STEAMY Q&A Waiting Till Marriage, Period Panties, Birth Control 😅

[@Cee944]

I love that you’re religious but don’t care if other people are. You’re just open and kind and empowering women to make their own decisions ❤️

[@indiabatson26]

Thank you for this sweet comment Claire 💛💛

[@photogirl023]

@Hello It's K Whoa whoa back up back up. I'm not trying to be rude, I apologize if this comes off as abrasive but this messaging is kinda manipulative once you think about it to be frank. Being nice and kind to people so that they listen to you try to recruit them? Not just to be a nice person plain and simple and let people seek out things instead of "spreading the message?" The part people have an issue with is the "spreading the message" part. Thats what the shoving it down other peoples throats part is. And its really jarring to see someone only commending non-judgement not for the sake of non-judgement but to recruit more people. And this is coming from someone who believes in God, but spirituality is personal and doesn't need to be spread. Hopefully this gives you some insight, please stop thinking about recruiting people, thats not what God is about.

[@jadeharrington3133]

The safe space you’ve created for young girls is amazing! So many girls do not have anyone to go to for these kind of talks. I love this content so much!

[@indiabatson26]

This comment makes my job so fulfilling ❤️ it means so much to me !!! I try to keep these talks wholesome while still being educational !

[@xixxxxix5084]

@@indiabatson26 what do you mean by wholesome?

[@rileydelehant5082]

I love how you respect other people’s choices on bc and waiting till marriage, regardless on your own personal choices!

[@indiabatson26]

absolutely ! I think everyone needs to respect each other in life regardless of the differences 💛💛

[@JBug00]

Exactly !

[@odette9551]

Tip for the menstrual cup - pinch just above the "stem", so the bottom of the actual cup, it releases suction and its easy to remove.

[@roseboursier2937]

While sitting or swatting

[@mackenziash8244]

As a lifelong anxiety sufferer I encourage any of you to consider therapy! I was always skeptical but it really does help! I’m very happy grateful that I started therapy after suffering with mental health for most of my life. My parents didn’t believe in therapy while I was growing up but had I had that kind of help as a child, I’m convinced my life would be a lot different now. It’s never too late though! I didn’t start until I was 22 and it’s really helped me. If you’re suffering, please consider it💜

[@indiabatson26]

Thank you so much for sharing this !!!!!!!! 💛💛💛💛 I have never been to therapy, so this isn’t something I can speak on. But I completely agree that therapy is amazing and I’d love to do it myself. thank you so much again for this comment, this will help so many ❤️

[@tinkeramma]

Life is too short not to pursue feeling your best self. I didn't really start getting help until my 30s, and not until after losing my 6 year old daughter. I've battled anxiety and depression my entire life. I was also diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder at 33 years old, but it's a mental health disorder that starts in childhood. Literally my ENTIRE life has been harder than it needed to be because I didn't have access to the help I needed. The tools I've learned in therapy are life changing. Together with my meds, I have a real chance to feel like my best self. One of my biggest obstacles was having to truly learn that anyone (and I mean anyone) who does not support me seeking treatment or taking meds does NOT have my best interests at heart. At my worst, a good day looked like remembering to feed my children the appropriate number of times. This didn't include remembering to feed me, and not every day was a good day. A lack of support for my treatment was the same as saying those "good" days were okay. I'm not okay with that, so it gave me a power in my mind to shut down any talk that didn't support my mental health healing. To those who are still limited by parent support, I promise you it does get better. Resources are limited until you can pursue care without your parents, but they do exist. Peer support online can help until actual therapy is an option.

[@mackenziash8244]

@@indiabatson26 yes you totally should try therapy! It helps so much to get an outside perspective when we’re always so close to our situations. And therapists have so many resources for those moments when things are just too much and you need some advice to draw from. It’s really amazing!

[@mackenziash8244]

@@tinkeramma mental health is being taken way more seriously these days and the stigmas that go along with therapy are shedding in society, thank goodness! I’m glad you’ve gotten help to improve you quality of life! It’s the best decision someone can make ❤️

[@jillianphillips803]

I was hoping I'd see a comment like this!!! We really need to start encouraging people to go to therapy and normalizing it - honestly just even talking about it is a step!

