HOW TO HEAL FROM A DYSFUNCTIONAL BACKGROUND 1

[@Godsfavoritechild100]

The worst thing about growing up in an abusive home is that the parent never realizes and apologize for what they did wrong. They act like it never happened and pretend like they are your friend when you are older and they need something from you. I pray that God helps us to heal and live free. 🙏

[@ebaiyvonne9261]

Ahhh exactly my case. My mother is so toxic and narcissist. I have cut off from her bad energy and condemnation. One thing I like about myself is that when I let go I let go

[@ebaiyvonne9261]

She mocks me every time because I don't have a job yet and she instead loves my elder brother because he has money. I wonder if this challenge is going to end but I believe in my God

[@innocentbisibukola754]

It would end my brother. Keep faith alive

[@AnastasiachideraAnastasia]

Amen 😢

[@ribaker822]

Oh, your comment just spoke to my heart. This is so true. May we heal so that we don't hurt our children.

[@magdaleneidris9313]

This is my first time watching any sermon from this minstry and I can say this hits hard. I recently moved away from home / my parents, and I can say I have been faced with a lot of traumas it’s like I thought leaving would set me free but it was when I left I realized I had a lot of work to do. I had to heal from certain childhood trauma and neglect as a child which has caused me great pain, trust issues and dysfunctional relationships with both male and females. I’m opened to healing and hoping that I have a normal family someday.

[@AnastasiachideraAnastasia]

Amen 😢

[@anthoniaukate3863]

Amen 🙏 I wish I could hug you physically 😔 🤗

[@magdaleneidris9313]

@@anthoniaukate3863 Thank you

[@dinahokoro5414]

Amen!

[@aleruchidestiny1379]

God who started the process by allowing you to see this message will perfect your healing.

[@CuriosityCornerIQ]

I think one day, maybe on an Independence day, the president should have an announcement on all Television stations and this teaching should come on in Nigeria

[@ifunanyathomas2918]

For the first time in my life I’m searching for a sermon and eager to listen to the end and repeatedly. For the first time, I feel I’ve found the truth.

[@oluwatosinrebecca3733]

Same here ,work makes stop half way ,each time I’m less busy I go back to it again

[@isell_global124]

Lord You have blessed my generation with men like Apostle Lazarus! Thank you 🙏

[@rumekpadamrophe912]

Sadly, most Nigerians grew up in disfunctional homes. I hope more people listen to this.

[@beckleyomolara789]

Okay, so recently my hubby has been sending me your short clips on facebook and i grew in love with your teachings and just this early hours at work i saw this full video on youTube and i was drawn to it..even before it commenced , i was already in tears because i dont want to bring up my kids the same way i was. Thank you Apostle

[@adepoju__temitope]

Kai Apostle, first time listening to a full sermon and I’m undoubtedly blessed. My God 🥹🥹😭😭. Thank you Sir

[@ijeomanlemchukwu3732]

This message is something I can’t fathom with human understanding. Our God is really raising giants in our times that are resetting the system in Church for his coming. Thank you so much Apostle Femi, God bless and keep you and your family in this days in Jesus name. Amen. It’s amazing

[@abemhirna4152]

This man is a blessing,we pray our generation will be able to heal and do things differently

[@sat_702]

8 minutes into this sermon am already in tears 😢I pray 🙏🏾 that I make it through this teaching

[@sharicutty]

The fact that you are asking is a proof that you are thinking differently and you will come out!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Airdrop_Clinic]

This man is a preacher,teacher, pastor and an apostle

[@kadiatukallon3542]

I thank God for bringing me to see this sermon. I'm also coming from a dysfunctional home and I battle a lot because of it. But I know that God is setting things right! He is doing it for me 🙏🏿❤️🙌🏿

[@AnastasiachideraAnastasia]

Amen 😢

[@divaliciousdiva2560]

i just finished watching this with my husband, i cried, he cried, this resonated so much with us, thank u Pastor.

[@femi_lazarus]

Wow. I'm glad it blessed you!

[@IshFoods]

​@@femi_lazarusI need to talk to this pastor because things are not sitting well with me.😢😭😭🙏

[@folashadeadeoye7421]

Thank you pastor for raising this. This is what the lord has been speaking to me , to help those that grew from dysfunctional homes. I had the experience and God helped me , he spoke to my heart to help others . Thank you sir, i can totally Relate

[@omotolaniabolade5093]

Really need help😢

[@diannaoffor]

Reading this title alone brings tears to my heart but I thank Jesus he is working on my heart, my home will not be dysfunctional in the name of Jesus

[@BAAR.]

