FEMININE HYGIENE | SORRY MOM | SUPER PERSONAL CHIT CHAT

[@kriss_lynn]

I had my period for 365 days straight before I went to the dr and found out I had cervical cancer, definitely listen to your body and take care of it. Great video for us girls.

[@indiabatson26]

Krissy Potter wow! Thank you so much for taking the time to share this Krissy! How are you doing now?

[@thwhitewolff]

Glad you caught it, and you're still here today!

[@melissabhola7012]

Oh wow so sorry to hear that...hope you are doing alot better now hun💜💛

[@kriss_lynn]

IndiaBatson I had surgery and it came back a few years later where we went in more aggressive, I was diagnosed 2011, I was told I probably couldn’t have kids because they removed some of my cervix...but I have an 18 month and a 1 month old and we are all healthy!

[@wambi10]

Krissy Potter aww! I’m so happy you had kids and that everyone is healthy!

[@Grace-rh4em]

This may sound weird but thank you for saying vagina.😂 I've just found it frustrating when people in videos sidestep the word when there isn't anything wrong with it. I am so happy you did this video, I truly believe there isn't anything wrong with talking about the female body, and It's so important that women, especially younger women, learn how our bodies function so we can take care of ourselves. Thank you for stepping up and being a big sister. 💜

[@indiabatson26]

A.G. Rinker THANK YOU FOR THIS COMMENT!!!! It means more to me than you know. I was worried how ppl would take this video the wrong way and think it was vulgar with me using the word, but ppl are reacting with love and being fabulous. So I’m super relieved, because I was worried !!!! Lol THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT!

[@Grace-rh4em]

IndiaBatson 💜💜💜💜💜

[@kadenceraylynne4119]

IndiaBatson I called it the same thing when I was younger. Well sorta. “Front Butt”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@theinkypanda8117]

I lost my mom when I was three, and I was the oldest my sister was like 1 when she passed. My stepmom never taught us anything, I remember when I got my first period I was crying because I had NO IDEA what was going on. (Sex Ed never taught us about it) It was my DAD that took me to get my tampons and ice cream. He bought a whole bunch of books on mood swings and girl puberty just so he could help us. But no research in the world could amount to what a woman can teach you, you taught me a bunch of new stuff today that I'll definitely pass on to my little sis. Thank you! ❤️

[@shiarachristian9623]

My mum and I call it “Australia” because it’s down under

[@taenotswift98]

😂😂😂

[@deborahmartin7188]

I am from Australia. I am gkad you know where we are. Heehee

[@saramaria7709]

Hahahahahahahahahahah

[@peytonwhittle]

That’s awesome!

[@katymlolo]

and we say the C word a lot in Aus.

[@jessliff8750]

Just shared this with my 16year old sister. Our mum died 8 years ago. She lives in young adult social care. It's wonderful that this kind of support is there for all of us, and to know we're not alone, encouraging us to talk about our vagina's! Power to you. It's rare to find women as beautiful inside and out as you are ❤

[@indiabatson26]

Jess Liff oh my goodness. Literally just teared up reading this. So much love to you and your sister! I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. But you are an incredible sister! I wish you nothing but the best babe. You are beautiful 💛

[@lesliecalva3820]

Oh my God yes I love you India Batson you're my queen thank you for being like a sister to me

[@indiabatson26]

Leslie’s Life you are the sweetest! So much love to you. Thank you for your endless support Leslie

[@Maya.0114]

I agree, people avoid saying it either because it's embarrassing or the meaning of the name is anti feminist (apparently?). It is what it is, no need to be ashamed of it

[@katiewarren769]

Loved this video!!! I would love if you made a series with various types of “feminine” videos, ex, period,hygiene,hair removal tips.

[@nikkid8834]

Yes!

[@suzanneanderson345]

In defense of your mom, who is my age, we grew up in a different era. You would shudder at the lack of information we were given in the olden days. You are a very brave, inspiring young lady with a platform to impact the lives of young girls who so desperately need positive role models. It is a testament to your mother's parenting skills that you are doing so in such a positive way. She has done an AMAZING job.However, PLEASE go to a GYN. They are not just for those who are sexually active. Birth control pills are treating symptoms not cause AND changing your system with hormones has it's own set of risks.

[@gracekellman8049]

Suzanne Anderson hi! Try not to generalize your generation. My mom is part of the same generation and she always made sure I had as much info as possible. Much love❤️❤️

[@amiamuller3908]

Thank you so much for being real and unafraid to talk about all this stuff! There are so many Christian girls that are afraid to talk about vaginas, underwear, birth control, ect. So thanks for being so open about it. It really means a lot!! 😘😘

[@wambi10]

My mom just called it a vagina but I heard a woman today call hers a “lady taco” Hahahaha!

[@trombonegirlie23]

I went through this when I was 14. After only having my period for 2 years at that point my body never evened out on its own. I would bleed heavily for months, I couldn’t keep up and would ruin jeans and underwear. Going to a doctor who was very concerned helpful was the best thing I could have done. It took patience and trying difference things to find the solution. Ultimately birth control was the best solution for me as well. But I tried almost all of them out there before figuring out which one my body responded to best. So even if that one doesn’t work keep trying! Have patience and a support system and you will get back to being yourself ❤️ And I agree, if somethings not right go see someone. The best piece of advice a doctor or gave me was if it’s interfering with your everyday life it’s something you should seek care for.