[@zoebrown782]

y'all having a place to talk about all this beautiful "woman things" as a raised, conservative Christian girl. I don't have anyone to talk about this in my home environment so big thank you India!!!

[@kassyagreene8065]

I’ve used my saalt cup for years and there’s definitely a learning curve. If you start your period and there’s not enough slip, use lube to insert it better. You should feel a pop or snap (nothing harmful/painful) and run your finger along the rim of the cup to ensure it’s suctioned properly, there should be no folds or indents on the cup. And to remove the cup, break the seal using a finger (don’t just try to pull the rubber stem) and guide it out. I personally don’t like dumping it in the toilet at home, I run hot water in my sink and pour it down that way, plus rinse it out. And repeat until you’re done. I don’t wear mine on the last day or so and opt to use a pad or liner instead. If it feels weird when it’s in, there’s likely to be spillage and leaks, you should feel almost nothing. If it’s too uncomfortable, most likely the incorrect size.

[@emilyjohnson5009]

Break the suction of the cup by basically sticking your finger up there and pushing on the wall of the cup! After the suction is broken it comes out muuuuuch easier!

[@cland1232]

Kudos to yr parents, they raised such a sweet, kind, well adjusted woman, they must be so proud! Coulda done something else w that "front bottom" thing though-cracks me up every time!

[@kl-jm4pn]

Every video... love. Man I wish I had all this back in middle school. Would have saved myself so much grief and would have helped my confidence

[@indiabatson26]

Girl I wish I knew this stuff in my childhood too 😅 but I’m so happy to be able to help others ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@kl-jm4pn]

@@indiabatson26 omg!!! You commented back lol. I’m 33 and fangirling over here!

[@indiabatson26]

@@kl-jm4pn I’m 26 and so appreciative you are here and watching my love !!!! XOXOOXOX have A fabulous weekend

[@lex3683]

I am still fairly new to periods but was interested in the menstrual cup before I even got my first period. I absolutely love my menstrual cup and while there was definitely a learning curve to putting in and taking it out I have mastered it pretty well if I do say so myself, and have some tips and tricks to share! It took me quite a while to put it in for the first time and I actually had to take breaks because it was hurting so bad to put it in. Once I did though it was easy from then on out. Taking it out, though, was a whole different story. When I had to take it out for the first time I start freaking out because I couldn’t get it out. Basically what you have to do is reach up a little bit to break the seal the cup and slide it down, not just pinch in at the bottom of the cup. What works for me is either reaching all the way up and breaking the seal from the rim of the cup, or pinching the bottom of the cup while literally bearing down while doing it. You bear down in the same way you deliver a child out of that same hole, and I mean it works to be fair. It makes it come out a lot smoother and less messy. You are also less likely to drop it. I hope this helps! P.S. I use the Lena cup and adore it!! It’s extremely similar to the Saalt cup in all ways possible and think both are great!

[@LadiiieS]

I love recommending the Lumma menstrual disc. Similar concept to a cup, just different shape and insertion/removal process. One of the reasons why i love it is because it has a "tail" similar to a tampon string that makes removal sooooo much easier. Literally just pull it out like you would a tampon. I also feel like the disc in general is easier to use compared to a cup.

[@rebeccakatobo3170]

how did she know i needed this? Literally watching this at 01:53. I love how open you are and how safe and comfortable this space is. The way I grew up, talking about this stuff is kind of a taboo, so thank you so much for this!

[@indiabatson26]

I grew up with these topics being very taboo as well 💔 so it means a lot to hear you say you feel this is a safe place for questions and learning on this topic 🥰 that’s exactly what I want to create with my girl talk videos LOVE YOU

[@rebeccakatobo3170]

@@indiabatson26 love you too!!!

[@tinkeramma]

@@indiabatson26 I want to hug you every time I hear you apologize to your mom in a video. I was blessed with a mom open to all conversations, but I know so many friends who weren't.

