Fighting Back Against Divide & Conquer w/ David Charalambous | Aubrey Marcus Podcast

[@beccywilson1349]

thank you Aubrey ! . Please have David on again . There is nothing more important to focus on than healing the false divide . Nothing more important than holding each others hands as we wake up to how we have been manipulated .

[@reachingpeople5534]

Hi Beccy, I am glad the conversation was valuable. I agree, supporting each other as we uncover the darkness of manipulation is important.

[@dushisoundsmeditationmusic]

To the person reading this: THANK YOU for being here and adding value to our world 💖 Hope you have a blessed day filled with joy, happiness, health and love! 💖

[@theeclipsedtruth]

Wishing you the same 🤍🪷

[@roymaitland6345]

Dido

[@bjones5791]

Love,joy,peace,kindness,and faithfulness!All through the mercy of the King,Jesus Christ!💕💕💕(making the way ,every day!)🙌

[@fightjustice5602]

Same to you and everyone else.

[@odetoazam]

I suck

[@patrickofearth]

"I might as well let you tell it" "you go ahead" such a lack of ego in this thank you both for the breath of fresh air

[@evolvelove4569]

Fantastic dialogue! So many great bits of information. My favorite was, "Would you rather be right or find out the truth?" So many people, including myself at times, would rather be right versus discovering the truth. I remember high school debate teams. That was not an exercise in finding the truth but honing your power of persuasion.

[@Hermetic7]

Absolutely yes! “Belief has no place where truth is concerned.” - J. Krishamurti. And a great one that I don’t have an attribution for: “Some people don’t want to know the truth. They want to know what they already believe is the truth.” Beliefs are so insidious: “Believing that your uncertain ignorance is small compared to your certain knowledge is the signature assumption of fools.” - Thomas Campbell. And lastly: “All beliefs block further insight.” - Thomas Campbell

[@evolvelove4569]

@@Hermetic7 Awesome! I love Mr. My big TOE! Our purpose here is to reduce entropy as he would say...in other words...Love!💜

[@tomasr64]

Its our inner child which shows up in a debate or conflict. Takes a strong human to see the child within and be able to do good word judo and even better to come back to the table for resolution and even hanging out together at the end of the day.

[@tomasr64]

I could give a couple hour talk about how conflict develops between people (those who ought to be friends) who live next to or with and how to resolve it on several levels. The person I live next to is just about opposite from me with so many things, but through inner work we have learned how to co-exist and I know how to not go off the rails with this crazy life.

[@olgahurley8731]

Absolutely brilliant, wow the more beautiful world our heart knows is possible is possible! Thank you Marcus and David for being such inclusive way showers.🤗

[@onefitgrit14]

An epic conversation, indeed! Wow! Thank you!

[@rushiaskinnerwallace6175]

This talk is so important and refreshingly calm when you consider the topics covered and today’s climate. As someone fascinated by behavioral, brain, and social sciences and hopeful for a more inclusive, respectful, heart-centered and rational climate, I am truly grateful for this conversation. Thank you both! 🙏🏼❤️🌈 One of my favorite quotes (there were many!) “You should only ever influence someone for *their* benefit. And they should know what’s going on. It should be consensual”. !!! This. X’s 1,000. Then that part about “…we can manipulate peoples identity.” 😳 Um… I’m thinking we’re seeing a whole lot of this right now. As the wise adage goes and David said repeatedly, “Know Thyself”. This may be the most counter culture, “progressive” and sovereign thing a human being can do for his or her self. And if there is one thing everyone seems to agree on either side of aisle or on no aisle, it’s that they want sovereignty. That will require we know ourselves beyond conditioning, labels, and the manipulations of social engineering through misuse of the sciences by using the knowledge against the people; NOT to benefit them, but to exploit them.

[@reachingpeople5534]

Thank you Rushia. The topic is fascinating and so useful for solving the problems we face. I am glad it has been of value. David Charalambous

[@rushiaskinnerwallace6175]

@@reachingpeople5534 ☺️🙏🏼

[@Bernardbegin]

I know David personally, he's amazing and doing extremely powerful work in the world. Props for having him on!