My mother raised us by herself, and she raised us well! Nobody knew life was going to go the way it did. I'm super proud of my Mother. A man who is afraid of the progress of his woman is insecure, and weak!

[@aimeez0440]

The generation that will change things is the generation that will question things.

[@princeselormk.agordah8288]

i started listening to pastor femi, about 3 months ago, and I have been asking myself since since..."where has this man been hiding!?" God bless you man of God. Your message was a hard mirror for me and I'm sharing this with my siblings. i know we needed healing and this is what you have brought us. thank you 😭

[@bernicedoku5241]

Same with me. I love listening to him now❤

[@ConfidenceChinasa]

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I'm in tears listening to this massage. I wish My parents had the opportunity to hear this. Thank You ABBA for the privilege to be a partaker of this blessings

[@sonitayufenyuy]

Your upbringing shapes the way you perceive life If the foundations be destroyed what can the Righteous do. First things first, i need to heal from my past. Because God has in store for me for the future and i just can't mess it up with my overreacting to things. Heal me Holy Spirit 🙏

[@lucyphilip4292]

I was raised by my father....he abused me continually when I was a child. Am a single mom with 2 boys raising them alone. I need help psychologically. Oh Lord help me

[@KetsiaFodjon]

Lucy the Lord is your help, will pray for you to heal.

[@yvonneodul8291]

Am so sorry,may you find healing in God and get counseling, Pastor Joyce Meyer was also abused and she rose above that with God's help,may God help you in your healing journey

[@blessingsyahweh185]

Be healed sis😢😢😢

[@pettiolugbile879]

The first step to healing is forgiving the offenders. Second, forgive yourself. Third, accept the love that Jesus Christ offers. You are blessed in the name of Jesus Christ amen ❤️❤️❤️

[@blessingekle3496]

So calm, yet pouring out deep thoughts,

[@HannahAmabu]

i never thought i will be heal from my worries and stagnation but God did it for me through your messages halleluyah 🙏 thank you pastor i am connecting from Abuja.

[@jackobot7905]

What kind of man are you sir, Your knowledge is a total shift from the regular religious pastor. Most Pastors go about criticizing people without having the slightest knowledge of what the person is going through. Total Ignorance. I love this message

[@OlorunmayeDorcas]

This sermon is a big reset for me. Thank God for His grace over you sir. More annoiting and revelation for you sir. Amen 🙏🏿 Unto the next. Part 2

[@Obabinrin]

This sermon is a blessing from God to correct generational confusion and dysfunctional households.

[@cewjnyte]

My God. How is it that your sermon resonates so much that it feels that you are taking words out of not just my mouth but my heart?There is something divinely genuine about theSpirit that lives in you pastor Femi Lazarus. May God Almigh Be praised!

[@nuellasnuggets]

Sir, no lies in this. As a PK, I can testify. I shared how I had to change my perspective on prayer in my book “PRAY this.” I'm still learning but I'm grateful for the revelation. 🙏🏾

[@aimeez0440]

We cannot have a new Nigeria without discussing family. Thanks for this message sir, someone shared the link and I know I will be blessed for listening and adhering. God bless you.

[@oloridestiny3251]

I’m upset that I didn’t find your sermons earlier but I am also grateful to God that brought this video on to my fyp you are blessing to my generation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@DivineAbraham-rr3po]

This is so true I think there should be a book on this Its really going to help our generation

[@blessingetienodickson4949]

I watched a reel of this message on Facebook. I screen recorded it. I wanted to post it but it turned out I didn't recorded it well. I went back to Facebook but couldn't find it. I decided to check it out on KZbin and I am glad I did. God bless you sir.

[@jemimaeric6575]

I wish I could make this church my church. I love these sermons. God bless you, Pastor Femi Lazarus

[@emmanuellaauta8760]

You can🎉

[@AdesolaAkinyanmi]

This sermon got me crying. My Mum stayed for us but she died when the time was ripe for her to start eating the fruits of her labour. This is such a reset sermon!!!

[@adebisiamida2080]

Sorry about that. Her memory is blessed.

[@itsallaboutjesus6111]

This man of God understand 😢I have found my therapist 💯🥳

[@joychika1929]

I never knew such message is here. Thank you Sir for being used to dig out the root of my problem 😭😭😭 I'm healed today and forever

[@joychika1929]

I'm in part 3 right now

[@marychadeka5597]

Thank you for these teachings. We don't need counseling from the world first, come here first.... I bet by the time you finish you will not need any counselling....... This teaching is deliverance on its own

[@chukwuemekaokonkwo7148]

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh..... Apostle God bless you ... Look at the way you are so composed spitting fire 🔥, I want to listen to this over and over again ... God bless you ❤️

[@felixdanso9996]

I'm Felix from Ghana. I must confess this message is for me... God help us all. It is well

[@thetransitioningchannel806]

Kai! This is my first time listening to Apostle Femi Lazarus’ message and I'm wowed! God bless you, sir. You nailed this one oo!

