You Might Have Daddy Issues… || Intimacy and The Father Complex ,EP11

[@CaiahM]

We missed you too Gesties !🥺🥺 It was exam season for Mpho , and I fell ill - but she’s almost done with her exams , and I feel much better ! Thank you for being patient with us🥺❤️ I love you one by ooonnneee

[@Myrtle_kari28]

@CaiahM and @mommy dearest....I want to tell u that I was dead for 2 Mondays because you went MIA .....I think I am going to arrest both of you for that because I literally missed u guys😭😭😭😭

[@buhlehlengi3391]

Mpho’s mind is mind blowingly beautiful😭🙌🏽

[@sbusisomahlalela2720]

Dear Thought Digest Team, I want to begin by expressing my deep appreciation for your podcast. The insightful discussions and thought-provoking content have become an essential part of my routine. Your dedication to addressing complex topics with depth and nuance is evident, and I look forward to each new episode. However, I feel compelled to share a concern that has been on my mind. Recently, I've noticed a recurring theme in your discussions that seems to paint men in a consistently negative light, especially regarding their intentions with women. While it's undeniably important to highlight and critique problematic behaviors, the broad generalization that all men have bad intentions can be both misleading and harmful. This narrative can unintentionally alienate a portion of your audience and overlook the many men who strive to act with respect, kindness, and integrity. By presenting a more balanced view, your podcast could foster a more inclusive and constructive dialogue, ultimately benefiting all listeners. I truly believe in the power of your platform and hope that my feedback is taken in the spirit of constructive criticism. Your podcast has the potential to lead conversations that bridge understanding and promote positive change, and I look forward to seeing it continue to grow in this direction. Thank you for your time and for the exceptional work you do.

[@nthubekhi9068]

That's what a majority of women belive about men. I know by saying majority, I am also generalizing. The way men are always painted which is often in a bad light creates deep insecurities has resulted in me having deep insecurities in my relationship. The only men I ever dated is my boyfriend, whom I love and trust however there is a part of me that can be suspicious of him, a part of me that feels that in as much as we are fine now, not that we are perfect and never had infidelity in our relationship there is a part of me that can't fully trust, where I feel is just for 'now, it's just a matter of time and he will mess up maybe when I am 50 I will learn that he has a child. I wish there where more positive stories about men with regard to romantic relationships. You sound like a good gent (well I assume you are a man) maybe Thought Digest should invite you. We need to hear more positive stories of good guys.. They is a general saying that women should do twice the work to be recognized and I say in relationship men need to do thrice the work to prove themselves and it all stems from what we have always been taught by men even when deep down I view my men in a positive light, I trust him they is a part of me that just want to dim that when I am around other women not to seem delusional 🤣🤣🤣. DISCLAIMER: ( I haven't watched this video just that your comment resonated with ME) If it's not you they invite maybe have more make guest and get to hear their perspective, hear their views on relationships

[@lee.ndhlovukazi]

I Think Hyper Independence Can Sometimes Be Rooted In Daddy Issues.

[@lee.ndhlovukazi]

Because you dont want to rely on anyone else who might end up being unreliable

[@itszanisWorld]

✨😭❤️

[@reneilweramphisa3521]

This😢❤

[@tsakanishihlomulo3741]

My dad passed away when I was a kid so I’ve known my mom as the provider all my life. I don’t have high materialistic expectations from men which makes me feel like I have low standards.

[@NolwaziSibiya_]

Also can we talk about how gorge Caiah looks on today😍😍

[@lindiwegama412]

I get what you guys mean, talking about being tired if constantly praying and not feeling heard. I believe the closer you get to Christ is when the devil attacks you more. I pray you guys don't give up in your relationship with God and that you instead revert back to sitting in his presence and communing with him. You are both so beautiful and he loves you totally, irrevocably, infinitely.

[@MbaliNatashaDyamle]

@Caiah M, @Mammi D Matthew 7 vs 7&8 Keep on asking, and it will be given you; keep on seeking, and you will find; keep on knocking, and it will be opened to you; for everyone asking receives, and everyone seeking finds, and to everyone knocking, it will be opened❤ James 1 vs 6&7 But let him keep asking in faith,not doubting at all, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven by the wind and blown about. In fact, that man should not expect to receive anything from Jehovah❤ Also there is an appointed time for everything (Ecclesiastes 3vs1) so please do not lose faith Jehovah hears your prayers and when the time is right he'll make it happen whatever it is your are asking for in prayer

[@Brightie_ness02]

MARK 11:24🙏♥️

[@2auctavia]

True 😊 because most people who give up too quickly are not as faithful and hopeful as they should be

[@thembelihlevivian435]

I tried my best to mend a relationship with my dad for years and he showed no interest. I am so grateful for that process because I tried until I was satisfied with my efforts. I went to therapy, accepted that it is what it is and I started having better relationships.