[@djdos83]

one of your best guests yet! thanks Aubrey

[@amanitamuscaria7500]

this is why the Socratic method is so valuable. You must describe my argument to me, to my satisfaction, and vice versa. People realise they are hearing things the other person didn't intend. And that there are often gaps in our knowledge that we didn't know were there. If only we all did this......can you imagine it on twitter?

[@collenefindlay5160]

Thank you, in total gratitude for having access to this information 💯💛☝️

[@tjakane]

Aubrey, your podcasts are fascinating. I go with Bashar and follow my excitement. So that's why I'm here. thanks to your threads, I've come across very valuabe resources, and I'm steadier on my Path... thanks!❤️

[@zsuzsagrosz1000]

Thank you for this conversation. Best wishes to both of you. And really: "A quiet mind is all you need. " Bless you.

[@banshee333]

Pause @26:26 (whoa! Cool numbers) the "endgame" extreme of the divide and conquer agenda, deprive humans of hugs. . good thing some of us rebelled! I actually went out of my way to hug people MORE, because I know how profoundly important it is to our well-being. Loving this conversation many thanks! 💗🌷💗

[@SusanTaylorArtist]

I worked in advertising for awhile and I found it hard to have to lie to promote products. It’s amazing how easily we can be manipulated with words.

[@Rooloo-t4g]

Creator of ALL. Period. You are not God.

[@SusanTaylorArtist]

@@Rooloo-t4g what’s that supposed to mean?

[@vintagevibes1974]

I try to stay grounded in this clarity: who is aiming to overpower, control, oppress and who’s not.

[@elizabethdesousa8290]

That was a fantastic, well spoken interaction between you both. Thank you, for the calming conversation. Thank you 😊

[@joshmundt5900]

This humbleness is soooo needed

[@reneemottaz3925]

Thank you for having David. So meaningful.

[@MomentsWithZhi]

Fantastic and eye opening conversation. Would be great to have David back on the podcast ❤️

[@sofiailektra]

Aubrey, your channel is one of my all time faves here on youtube. thank you so much for doing what you do! 💜

[@cullenhenderson9002]

Brilliant podast. Thank you both for this conversation.

[@elizabethdesousa8290]

Yes, have David on again.

[@rickyscribz9647]

Holy *@&$. Such a great podcast and guest, I want to listen again and really understand/integrate this wisdom!

[@joeylozado4190]

This podcast is underrated

[@philabowl-wn5pi]

Great great conversation! So much in there. Thank you very much!

[@theeclipsedtruth]

The hard part about challenging the narrative… you are looked down on by people .. and everyone thinks it’s their job to tell you how you’re doing it wrong..so you question yourself constantly and feel shame for not doing it the way everyone else does.. like there is something wrong with you because you don’t aspire to the same things in life as the ones around you.. it’s so complicated and difficult to navigate and feel you are being true to what you feel you need for your life vs approval that you are finally doing it “right”.

[@rosediamond39]

It's a very good point.... Personally I like to see them all as tests now. A test of your faith or what you have chosen to believe in.... If you can be easily swayed it's a good idea to look at what it is in us that feels attacked by others.... I got good at this during the pandemic. I chose not to wear a mask or take the vaccine and many people told me I would be putting lives at risk, that the air wasn't fit to breath... I went inwards whenever I felt challenged by these statements until eventually I truly arrived at sovereignty. I hope you are there now too. ❤️

[@shellicohen1885]

When you stop needing other people's approval is when you can truly step into your truth and experience real freedom.

[@cveroespinoza]

Such a great conversation! I will re-listen to it for sure. Understanding through open communication…goals.

[@ceileena]

Love the story at 40 mins in, about the 1914 war, which I believe was what really ended that war, thought of course was never publicised in the media of that time.

