Feeling LOST in your 20s? Advice I wish I had..

I had no direction in my 20s now I'm almost 40 and here's what I wish I knew back then.
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[@metalelf2000]

The one thing that demotivates me the most is the voice in my head that tells me "even when you get there, you still won't be happy, so why bother putting in the effort anyway"

[@ryanbryancyan]

I learned this from Dr. Scott Eilers here on KZbin… If you don’t feel happy either way, why not just do the healthier option?

[@ColdBaltBlue]

Happiness is different from contentment. Happiness is a temporary and fleeting feeling we get from accomplishing a short term goal, whereas contentment is being able to live with the choices you’ve made and feel fulfilled going down the path you’re going down. The ticking of life’s clock makes you feel like you have to do everything all at once, but that impossible in a lifetime.

[@user-ei8ht9cs9l]

Find your purpose . Prayers and meditation.

[@lepancho8122]

@@ryanbryancyanbecause the less healthier option is easier.

[@ctrodriguez111ent]

Its about the journey not the destination

[@hunterbergman9048]

Im 23. 2 years off meth. I'm not interested in coding or being at a computer much at all BUT your content is still super relatable as I try to become a nurse.

[@__Shun]

im trying to become a lawyer,good luck bro

[@optimusmaximus56]

Congratulations stay of it.

[@JohnStockton7459]

Congrats on staying sober, its never easy

[@jacquelinevigil2951]

Good job 👏 2 years is an amazing achievement- keep going !

[@slayer2608]

I’m last year biomed but I now suffering from mental illness and I’m failing my last year. And if I fail I resit but I get capped at 40% in the uk making my degree almost useless for what I want my life currently sucks but it is what it is. I know meth ain’t the same but your not the only one whose having a bad time so good to know your not alone

[@PrincipitoCuler17]

21 here, didn’t go to college but seeing all my high school mates going to college and already graduating or other friends that didn’t go to college knowing what they want being the same age as me does something to me and feels pretty shitty. I was directionless up until late February of 24, gonna finally start doing what I think is best for me. Let’s see where life takes me by the end of the year. Good luck to you all out there, you’ll find your path just keep pushing through. May God bless you all

[@Dee_Dee794]

I am twenty one as well! I took the college route & still feel lost. I am glad youu are taking steps for change. I am doing the same since my recent break up & also found a career that I believe I will enjoy 🥰. Good luck, youu got this, & God has youu 💗.

[@PrincipitoCuler17]

@@Dee_Dee794 oh wow I’m also going through a recently break up at the start of the year. Glad to hear you found something for yourself. Good luck to you on your career journey

[@swaveknight]

Im 20, dropped out of highschool when I was 17 but honestly that doesn’t matter because I have a clear vision of what I’m going to do in the future. God lives within you. You are God. And as long as you put in the work and manifest, you’ll attract anything you want. I’m already living the life I want even tho I don’t have it rn. It’s the feeling of having it, it’s what’s going to help attract the life you want.

[@andrea-gp8qv]

i'm 21 and i've always wanted to be an artist and a musician. i didnt go to college. right after high school, during the pandemic, my dad started getting sick due to parkinson's. i was at home working and saving money, and 3 1/2 years of this went by. during this time i watched my parents' dynamic more closely and realized my dad was very controlling and manipulative. in the middle of it we moved states and i was hundreds of miles away from my friends that were helping me through it. i just watched him get worse and watched my parents make each other miserable, and had no hope for myself or my family. now my parents are divorced and my dad's in an assisted living home with professional carers, and it's just me, my mom, and my little sister at home. i feel like my head's still spinning from all of it and i compare myself to my friends graduating college and i feel so behind. i'm also just now learning how to drive and that's been challenging. i feel like every day's just a stumble in the dark. it's nice to read your comment and remember that i'm not the only one feeling this way, and i admire your resolve to make a change. i wish you the best, this will be a better year for both of us :)

[@PrincipitoCuler17]

@@swaveknight I wish you the best in your future, I’m glad you found what’s best for you and I hope you succeed in life!

