FEELS Like Wicked IRONY & A CRUEL JOKE - Mom of 8 Kids

My husband of 20 years and biological father of our 8 children unexpectedly passed away (on July 16, 2023). Adjusting to the sudden trauma and shock has been the hardest thing we have had to go through in our entire lives! Our 8 children spent their whole lives having their father by their side at home, guiding them. Now this grave loss has caused a ripple affect not only in our daily lives but emotionally, as well as a great looming uncertainty.
THANK YOU to all the kind people who have encouraged and supported us throughout this journey. It has made a monumental positive impact on our lives and I thank you so very much!!
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[@renae740]

Don't be sad that's him just coming to say hello and that he loves you.

[@Momof8kids]

You are so sweet Renae. I am happy to have dreams with him in it, I just miss him. Thank you and wish you all the best.

[@nancydemarco9186]

You are having "visitations", they are REAL....❤

[@robinwagner3293]

I believe that.

[@kina8786]

I had one dream like that with my mom right after she passed. I could feel her hug, the warmth of it and it was so vivid. I was told those type were visitations.

[@Momof8kids]

@@kina8786 Thank you for sharing your experience Kina. Such a special dream, I hope you have more like that. Sorry about your mom and please take care!

[@bakingnana9740]

@@Momof8kidsI really wish my wonderful dad, who passed in April 2023, would come to me in a visitation, I would give anything to have this, but I can imagine how heart breaking it would be for you Rosalie, take comfort in this, he’s with you always ❤

[@anneefroc4234]

Your husband is so lucky he had a wife that loved him so much, and him you. One day at a time. ❤

[@susansnyder11]

Dearest Rosalie, when you've had such a vivid and tangible dream from your soul mate with all your senses on high alert. You don't want it to end and all those feelings of touch and scent linger with you for hours makes the experience so real. Because you don't want those feelings of such closeness to go away. I do believe those times are your husband's soul coming to check on you. You're a strong woman and I know your family means everything to you.I hope you find comfort in these "visits". ❤️

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Susan for your encouragement, I really appreciate it. I do love dreaming of him, I just miss him. Thank you for understanding and I loved hearing from you. Please take care.

[@charlottemiller961]

My mom passed away in November 2000 at the age of 63, and the next year at Christmas she came to me in a dream. In my dream, I heard someone knock on our front door, and I went to the door and opened it and it was my mom. I was so excited and happy to see her! She told me that she wanted to come and see me on Christmas, and she hugged me and then I woke up. I was crying so badly because it was so real in the dream, and it was like losing her all over again. I understand your pain. We love you and your family!

[@Momof8kids]

Sorry for the delay in response, Charlotte. Thank you for sharing your story with me, that was special. I am sorry for the pain you had about your mom, sending you lots of love. It was nice to hear from you as always, please take care.

[@charlottemiller961]

@@Momof8kids Thank you, lots of love to you too!

[@kellygulnick3960]

Awwww my sweet friend....you are so loved. I'm glad you feel comfortable sharing with us your grief journey. You are in my thoughts and prayers every day..and your beautiful children also ❤❤❤

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you so much, Kelly. Thank you for having us in your prayers, it is heart warming. Sending you love and best wishes!

[@summrflowers7253]

I don't normally leave comments but it's so interesting/coincidental that you posted this today. I had a similar dream last night but about my father who passed suddenly at age 48 when I was 24. In my dream he was on a ladder working on the house but I didn't know he was there. I heard a loud noise and when I looked I saw him falling from the ladder but he was ok and I grabbed him in a tight hug and just kept saying "daddy you're ok". These dreams are so real and so comforting in the moment but you wake up feeling cheated and disappointed that it was only a dream. The grieving process is very hard I'm sorry you're going through it too. Hang in there.❤

[@karin1741]

oh no this is sad you lost your dad he was only 48 and you were only 24 thats so young im sorry for your loss hun im sending you a virtual hug.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank is nice of you Karin.

[@Momof8kids]

Sorry for the delayed response. I am so glad to hear from you! Thank you for sharing with me your experience, and I am also sorry about your dad. Sending you a big hug and please take care my friend.

[@0122Tamara]

you're so sweet, grieving is a process, Just breath, its ok to take the time for yourself, crying grieving is healing Gods way...its ok to talk about it. Bless your heart.

[@Momof8kids]

Tamara you are great! Thank you so much for your caring and understanding, wish you all the best and take care!

[@emmarichards648]

I'm so sorry, Rosalie. Hang in there.

[@jwstreasuretrunk]

I absolutely believe that our loved ones can come into our dreams to visit us. His body died, the soul never dies it is energy, a beautiful brilliant energy.

[@tofly4wifi898]

Beautifully said!!!

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you so much for your comforting words. I sincerely appreciate it. Take care and best wishes for you.

[@jwstreasuretrunk]

@@Momof8kids Blessings to you & your children 💞

[@brigit2470]

My mother passed and a few years later she came in a dream to see me. she was smiling and had her arms held out as she was walking toward me. I was calling out to her and it was the most vivid, real like experience I had ever felt in any dream in my entire life. My kids woke me up because I was calling out to her aloud. I often wonder what she would have said to me if the dream had lasted just a little longer. Hang on to those dreams Rosalie. They are real. God Bless you and the kids!

