FINALLY OPENING UP ABOUT EVERYTHING

[@carolynr861]

Where was he spending his money if you were paying the mortgage!? I can’t believe how bad things were! I’m so happy you’re out of that situation ❤

[@ForeverYours0727]

When he had a great job in DC we would split everything. It was when he quit his job to become my "manager" that I took over everything. That didn't work out at all having him try to run my KZbin channel so eventually after like 3 years of that he decided to get a job but it was low pay as he had to start from the bottom again. I continued to support us until he could move up, I knew it would take a few years but was happy he was getting a job instead of playing video games all day. That's where he met her and rather than helping me with any bills he would give all his money to support her.

[@Fiore61106]

​@Kayleigh Noelle omg Kay, I been watching you for years. I would have never thought he was like that. But like you say, you would edit things out so that we wouldn't see the real him. I'm glad you left that relationship and you found yourself a better man. Wishing you nothing but the best.

[@shoegalkat]

Omg Kayleigh, you are so brave!! Do you have any idea how much this video is going to help other women’s out there in that same situation. A million times thank you for sharing your story. You deserve all the happiness in the word. ❤ I went through the same exact situation. I was with my ex for 4 years and he cheated the last year and I was broken but decided to move on. And now 5 years later I’m married to a amazing guy and we have a almost 2 year old baby girl. Never been this happy ❤️ I can’t wait to see your future 🎉

[@PharmTech_TN]

@@ForeverYours0727 I knew it. You were left with the mortgage while he goes and spends money on her. Ladies men want empowerment or egotiscally "be the supporter," if the women is the supporter they will most likely look elsewhere to "support" that's why save your own money and let them pay your Bill's.

[@ForeverYours0727]

So happy for you wow!

[@Smiless0612]

You’re so brave for leaving and speaking about it. We are so proud of you. I’m happy that you’re in a better place. You deserve it.

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you girl

[@katydavis3390]

❤❤❤

[@ELLE-yg6lk]

Kayleigh, you are incredibly brave for opening up about this. You never owed us anything, yet here you are helping other women who’ve been in your shoes or are currently experiencing it. To see you leave that toxic life behind and absolutely kill it in nursing school all while finding the love of your life.. There are no words. You did it all on your own when the odds were against you. You’re a huge inspiration. I will never forget when you were there for your ex every step of the way when his mom passed. Always remember that you weren’t the problem. He was. And any woman who allows a man like that into their lives is just as low of a person. You are moving mountains! Many more blessings to you. ❤

[@ForeverYours0727]

thank you so so much for those kinds words

[@mavrick6499]

I commend you Kayleigh for being so honest. And I think the part of this video where you talk about breaking up with your boyfriend should be showed to girls in schools in Grade 9-12. As a teacher I have met so many young women who think that what they see in blogs is the "truth", and who believe that all the "perfection" they see in influencers' videos is what they should have and is possible. When these young women leave school and end up living with a partner they pay the bills but don't insist on their names being on the title, and starve themselves and exercise to please partners without getting any respect in return - these women need to hear your story, and the sooner the better. Not because you are a victim, but because you have wisdom gained from life experience that will benefit them in the REAL world.

[@ForeverYours0727]

Gave me chills - totally agree with you! That's why I've decided it's time to finally speak up. I know there's thousands of other girls who are either going through this right now or have been through something similar. Hoping to reach them with my message

[@mavrick6499]

@@ForeverYours0727 I'm sending bundles of good energy your way.

[@joeyismybooo]

Been here since Kota was a pup 🥹 so happy for you and how you have absolutely risen from the ashes of your old life! The future is so bright for you guys ☀️

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you so much! Love how you put that :)

[@jaggy2005]

I’m only 9 minutes in and the way you are describing your escape, I’m so happy it did not turn out worse. You are beautiful, amazing and a control freak will know you will be swooped up very quickly. 🎉

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you so much!! Yes the escape plan thankfully worked out but I should have definitely been more careful. It's crazy how quickly things can escalate and how you "think" you may know someone when you really don't.

[@PaigeAshleighB]

I watched your vlogs from the beginning. I am so proud of you for getting out of that relationship, especially after all that time. Unfortunately I think a lot of us aren’t surprised by this, the isolation, no family or friends, the constant focus he had on your body, his complete lack of emotion, when the rest of his family seemed completely opposite. Love to see you thriving now though and all the milestones and accomplishments you e reached in just 3 years is absolutely amazing. 💕💕

[@ForeverYours0727]

Yes girl , you hit it right on the nail! Thank you so so much!

[@sublimebeing]

Yass!!! I went through this also, he took advantage cause he knew I was an introvert and private person. Anywoo, I'm jumping up and down for you Kayleigh. My heart is so happy for you!

[@ebecky4275]

Right?! We knew.

[@star579_Chandra]

Best thing to do with those personality types is cut off ALL contact. Go completely silent. Guarantee he’s still watching your videos. No one deserves that kind of treatment. Sometimes we don’t know what situation we are in until we are able to step away enough to take the filtered glasses off. Shows how strong you are to dig yourself out of that situation. Everything happens for a reason . Thank God you are safe and you are THRIVING!!!