[@RobertRotte1]

The first step to successful investing is figuring out your goals and risk tolerance - either on your own or with the help of a Financial Advisor. If you can get the facts about savings and investing with a well detailed plan, you should be able to gain financial security over the years and enjoy the benefits of managing your income.

[@twinfred3160]

I think the pandemic have really taught people the importance of multiple streams of income, unfortunately having a job doesn't mean security.

[@chrisjohn7823]

@Dan Romero I think the key thing here is working with a professional. Yes people have devoted their lives to making profits in the market, but those of us who haven't but are interested in investing can simply work with them.

[@alexmontrey5372]

@@chrisjohn7823 Alright, so you know anyone?

[@chrisjohn7823]

@@alexmontrey5372 Nope, not yet. But the search is on.

[@cryptocasey1083]

@@alexmontrey5372 I know someone, I invest with an investment advisor assigned by an investment firm that trades for me

[@Williamtipq]

Title of the video: most important topic on earth.

[@bjones5791]

What happens after we die is the most important topic on earth.And while we are here,what is the standard for what is right or wrong morally.And what is our purpose?…..

[@myronschabe]

A better title would have been, "Shedding Light On Strategies of Divide and Conquer", because "Fighting" is simply just engaging in that negative pattern...The secret to how to change is simply to engage in a new pattern. And humility is one of the highest virtues...in young, adolescent America this is not at, all, well understood.

[@bjones5791]

@@myronschabe People like you is why I love reading comments! Thank you very much for such an awesome observation!👊🤠

[@joshuacarpenter4477]

@@myronschabe Reminds me of those that are using "innerstanding" in place of "understanding" which makes a lot of sense as understand is to mean "to stand below" as a conquered opponent. Subtle, but unconsciously processed and carries a negative connotation.

[@summerhopf2762]

I loved this!!! Thank you for bringing this information to us ❤️

[@MissJoze3]

Thank you for this talk especially Aubrey, greatly appreciated. ❤️🙏Thank you 💐

[@benjams5743]

Outstanding podcast. Thanks,

[@barbdrinnan1867]

Brilliant conversation. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@joanneowen4067]

Fascinating conversation. Thank you both ☺️

[@theeclipsedtruth]

I thought I was better than a group of people because I wasn’t getting caught up in drama, the truth is, I only pointed out to myself how afraid of confrontation I am. So when faced with even a small level of it..it’s earthshaking. So something that could be a small disagreement..TO ME…seems like a full on fight.. I try to remind myself about balance in all things often, but I’m not even close to having it figured out….like so many things.

[@theeclipsedtruth]

You two have made me feel a lot better about several personal things, you keep addressing what’s on my mind in oddly specific ways!! Thank you !!!!!! 🤍🪷🤗

[@MultiDimensionalWorldandBeyond]

Such a needed talk, thank you 🙏 Fantastic 🌟

[@24Kitsune]

Aubrey you are so awesome

[@Candley1077]

Wow loved this thank you

[@authentic_tone]

Another one for the books! ❤

[@rayoflightquantumhealing1410]

Love this and your content is great. Why all the Eff Bombs? Abracadabra…. Is it a word of value in the construct? Conveying anger, frustration, judgement? Just offering… as I am learning the power of the word. And more important, the power of intent.

[@allangraham3649]

Thanks and namaste Aubrey, peace

[@omnificent15]

My appreciation💙🏄👣🌱✨✨

[@theeclipsedtruth]