[@rebeccakatobo3170]

@@indiabatson26 love you too :)

[@MissAdamLambert888]

*Hey India!!*

[@shaggysgf9270]

thank you for the safe place you created India❤️ ps. I'm also planning to wait till marriage and I watched your video about 2-3 years ago and thorugh it you encouraged me even more to wait 😊

[@indiabatson26]

awwwwww that means a lot hearing you call this a safe place. That’s exactly what I want to create 💛

[@jeniferwendt15]

Period is natural and idky people are so private about the topic lol my mom is always like why do you have pads and tampons on your counter in the bathroom, I’m like there’s also qtips and cotton balls what the problem?? 🤣🤣🤣

[@areejs7307]

I really appreciate how upfront and honest u are. About everything.

[@mayaivimey5113]

With the menstrual cup stick one finger in and press on the edge to break the seal. Then use that to fold the cup and gently remove. That's what works for me

[@laurenplatero4387]

Oh man, I was listening to this while working & the snippet about actual exercise around the 10:00 minute mark had me like 👀 excuse??? 😭😂

[@indiabatson26]

LOLLLLLLLLLLL SORRRYYYYYY I forgot to clarify that I was talking about actually working out 😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kellimcnamara6435]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🙋🏻‍♀️

[@haley6876]

Lol I was thinking the same thing!!!!

[@stephmedeiros]

I’ve been using a menstrual cup for over 10 years! I like the Diva cup because it’s pretty firm which helps it pop open a lot easier. The way you get it out is you kind of push down a little if it worked it’s way up, then pinch the base of the cup to release the seal. I actually cut off the stem on mine because you shouldn’t be pulling it by the stem anyway. I hope that helps!

[@SMicaela422]

Not sure if you are doing this but you only use the stem to find your base, pinch and squeeze the bottom of the cup to take it out, it’s not mean to be yanked out. Just gently squeezed out. Xoxo!

[@marisoldeanda7776]

I swear by the Flex Cup! There’s no other cup I will use ever again, tbh. It has a tab that helps make the removal process a lot cleaner and a lot less painful by eliminating suction! Literally the best period purchase I’ve made. 😍

[@indiabatson26]

Someone else mentioned this to help with the suction !!!!! Amazing I’m so excited to get one lol😻😻

[@anna_rachh]

I’ve used the saalt cup, but it is firmer than the divacup I used to use, and is harder for me to get inside/out. I also use the larger post-baby size (because my flow is so heavy) and it took a bit to get used to. I have cut the stem completely off and find it easier to remove that way by bearing down a little, just to get it closer to the surface, and then using my index finger I’ll push on the side just enough to break the seal, bear down a little more to start getting it out, and then I’ll use my thumb and index to pinch the bottom and dump it backwards into the toilet. I always get blood on my fingers, but honestly it’s safer and less smelly and wasteful as pads, and Idk why but I cannot do tampons. They always hurt, and I’ve got such a heavy flow that they only last 2 hours tops.

[@kristinlemanski]

Love you & your channel! Thanks for being a light in this world! 💛

[@indiabatson26]

This is the sweetest comment 😭😭💛💛💛💛💛

[@jennie_gossi04]

Who else thought India was talking about the other type of “exercise” lol 😂 I was like “ I actually have to wait until marriage to exercise and make my anxiety level lower” 😂😂

[@sarahdavid147]

The taking it out part is was hard and messy for me too. I’ve learned to press the middle part of the cup first, then take it out in a slant while sort of folding it. That relieves the pressure and it doesn’t hurt. I can deal with the messy part because I just wash it off in the bathtub next to my toilet.

[@indiabatson26]

Ya I don’t really care about the mess, so much as the uncomfortable of taking it out. I WILL MASTER IT 😻 I got thissss lol

[@chloea7474]

I love my hello cup xs! I’ve been using a cup for over 4 years now. Make sure you are breaking the seal before removing!

[@rosalbamonterrosas4488]

Girl I love these Q&A's. Keep 'em coming!

[@indiabatson26]

Thank you for watching angel xoxox

[@bethanykime3438]

I have used the Diva cup (menstrual cup) for years and LOVE it! I do recommend you try to "expel" the cup by pressing your pelvic floor down, like the opposite of a kegel? Haha hold that position and pinch/grip the bottom of the cup (trimmed fingernails!) then relax and pull the cup out. Hope that's helpful! I haven't tried any other brands though 🤷.

