Finances and Herpes

[@LuvOneAnother]

Jeff is right here. I'm a woman and Jordan needs to learn that owning a house cost way more than just the mortgage. U have to have a water heater not a rug. Love u guys, but Jeff is SO right.

[@terriwilliamson8367]

I am a female and I agree with Jeff WHY buy a WHITE rug to go outside and WHY ask Jeff to clean if your going to hire ladies to come clean? Neither makes sense! I love you BOTH and I am enjoying you guys ❤️

[@cheribattjes202]

I'm a woman and I do agree with Jeff. I have the same face when my husband talks about it- I hate it too- but Jeff is right.

[@Mammaj1963]

Jeff is right , you definitely need savings

[@MsBlackhawk69]

"You are not allowed to talk about your diary sessions" 🤣🤣🤣

[@cindymccall4931]

Jeff is right. He is trying to protect your family. And to say the conversation is boring or makes you mad is disrespectful to him.

[@3preciouspearls]

I’m a woman and I agree with this. I know Jordan said all the ladies would agree with her but I agree with Jeff on this. He’s being smart and looking out for his family.

[@jackiek412]

Jeff is 100 percent correct. You should actually set aside savings off the top of your monthly income. Anyone who owns a home should set aside money monthly to accumulate a nest egg for repairs and maintenance. Every home will require maintenance. Jordan, you should be grateful for a financially responsible husband and father to your kids.

[@jaimeetyler4614]

I’m a female and I agree with Jeff on this one. Savings is definitely important!

[@dlo7713]

Jeff is absolutely right. As y’all get older you’ll look back and see how right he was/is. Also get prepared, kids get more expensive as they get older.

[@elizabethdunkelbarger8581]

Okay, Jordan, I preface my comment with "I love you both very much." You are so honest and loving in your presence. Thank you. With that said, I am a 73 year old woman with LOTS of life experience, much of it spent with a similar outlook as Jordan with LOTS less success in life. First of all, I do NOT side with Jordan, but with you both, and with what you insult your husband as "boring" which is actually wise and capable leadership qualities. Shame on you, Jordan, for disrespecting your husband in this way. You won't hear me,, as you will just take me as insulting to you, but I have been where you are. I have squandered much of my lifetime fortune with an attitude like yours. The sooner you come to your senses and stop seeing wisdom as boringness the more successful and happy you BOTH will be. I agree completely with Jeff on the white rug.... pretty in pictures but an unwise choice in actuality. The alcohol is a very real issue. Again, I was there. But in hindsight, I know that every great time I've ever had was without alcohol. You aren't cute with it, but foolish. So was I. I hope you wake up to that fact earlier than I did. I know you both will agree with me that "Winners do things losers hate to do." Sincerely, I hope you wake up, Jordan. Jeff is so loving and wants you to be safe, happy, and successful. There are voices that will try to convince you that's boring. Those voices are LYING to you. Again, Jordan, you are a gem, and you have a gem of a husband. I pray for both of you, but you are so wrong that "all" the women will be on your side. Nope, I'm with Jeff on finances.... Oh, and when it comes to how much each person contributes to the success of a marriage, it will always feel like you are giving 100 % and the other person is only givng maybe 40%... that's because we see more of what we do because we live in our bodies and only touch the presence of others, even our husbands. So, when it comes to marriage, we have to approach it from a position of strength and an attitude of service and giving, or we will be so terribly disillusioned. Maturity is a good thing, but the world will tell you it's boring and old person stuff. The world is LYING to you when it gives you that message. I say all this not to insult you, but out of love for you that you could achieve your potential for the beautiful people, couple, marriage that you are. All the best to you both.

[@brendatate8986]

I’m catching up on all your podcasts. I have been married for over 30 years and I totally agree with Jeff. My husband is the one that will spend and I’m the saver. We have our finances together, which pays bills, etc., etc… But we also have a savings for unexpected things and just to save. I am a huge believer in saving for a rainy day but I don’t believe in just doing without because you don’t want to spend a dollar on anything. About the birthday party- Buy his class some cupcakes and take them to school to celebrate his birthday. Boom you’re done ✅ you don’t have to have a huge party. Plus you don’t have to go to one. Lol

[@gracie30ish]

I'm a wife and I definitely agree with Jeff with finances.

