Feeling down, Love languages, Failure and success || Thought Digest Ep08

[@kamogelothabethe7995]

seeing black, Christian, south african women talk about every day things that we face as girls and children of God is so refreshing. Finally something i can actually not only relate to but learn from as well. This is a great podcast to watch as a young black teen for real

[@sibu_mulo]

"GOD DOESN'T CALL THE QUALIFIED, HE QUALIFIES THE CALLED "......Yooooooo that got me!!!❤❤❤

[@SimplyMondy]

I’m with Mammie Dearest on this one, God never created a failure when he created mankind. Failure is consequence not a birthright

[@bonolomareletse6268]

honestly! because you cannot say people are failures! that’s so mean

[@bonolomareletse6268]

honestly! because you cannot say people are failures! that’s so mean

[@Relo233]

I didnt like how caiah was treated by thakgi regarding her boldness in "GOD" at spreading humours.. I am so glad she is back here where she can confidently speak about her belief as a proud christian here at thought digest..🥰Congratulations Mpho on your graduation Love you guys 😍

[@dylanmosehla3285]

It was banter, it surely wasn't that deep.

[@__thandoo]

They didn't understand, and it's okay not to, but hopefully, all of them will understand Christ one day. It's also not a bad thing to not know stuff, guys. The fact that they have Cai's number and hopefully have connected with her might help in the future.

[@phuthimathloko]

I just like letting these episodes pile up so i can spoil myself during my free time

[@TraceTheFace62]

Y’all don’t know how much I appreciate this podcast 😭💗

[@kamogelothabethe7995]

real yho

[@JSFootballfanclub]

People aren't born failures. People make choices which eventually become habits in the course of their life that leads to failure. However, failure is a true reality but it is not predestined it is orchestrated by the choices you make and habits you take on. Love the podcast. Keep doing what you doing.

[@berrolookeditse1544]

True. I also believe failure is a reflection of the choices and habits you take on. At times we believe that we’re making the right choices but failure does shows us that it is not the perfect route, try going another way. We aren’t born failures, it’s about choices and not moving in the right direction.

[@Kaleyakankwende]

Yoh I’m tired too cause when I say God has called me to break generational curses (first generation healed) that I didn’t even make, i wanna cry sometimes because I’m not able to make the same mistakes like others for example dating. God said “you not dating because it could cause a big mess in your life”… crazy part is that he visually showed me what the fruits of being faithful is like and the opposite and I can see it everytime I think about it… but staying faithful is tiring yet we still pushing… I recently just conquered two generational curses so that encouraging ☺️☺️

[@JSFootballfanclub]

I'm proud of you

[@fundiswatshali6969]

Caiah's articulation????!! Spot on🥺

[@lee.ndhlovukazi]

Appearantly Jesus being a carpenter is significant because he spent his entire career hammering nails into wood and would sometimes accidently hit himself with a hammer or even nail his fingers causing bleeding. This was preparation for his ministry on the cross. (Heard this from my brother)

[@MishumoMathivha]

Ooof.... I love this take man🔥🤍

[@ey.yocedes]

Well damn gurl 🎉

[@t.hokozile]

Wow😢❤

[@netty0812]

so good!

[@vuyomazibuko1753]

Can you ladies please talk about everything friendships (who are your friends, what is a friend so that we know that they are or aren't acquaintance, boundaries in friendships, how you want to be loved and treated within a friendship relationship, also Godly friendships) Thank you ladies ❤

[@kgothatsolee3470]

I agree with Mpho in the success thing. People who aren't successful is a result of their input. Sometimes spiritual. Just imagine if someone said you will not be successful coz it's just written, that wouldn't be true coz you can look at your actions and where they have taken you.

[@charmainerasivhenge5828]

Not me going around telling people around me about this podcast, I'm addicted and it's insane ❤😊 I really appreciate y'all 1

[@Journeyingwithhope]

Success for me is living out God’s intended will for my life. It is more a journey than a destination.

[@lee.ndhlovukazi]

Angi'thandi ngo'Davis 😭😭😭😭

[@ntombifuthichombo5544]

You guys are always killing your outfits, sheeeesh🫣❤those dresses look good on you💖Anisebahle bo love😊

[@Journeyingwithhope]

I believe even people who we say are ‘failures’ succeed at certain points in their lives, and the same with successful people, they fail at some point but that doesn’t mean they are failures. Failure for me is being misaligned to God’s will. So I agree with Mpho on failure being more spiritual than physical.

