , you 're not boring and we love weeklyy vlogg do it moree n moreeeee

[@Alice-mv8io]

you’re my comfort youtuber❤️ you’re videos are perfect the way they are i love the vlogs with hauls included too

[@ayorkorbeauty6661]

Welcome back🎉 I think one way you could put yourself out there, while holding yourself accountable; is go places alone, while making a goal of at least ONE connection. With a follow up. Annnnnnd bring us along 😊

[@angelrach_]

love your selfcare,morning routines, nightime routines, if you're bored you can try adding new things to those routines but don't stoppp

[@noellemerritt3534]

I definitely understand about social anxiety. Sometimes it just takes time, and you will start to feel comfortable and not care.

[@famaniang5579]

First of all your content is absolutely not boring!! I look forward to watching your videos all the time! Just the fact that you are able to make your channel feel like a safe space by being so transparent is GOLDEN. And I am sure there many many girls like me that feel the same way. You could literally just turn the camera on and say nothing and I'd still be watching. For an hour long yes.

[@isysslepore72]

Fatima I’m in my late 30’s watching your videos and love them wholeheartedly.. Not only you’re a positive influence for Black women young or older but you’ve this radiance this beautiful aura about you.. Please don’t change that and working on yourself for the anxiety is fine we are not perfect but you’ve your fan base built on you being authentic 😏

[@shaymurphy2457]

I feel the same way! I don’t have friends at all and constantly try to encourage myself that it’s ok to be my own best friend just so I won’t let it get to me.

[@mariahaussery]

I love how transparent you were in this video🩷 Watching you never gets old!

[@queenofbeautv]

I love your content; its so relaxing and therapeutic to watch honestly

[@owamimatrose3585]

I wish you knew how calming your vlogs are, appreciate you xx

[@namaraeseza9104]

Hey Fatima We love your content...keep posting girl, consistency is key. Would like to see you reach the 1 million subs mark. Q and A Lovely to see your family join in too on the channel

[@ekomobongokopido4987]

I definitely deal with social anxiety. A lot of that comes with being an introvert. I really enjoy watching your vlogs Fatima ♥

[@merelybree]

Definitely relate to you with the anxiety and people feeling I'm being standoffish like no babe I feel a panic attack coming lol I haven't found any tips either I just try not to isolate myself too much

[@tamoumoune]

Finallllyy.. I’ve missed u

[@nyajohnson04]

I definitely understand with seeming as standoffish when you’re just anxious! I try to remember that everyone else that struggles with anxiety might be thinking the same thing when I’m in the room with them!

[@NellyAyikoru-hn8bl]

Keep doing what u love ❤️ cuz we shall be with u the whole way😊

[@AdaoraOA]

i have social anxiety too and a lotttt of the time I wish I didn’t. enjoyed watching this vloggg💕

[@vonnalatrice]

Girl we love watching you just live your life ❤

[@EzraMonthy]

A day in my life Sunday reset or Monthly reset What would Fatima do Q&A

[@Sam-zz5sf]

Missed you. Glad to see you back, hope your okay. Kept pushing. ❤

[@khusblogs]

IM ACTUALLY SCREAMMMIIIIINGGGGG

[@poojaxk]

I know the vedio will be amazing before I even watch it!!

[@FatimaBah]

🥰🥰

[@shannonmichelle1485]

Was literally just rewatching your old videos yesterdayyyyy! Glad you are back☺️

[@christll06]

Its been a while😭,Finally Fatima posted❤🎉

[@Nikki.rainbird]

I would love to see Reset routines Night routine Shower routine Vlogs- shopping / skincare / maken bed doing dishes 🥰🥰

[@khloeontong]

Girl are you maddd !!! I love your vlogs and your wig installation ❤️💅🏽😭

[@collegegrad2955]

Missed you on the tube! I love these type of videos! Please don’t stop!!

[@IVEMMA_4]

Girl I missed you so much 💓 😢 thank you for the weekly vlog❤

[@terylsmile3642]

I suffer from Anxiety too and a good reminder is God never gave me this. The devil is holding me back with it so I tell the enemy to duck off. I try to see why the devil wants me to be focused on this instead of what's happening around me. It's a process but I get a lot from it. HTH! God bless everyone!

[@tiffanyatta.8514]

i’ve missed you so much!! I hope all is well🩵

[@Princess-kk]

girl i missed youuuu💓

[@yayafuthwa]

The hair really looked good when you curled it again❤ It suits you

[@deborahsteele7389]

I am sorry you have anxiety. I deal with depression myself, it is never easy. But I press on and push forward. You are doing an awesome job. Great content. Keep it coming!

[@holly_kalonji]

You most definitely aren't alone! I'm also one person who struggles with social anxiety and that is something I've only come to acknowledge very recently! Like you, it takes me a REALLY long time to get used to someone & I am usually (not aaaalways) extremely awkward and shy, when meeting new people (though I think I'm pretty good at faking it, sometimes). But, being an ambivert and all, I thrive in groups. Single me out, with an individual I'm not accustomed to, though, and I'm just a ball of nervous energy! What I've found to help is to somewhat "forcefully" put myself out there. That is literally the ONLY WAY you'll get better. You're not alone, gurl! We've got this!💪🏾🫶🏾

[@WendyLiving]

Aww talking about your social anxiety & low social battery, I can so relate, I'm like that too, I'm intentionally working on it and I just try not to over think things. And oh yh, you're someone that if perhaps we're in the same country/city, I'll love to be friends with you 🙈☺

[@jann6495]

Low social battery and anxiety is so real!!