[@ForeverYours0727]

Creepy to think about but yeah probably! That's exactly what I did, cut it all off. Never been happier since! And thank you so much!

[@AztecblondieRN]

No, we knew. There was an obvious vibe of how controlling he was. It wasn't a complete shock to some of us. I'm a nurse, too. 32 years! So proud of you.

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you! 🙏

[@paulamae1983]

So proud of you and you having the courage to leave a bad situation. ❤️ You deserve nothing but the best!

[@ka51dy]

I’ve been watching since the first house yall rented, can’t believe he ended up treating you like that!!! So happy for your new path ❤

[@zullydiaz5776]

Thank you for clarifying and sharing your story. I knew something was off with him over the years. You were there for his family through and through. Yet somehow he wouldn’t come with you to YOUR family events, or at least that’s what it seemed like. When his mom passed, you were so emotional and broken up about it…he was NOT. that alone was a red flag. I’m so so happy that you are in the right place, the place you deserve. I wish you the very best!! ❤

[@ForeverYours0727]

Yes girl you noticed! Exactly..... I loved and still love them with all my heart. I'd do anything for that family. But never got any of that in return on his end. And yes, he never cried when she passed, not one tear.

[@emilyhamilton1604]

​@@ForeverYours0727 what he never cried when his mom passed 😮 omg I'm crying every day for my mom she passed away 5 months ago from Liver cancer

[@mariahcortez3089]

I also noticed this !! Been a long time follower!

[@Fiore61106]

​@Kayleigh Noelle wow that's crazy... I even cried when you guys announced that she passed away.

[@ForeverYours0727]

@briannabajwa2063 yep there was just nothing left there. either darkness in his eyes or completely seeing red. got a nice batch of both on a daily basis.

[@BrookeClarisse]

I am so proud of you, Kayleigh. As my big sister, you've always been such an inspiration to me, and I know everyone watching this will feel inspired by your story as well. It took so much courage and strength to leave that situation and your vulnerability in speaking about it is sure to help many others in similar circumstances. Not a day goes by that I don't wish I somehow could have rescued you from this back when we were teenagers. I never stopped praying over the years that you would be able to escape and find true happiness like you deserve. Seeing you thriving and finally free to enjoy your life brings tears to my eyes. I love you very much and I look forward to getting to watch you grow into who you were always meant to be. Can't wait until 2024 to celebrate with you guys 💕

[@ForeverYours0727]

Aw Brooke this made me cry!!!! Love you so so so much! I know you guys all tried every time I visited to help me see what was right in front of my face but I would never listen. I remember everything you guys did to try to help me and will always be thankful and appreciate for that. Can’t wait to see you very soon ❤️

[@SuzyQ1129]

Thank you for sharing as much as you did, Kayleigh. We all tend to think we're alone in these situations and I know your story is helping other women in similar situations ❤I've never been so happy for someone I don't even know!

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you so much!

[@MyShelly28]

Girl you are proof that through the storms the flowers will always bloom!!!

[@MagsNLily]

Read a quote on Pinterest that I wanna get on my spine : the tears of my past have watered the flowers of my future

[@cynthia4981]

Girl no a lot of us could tell he was a narcissist. I’m so glad you got out of that situation ❤ and so proud of how far you’ve come on your own.

[@Speaking1111]

Gosh I can’t explain it but you’re energy is so sweet and kind and when you speak about this experience it makes me sad but also so fucking proud of you for doing it for yourself and being so strong.

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you!

[@HeatherTerry84]

I’ve followed you for so long and I’ll say here what I said on Instagram. Your previous heartbreak has lead you to someone who appreciates you fully and loves you unconditionally. I’m so happy for you that you’ve made your own happiness and found a career & person that makes you feel completely valued & loved. I’ve been curious what Kota thinks of him & vice versa? Lol I know how much that sweet pup means to you! ❤

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you so much! Means a lot to me girl

[@HeatherTerry84]

@@ForeverYours0727 that’s adorable!! 🐶 ♥️

[@crysf4580]

The way Kota was holding your hand. My heart can NOT deal 🥹

[@ForeverYours0727]

my support animal

[@marrisssaa]

I watched your old vlog channel for years and there definitely was moment where you could see the controlling personality traits in him. I am soo happy for you and so inspired by you and your ability to have strength to move on and create a beautiful healthy life for yourself!

[@ForeverYours0727]

Even after all the hours upon hours of editing for so many of you to still see that is just crazy! As for the strength, girl I didn't think I could leave. But something came over me that day. In all honestly I do believe it was God. I believe he took my hand and helped to show me the way. I wasn't big into religion either but I felt strength that day and knew I needed to leave, NOTHING was going to stop me. And thank you girl so much appreciate your comment

[@shirosh809]

I totally agree! You could SEE the controlling coming in some vlogs! Going to the movies only to see the movies he wants to see, doing only the workouts he built for you, not really showing affection towards you..

[@FableFeather]

@@Bella_0303 I’m so curious about this as well because we all know his family loved Kayleigh!

[@808cupcakes]

This really shows us viewers never really know what’s going on behind closed doors (cameras) you’re strong Kayleigh and your worth is so much. 🤙🏽

[@ForeverYours0727]

Yes it's never the same!