We HAVE to be able to be wrong or we’ll never learn a thing..and PS love graham hancock..remember when no one wanted to hear about his experiences with Ayahuasca either? (Obvs not “no one”) Was banned from Ted talks, first presentation they banned I think? I know this makes me sound small and petty, but I didn’t have much use for TT after that, it was so disheartening . I thought that was a place to learn, so censorship wouldn’t have a home there..I Emailed him years ago as a heroin addicted house cleaner, thanking him for his endless research..listening to his lectures (and many others too) helped get me through my days of what was just pure hell inside. He was my reprieve as I scrubbed other peoples homes (very wealthy peoples homes) to make the money to get the drugs that I needed to get up to go to work, just to function. And he emailed me back a week later, apologizing that it took so long and shared compassion with me. Gave me some resources he thought could help with my addiction…unfortunately I was financially unable to do so, but that’s not the point! He cared enough to take the time and write me back! Someone he could have so easily judged or just flat ignored. I just had to share that.. It’s just a tender story to me and since you mentioned him, I thought I’d share. I’m in recovery now, but not in the way I’d like to be. My goal still is to be able to experience some of the things he described back then…ayahuasca being part of that. For me personally, I just don’t feel Methadone, suboxone, have been the answer. Feel like just trading one for another…the other just happens to be more addictive and state sponsored. But! It’s had its benefits…not black and white…lots of grey…just not for me. But it is what it is till I can change it. 🖤 🪷

[@juliafogarty4161]

Thank you. This was epic 🙏🏻🙏🏻🤩🤩

[@manuelkumli5393]

Great YTchannel. Great work! Dont know how i missed this place for so long. :D

[@dinomiles7999]

Just move to the jungles of the world. Learn to be a minimalist..... Eyes,mind,heart and soul wide open . NO FEAR !

[@aliciaparr243]

Duper's delight is the label for the happy microexpression when getting away with an untruth.

[@Qualle144]

!these are vivid thoughts of a confused being! (I hope the ones reading this are in a state where I don’t do more bad than good with these words, I‘m lost and feel like this is a space where I may gain some insight) I want to be better and make other people better, but I don‘t know if that‘s the way I should go about it and if that‘s even the core of my needs not being met. I don‘t know a lot, my needs aren‘t met, I want others peoples needs to be met, but how can I do that if I don‘t see clearly? How can I see clearly, do I have to have patience or are there key habits or any information I can project myself to that can change me for the greater good. Whatever that is?!

[@karenphelps4194]

Does anyone know if there’s a link to or more information about that gathering in Bath that is mentioned? 🙏🏼🌸✨

[@ginbrunson7692]

THANK YOU 😊

[@migdaliarosado4137]

#Be Cooperative #Respect one Another #Injustice

[@ADyingFaith]

It would be cool if you interviewed Peter Joseph about a natural law resource based economy.

[@roymaitland6345]

Farming is freedom. Drop goats chickens and cows not bombs.

[@superdad1997]

Thank you for another great podcast!! So many clips I'd love to send to my friends, but the "clip" option isn't available on your podcasts for some reason. Can someone help me understand why? Thanks❤️!

[@AscendWithTy]

😮wow… this is juicy!

[@Jimi_Lee]

I just hope to put the idea in someone's head, perhaps in some uncomfortable way that will bug them till they resolve it. I don't expect anyone to just back down.

[@theeclipsedtruth]

Are you kidding me??? 😂 We’re allllll affected by advertising and we’re all susceptible to influences and particularly ones we don’t even know are there?? Imagery, frequencies etc etc…🤯 we are inundated constantly!

[@xikano8573]

Hey, Jamie, let's get Dr Robert Lustig on the line...

[@jazminew38]

"The higher level of education, the more vulnerable people are for Mass Formation" Gustave Le Bon. This is excately what happened in Europe Vs Africa with Covid-19 and the injections. Mind you in all educated nations like US, Canada, Australia and NZ.

