Finally relaxing my hair AGAIN after 6 months | Setback, Big trim, dry ends | Relaxer update

Hey dolls,
Welcome to my relaxer update video.
I stretched my relaxer for 24 weeks and it’s finally time for a touch up.
I hope you enjoy 💕
Xoxo
Palesa M.
Let’s connect 🙋🏽‍♀️
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[@pebetseaphane4437]

Hi Sesi Pale hope you are doing good. I just wanted to say please don't cut your hair. My hair is similar to yours and last year it was shedding a lot wanted to cut it but I didn't. Started doing mini braid with my hair (my hair is relaxed ) and I would moisturise my hair every other day with growth oil ( avocado oil, coconut oil, olive oil and moringa leaves ) focusing on the ends and then cover it with a shower cap over night. My dry ends are better and my hair grew 2 to 3 inches within 3-4 months . Hope this helps ❤❤❤

[@PalesaM1]

I’m definitely taking a page out of your book. I’m trying this and I will document my journey💕 Thank you so much for this advice Pebetse❤️

[@TheLeloM]

This just encouraged me to add the shower cap when moisturizing my hair...thank you

[@PalesaM1]

I started baggy method on my ends last night😁

[@rumbidee]

The shedding led me to cut mine last year💔😭

[@PalesaM1]

@@rumbidee shedding is frustrating

[@iam_ntli]

I love watching your hair videos. They are very relaxing 🎉❤

[@PalesaM1]

Thank you so much pretty lady 😃

[@merlecalderajoseph5405]

Hair looks healthy and that's really important. I did a big trim also, My hair doesn't like long stretches and protective styles. I will suggest you try a hot oil treatment it's a game changer

[@PalesaM1]

I have started doing hot oil treatments again. I look forward to seeing the results 💕

[@abioyevictoria9209]

Your hair looks really good . I think baggying your ends will help with the dry ends and it’s even better that you cut off the bad ends so you’ll notice a difference faster. Baggy method has always worked for me anytime my ends are dry My routine will stay the same this year ,I think I found a great routine for myself last year and it works perfectly for my lifestyle and my hair grew well too. I went from a bit over neck length to past armpit length all in one year. I want to retain more length this year (hopefully get to mid back length) and get my edges to be fuller and my hair fuller too Hope we’ll get more hair content this year

[@PalesaM1]

I’ve tried baggy method before guess I’ll be going back to it. I’m so happy to hear that! Well done for staying consistent 💕👏🏽

[@ingeMarcel]

Had to cut my hair into a bob, because I was not taking care of it properly and manipulating too much. My ends looked a mess especially in the front. Now I'm starting over as well. Good luck with your journey, love your content.

[@PalesaM1]

Good luck on your journey babe. Thank you so much. I hope we can learn from one another 💕

[@felicia_rm]

Hey, what do you mean manipulating too much? Was your hair always in cornrows or silk pressing?

[@ingeMarcel]

@@felicia_rm I was using my straightener way too much, almost every week. Combining my hair almost every day, not really doing protective styles. I did a lot of tight buns as well. Didn't moisturising properly, especially when I straightened my hair. Lack of protein also played a role, I'm still looking for a good protein conditioner/treatment Hope it helps

[@673466]

I haven’t done my hair in about six mnths aswell. Was always on cornrows and your oil help me like crazy. I can see that the volume is getting back like you said. Thank u so much for your help.🙏🏻

[@PalesaM1]

I’m so happy to hear that. I’m going back to that routine this year.

[@georginaa16]

Great video Palesa, hair looks nice and thick. This year would like to focus on Trims, avoiding Heat, avoid too much Manipulation (leave my hair alone), grow my hairline using JBCO, be consistent with taking vitamins.

[@PalesaM1]

I’m going to steal a few of your goals! 😉

[@TheLeloM]

I'm starting to think we are all just going through hair setbacks as the relaxed hair girlies . I don't think I will ever do a 6 months stretch ever again😅😅😅against my better judgement I also took out my braids and then got a relaxer so I relate 😅

[@PalesaM1]

Right! Six month stretches are my thing 😅 I just need to be strict and very consistent when it comes to my routine. I needed a fresh relaxer, NEEDED 😂😂🤣

[@simplyalu]

Hey Pali ❤ your hair is so gorgeous.. I have natural hair this year wanna take it serious and take care of it .. and yes your skin is so glowing and beautiful 😍 🤩

[@PalesaM1]

🥰🥰 I’m excited to be starting my hair journey over. Hopefully we can recover. Thank you Alu😘

[@glamology_za]

Your hair looks good and healthy...I am also trimming a big chunk to even it out before I do a sew-in.