[@Momof8kids]

Your dream is so special Brigit, thank you for sharing it. You are a wonderful friend and I really do appreciate your kindness. Sorry for the delay in response. I hope you get another nice dream like that. Your mother must be so proud of you, to have such a lovely daughter. Take care Brigit, my thoughts are with you.

[@madismome02]

Watching your video broke my heart. I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. I can’t imagine your pain. When your married you become 1 person on every level. Prayers for you Rosalie. Hug and love on those sweet babies and know that you do have a piece of him here with you. He loved you and you loved so very much. You made beautiful memories that will last forever! 🥰

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for understanding and I appreciate your kindness. Sending love.

[@kristypaul8067]

You are so lucky to have had a visitation from your loving Husband he is letting you no he is always with you all guiding you and protecting you and your kids ❤

[@Busy3]

I'd love to give you a big hug Rosalie, you are sooo sweet. So nice to hear about a couple that were so close and clearly best friends.❤

[@jackmedcalf6254]

Rosalie, I have been researching NDE's and after life contact for the last 15 years. The dreams that you had when he first crossed were contact. You see, love never dies. He was learning to reach out. Just because he isn't in the body anymore doesn't mean he's not with you. He takes every breathe with you, and always will. The 'dream' you had was more than just contact. You were able to meet him in the 'in-between'. These contacts are rare , but I'm sure it will happen again. It's in a space that is more real than real. Everything is magnified. I've had the same experience myself. If it does happen again, don't think about anything but being there. Not how you got there, now how he got there, but live in that moment. Remember, you are never alone. He is around you, others are too. As time goes by the pain will shift, into remembered moments of beauty. Sure, you will cry still, but the more you open up the more you will realize that he is with you, drying those tears. Talk to him. There is nothing wrong with that. He hears you and if you keep trying you may, one day be able to hear him. Sorry, if this sounds crazy, but I've researched thousands of cases and had the same experience myself. Stay strong. You are doing such a wonderful job with your children. He's with you . Bless

[@Momof8kids]

What you said is beautiful and very informative also! It gives me a new perspective and I like your idea. I don't think it sounds crazy at all and I so glad to hear from you. Thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge with me. Sending you love, take care my friend.

[@thelindaschuknecht]

Grief is such a hard thing to go through, it truly is a roller coaster ride. I do believe that our loved ones come to visit us in dreams. I feel like he is letting you know he is happy and healthy where he is and he wanted to give you a hug. It doesn’t make it easy when you want him with you. What a strong bond you both have that even death can not break.

[@Momof8kids]

Your words are so special Linda, I love them. Thank you for your comfort and sorry for the delay in responding to you. You are right, the death of somebody does not make the other person stop loving them. Wishing you all the happiness, take care!

[@thelindaschuknecht]

@@Momof8kids ❤️

[@67countrygirl]

Bless you sweetheart I can’t even imagine what you are going through but I am praying for you ❤❤❤❤

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for your prayers, I appreciate your thoughtfulness and blessings for you too.

[@lavettafuentez2267]

My prayers are with you Rosalie God is near and so is your Husband looking down on you and children take care ❤

[@glendasully]

Dreams can be so vivid & very real. I've dreamt about my 19 yr old deceased son & woke up actually looking for him. It's a terrible feeling in the pit of your stomach when reality returns. Grief is the most difficult emotion one will ever have to endure. It is true that time makes it easier

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for sharing your story with me, Glenda. So sorry for your experience. You are so right, thank you for your encouragement. Wish you the best.

[@janicepaisley6799]

Rosalie , you are truly a beautiful genuine soul . So rare to find in today's world .

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you, Janice! It is always nice to hear from you. I wish there were more people like you in the world.

[@stacydavis1682]

According to Leslie Ellis, Ph.D. Grief is never a linear process, and dreaming about a person who died can bring up all those feelings again. Try to find comfort in the dream if you believe you were visited, and if not, there's likely another message within the dream that can help you move through your grief to reach a place of peace and acceptance.

[@Momof8kids]

I do love dreaming of him, I just miss him. Thank you for your info and please take care my friend.

[@jennyadams6327]

Hi mom of 8 kids, 🙏 for you as time will ease your pain, the pain & hurt will never go away. U have 8 beautiful children that love you and will give you hugs and kisses every day. 👍✌️

[@Momof8kids]

That is beautiful Jenny. Thank you so much for your kindness and I wish you all the best. Take care.

[@tonisangel5024]

Oh dear sweet Rosalie my heart is breaking for you sweetheart ..Honestly honey the beautiful bond you had with your husband will never go away I believe he wants you to know he's happy and wants you to be happy! You have a big part of him still with you and its there in each of your children honey you make him happy knowing he left them with such an amazing mama we are all here for you sweetheart 💕 you are a kind beautiful soul big hugs and lots of love...Camille 😘❤

[@Momof8kids]

Camille, you are a wonderful lady! Thank you for your kindness and comfort. I am glad to hear from you and big hugs and lots of love to you too sweet Camille!