[@heidigraham2472]

I love how open and real you are about this stuff. We need more of this in the world. I was never taught anything about feminine hygiene growing up and barely knew what a period was or how to deal with it so when I was trying to have a baby I had no idea that my cycle wasn’t normal and that I had fertility problems because of it. Things would have been much simpler if I’d just had someone to have these types of conversations with. Thank you for always being so real!

[@faithmonro7891]

Oh my days, I fricken love these chats you do! Girls Room is one of the best series you have started. I’m 22 and watching your videos just makes me feel so comfortable and determined to stop putting others first (also stop letting my thoughts control everything) and take better care of myself. From over here in Australia, love and appreciate you, Faith 🌻

[@elainawinter8292]

Girl you've gotta get a copy of "Taking Charge of Your Fertility"! I honestly never truly understood a monthly cycle and the hormones behind it until I got a copy of this book. It may really help you find some answers as to why your cycles may be out of whack and also help you to understand how birth control can mask fertility issues rather than truly solving them. I'm not saying that to discourage you from using the pill, just encouraging you to learn more about it from the book. It is empowering to understand how God designed our bodies to work!

[@megalopolis2015]

Excellent point, Elaina. PCOS can be a major factor with irregular cycles, and that is just one possibility. It runs in my family.

[@reichelrodriguezguzman3774]

That book saved me.

[@kamiiu]

I haven't had my period in 2 months so I need to check that out!

[@tatianap.589]

I came here to say this exact same thing! Also the book The Period Repair Manual by Lara Briden! She is a doctor and goes into things that can be going wrong in your cycle and things you can do to improve it. Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler and The Period Repair Manual have literally changed my life. Every woman should read them!

[@mysonruns]

It's funny how everyone has a different name for your ladies bits. I taught my kids the clinical names for them. I have to agree with everything your mom says. I've had a few yeast infections from perfumed soaps. I learned the hard way.

[@amandabrook5089]

I enjoy your channel so much. I've never been a very religious person but I love hearing what you have to say and I love how open you are and positive and accepting.

[@torigrady9697]

I went for over a year with no period, but debilitating pain. Found out I have endometriosis and PCOS. Finding that led to me finding out I have insulin resistance. That was causing extreme weight gain and high blood pressure. I’m only 23. Every normal doctor ignored me saying something was wrong. Believe what you’re body tells you, and don’t give up.

[@madfed8618]

Even if you aren't sexually active, you should still see an obgyn annually at the age of 21 just to make sure everything is healthy👌

[@indiabatson26]

Mad Will yes!! I wasn’t sure what the exact age was. Thank you for sharing this info !! (: it so important

[@melissamancuso8395]

I’m a bit shocked to hear that a general physician said not to see an ob/gyn if you weren’t sexually active. I hope anyone seeing your video and reading the comments will realize (if they also didn’t know) that it’s a good idea to start going as a teen. I’ve seen annual visits recommended starting anywhere between 13 and 18 years. It’s good to have an ob/gyn you trust who knows your medical history before issues come up. It’s great that you’re being so open. Seems like lots of young women follow your channel and look up to you, so this may have helped someone who may have been embarrassed to ask someone else.

[@ddbrujeria]

I started going at 15 and I wasnt sexually active. Always listen to your body ✌🏽

[@jtmine913]

Obgyn doctors do not perform a yearly exam anymore, doesn't matter if you are sexually active or not. If the exam comes back clean, do not expect another for at least 3 - 6 years. They will not perform an exam if you are under 21 unless you have an issue or are pregnant.

[@samanthayoung4075]

Sheila B I wonder if that’s something specific to your doctor or location? Ive never experienced that and get annual checkups from my doctor. She calls to remind me that I’m due.

[@charleedak]

Your eyes are gorgeous

[@indiabatson26]

Charlee Demientieff aww you are so sweet ☺️ thank you!

[@charleedak]

IndiaBatson your welcome!!😊

[@mariar3715]

Oh man, as a sonographer (ultrasound tech), pelvic ultrasounds are something i have to perform daily. I hate hearing people say how uncomfortable they are😕 i know theyre not the highlight of the day, but dont be scared! If you get the right tech doing it, it can be quick and very manageable with the comfort level.

[@BrandonandKelly06]

Maria R I imagine it was more uncomfortable since she was never sexually active 😳. I mean, that wand is HUGE! 😆

[@caraaeschliman]

It can really hurt some people!! Just be more gentle and compassionate. Most people have never had them before and are mortified when you tell them what you're about to do to them.

[@kaylamannlein1923]

Hey cool my mother is a sonographer too. Your pet peeve is an issue she has too! I was very blessed to have a mother to mentor me through sexual education in anatomically accurate conversations. I strongly believe that every person (especially women) needs to be well informed about their bodies and not be ashamed of them. One of my biggest pet peeves is when people use anatomically incorrect terms for their genitals. The correct names give a sense of power and education. It is especially important for children to know the terms incase they have been sexually abused.

[@mariar3715]

Kayla Mannlein im glad your mom can relate too!!! Im one of the most gentle transvaginal scanners in our department. I think its just all in each sonographers approach to the exam, i move extremely slow when moving the probe, i tell the patient where ill be angling so theres no surprises and i think that makes it a lot more bearable for people.

[@YinzerTracy]

I had one done. The tech was a woman, and she made small talk throughout the whole procedure. Even though it wasn't something I ENJOYED doing, it wasn't so bad.