[@markmywords2840]

I may well ammend or delete this comment after watching this conversation in full, but I'm already feeling the neex for a "time out" and will wait to finish this. Currently, I'm ONLY 13 minutes in, but already getting that anxious feeling I get when I watch one of these type dialogs, get invested in the interviewee, agree with many of their points, and then realize I detest their political beliefs, and lose all respect for them. With regard to David's point about how to push people into realizing they don't REALLY understand the platforms of the political parties they support: that was true of myself... when I identified as a Democrat. Democrat is the "default setting" in America, because the Democrats own 90% of MSM (CNN, MSNBC, NBC, CBS, ABC, New York Times, Washington Post, Time Magazine, Newsweek, The Atlantic, New York Magazine, and so on, and so on, and so on, ad nauseum). The Democrats/Left also own our Universities AND virtually ALL of popular entertainment (that's virtually EVERY song, movie, tv show, PODCAST, and Documentary one is likely to encounter). SO: While I agree with David's statement about people not REALLY understanding their party's platform, I only agree with it as it pertains to Democrats and those on the Left. As a former Leftist myself, I KNOW how dogmatic I was, even when I KNEW I didn't really know the facts of whatever topic I was discussing (let's say military spending, or Universal Healthcare). HOWEVER, in 2016, I had a "HUGE" Awakening thanks to my support for Bernie Sanders (that douche), Donald Trump, and the endless lies told about him by the MSM and every celebrity from Cardi B to Meryl Streep. TODAY, I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I BELIEVE POLITICALLY AND WHY I BELIEVE IT. I could easily justify each and every one of my beliefs with (not just) facts, but the incredible effort it took to find them. I would say this is true the vast majority of FORMER LEFTISTS WHO'VE ABANDONED THE LEFT, like myself. We are some of the most engaged, well informed people around, BECAUSE everything we believe, we've had to make enormous efforts to inform ourselves and arrive at conclusions completely at odds with 90% of what is being shouted at us 24/7. So I (understandably) am hypersensitive to hearing ANYONE (much less a communications expert) even HINT at any type of relativism, equating the beliefs of the Left and the Right as equally biased misperceptions.

[@reachingpeople5534]

Hi Mark, sounds like you took the time to check your beliefs. When we do this, we can become clear about what we believe. I am pointing out what seems to be a default pattern for many. It doesn't have to be. It really is a function of the brain to fill in gaps. I have my own beliefs, as everyone does. I am showing the mechanism which can allow us a better understanding of how they function. This will also allow people to be conscious of how easy it is to not know why we believe something. This can happen regardless of intelligence. This can, no doubt, create a discomfort. I have experienced more than my fair share of cognitive dissonance. My beliefs have changed over time and I am sure they will continue to, as I delve deeper into the information on each subject. Hope this helps, David

[@markmywords2840]

@@reachingpeople5534 thank you David for the direct reply. Well, I have, in fact, now watched the entire podcast and am glad I did, as I found many of your insights... uh... insightful. Furthermore, I was quite happy to hear you call out (in a roundabout way) the insanity surrounding Covid, mask mandates, and the push for global acceptance of a totally untested vaccine. While I wouldn't even care to divine your political leanings, I can say I am an "out and proud" Trump supporter (or as the Democrats call me "a Domestic Terrorist"). Like many, I started out disliking his bravura and the redundancy (and seeming idiocy) of his speech patterns (something I now see as a brilliant way of branding ideas in the public imagination). All of this to say that even though I am an enthusiastic Trump supporter, I (like many others) would jettison him in a heartbeat, should I find he is not who I believe him to be. I see no such willingness and/or flexibility from those on the Left, who appear to grow crazier by the minute. I very much believe they are the VICTIMS of the Party leaders they so revere, who manipulate them into grotesque actions and beliefs, in order to retain power. I'm also aware that I TOO, might be oblivious to my own brainwashing. However, the fact that I'm even willing to acknowledge that possibility suggests to me that my critical thinking remains intact. Thanks again for the response and I'll look forward to exploring more of your content.

[@amandaevans6761]

What wa the book called by Robert Sopolski please?

[@reachingpeople5534]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYO8lIarrrGcgM0 This is a good video.

[@theeclipsedtruth]

None of us want to believe we’re the herd, in herd mentality…me included, but I can see where I do it..it makes me feel like I you don’t have convictions, nor creative or critical thinking. And we all want to feel like we are immune to this… but 🙈

[@taopaille-paille4992]

Why 90% and not 80%? Where did he get his number from, and based on what definitions?