[@SmilingBeaver-ou7nc]

Sending Blessings to you Rosalie. I'm so sorry your in such pain, but take comfort in the fact that you got to hug him. It shows the love and commitment you had for one another.❤️🙏💙

[@andrearodriguez5512]

Awwww angel I'm so sorry you are sad I pray you have peace and healing 🙏🏼 ❤️

[@helenkinsey533]

My dad passed away 20 years ago and only once he came back to me in my dream he had gone away for a long time and I didn’t know where he had gone then one day he just turned up and I was over the moon

[@karenlitvak5097]

Praying for your comfort. 🙏🏻 Thank you for sharing your grief story.

[@sukijohnson5398]

❤

[@mariaparker318]

I had a dream like that after my first husband passed away. He knelt beside me and took my hand and said that he was sorry that it was his time to go. He was holding my hand and kissed me and said we would be together in heaven when God called me. It was so real. I never thought I would move on but after a few years I did and found love again. He and I as one son together. You will find love again. Don’t hold yourself back please.

[@lynnemt]

Hi Rosalie, Grieving is such emotional work. There is joy and sorrow all mixed together. Sending you a big hug.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you so much, Lynne! Wishing you many a happy days, you deserve it!

[@leem200]

Yes, share him with us. He sounds like a really nice guy but not perfect. Hang in their girl, you can do this. You been doing it now for a while now. You will be ok it is just hard. Thank you for being honest with people someone out there needs this, to help them. Any way hugs to you, so far you been doing a great job, and it is ok to share with us. We are here for you.

[@Momof8kids]

You are always so kind Leem. You must be a remarkable person. I would love to physically give you a big hug! Sorry about taking awhile to respond to you. Thank you for your encouragement and understanding. You have definitely helped to comfort me and I want you to know that you are great! Always wishing you the best and take care my friend!

[@tsumner7951]

they are not just dreams don;t let anyone tell you they are not

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for your kindness, wishing you the best my friend.

[@alexfleming-kx6md]

Sorry for your pain x losing the love of your life I can’t imagine what your going through

[@Momof8kids]

You are so kind, thank you Alex and wishing you all the happiness in the world!

[@marilynwright6204]

We love you. You are stronger than you know. You've got this. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Momof8kids]

You are so kind, Marilyn! Such a precious thing to say, thank you and sending you love!

[@hiddenhand6973]

Pray that God rests his soul 🙏🏼 Sweet Rosalie, take good care of yourself and your kids. Pray the Rosary with the children for peace 📿

[@ammccoy2142]

I've never had a relationship like you had with your husband but I'm sorry for your huge loss and I wish you peace and comfort.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you, that is so thoughtful of you. Take care my friend.

[@Kiymee]

Rosalie sweet young lady..you are exceptionally loving, caring!!! I wish we lived close! I’d love to be your friend/gramma/mommy to all of you! Your just so kind. You got this girlfriend! We got your back. Much love sent to you! My heart breaks for you! Those tears are pure love.💕💕💕 you are loved so much! Hugs to all 8 kiddos

[@Momof8kids]

Your sincerity made my eyes water Kiymee. I am sorry for the delayed response, I do look forwards to hearing from you. You are just wonderful, and I am happy to know you. I think your great and you are a great friend even though we don't live close. Hugs to you and your family also! Sending love and take care!

[@jeanienelson6524]

Prayers for you Rosalie! 🥺🙏🏻

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you so much for your prayers, Jeanie. Take care!

[@AGiftedJourneyx]

It's not getting confusing sweetie. We don't want to believe that person we love is not here anymore so we are clutching on strings of hope that they never left. I want to hug you.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you again.

[@karenligus8224]

Rosalie, I believe our loved ones come to us in dreams when they have passed on. And to have a dream where you see and feel him makes it so real. Of course you want it to be true. To wake up to the cold harsh reality is painful. You're grieving the loss of your husband and the life you shared. Your kids keep you busy but you still go to bed alone and wake up alone, without your best friend. That's a cruel reality. Have a good cry and try to think about the good memories. Maybe even start journaling. Put your feelings down on paper.j ❤ much love

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Karen, I am so glad to hear from you. Much love to you also and thank you for your understanding. Wishing you all the best, take care.

[@awelgriffiths9721]

Thinking of you Rosalie ❤

[@jdhenk]

So sad and heartbreaking, I’m so sorry you are going through this. We do care, we understand and we are here for you.

[@Momof8kids]

You warm my heart, Jdhenk. Thank you for your caring, the world needs more people like you. Take care!

[@sheilacarter7875]

Sending love and prayers to you Rosalie, if Eugene returning felt real then maybe he was checking you are ok.You were with him for twenty years and he was your soul mate and l do understand how sad you are feeling.The pain won't go away it will just ease with time, he wouldn't want you to be sad and he must be proud of how you are coping.l think you have been amazing.Look after yourself and know people care .❤

[@Momof8kids]

You are such a kind soul, Sheila. Sorry it took me awhile to respond. I really appreciate you sharing. What you said warmed my heart and you could be right. I am so grateful for people like you Sheila. You look after yourself too, and sending you love.