[@chloerincon9902]

We all hate that you went through this! Yet we are so proud you are spreading awareness of how important it is to leave an abusive relationship!

[@DaisyNicole9614]

Kayleigh Ive been watching since way before you got Kota. Didn’t realize thats over 9 years. You have come so far and you are helping other women realize that they don’t deserve what they are getting and can find someone who will treat them like they truly deserve. ❤ so proud of what you’ve accomplished its truly motivating.

[@laras6631]

Right? When she said Kota is 9...I was like, wow! Where did the time go... I remember videos way before that! It's so awesome to see Kayleigh thrive :)

[@LMSupreme39]

I never expected for Matt to be that way towards you. I did always had a feeling that u weren’t happy. But never thought that it was that bad. I’m so happy u found someone new and who respects you and loves you. Thank you for sharing something so personally. This is going to give woman the,courage to leave their abusive partners. ❤

[@bananaqueen1231]

First off, ive been watching you for so so many years and have always thought you deserved so much more than what Matt gave you. Kayleigh...my heart hurts for you when you told that story. You didnt owe us anything but we all appreciate you letting us know how things really went down. He clearly didnt deserve such a diamond like you. We all knew it. Anyone could tell after his mom died that he was a totally different person than what he acted like in the vlogs. You did so much to help him and his family out through everything. I'm so glad you got out when you did and that you and Koda are safe now and thriving with a new man and now a nurse! The skies the limit sweety! You deserve the world!! ❤❤❤

[@jennif3rgallegos]

broke my heart seeing you go above and beyond for him ALL the time and never receiving it back. I wanted to yell through the screen like “GIRL OPEN YOUR EYES”😭 so happy you found an amazing partner that will show you true love! He is the dumbass of the century cause you’ll always be the one that got away 💗

[@ForeverYours0727]

Haha thank you I had pretty big blinders on 😂

[@CaroleEvans93436]

This is exactly how my relationship ended with my ex in 1999 - only, he was seeing other men behind my back. I met my now husband in 2000 - we have two amazing children aged 19 and 21. You deserve happiness xxx I just realised I have been watching you for at least nine years!!!! x

[@annarangel5665]

I'm sorry sorry you were treated like that. It breaks my heart to knowing I watched all those vlogs and you were hurting in silence. Thank you for opening up and being vulnerable. Please know that sharing your story/experience will most certainly help another young woman going through the same thing. Congratulations on going for your dreams and finding happiness after such heartbreak.

[@EricaSchloss]

I’ve been watching you for years! I’m 12 years into my relationship and bonded with how many years you we’re together… but those last videos i really felt something was off! He was so cold, you could just see darkness in his eyes like nothing was there. I’m so sorry and I’m so glad you are now able to share something soooo deep! It’s hard girl, to grow up with someone and they change up on you. You were wifey material from the beginning and I never understood why he didn’t wife you up! And I’m so glad you never did! You deserve the world!

[@ForeverYours0727]

Absolutely spot on - cold and dark. Thanks though girl appreciate the love

[@EricaSchloss]

@@ForeverYours0727 ❤️ can’t wait to see where your future takes you! Also a Sag! You choose the right sign haha! It’s always lovely to see your face pop up with a notification! I told my bff you were my KZbin girl crush haha! You’re truly special , and I hope you never forget that! 💕

[@semicharmedlife]

I've followed you before you even had Kota and watched all your vlogs. I always wondered what happened between you and your ex (although I understand you don't owe us an explanation) but I appreciate you sharing today and it really gave me the closure I didn't know I needed! Wishing you and your fiancé endless love, 4 babies and eternal happiness!

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you so much!!

[@butterpecanrican_]

OMG Kayleigh I've never been so proud of someone I don't know. I'm so sorry you went through all that. 😭 You're amazing. This makes your recent successes all that more satisfying 💪💪💪👏👏👏👏👏

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you so much! It's insane all that has happened since then. And I had no expectations. I just solely wanted to get out, that was my only goal. F everything else afterwards you know? And how crazy that I am now truly where I'm meant to be surrounded by the most amazing people. I've never felt more loved in my life!

[@butterpecanrican_]

@@ForeverYours0727 I'm tearing up reading this 😭 You are a tough cookie and went through so much, yet you still managed to allow yourself to be vulnerable and open to love again and you found someone amazing. On top of that you graduated from nursing school with a freakin' 4.0 and you're a nurse now like whaaaa 😲😲😲 What am absolute badass! 👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@NamirRivera]

I think you definitely saved your life. I have heard many stories like this that don't end well.

[@ForeverYours0727]

My family and I truly believe so too.... He had many disturbing thoughts he'd say out loud randomly to me about things he wishes he could do to other people so I know for a fact I could have been one of them. Wouldn't surprise me to see his face on the news.

[@NamirRivera]

@@ForeverYours0727I watched your channel for a really long time. And something seemed off about him. I'm so happy you are in a better situation! You deserve it :)

[@JennEn91]

My man and I have watched for yeeeeeears. Like from the townhouse to the big house up until now. And he always asked what happened. I told him today and his jaw dropped. I'm actually really pissed for you. You went so beyond backwards for that guy,and his family. They were amazing to you. I wonder how they all took it. That had to have been a shock. I'm sorry it took so long. But I'm so happy you found your happiness. Love to you and koda!