[@erine7453]

Also just want to second that if he cares about you he will respect you! It was the same with my husband and me. We also waited. And we also set some "boundaries" for ourselves to help us not get close to the temptation of breaking that wish we had of waiting. That really helped a lot!!! So if anyone out there wants to wait make sure you also set boundaries for yourself and your partner to help you achieve that goal. I promise it will help soooooo much!

[@sarahbollinger9317]

I NEVER got the cups. They were so uncomfortable for me and idk how to get them in right. I started using soft disc and then found the Lumma disc which is reusable and it’s INCREDIBLE. So much better and more comfortable than a cup. Seriously, not complicated to put in or take out at all. It’s amazing 🙌🏼

[@andreasmith2448]

Needed this

[@indiabatson26]

Awwww I’m so happy you enjoyed it beautiful ! that means a lot 💛💛

[@lillyfaulknier4665]

India thank you so much for these videos!! I’m a teenager and I so appreciate all the information!🌻☺️

[@kz74]

I appreciate that you are willing to answer questions from women who maybe have no other resources for answers. Keep it up!

[@bry4212]

I def thought that you were telling us to have sex for our mental health I’m dying at that lol

[@indiabatson26]

Lollllllllllllllll girl I’m sorry 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I didn’t clarifying LOLLL

[@annacaylin6211]

I use the Flex Cup and I really like it because it has something to pull that breaks the seal which makes it easier to pull out!

[@lindavoedisch2352]

In Germany we have little one use self heating thingys that you can just stick on your stomach and put your clothes over it. I'm not sure if they have those everywhere but here you can buy them at any pharmacy and some drug stores. If you have to leave your house and can't put a hot water bottle on your angry cramping uterus those things are great. They're not cheap but I always have some on hand for like a rough period day.

[@ThePhotographerLady]

I love the Instead menstrual cup. I used it for about 20 years. (No need for it now) It was the only one available at that time. I put on a latex glove to remove it. So much easier and less mess. Cup ends up inside the glove when you take the glove off.

[@1997Gaa]

For the cup, fold it gently from the bottom of the cup and pull it out. This wouldn't work in public but I take it out either in my own bathroom or in the shower! Seriously the shower thing is a life saver and makes it super easy.

[@victoriadinottia7906]

"Pores are not doors" we stan a skin care queen !!!!

[@jmfigueroarn]

Regarding removal of menstrual cups, you should bear down like you’re trying to poop. That loosens it and it tends to lower making it easy to remove. Also pinch it to break the suction.

[@eveitsnotthatserious1677]

I love cups! I use both the DivaCup and the SoftCup. Recommend both. Yes, the taking out part can get messy. But it's like with everything else, PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT.

[@Opalescenttreeshark]

Always pinch the base of the cup to break the suction before you try to remove it. You’ll feel it release, then you can just wiggle it out. It took me a few cycles to figure out the exact method that works for you. You can remove it without any discomfort!

[@emybown690]

You have such an amazing laugh! Awesome video, love these open Q&As and Girl Talks!

[@MommySpees]

You have become my long distance sister I never knew I needed! These topics are so great to have. I grew up with a mom who didn't discuss it, because my grandma didn't. And that left me lost! I personally love these topics and videos for all the girls who have no one and aren't left to figure this all out.

[@josiebrooke3447]

Girl, I love listening to all the advice and wise words you have to offer! It feels like I'm talking to a big sister! Thank you so much❤ I love you, India!

[@indiabatson26]

this comment means so much to me and thrills my soul 💛💛💛💛 I truly appreciate your love and support !!!!!

[@beckyh126]

I use the moon cup. You have to push down inside to take it out. Squeeze the bottom of the cup rather than just pulling at it and use your muscles to push out. Being taught this changed the game for me xx

[@yobi_chan9243]

I use the diva cup and I’m OBSESSED and I think the shape makes it a lot easier to take it out.