[@amukelanisiwela1358]

This other pastor broke the word intimacy to 'into me see' so basically you allow people to see right through you beyond the outside of you and vice versa including God. That's why it's really a hard one.

[@golden___corral5978]

"I'm right neh baby?" SBWL😭😭🤣Caiah is effortlessly funny🤣🤣 I love her sm😭💗

[@siyakgatlaki7375]

Caiah is so gorgeous 🥹 There is a certain Aura around her mahn😻 she is literally giving goddess energy

[@Judii_lee]

Mpho is so smart ❤❤ and i love how Caiaha articulates herself ❤❤ My Internet besties..i relate to you guys humour 😂😂💕💕

[@lifewithmahalia]

Adding Bax, Tumi and Coffee would be soooooo bomb❤

[@GracefulYvonne]

Regarding being upset at God, I highly recommend The Shack, such a beautiful movie... It will give a very enlightening perspective.

[@muhlekhoza6272]

I love the fact that you both are happy in your romantic relationships and I hope each of you are in a relationship with the person that God wants for you, but if NOT I pray God ends that relationship. It's better to have a broken relationship than a broken marriage/family. This is coming from a sister who loves you both and wants what's best for each of you.❤

[@letuhangula]

I have coffeenomilk in mind

[@busisiwesekelemane6612]

I second that👊

[@anelisangungu4749]

They would a perfect trio ❤

[@fentsemoyana]

Ohhh yessss

[@ntsheboletsie2376]

Including Tumi Moliko would be fire 🔥 for the girlies man 😍😍😍

[@crystal_b9135]

oh yesss

[@charllottembhele1492]

Yesssss

[@katekonkhensani757]

Agreed

[@2auctavia]

All your challenges in life puts your faith to test.... Always be hopeful and faithful, and know that patience is one important thing to always practice - no matter the situations you're facing ❤

[@sharonrosemdi1314]

You guys are not fair 😭😭😭100 years not dropping? How do you guys think we survive

[@HopeKhau]

mummy it's tiring indeed to pray about things over and over again ....but lets not forget that we are required without ceasing ,,,,Just Faith it till he makes it ,,,, let's exercise that Faith...of praying and believing even when hosa kopane ,,,,we serve a rewarder we should know that

[@SiphiweKhumaloo]

Finally Guys I think I can't live without you and your podcast

[@octaviamahlatsi2203]

On the subject of God seemingly not addressing those that have wronged us, can we be reminded that God is good. His ways are higher than ours and sometimes we wait to see vengeance but he wants to do something in us through our experiences. Can we instead and praying and supervising him, learn to trust him.

[@CaiahM]

Sheeessh. You’re absolutely right. Thank you for this ❤️

[@ntomboxolosontsonga9608]

I heard you sis. Thank you for sharing. But it's still hard to do. I guess we must also understand we might not see the justice being done. What I took from this is.. it doesn't mean he doesn't teach them their lessons, it just might not always be in public. So the absence of not witnessing it does not mean justice has not been done.

[@octaviamahlatsi2203]

@@ntomboxolosontsonga9608 it is certainly hard, I’m not taking away from that. And you are right God is just.

[@kgomotsomotau7105]

Mpho speaks so much sense!!

[@Anoint_Koki]

We missed you guys😭😫❤. I think you guys don't understand how much we love and appreciate listening to you🥺. I love you guys so much, you are my spiritual sisters and I'm always looking forward to learn a lot from you. I'm sending a lot of hugs and love to show love and appreciation of your work. Trust me when I say, the Koki that I was before this podcast is not the same Koki that I am now, you have no idea of how much you positively impacted my life😭. For the last time, I LOVE THE BOTH OF YOU SO MUCH❤❤❤

[@lebogangshantel6269]

I LOVE HOW YOU COMPLIMENT ONE ANOTHER NCHOOOWWW THAT IS JUST SOOO CUUUTEEE. 🥰🔥🥺❤️

[@Koke_tso]

I think overextending yourself to your partner is also one of the Daddy issues because you sort-of don't know where to stop and you don't know what a man does in a healthy balanced relationship or suppose to do.