[@MichelleKTRoss]

India, thank you for being brave and talking about feminine hygiene and your personal struggles! I’m sitting here holding my sleeping two year old daughter and seeing your video gave me hope that when she is older, if she doesn’t want to talk to me, she can find a good role model with honest and good advice! Thank you!!! Also, I’m sorry to hear about your period struggles. I can imagine that is so draining and stressful. I hope that it corrects itself soon. Thank you for being real and take care.

[@anujoseph5702]

When you said,"...because I listen to my mom" is when I said that's totally me.😂 Some girls used to make fun of me because I do that.. but well who cares..she is my best friend!!!

[@emilylongmoore2784]

I’ve been hospitalized for an undiagnosed UTI that spread to my kidneys before. I didn’t have any symptoms. The only thing that changed was my chin acne got horrible for two weeks before which is a sign of a kidney infection. Pay attention to your body

[@SeriouslyBadElf]

That is so scary. I know someone who died from a UTI that went to their kidneys. Im going to pay attention to my acne! You really didnt have ANY SYMPTOMS AT ALL?

[@jordynlawson2300]

Emily L. I’ve been in this situation MANY times!!! It’s terrible. I get kidney infections constantly and I never have horrible symptoms like burning pee or back pain to the point I can’t move. I’ve always had back pain so I always brush it off as that and it’s 99% of the time a severe kidney infection. It’s terrible that sometimes they have 0 signs or symptoms.

[@franceskeller4536]

I grew up calling it the vajayjay and my mom would say that too sometimes 😭😭🤭😂😂😂

[@xfortunesquex]

I hate to say this, but if anyone is planning to see an OBGYN, see a young doctor. My older GYN told me that I need to have a period at least every 3 months because if I had endometriosis like we suspect, birth control would make the endometriosis continuously grow. Here's the problem... Every nonprofit I've read info from says that birth control prevents your uterine lining from building up. It's not a real period; it's a withdrawal bleed. And one in particular said that continuous birth control is a way to manage endometriosis. So I asked my young GP about it, and he had no problem with putting my birth control on a continuous cycle. If everything works out, I could have 36 less migraines a year. That's an entire month of my life back. And I wanted to share this in case anyone else is struggling with having to choose between potential chronic pelvic pain and migraines. Please talk to a young, skilled doctor who continues their education beyond med school, because there is a ton of conflicting information out there about birth control. That's it. Thanks for coming to my TED talk :D

[@indiabatson26]

xfortunesquex thank you for sharing your story babe!!!!! And being so open and vulnerable. So happy you found a doctor that works for you 💛

[@shortstuff2549]

Fellow endometriosis sufferer here ✋🏼I had to have a surgical procedure to clean out all the extra tissue around my pelvic organs and then after years of extended cycle birth control just finally got the Mirena IUD. I had little to no period for 5 years and it was amazing. Highly recommend

[@xfortunesquex]

That's awesome! Yeah we suspect that I have it, but so far, the pain hasn't been bad enough to warrant the surgery to check it out. I do think I have an adhesion somewhere on the right side of my uterus. It feels like a fish hook is tugging on something in there every so often.

[@arieladias]

Hey there, Just to understand ir better, did your doctor decide it would be better for you to keep the birth control? Mine said it would be better but that may be the reason to my migraine, the pill itself would cause it. If you can explain it better, I‘d really appreciate it!

[@smileyrileycranston]

I have endometriosis and so did both my grandma and mom, so it's hereditary. Personally I was put on birth control at about 16 or 17 solely because I complained about seriously bad period cramps and heavy periods, as well as my period was inconsistent (would sometimes be up to a month late and always lasted at least a week). That mixed with family history of the disease made my family doctor put me on it. Ever since then (I'm 21 now) my periods have been completely normal and I'm thankful for it. My mom never got birth control for hers but she eventually got the surgery in her 20's. Hers was even more severe than mine so I can't imagine going through that for so long. Birth control definitely helps and I highly suggest it for endometriosis sufferers.

[@MDonohue]

I really really liked your hair in this video it's so elegant and pretty

[@vanessadalpiaz6423]

This stuff is so important to talk about among women and girls! My mom and I were pretty open about all this kind of thing but it took me a while to tell her about a feminine problem I was having for almost 4 years because I was so embarrassed. I ended up having to get a minor surgery to correct it and I was good in no time, so I seriously wish I'd done that sooner. I think stuff like this is what helped empower me to actually make a change and get my problem solved, hopefully it will empower other girls too!

[@kiaraeijo]

My mom, all of my sisters, and I call our vaginas the “chocha” which is basically the Cuban Slang for Vagina even though in Cuba, you can’t say Papaya to a Cuban because they think that you’re referring to the vagina instead of the fruit lol. When Cubans are referring to the fruit they say “Fruta Bomba” I also know that the word Concha which means seashell but somewhere in South America ( Venezuela I think) it means Vagina. 😃❤️😝😂

[@indiabatson26]

Kiara Eijo MY BOYFRIEND TOLD ME ABOHT THE PAPAYA THING!!!!!! Omg this is crazy. I will have to tell him you said this

[@ApRiL3706]

Do you guys called Paypaya, Lechosa instead? Venezuelans call it Lechosa. And say Pepita for vagina lol

[@Legal.Knievel]

In Uruguay, "la concha de tu madre" is used as an insult... I'm not gonna translate, you know what it means lol

[@thwhitewolff]

Hormones are different for everyone, it's crazy how each person reacts to different levels of birth control. I ended up on a high dose hormone because low dose hormones gave me horrible flare ups in my adult female cystic acne. I'm glad you feel you're leveling out on your new medication!