[@Thuto.Ngwenya]

That's my chat as people at some point we all gonna face failure which helps us to succeed bcs how do you know success if you've never failed in life so I definitely second Mpho's statement

[@netty0812]

That is my definition of failure too - being misaligned with God’s will

[@milanivena2983]

I wanna MARRY Mammi Dearest! Oh you guys are literally the big sisters I’ve always dreamt of, God really does deliver maybe not directly but HE DOES!❤️ Thank you Caiah and Mammi, and thank you Malome for this channel. And, most importantly thank God for all of this!

[@yoursTruly20711]

After Khaya's appearance on Spreading Humour, I'm following her everywhere. I really enjoyed her and I'm enjoying the conversation here too. Thank you beautiful ladies for such an amazing episode. 🎉❤

[@nduduzonkwanyana1959]

Me too😂

[@tshiamotshiamo3704]

I dont like her here she is serious , i just found out that this person is a whole clown , fuck i love her😂😂

[@ooooohhww]

I get fed every time I come here because Caiah and Mpho stay cooking!! 😭😭

[@asandamabanga9246]

I would really like to see you girls talk about attachment styles with regard to love languages. Attachment styles often reflect wounds , trauma that we experienced as a child . A lot of people are not aware of their attachment styles . Relationship were often teared apart because of this .

[@karabophillipine4454]

52:16 I understand what Caiah is saying about some people are just failures nje by nature…and I know no one’s wants to hear that coz that’s deep and hurts but it’s true. There has to be people who are succeeding and there has to be people who are failing in order to clearly see the difference (everything in life has a balance, Yin Yang) someone has to be poor so that someone can be deemed as rich. Someone has to be the dumb one so that there could be someone who we call genius. Someone has to be the sewage working guy so that the could be a Doctor out there. We call can’t be doctors or lawyers someone has to take the job of cleaning the streets or be a teacher. We all have different roles in life and they are all very beneficial to each other. Every role you play in the society is important no matter what it is.

[@CaiahM]

Perfect reiteration of what I meant ! Thank you for this.

[@princessmading3336]

This podcast is literally my safe space because I relate to everything every single episode. I found my people ❤

[@miphiekitundu567]

mpho and caiah yall are a blessing for real the wisdom yall have ...oh may GOD bless yall

[@ongi_dlamini]

Lento ye purity sana we are fighting the devil and his mother in law, not easy at all! But with God we can do it. I agree sucess is not just about what you have or achieve externally, but also about who you are as a person.

[@Flurry_OConnell]

So success for me is living up to what you have been called to be, being the best version of yourself that also inspires and impacts the society in any kind of positive way, whether it be minor or major as long as you are a positive impact and your growth allows societal growth. I love you Mpho and Caiah, and i also relate to Caiah's exhaustion òf existence and carrying out the duties given by God to me for the world, spirituality can be very tiring.😭👍🏽okay sho

[@nozinhlecharmaine6281]

My definition of success is building a solid relationship with God and owning up to my purpose. On the success and Failure debate, I have to agree with Caiah, it is not everyone is meant to be successful. God reveals himself in a lot of things and in everything, sometimes God uses the unprivileged to show us his greatness

[@liisaimmanuel]

Caiah, continue carrying your cross mama. God will give you the strength to keep going, Keep praying because me personally, I have benefited fully from your salvation

[@nduduzonkwanyana1959]

I saw Khany's on spreading rumours and I'm here to listen to her voice❤

[@NkululekoGada]

The more I watch these two the more I realize I've been messing with the wrong women in my life 💔

[@mariasimon231]

Me too. I feel they genuinely like each other and they not jealous of each other both are confident in their own skin

[@kgoropanemokgohloa3205]

Loving the looks,😊 color coodination on par 👌

[@nanadi1745]

My definition of success is overcoming and accepting things that I cannot control or even traumas that slowed me down and fed the doubts I had of myself. And even in uni I'm able to push further knowing that I got this because I fueled myself and nothing put against me will succeed 💯 #winning

[@liisaimmanuel]

Caiah and Mpho are like those favorite cousins in the fam. I love i

[@laronathembelihle8163]

I love how I relate with the each one of you on different topics!

[@Walubita_Charity]

This podcast?One of the best spaces to be in fr.Very grateful for this conversations❤

[@koketsosekgwelea8718]

The way this podcast has changed my train of thought and the fact that I'm learning to be proud of the me that God created, the me that is also proud of her Christianity yoh. ❤💕😊 Love you guys.

[@riyl_taimiii]

I love how caiah always gives mpho compliments, she is such a girls girl❤❤❤

[@AlbertinaTuhafeni]

This podcast is a happy place for me tbh🥹❤️

[@mphodlamini994]

I'm so happy this podcast exists cause it helps me so much with reflecting with myself and aligning myself in the right way. 🥺❤️

[@BontleM1.]