[@yasminessam6899]

I wasted a lot of my 20th working and working and working it didn't get me anywhere, single, no career , living with my parents

[@firemontana1284]

Ur fucked

[@stevenratton6032]

I’m going through this exact same thing rn

[@yasminessam6899]

@stevenratton6032 I'm sorry to hear that. Someone told me that maybe i will bloom in my 30th ! I hope you do too. May Allah guide us to the right path 🙏

[@rogermoore3991]

Im in the same situation. I can guarantee your priorities have been wrong. You didnt save, you gambled your money away, drank them away, smoked them away etc. Am i right?

[@yasminessam6899]

@rogermoore3991 wrong , I gave it to my family because they are in need ! I'm a Muslim i don't do these kind of sins ! I just happened to be born in a house without a supporting father. Also, I'm in a third-world country where you have to work your ass off in a call center for 300 dollars a month . And I'm unable to find a partner who can help . It's just destiny

[@victorantonio9819]

Never thought I'd be getting life advice from johnny sims

[@Chris40112]

Bro😂😂😂😂😂

[@dgelo3816]

😂😂😂😂

[@SouzaGualter]

damn🤣

[@VertexTB]

This is the whole idea of being comfortable with being uncomfortable. If you make sure to step out your comfort zone every day, doing so will give you satisfaction and in the end build a resilience towards the uncomfortableness, often times small things can translate to some of the biggest moves in the future. If you get used to stepping out your comfort zone and you get used to failing it will only make doing new things that much easier and that much more beneficial for you. I try to tell my ‘anti social’ friends that its possible no matter who or what you claim you are , go out and step out your comfort zone even if its just saying hi to a crush.

[@JonasXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX]

Im 26, was an opioid and heroin addict for 7 Years. Clean since 1,5 years and Fullstack Spring Boot Developer since 7 Months. But still struggle with relapses every few months and still not feeling "healed". But there is no other direction than to keep fighting for me.

[@epicgamer0007]

God bless you I'll pray for you tonight

[@A_Good_Boy.]

god bless you sir

[@imdurgesh9430]

How do you feel now, sir?

[@JonasXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX]

@@imdurgesh9430 Its getting better slowly everyday. I think a new Hobby I am passionate about helps also lot

[@nathanokolo940]

Try one more thing bro. Try Jesus bro. Try him for a month. Your life will change after. How? Just get the Bible app, read the book of Romans in the msg translation. Only read one verse a day. Sit and ponder on what you’ve read when you are done. I promise your life will change.

[@4BCJesus]

I'm 35 years old and just started an apprenticeship in mechanical engineering.

[@TherealBigblue22]

I didn’t know you could do that, like no college required?

[@4BCJesus]

@@TherealBigblue22It's a training scheme, so I go to college once per week, which for me will be a Friday. The other 4 days I work for a company. You just need to accept that you will be on bad money for at least the first year and then from the second year on, at least in the UK you are entitled to national living wage for your age group, so not too bad.

[@TherealBigblue22]

@@4BCJesus yeah that’s pretty slick learn and work and learn working not bad

[@zwalker2000]

@@4BCJesus I'm in the U.K. too, could you please provide some more info on where to find these types of schemes?

[@4BCJesus]

@@zwalker2000 www.gov.uk/apply-apprenticeship Or go into your local college and have a look at their apprenticeships. Get yourself signed up to your college and have your name down for apprenticeships, go to their open evenings and meet people and talk to people there, they will help too. They will contact you and see if you are interested when they become available. Depending on your age, it might take a year or 2 to find one. That Gov site is very good though. My advice would be to fire off CVs to people, fill in the forms and maybe try and get the companies number and ring them. Good luck.