[@nikolettjozsika7176]

I have the Saalt cup too, this was my first one as well and it works like a charm! For me personally, shoving it up is more difficult than getting it out. When you do get it out, make sure you don't pull on the little tail, that's just for finding the cup easier in case it moves up. The trick is to actually try and push so that the cup moves down and you xan reach it easier. I know, it sounds funny, but just push and push. :'D

[@sabaaothman7297]

I love the girl talk videos they’re very helpful please do more of them

[@micapabia8167]

I love these videos so much!! They’re so helpful 🤎✨

[@mandiwolfe6631]

I use the Lena Sensitive cup and will never go back to tampons again! I bought it last summer because I was curious about menstrual cups, but was drawn to the description of the Lena Sensitive saying it was softer than regular cups and not as rigid. I can't be more happy with it! It took me a couple days to get the hang of it (after using tampons for 35 years, trying anything new is a learning curve!), but since then I've never had it leak or struggled to get it back out. Highly recommend!

[@indiabatson26]

Where did you get this brand from ??

[@mandiwolfe6631]

@@indiabatson26 It's at lenacup.com. They have a regular and a sensitive.....I only use the sensitive cup. I also love that it's made here in the USA (I think California?) Seriously a game changer!

[@RaynahWoolsey]

When I take out my duchess cup I reach in and pinch the sides of the cup to release the suction. Been a period cup user for over two years and it’s great. For a deep clean on the cup in between use pour a little hydrogen peroxide in a cup and fill the rest of the way with water. By the morning it’ll be clean as new.

[@indiabatson26]

I’m going to have to try it again and pinch the sides !!!!! Bc I was just pulling and pulling and pulling

[@RaynahWoolsey]

@@indiabatson26 try to pinch the whole cup. I also love when your accent shines through. 💞

[@jessicaaverette6150]

@@indiabatson26 No no no! Don’t pull! Break the suction first. Once the suction is broke continue pinch as you wiggle it out.

[@Kociara589]

@@indiabatson26 oh girl, you need to pinch it! It helps a ton and it gets right out ;)

[@indiabatson26]

@@RaynahWoolsey ahhhhh my southern accent 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I feel like it peaks out when I’m feeling super comfortable and homey and just chatting. Where as if I’m trying to teach something or do a more educational video on hair products or skin care etc. Then he don’t hear it as much

[@lilyschmeltzer761]

I love your videos! I was in a rough place and your videos help me gain confidence in my self and take control of my life and start putting my self first.

[@vianaahmadi8775]

GURRLLL WE LOVE U. I just started following you and i really feel comfortable with you

[@nhouse7962]

I am a menstrual cup lover. Currently use the Lena, and have been for over a year. It has a tab and I just maneuver it down until I can break the seal by pinching it to extract it. You can also "push" it down to help with the process.

[@ozarks_onna]

Cup user for ten years. My favorite is June. You gotta break suction to remove. It takes a couple cycles to get through the learning curve.

[@DaltonsFriendswood]

If you aren’t breaking the suction on the cup before removal that might be your problem. So many videos on KZbin about how to do that - I think that’s key for comfort.

[@inezverdun5736]

Hey India! I use the saalt cup and I love it! I have no leaks with the cup and it never fills up. Works way better than tampons for me :) I didn’t have to try different cups, but I did make sure to take the cup quiz. I did, however, find that it took a little while to get the hang of putting them in and taking them out. Make sure to break the seal!! That, and practice is all I can think of as advice💘

[@jamienolting2102]

love my flex cup! the stem is a hook that's attached to the rim and breaks the suction for you so it's not so hard to take out!

[@abbymercier970]

I love these videos!!! Sooo helpful and I needed to hear that!!👏🏻💕

[@madellinekalenius7274]

The exercising clarification had me laughing so hard😂 love you India!

[@miamaguire6404]

For the menstrual cup: try to push it down (as if giving birth) grab the base not the tiny pull thing. pop the seal on it by pushing it when you are taking it out and fold it a little as you pull. If you pull it straight out it’s gonna hurt SO BAD.