[@admiresesay2132]

Your my inspiration your the reason why I started a KZbin channel.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@LauraLaura-tt7cb]

you’re videos are so relaxing please keep doing them no one is board😭😭

[@jaylaflocco]

God doesn’t give us anxiety he can set us free from it 🩷🩷 your so strong just give him your doubts worries and insecurities 🩷🩷

[@cheymuv]

Your hair looks sooooooo good omg 💕💐

[@jordanorionn]

It really does

[@FatimaBah]

Thank you love ❤❤

[@gladyskarobia]

I have missed you Fatima finally 🎉

[@lydiajumbo___]

You are sooo not alone… I deal with this also.. three minutes into the conversation, I wanna be on my way…. It’s really hard to make new friends even if I need friends..

[@KeaMaaroganye]

Your content is just so calming honestly , truly wish we got more vlogs though 🥺 I think the bundles are not good to keep on for close to a month but probably a week or two and that’s so disappointing, I hope you plug us with a good brand with bundles that will serve us for our sew ins 🙏🏽 FabFitFun box items are so cute 👏🏽 You’re so thique and I’m more obsessed 🫦 def so beautiful ! Love the dress so much!!! Beautiful nails for sure 🔥 Thank you for being vulnerable 🤍 More vlogs , GRWM , Reset just everything pls !

[@moumi21s]

Your hair looks amazing from the length to texture 😍🔥

[@AmarisPresley]

Being a supporter for some years now I love your videos it’s never boring it’s very uplifting and exciting ❤

[@mancwencwetha]

I totally relate to the social anxiety part…especially the part about coming off as rude😭 hopefully we’ll improve somehow

[@je39981]

I know you mentioned the dislikes of the bundles but the extensions matches perfect with your hair. Barely can tell it's a sew-in.

[@iseee]

missed you girl. you are not boring🥺

[@SheAKilla]

Girl, you’re not the only one on that social anxiety spectrum. The friends I have are also just from school. 🙈

[@Missjem22]

Girl we love you and I also suffer with social anxiety

[@peacechimdi-tj6hl]

Welcome back Fatima I have missed you so much

[@faithk.3207]

Gurlllll I missed you 😢

[@djlynnn1579]

I find ur videos very entertaining and calming….loved the vlog

[@famzyxoxo]

My favorite 😍

[@Gichure01]

7:11 yeah that hair got me like 😢you cover your hair with that 😮not the best quality but you still did your little thing❤

[@mukukahnkamba5559]

YOU'RE SOOOOO INSPIRING AND I LOVE WATCHING YOUR VLOGS!!!!!😁😍😍☺

[@lovelyliv4527]

my comfort youtuber❤️

[@purentoduor4858]

I've been missing your content💗💗 i like the sweatpants nice color 👌

[@askkiki4594]

Yes let’s get back into creative nails 😍😍

[@mayamayaaymaiya]

the ending scared me 😂 i thought my phone was skipping through the video

[@FatimaBah]

LOL I was just talking way too much 😂

[@annie_natty]

That's so me too i can relate.. social anxiety is so real no matter how much I try to interact with people it's just not that easy eey n i so want to meet new people make friends bt at the day i just end up staying indoors 😑 working on it tho as hard as it is

[@khusblogs]

i’ve missed your content!!🌷

[@ObiageriAnanaba]

Oh my god you’re in the clouds!! Goals fr ❤

[@jericaasmr8]

the hair eatttts!

[@melannyecarrillo]

oooo girl what podcast are u listening to at 38:30??? sounds good

[@shonamoraa]

Missed you fatima ❤

[@Vislymatzkeit]

Missed you so muchhhhh

[@QueenIni]

girlllllll we missed you!!!

[@xeeobed6094]

Welcome back mama 💖💗 A whole movie 🍿🍷

[@kellymotloli7391]

My fave..hey gorgeous girl! Notification gang we up!! 🥳🥺🥰

[@shai2c154]

I was checking for a video yesterday! Glad you posted😊

[@cherishoneal9108]

The stylist did a good job on her sew in.

[@Jaygurl224]

Can you please share what you use to and how you make your thumbnails?🥺they’re so good💗

[@AndiswaNene8]

I missed your videos😩.

[@brendaanicet]

I love your content so much! You inspire me to keep on pushing my self and do what I love ❤️ thank you!!

[@dee246.]

Please don’t stop vlogging 🥲

[@YONKAII]

I missed you so muchhhhh goodness girl I been checking your ig n stuff and I just wanna say thx for giving looks and slaying everydayyyy😂😂❤🫶🏾🫵🏾👍🏾

[@florenceladzagla388]

Your natural hair is so beautiful ❤

[@tamaramanley1656]

I've been missing the content girl💜😭

[@jessicafianko]

Hiii Fatima Happy Wednesday Loved today's weekly vlog 😊 and the hair and nails were so pretty 🥰😍 🫶🏾♥️

[@_ItzKelyse]

I missed you ❤❤

[@SheAKilla]

I was actually hoping you go with the dress 🤩

[@dinamambo539]

Finally!!!!!!!!!!!😩♥️

[@abbyjackson9434]

You are so pretty when do weekly vlogs 📷 like this. 💓😘

[@fatoumukuna3480]

Love the vid!! Try self help books. Thats what helps me even though sometimesss they can be a little corny, there are good comments that I resonate with personally. "You are a badass" is a good one/example. Also i feel the exact same about the skims! I JUST got the same color like last week!!

[@FatimaBah]

Thanks babes ❤❤

[@britneywillie2787]

Just wanna see more Fatima. That's it! ❤

[@mariahgunn7101]

Can totally relate to everything you said about social anxiety.