[@palesaramo4839]

I realized a lot of my daddy issues based on my one relationship where by the guy was toxic and abusive in an emotional way, I stayed with him for 4 years and he didn’t want a title and he would be controlling and use my daddy issues as a tool to keep me around when I felt I deserved better and more and growing up with a father who was a cheater made me condone it in my relationship but when I finally realized that I had lost myself that’s when I things changed because when he would cheat and make me feel less of my self I would be suicidal sometimes cut myself and when I said enough is enough was when I tried taking my life because he just broke up with me in public with no reason. I made him my everything to a point that my own life didn’t matter but after that I took time to find myself again and find god and I even cut my hair because he always wanted me with long hair so I changed a lot about myself to just find peace and that lead to me finding help from god because in that relationship he drove me far from god and made it seem I was the toxic one because I came from a toxic environment but that doesn’t justify the damage he did to me but it also helped me work on my daddy issues with my dad and god and now I’m just in a better place spiritually and emotionally and in a very healthy relationship with my current partner. But honestly healing from daddy issues takes time and needed a person to self reflect and pray

[@givenmabussi]

I'm really sorry you went through this.❤

[@BECOMING_A_QUEEN]

Bathong please don't give up on God🥺🥺😪

[@justgontse8543]

I really enjoyed this especially the long topic, really learned a lot about myself that I wasn't aware that it has everything to do with daddy issues. But so glad you touched on it, now I know what to work on to better myself. Thank you and keep them episodes coming. Really is my safe space here. ❤

[@itszanisWorld]

This video was so girlie!!! I enjoyed this so much, felt like I was in the room. Oh and God is with you guys despite how this season in life may feel. ❤❤❤

[@unathisihlevilakazi9607]

Not trusting God or not having a relationship with him is a daddy issue. Because your father left you or he is not in your life, you won't be able to see God as a father, which is why many people don't have a good relationship with God 😢❤😢

[@dintlem]

Yohhh We've beeeeeeen waiting yoh

[@galaletsangsejeso4434]

I just wokeup and now seeing you um very happi😢❤❤❤❤❤

[@celinelois6524]

I don’t think I ever thought I had daddy issues bc my father is and has always been in my life but the emotional intimacy isn’t there and I lowkey used to be fearful of him bc I used to get disciplined growing up… but I guess as am getting older I can try to be more emotionally available … but at the same time I want him to open up that door, and then maybe I’ll get comfy? 😂😂 God has been a phenomenal father tho, as always

[@tshepisomabilo8085]

Lol crazy how you can read Caiah's energy. Today she's happier

[@Zinhle_Dubes_Kitchen]

I feel like it's been a whole year since I've seen you guys😢😂 can I be part of the girlies😂😂 honest question how do you get your relationship with God back on track?? Yeah neh being a child of God is not for the weak 😩 I was taught that intimacy is/was s*x from a very young age 😢but as I grew older I realized that intimacy is quality time and taking care of loved ones and myself 🙂that "I'm right neh baby" was really cute we love it for you Mpho 😊😊 Mpho is speaking facts because I used to find older men attractive and unfortunately I still do 🤦 yeah haii this daddy issues topic is a hard and a heavy one for me 🥺I feel so called out by Mpho yoh😂😂 I grow up in an abusive household so I understand why Mphos mom would think the way she does😔 I was taught that s*x was a way of showing love and it's a way to keep my boyfriend happy and a way for him to say with me(I'm a virgin by the way) My way of dealing with my daddy issues is by ignoring the fact that he even exist (it's not healthy I know) 🤦😢 I really enjoyed this episode I love it😊❤

[@katekonkhensani757]

I actually love this part of Mpho❤❤❤❤she's slowly but surely growing on me man

[@T.soso12]

I'm already preparing the step for mummy's wedding 😂❤

[@entertainmentboothofsahip-2182]

😂

[@ChantelNdlovuNdlovu]

Just love how vulnerable the both of you are on camera ❤😊

[@NonkonzoCaji]

My cute babies... Ndinithanda thandiyane sana. Oh nindim sana, the relationship between me and God yimovie sana. Right now asithethi andifuni novanto from him but I know will make up some how. Ngoku Vous and Maverick sound like Gqom akho kwa emotion change sanasi

[@MissP-e4w]

You ladies are so engaging and articulate, you would make incredible teachers.