[@alyssa2732]

I love you so much!! I found your channel when I was crying over not being able to find big bust swimsuits a few summers ago haha! I was wondering if you could make a video on how to shop for prom dresses when you have a large bust? Obviously this year prom is pretty much canceled, but I really want to have a video to go to for next year. I also want to know what you struggled with and how you found your wedding dress!! So excited to see if you’re interested in making a video on this, you’re like the big sister I never had❤️

[@stumblbee6849]

As someone who is fairly busty and also a seamstress, I would absolutely recommend sizing up in the dress to fit your bust and getting it altered to fit the rest of you! I know the number can be scary sometimes but I swear the comfort is worth it c:

[@indiabatson26]

You are THE SWEETEST !!!!!!!! I’m planning to make another video on styling a big chest soon and I can absolutely share some tips of finding the right dress for you 💛💛

[@alyssa2732]

@@indiabatson26 that’s great, I’m so excited to see it!!☺️

[@MinnieMousey06]

you have to break the seal to take out the cup! it will hurt if it's still suctioned. just push it in to the side with your finger to break the seal and just slide it out or you can pinch the bottom.

[@rebekah7987]

I have used the menstrual cup for over 3 years and i love it!!! it is a bit uncomfortable at first to put in and take out, but you get used to it pretty quickly. There is no reason to panic if it gets "stuck" or cant find the tip, to grab. If you understand the anatomy of the vagina its impossible for it to get "lost or stuck". When i first started using it, i would panic because it was difficult to pull out, but when i relaxed my pelvic area and the muscles, it was a lot easier. I use the diva cup btw :)

[@elinadejarnett7106]

I love your videos. It's always so interesting 😘😘

[@stitchlightly5995]

I've been shopping around for subscription boxes for pads etc for my household. I think there are a few different companies out there, but am not sure what to go with that is eco friendly and won't hurt my wallet. I think that'd be a great video!!

[@jennieshumaker6807]

I like the cora cup. The tampax cup wasnt bad either.

[@JulesLyn96]

Try flex cup! It has like a little extra "string" type thing at the bottom to help break the seal to take it out

[@indiabatson26]

Someone else mentioned the string on that cup !! I think that might be the cup I need to get until I can master this one

[@emmawillard520]

thank you for creating such a safe place for girls, queen. i needed this

[@daisyperez4116]

I’m Catholic but I use birth control.... we’re not supposed to but it’s my body and my husband and I are not ready for a baby.

[@gennyolson2257]

I think you are making the right decision 🌷

[@lynnmogensen7575]

Try the beppy cup. It has a loop to take it out instead of just the stick. Much easier to pull.

[@simplychipzy9746]

You never missed to amazed me.. Love yah India! I love the way you being just who you are sharing boldly your opinion about in everythings and showing us how to respect others regardless of the differences.. More blessings to you,, stay beautiful, healthy and safe! 😘💕🤗

[@oksanaround4131]

K I’m a lil late to the game 😅 but the Nixit cup has been a life-changer for me! It is non-suction and for me it’s all about the angles of taking it out. I personally don’t care about the blood on my hands so I usually don’t worry about taking it out at the right angle. Also, I love that it instantly tells me how healthy I am inside.

[@karagarcia9326]

Love this girl talk! Thanks India for your channel 🥰

[@charleyminyard7438]

Thank you for all of the advice 💕💕

[@jasmingagam9545]

Awesome video ❤️ what is this for a eyecream?

[@wammweerasinghe284]

India your videos are theee best. Love u and all the content in your videos . DO more these girly talks .....

[@cutiepatootie111]

I use the June cup. Personally I think the best technique for taking it out as a beginner is in the shower, one leg up, using your thumb and pointer finger, and moving the tab from left to right while pulling down to release the “suction.” Hope that helps anyone who’s trying to get into using a cup. It’s a GAME CHANGER ✨

[@dr.suezettealoysiaandcarla1664]

Funday Friday 🥰✌🏽, very nice and much needed discussion, we fully watched !!!

[@indiabatson26]

ahhhh I hope you enjoy the video !!!!!!!

[@dr.suezettealoysiaandcarla1664]

@@indiabatson26 yes 🌺

[@RaynahWoolsey]

Ahhh clicked so fast !!

[@indiabatson26]

I hope you enjoy the video babes !!