[@PalesaM1]

This year I’m keeping my hair tucked away and making sure my scalp is clean and moisturised even in protective style🤞🏽 and doing more trims. I hate to admit it but my hair thrives after trims 😅

[@0tismadaline]

In all your hair looks great at the end love and am excited for your new journey ❤

[@PalesaM1]

I’m nervous but excited. Here’s to healthy hair growth 🥂

[@aysherkabby5937]

Hi Palesa , well done!! the hair looking good and heath

[@PalesaM1]

Thank you so much 🙏🏽🥰

[@Khaya6469]

Hello sis pale your hair is very beautiful the results r great wishing u reach ur hair goals for the year.....i was also relaxed but I did a big chop last year december n it was a breath of fresh air im starting afresh n the experience is nice xem❤

[@PalesaM1]

Thank you Khaya 🥰🥰 I hope we reach our hair goals this year my love

[@Shamiflo]

Wow,I wish I knew my hair like this. Your hair came out really nice. ❤❤❤

[@PalesaM1]

It’s a never ending journey of learning. You just need to commit Flora😘

[@kortneygolden599]

Your hair looks good. I also have insulin resistance. I started intermittent fasting and it definitely helps

[@PalesaM1]

That’s great. I’m working with my dr and dietician to reverse it. So far so good

[@swisdom9117]

Is it PCOS-related? ​@@PalesaM1

[@PalesaM1]

@@swisdom9117 I don't have pcos

[@sivenathigowa1409]

Yhu we enjoyed sisi❤️ thank u❤️ your hair is very healthy. I started taking care of my hair since I've followed you😍😍😍

[@PalesaM1]

That makes me very happy! I want my girls to have happy, healthy hair♥️♥️

[@tshiamothobejane]

Love a good maintenance vlog😍😍😍

[@PalesaM1]

That fresh relaxer felt so good 🥰🥰 thank you so much for always showing up for me 🙏🏽

[@preciousxulu4087]

Hi Beautiful. Thoroughly enjoyed this video. I was a pixie girl for 2 years and now I am in the process of growing my hair to a bob inbetween braiding. Please share the salon details. I absolutely loveeee how she handled your hair and that they use Mizani❤ all the best sis with hair this year❤😍

[@PalesaM1]

Hey precious, thank you so much for watching. She’s in Bloemfontein, opposite brebner primary school. You’ll see a big black board - Sthandos hair salon. She’s the best💕

[@felicia_rm]

Ey hair goals? It's tough hey. I just let my hair grow and it's healthy and long. I want to go back to sew in Weaves like the old times. I don't have time for hair anymore but it keeps growing

[@PalesaM1]

It’s always good to go back to the things that served us well. 💕 if you do a sew in with a leave out, be sparing with using heat 😉

[@felicia_rm]

@@PalesaM1 Thank you so much! I never thought of using a leave-in when plaiting my hair. I'll definitely do that, especially when I'll be keeping my hair locked for a very long time.

[@lindamzapi5633]

Your hair looks really good? Which relaxer do you use? Currently struggling because I use Ladine but it has been scarce lately and they recommend mizani but it's quite expensive.

[@PalesaM1]

Thank you. I use the mizani butter blends relaxer

[@felicia_rm]

But you still have it yoh. I love your hair 😍😍😍😍😍

[@PalesaM1]

😅😂 that’s exactly what I said. We cut a lot but it’s still so long

[@felicia_rm]

@@PalesaM1 you see!!!

[@nokulungaluhdolmdletshe9254]

This year im hoping to find a stylist that will trim my hair on relaxer days. I need more of the Design essentials mousse, its good for my hair. It is my saving grace, I no longer use gels i just apply it on my hair and it becomes sleek.

[@PalesaM1]

Staying on track with my trims is also one of my goals😅 That mousse is so good! I use it on my wigs too 👌🏾

[@alfredinemay8052]

Hi Sis P Thanks for the great hair video. This year I’m definitely relaxing my hair all thanks to you. Lol I also want to go to Sis Thato she really knows how to make a girl look gorgeous 🥰🥰

[@PalesaM1]

She’s amazing! Never disappoints👌🏾🥰

[@esthertibane2728]

Oh my 🥰😍Glowing skin 🔥🔥🥰♥️

[@PalesaM1]

🥹🥰 I feel beautiful again, round cheeks and all

[@esthertibane2728]

@@PalesaM1 Gorgeous ungenzani 🥰♥️🔥🔥

[@nokuthulasibeko1514]

My goals for the year is to continue taking good care of my hair I want to see length

[@PalesaM1]

That’s achievable. All you have to do is stay consistent with your routine 💕

[@esthertibane2728]

Your hair looks soo good😍🔥and healthy 🔥🔥The trim 🤌🏾🔥 This year I am honestly going to give my hair the love it deserves and i want to see growth(inches😅)

[@PalesaM1]

The trim was my favourite part! My hair instantly felt healthier 🥰 Let’s be consistent with taking care of our hair this year💕

[@esthertibane2728]

@PalesaM1 Oh yess we definitely being consistent 💯

[@biancaschouw4363]

I feel you @palesa I literally had to cut my hair to chin Length. I had a massive set back as well

[@PalesaM1]

