Every single statement , in fact, every single word and description in this episode describes 27 years of my life with a hard core narc and sociopath….truly a child in a grown woman’s body…….master manipulator with zero care about anyone (including our kids) except herself ….when it was all over, I felt like I was rescued from imminent death…..she hovered and love bombed, but by then i had gained knowledge of my situation and the fact that this person never loved me for even a moment…..now that it is apparent that I ain’t having none of her , its full blown rage and anger (which i find amusing btw) and gaslighting (which I don’t give a rats ass about)……now I am free, I feel alive again….I can’t believe what I survived
@barkburton125 күн бұрын
25 years here. Caught my wife in multiple affairs throughout the years. Foolishly, I would stay. The signs were everywhere in the beginning, but I ignored them. These people are absolute monsters that only care about themselves. It’s only been two months for me and it’s been a hard two months, I’m praying that better days are ahead. I hope you find the peace you deserve as well
@swadediesel907722 күн бұрын
Truth Hurts Most Definitely But It'll Set You Free 💯
@Art.in.512 күн бұрын
@@barkburton1 Stay strong, brother. These two months have been tough, but it will definitely get better. Be grateful that you made it through-those are heartless beasts. You will find happiness again. Keep your head up; it will get better. Life will become beautiful once more, I promise. You have to resist the hoovering every single time, no matter what. A cold break, a clean cut, is the best way forward. As hard as it is, you have to accept that the feelings you have are not the feelings the other person has. And that little facet you loved? It doesn’t really exist. But it’s okay-it will all get better. Just cut that beast off and move on. It’s going to be alright.
@barkburton112 күн бұрын
@@Art.in.5 thank you so much for the kind words. It means a lot. You are absolutely correct every day that goes by I get a little more clarity with each one. I will never understand how someone that you love unconditionally can be this way. Like you said, though, I am realizing that I have been living a lie for years. She never loved me the way that I loved her because if she did, she wouldn’t of done what she’s done. Thankfully, she has made no attempts to Hoover. I don’t expect her to although I would love to get the opportunity for the first time ever to go tell her to fk herself. Either way what matters now is I finally get it. With that she is no longer my problem. I do believe she will get her karma one day and that makes me smile lol. They say the best thing you can do when another man takes your woman is to let him keep her. 😂 dude has no idea what he’s dealing with. Every day is getting so much better for me and I’ll hang my hat on that. Again thanks for the kind words. Here’s to 2025 being one of the best years yet 👍🏻 🫡
@JohnSzwed32723 күн бұрын
Nearly destroyed me. Still rebuilding but starting to thrive again. I will never repeat this experience ever again in my life. Rent don’t own.
@medic6medic6719 күн бұрын
Nearly killed me. Literally. Pregnant Black widow set up a gladiator match. I got shot by the step-daughter boyfriend because the step-daughter wanted revenge on him and set him up. In the aftermath, I figured out that she set up and got an EPO against the BF and 36-hours later set up a murder-by-cop and baited him into a death match, it blew up in her face, and landed on me. Narc mother looked the other way (enabler). NO REMORSE FROM EITHER OF THEM. It was a miracle I survived.
@gladiammgtow409219 күн бұрын
MGTOW.
@barkburton112 күн бұрын
@@JohnSzwed327 ☝️ MGTOW is right
@kumarayush496725 күн бұрын
I just defeated my narc ex gf, I was in trauma since last 6 months in a 8 months relationship. It was like, I was dealing with a promiscuous demon. My health started to deteriorate. Now I am in no contact, blocked her completely but still healing. It doesnt matter how much love and affection you give them, how much you do for them, its always less. They are like soul sucking dementors. But I am also a super empath. After a lot of crying in confusion one morning I woke up and went to her parents house and told them everything about her with proof. I took of her mask. Now she can never be same in front of her parents.
@navydogsadventures350019 күн бұрын
My mom always said to me she would suck the life out of me. I feel that way!
@tommy-079117 күн бұрын
I think you will find Kuma that her parents are the source of the problem. You don't know who they are. Good luck on your journey.
@DarylTungate17 күн бұрын
I totally relate
@troymcintosh256425 күн бұрын
This the most accurate, honest, candid, necessary vid ... I especially appreciate it from a woman's perspective
@lannybackes105324 күн бұрын
I second this!!