[@sheilacarter7875]

@@Momof8kids 💕

[@Terrorific_tray]

Oh Rosalie love, dreams are the best way for our loved ones to visit us. Embrace these dreams. Remember the love and warmth you feel from these dreams. Here is there to comfort you. Stay strong.

[@PaulaDeBeer]

My heart breaks for you. ❤ Life is too cruel. I pray you find peace. Thinking of you from a million miles away in South Africa. God bless you and your children. ❤😢

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you so much Paula, that means a lot to me. You are so kind, I am out of that depression phase now. I believe it is natural to feel depressed at times during the grieving process. I don't see these phases as regression, I believe it is all part of the healing process. I wrote more about it in the community tab on this channel yesterday. Thank you again for your compassion Paula and I wish you the very best.

[@MFF901]

Prayers Rosalie 🙏 thanks for sharing your dream, your husband is letting you know he is around ❤ blessings from Florida 🙌🌴🌴🤗

[@nicky25294]

He around you all ❤

[@Booksnsourdough]

It 10 days, it marks him being gone for a year. This is him visiting you to tell you he's still there with you.. watching over you ❤

[@suzannemartin1876]

Sending hugs to you

[@sandiedrew4086]

Sending love ❤😊

[@Momof8kids]

Sending lots of love back, Sandie thank you.

[@vickicali]

He was such a loving soul. I remember how hard he tried to hold on for you and the kids. That deep abiding love never disappears. Dreams are some of the best ways to still interact with those we love who are gone in the physical world. I choose to think their spirit reaches out to us. Choose to believe! ❤

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Vicki, for your sweet encouragement. I appreciate your kindness and understanding. I do love having dreams with him in it. Your words are a comforting and I am so glad to hear from you. Take care my friend.

[@sherrylung8077]

When you have loved so deeply, there isn't a way to just tell your heart to heal. I hope you feel better and you are a great person and mother. Saying prayers.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for your prayers Sherry, you are so kind. Take care!

[@annegleason8442]

Hi! I know how you feel! My freanca passed away on Easter Sunday! And me and him been engaged since 2019! I know him since I was 5 years old! I was so upset that he passed away!; 😢 I miss him every day!!! 😢.

[@Momof8kids]

Sorry to hear about that, Anne. Your on the road to healing. Sending you lots and lots of love, my dear friend.

[@brendaalbee7922]

❤❤ you are very strong. I am so sorry I wish we could help you more. Post more to get it out.

[@Momof8kids]

I am happy to hear from you, Brenda. Knowing you listen and care IS a big help. You are wonderful, take care.

[@brendaalbee7922]

@@Momof8kids venting to other adults makes life so much easier. I remember when my ex husband of 30+ years it was like he died but he was alive. He left me for one of my first cousins. This was 6 years ago. I am better but it hurt like hell. ❤️❤️

[@cathybarela4304]

Rosalie, so sorry you are going through this, you have a lot going on. Your children are going through this too, please get into a grief counseling group for you and your children. This is affecting you all. You all need to get this out so you can start your healing, your grief is so palpable. Praying for you all. Bless you.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for your caring Cathy. In grieving I get depressed at times. It doesn't mean that there is a regression, I see the ups and downs as part of the healing process. I was taken back by the realness of the dream. I was feeling depressed that last 4 days leading up to the 1 year anniversary of his passing away but I am better now. You are so kind to want to help and bless you too!

[@raqszann]

Your you poor dear it’s so early days in the grieving process it’ll hurt less and less as time goes on .. thankyou fur sharing your heart God bless you and your beautiful children hun 🙏❤️

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you so much Raquel, I appreciate it. Take care my friend.

[@tracywilliams61]

Thank you for sharing. What a lovely dream and sad it was only a dream. Hang in there

[@stacksflooring10]

My heart breaks for you.. I couldn’t image the pain you’re going through. Just know that you’re not alone and we are here to listen. I will pray for your strength to heal your heart.

[@Momof8kids]

You have a heart of gold! Thank you so much for your kindness and understanding. It is greatly appreciated. Take care and wish you the best my friend!

[@wendyings5928]

I truly believe our loved ones do come visit in our dreams! It is his way of letting you know he will always be with you! A love like you both had doesn't just go away. He is with you!! Sending warm thoughts and hugs!

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you so much Wendy for your comforting words. Wish you all the best and sending you warm thoughts and hugs too!

[@donnamyer9810]

I truly believe that the dead do come visit us. As sad as it is at least we do have comfort😢

[@Alexandra-dy2ns]

I'm sorry for what you're going through, Rosalie. It must be hard now that your husband's deathday is coming up. I read a book some time ago about a mom whose husband had a fatal car accident with both of their children in the car. The mother basically lost her whole family in an instant and she describes how she likes going to sleep because in her dreams she's with her family again. I'm still grieving my grandmother (it's not comparable to your situation, I know) and also have very vivid dreams from time to time. Maybe it could be a little bit of comfort that you can still feel such a strong connection to your soulmate. Grieving will take time and there will be many ups and downs, but you're so strong that I'm sure you'll get through this. You're blessed with wonderful children, however, they're no replacement for a partner, I fully understand that. It may take time, but you'll find happiness again in some form. Sending prayers, positive thoughts, peace and love to you from across the ocean. 💌

[@Momof8kids]

Alexandra, that is so special of you. Thank you for your prayers and I am so glad to hear from you. If I had lost my whole family I don't think I would still be here. Thank you for sharing and I am sorry for you losing your grandmother. We can heal together. Sending you lots of love, positive thoughts, and peace as well!