I loved everything about todays episode this is not just a podcast but a place were we as girls are able to both learn and do some self introspection🤭i would really appreciate it if you guys talk about "CARRYING THE CROSS" I desperately want to learn more i have so many unanswered questions going on in my head and i don't know the right person to talk to

[@yoliswankehli2791]

Patiently waiting for when y'all talk healing from childhood trauma

[@khanyisiledlamini409]

You guys need to invite OG Parly , she's the perfect person that can relate to you guys regarding this podcast( speaking about god)

[@lee.ndhlovukazi]

I like receiving words of affirmation and performing acts of service for my loved ones.

[@wendymavimbela4807]

When Caiah said " The world exists as it is because there are people who weren't meant to be anything"😭 But its facts though

[@BlessingMphahlele]

I think I relate more with Caiah in regards to Christianity. I really thought at some point in my life that maybe I'm exaggerating. All I can say is thank you for sharing this conversations with us. We appreciate it a lot. ♥

[@Moeti2915]

us broers we also learning a lot from the perspective of hunnies...being wise is for this podcast❤

[@Kgaditse04-pe7fl]

I also love the picture of dorian grey book❤️❤️

[@a.isheeeee]

I like how they are always matching 🥰🥹

[@valenciandhlovu..]

Okay on the success topic I’m team Mpho 😊

[@HopeKhau]

i really don't think some people were born failures however i think it's matter of finding an area which you can flourish in to succeed and yes we have some people to fail in something and at the same time have someone succeed in it meaning that's their area of flourishing

[@hlamilegodi3220]

Yeah purity is such a complex thing to keep a 💯 percent For me it's not as difficult because I left dating and fornication and gave God my all because loving him takes sacrifice and know am waiting and building my relationship with him 😊

[@ms.thembeka]

Success for me is living life according to God's will even if you make wrong decisions, eventually God plans for you come to pass. Irrespective of your hearts desires nkosi yami

[@moreke10]

This podcast has me on chokehold…..These women are so wise man🔥

[@Zethem]

Caiah is spitting facts!!@

[@VINC3PH]

Day and night, sun & moon, good & bad, right and wrong, win and loss. All that was meant to exist.

[@banyanam100]

I don’t think there are people who are born failures I think Gods plan for everyone is for everyone to fulfill their purpose and free will will determine whether they do fulfill it or not hence some people don’t live up to it. They don’t live up to it because of free will and not because they were born not to live up to it

[@agnesaggy1571]

One of your christian girlies here🥰 I feel like Caiah and the team misunderstood Mpho's point on the topic of success. Overall I liked today's content so much, y'all are gifted with wisdom❤

[@Jt_Zaire]

I was also dissapointed on my graduation i didnt enjoy it much , honestly i wish it was repeated😢😢

[@kgoropanemokgohloa3205]

Shame sorry ❤

[@boitumelotsatsane2811]

Success for me is fulfilling the purpose God created you for and living in that purpose being fully aware of your purpose

[@tiisetsomashigo632]

I love the intellect on here🤌 matured young women of God💕

[@Ivi.77]

But I love the growth and I pray God draws you guys close to Him forever❤

[@lerato_lechesa]

I think the thought of success is broad. It doesn't have to be extravagant; its the smallest thing one can achieve. While some graduate, others find work as petrol attendants and that is enough for their capacity. The thought of opening a snack business like the aunties out there, is successful enough cause that's all they could reach. And so everyone is successful in their own capacity. I don't know if I'm confusing success with not having means. But little success is success

[@HawaBuhle-kj1vi]

I love Caiah and her facial expressions 😂❤. you guys are both doing great ☺️☺️

[@EvolveWithAsiipho]

Okay I must admit i been ignoring your podcast cause they long and i was lazy but there's no way am gonna do it again. I learnt a lot sana. Also on the topic of success and failure, i wanna agree with Mammi but in reality they say "in order to love something there must be something tou hate also" so I'd say it goes like with failures and success. I enjoyed you guys❤❤❤❤

[@Letlotlo_Mokonyane]

We need more Christian quizzes 🥰🤌🏼

[@nkululekongcobo8332]

Man,what a robust conversation ❤

[@hopebanetsi7122]

Love you guys soo much! This post is everything! ❤

[@Relo233]

I love how Mpho explains the significance of JESUS being the carpenter which makes sense because remember GOD our clay potter and we are the clay also the LORD is the author and finisher of our faith. So HE shapes and moulds in the way that HE wants..shout out 👏Also I would like to suggest a topic which is maladaptive day dreaming/ Overthinking as a christian ..is it idolatry

[@angelkaraboo]

I have been really thinking about that for months, and I've been trying to snap out of it and praying on it because it does not feel natural or okay to always be imagining somethings which you know for a fact would not happen.