[@indiabatson26]

thwhitewolff SO happy to hear you found what works best for you too babe!!! Thank you for sharing your experience !!

[@lesliecalva3820]

I look up to you in every way I love you

[@hollyhorn9754]

Omg you’re absolutely amazing as always! ❤️ My mom and grandmother called it “down there” or “it” they were so embarrassed to call it a vagina.

[@areejs7307]

How brave of you to share all of that. Im sure you have had all blood tests and everything done and you are perfectly healthy. Hormones really are so troubling for young women and old. I had one UTI after i got married and had no idea about it or what it was. Then an old friend and teacher of mine best explained it: “ its like your body takes time to get used to another persons body and their ‘stuff’ being passed on” that made me feel so much better and normal. We made sure no ‘stuff’ passed on then 😂 and it worked.

[@roberthoward706]

Very nice post India! I can't tell you how many times as a Pharmacist that I have had to counsel all ages of women about feminine hygiene. Everything from condoms to tampons to vaginal yeast infections. Many women were embarrassed particularly to talk to a man about these issues but I never thought anything about it since it is my job. Keep up the good work beautiful blue eyes!

[@jewlis4876]

Oh my goodness, I'm emotional. I went through a similar situation. My periods started coming every few months at the beginning of this year, and then in the summer it was every two weeks with spotting every other day in between. I would throw up, I was dizzy all the time, and I couldn't even work because it was so draining. I went to an OBGYN but I feel like she didn't take me seriously at all. She did the pap smear without talking to me much and prescribed me BC. I almost lost my job because she didn't sign my LoA papers because, "If it was that bad, I should have went to the ER." I don't have insurance or ER money. Thankfully the ladies at my job understood and overrode my absences. :( But it just sucks. It needs to be talked about. It hurts when others try to diminish period problems because they don't see it as "that" bad. Sorry for the long comment. I just felt compelled to share. BC is helping me regulate my periods so far and it's getting easier.

[@Katlaind]

Girl, I feel for you!!! It’s rough just having a period in general, but practically a constant one!? OUCH! Keep being a big sister for people who need one! I’m older, so I know all this stuff now, but I had to learn a lot of stuff on my own too. It’s difficult when your parents aren’t open about things.

[@kunya16]

Periods suck. Thanks Adam and Eve. Seriously though, I wasn't having periods and then I lost 75 pounds and it came back. But it was hell. Heavy, longer than a week, painful. I used vitex to correct it. I don't make enough progesterone naturally and it's lead to miscarriages and complicated pregnancies. I'd definitely recommend you get your hormones tested and fix the root there. Birth control is a band aid for symptoms, you'll feel great, but when you do marry and become sexually active you might find the problems just come right back or are worse. Always best to treat the root problem! UTI's. If any of y'all struggle, I gotcha! I've had many of them and I always treat at home. My midwife is totally cool with it as long as it doesn't drag on and on. At the first symptoms (burning when you pee/urgent feeling but you don't need to pee) I sit on the toilet, drink 32 ounces at least as fast as I can and I pop a uricalm for the pain and I take cranberry pills 4 at a time 4 times a day. Abstain from sex while you have a UTI, it'll help clear it faster. Keep drinking water all day. If you feel like you're drowning, drink more. I've had them last 2 days maximum doing this. If you get them a lot just make cranberry pills a part of your daily routine. Pop a few after dinner daily. It helps so much.

[@indiabatson26]

Tina Perera thank you so much for sharing all of this knowledge !!!!!! YOU THE BEST 😻

[@kunya16]

IndiaBatson thank you for giving a platform for this talk! I've dealt with so many female issues/stuff that I just like to share my knowledge so other women can get to the root and live happy lives without all the trial and error that I've done.

[@krystlenicole9268]

Also taking Vitamin C and probiotic daily helps prevent as well.

[@247sapphire]

Make sure to eat something so you don't over hydrate. When you drink a ton of water you need to remember to eat something with salt so that you don't strip your electrolytes, which can be extremely dangerous. It's very rare, but I've had it happen to me before.

[@nadineo1983]

I like that you made this video for girls and women alike. I'm 35 so I have been dealing with feminine issues for a while. I never had regular periods, it would skip months regularly. I was taking regular birth control but it started messing with my hormones and making feel not feel good. So then I started taking the same birth control you are on (but I was taking it to not get pregnant) and I kept having break through bleeding. I told my doctor and before he could switch me, I got pregnant! I was 22 and already had a 9 month old son. So, I just want girls to be aware that it can happen. Yeast infections happen and UTIs happen. When you take antibiotics, your birth control loses some effectiveness. It can also cause you to get a yeast infection. I like to use vagisil soap or baby soap for my foofie. Both are very gentle.

[@indiabatson26]

nadine horn thank you for sharing this personal information!!!! I know it will help someone. You seem like such a beautiful soul ☺️❤️

[@emilymejia3656]

You look amazing in a bun! Thank you so much for making a video so personal. Love you❤️

[@dragonsta7062]

Dude I was so worried like “oh another KZbinr is going to say your vagina is supposed to smell like flowers and taste like fruit” but then you actually had good advice (and people-scented stuff is a quick road to infection city and changes the PH balance down there don’t do it, be gentle, vaginas self clean). Thank you for this video! I’ve personally had to go to an OBGYN since I was very young, so I know this topic very well unfortunately. It’s good seeing a KZbinr wanting to create a safe space with actual good advice that won’t lead to bad things. Also I had the same thing period wise when mine started at 14! I had my period, started my period, by having it for two months straight, then a few day break, then again, so we put me on birth control and I’ve been on it since. So I feel your struggle there. And to the young girls, India is right. If you think something is wrong, GO SEE A DOCTOR. You can’t trust the majority of stuff on the internet about this. And if they give you stuff to put up in there, patch test it on your wrists and inner knee first to avoid allergic reactions in a place you really don’t want to be having them. Also, even if you aren’t sexually active, one you are 21 you need to go in for pap smears to check for cervical cancer. Thanks for the vid, India!