[@ritahoagland7247]

Jeff is right. You MUST have savings for those household necessity things. And yes I'm a woman

[@retired555]

Sorry Jordan, I'm another agreeing with Jeff. We've been married 33 years and have never ever argued about money. We have always had our own accounts and a house account. We have shared all the bills 50/50. We figured out how much our monthly expenses were plus 10% extra for repairs, etc. and we use the house account for that. We use our own accounts for our personal expenses and if I wanted a white outdoor rug, that would be my expense lol. At one point we had 2 years left on our mortgage and my husband paid it off as he made quite a bit more then me and no I didn't have to pay him back! This system has worked well for us. You both need to sit down and figure out what will work for you. Usually your bank will have a financial planner that can help too. Good luck.

[@kbrown1058]

I'm with Jeff. I've been married over 20yrs. When we bought our house, his truck broke on his way home after putting money down and he's like where am I getting 3,500 dollars 😶. So saving is so important.

[@kathiwoodie]

I’m a woman. Married 42 years. We’ve raised two boys on one income (when I did work, it wasn’t for our budget but was used for family travel and extra activities for our boys and our family). I think Jeff is on right track. You can’t spend more than you bring in. If at minimum you have to break even each month. I’m quite the opposite of Jordan. I LOVE to save money. Birthday parties. In a lot of schools they have rules that kids can’t send invites via school unless every student is invited. Love your honesty. Keep talking.

[@tamarakelli687]

States with zero state income taxes: Alaska, Florida, New Hampshire, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Washington, Wyoming, and Florida. You're welcome! AND I 100% agree with Jeff. No offense, Jordan, I love you, but after being a single mom after my ex-husband passed away, I learned real quick to have the finer things for a fraction of the price. And I haven't had my nails done or hair done by a professional in years and DON'T miss it one bit! I can do my own hair and nails and it looks much better. If you need to adjust slowly, then that's fine, but definitely change your perspective. You can do it, Jordan. Because, God forbid if something were to happen and you couldn't live as you once did. If you get ahead of it now, you'll be better than just okay. PLUS the Bible does speak about a woman whose price is far above Rubies. I love that chapter in the Bible and it helped to change my perspective ❤😊😊😊

[@crazylicious85]

I’m a woman & agree with Jeff. I’m the saver in my relationship 😆 side note: I have no income as the unpaid caregiver for my almost 101 yr old grandmother & my husband’s salary of about 50k, so my guilt for not bringing in any income makes me want to save money & be frugal. We have no kids, but 1 dog and a cat.

[@jenarent]

I'm a woman/wife/mom and I 100% agree with JEFF.

[@jessicaheibert1738]

So with the finances I do have to say you both are right. It is very important to save for emergency money, but it is also important for a few times a month to spoil yourselves. Whether that's buying furniture, clothes or Going Out on a date. But let me tell you anything that goes outside. You don't want to spend too much because if you live with boys, it will get automatically ruined. Or even the weather could ruin something very beautiful. So I would just try to find something that's similar but more cost friendly. I've been trying to teach my other half to save. Because if we're an emergency of something needing to be fixed or even the roof being done, it can happen. So in my opinion you both are right.

[@mariabush2715]

I am female and I also agree with Jeff! He is looking out for your families future. Good comment sense 😊. Love you two ❤

[@donkardoncuy]

I have to say I totally agree with Jeff. 100%. Yes, everything is going up. All the more reason to save money for a rainy day when repairs come up. You should always save a certain percentage each month for house maintenance, save a certain amount for savings, monthly bills amount, miscellaneous spontaneous amount. You truly can’t just SHUT down and not want to have a discussion and close the door. Definitely shouldn’t be your money and your money. Lol. But hey if it works for you. And Jeff is correct with the schools. The whole class has to get an invitation from class rooms. You can’t give certain kids an invite. They are more concerned with kids being hurt feelings. Jordan and Jeff love your pod cost. Jordan you are very brutal and. Jeff is very kind hearted with peoples feelings. Love you both. You two are cute together.

