That’s a huge red flag. If she can’t accept your daughter, then maybe she’s not the right one for you. You deserve someone who loves your family as much as you do
@devhxh15588 сағат бұрын
OP is a DOORMAT.. and if he had not seen the email we would go along smiling at the wedding with her kids and nephews. She knows it and pulled fast one on OP
@ioaneleiataua19296 сағат бұрын
It's awesome to know that you're daughter will always come first. You dodged a bullet right there, she would have continued to mistreat your daughter and treated her worse. You're a Great Loving Father
@devhxh15588 сағат бұрын
40+ but thought she was being smart by ruining OP relationship with his daughter
@devhxh15588 сағат бұрын
Weddings are huge milestone... By excluding Op daughter she is already cutting her off from her father's life... OP was a doormat too no wonder his 2 marriages are in trash and 3rd one going there too... How could you agree on cutting off his daughter from his wedding... . She pull this on OP coz she know he is a DOORMAT.. and if he had not seen the email we would go along smiling at the wedding with her kids and nephews
@silverwinterwolf206410 сағат бұрын
this is honestly on the Ex's family more, yeah the Ex still messed up, but the fact her family but those thoughts in her head kinda shows they didn't like the OP's daughter more than anything.
@Arcane_Route_6610 сағат бұрын
I get what you mean, but at the end of the day it all falls on Addison. It was her choice. She chose to be immature, she chose to be hypocritical and she chose to isolate OP's own daughter. What did she think life would be like after they got married? He wasn't going to send her off to boarding school just to make Addison happy. Addison's sisters stirred the pot, sure. But Addison left the burner on to cause the fire even when the smoke alarm was going off. So I don't feel bad for her.
@johhnysorrow8 сағат бұрын
Listening to this, it felt like the Ex was going to do her best to make the daughter at Holidays only kid for OP. And even then she was going to do her best to sever that tie.
@Reader1stlove7 сағат бұрын
NTA she would have lied and gas lighted you to get what she wanted. She would have made your daughter's life hell. She did it for HER kids. Anything you did for your daughter would have seen as taking from HER kids. Your going to HAVE to evict her from the house. Why would she give up her home because of someone else's kid (your daughter).
@tartlynerdy9 сағат бұрын
Op is kind of an idiot. Addison clearly has no issues with kids. It's specifically only op's daughter she has an issue with. I really hate people like Addison who go after single parents but won't accept a package deal. It's worse and even more hypocritical coming from Addison since she's a single mom. How would she feel if her man was actively trying to exclude just HER kids from their wedding. Op dodged a missile. Addison got cocky once that ring was put on her finger and ruined her own engagement.
@technomancermagus83578 сағат бұрын
Even more bizzare when they have kids of their own. "Oh I want you to raise my kids, but I don't want to lift a finger to deal with yours."
@lynnhobbs99019 сағат бұрын
She did you a favor dude.
@mimibee40910 сағат бұрын
If she is devious enough to treat OPs daughter differently in front of him requires no further explanation
@BigBlessed91355 сағат бұрын
So a child the was able to walk around and participate in a party isn't too sick for that, but should be too sick to laugh in bed on her phone? Wtf is wrong with that woman? That literally makes no sense. Did she expect her to suddenly be delirious. The girl did what she thought was right. She came for the important part of the party and than excused herself. Like huh?
@sabatasmia87897 сағат бұрын
Dude should've said no the moment she said not even your own kids at the wedding