[@highwayboyjon9517]

24. Barely getting my shit together. Got into a good music school (first semester) and I want to be a teacher and conductor. Studying with a famous opera singer. At 18 I had no idea what the hell I wanted to do. I never had guidance. Most of my teachers said I’d be a loser. Sometimes I feel so lost and discouraged but things take time. I’m also 4 hours away from all my family and friends for the first time living on my own. It sucks and it’s scary but I’m here for a reason.

[@XDrunkenPandaX]

You're going to go down a deep and dark path trying to pursue music lmao. You'll have to learn the hard way when no one's hiring for your ideal job.

[@sablesasquatchproductions6395]

dont listen to drunken panda, if you work towards your goal without stopping and stick to it you'll make big achievements, the key is to not give up.

[@highwayboyjon9517]

@@XDrunkenPandaX I said I wanted to be a teacher right? In my state they’re paid more than normal teachers even in the small towns and yes there’s openings.

[@XDrunkenPandaX]

@@highwayboyjon9517 regular teacher sure, there are alot of jobs. music teacher? No chance lmao

[@highwayboyjon9517]

@@XDrunkenPandaX you’re not in the music world so your opinion is useless.

[@user-sf5iq2fl1l]

my advice at 31 is get living, dont rot in one place if you're doing so

[@Riverburke8170]

Thank you

[@bruhhh_4203]

As a 31 year old… great advice. Thank you.

[@Dtrader671]

Where to go what to do?

[@xbinzur6956]

@@Dtrader671anything stop looking for answers go fuckin find em!!! Get out there

[@ryvcy]

I'm 21, I live in Ukraine. My own counrty locked me inside its borders. I received an internship abroad, but couldn't cross the border for obvious reasons. Sucks so much. I wish i could get living but i just can't right now

[@JayStepperTTV]

I’m 26. this month makes it a year of being out of prison. Went in when I was 23. lost a lot of hope in achieving my goals. Lies were put against me and the justice system failed to see my innocence. recently I regained hope learning from the experience. I learned you have to play the cards you are dealt, smart. love your videos. They are really inspiring.

[@PalpusThoughts]

27 and directionless would be the title to my autobiography 🤣 Even tho I have some great great qualities, its so easy to feel far behind in life, thank you :)

[@ChokoBigdawgg]

Agreed same boat

[@prodbycapri3081]

there's no such thing as being far behind if you're trying to figure things out along the way, keep your chin up brother.

[@ItsPerennial]

Same here. 27 male, currently planning to start school for IT or HVAC so I can get my life started

[@realcapper1235]

Best thing is your not starving

[@mariokartking7105]

21 with no job, no friends, no driving experience, dropout, and struggling with physical & mental issues… but yet everyday as i bed rot at home all day i always imagine how my life could be in the next 5 years like im self awareness that right now given my living situation that this is the perfect time to start my own life by slowly learning how to drive, getting a car, finding a stable job, meeting new people, and just earning my freedom to do what i always imagined but… the fear of taking risk and having to take more responsibilities scares me like im always overthinking the negatives and i know it’s myself holding myself back…! like deep down inside the real me knows if i take those risk it will be beneficial in the long run even if it’s bumpy the whole way and i know it’s true since i already experienced certain life events and succeeding for a bit! thank you for this message and it just verifies the real self inside of me that im always ignoring, now i know for sure that i should take more risk and even if i fall down i can always recover quickly since im young and have so much free time on my hands

[@luvvreni]

I’m the same age as you and I also don’t have friends or my drivers license. I used to be so scared to drive, but I’m slowly getting over it. You got this :)

[@jsunn315]

I'm 27 in an Eastern European homeless shelter. I'm lucky to have internet and a phone. At 22 I was an intern in a tech company as a frontend dev. It doesn't work out for everybody. I tried and grinded for 3 years to make it, ended up addicted on amphetamine and MDMA to be able to study as much as I can to catch up to the real programmers and it ruined my life. I'm not that guy who study every stack and uni sh!t, grit isn't enough, this is the truth. You are talented and an entrepenuer inside. I could never record my face giving advice or start a company. I suck at business and wages here are so low you just can't make ends meet alone by yourself. I lost my passion after realizing the soul sucking reality of the corporate cubicle work, paired with their greed to manipulate you into doing 3 positions for the wage for 1. I wish others to achieve their IT dream, but I'm one of those self made devs who silently failed.