[@NavajoSunBeauty]

Rosalie, thank you for sharing your dreams. Loved ones who have passed along, visit us in our dreams to help us with our grief and let us know they are with us. You have received blessed gifts. Listen and look for clues because you will get answers. I want to share my personal experiences. I have had loved ones pass away. My mom, who died Jan 1987, she has been in multiple dreams. My mom was an alcoholic and at times, she ran away from home. In my dreams, she came home! I was so excited to see her. She was going to bed, I layed next to her, scratched her head, like she loves, I told her I missed her. I could feel her, smell her just as if she was alive. I told her I was happy she was home. My mom told me she loves me and to go yo sleep. I woke up alone and she wasn't there. My dream was so real. I learned, my mom thinks of me and she expressed her love. I have many more to tell but I won't. I know and feel what you are experiencing. Love you❤

[@Momof8kids]

That is so wonderful of you to share your experience with me! I love what you are saying and I find it so special. Hope you have many more dreams like that. Sorry for the delay in responding. Thank you so much for your understanding and sending you lots of love!

[@tinamarie7777]

Huge hugs, ♥️🫶♥️

[@maresadavis8135]

I'm so sorry. Yes...those dreams can be very cruel. Wished I could reach through this screen and give you a hug. Hang in there, you are doing a wonderful job pushing through each day.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you so much, you are such a sweet dear. I do love dreaming of him, I just miss him. Take care my friend.

[@valtoton2982]

Rosalie, yes you are very strong but you're human and you've been through a very traumatic experience. I'm so very glad that you have found comfort in our support and feel safe to open up to us. I have also experienced extremely vivid dreams that I believed were so real, spending time with lost loved ones... and I can attest to the devastation of waking up and they're not there! I'm so sorry. I've come to appreciate these 'visits' from my loved ones and the extra time spent with them! The feelings and emotions are real, embrace them and cherish the experience. You know that Eugene loved you and I'm sure you see him.in your 8 beautiful children every day! 🤗

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Valtoton for sharing with me your own experiences. You are right, and I do love dreaming of him, I was just crying because I wanted more. You are so sweet and kind, thank you and wish you many more positive dreams with your loved ones. :)

[@valtoton2982]

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[@bakingnana9740]

So so sorry Rosalie, I can just hear and see your heartbreak 😔💔 love to you all ❤️

[@Momof8kids]

I am feeling better now Christine, you are so sweet. Thank you for your compassion and support, love to you and your family also.

[@jackielong9927]

Sending hugs and prayers for comfort. I talked to my parents and my sister up in heaven all the time I never stop talking to them. Sometimes I feel them around me as if they were here if I dream of them and it makes me so very happy. It’s sad when you wake up and they’re not there but to see them for a short time is such a blessing. Much love to you and big hugs.❤🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@Momof8kids]

I think it is wonderful that you talk to your sister and parents! So glad you can feel them, and happy you dream of them. Much love and bigs hugs to you too!

[@CraftyMamaOf5]

Sending you so much love, my darling. I've had vivid dream of my late partner the night after his passing. I still remember how disoriented I felt when I woke up. I am still convinced it was real and I believe you- it was real. I believe it's that 'one more moment' we beg for ❤

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience, and for understanding. I am sorry about your late partner, you sound like a wonderful person. Sending lots of love back to you, take care my friend.

[@jackie52912]

Hes visiting you rosalie believe it xx

[@superchatcat658]

Rosalie, have you thought about getting a grief counsellor just for extra support and of course sharing with us is good too.

[@Tomas-major]

It so unreal, I believe that our loved ones can connect with us in our dteams, this happens to me quite often Rosalie, treasure these dreams, be at peace with him, I am able to be part aware when I’m dreaming and telling my husband I love and miss him so much xx I also talk to my late dad if I can catch him in out dreams, sometimes it’s hard to get to him xxx

[@Momof8kids]

That is wonderful that your are visited by your loved ones! I do love dreaming of my husband, it was just a disappointment when I woke up. I am so glad for you and wish you many more dreams of your husband and dad. It is nice hearing from you, take care!

[@janeosullivan7027]

I can imagine that happening ❤️‍🩹

[@Stacie2440]

You had a visit💙He came to you and you felt him he was real he was there hugging you telling you your doing a great job and he loves you and he’s there even if you don’t see him he’s telling you he’s with you. I believe that 100% I’ve had them as well with my dad. You wake up with emotions and feelings that he was alive and he was real because it was he was there🩷💙

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Stacie for sharing your experience with me. I appreciate your input, and am sending you love.