@PhilWertz26 күн бұрын
You’re the real deal keep doing this stuff…!!! I am presently two years and four months post discard… from 37 years with a covert narc… I must’ve. I asked God 10,000 times what is this?… channels like yours are answers to the 10,000 prayers… and the 10,000 times thousands tears…
@krystalgreco26 күн бұрын
@@PhilWertz dang I’m sorry
@krystalgreco26 күн бұрын
@@PhilWertz she is super sweet and smart
@bluedogfish226 күн бұрын
Im at 28 since the baby trap
@OfSoulAndSin26 күн бұрын
Mine was 28 years. Lots of overwhelming pain. I know that doesn’t help but there are millions of men that understand. Unfortunately millions more to come.
@bonitajolie934125 күн бұрын
It only gets better from here on out. Blessings to you.
@brianmcgrane304624 күн бұрын
I have lived with this for years. I'm nearly 70 years now and looking back I should have go out years ago 😞. Any younger men watching this GET OUT NOW before your to old😢 Liliya is spot on. Thanks so much Liliya❤.
@LifeHappens-l2z24 күн бұрын
I'm in this situation and because you said that I'm going to leave ....Thank you soo much are you still dealing with it now at 70???
@mvbigmagic404820 күн бұрын
I so agree. My father stayed married to my malignant narcissistic mother for 52 years. By the time my father died, she had alienated all of his relatives, even me. Once he got diagnosed with terminal pancreatic cancer.... wow.... the mask came off. My 78 year old mother closed the joint bank account they'd had for 30+ years, and opened an account in her name only. He wasn't even dead yet. When I tried to help her figure out how to get her Social Security to her new account, and I had to help my dad too, because HIS Social Security paid the bills..... she triangulated him against me. Crazy-town. In the end, these narcissists go crazy with paranoia, projecting all their past sins upon everyone else in a desperate attempt to maintain control over EVERYONE. It's mind-fuckery from a demented aging narcissist. Since my father's death, we are no-contact. She gambled away all his earnings and blamed him for bringing her to the casino. She hoarded their four-bedroom house so full of clothes (most of which she can't even wear anymore, because she got so fat), that at the time of my dad's death, all four bedrooms were infested with bedbugs because she refused to clean up and get rid of all the clothes piled in every single room (and the dining room, and the parlor, and the garage.... even the back porch). He only had two drawers for his underwear and shirts and socks. TWO DRAWERS. Narcissists care about NO ONE except themselves, and they will project every bad thing they ever did to other people. At the end, my father was so deluded, he kept telling me to trust my mother.... even after knowing she stole his wallet, and watched him look for it for two months. No contact is survival.
@joeeoj618726 күн бұрын
She’s a looping protocol in this human experience. The sooner you realize and stop caring, the better. It sucks but if you have children, there’s your true love in this life. Sorry but it’s not easy
@krystalgreco26 күн бұрын
@@joeeoj6187 great advice
@doranvee59443 күн бұрын
Nurse! Cognitive empathy. At home, I was in the line of fire.
@ricardocarmignani360225 күн бұрын
Perfect. Been abused, multiple betrayals, dumped and now alienated from my two children
@BesteWare17 күн бұрын
Am in the same situation brother, since october now. We also have one 2 year old… 😢
@davidparker543926 күн бұрын
I wish I had this knowledge when I was in my 20s . But unfortunately I am now 73 . The stories I could tell you book for me it's too late thank you
@christophemouawad697126 күн бұрын
They sometimes leave you harshly and file for divorce when they lose hope of controlling you ever again. Their decompensation is very brutal. My wife discarded me and hoovered me many times but when she finally lost control over me and saw that I wouldn’t do anything without her reciprocating, she filed for home and child abuse and then filed for divorce. Luckily for me I had recorded full recordings (I had a friend who had a similar experience and advised me to do so when I told him how she was acting) in order to prove my innocence and she got 0 alimony and she was forced to pay everything for our son half half and I got shared custody 4 days a week with me and 3 days a week with her. Grandiose as she is, she still plays the victim and try to smear me wherever she goes. My son is starting to hate her for she’s trying to turn him into a surrogate husband (me). She was a covert narcissist (most probably) and now she’s mortified, I guess she’s becoming a somatic narcissist, paying a lot of money for creams, gym subscriptions and facial shit. It has been a year now and I am finally regaining my sense of self, the only downside is that I am finding difficulties in trusting someone again and start dating again. It will pass 🤞
@AlluriManojVarma25 күн бұрын
Same here. My wife applied for divorce. Court proceedings is in process. Have 5 year old son with her
@daniello915524 күн бұрын
A friend of ours broke up with his long term partner. A couple of years later he paired up with another female but they live in their own separate homes. He has the best of both worlds and she has no control or leverage over him and he has his peace and quiet, they only catch up on the weekends.