[@NabukaluCatherine-qt6do]

I love how real you guys are about your relationship with God. And to be honest I'm better because of you guys. Your journey is inspiring me because i never even imagined that one would angry with God but you guys make it make sense you know🤔keep sharing because we love it and love you guys🥰

[@youalreadyknowwhoitizzzz]

I'm loving the growth of this podcast ❤

[@LeticiaMosele-km9me]

I really love this podcast 😢❤very educational ❤

[@tlhalefontoe7238]

Am so thankful that mommy dearest found her better half and she's happy❤🎉

[@rosemah]

The piercings are looking great Caiah! 😍

[@katli.m1277]

You ladies are doing great, keep up the good work. ❤

[@moithekimatyeni]

Mpho Is A Smart Girl Man! This Combo Just Works Perfectlyyy!❤

[@mydadis.ahustler]

I missed you guys 🥺🥺

[@sydmcdee]

I am so angry.. I don't even wanna watch the episode, I don't wanna get attached again😭

[@Vepuuuu]

😭😭😭

[@crystal_b9135]

I LOVE THIS PODCAST JOH😩

[@Growing_In_Grace_]

Wow, Mommy Knowledge is what you have❤🙌🙌.. I just love you..

[@Ester-m8o5b]

Makes me happy to see the girlies inlove and happy man! oumar is doing justice hey ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@kamogelothabethe7995]

i had to go through exams without you guys😔

[@phiwe33]

Broo same😭

[@Botse.m]

I nearly died 😂😂

[@MammiDearest]

I’m still within examinations 😭😭😭I’m commenting while sitting in an exam venue. But we are truly sorry 😭🙏

[@SomeoneFirst-ef5op]

@@MammiDearest atleast you apologized😭 never again please

[@EllenMsutu]

❤

[@Jt_Zaire]

After a long wait 😢😢

[@empoNN88empoNN88]

mind blowing and eye opening content ladies- ✨✨AS ALWAYS ✨✨🌸🌸

[@its_marmo]

Wehhh... not me relating to being Thanos. "Collecting infinity stones," they said 😢

[@nomcebonxumalo9285]

you're both so intelligent !

[@lungelontobeko2185]

I'm definitely growing fonder of Mpho❤❤ and your skin girl? Such a goddess

[@phographyandlife9932]

I don't wanna lie the daddy issues chat got me

[@keneilwethekiso4250]

May God bless you Mami & Caiah, you guys are amazing! 😇❤️

[@HawaBuhle-kj1vi]

Missed you guys and caiah you're so gorgeous my dear😩❤️

[@mphorakodi7347]

This episode shuu!! 😪🔥🔥 Absolutely love you guys!

[@lydiangobeni9117]

Y’all did us dirty 😭😭😭 Kunini Finally

[@hazelmabuza806]

I love you girls.. keep up the good work you doing

[@OmolemoMarole]

I've been waiting now my phone is low but thanks for the episode❤🎉😂can't wait to watch

[@Lefa-MH]

I wish this episode was 2 hours long❤ great conversations with two beautiful women😊

[@MsMtshali]

" Give God a chance" Saana he's a pastor and he left us for another family. God is always on his side hayibo iright hand man kaThixo leya🤣😭😭😭

[@Pink_sparkly22]

My girls are gone girlies and I love that for them.😍😍🥺

[@Botse.m]

Wow y'all should double or triple upload because we were left for so long 😢

[@eddysweets]

Guys God's relationship is too deep and its tough its a lot that it will take from you to be in that relationship. Its not an easy road

[@Lethu.N]

It's not easy but it's so worth it

[@eddysweets]

@@Lethu.N so true, im talking from experience. If you're willing to be a true child of god you need to know that you're going to be challenged by the devil in every way possible. Your life wont be easy or normal. So these ladies i see their challenges already, they are being distracted by relationships. And the devil uses that as his best tool to keep you impure. And you'll be rounding in cycles in 1 place.