[@allisonbryant7133]

Jeff is right about finances. He said it all when he said he doesn't want to lose what they have built.

[@stephaniedoll4600]

My husband and I are the opposite of you two. I’m the person who likes to save, he’s the one that likes to spend spend spend. He works hard to spend a lot. Inflation is a total killer, too… Truly love the podcast!!

[@kpersons]

I agree with the majority here. Savings is a must, not just for occasional emergencies like the hot water heater or car repairs, but for future financial security. Life insurance is a must especially if you have children. You should put as much as you can afford into an IRA or other annuity for when you retire. A good health insurance policy to cover the family with affordable co-pays. I am retired and put as the maximum allowable into my teacher retirement system, which was matched by my employer. I thought I would have plenty of extra money when I retired. Not so. Everything is so much more expensive now than when I was working.

[@staceyadair5758]

I need to go back to the Dollar Tree for my shopping fix. It is definitely important to have savings, have money to do house repairs, pay down the mortgage for the sake of the family and open an IRA for medical support as we age

[@bridge34]

Jordon I love you to death, but Jeff is right on those finances. Totally understand about wanting a clean house, especially after being sick. However, Jeff is right about saving that money. It sounds like he’s being tight but he’s definitely doing it for a good reason. You have to have that emergency fund. You HAVE to! With owning a home, you never know when you’re going to have multiple things break all at once. One day it could be your washer or dryer then the next it could be your furnace or like he said garage door God forbid if you have a basement finished or unfinished, you could have a flood depending on where you live, then, of course, there’s always car issues for everyone. You gotta have that money Tucked away. Finances is definitely one of those topics that is tricky for most couples, whether you share finances or not. On another note… Are you kidding!? School starts next week for the kids? Wow I remember the days of never having to go back to school until after Labor Day. It was usually September 3 or fourth but it feels like kids start back earlier and earlier each year. On another note… I absolutely love all the extra inside scoop on big brother and what it’s like before you go into the house! Thanks for sharing!

[@StephanieValdez-b8o]

Totally agree with Jeff. You never know what’s coming around the corner. I enjoy listening to you both

[@joandecker1438]

Sorry Jordan but regarding the money issue, I am 100% with Jeff. He’s being responsible and making sure your family has what they need. I can’t imagine not having a joint account as a married couple. My husband and I also have our own accounts but the majority of money goes in the joint account. Jeff you have to be flexible and not make her feel bad about spending money within reason. You guys are awesome…work together and learn how to communicate regarding finances.

[@GayleMeredith]

Jeff is absolutely right!

[@kimklingsporn5127]

I’m a single mom and I always have an emergency fund! A savings account for my future. Preparing for retirement and remaining debt free!! Jeff I agree with you on all points. I’m like that too because I’m a single income and my child relies on me!! Managing money responsibly is important!

[@PurposeBetweenSeasons]

15:30 Men do feel the pressure of being the primary provider and your feelings are very valid Jeff.

[@melindamichel3816]

Girlllll, Jeff asking if the cleaners were necessary...🤛🤛🤛🤛🤛🤛🤛🤛🤛🤛

[@dan_samgods_love6494]

😂😂😂, but I do have to agree with Jeff even though I am a woman!!! Too many times something can go wrong with house, car, or just life need... You always need to have that emergency savings.... I always say needs over want.!!! Y'all make my day!!!

[@shellyzerty4544]

Jeff is right, you gotta be willing and able to talk about finances.