@smokingcrab229019 күн бұрын
Same bro. My wife left because I would not live next to her parents and I got sick of her control. So she left me for them and took my son. Now she's being nice but she blames me for everything. I could never get through to her and she was a wretched controlling manipulative communicator. I couldn't stand it and now I have to move on. It's so hard.
@VDCDRE8323 күн бұрын
She's been going so accurate the female I was in a relationship with had all these things to the extreme degree 😮
@krystalgreco26 күн бұрын
I was wondering if I was the narcissist listening to you just now made me feel so much better. I am not a narcissist😅
@dannymercer997126 күн бұрын
Another thing…I used to ask her to tell me about things she did in the past. She replied “I’m not gonna tell you anything.” But she did. She would tell me things by projecting them. Telling me about her sister thst was abused. Saying in the middle of church: “See that guy, he cheated on his wife 3 times.” And just the oddest behavior. Rape was a constant theme, but she was very callous to it. Of course I really didn’t put all this together. I didn’t know what narcissism was. The minute I looked it up, she was monitoring my KZbin around other websites and immediately blocked me.
@smokingcrab229019 күн бұрын
Yes my wife "confessed through projection" all the time
@lannybackes105324 күн бұрын
I went through a divorce before meeting my narc. There was serious detriment to my kids. It led me to put up with more abuse not wanting to see my kids with the narc, go through that which my oldest kids did. When I began to learn all the things in this video, when i began to set boundaries, to stand up for myself, to call her out for hwr narcissistic abuse and behaviors, she had no choice but to find a new supply and discard me in the only way she knew how. Sleep with the new supply, make sure I knew about it, and create as much pain in me she possibly could. It was eye for an eye, retribution for making her realize how bad she was and forcing her to look in the mirror at the person staring back without the mask. She truly hates who she is without the mask, but she had to turn that hate towards me and create a situation that would make her behavior justifiable. Yes there was reactive abuse, not extreme, but I pushed back, and she knew I would, and she knew it would allow her to play the victim with the new supply so that he could be the hero who saves the day. What Inhave come to know about the new supply, he is weak, he is much older, very unattractive and would otherwise not be with someone so much younger and attractive, so she pushes him around, gets her way and he caves in to every demand. Just what the narcissist needs. Even the divorce judge saw through all her BS and awarded me full custody. Absolutely slapped her in the face in the courtroom. I went in with nothing but facts and wasnt attempting to smear her, her own actions had already done that.
@V8RSWGN25 күн бұрын
OMG you really nailed it with my ex! Her family was definitely toxic, if not narcisstic and her sister was in the field of psychology. It's really interesting and sad how people in those fields don't have the self-awareness to look at themselves but have no problem throwing around those terms/diagnoses about others
@ruyko630022 күн бұрын
It's so sad how many people experience this kind of abuse. By the time I watched id say over 1-2k vids about narcissism, borderline, cluster b ect. and this is the best summary to all of it. Thanks so much for your video and the help you're providing to so many people :)
@Jensensrightfoot25 күн бұрын
Gentlemen you need to leave . If you can't leave immediately then make plans to leave and think forward . Be goal orientated in leaving her. Set boundaries and set plans in place to leave . When you're free there's nothing like it believe me . Please gentlemen leave her .
@sinntax25 күн бұрын
I would like to add that it is best to leave her.
@Sezginbayram23 күн бұрын
Yes bro absolutely
@JohnSzwed32723 күн бұрын
Don’t leave….RUn!!!