[@ForeverYours0727]

Aw thanks for the support guys 🙏 I will address that in a video with more detail because many of you have asked!

[@kayaatify]

So proud of you Kayleigh. So happy you got out. You did so much for him and his family and for him to treat you like that is disgusting. He’ll get what’s coming to him! We love you ❤

[@Mariely1]

I remember watching some your tutorials here and there around 2014-2017 and I always wondered WHY you weren’t as YT successful as Carly bybel, Nicole Guerrero or the other makeup influencers. Because honestly, your content was great quality and taught me a lot of tips and tricks when I was in high school. I came across your channel again when you announced your breakup and I been loyal subscriber since. You have such a genuine spirit and your so sweet. Your ex being your manager and basically living off of you makes me assume he kept you from content creator opportunities. I never knew it was this bad. :/ sorry you went through all that Kayleigh.

[@ForeverYours0727]

Yes! I had multiple companies approach me that many of those girls were also with at the time (like Ipsy for example, they wanted me to move to cali and join them) any of those companies could have definitely propelled my career if I had accepted. It’s all in the past though, no hard feelings. I enjoy what I do here on Yt regardless!

[@MerciKay]

I've been around since almost the beginning of your KZbin journey. I am sick to my stomach hearing what happened to you, I am beyond grateful that you are safe. I can't believe Kota is 9 already! It feels like just yesterday it was just the kitties. You have always been radiant but now, your light is shining so bright

[@amandaryan7898]

No way Kota is 9 already! I've been watching since even before you got her!!! Your happiness is radiating through this video speaking about your fiance so happy for you!

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you so much!

[@slopez9787]

Kayleigh- I’m a “silent” watcher and have been watching the vlogs since you guys moved into that house in VA.. selfishly I’m so glad you are talking about this because I, like many others, were very much committed and watched the blogs religiously- the vlogs involving his mom and what you did for her always had me balling my eyes out.. you didn’t need to explain what happened but thank you for bringing attention to difficult situations that aren’t brought up front to people.. shocking, but like you said- you wouldn’t have ever showed us the ugly.. I’m so proud of you and happy for you.. I’ve always loved your energy and your drive and to see you where you are now, it’s so great to see.

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you so much! 🙏🙏🙏

[@dumfries359]

Kayleigh you were very vulnerable for doing this. I can't help but thank you for this because alot of women out there are going through similar situations. You are brave and strong and will always rise up against evil

[@briannamonique95]

Watched you for years. I literally cried cause that’s so scary and you are now being loved to the fullest…. My heart for you is SOOO happy!! Sending hugs and good blessings your way 🥰🫶🏼

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you so much!!

[@CvG1111]

I believe everything happened at the right time. You’re so incredibly strong to pull yourself out of that situation and I’m so happy you found your person. I’ve been watching you since the beginning with your cutting your own bangs video. You’re so humble and deserve the best!

[@bear6699]

You have always shined so bright, men like that love to control those bright lights, it makes them feel powerful. You took back all your power and got yourself into a life and a love you truly deserve and I couldn't be happier for you!

[@maricruz2443]

Hi Kayleigh, I have been a silent viewer for many years. Since I was in 8th grade, now I’m currently 28. You taught me how to curl my hair with a flat iron, makeup so many thing etc. I’m so grateful! I always knew something was off,I remember you deleting a video bcus (Matt) didn’t like the shirt you were wearing in it. Ever since I felt weird by him. Then I subscribed to your channel and always thought maybe I was wrong on him being controlling. I’m so glad you got out of that situation alive. I knew how close you were to his family, his mother. Always remember she will always be grateful for all the great things you did for her family even though Matt was not deserving of you. I’m so proud of you for speaking up about it. I’m glad you a kota are doing great. ❤

[@jessicahill7476]

Kayleigh did so much for him and his family. UNCONDITIONALLY… and he never showed appreciation. Watching the vlogs you could tell his family knew Kayleigh deserved better, and knew the place he was in at his life, he didn’t deserve her. I hope he changes and doesn’t cause trauma for future women.

[@ForeverYours0727]

It’s impossible for him to change in my opinion, he is way too far gone. But I’m hoping it doesn’t take that girl as long as it took me to realize. Wish the best and happiness for her in the end too.

[@Lizeth43517]

As crazy as it sounds I’ve learned that even though long term relationships end it all happens for the better. I went through a similar situation as you and lost myself completely for a fool who never appreciated me and took advantage of the love that I had for him. It came to a point where enough was enough and left him. After sometime, I finally met the love of my life and I got accepted into Nursing for this fall! It’s so nice to see you happy as ever and w so much success as well ♥️

[@cupcakexcake]

I’m literally bawling my eyes out for you Kayleigh. 🥺 I’m so sorry this happened and how scared you must have been. I’m so glad you were able to get out safely 😭❤ I’m glad you are now in a healthy relationship and went into a career you love.