[@katyandersen197]

It was more than a dream, it was visions ❤❤❤

[@juliemckendrick3111]

❤❤❤ xx

[@VensVibrantNailsandBeauty]

If you want to talk to someone and share about these things you'd used to share with your jusband, show us. I know it isn't the same, but I can muster excitement for mundane personal interests! That's a skill set I am extremely good at! I'm glad you share these personal thoughts and feelings. I am glad you feel some level of comfort and compassion from your followers.

[@ritacooke3175]

When I became separated from my husband of 20 years, I would dream that I was still in our home, doing our everyday activities and that he still loved me. It was as if we were carrying on our relationship in my dreams, almost every night for a very long time. I would wake up and have to think about where I was momentarily. It was devastation all over again. Night after night after night for maybe a year this happened. I thought I wasn’t going to survive it. It’s been another 20 years and now I’m okay and don’t dream about him anymore. I felt like it was such a punishment I didn’t deserve.

[@Momof8kids]

My heart goes out to you dear Rita. I am so glad you are ok now. I am guessing it was just your brain trying to process things. Sorry about the delay in replying. You sound so sweet Rita. I am glad you shared your experience with me, it proves I am not alone. Thank you so much and wish you the best!

[@Plootyhooter]

I wish I could give you a hug. My husband died 3 years ago and it still feels like a dream. His heart was also in Afib. Our kids are all in their 30's so not quite the same but I feel you, Rosalie. No one will ever love me like that again, either. ❤

[@Momof8kids]

My heart goes out to you. I definitely understand, and am sending you love. Please take care.

[@carollucey111]

I'm so sorry for you Rosalie😪, I lost my husband through cancer too and had many dreams like that, he's just letting you know he's alright but you have to let go too at some stage sweetheart, he would want you and the children to be happy and to get on with your lives, you will meet again some day in heaven ,thoughts and prayers to you💖🙏🙏💖xx

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for your understanding Carol. Sorry about your loss too. I would love to physically give you a big hug! I appreciate your kindness and wishing you all the happiness.

[@carollucey111]

Aw Rosalie, that's so sweet of you, sending you virtual hugs🥰, you've got this girl, time is a precious healer🙏I hope you've got some supportive friends, it's so easy to cut yourself off with grief, I know I did, but it's not good for you, as a mother of a big family you need adult friends who you can turn to when you're suffering, your pain will ease with time I promise you and he'll forever be with you all💖💖

[@ETX369]

Prayers for you. I’m happy when I dream of my dearly departed loved ones. I get to see them again. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Momof8kids]

I wish I would dream of him more. During that phase where I was dreaming of him almost every night I would be happy when I woke up because it felt like I had just seen and had time with him. It was the best I had felt since before he passed. I totally get it. Thank you ETX for sharing and take care.

[@MargDegraaf]

It’s not unusual for you to have such vivid dreams. It’s only been a year. My son has been gone 7 years & I still have dreams that I’m saving him & he’s alive. But waking up & then the shock of realising it was a dream. I never use to talk in my sleep or cry out load but my hubby has had to wake me up many times. He was the love of your life hunny so of course he’s in your memory’s & subconscious that comes when you absolutely don’t expect it. Especially when you’re in relaxed sleep mode. It’s a blessing for you to feel his touch & feel he is alive. The love you have still for him has no where to go, But it’s the grieving of a love you have inside you. The dreams have over time got less for me but still I’m always trying to save my boy/man. He was 37 years old but to me he was my baby. Your love is still your husband. He will always be the man who loved & knew you the best. ❤❤

[@Momof8kids]

You brought tears to my eyes Marg. Thank you for your understanding and what you said makes so much sense. I am so sorry again for your loss. I really feel for you and am sending you love. Hope you received your letter from me by now. It is always great to hear from you. Take care my friend.

[@MargDegraaf]

@@Momof8kids I havnt got the letter yet. But Australia post are hopeless. Sending love ❤️❤️

[@Momof8kids]

@@MargDegraaf ok thank you for letting me know. Hope you get it soon!

[@CaptchaNeon]

As I watched you so emotional, I was reminded by the loss of my own husband who was in his 30’s when he died and left me with children. We were together for 12 1/2 years when he died and I thought I’ll never be able to love again or marry again. However, God had different plans and I met my wonderful husband now, I met him 6 months after my husband passed and he’s 51 and I’m 40 and we’ve been together 12 years now and have a child together. He didn’t have any children before we got together. Sometimes things change and you’re not expecting it. Sometimes I believe those gifts of love are sent by our previous loves so that we don’t have to be alone. The point is Rosalie that you don’t know what’s in your future but what we all know is that Eugene loved you with all of his heart and he wouldn’t want you to cry and be sad for years to come. You have proven you can make it on your own. You’re an amazing mom and I know I’m just a stranger online but, I want you to know I see so much good in you and your children and support is heavy here for you. Keep doing what you’re doing, you’re doing a good job I promise.

[@Momof8kids]

That was beautiful of you to say, Neon. I really appreciate your sincere kindness and thank you for sharing your story with me. You are so much more than a stranger online, I respect and take to heart what you are saying. You are are a person, and you are valid. Thank you, for caring.