@tarekahmad297819 күн бұрын
Completely agree
@AgeOfGrace202326 күн бұрын
Just an example. I ran several calls all night at the firehouse while having the flu. I could barley drive home. When I got home I fell into bed and she started lighting me up verbally for not doing anything around the house. I pay all the bills and she has NO career. They simply do not care about your well being. I asked her not to schedule her part time job after I work, she does it every week. Ive pulled several all nighters and have to come home to take care of two toddlers on no sleep. She does a lot more but thats just one example of these soulless people not having empathy or any appreciation
@HikingDog-pv7es25 күн бұрын
I’m getting out of my marriage now. I went through the same situation as you. It doesn’t get better and holding onto hope just keeps you there longer. There is a better life that awaits you.
@AgeOfGrace202325 күн бұрын
@HikingDog-pv7es I completely understand. Im holding onto my kids. If I leave, she cant afford the house and will be forced to move in with her drunk father and crazy mother. Saving myself will sacrifice my children so I have to stay and raise them.
@barkburton125 күн бұрын
@@AgeOfGrace2023 these people are absolute monsters. Do you even trust your wife? Has she been faithful to you?
@AgeOfGrace202325 күн бұрын
@barkburton1 Shes done some things that have made me not trust her at all. I dont believe she has cheated. I can see it happening though. We have slept in the same bed for 3 years and she spends her nights looking up ex boyfriends. Like I said, Im here for the kids. The relationship is dead.
@barkburton125 күн бұрын
@ it doesn’t get better. Don’t make the same mistake I did and stay for the kids. The kids will be so much better off in the long run and will respect you more in the end. Trust me my kids are in their 20s now. Success financially will hide who your wife truly is, if you are unfortunate enough to have any hardships, you will see her true feelings. I could tell you some nightmare stories that I’ve dealt with the last 25 years. I can honestly say early on I told myself I was staying for the kids and there were some times that I thought were good but looking back none of them were. Protect yourself at all cost and prepare that at some point, all of it will come crashing down. She’s been gone now for two months and STILL after everything she has put me through. It has still been tough for me because I unconditionally loved her. But in the end, none of that mattered. I wish you nothing but the best. ✌️
@JAYSONGS25 күн бұрын
Thanks Coach! Affirmations and reinforcements. 🙏😻
@broGabiza26 күн бұрын
Healthcare staff and nurses are the worst
@GilbertFleming26 күн бұрын
i had one of those
@destinationunderground600626 күн бұрын
My ex 100%...covert narc RN. Proclaimed to everyone she was an empath but played some lethal headlamps and cheated at work with male nurses. Over the top sex in the beginning to turn around and use it for control, big hypocrite...left her mark on me for sure.
@1976smb26 күн бұрын
Dude mine became a nurse practitioner. I got discarded/disengaged earlier on because I wouldn't submit to control. Eventually she got a guy to pay for her nurse training, that she married and had a kid with. To make a long story short I fumbled way to not getting to engaged with her. I know her in 1998, and her husband had to deal with her in the late 2000's. This woman has tried to hoover me four times between 2000 and 2023. Wow as I watch this a provider huh, I have four engineering degrees. Yeah, sounds more impressive than it is because they're related fields besides the mechanical degree which I got a crap ton of help from work. Yup, very beautiful even at 41 last year, and I was 47.
@user-or9cj3vk6t25 күн бұрын
They're in government and push therapeutics and masks
@gfxmaniac25 күн бұрын
@@GilbertFleming me too.Such crazy
@billyliar161425 күн бұрын
It's very hard to know when to leave an abusive relationship because you don't know whether you are over-reacting and don't want to risk throwing everything away. There's normally a lot at stake in addition to the actual relationship such as material or financial security, a home, children, pets, whatever. Typically the abuse is mixed up with periods of affection and then when you raise concerns she'll brush them off saying 'oh all couples argue'' or 'you drove me to that screaming fit / name calling / character assassination with your 'passive aggressiveness' . Then you start wondering whether it's you or them or whether you're making a big deal out of it. Things get back to 'normal', for a while, then it isn't long before it deteriorates again. It's a brave thing to do to leave, a leap of faith in your own instincts, rational judgement and your courage to surrender the illusion of emotional support
@kumarayush496725 күн бұрын
So true, I was also confused whether to leave my narc ex gf or not. Whether I am the one over reacting. But, I love peace, I love happiness. With her I used to cry every night. I wasn't able to sleep, stopped going to the gym. Health was affected. Work was affected. My pet died and she was normal. For me this behaviour of her was not normal. So one morning I got a divine intervention and I was out.