[@cowboyup6744]

You have so much of your life left to live. It's not failure unless you give up. You can still make it, don't give up.

[@jsunn315]

@@cowboyup6744 Thank you for the encouragement, I genuinely glad I have some in these tough times. I may give up on webdev, but not on life itself. I don't have what it takes. If I did, in these past 5 years I should have been achieved my goal. Have a nice day!

[@nhatan2511]

may I ask what's your plan for the future might be?

[@cowboyup6744]

@@nhatan2511 Survive the coming economic collapse in th west

[@nhatan2511]

fair@@cowboyup6744

[@joryiansmith]

Thank you for sharing this man 🙏 Have grit and don't give up on yourself, amen 🔥

[@orion6764]

Thanks for the advice on hard work and risk taking!

[@richardchen1717]

Thanks for your honesty and authenticity Dorian!

[@nayru8385]

mid 20s been watching your vids for a little while now. I am similar to you in the sense I am a HS dropout and grew up in a unfortunate household. these videos are very valuable.

[@FrizzDaDrizz]

I’m not really one to comment under KZbin videos, but I wanted to take the liberty to pay my regards to your efforts. I somehow connect with every single word you convey, which gives me a sense of sincerity coming from your side. It feels like you’re an older brother who genuinely wants good for us. Thank you.

[@JpDubbed]

Love this! Thank you Dorian 💙👊

[@OffTheTopNews]

THIS WAS THE TYPE OF VIDEO I NEED AT A PERFECT TIME THANK YOU

[@jovanygaytan1153]

Brother, I’m 24 years old, and I feel so alone and scared of life at times. There days when I feel highly motivated, and my actions reflect that and I accomplish things and behave in ways that I’m proud of, but the uncertainty of the consequences of my behaviors always frightens me, the questioning if “am i on the right path?” But hearing your story really puts into perspective that action with the intent of learning and growth is always greater than inaction. And to act and fail is better than to not have acted at all. Thank you for this video. I can’t say I’ll never feel down, alone or scared again, but this video pushed me a step further today. Thank you.

[@johnnyjay3255]

25 years old. Just lost my job. I have 2 college degrees but yet I feel like a failure. So much I want to do, and that I know I can do. But it’s just hard for me right now.

[@tastyanthoney]

do what you can

[@millerrepin4452]

Stop caring so much. Ask yourself what is the lifestyle you need to have to be your ideal self. Just act towards that goal. Luck is preparedness plus opportunity. You will be ready when the situation arises.

[@jonathan.watson]

It was about 30 for me, but then unfortunately was injured quite badly and spent first half of 30's in a not so great state. I then learned to code and just landed software gig and now I guess i'm finally getting things in order.

[@urilou777]

Excellent framing, very relatable.

[@elianmartinez8632]

Man I’m grateful for finding your channel I’m 24 and feel like you’re the older brother I’ve never had

[@BenJohnston21]

I went out to Kansas when I was 20 to learn some DIY skills and when I came back to Colorado I started a new business using the skills I learned at that job working for a family friend.

[@user-kd9of5pe9m]

this video is honestly what i needed to hear thank you

[@mattmatt7998]

I'm 29. And this video was GOLD

[@alexnrandom7106]

This hit me hard. Thank you for making this video.

[@dary9807]

Thank you. I hope to come back after a while and thank you again. I needed that badly, your sincere brother from Kuwait

[@Monikareels]

Thank you I am 20 year old in early 20s one precious thing I learn from a video is my cost of failure is nothing so I must do whatever I never had done and explore different different branches of life tree

[@user-xe8ug9li7n]

Seriously man THANK YOU for this advise this is really helping me clear up my mind

[@Alex.Shalda]

Thank you Dorian, you are amazing

[@real_sancho.zw2]

22 and I'm watching this.