[@Deejayfozter]

For the first time I heard a sermon for one hour on KZbin

[@onomeazih3053]

My husband came from dysfunctional family....he started living with his Aunt from 9yrs. He didn't experience love growing up and now he does not know how to show love to his own children....all he does is criticize them, never praises even qhen they do well ...now his own children dislike him... never want to be near him.... and its affects our only daughter who hates him with passion....it really bothers me....been praying for her....for God help me on this matter 🙏

[@rebeccaattah6544]

I was in tears listening to this sermon Thank you so much Sir You have no idea what you have done for me.. God bless you abundantly ❤

[@ayokunnumialatise6635]

This is powerful I have not heard a sermon like this in recent years

[@samsonodigie7300]

One of the biggest things God did for me was that my mother stayed.....

[@francisnkechinyerenneoma1954]

The sermon is so relentable with the story of my life😭😭 I've been seeking for solutions to my trauma for years ever since my childhood but to no avail the trauma has dealt with me so bad that I'm scared of marriage now... God bless you pastor I believe this sermon is freedom I have long awaited for.. my soul 8ve finally seen the deliverance it seeks for a long time😭😭😭😭

[@siyanbola4788]

First timer and listening 3 months afterwards. Thank God for the divine unction given to deliver this profound sermon. So so blessed and delivered by the Word

[@kingdomshighway7168]

Thank you, thank you, thank you. Listening to this message blessed me tremendously. My healing has began since listening to you from first week of December. I am grateful for all this timely messages.

[@johnpaulowori5499]

thanks for teaching me how to parent . this is a blessing

[@olabisiolajide2419]

What a word.. so much truth, God bless you, Sir. May this message go far to the ears of all who need to hear this in Jesus' name 🙏

[@busayomibabalola]

This is undoubtedly powerful! This is truly a lot!

[@oluwatosinawoniyiLive]

Messages like these give me joy! Upbringing/background has done a lot of damage to people and they don't even know it. Thank you so much for this!

[@cherissagold]

All I can say is wow. There’s a reason why I clicked on this video. Thank you Jesus!

[@iwuchukwujoyshouldiappycre3620]

Thank you sir

[@ayooloyin]

Sir this is amazing, after Instagram nuggets I decided to come check more on KZbin and I was not disappointed thank you sir for saying yes to God

[@Debbysworld_]

🙌🙌🙌

[@folorunshoviavonu3560]

I got to know about you this morning through the WhatsApp status of a friend. It's the best thing I have gained from social media. God bless you richly, sir, in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

[@celenhledlamini4027]

This sermon brought me to tears😢so much revelation and truth❤️God bless you man of God🙌🏽

[@awuorochuodho6394]

Wow! Wow! Wow! Am lost for words! But, the number of times I have had to pause to just absorb the teaching because it was like Apostle was talking about me! Definitely coming to listen again and will be sharing it with my siblings and ftiends and anyone in my circle I feel will need this message!

[@deborahmanari4286]

I've seen a man who dishes the absolute truth. Thank you Lord 🙌

[@AB1kaenobi]

These truths. It's interesting how I woke up with this family dysfunction heavy on my mind. I had cried literally because I was coming to terms with certain dynamics, and then I'm led to a post that leads me to this message! God is indeed in the details

[@tolukolade2331]

The generation that will change things are the Generation that will question things

[@Jessica_Idibo]

This is timely message. Thanks Apostle for this series

[@johnpaulowori5499]

so true......

[@abiolaalice9611]

I love this teaching, it is really shaking tables of religion

[@blessingowoyomi4324]

Such a powerful message, had to cry at some point . Thank you sir

[@SEUNNY2306]

Very correct message. This message must be preached and heard in all churches.

[@AngelicaaKalu]

This is the first time I've encountered a sermon that actually tackles this issue on childhood trauma, mental health and emotional wellness. God bless you sir❤.