@billyliar161425 күн бұрын
@kumarayush4967 Glad you found the courage and wisdom to leave, hope you're in a better place :)
@islandbreeze263125 күн бұрын
You are describing my mother! This video was really good, I just subscribed, thanks.
@meegdal25 күн бұрын
The best characteristic of female grandious narcissist I have found so far. Now I feel like chosen one to experience this and survive.
@GilbertFleming26 күн бұрын
A therapist was trying to help her see how her sever yelling and screaming attacks were effecting me. He told me to tape one of these conversations. I did. She hid the tape before our next appointment
@BlackBoyKingTV22 күн бұрын
How did she find it? Youre supposed to do it secretly. Use your brain 🤦🏿♂️
@GilbertFleming22 күн бұрын
@@BlackBoyKingTV It was a bit of a test. I put the hand held tape recorder in my hand and looked her in the eye. Wondering if she would stop raging and yelling, knowing that she was on tape. she hid it by the time we got to the therapist. I explained what happened and she did not deny it. It is a bit irrelevant becuase in less than a month, she sucker punched me while I was cleaing up the THanksgiving dishing and fractured rib no 7. It was crazy. She downplayed it like it was not a big deal. Looking back, I can't believe I spend 2 years with this woman. Thank GOD I was able to prevent us having kids
@u2canmakeadifference60323 күн бұрын
OMG!!! Liliya, you have described my ex-wife to a T!!! I experienced everything that you have said. I finally left the marriage after I had become severely depressed. What prevented from committing suicide was my children. Now my children will not speak to me, and I have missed the last eight years of their life. My depression also ended my 20 year teaching career. I am now trying to survive on my teacher’s pension of $16,600, after taxes and the family healthcare plan that I pay for. I live in Massachusetts, which has one of the highest costs of living in the US. My ex has basically destroyed my life. Why are there no laws to prevent or provide consequences for this type of behavior. There are laws to protect victims, and punish the abusers, if there is physical abuse. There should be laws to protect victims of psychological abuse, and to punish psychological abusers! Men, if what you’re hearing describes your wife or girlfriend, RUN! Get out of that relationship ASAP! If you have children, speak to them, and let them know that you love them very much, and do what you can to preserve that relationship as soon as you can, before it’s too late!!!
@lochnessmunster118913 күн бұрын
You survived, which is the most important thing.
@bluedogfish226 күн бұрын
wow she just described my wife my life to a T....shes on Trazadone and Zolft trying to keep it together mask comes off when she gets home
@justmichael662822 күн бұрын
I'm exceedingly glad to hear you share this information with other's in such a great time of need for so many . My heart goes out to you for doing so . " Thank you " And may you and yours recieve many blessings .
@MrJruta21 күн бұрын
This is the most accurate thing I’ve ever heard in my life! Fills in all the blanks
@bonitajolie934125 күн бұрын
This is 80 percent of the women I know. It may seem like and exaggerated number, but I assure you its most likely accurate. Once I learned what NPD REALLY was, I found my life was inundated with them. Why? I didnt have any boundaries. They LOVE that; draws them like bees to honey. I was also prepped from the beginning, being raised by a female narcissist. All of my sisters are narcs. They're abusive feminists that are hateful towards men... . Yet they always have to have one. Go figure that one out. I spend most of my time alone because curent culture celebrates this type of crazy behavior. Sigh. The woman is always the victim, no matter how evil she is. Good luck men!
@lochnessmunster118913 күн бұрын
Oh yes. I was in a relationship with a woman who openly said that she doesn't like men. It amazed me.
@bhaveshshah45623 күн бұрын
Wonderful and really insightful, Libiya. Thanks a lot.
@joshcassidy8426 күн бұрын
Wow. Once again, bang on … 🙏 you helped me understand and help my healing years ago.. thank you so much.
@BANGKOKJUNGLE16 күн бұрын
Amazing…thank you. I was so far in but you have helped me plan a better way forward.💙
@kennethkunz244925 күн бұрын
This is really really good - thank you!