[@WhyWorryUrOnwMistakes]

It's all good Sancho u ain't alone either doing drugs is not a best opinion to make it ur hobby cuz that's what am going thru

[@idealysss]

I didnt know what to major in university nothing seemed interesting so i majored in business administration cuz its good to know those things

[@tilin9658]

Im 19 and really dont know how 2 get my money up rn i left my old friendships Who hold me Back i was feeling Directionless now i thanks 2 this video i feel more confident

[@moonriversou]

I'm turning 22 this year and feel so lost sometimes.

[@LonelyxTony]

21 but I'ma be 22 soon 😳

[@Kamicazebr]

It's all about that! Take the risks to live a life better!

[@biarosalina]

I appreciate this man and everyone in the comments willing to share. You realize you’re not alone, some people struggle earlier in life and later. I’m 29 I’ve been saying I was 30 since I was 27 because I felt like it was a mile stone and in severe decline it just felt like a blur that I really messed up the cut off. You get this idea that you are the only one you’re just not. Everything is figure out able. You may have doubts again in the future that’s ok. Keep pressing like a mantra.

[@theoutlier7673]

Thanks for the advice 💪🔥

[@Corthespiritualrockstar]

Wow. A video that actually adds value that isn’t just trying to sell me something? A video that offers advice I can actually implement the second after watching? I can’t believe it! Thank you sir!

[@maxdorian00]

Thank you s much for your videos. Even if you cant see it, you really do help people Dorian!

[@spisq]

I’m 21 and this really motivated me to push harder, love the content bro

[@user-wh6fw2id9n]

28 and directionless.

[@DorianDevelops]

You still have time!

[@rakib17874]

Same😂😂😂

[@isorozco511]

Try being 30. I have some direction but i think i got work to do. I dont think that feeling ever goes completely away

[@mesmeroot9]

Same

[@huiliyang6783]

Same

[@yd5708]

this video means a lot to me.thank you very much❤

[@tree8059]

This video changed my life man seriously, I truly, truly appreciate this. I’ve spent my whole life doing the bare minimum, just enough not to be at the very bottom. From now on I’m giving everything I mean everything I try to do 150%.

[@W0lfytzu]

Interesting life story and good advice!

[@robyn_southafrica]

29 and hella directionless 🙈 but I'm breathing, taking life day but day and trying not to fxck up my life any further. Great advice though, thanks Dorian!!

[@celeste2329]

this is really great and helpful, 21 trying to figure out how do to all the things I want. thanks so much

[@TherealBigblue22]

24 here, do things anything but do not stay stagnant hop job learn new things and quit when you stop benefiting and stop learning when you feel stuck upgrade. Since I was 15 I’ve worked and only switched jobs when I found better pay and only took a pay cut when I wanted the experience and knowledge that came with the new job but whatever you do never get stuck learn enough about money read books I’m 24 and spent all that time not knowing what I wanted out of a career but had a burning desire to be financially wealthy and able to provide for those who have provided for me. At 24 I’ve learned all I needed to upgrade to the biggest leap yet and got the balls to risk it on a valuable skill I believe will let me run my future full throttle. Truth is never stop figuring it out you’ll never figure it out but that’s the trick your always finding the new way forward is the way to go keep moving never stay still never get stuck

[@bluelagoon5]

Very valuable insight, subscribed!

[@luvvreni]

i really needed to hear “you either win or you learn”. it’s a great change of perspective. instead of losing, you learn something new. thank you!

[@drac.96]

This video is very inspiring and motivational for me. Thank you, and God bless Dorian!