[@angelThela]

My mind Is bieng feed with more information and wisdom each and every time i watch your podcast keep going guys

[@ZikstheGirl]

I love Caiah intro 🥺🔥♥️

[@WetsoMogorosi]

she robbed us the proper intro today😫

[@ZikstheGirl]

really enjoyed today conversation 🥺♥️

[@NandNto]

55:36 We ONLY know that evil exists because good existed first God is good Evil is evil The only time we are able to claim that something is evil is when God has already said that it is good , the devil only knows how to work in opposition to God and will always try to twist or change God's words , that is why the devil can never be a step ahead of God , because he can only move once God has taken His first step

[@milanivena2983]

I also think that God sometimes says Yes in order for us to learn from a situation. I have honestly made this a lifestyle, one of constantly learning from, especially heartbreaks and so on.

[@nokuthulamaputle3754]

I have been saying this... A couple experiences all love languages-you can never truly say you favor the other from enye 😍.

[@nelisiwemoloi6534]

Love this podcast🥰❤️

[@i_am._tee]

My love language in relationships is words of affirmation and I think it stems from that fact that I want u to tell me that u adore me and that u like me for me to feel secure with u cause words to me are like a blanket and a warm hug but flop comes when u tell me u love me or like me and whatever but your actions aren't aligning but because u telling me that u still like me and care I will thug it out in a way cause u saying u still wanna make it work But also at the same time I'm a very quick person when it comes to leaving my parents cause it's like one mistake or disappointment or u hurt me once u are gone cause I'm trying to protect my peace in a way and I feel like it's a bad thing but idk heyy I've been trying to be patient and kind of understanding so I think love love language and my constant need to protect myself clash sometimes

[@i_am._tee]

My love language in friendships tho is physical touch and I don't know why but I love showing affection to my friends and words of affirmations is something I don't require I guess but yeah

[@ANZASHAUNTELMULAUDZI]

To us from spreading humorous ❤🎉

[@A_phile.]

I was going through youtube and I was so happy to see you guys have uploaded, I just want to commend you guys on your consistency!!

[@YangaKhetsekile]

Looove it here ♥️

[@Divine_Kalonji]

Ladies looking stunning !❤❤❤

[@SiphokaziNkhoma]

Love you guys ❤

[@zandilezondo2440]

The way I love you guys❤❤️❤️

[@nonduuu]

On the note of success: Is success measured by the things we accumulate. (material things)

[@LelowMokoena]

Love these girls fr❤️❤️❤️

[@phemelo542]

I love how Caiah thinks 🔥🤣🤣🤣

[@Jt_Zaire]

Always early on my monday dose❤

[@milanivena2983]

Caiah saying there must be failure to be success it’s like saying there must be satan to be God which is not true. You choose to be a failure, like Mammi said failure is a consequence of moving in the wrong direction.

[@Bnele]

"Inhlamba'ngaka Khaya😂😂😂😂...Sori sori". 31:17 You are forgiven sis😂😂❤😄😙

[@WalinaseWakisaMumba]

Mammie is such a sweet girl💕

[@ms.thembeka]

Khaya is so funny yazi 😂 can't wait for Monday nkosi yami. I am enjoying this episode 😊

[@unathi.n]

31:15 "uyanya". khuzeka Caiah😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@dylanmosehla3285]

I came to hear from this lady after hearing her on Spreading Humor

[@Justagirl497]

❤ i love it here ❤

[@lee.ndhlovukazi]

I don't think people need to hold pastors/ministers at a higher standard but the gospels (James 3:1) says that teachers (leaders) will be judged at a higher standard.

[@lee.ndhlovukazi]

By God.

[@gaosegadika]

I love these 2 ❤🎉

[@zanelem.]

Then she looks in the camera and smiles mara Caiah 😭😭🙆‍♀️😫😂

[@nomvuzogantaa4565]

You are actually saying the same thing. There has to be bad for good to thrive. But its still up to an individual what side they would rather be on. Good takes effort and failure to do good results to bad. Its easier to be bad but everyone can be good.

[@O.magebaa]

NOT ENOUGH CREDIT IS GIVEN TO THIS PODCAST!!!!!

[@celiwekubheka760]

Kindly assist...whats the name of the book they said they would highly recommend? Thank you

[@ailishaakumeni4292]

Whole time I’m just like…. Same girl same😊