@childrenoftheuniverse434822 күн бұрын
"A lot of women working in psychology, nurses, social workers" wow I get it now... I just broke up with a girl who was smart and deep into body and energy healing, spirituality, shamanic chantings, yet she cheated me for no reason, and was totally egocentric on her emotional level, totally blind and selfish of the possible suffering it can induce to want two boyfriends without the consent of me as her first partner, in the name of "i love everyone" and "cheating doesn't exist in my realm" and "i regret nothing" later calling me "weak and hypocrite" and "enjoying self victim role " a little monster involved in personal development communities... She's so nice with everyone except she couldn't face facts and admitting it's wrong at first place. Don't trust people with what they say, watch their actions instead. There were narcissistic signs that I ignored because of all the circus of a good person she claims to be
@brettanderson40212 күн бұрын
It seems like she was trying awfully hard to convince others how nice she was, when it was actually the opposite
@childrenoftheuniverse43482 күн бұрын
@@brettanderson4021 yes she still does... after blocking me on all possible social apps, and that i said she's a sl*t and i don't want any further contact with her, after all the damage and ugliness she inflicted to me she sent me a nice message for happy new year lol... funny part is she wanted me to receive her hny wishes before anybody else, she sent me his few days before the actual nexw year LOL. What I feel is she keeps trying to "fix" her own image and self esteem, despite there's nothing to do, I won't forget and won't forgive. Cheery on the cake : she cheated me with a chinese buddhist monk who practiced sexual abstinence for years. They're both spiritual frauds haha
@m998hmmwv721 күн бұрын
My eldest sister is the most cold cruel sociopath narcissist. I want nothing to do with her ever again.
@dragonfly371422 күн бұрын
I am impressed how you in 14 minutes tell the story of my life. Not my whole life but my life beeing married and years in court being sued. I dont tell this for you Lillya but for those who is in this shit today. 15 years ago i was a second from being totally destroyd. After a while I met the best friend I have ever had. MEE 😀 She did not break my heart like all the shit in these romantic songs. She " just" opened it. When you have been down under where its darker then black and are back after " a while" you are born again. Its strange but many years ago i needed adrenalin , a lot of people to have fun blah blah blah... Now I can sit alone out in the wood alone every christmas for 15 years being satisfied. My oldest son have not talked to me for 3-4 years and its crazy but I have learned myself just to give a shit.I know she will also try to destroy the relationship to my other son. Grandchildren ++ So what in the end the truth will survive and the lies will die. Its sad she destroes for my grown up sons ,-but they have to learn as well. I never ever talks shit about her. I have learned myself a rule which help me every day : if you dont have one single expectation to other people you will never be unhappy about them . Its like Jesus said inside you you will find what you need. 15 years ago I screamed in anger at God. Today I thank him for helping me get rid of her. That's amazing. Merry Christmas Senora Labonte you just got a new follower.
@JamesAHirons_26 күн бұрын
Two and a half years since my discard. Lots of parental alienation happening now.
@RyanJohnson-x1x26 күн бұрын
Right there with you brother. Your not alone
@Tarsarian26 күн бұрын
Always stick to the facts, it has saved my a$$ countless times.
@JamesAHirons_25 күн бұрын
@@Tarsarian absolutely. Luckily I'm a diarist and blogger. I've published my memoirs now. Reading it back, I see I've been used since day 1.
@DMBriffa26 күн бұрын
Excellent content. You completely get it.
@manunit365915 күн бұрын
Forty years with the female Narc & I always had the feeling she constantly had one foot out the door...seeking outside Male validation which she sought too close to home if you get my drift. I feel I finally figured it out & I have some empathy for Her to go thru life with NPD. It doesn't get better it gets worse as the Narc ages...a horrible curse!
@jaialaiwarrior26 күн бұрын
You might not get "closure," but you can let someone know that they're a waste of your and everyone else's time.
@JYPSYEYE17 күн бұрын
Watched quite a few educational videos regarding NARC / SOC PATH ~ This was a shot right up the middle and *bing *bing *bing *bing all the wayyy. Thank you -
@jamess.82925 күн бұрын
Brilliant. Thank you very much for these insightful videos. I am learning so much from you.
@ShayneLewis-rg3rb22 күн бұрын
You hit the nail on the head!