[@shaehoffman8273]

I have watched your videos for over a decade now and feel like I grew up with you (as weird as that sounds). Your courage to not only leave that situation but also share your story will help so many others, and you’re such a strong human. I wish you nothing but the best because you Seabees it so much 💕

[@brandimiller2664]

No. Girl the first vlog I watched of yours I got a very bad feeling about him. I'm talking like wayyy back. 8 or more years ago. I watched that first vlog and stayed because I love your personality and was honestly worried for you. Then as the years went on and he was still there giving me that weird feeling. When you finally left I was like "YESSSSS!!! Now she can LIVE!" It's like you're not scared to be YOU now. Your not scared and timid anymore. I'm so happy you ate out of that situation, girl. 💓

[@ForeverYours0727]

Yikes thats so scary! But very true some people are good at reading others instantly.

[@brandimiller2664]

@@ForeverYours0727 🩷

[@cassandrahongmai]

Life is for sure a box of chocolates. I’ve never been mistreated by a man or should I say relationship wise. I’m very grateful for my relationship. I was actually very mistreated by the both of my parents who had a terrible marriage before and during my existence. Their relationship and their toxic personalities have hurt me so much. I am now 26 and finally understand now that I am not the one to blame this whole time. I am finally free for the first time in my life and I am literally enjoying life. Looks are definitely deceiving. I never thought the entire time I’ve been watching you and Matt that you’ve been going through it. I am so happy for you Kayleigh for finally getting the life and love you deserve! Love you ❤

[@SmokingOnKeisha]

i am so happy for you. you deserve the best. also, i don’t think we all want to know because we’re nosy or “so interested” no, we wanna see where you came from to where you are now because we’re so happy for you and proud of you..

[@ForeverYours0727]

🙏🙏🙏

[@MelidaMar]

Wao,can’t believe he did this to you. After all those years all the memories is incredible. But girl I’m proud of you for choosing you. For being this strong and decide to move out. You reborn. God bless you.

[@seska__]

Oh, Kayleigh 😟 I am so so so sorry you went through that. I’ve been a subscriber for a long time and seeing your growth these last few years is just incredible. I know how hard it is to relive those memories, but I appreciate your vulnerability in sharing this story. I think it will help inspire many women to do exactly what you were so brave to do. ❤

[@blahdeeda23]

have the babies! it took me so long to find someone and now im 41 having my first baby ❤

[@ForeverYours0727]

Congrats! 🥳

[@evelinecazares2955]

I have watched you for sooo long, and I remember on one of your vlogs that you wanted a lace dress for your wedding and he said something about not going to happen… I was like why is he being a jerk? They been together for sooo long. He should had already proposed to you. And another one about your eye color. You said they have some green in them and he was like nooo they are brown! I was like no!! She has very beautiful eyes and there is some green… I’m glad you left that relationship you deserve what you have now and you need to be happy. Real happiness. I love you!!! Keep rocking!!! 🎉❤

[@ForeverYours0727]

Literally everything that came out of my mouth was ALWAYS wrong. I learned to shut up and never speak. That's what I meant by my light was completely dimmed till it turned to darkness. The only happiness I had was talking to you guys on my KZbin, it was my safe place, the only thing I had to myself. SO happy to be out of that ugh just thinking about it makes my skin crawl. Thank you so much for your support!!

[@everydayelizabeth1181]

I can’t even tell you how much you opening up about your breakup is helping me. Thank you for sharing this. I’ve followed your journey for years and I’m so happy you have found someone who makes you happy ❤️

[@bookwrm4evr]

Thank you for being strong and going back to the dark side for a bit to share what happened. I felt a tiny blip in my stomach because I too was in a situation like that. I'm glad we can both say it was and stayed in the past. Again, I don't get tired of saying how in awe and how proud I am (we, your community, are) of you and where you are now. Yeey! Haha.

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you girl appreciate you sharing as well

[@XHL763]

I’m 42 and looking forward to be a Mom. Don’t think of 40 as old and you can’t have kids after that. As long as you’re healthy, all could be good well into your 40s and so on. Best wishes from a Sagittarius 😊💕

[@desireablelove]

After every storm the sun will reappear. I’m so proud of you Kayleigh and I know it wasn’t easy for you to shared what happened. But I think it will help a lot of other women who might be in similar situations who are afraid to leave and start over again. I’m so happy for you and you deserve all this happiness. ❤❤

[@ForeverYours0727]

I really hope so! Thank you

[@PriscillaFGarcia]

Oh my gosh Kayleigh. Never in a million years would I think that of him. The things we do for love. Your story triggered me as well. Broke my heart hearing you speak like that. Heard it in your voice and I knew the sound of that. That’s what I went through…twice. First was drugs and abuse, second was for someone else and control freak just like your ex. I’m so extremely happy you finally found the man of your dreams, Your Prince Charming, the love of your life. I wish you guys nothing but pure happiness, a beautiful life together and lots of blessings. By the way, if you move to Texas, I’ll be your friend over here 🥰. Much love girlie 💕💕💕

[@michellecarruthers9724]

You are an inspiration. Thank you for being so open and giving people the strength to leave a bad situation and end up living a fairy tale that you deserve. Wishing you and your fiance a lifetime of happiness. Your puppy is the sweetest.