[@kasia199213]

I can't sleep before my period arrrives as well lol As for the cups I started using one in April 2020 because I saw pads dissapearing from stores everywhere, I bought a cup size small of my drugstore brand and also had problems taking it out. Turns out, my cervix sits quite high and buying size medium made in much easier, I'm now able to empty it even at work. I don't know if this is your problem as well, the cup isn't for everyone obviously, but yeah, the first two to three months I couldn't get my cup in, then out and repeatedly wanted to throw it out the window 😅

[@haileycooper6252]

I use a me luna cup and love it. I had problems putting it in at first as i didnt know how far it needed to go but taking out no issues. I love a facial steamer

[@beateschmid9136]

I loveee your open way and that you are honest ❤❤ who run the world.... girls!!

[@indiabatson26]

so much love to you 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 I always try to keep it as real as I can 💛💛

[@mysonruns]

Yes girl! open communication is ESSENTIAL! My mom never talked to me about my monthly & I was in the dark when the BIG day came!

[@krystlenicole9268]

To take the menstrual cup out, you have to pinch the bottom of the cup to break the suction! If you just yank it out by the tail, it can hurt and make a mess.

[@SarahsGotBigHair]

I loved my diva cup. Loved it so much. But I now have an IUD and when taking the cup out I seriously felt like it suctioned it out of place. I had to go get a sonogram to make sure it was still in place. Once they confirmed all was good- I retired the diva cup. But I loved it so much!!!

[@doityourselfbombs]

omg that's so scary

[@louisedijkstra7808]

most of the time if people have trouble getting there cup out it is because they dont breake the seal. teh saalt cup is as far as i know a softer cup os you really have to make sure you puch it in in the middle or there above by the cup this way you break the seal and isnt really like stuck in there anymore. if you stil find it unconfertable you can maybe try sitting on the toilet and stil doing it the normal way but dont pull it sraight down let it go with you body. and pull it kinda more to the front if thats makes sense so there is less pressure. i hope this helps someone i havent used the menstrual cup for that lon my self but this workt for me so i hope it helps

[@lizshoemaker8713]

I also have a saalt menstrual cup and I absolutely loooooove it so much. I could never go back to tampons after even the first full period using it. The way that I get mine out is sitting down (on the toilet) I’ll kind of “push like I’m birthing” and pull on the tab at the same time just until I can reach up and feel near the top of the cup, then I’ll use my finger and bend the top into itself to break the seal and kind of drag it out. Then I dump it and use my bath (because it’s closest to the toilet) and rinse it out thoroughly with hot hot water. I’d be interested in trying one with possibly softer silicone because I feel like it might be easier to insert and seal, but I don’t know, maybe not. Anyways, I know that was graphic but I hope it helps someone! Yay go going 12 full hours literally not even thinking about having to change it or worrying about it leaking. The days of “heavy tampons” are over! Haha 👏

[@oliviatucker1587]

I love your girl talks. Keep them coming💛

[@shelbibartscher4503]

I use the Lunette cup and love it so much!

[@rachelcagwin3709]

Amen sister 😎love yr channel and videos like this are so helpful

[@GrapeApe66]

Love this real conversation....😘👍

[@tramoncri2006]

Love menstrual cups! I use the Diva and Lily cups. When taking it out you have to break the seal otherwise it can be painful just pulling it out.

[@angelacrowder6127]

Happy Friday India, Thank you so much for your video! Have a Fabulous Friday and a wonderful weekend!!! 💛

[@indiabatson26]

Yayyyy I hope you enjoy it beautiful !!!!!

[@marycaitlin2]

Would you be comfortable saying which anxiety medication you’re on? I’m currently taking amitriptyline, but have been curious about others.

[@LittleWhiteBookshelf]

i love my menstrual cup! i have the saalt one too. i usually put my finger along the rim of the cup and kinda fold it in a little to break the seal, and then use that little grippy spot to pull the cup all the way out. that’s what’s worked best for me

[@sassyt1431]

I'm due my smear and at 35 and two babies later I still get nervous! In the uk we don't get to choose as such who will be doing the test, you just phone your general practice and book in with a nurse. Luckily the nurses I have had have always been absolutely brilliant but unless a nurse stays at the practice for years you can't rebook with the nurse you have had. I would definitely prefer your way though, getting to know the person before they have a good 'rummage' 🙈😳🤣

[@SnowbunnieCT]

I use the softcup. They’re disposable but I use one each period, so it’s still less waste and so nice to buy a box for under twenty bucks and I’m good for the whole year!