Fear Bonds, Love Bonds Enemy Mode in NeuroDiverse Marriages and some Q&A with Dr. Jim Wilder

We have been talking about Wilder's work, Enemy Mode and how it applies to NeuroDiverse Christian Couples. We asked listeners what do you want to ask Dr. Wilder?
We talked about how to build joy again after trauma or abuse.
We talked about fear bonds and love bonds.
We talked about what can actually change in the brain wiring.
We talked about hesed is sometimes doing what is best for the relationship even if the other person does not see it (because they are in enemy mode).

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This is very good, I'm not sure about the sin nature with enemy mode, more that I have decided to do things on my own and not in connection with God, so I self protect. This would explain enemy mode.