[@arilennemancillas]

Kayleigh I have been subscribed to your channel since I was 16, I’m turning 27 this year! Thank you for sharing your story with us and showing other women and young girls how to stand up for themselves🩷 this is so important and especially for girls to see the importance of their independence and their ability to succeed! You are a beautiful person inside and out and I am so happy for the beautiful life you have created!🫶🏼

[@DesireeMatise]

I think some of us who have experienced similar things and saw through it a bit. That said, no I wouldn't have imagined all the things he did. If you've been in a relationship with someone like him (I was) you can recognize it in the way they behave even when they are show their best self. I always hoped you would continue to grow despite all of it, so glad you got out and are thriving and happy. You deserve it, always so happy to come back to your page and see updates on the next phase of your life. Congrats on everything, slay little rockstar!

[@SusanLori22]

I am literally in awe of you! I don’t think you are aware how much of an inspiration you are to us. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability 🙏❤️

[@mizzwanned]

Girl you're gonna be an AMAZINGGG mom. I just know it! Also I used to watch when you were with Matt-the vlogs. You were such a great girlfriend to him. The way you learned to cook all those meals when his mom passed and took that role. And being there for her, doing her make up when she passed. She was so sweet, I remember. But yeah... you deserved so much better. I'm so glad where you are today

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you 🥹🙏

[@jessicaronan9378]

Omg Kayleigh. I could never of imagined. I am so sorry you were put through this abuse! You are so incredibly brave and strong. You deserve all the happiness in the world. I’m so glad you are getting your happy ending.

[@lifeasJazzmin]

Kayleigh I’m very proud of you for leaving I’ve been a long long time viewer I always remember you getting ur nails done and getting lunch with his mom. And I never thought that he was this way. You are a wonderful woman with a heart of gold and you deserve nothing but the best ❤ thank you for talking about it even though you didn’t have to.

[@ConfusedBrownie]

Kayleigh you shared way more than you needed to but we are so grateful because like you said, those of us that have been watching from the start would never have guessed anything like that was going on. One thing I'm sure of though is your strength and bravery to get out of a situation like that and doing it all alone. I always say you're like the Internet big sister I've never had teaching me all the make up and fashion tips but these past few years with you moving and going back to school, you've taught me so much more about believing in yourself 🧡 xx

[@G13542]

Kayleigh, thank you for sharing this. I went through a shockingly similar thing at the same time you did (except I had married the guy and was unaware of a lot of terrible stuff until afterwards, ugh!), and I remember hearing just the little bit that you shared with us as you were in this process, and it made me feel not alone in the shit storm. As heartbreaking as it was to experience, I am also so glad to be on the other side of this, much stronger, having accomplished so much more (I went to grad school and am also now engaged to an amazing man!) You deserve everything great in this world and I want to congratulate you for giving yourself a chance when it all probably seemed impossible to do in the moment. You're a great role model to women out there, I know that you influenced me for sure, and I can't thank you enough for that❤

[@ForeverYours0727]

I am so beyond happy for you! How crazy we went through it around similar times. Wishing you the best

[@jesystar]

So glad you found your way out, and you didn't allow him to continue the disrespect. You deserve every great thing that has happened these past 3 years. Girl you are still young, you can have 4 kids if you plan it out correctly. Go for it.

[@ForeverYours0727]

thank you so much

[@Morganbking111]

When you said never put money into something you don’t own that is truly the best sisterly advice I give to all my younger girlfriends & will impart on my daughters. Never ever purchase a home with a man who doesn’t want you on the deed/title & never move into a home a man owns & help pay the mortgage. Yes it could work out but often it doesn’t & you’re left with nothing for your investment.

[@Sandra-jv7jt]

You did THAT. So proud of the woman you have become and how you took control of your life and found happiness ❤❤❤

[@AnastasiaBray-m2e]

Hi Kayleigh! I just want to say that i am so incredibly happy for you! I have been catching up on all your recent videos since you graduated from nursing school. I'm so sorry that you went through all of that. Like you said, I would have never guessed that about him. I have been watching your videos since your side bangs tutorial, and you have taught me how to do makeup over the years. I wish you the best with your baby, and the wedding next year! You are such a beautiful soul, and i love that you have always been yourself with your viewers ❤️

[@nataliaa1608]

I’ve been watching you since for years and I remember being in high school and loving your vlogs!!! KAYLEIGH I’m so sorry you had to deal with a manipulative narcissist😭😭😭😭 you’re so right everything did look so perfect but I’m glad you were able to overcome it!!! Happy for you and your new life!!💗💗💗💗

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you so much!!

[@melmirabal9655]

Kayleigh, I’ve been a silent follower for years and especially loved your vlogs. I definitely always got the sense he was not who he appeared but I watched regardless for your recipes and workouts and how much I liked your personality. I was honestly over the moon for you when I heard you had left and found your passion and your happily ever after. My fiancé is next to me right now and I told him the whole story too! Though we’ve never met you feel like a friend just from how much of your life you have shared. You deserve the love and life you have now and I’m amazed at your resilience! I live in the Miami/Broward area too and if I ever see you I hope I can say hi! Wishing you all the best for your future ❤

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you girl yes please do! Love seeing you guys and giving big hugs! 🥰

[@munlyz09]

Seriously have the utmost respect for you for doing that for yourself Kayleigh. You deserve everything life is giving you now and I wish the absolute best for you and your future🫶🏽🤍

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you!