[@dssisel]

Thanks a lot, was much needed. Right now 21 but feeling like everything is going downhill

[@millerrepin4452]

don't worry it can always get worse. As you get older things like your health will get worse. People's belief that you can change and improve will be lost. Employers look for young people not older people. Your time to build interest is lost when you're older.

[@DevTent]

"Thank you for sharing your life story and your experiences! I've gained some insights for myself.

[@ismaelidrissi5036]

Youre the older brother i never had thanks for this video im 23 years old still lost this kind of guided me

[@BenJohnston21]

30 years old here and still rent, no wife or girlfriend, no kids, no degree (but have 3 certificates from community college in IT), and don't have a job at the moment. Hoping that by 38 I finished my degree, have a girlfriend/fiance/wife, have a good job, and own a house. Also, I've worked a bunch of minimum-wage jobs between 17 and now. In Colorado, luckily, the minimum wage went up to $13 an hour, but not everywhere has that luxury.

[@lj9970]

Hello, Do you still live in Colorado do you like the state still do you live there?

[@BenJohnston21]

@@lj9970 yes i still live here though the jacked up prices of literally everything here is making me consider moving to another state. i love the views here but not the people really.

[@hoomancrasher]

Thank you for this video, this helps me clears out my mind.

[@Amoursierra_]

I just turned 24 this month and this is exactly how I feel. Been in a panic and stress because I feel like I’m Running out of time. All I do is go to work and home, that’s it. No friends , no relationship , no sense of direction on what I wanna do with my life. Feel like I’m so behind

[@Neversink47]

In the same boat bro :/ shit sucks

[@bestoffamilyguy7611]

19 years old here and I have always felt much older. Now it feels like I want to go to the next stage in my life which is getting out of the house and building something for myself and my girlfriend. Just to realise I am at my first year of studying and still have multiple years to go. Just feeling stuck in life rn, trying to just stay fit by going to the gym almost every day and really trying to get off of my nicotine addiction and drinking/smoking weed habits. While at the same time you gotta enjoy life right? Hope things will get better and I will start to enjoy the basics of life (again) Thx for reading have a wonderful day🤙

[@Diilent]

I pray we all accomplish what we want to , Godspeed ❤

[@gregoryabbatiello8227]

28 in the exact same position he said, just now starting to get my shit together and actually trying to do better, I've always had dreams and goals in music but was always a heavy procrastinator and anxious about it, and spent a lot of my early 20s drinking, doing drugs and trying too hard to live in the moment, thinking I was working on my future when I really stalemated myself, I need to hear all of this

[@netoxuka208]

Thanks for the words man

[@hotMAGA123456]

Wow. This video is very informative. Subscribed

[@abelthaboskhumbe6418]

you are going to be a positive change in my life,just two videos already i see myself in you...personality traits

[@Joeekralc]

Dorian Develops you beautiful bastard. I am 19 and I feel directionless. I dropped out of university and lost my job and was unemployed for a while. I recently started working again which is good but I'm not earning enough and I just feel like garbage almost all the time because I know I could have done better. My goal is to work in IT in some capacity because I love computers and most of all I love software. I would love to help people with software problems, whether it is physically walking to their computer and fixing the problem for them, or what ever it may be. I just want to get in to IT so bad and this video has helped me so much. I will forever be grateful for the words of wisdom man because I finally found my drive for greatness. I will make something out of myself I promise.

[@joshgarca17]

Messing up early might be a blessing in disguise! Just learn & grow as much as you can and you’ll get a head start bro. I’m 23, gonna be finishing university by the end of the year & sometimes I wish I had dropped out around 19 to start pursuing something I was more passionate about. I’m confident able to land a decent job with my BA. Look into product management & quality assurance, super lucrative fields that you get into it with cheap course certifications / self-taught KZbin knowledge instead of a degree. They work in the software field too

[@Kirbypher.]

I always knew I was holding myself back. I wouldn’t get a girlfriend because I already imagined the rejection in my mind, I wouldn’t take school seriously, instead of using gaming as a hobby I used it as an escape to ignore my responsibilities. I’m getting better, and I’m glad to see that I’m not the only one. I’m still young (21) I got plenty of time. This video is very inspiring, helps me push forward. Thank you.