[@mhr31301]

my grandma always called it my flower! personally i find it very fitting 🤣

[@anncatrinm1429]

This video is great! I'm a nurse/RN and I approve 😁 Keep up the good work.

[@etherthree1609]

Thank you for talking about your period challenges. I’ve had similar challenges and I’ve been taking progesterone and that has helped greatly.

[@AnaFlores-sy5kq]

AND YES KEEP US UPDATED PLS. Cuz I am actually in a similar situation as you! I totally feel you. I feel so done emotionally, mentally, and physically. I just got the notification that you posted and it feels a little relieving that I'm not the only one. 😭❤️ Thank you for sharing you experience. :)

[@usnavilton]

The same thing happened to my sister, she had her period for like 3 weeks in a row and she went to the doctor. She was on the pill (she is a virgin but she takes birth control pills to regulate her period) and the doctor gave her stronger pills and now she is fine! Going to the doctor is the best advice, thank you India for being such a great role model :) Love from Spain!

[@annabridges5797]

I started on birth control well before becoming sexually active as a way of helping with horrendous heavy and painful periods! It really helped me a lot, but over the years your body and life circumstances change, so it's good to always speak to your doctor if the birth control your using isn't suitable anymore - there's so many kinds out there and everyone is different. One thing I will say, I've also gone through times of continuous periods and it's been one of my bodies reactions to times of high stress and/or anxiety. This year I lost 3 grandparents within a couple of months of each other, and that played havoc with my body! People sometimes think mental health as being something 'without scars' if you know what I mean? But it can have some very real physical affects! Especially if you don't deal with/look after your emotions. I don't normally comment on videos (and I didn't mean this one to be so long! Sorry) but I really like your videos and how open you are about things like this, which start such important conversions for women - and also how you're open about not having all the answers and want that conversation with your viewers. Some of your content, like this video, is very brave! (Hopefully without sounding condescending) well done! I noticed one of your other comments said her continuous period was due to cancer, another reason to always see a doctor if you're worried, but don't rule out that a break/holiday with some serious "me time" might also help you and your body get back to your 'normal' - look after yourself and I hope you feel better soon x

[@ErikaRodriguez-jr3qb]

Omg I take LoLo! I have been on it for 3yrs and I can’t imagine my life without it! I completely understand what you’re going through. When I was in my teens (I am 21 now) I had PAINFUL periods... and I don’t mean just something a little ibuprofen could fix. My mom had to pick me up from school because they would immobilize me. I couldn’t walk, stand, or sit from the pain on the first day of my period. I would scream and roll around in pain. Ibuprofen and pain killers wouldn’t do a damn thing. I would be throwing up and sooner or later the pain would knock me out to sleep. My periods were also very heavy (I had to change my pad every 2hrs). I was always regular (21 days ON THE DOT) but I couldn’t help feeling like periods weren’t supposed to be this painful. Luckily at one of my OBGYN visits my GYNO told me I have dysmenorrhea and got me on LoLO to help. I now feel very leveled out mentally and emotionally, and now I don’t menstruate at all! It’s truly helped me so much. I hope all goes well for you ❤️

[@caribuch9829]

Gurl, I love you! Thankyou for making this. There needs to be more girly convos out there. I'm your age & was on birth control for like 4 years. I got on it for both birth control & acne reasons (with little info about it since they prescribe it like candy) & when I chose to stop to take the natural route so many of my problems disappeared! I used to get super heavy & ridiculously painful periods (to the point of nearly passing out), yeast infections, mood problems, & more all while on the pill. 2 years ago I got into natural & somewhat toxin free living & chose to go off it. I had no issues & all the current ones cleared up. I've never looked back. I've been with my fiancé for 4 years & we're getting married in 2 months. We're not ready for a baby just yet so.. using other measures.. but if we did get pregnant we'd be happy with it anyway. I feel for you & would recommend you read the book WomanCode, use the app MyFLO to track your symptoms & find solutions, & check out their website/blog FLOLiving. Alisa Vitti is all about fixing your hormones through diet/lifestyle measures & I'd totally recommend. She has programs you can do as well. The pill will not fix your problems, only mask it & possibly cause others. Find the real cause! But I hope that whatever you choose to do will help you coz I know what it's like. Also make sure you're not iron deficient. Lots of love from Australia xox

[@j.h.christianartist5659]

This is awesome for girls who went through life without a mom figure it's a struggle figuring things out on your own lol love your videos!

[@areejs7307]

Also I hope you are not stressing yourself out too much. Last year I went through immense stress because of my job and boss and school. I feel like thats what threw my hormones out of whack and I had strange symtoms like severe acid reflux, constipation, diarrhea, and strange abdominal pain. I had tests and everything done and they said i was normal except of H Pylori positive. But i am now sure it wasnt the Hpylori it was my hormones thrown out of balance because my periods were weird too. I quit my job and rested alot and indulged in things i love. I also prayed alot and prayed i would be healthy. I am much better now and my periods are back normal. Thank God. ❤️

[@wonderland2023]

Lol! Front b, wow! New one! I knew things from a book from England, I was blessed.