[@onalennamosimanewatshipi9233]

I can so much relate with u guys it is not making sure in this journey with Jesus,for now am just holding on to the WORD 😂😂. The way u that u thought you needed to go in life, God says, “ I am the one who got you. I know the way that u need , follow me” nd am here like but I don’t see the road 😅where is the light ? ……ok am the light but where do I shed light on . too many questions nd yet small faith but one thing I know is God may give u a dream ,more often than not, it is not going to materialize the way that u want it to, but it will be something better 😌

[@tracy3252]

Mpho is smart hey the maths questions😭

[@AKHONANDLOVU-ic8ey]

Caiah M you African Goddess!!! I have seen beauty before, but this??? It's a discovery mamaaaa❤❤❤

[@zee_m778]

I'm so happy ya'll uploaded I'm crying real tears 🥺😭❤️

[@zethufasi3699]

I’ve been waiting , but thank you for this episode❤❤❤

[@WalinaseWakisaMumba]

The editor forgot to do the sparkling effects on the topics 🥹😭😭😭

[@YolandaNogwane-qb1me]

I was expecting the sparkling effects too😭

[@WalinaseWakisaMumba]

@@YolandaNogwane-qb1me 😭🥹

[@dintlem]

We thank you , 2 weeks is nie pap n vleis❤

[@Botse.m]

My suggestions (some are already suggested) Coffenomilk Peachysprinkles Dima(Seemahs friend) Jessica Mashaba Yanda woods Lethabo Mekoaa

[@asavelamavika1591]

The mjolo air in the podcast 😍♥️

[@NolwaziSibiya_]

Mpho is gone gone🔥😂😂

[@charllottembhele1492]

😂😂😂 yey uhambile

[@ofentsemaleka9346]

i dont know what that outro song is mara i always go iyehheeee iyehheeeeeeee after the girls are done cooking the episodes.

[@PinkCodePlayground]

😭🤚🏽was on Spotify now I’m here. Missed you guys

[@Thomasma-s9n]

As the girlies ideas Tumi molomo(obviously) Jayda king Neo rapetsoa Siyamthanda ndamase Clarissa Ntsei sky Yanda woods

[@Thomasma-s9n]

Tumi moliko*( damn auto correct 😭😭)

[@CRUNCHY_CLAY]

Lerai and Minenhle Langa ❤️

[@cameroncharlie326]

profound episode ladies♥💯!

[@Letho.07]

Yalls eps slap!!

[@AKHONANDLOVU-ic8ey]

That "Bob the builder" by Mpho😭😭

[@khutsonkomo]

🪳 Love how gorgeous you guys looked with your natural hairs out.🫶🏽 I'm a natural girlie myself and love love love the hair Caiah🤭

[@tracy3252]

Baxbara would be perfect for Asthegirlies❤

[@tshegofatsomoloto3632]

Men make us so happy as women if we are truly being honest 🥹😭😩🥹🥹🥹🥹👍🏽🧍🏽‍♀️😂🏃🏽‍♀️

[@kgomotsomotau7105]

Damn! The angry at God convo? So real😢

[@ooooohhww]

Ntsei Sky would be great 😊

[@snorathegal]

God loves you guys❤don't ever stop praying It's more about your heart than it is about anything.God listens to your heart, when you submit yourself to him you come as you are and you genuinely stop living for the world, you genuinely give it all up for the right path (it's not easy hence why you guys feel all overwhelmed and ready to give up) sometimes it's when you feel the pressure of giving up, when He actually has the biggest blessing for you Athi "Those who seek me and who seek me with all their heart shall find me" Jeremiah 29:13❤ So come to the Lord as you are and let go of the worldly desires ❤ God has your back, He is a Faithful God, a Promise Keeper. Stand firm in his Word always. "The sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared to the Glory that is yet to be revealed in us" ~ Romans 8:18❤

[@snenhlanhlamashile6398]

Mpho is right on that Accounting thing bruh. I'm currently working and I had to learn at work ukuthi baby not all textbook formulas work you have to understand what you're tryna solve and come up with you own formulas, it stretches the mind but also ya we just use a calculator, I suck at math bro yho😂 cause I'm use my excel or calculator calculating for me 😂

[@moatlie]

Yoh finalllly!!!!!😭💕

[@kehindealonge5446]

Mpho natural beauty 😍😍

[@boniswaelsie4062]

Caiah you look so beautiful today!😭♥️😍

[@karabodikobe]

I have all the daddy issues and they showed up in basically all the ways except for dating older men, I would instead prefer to date younger men because at least if I'm older there is a semblence of control. I can leave first, I am in control. But I also have a huge mommy wound. And both those wounds have resulted in me performing for love in all kinds of relationship, platonic, familial, romantic, at work. It's tough and I'm tired. So ey, pray for me. I think my best bet rn is God. I have tried other things and atleast with the Holy Spirit, he can bare the load for me.

[@libraaima]

Volunteering🙋🏽‍♀️ to join as the girlies😂 free membership

[@Botse.m]

Haibo 😂😂

[@YangaKhetsekile]

Loved this episode ♥️