[@TxLoneStar817]

29… I’ll be 30 this month. Don’t let the past make you!! Just live and learn brothers!!! I’m finally starting my career and on a great path making more money and networking with amazing ppl!

[@peppercornfury]

I’m in my 40s. My 20s were confused and poor. Of course now I’m wishing I had started investing in the S&P. I would have retired by now.

[@evb2065]

What’s s&p

[@chriistiinaaaa]

im 26. i barely remembered my teenage years or my twenties. all i knew is that i never had a parent who stuck with me or guided me. i always did dumb shit going out late at night, smoking weed and drinking while playing video games. didnt go to college or uni but graduated high school. i always moved provinces and houses. now i feel stuck and forced in life and scared cause i have no direction in life or goal. i basically been living with the flow and trying things out in life see what opportunities are there for me at this moment. but i just still feel stuck. im glad i stopped by and saw this video. ❤❤❤❤

[@dennisCD93811]

Great video!!

[@varelia4]

thank you so mutch! ❣

[@alexeonbel4304]

Thank you. I appreciate this.

[@user-nj4hf8kz5z]

I’m 23, and I’m just starting my journey. I, like a lot of you I assume, am highly competitive which also means I compare myself and base my success on everyone around me, which I believe is a bad thing (comparison is the thief of joy). But, if you think how I do and are always comparing yourself to others, think of it this way: me watching this video gives me miles in front of alot of other 23 yo. Same if you’re 25, 26, 28, the point is the fact that you are CONSCIOUS that you don’t have much time even tho in reality we have more than most, already puts you in a much better place compared to if you WEREN’T aware of your time. Keep grinding and take it one day at a time, be present and don’t overthink it 🙏

[@awesomenessbruh1331]

This video really calmed my nerves to stay focused, I felt like I wasted 3 years of my life and money on something that’s not even beneficial for me in long term. But I’m back on track and moving towards great things but I’m impatient about the success that’s in the future😭

[@00MagicMatt]

I’m 32 years of age and I just started going back to school to study for Cyber Security and get my bachelor’s. I’ve been stuck truck driving for 10 years jumping companies. It’s enough to pay my bills and live on my own in a small apartment.

[@dalilah444_]

Thank you for this. Sometimes I am my worst enemy.

[@paulwyland2926]

Hey man I appreciate the advice. I'm 26 going on 27 and I have felt this way for a while now. A lot of people on my Facebook have nice cars, good jobs and are married with kids. But I know that's all subjective. I tried real estate but got screwed over by the guy I was working with in December. And buying and selling cars which I'm going to start doing again soon. With rising inflation and the taxes going up it's been rough out here. I just don't know what to do anymore.

[@BluEyedRaven]

I loved the guy-with-the-trucks story because it hits VERY close to home. I had a friend who similarly was one year older than me and it looked like he was 3x as successful as I was. The worst part is that he would show up and tell me about how well he did in a random videogame. He literally beat me both in the virtual and in the real world.

[@presidualist4587]

Reminds me of the movie tron lol

[@mikearchangel7998]

25. Im just gonna do this here because I know I'll just forget or give an excuse later. I'd like to better figure out how to unite my various friend groups and aquaintces. Id like to better my language skills in spanish and Portuguese. Speaking of study I like to learn a trade I thought I cared which but now not so much. And I love music and drawing and like to better incorporate them in my daily life because I'll draw or play my guitar just whenever. It feels like a lot to me all these things i feel are a result of me giving more excuses rather than drive to do or just do. I know I can with my better relationship with exercise so all this is possible. I appreciate this video. Subbed.