[@jess2168]

I have PCOS & I haven’t had my period since November 2017 😣😣😣 I used to be on birth control, but had a bad reaction. I’m scheduled for a doctors appointment in the next few weeks, so hopefully I can get more answers. I know it’s scary having long periods & it’s also scary not having one in almost a year. I’ll keep you lifted up in prayer ❤️

[@legkun21]

Thank you so much for making these they are soooo helpful!!

[@loreneedwards1970]

If it makes my feel better, I'm 14, and I still haven't had the talk, and I started that stuff like 3 or 4 years ago... It's kind of annoying, so thank you for this!😊😊

[@Tidesofmo]

My mom called it a cootie cat 😂😂😂

[@indiabatson26]

Morgan Breaux lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Omg that is adorable and hilarious

[@Tidesofmo]

Gotta love a good Southern, overly conservative Mom 😂😂😂😂

[@angelrenwick2464]

Front seat and the butt back seat😭

[@TiffanyWaldorf]

I started BC when I was younger to prevent some of the weird issues I was having. I had no cramps and light bleeding during my periods but had super horrible lower back spasms and fatigue plus a good bit of morning sickness. Once I started BC pills, everything calmed down to a bearable level. Now, I've been on LoLoestrin for 6 years (didn't start with that one) and don't have any periods or symptoms. It's not uncommon on LoLoestrin. It took me several months to get used to it but now, I LOVE it. I can't back you up enough about going to a Gynocologist and talking about things. It's not scary and they can help you with feminine health, general health, and even your mental health if you need some support.

[@carolynlavery4094]

Girllll someone ik had their period for a month straight and she was so freaked out but this actually calmed her down Xx thank you!!!!

[@laras2188]

Loved this so much, I recently discovered your channel and I love your content! Keep it up girl❤

[@indiabatson26]

Lara SThank you for your love and support Lara!! 💛💛💛💛

[@MDWLRK7]

I’ve recently been researching estrogen dominance. It can make things difficult as well. I bought some magnesium bc I heard it helps with that and OCD. We’ll see. I asked my doctor a long time ago to refer me to a good gyno but nope. She’s a good doctor though. Just have to do the research. ALSO! Tip: If you’ve never been to the gynecologist and you’ve experienced some sort of sexual abuse or assault, let them know. You could even have the front desk put a note in your file so you don’t have to talk about it if you’re too nervous. Ask for a woman if that makes things easier or whatever you think would be less stressful. I got this advice from another commenter on KZbin yesterday. I didn’t even think about that.

[@AnneFiona]

My best advice is just to find what works for you and don't just settle for what someone else tells you. I had an older male obgyn at first, he rushed me through my first pap and wrote me a prescription for ortho tricyclen. Let me tell you, I had the worst reaction. My mood swings were all over the place and I felt like I was going crazy, and I had my first and only two yeast infections. I switched doctors to a much younger female one, she changed my prescription to a way lower dose pill, and I felt waaaayyy better. Best of all I could actually talk to her about what was going on in my life and with my body. I have a hormonal iud now, as she recommended it and it's been pretty great. Not everyone I know has had the same reaction to an iud, one girl I know said it started causing her to have PCOS symptoms, but most women I know with an iud have found it pretty easy to adjust to and it's supposed to be much easier for your body to recover from once you decide you want to have kids. I recommend everyone should see an obgyn they like and trust as soon as they turn 18, even if you're not sexually active.

[@safayusuf2718]

i just subscribed, i love your videos!!!, I'm binging on them right now :)

[@mariamw1645]

I love this type of video so much! Thank you for this, keep us updated!

[@indiabatson26]

Mariam W you are the sweetest mariam 💛 thank you for your support!

[@clarissadelgiudice8597]

love this video, I think this is super helpful to normalize the conversation about vagina and femine health. I hate that as women we feel weird about talking about our bodies and vaginal health especially with other women. I'm on lo loestrin fe and the great thing about it is periods become soo much shorter, I've even gone a month or two with my period completely skipping and my GYN says thats normal. Hope it works for you.

[@NeonBlueSnow]

I got the Nexplanon arm implant and it completely stopped my periods, but I definitely had some issues with it for the first year. It was the same exact issues that you were having. Suuuuuper long "periods"(honestly it was just random spotting) and some heavier bleeding. It was extremely frustrating and I really contemplated getting it out for a little bit, but I stuck it out and it's perfect now. The implant can take up to a year to fully settle with your body, which is super annoying but I personally think it's worth it, especially if you're sexually active and you can't remember to take pills. I loved this video!! Good going, girl :)

[@saracomish2969]

Thank you for such an honest video, and especially thank you for using the anatomically correct term -- vagina. We never called it anything else growing up. It seems bizarre to me that people do. I just turned 30 and my cycle and hormones are all over the place. It's refreshing to hear someone talking about such important issues in a public forum. I hope you are able to find some answers soon!

[@angelina.dejesus]

Thank you for being so open India! sorry I haven't been active recently because school is stressing me out so much with its work load but, I am beyond grateful that I was able to tune in on this one. I'm PuertoRican so when I as little my mom told me it was my, "popa" in Spanish which still till this day I don't understand. LOL but my grandma told me that's what she had called it when she was a little girl and I guess she tried carrying out the trend hahaha I truly do understand what you have to go through with your periods as well it's terrible and I really do hope this solves the issue once and for all love.

