Femme Files // Why I'm Still Single (LGBTQ+)

[@pathupara]

More power to you P for your candour and sharing your struggles growing up. The best antidote for fears of rejection is unconditional acceptance of self and others around us. Cheers!!!

[@sunshine1287]

Appreciate your courage, your honesty and self-reflection. Very inspiring.

[@persisabraham]

Thank you 🤍

[@cyrilabraham1776]

Bold, honest, sincere. And, the best part? Your growing awareness of your self, knowing what and who you are. This makes you strong in its truest sense.

[@ptlovelight2971]

Omg, its like you're narrating my life right now! Everything you said is spot on...from feeling the "click/spark" from other women, to being the "experiment" fun girl ( I currently identify as bisexual, so most of the girls I attract are having fun or experimenting or unicorn hunting for their boyfriends 🙄) to the trust issues and confidence struggles...all true. It is hard to be a femme and find exactly what you're looking for, but I truly believe we both will! Just keep trying, and continue to work on yourself 🤗💕

[@megangriffin3510]

Thanks for sharing, P. Because I can relate to EVERYTHING you were saying. You are definitely not alone in how you feel or your struggle to kind of figure out why things aren't working. I'm an INFJ, so I get the whole "am I chasing something that doesn't exist anymore when I'm being a hopeless romantic and not into something unless I'm truly into it 100%?". You honestly seem like a genuinely nice, smart, mature, and beautiful person-I hope good things happen for you in 2021!

[@malenek]

It is not weird at all. I feel the exact same way, need connection with someone before investing in a relationship. Casual it not an option. I had that with my ex girlfriend, and I hope to find it again some day, even if I set the bar very high... :)

[@SamLee-ji6iv]

Thank you so much for sharing this with us P. I know it must have been hard. I can relate to a lot of this. You are absolutely gorgeous!

[@Deliverancepoet]

Youre literally me wow .. great vid

[@persisabraham]

Thank you! I appreciate that so much.

[@danielatumanidis4867]

Me I'm single all my life I found someone at 30 year but no love me relationship is only 1 months. Now I found another girl at 34 year. But I wait because is live at your country and now is banned all.

[@Elia-fo8xg]

I can relate to so much of what you're saying! I've recently stopped dating someone because there just wasn't that spark and now I question myself if maybe it would still have developed. Deep down though I know it was the right thing to do. But I think it just depends on what you want out of a relationship or what kind of relationship you want. So yeah I totally get you chasing that feeling cause I am too. And when it comes to trust issues, I think I've just become accustomed to having my guard up from the years that I was closeted and it's so difficult to break that habit even though I've now been out for years. I'm still working on that one.

[@kelpuma1]

Relate to this on ALL the levels! Being self aware is the best thing in world. Just understanding yourself more in multiple directions. I wish I lived in Canada so I could just take you out! 😍🤗

[@lise5591]

Omg i completely relate! I am waiting for that instant connection because i know it exists and i don't have the patience or the emotional resistance to wait around and see if the spark will come or not. Its the same with friendships, i can usually tell if someone is going to be my friend or not, so why would it be different for relationships? Don't lower your standards. You are who you are and your feelings and ideas are part of you. There's no point in lowering your standards to have more chances at finding someone because 1, you won't be happy if you aren't compatible and 2, you might be wasting more time with people who you know aren't meant for you and the right one might slip away. Never apologize and never settle :) the right person will come along!

[@thousand.stones]

This is the exact experience that I’ve had with dating and I can’t explain it to other people. Sometimes it just clicks! Unfortunately that doesn’t mean that it will work out but it felt good to hear someone else say the same thing!

[@nightskystars0762]

You're soo pretty!!!❤️

[@oliviadelacuba6155]

This video described 10000% how I felt during my teenage years. (I’m 22 now so not so much of a difference although I now have accepted my queerness.) still have a way to go, but I’ve told all my friends, I only still get a bit nervous about talking about it with other people, but I’ll get there. Thank you ❤️

[@kymberlierobertson]

Hey, I get it. I haven't dated seriously in a few years because I don't tend to fall for a lot of people because that spark and that depth of communication needs to be there, but I've also been madly in love and it wasn't healthy so I took some time for me. I'm 29 now and I can honestly say a few years to myself with no serious relationship and casual dating was a much healthier way for me to spend the past few years in a relationship that I wasn't fully invested in. That wouldn't have been fair for me or a partner. So who knows what's around the corner but here''s hoping it all works out for us all.

[@perrucheval]

100% relate

[@wherswally]

omg relate to this so much, the libra romantic, the passion. Would LOVE to have you on my podcast to talk more about it x

[@persisabraham]

Ou what! Sounds awesome, and thanks for thinking of me. Let me know when, I'm in 😊

[@Soccerchick611]

Media representation is so critical! Glad that slowly it's getting there but I wish it could be done in a way where being apart of the lgbtq community isn't the persons entire identity it's just a part of them

[@shaec6522]

Do you think attraction or tension is mutual? It’s very rare and difficult for me as well to find that connection with someone and recently there’s this coworker of mine and whenever we are near or next to each other, there’s just this tension between us and the awkwardness. Maybe it’s just me lol 😂

[@tiborbenak7545]

dont be afraid you are beautiful sweet girl

[@oliviadelacuba6155]

And I 100% relate to the only chasing something when you feel some kind of spark from the beginning. If I don’t feel that I’m not even interested in someone

[@aakankshagoel1211]

u have the most beautiful voice ever

[@ithanurma9446]

I love you ❤️

[@renychacko6139]

You are incredibly beautiful inside and out! I could listen to you all day! You are so articulate!

[@noahismyname]

Same

[@noahismyname]

Greetings from Germany