[@jordyntapley9507]

I needed this thank you

[@guwedawwe2370]

That's exactly what i needed to hear

[@user-lz9zm5ke2z]

18:50 I’m 21 and what I’ve learned is that you can do whatever it is you want to you literally have to set your mind on “it” and nothing else should matter more to you thank progress towards that goal

[@lowlifesinner9278]

21 here and I love this video. Thanks for the advice,

[@karem_darwesh]

In Americhha !!! You were one of my favs

[@ledabell2783]

I'm a 27 year old women and unfortunately in the times where I know I have to get my shit together, I suffer from great depression & PTSD. Everything I have started, I didn't finish. I worked as a DJ, event manager, booker, audio book speaker, dancer.... Finding myself today falling for flowers. God help me to stick with something. Discipline, continuity and resilience are traits that are so hard to learn when it is a very strange thing to you.

[@jordynbateman8441]

27 and can relate ❤

[@warmdatastudio]

turning 30, I can relate, too!

[@morkoblooper7991]

The only thing I wish is for things to be a lot cheaper and my life would be fine and happy

[@kevincamaro458]

Thank you I needed to see this video. I have my own business but I feel like it just pays the bills and I am jumping into e-commerce in hopes of just having a second source of income I am learning everything myself since course are 5k and I feel like I am not going anywhere with my business and this e-commerce. I have been having the feeling of giving up and just get a regular job but I have always tell myself just keep pushing but yet I feel like I am wasting my time trying for something I had already failed at just haven’t came into realization I hope I am not making a mistake by continuing and I apologize for my poor punctuation. Thank you for this video I will return to this comment in a couple months I pray everything works out. And for anyone reading this I hope you find some wisdom in this video.

[@yoada4387]

Thanks for the video especially after crying in the shower feeling lost in life

[@kainickname]

hang in there :) how are you doing?

[@haster2045]

love ya from Poland

[@jaxxtenmarkko8489]

One thing I heard from a mail lady when I went to the post office that stuck with me “you have to be young and dumb so you can become old and wise” like he said you aren’t failing if you learned something

[@gregtheflyingwhale6480]

As a 24 year old who finished a really good university in Netherlands, I was worried that university is a waste of time and that the earlier I begin learning actual skills, the better... It turned out almost completely true, as after graduating this september I still can't find a job and will start learning something else online... Don't regret going to uni but regret doing the wrong course

[@gregorgailan2849]

I am 18, was heavily into drugs when i was 15-16 and now i already feel like i am slowly running out of time because life is just staying still, it is not going in any direction i feel like i am still stuck in that time period altough i have fixed up my life a quite a lot, found a job started working out a lot to getrid of the pent up anger moved out got a girl, but still felt stuck but thank you for the video ut gave me some insight in to what i should do

[@blxxdbvrn]

I’m 21, I’m trying to succeed as much as possible in many areas. I even try my hardest to be the best person I could be even though I fuck up with relationships. Thanks for the video 🙏🏽

[@charlesyeo452]

Amazing stuff.

[@thatkid_derrick-3127]

19 . Really good video gave me really good insight

[@tajzhlawi7680]

Thank a million ❤

[@enmanueltm]

Everything you were talking about reminds me of ‘Antifragile’ by Nassim Taleb

[@masonchase085]

The first 30 seconds was already helping fr

[@LOCOKENZ]

this man motivated me (a smoker of 8 years) to finally quit weed. He earned a new fan - a new subscriber.

[@mollymonster9728]

This is wut gives me sm anxiety...."u have time" I'm 23 now but I keep hearing ppl tell me that as tho there's a certain age where it's too late and life ends. I want to believe u can try and do anything at any age. Rn I'm pursuing music and yoga teaching.....but I have so many other passions

[@praisechriss4126]

THANKS-----I-AM-GRATEFUL

[@jray569]

I needed this. I broke down crying earlier since I’ve been unemployed for about 2 months and for the 2nd time since I got fired from my last job. I’ve been 2 years out of college and lot of things I tried they didn’t work and I still have no idea what to do as a career. But I’m still trying though.