[@SheEquipsHerself]

Been following you since before you had Koda! So glad you got out of such a toxic situation. You seem like you’re in such a good place…everything happens for a reason!

[@ang82890]

Wow, I watched you for a loooong time and we kind of "grew up" together. You did not owe any of this explanation to anyone but I thank you for sharing your story. Gives me closure to this relationship that ended that I was very invested in at one point in time 😂❤ I am so glad you are happy now though!

[@Beautifieddork]

I have been watching you for years and think you are amazing. You’re such a beautiful person inside and out. Hearing your story made me cry. I hate that you went through that. It makes me so happy to see where you are now, engaged to what sounds like an awesome person, a nursing graduate, with a positive outlook for the future! I look forward to seeing what’s to come for you! ❤

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you!

[@Lealoves007]

I’ve been watching you for years. To me, he did come across as controlling, but you spared him that In the videos. I am so sorry to hear you had to go through that. Thank goodness you were able to get away from that toxic person, I wish you well and congratulations again you found the right one!!! Yes, there are good men out there in this world.

[@bolie72031]

I can not believe what I am hearing. You are the sweetest person I’ve ever watched! I found you threw Nikki blackketter like a million years ago! I love that you got your happy ending! It’s like a fairytale! And as for your ex, it’s so insane how social media only shows us what we want to see. Nobody would have guessed he was like that. Good luck to you and Ryan and your new baby!!!❤❤❤❤

[@emilymarshall4960]

I had no idea he put you through all of that. I'm sorry you had that experience with Matt, but so happy it brought you to this new life and that you are safe and happy. ❤️

[@carmenmaciel1958]

I’ve followed you for years. Like curly hair tutorials and I don’t even have curly hair. I Truely looked up to your relationship but at the same time towards the end I could tell it was all your effort. I remember coming on KZbin and checking for your videos and nothing. I admire you so much and it’s so weird bc I don’t personally know you! Thank you so much for sharing such a traumatic part of you life. I’m so happy you and kota got out of there safe. I’m so thankful that your dad stepped up and helped. I know it’s cheesy but a lot of us have rooted for you for so long and will continue to do so. Even when you feel alone just know you literally have a small part of our hearts. I’m so excited and happy for what’s next in your life.

[@jessicahill7476]

Kayleigh is helping so woman out and she has no idea. Her story is inspiring. And gonna help so many woman who are currently in same situation and scared to leave. And scared of the unknown.

[@ForeverYours0727]

Yes scared of the unknown is a perfect way to put it but I was MORE SCARED to stay in that situation than of the unknown. And I knew I had my family and his family backing every move I made. Very blessed for that. I don’t think I’d be able to do it all alone! (And kota as my emotional support animal can’t forget to mention her because she was always there for me!)

[@devyn7602]

I have been watching you on and off for around 12 years. I can tell you have grown SO much! You look genuinely happy now. I’m happy you have found someone who makes you better and doesn’t hold you back❤ Best of wishes for you and your fiancé!

[@linh8887]

I've followed you since the beginning and when I first found out about the break up my heart broke for you. I am so happy to see all your achievements, progess, and that you are surrounded by love ones. Kota especially has been through with you all these years. I wish you nothing but good health, happiness, and lots of love! You are an amazing and beautiful person inside and out Kayleigh. I wish nothing but the best for you. My heart smiles knowing that you are doing well and you are happy.

[@Natali.g6]

We always would get on him in comments for not proposing and being emotionless towards you or anything in general. People were for sure onto him but honestly I can tell you are holding back and he’s even darker than we thought. Holding a knife while sleeping let’s me know everything. I’m so glad you’re ok Kayleigh and made it out alive and that you have a new man showing you how a real man treats a woman. You deserve all these good things. And you are MORE than enough. 🥺

[@queenvsf11]

I'm so happy for you and how far you have come! I've watched you for years. As a fellow taurus yes we are stubborn and strong. I also loved when you said we should have a life separate from our relationship. That is something I wish more women would remember. I hope women find your story inspiring because it is! :).

[@MsCutie2010]

@Kayleigh Noelle Thank you for taking the time to address the questions that your loyal supporters have had for a long time. We care about you and you trusting us with something so personal that you went through means a lot to your supporters. As a victim advocate my job is to help people leave abusive relationships and I commend you for sharing your experience and motivating others who may be in a dangerous situation. I always had a strange feeling while watching your past vlogs as a couple as if something was off but I am so glad that you are away from that relationship. I do have one question though. You seemed to have a really close bond with his brothers. Was it hard to cut off the relationship that you had with his family as well?

[@ForeverYours0727]

Definitely! They are off living their own lives in college now doing their own things! We have each other on IG and they know if they ever need anything or someone to talk to for advice that I’m always there

[@lyssaheartsgh]

You decided to leave on Christmas and Ryan proposed on Christmas Eve. Full circle moment!

[@ForeverYours0727]

Absolutely!