I’m so sorry to hear that bianca. I hope we can get back on track this year 💕

[@biancaschouw4363]

We definitely will ❤

[@letushidiwe8082]

First here🎉🎉🎉love from Namibia ❤

[@PalesaM1]

Hello 👋🏽 lovely to see you in the commentsz thank you so much 🥰 ♥️

[@beatricehamm5528]

Great job and it looks amazing ❤❤❤

[@letushidiwe8082]

❤❤❤❤

[@tholakelenkele4737]

Beautiful healthy hair I wish was mine 😮😅❤❤❤

[@PalesaM1]

It can be yours! Just be consistent sis 😅

[@mphomoahloli9175]

Beautiful hair ❤️

[@PalesaM1]

Thank you my darling ♥️

[@elentsimpson1180]

❤❤❤love love thankyou for posting and godbless.

[@PalesaM1]

Thank you so much♥️🥰

[@stellamahlangu6143]

Hi Miss P. Wow it's been long. In terms of your hair my opinion would be maybe just maybe your hair needs a trim into a bob or maybe the lady's opinion in regards to moisturising the ends would help I don't know. You should listen to your hair. Other than that your looks healthy you can also go back to using the baggy method as well. Love watching your video❤❤. Happy 2024

[@PalesaM1]

The dead ends are gone now, my hair will recover. I actually started doing the baggy method last night. I just need to stay consistent and treat my hair with care. Happy new year sthandwa🥰🥰♥️

[@stellamahlangu6143]

@@PalesaM1 ok that's great to hear. Please let's be consistent this year no falling back. Morning mam ❤️

[@PalesaM1]

@stellamahlangu6143 😅 I can’t promise but I will give it my best. Good morning and happy Friday 😘♥️

[@simpliiseun3504]

Would love a video about the green smoothie

[@PalesaM1]

😅 My thing with the green smoothies is too boost my iron levels, I am anaemic. And iron is a very important part of hair growth. Green smoothies are rich in iron, vitamin k, and lots of other vitamins and nutrients that aid hair growth. I will try and share the video in my upcoming videos. 😘

[@jabulilengomane699]

Hey my darling P, your hair ma'am ❤❤❤

[@PalesaM1]

🙈🥰 I’m loving the fresh trim so much

[@siphesihletembisamdenene1235]

like your hair 😍 wanna ask what are using to yur skin also have black sports on my face

[@PalesaM1]

Alpha aburtin and sunscreen are a must. You can watch my skincare routine videos here kzbin.info/aero/PLDgUK7qTg-tWcbgFQjDI8iZ11QoDVBsMn&si=CQA3kbbr_Rma_MR4

[@kalindazimba1854]

I saw a girl did a buggy methods for her ends when she had a similar problem. She only buggied her ends.

[@PalesaM1]

I’ve started doing that again. I hope it works🙏🏽

[@princesskhanye701]

Your hairdresser is very passionate about her job❤

[@PalesaM1]

The best thing to happen to my hair 🥰♥️

[@keneiloekotsoe3776]

Hey. My goals is get my hair more moisturized cause it gets extremely dry and improve my hairline and length

[@PalesaM1]

I love that! Moistured hair will grow and retain length 😉

[@princesskhanye701]

Catching up ❤❤❤❤

[@PalesaM1]

Happy new year my princess♥️♥️

[@Mphokgaladi]

Hey Palesa. I love your videos. They are so fun to watch and at the same educating. Thank you so much for your content. My hair goals are to Grow Back my edges , My Hair line is gone 🤣😭. Please if you have any advice with that Please help. Thank you

[@PalesaM1]

Hey Mpho, lovely to see you here. Girl leave the tight hairstyles and braids alone. And buy my oil once I restock 😉

[@Mphokgaladi]

@@PalesaM1 tell me when you restock 🫶🫶

[@qhamamagopeni9811]

Hi Palesa, where can I find Thato? Your hair looks amazing

[@PalesaM1]

Thank you. She is in Bloemfontein, opposite brebner primary school. Look for the sign that says Sthandos hair salon

[@bhoddd]

Yoh o kare nka lla I’m so ready to transition, I’m based in Pretoria Thato really knows her stuff 😂❤

[@PalesaM1]

@bhoddd 😂 come on over sis

[@sandraphongo5976]

Try moisturise your end with the as I am double better

[@PalesaM1]

Hopefully I can find it. I’ll definitely give it a try. Thank you Sandra💕

[@Ntombientle]

Hi love. I was wondering how much the service was including and excluding the trim

[@PalesaM1]

Please contact Thato 0635784636

[@rosathomas8303]

Deep conditioning, Deep conditioning, Deep conditioning 👍 Every time You wash Your hair

[@PalesaM1]

Absolutely

[@nokuthulasibeko1514]

Pale please share vitamins you drink thank you in advance ❤

[@PalesaM1]

I take a multivitamin, iron, folic, probiotic, omega 3,6,9 You don’t have to, it’s just to supplement. I’m working on eating more nutrient rich foods