[@reachingpeople5534]

Hi Tao, which point was this number referred to? There are many social psychology studies which present these statistics.

[@taopaille-paille4992]

@@reachingpeople5534 In the first 5 minutes. The statistics looks pretty much stated out of the blue without source or scientific background

[@reachingpeople5534]

@@taopaille-paille4992 It may be the Batson and Darby study from 1973. Where I quote studies they will be able to be researched, the places I make an opinion I will say so. Multiple times I make references to studies and I quote them. I have literally hundreds of studies which I use. The scientific background is there. If you review the book "The Person vs The Situation which is one of many works that we reference and use, you will see many studies that provide the background. Decision Lab website has 86 or so biases each with references. Robert Sapolsky's work references divide and conquer aspects. These are 3 of the many sources we references and provide far more scientific background than many places.

[@homeiswherethebusis7311]

I’ve written and recorded a poem called Divide and Conquer. How do I send it to you?

[@carlosvonderheyde]

💜

[@julbys]

love this guy, very informative. I do wish Aubrey would quick saying the word fuck in every sentence, it gets really distracting.

[@user-qz6ml3hb9u]

21:40 - "Would you rather be right, or find the truth?" is not David's question. That is a classic NLP question and he should know that since he's trained in it. It's a little dishonest to be claiming ownership about this. In fact it's kind of funny that he's talking about always being right at the same time. Also his hug story is not owned by the person he claims it's owned by. I've heard it many times from different people, first from someone at a Canadian Rally 1.5 years ago (whom I know personally). How amazing that it's travelled so far. I've done it myself. There are several other misquotes too. Not to distract from his work, but I take issue with people who claim a problem with others, while they engage in the same behaviour. We can't make a point against others using the same communication flaw.

[@reachingpeople5534]

EM I relayed the story about my sister for the effect it had on me. This was a true story. The story about the hug is a true story, I know the lady personally. She shared it on a call with 20 witnesses. She has, no doubt happened in many places. The story was relayed due to the power of connecting. Can you please be specific if there were any misquotes and I can address them if there were. I do not claim the problem is others, I claim it is ours as a general rule for which we have to resolve.

[@HariTuru]

i think im confused did he mean to say "threatened to shoot them" like it was a good thing?? 40:25

[@WildRemedies]

I think it might be helpful to have your commercial either in the front of your podcast or in the back of it because I have noticed it on many of your podcast s and really interrupts the flow of the podcast to have a commercial in the middle of it… I mean here you are in a really interesting and deep conversation and then there comes on some commercial about nutrition… The reason a lot of us pay for KZbin plus is so we don't have to deal with that and I know it's your own product and I have nothing against you wanted to sell your products but please just think about it… is it really worth it to interrupt the flow? Just something for you to look at

[@discospyder40]

WOO! Arb ury Flarplapsh!!! My black person. yOu the black person! Happy Black Person

[@VSM101]

Sounds what is happening to India in the western media.

[@wojohowitz5432]

1:05:00 sums up the last 2 years.

[@russcarroll1648]

Fight against the 1%

[@ΟλγαΑρωνη]

☀️☀️☀️

[@wojohowitz5432]

1:28:20. B.Ill G.ates

[@kalilg2242]

You don't have to have cartoon character to be evil guys.... rather or not you think you're evil is irrelevant to if you are. At least, if you value actions over intentions that is.....

[@lisakuchinski1465]

NO its not at all like trust God! God through Jesus Christ gives the world a moral compass , set of rules which all can / will flourish.

[@Rooloo-t4g]

Anyone awake knows.

[@johncassell3362]

Aubrey, Chris, Michael... from the get he was confused about his identity. I still get repulsed by his dishonesty. Just becuase you have a bunch of names doesn't mean you get be a snake oil salesman. Fake business hippie sex addict. Like he's the first person to fuck and do drugs, so insightful... so much corpatized wisdom. Ever try doing anything that isn't related to you making money?