[@azariaministries]

LISTENING TO YOU FOR THE FIRST TIME BUT I AM BLESSED AND HAVE SHARED WITH ALL MY CHILDREN. GOD BLESS YOU APOSTLE FEMI

[@oluebubesuccess5382]

Thank God i came across dz sermon God wants me to become better,😌 God bless you Apostle❤

[@carrentugoi]

Dysfunctional families are real.. i thank God for using this man to speak about this .. I am receiving healing in the name of Jesus Let me choose forgiveness ,,, I wanna let them go .. am not holding on to anyone anymore

[@SimisolaAdetayo]

I really wish but the memory keeps dragging me back. I just wish I can forget completely. It's a terrible feeling.

[@SoundsofNature-nf5rp]

I love this man's teaching.

[@FaithDoom]

I love apostle Femi so much he talks about my challenges in almost all his sermons

[@taiwoal]

Thank you Apostle Femi Lazarus. May God Bless, SUSTAIN and Enlarge you. AMEN.

[@blessingdowie4883]

God bless you and your ministry sir. You are a treasure to our generation. Thank you for making the decision to change the pattern. God is healing every dysfunctionality in my life and family in Jesus' name!

[@misstokunbo]

Merciful God, thank you for helping me locate this sermon!

[@hannahotumfuo2282]

Hah! This is for me😢 If someone shows too much caring I find it a problem. I'm okay even if I'm not okay. May the Lord heal me

[@borokinniblessing8172]

I really bless God for this teaching... It has fixed me totally

[@ezennennafortunate2770]

Wow wow wow. God bless you Sir for this teachings. Our future is blessed and secure already. We are healed from dysfunctional backgrounds.

[@joshinfiniti2986]

Another huge blessing to this generation ❤️🙏🏾💯✅

[@veronicatawo6796]

Apostle this is a message for this generation. May God bless you more.

[@ijay_achinike]

You're a true man of God sir🙌...Thank you so much for this message and prayers🙏🙏

[@solomonmusa3046]

This is a life changing enlightenment. So edifying.

[@prekamsproperties]

I have not finished watching I know this message has come to set so many free and myself. I celebrate your Grace Sir

[@abigae___2899]

My God 😭. I am literally crying as I am listening. I will come out o 😢. Thank you sir.

[@angelynsam9694]

A mighty man of God indeed you are Apostle Femi. God bless and keep you, increase your oil, amen

[@henryijeoma2228]

This sermon is important for everyone

[@nazfav2757]

The practicality of this teaching screams wisdom. You did an indepth research about the topic Sir. I celebrate you greately Sir and this teaching blessed me beyond my imagination.

[@DannyAddyAlpha]

Wow wow wow...precise and accurate knowledge ❤.my beart is filled with joy

[@ebybliss]

Thank you Lord for this vessel. Continue to preach the true gospel Sir. May God uphold you.

[@efunshilemoses4679]

this message is for me because i lack parental care,my mom lay alot of causes on me when growing up and now shes expecting alot from me.i having issues giving back to her my father was nowhere to be found until i was 21 years

[@osatohamenosatohamen]

Same with my dad

[@maneyanombwende9269]

Sending hugs,kisses and deliverance from all those curses.Amen

[@opeyemiolawole4627]

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[@opeyemiolawole4627]

What the time and what the heck What is that speech 💬. Who are you telling me your name 📛😠 Sorry that my mom If you don't tell me I will report. If you see o It is me Opeyemi Olawole.

[@justmeahom]

Every African family needs to listen to this message

[@SiniMulder]

European here.. 😅

[@omotayoesther5520]

This series is filled with so much Wisdom.. Thank You Apostle

[@akinwalechristiana5128]

Thank you very much pastor Femi Lazarus. For these powerful insight, indeed we need to start asking questions so that change can really happen, the grace to forgive and let go of hurt is resting upon me IJN.

[@coachbimbola]

I celebrate your gift of teaching sir

[@KCO760]

I needed this😢😢😢, from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@trudyanneyram9821]

Most African home ooo.Thank you soo much Ps Femi Lazarus

[@Mercylifechinwendu]

Thank you so much, sir..... A mindset has been reset today for good 😊

[@chideraprecious3972]

This message is indeed a blessing to me

[@mpumie_mabasa7042]

This hurts me somuch growing up from an abusive background,th way am so traumatised I don’t even wann be married anymore😭😭😭Oh God heal me

[@AngelicaHutchinson1]

The Lord will heal you and a beautiful and loving family will come forth through you; a blessed generation in Jesus Christ name amen🥺🙏🏽❤️

[@collinsedafe6571]

My dear trust God, he will bring the right man that will help you in the process of your healing in Jesus name

[@pmulah4433]

Thank you Apostle you don’t know how much you are helping us in realising how where we are coming from has programmed us in a wrong way .I have set myself on a path to healing