[@Jaylenem333]

I’ve been watching you since I was in middle school…I’m 23 now and graduated college 😅 I just want to say I appreciate your openness and honesty so much. You don’t owe us any explanation or anything ever about your past but I’m just so glad that you’re in a much better place now. You have such a beautiful soul and I’ve always seen that since the beginning. You deserve absolutely everything and I’m so happy you found someone who will do so much for you. The glasses look so good by the way :) I wish you so much happiness and I can’t wait to see what’s in store for you next :)

[@KarinaCappucci]

I'm so happy for you. You deserve privacy, peace, and happiness. I've been a silent subscriber for a long time but I just wanted to say that. ❤️

[@ForeverYours0727]

Thank you so much girl, I knew you guys would understand

[@NicoleLuvsMakeup2]

I’ve watched your videos since the beginning and haven’t really stayed up to date since about 6 years ago. To hear you & Matt broke up is news and I’m glad because I always felt something was off with him….I’m so happy to hear you have found happiness and are getting married!!! Congratulations 🎉

[@OHbabe574]

Wow Kayleigh, you did a good job of hiding that part of your relationship. I could tell there was something off because he used to say things like “ I wanted to do this for Kayleigh” or things along those lines but it was clear to me the way he said it that it was a weird bragging thing or just that was something off. You’re a boss for leaving the way you did, I’m much older than you, but I’m super proud of you. You turned your life around in the best way. So happy for you ❤️❤️❤️

[@allykatt99]

Omg Kayleigh! I used to watch your vlogs with him. I’m so sorry that you had to go through all that at the end. The way you handled things at the end shows alot of courage & character. You deserve all the happiness! Thank you for telling us what actually happened. 💜💜

[@syidahr7481]

I distinctly remember you answer the kids question in an old q&a when you were still with your ex and you said that marriage and kids wasn't a priority bc you were dedicated to each other & live together anyway but i could tell how heartbroken you were having to say that.. little did we know all this was happening behind the scenes. I'm so glad you got out safely & got your life back 🤍 you are so brave for sharing this with us!

[@ForeverYours0727]

Haha yes my dad would tell me he doesn’t believe my answer. He said I know you are lying to me, I know you want kids and marriage. And I’d try to convince him I didnt. Dads know best!

[@imjustagirl9756]

OMG Kayleigh. I remember that when you started vlogging in your two story house, I was so excited because I loved your main channel. You guys adopted Minnie, and I just thought you were like a cute little family. And then when you moved to the house in Maryland is when I started to notice changes and weird little things. That's when you were vlogging on a daily basis. I guess it magnified the cracks in your relationship. As the years went on, it seemed to get worse. I could tell you weren't yourself. Others could too. You were, like, isolated. That's when the comments started to take a bit of a turn. Some of us knew something was off, but I would have never imagined that it was this bad. I'm so glad you got out and had the strength to completely cut things off! Most of all, you got back to a place where value yourself again. And you've turned it into something beautiful! Enjoy your happiness, girlie! You truly deserve every bit of it.

[@ForeverYours0727]

yes, you're absolutely correct on that - once we moved into that house he bought things went downhill from there. that's definitely the right time frame. Love what you said about valuing myself again, thank you! And right back at ya, wish you happiness as well!

[@manalim8683]

I have been following you since 2008 I guess. Even I used to think there is something fishy about Matt. He never spoke anything about getting engaged even after being in a relationship for so long. Glad you are happy with the guy you really needed. 😊 Much love to you, Kay!! ❤

[@ForeverYours0727]

Fun fact his mom gave him her ring to propose to me before she passed and he still never did it even after having the ring for years. Thank you girl

[@missygates3439]

SOUNDS TO ME YOU DESERVE EVERYTHING YOU HAVE NOW AND YOU SHOULD BE SO PROUD OF YOURSELF. IM SO GLAD THE DOG MADE IT AS WELL❤

[@kairi3692]

So proud of you Kayleigh, the way you turned your life around from that situation and so fast once you made that choice. I had an inkling at times with a few things especially more towards the last years of your relationship, but I kind of ignored it at the time as I really didn't want that to be the case for you. But in a way now looking at it all, it was the best thing because everything led to where and who you are right now, and WOW look at you! Glowing inside and out! 😊 It worked out so beautifully for you and I'm so happy for you!! For almost a decade I've seen parts of your journey, and I can't wait to see your future journey and your family expanding!! 😀 It's exciting and inspiring to see such amazingly wonderful and beautiful beginnings from terrible and heartwrenching endings. I hope anyone else in similiar situations can heal quickly with self love and inner work and turn their lives around, and since we're on that note, did you do anything in particular to heal yourself? Or had you already built that knowledge within yourself over time? Would love a future video from you if possible on self love, self growth, inner work/healing etc. All the best girl! You deserve it!! 😊

[@ForeverYours0727]

Love that idea! I will definitely talk more on it

[@kairi3692]

You're so welcome!! 😊 and that's brilliant, thank you, excited to see it! 💛🤗

[@Bella_0303]

@@ForeverYours0727 yes brilliant idea!! Would love to hear more❤❤

[@cindyz_k]

Kayleigh, I have watched you for so long and I’m so sorry you went through that with him. It definitely sucks but I’m so happy you got out of that relationship and found happiness. I’ve had my share of an indecent guy lying and his complicated relationship with his baby mama. He will know sooner or later dealing with someone with kids is no where near close to a “project” he can fix. Smh. I was speechless. I couldn’t believe it.