[@rachelmartinez2718]

I have had the same issues since I was like 15! And I was on the same bc you're on now! DEFINITELY GOT SO MUCH BETTER! I am glad you can talk about something thats others wouldnt.

[@sstrick182]

I think its so awesome you made this video!! Youre a great role model for young girls!!

[@danamarie4476]

“Your presents” That was the name for it when I was growing up lol.

[@danamarie4476]

My mom would say “don’t let anyone touch your presents” lmao

[@aherskowitz3139]

Good for you for listening to your body and advocating for yourself. You know your body best because you live in it and you know when things are “off”. As someone who struggled with recurring UTIs in my early 30s, I was put on a type of antibiotic that I would warn others about-especially athletes. The class of antibiotics known as “quinolones” include drugs like Cipro or Levaquin, and for some people, they cause ruptures in the tendons, particularly Achilles. If you’re an athlete and you need to take antibiotics for bacterial infections (whether urinary or respiratory or whatever), consider asking for alternatives to quinolones from your prescribing physician.

[@inzaynstylesx4964]

Hi,great video, it's so awesome of you to talk about important stuff ! I have long and painful periods too. My GYN wanted to put me on birth controls too ( I'm not sexually active). My cousin suffered through the same and she had PCOS and I was kind of bordering that, but she told me and I've also heard from many people, in long term your hormones are more rampant with the pills. I might be entirely wrong and it depends on person to person too but I would highly suggest do your research on it without fully giving in to it. Also get your hormone levels and all tested before resorting to pills. P.S - I'm not saying that pills (birth control) are bad but I've heard you shouldn't resort to it unless required and there isn't other way.

[@amandaneumann5452]

We called it “po po” (pronounced like the nickname for the police) when I was little. So you had the pee pee, po po and poo poo. 😂😂😂

[@joooda18]

Hi India, thank you so much for sharing these information with us. My mom gave me the same lecture with same tips your mom gave you : ) I wanna add to that I love your makeup OMG! Which lipstick are you wearing?

[@taylor2306]

I would actually appreciate a video discussing your first experience with the OBGYN

[@SuhannaDeSilva]

THANK YOU FOR MENTIONING UNSCENTED SOAP! Wayyyyy too many videos like this mention summer’s eve, vagisil, etc and they totally throw your pH off and can make things worse.

[@lesliecalva3820]

Oh my Lord I'm crying in my room I love you so much

[@butterflylover456]

I started my birth control journey at 15, about 3 years after I originally started my period (which is it’s own fun story). I started getting pain in my abdominal area and for months my mom thought I was faking the pain to get out of class. It was so bad I was in pain 3 weeks out of the month popping Tylenol like candy. I described it as getting stabbed then someone turning the knife. It was horrible. My mom did take me to the doctor who sent me in for an ultrasound. I had cysts forming and popping. Also I apparently had a UTI and didn’t know it so I have had one but couldn’t tell you what one feels like. I’ve been on 4 or 5 types of birth control. Including: at least 2 different pills, Depo and currently Nexplanon. Most of the changes in my birth control are because I have to keep the amount of estrogen in my body low for fear of heart attack or stoke (I had a stroke as an infant so I’m at risk of another). Progesterone I believe is the name of the hormone I’m on in case you were curious about a non estrogen solution. If you have questions about Depo or Nexplanon I’d be happy to answer from a user perspective, I am not or do I claim to be a doctor.

[@vickicerruti]

So good to hear you took action and saw your doctor because clearly something wasn't right! If you aren't seeing the improvement or resolution you feel you should have by now know there is never anything wrong with a 2nd (or 3rd!) opinion. We are our only advocates for our health! Love the video!!!

[@indiabatson26]

Vicki Racz absolutely. Thank you for the love and support! I will absolutely take action if this next pill situation doesn’t help 💛💛💛

[@dinasherif6934]

My grandma used to call it “toto” like when i was 5 i remember her saying oh lets wash your toto 😂

[@isabel.mercedes]

I love these India chats! It’s like talking to a sister. You’re so incredible and thank you so much for this video. ♥️ I hope you never in your life have to experience a UTI. It is by far one of the worst feelings I’ve had once in my life. One of the reasons why I got it was cause I would hold in my pee at work. That wasn’t fun. If you gotta go, go!

[@izabella.czajaa]

We Are Family Batson 💛

[@indiabatson26]

Izabella Czaja we are family !!!!! 😻

[@tellxbelle]

Can you do a hair video using the denman brush? I'm seeing it everywhere and you're the only hair type close to mine so I'd love to see what it does to your wavy/curly hair!!❤

[@elielnathalielopez8266]

Try ecological menstrual pads, they are the best, chemicals free and eco-friendly. 💚

[@katertot17]

“Tu-twa” was the word of choice in our family. 🤣

[@sarahboudrent847]

Your the cutest person ever I hope everything became better your sooo grateful for everything your sooo inspiring xxxxxx

[@amandabillings6285]

India, thank you for sharing your personal experiences on what can be an uncomfortable topic! I noticed that in your description of your period issues, it sounded like they haven't really gotten to the bottom of why your hormones are all over the place. You may have left this part out because it was too personal, but please, please speak with your doctor at length and find the root cause of your hormones issues rather than only taking BC pills to alleviate the symptoms of the problem. You are such a great person and so many people love your videos (myself included, of course!), we all just want the best for you! The hormonal issues could be a symptom of a larger problem, so it's worrisome when you're not well! ♥️ Good luck!! Xo

[@dkelban]

Really great, informative, mature beyond your years video

[@karlapresas8161]

You are so cool for sharing this with us. Thanks!