@BBQR916SmokehouseandBrewpub25 күн бұрын
Wonderful content. Spot on. Thank you, you're an amazing coach.
@jonsnow91125 күн бұрын
3:40 disgusted with weakness, 6:40 put you down as a plan, 7:20 believe own lies, 9:30 keep you hopeful
@VlasalV26 күн бұрын
I was still in doubt: does she have BPD, NPD, or both? This video clarified it. Thank you.
@Michaelcollins111016 күн бұрын
Holy shit this is very accurate to what I experienced recently.
@xondamirxalmedov40325 күн бұрын
this is so true. i almost went insane. 8 yrs of my life.
@joelaustin540814 күн бұрын
Nailed it!
@Mac-sb6dr25 күн бұрын
Great video but one thing is incorrect. They do not believe thier own lies. I had the pleasure of spending an afternoon with the late great Jack Trimarco (ex head of FBI polygraphy dept) and I asked this very question he assured me they know they’re lying. That’s why when they get caught in a lie they change thier story
@davidb373826 күн бұрын
Ruined me from dating again!
@MrDonjuan123425 күн бұрын
Liliana you are giving the lowlights of my marriage
@tonyaskins960019 күн бұрын
Thank you for explaining what I’ve been through. You’ve given me a new perspective and a whole new way of dealing with my situation. Thank you so much.
@richardapril420524 күн бұрын
On couple therapy: ...such a level of shame that they would have to face...that we, empaths could take, but for them they simply can't - I confirm from my experience.
@Thedisgardedoptimist25 күн бұрын
Thanks again Liliya.. 🐬☮️🐬
@danielkettels887922 күн бұрын
Very accurate to the point.
@pierreepohmoudio760922 күн бұрын
100% agree with everything you said
@HOLLYWOODNYCITY20 күн бұрын
She is spot on with 50 percent of women i deal with
@stevencannon943824 күн бұрын
The content in this video is 💥🎯
@prabir.someshwar23 күн бұрын
great advice that resonated
@Rick40years13 күн бұрын
My wife criticized me to my mother, my sister, friends, and neighbors, from day one. I really believe she believes her own lies and reality distortions. She is an Attorney and tells everyone she doesn't have any money. Strangely, I pay all the bills.
@GrouseAttack18 күн бұрын
Her: “You pay for things, plan adventures for us, cook and do the dishes because I don’t like to…but that’s not enough, I need more.” Me: “Goodbye”.
@johnmaggiorino449320 күн бұрын
Thanks❤
@saturdayschild853516 күн бұрын
I can very much see the woman (and men) the ex husband left me for sending him stuff like this based on his projection of himself onto me. I’m staying single until I heal significantly. I don’t wish a man or woman like this on anyone. Heal well, Fellow survivors. You’re stronger than you know, or the would not have picked you.
@whatchamacallit471123 күн бұрын
brilliant.
@DarylTungate17 күн бұрын
I can relate to all of you
@troymcintosh256425 күн бұрын
They believe it... that's what makes it so scary
@davetessier887317 күн бұрын
Quarter of a century I was a simp. Wow.
@biglimited21 күн бұрын
Thank You
@ADSDLD17 күн бұрын
Is it possible as a narcissist I turned my female partner into a narcissist and now she is doing the same thing as I was ?
@Adeltraut-l8y25 күн бұрын
Wow.... this was a Machine Gun Fire of the hard, disgusting reality.
@henryvickery382825 күн бұрын
Thank you this describes my wife
@biff64701924 күн бұрын
I think it would be very helpful if you explained the difference between the girl you're explaining and every other girl out there, or at least, girls who are good, and not narcissistic. I hear a lot about girls looking for a man with money or potential to make money, a protector, a man who will save her, and so on and so on. I suppose I should say these aren't the only things I have come to expect to hear things without the allowance for the possibility that anything they want could ever be unreasonable or inappropriate or disrespectful or for them to be appreciative or realistic.