[@shanablackmar7484]

You are VERY strong! The depth of the love you and your husband shared is so unique especially in the world we live in today. I have no doubt he has visited you, don’t even question that! One thing I found hard after the death of my Dad(I know it’s a bit different but we were close)was when something would happen( neighbors house repair, local news,etc I would always say “wait till I tell Dad” and then it would hit me that I couldn’t tell him!!! So silly but suddenly it would kick me in the butt again. I’m sure you must go through that an awful lot. So many things you must want to tell him about his beautiful family. Don’t worry though,he sees it all!!!!!!❤

[@Momof8kids]

Shana, you are so sweet. I totally understand what you are saying and so glad to hear from you. Thank you for sharing your experience with me. I am sorry you had to go through that. Your father must be proud and be at peace knowing that he has you as his daughter. Thank you again for your story and take care.

[@elizabethmaxwell2267]

Aw bless you sweet lady your dreams sometimes are deep wishes your heart makes come true in your dreams take them as a blessing and keep talking to him he hears you everyday.Life is not black or white there’s a lot of grey grace there too.Bless you and your beautiful family hugs and prayers sent your way❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you so much Elizabeth for your prayers and for your caring. You are right about life, I agree. I do love dreaming of him, I just wanted more of him and I woke up. Thank you for your idea about talking to him. I do think about what he would say when I do everyday things. I am happy to hear from you and please take care.

[@sweetirishgirl8685]

My friend Rosalie that was a very inspiring video. I know how your husband love very much you loved him the same. I understand where you are coming from. When my mom.passed away. Months afterward I had a a very vivid dream. We both were shopping and I ran into her. We both hugged and she kiss me. It was so real. We talked for hours. Like you said is like we're I'm person enjoying life together. After I woke up I felt so happy till I realized it was a dream. Grief is a very hard thing to deal with. You have done so great with your children . You are very strong person. Remember he is always with you. He is one of your guardian angels. Take care my friend. Sending love ❤❤❤❤❤❤and prayers 🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Momof8kids]

What you said warmed my heart. I am so glad you shared your experience with me and you understand. Thank you so much for your encouragement and I'm sending back lots of love to you. Wishing you happiness and fulfillment, take care.

[@GinaRussell-c2c]

My story is different, My grandma passed away many years ago, And even now I’m still grieving,I still feel So hurt inside that she as passed,but my husband as told me to keep talking about her and it might help me to not feel sad 😢 but Everyday I think of her because I miss her so much.

[@Momof8kids]

You must have been very close to your grandma. So sorry about your pain and I totally understand. You could also talk "to" her if it helps. Prayer and real meditation can be comforting. Thank you for sharing.

[@robinwagner3293]

I'm sorry Rosalie. Hugs. It is okay to cry. As someone else said on here, I believe that it was a visitation. I had those dreams when my parents passed. The hugs, they were so real you could just feel them and really believe they are there. Many of us have probably experienced that. It was also interesting what you said about talking to your husband. I remember in a dream; my mother asked me how she died. I did not know what to think. I'm sorry for rambling here. It sounds like you two had a very loving relationship. Thinking of you. We are here.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Robin for your caring and sharing your experience with me. Your dream makes me feel like I am not alone. When I dream about my husband he doesn't know either that he died. Many times I inform him that he died, but he doesn't say anything. Recently I asked him if he even wanted to know how he died but I woke up right after. I didn't think you were rambling at all, what you had to say was very valid. I am sorry about your mother. You are very kind, sorry for taking awhile to reply. Sending you love and hugs to you also.

[@debrawake1023]

I've been having crying spells where l just want to hug my husband one more time. The problem with that is then I would have to drag all over again with the missing him. Your story sounds so painful, I'm sorry and send you love & prayers for continued healing ❤

[@Momof8kids]

I am sorry for your situation Debra, and I can definitely understand. I am sending you lots of love too for healing. Wish I could physically give you a big hug, it seems everyone has to go through this at some point in their lives.

[@heatherTiti2023]

Awww Mama, this is his way of letting you know he is with you and the kids everyday…♥️ I just can’t imagine the way you feel, I lost my Uncle April 30, and had an emotional breakdown… ( so badly and it didn’t happen until May 22. ) My heart hurts for you so much, you have been so strong, and have been there for your kids every step of the way!! Do know he is with you in spirit, he loves you, and all 8 of your wonderful children…

[@Momof8kids]

Sorry to hear about your uncle and your misfortune, Heather. Fortunately you have a chance to rebuild stronger than ever. Sending you lots of love! We can both heal together.

[@ElizabethLambert-wn4jk]

Your visits your having are a good .he is visiting you lettingbyounknow he is always going to.be around maybe not in body but in spirit it's a good thing feel comfort from this. Your be ok hun. X❤

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Elizabeth, you are right. Bless you.