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[@rebrock67]

My mom never talked to me about ANYTHING!!! I did have a sister that was 7 years older that called it "a booger!" lol Glad I had my sister to talk to!!! lol

[@veronicanewmiller8775]

I had the same thing. SCARY blood flow and excruciating pain that I couldn't do anything but lay in bed the first 3 days. I had the same procedure and prescription of birth control pills. But i was so sensitive. I felt like I was freaken out on premenstrual syndrome. So I stopped. But i ate the standard American diet. And i had other problems too. Asthma. And symptoms of arthritis in my hands, wrists, and lower back pain. I changed my every day diet to a vegan plant based diet. It's all good and healthy now. No more cramps and breast tenderness. I have normal blood flow thats on time once a month. I don't have arthritis and no more health problems. I don't go to the doctor anymore for perceptions. It's amazing. I think it's the hormones in dairy and hormones in meat or any animal foods. The bacteria and antibiotics and fecal matter in the meat. It's all very unhealthy. I eat a high carb low fat . Try reading The Starch Solution by Dr. McDougal and check out nutrition facts.org with Dr.Greger on KZbin... You don't have to suffer.

[@melissabhola7012]

I've had my period for 12 months straight....it was sooo bad that I couldn't sleep...as soon as i lie down I would have to run back to the bathroom until I fainted in the bathroom 2am all alone and got a swollen apple on my head....the on/gyn I waa going to wasn't helping until I decided to change doctors and finally found out I had tumors in my uterus...I had to get a D&C done immediately and my doctor put in an IUD...its now been 1 year since and the problem seems to be coming back slowly....No birthcontrol was helping me...I tried everything possible....As for now I'm just holding out until I get an appointment to see my doctor again....Its so hard what we ladies have to go true in life....its always a challenge but we come true even stronger than before....love you india💜💛💚💙💖

[@indiabatson26]

Melissa Bhola oh my goodness gracious Melissa!!! I hate to hear that you are going through this currently all over again. I hope you are able to find the answers you are looking for sweet girl ❤️

[@sarabarankova8222]

Girl, you have to be a very strong woman ❤ I hope it will get better, sending lot's of love and support from Europe ❤

[@melissabhola7012]

Awww thanks alot girlies..yes i try my best to be as strong as possible.....love you all....thats why we support each other right!!!!💜💜😙💖

[@melissabhola7012]

@@sarabarankova8222 thanks a million hun...sending u lots of love as well from Trinidad and Tobago💖💖

[@melissabhola7012]

@@indiabatson26 thanks alot my luv...you are my fav youtuber💜💛💚

[@joselync6668]

Where is your necklace from!? It’s adorable

[@cheekyandbright]

My one aunt called it a pee pee button 😂😂

[@indiabatson26]

Maria Ann 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 noooooo

[@mrsphebeb-r8501]

Hi India, thanks for your openness in sharing your struggles. I second what another viewer recommended by reading Taking Charge of Your Fertilizer by Terri Weschler. If you like Podcasts, I enjoy Fertility Friday, it’s helped me learn so much about my hormones. Usually extended bleeding is related to low progesterone, I suffered with a similar situation a few years back and did the same thing as you: went on birth control, but suffered a lot of side effects. It was that experience that led me to read Taking Charge of Your Fertility which has been life changing for me. Body literacy is so important, I knew next to nothing about my feminine self: my parents are fairly conservative evangelicals and were deeply uncomfortable discussing our bodies except to reinforce celibacy before marriage. It will get better by God’s grace, thanks for being salt and light to young women, if this only existed 20 years ago for me, lol.

[@jazminvasquez4113]

I've been on birth control for about three years and yes India it does mellow you out, I used to have heavy periods and now they only last for about 3-4 days a month. But birth control is defiantly not for everyone. It can cause mood swings, wait gain, and depression. I worked really well for me, even cleared up my acne :) but good luck hope it works for you

[@inesandrade6049]

Thank you for this video India, i'm sure it will be super helpful for a lot of girls. And I really admire you for being so open minded and honest on this subject, it's so important to understand and respect our bodies! Love you

[@laurenduck1584]

My grandmother and mom called it a powder puff. Ahhhhhh! I refused to teach my children that haha.

[@graceperinovic7351]

This was a great video! Also what lip product are you wearing? I love it!

[@indiabatson26]

Grace Perinovic its actually just glossier clear gloss!! Super shiny but not sticky. Highly recommend

[@sidneygustavus6256]

You are on the same one as me. You can skip the period week all together. When you get to the reminder pills just start the next pack. I had the same issue as you and that’s what my doc had me do. It also made my period only 2 days since I went back to taking the reminder pills

[@KayleenLavan]

ALSO, the horse sized pill? I feel that. For some reason I'm super prone to what I assume are yeast infections because it has all the signs of one. However, any time I see my doctor about it she says the test came back negative. Which confuses me because they say that Monistat and the prescription pill will get rid of it IF it is a yeast infection and it won't do anything if it isn't one. And for me it always gets rid of it. So it's annoying to be so prone to these issues but not know how to stop it because I don't know exactly what it is. I just have to keep temporarily treating it, and Monistat is frickin expensive!