@u2canmakeadifference60320 күн бұрын
She is describing my ex-wife, a Director of Religious Education, and her oldest sister, an empath on steroids! 🙄
@GilbertFleming26 күн бұрын
wow
@funzokuu940317 күн бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯
@Deboe3726 күн бұрын
Mine work for courthouse in child support
@ritesshhahuja610226 күн бұрын
What to do if you have a child with her? Great video BTW.m
@obiessen21 күн бұрын
ask yourself; whats your dark side and how you manifest it and when? so you know if you are narcist;) you can ask after you are not for people around you ,just ask. fun.
@rossanderson524326 күн бұрын
I could be wrong , but zi think women have a sense of entitlement anyway.
@je8z6x22 күн бұрын
Why do we discuss more of narcissism instead of science, innovations and financial literacy?
@NarcissistHex-nf9eq26 күн бұрын
Excellent content. You completely get it, I think most females fall into the category of borderline though or at least covert narcissism.
@OfSoulAndSin26 күн бұрын
F¥
@oonojoe16 күн бұрын
Unbelievable.
@chipsdad586126 күн бұрын
I was married to Nichole Myles. She is on KZbin still running me down. She destroyed our marriage for money.
@DMBriffa26 күн бұрын
In fairness to you, I need to hear both sides of the argument. I have an open mind. No disrespect to either of you. Just fairness.
@chipsdad586126 күн бұрын
@@DMBriffa I have laid my side out in the comments. I would love to have a disinterested person look at both sides. Key word Nichole Myles Silent fight. I have put hundreds of comments in all Time stamped to her comments.
@chipsdad586126 күн бұрын
@@DMBriffa Silent fight channel. Nichole comes in at 20:40 kzbin.infomuegxw7SImg?si=0fX4m4rBSXNWcZ9L
@SomeGuy-xf9bc26 күн бұрын
This might be too knee-jerk, but just from her smile at the start, I don't believe a word she says. So many women seem to have Munchausen syndrome. She's just gleeful to tell how abused she was.
@chipsdad586125 күн бұрын
@@SomeGuy-xf9bc I am only speculating but I believe Nichole was abused as a child by her father. I am only speculating based on meeting him a few times and hearing her comments about her family. Nichole may have been abused but she was not abused by me.
@JohnSzwed32716 күн бұрын
Sadly, you simply feel in love with a fake person. She was a ghost. For your sanity, kill the hope and walk away. Try hard to erase all memories and learn the hurtful lesson. She will never be well. Safe yourself. Period.
@teddyfabz83526 күн бұрын
Vicious and no soul
@georgejaggy671823 күн бұрын
SPOT ON !!! 100% !!! BULLSEYE !!! WOW !!!!!!!
@bongjamesbong0042025 күн бұрын
Wow you're so pretty 😳
@Andy-bl8gg20 күн бұрын
So what causes it? Abuse, inconsistent parenting, spiritual lack or demonic, neurons didnt form from not being nurtured properly, inherited, etc...i mean thats what ive found. How can you create part of the brain or mind, if its not there its not there. It woild be like explaining color to soneone color blind I know the brain is neuroplastic and empathy maybe can develop? What about gene therapy? It might just be you have to know how they are and maybe they cannot help it but you decide if its something you want to put up with, does the good outweigh the bad? And to them it might not be bad per se, its just how they are they only know what they know or are capable of knowing, i guess...your thoughts?
@FoxSleeping26 күн бұрын
Jesus was single. He knew. Be like Jesus.
@krystalgreco26 күн бұрын
@@FoxSleeping dang ok well said
@smokingcrab229019 күн бұрын
If only I didn't want sex
@RyanReagan-h7d23 күн бұрын
narcissist and most predictable people in the world that's why they get dumped so often my people that are intelligent enough to know even if they're ignorant you can read between the lines somewhat and the timing is righttaste it you do feel it coming so end it when
@bluest152425 күн бұрын
Why not lose the hard coded subtitles? They are distracting and unnecessary. There's a CC option on KZbin for anyone who likes it.
@darksidechevy572021 күн бұрын
Are you a fortune teller..that is 100% my life right now...but I decided to end it at 9 years and I'm in California which is considered a short term marriage..shes not happy about that.
@tarekahmad297819 күн бұрын
I disagree you should expose them
@JesperAndersson-v3n25 күн бұрын
deal that will get you nowhere fast
@kirkstewart-vf6hg25 күн бұрын
Of course they never love you! Because they never love themselves.. Always searching for MR GOODBAR...