[@AGiftedJourneyx]

Overtime, with my own griefs (which were of 2 parents, 2 grandparents, 1 uncle, and my best friend a dog) which is different to the relationship with your husband, I get that, but all grief is significant... there comes a point where it doesn't overwhelm you, and you can talk and think about them and not cry, and you can feel sad but it wont utterly devastate you like it does now. Everyone is different, but if you hold on, if you ride this wave and you open your heart to all the support you can get in all aspects of your life, you can get there. My mum had those thoughts when her first husband passed. That he was the only one who would totally get her. She remarried and she loved him so much too, until he also passed away. She doesn't say 'never' because what she thought was impossible did become possible, but she says she won't look, it will find her if its out there. She says grief is the price of love. Don't stress yourself with questions people ask about remarrying etc, what will be, will be. Keep talking to us x

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for sharing your story with me, I am glad it worked out with your mother. I appreciate your input and am always happy to hear from you. Wishing you and your mother many happy days and love. Take care.

[@Marthitaandsunflowers]

Sorry someone asked you if you ever would marry again? That's what you ask someone who gets divorced. Very tactless of that person.

[@dianethisltlewood4327]

I get it I get it I get it yes I get it love you all

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you so much Diane for your understanding, I really appreciate it!

[@pennyholt2500]

I love you, you are such a sweet breath. Stay strong!

[@Momof8kids]

What a lovely compliment! Thank you, Penny. Best wishes, and please take care.

[@dylanflynn1]

You are right there's no one that will love you like him. But someone else will and it may feel as good. I lost my wife of 26 years in 2018 and nothing has hurt me so bad. Even though I've also lost all of my family at young ages. All gone is my mother, father, sister and brother. And extended family as well. I'm sure your husband is proud of you for all you are doing for your children and loves all of you even more. Just keep remembering that and rejoice in that. You will still grieve through the years but it will be more manageable. For now allow joy to fill you with the experiences you have with your children. I know it's not the same but it will continue to get better for you despite the grief. I'm praying for you 💚 And your husband is too!

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Dylan for your words of kindness and understanding. I am sorry about your family and wife. I appreciate hearing from you, and thank you for your advice and prayers too. Please take care.

[@dylanflynn1]

@@Momof8kids ❤️ you can do this and experience joy again. And you are so blessed to be able to see and feel your husband in your children. Keep the faith!💚💚💚

[@tonyafromgeorgia3519]

Sending a virtual hug🥰. His spirit is still there with you, you may feel his presence sometimes. I’ve had dreams about my parents like that, very real as if they were here and then it becomes a disappointment to wake up and find out it was a dream. When you decide to order something new for yourself next time, come on here and tell us about it, I love to shop so I get excited about everything I order, it’s like getting a gift to open even if you know what it is. ☺️ We are here for you!

[@Momof8kids]

You are so wonderful Tonya, thank you for sharing your experience with me. You made me smile about getting excited about ordering. Sorry about the delayed response. I am happy I got to hear from you. You sound like such a great person! I am also sorry about your parents and I'd love to give you a hug physically. Thank you so much for your kindness and understanding. Take care my friend.

[@rosemarrypolack5708]

Rosalie, you had such a beautiful relationship with your husband. I think God allowed him to visit you. It was he that you were hugging and feeling❤ I hope you get more of these experiences. You are a beautiful person. Don't worry about not wanting another relationship. Just live in the moment, now. We all do not know what our future holds. I pray for you and your family❤😊 I pray you persevere and stay safe.

[@Momof8kids]

You are so kind Rosemarry, I hope you know how awesome you are. I am touched by your caring and thank you for your prayers and understanding. The world needs more people like you. Take care and sending you love.

[@rosemarrypolack5708]

@@Momof8kids ❣️

[@AustinsmomJamesnana77]

Hugs I know how you feel it has happened to me my sons father died of cancer and I dream of him to a lot and it’s like he’s here but when I wake up the nightmare starts all over again that he’s not here. 💔 prayers to you and your family.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for sharing your experience with me. I am glad to hear from you. I am also sorry about "the nightmare starts all over again". I expect your are on the path to healing. Hugs to you also, and please take care.

[@Momof8kids]

Oh, and thank you also for your prayers.

[@nighwolf-uz4nj]

Those dreams are real trust me I lost my boyfriend years ago we was both 18 years old when he died I still have dreams of him holding me and these dreams are real I’m not 50 years old and I miss him everyday hugs to you I live everyday for him one day we will see them again

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for sharing your experience with me and I am sorry you had to go through that. I understand, and am sending hugs to you as well. We can heal together.

[@sharonhoward884]

It’s grief, it’s awful, painful, gruelling and seemingly never ending but remember it’s nothing mysterious or supernatural, just the brain flashing its memory stick. Its very hard to let go of what has been the biggest part of your adult life. You are young life will go on and for the sake of you and your kids. you’ll go on. We love our children but we need to nurture the person we are outside being their mother. You were extremely dependant on your husband and perhaps you never really knew who you were without him but now you can find out. It can be a great adventure and one where you might discover a lot about yourself you didn’t know. I’m sure your husband wouldn’t want you to be a grieving widow for too long. Reach out to your family, his family, arrange visits with the kids cousins, join a local church, some of them can be great support and help foster a sense of community so you won’t feel so isolated.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Sharon for your caring, I appreciate it. You are right about finding my own way now without him. He helped me the most to get to know myself. He had a special talent for seeing people's character. Wishing you all the best, take care.