[@danelletant8098]

Okay, so Jordan I get it that you had to have a sanitizing crew come in to clean. I also get that you do all the cleaning, laundry ect. I also do all those things. I can say though financially if it's not affordable, then we have to do it ourselves. Even when we had covid and past the contagious phase, I had to sanitize and sterilize everything myself because it wasn't affordable for us to have someone come in. I do agree with Jeff, if your money going out is more than is coming in then it's time to see what spending needs to be stopped to find balance for the budget. I do understand, though, being tired of doing all the cleaning ect. Rather than hiring someone and so Jeff understands how much work it is, split the housework every week for each days tasks to be done. I believe he will see it much differently when he is doing housework on the daily as well. 😂

[@michellestrohn199]

Sorry Jordan. Jeff is correct when it comes to finances. Love you both. You are my favorite Big Brother house guests. ❤

[@OHSloopyIO]

I agree with Jeff, you can discuss hard topics without fighting. Discussing is not always fighting. I'm a woman but I'm with Jeff.

[@megantooker2204]

The end is so funny! 😂 I agree finances get our marriage in a tangle. Love watching y’all

[@michellecarson8841]

Seriously , this is the best podcast ever!! Jeff and Jordan, your story has by far been my favorite!! You truly are the perfect example of a true romance/marriage. Not alone when it comes to having issues with finances. You brighten my Wednesday with your mess!!

[@caroleDG-j1r]

I love you guys….you’re hilarious 😆 Jeff is completely correct about the finances. You have to have money saved for the rainy days !!

[@jodycushing3500]

You two are funny. This must be like therapy. bringing up things that would normally turn into a fight. Finances are important to work together on. So many couples do not communicate until it's way too late.

[@RubyRed003]

I completely agree with Jeff. The truth not always fun to face but definitely worth it!

[@DirlingSwervish]

“I think we’re a little grouchy.”😂

[@debyoung5968]

I adore both of you! Jordan, sorry but I'm with Jeff on a couple of issues. White rug for outdoors? Um ... no way! I also agree with his approach to finances. Discussing finances with your spouse is very important. Try to be open to his need to have discussions with you. In the end, consider compromise and learn it's okay to agree to disagree. I'm looking forward to more "Togethermess"! Thanks for sharing!

[@chrissyanncavitt]

Jeff is right but I love you Jordan. Just trust him. You 2 are so great together! It's so much fun listening to your banter ❤

[@danelletant8098]

Also, a white rug for outside? 😂 Jeff.. how long did it stay white... outside? It's kind of no different than the burned cushions, both are a loss.

[@tanyawest7353]

Our household is opposite on the finances. So I have to agree with Jeff on this 😊

[@danilaciamacco3618]

have to agree with jeff…gotta put money aside for those unexpected expenses…not saying you can’t have nice things…we all want those…but there needs to be a balance

[@carmelabutler2366]

You guys are great. Been cheering you on since Big Brother.

[@tekups]

My grandmother always told me to, “save your money dear.” I remembered and years later as a divorced woman raising a child alone, I was able to purchase a home and send her to college. We didn’t always get the things we wanted, but we always had the necessities. Now my daughter has a great career and I’m retired and living comfortably. You need savings for emergencies as well as for the future. Thanks Grandmama! ❤ Also, thank you Jeff and Jordan for the podcast and sharing your family life with your fans! Love ya!

[@turtleames]

Yay for another podcast! I mostly agree with Jeff on the savings.. although I do understand (being a stay at home mom to 3 young boys myself) how tiring it can be. Especially with all the sicknesses going around. My husband and I have been together almost 20 years, and married 15. All our finances are shared. We have a joint account all the money goes into, and then a saving we put money into each pay. Anytime either of us want to buy something, it comes from the joint account. We both can see how much money we have available to spend. This way we are both responsible for the spending and savings of our household. We're a team.

[@Christine-v5p]

My new favourite phrase “Got the Herp!” 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@dawnbissett7962]

Thank you so much for starting this pod cast. I look forward every week to a new episode. I have been following you since day 1. My most fav jeff and Jordan moment is when Jeff asked you if you could be any animal, what would you be. I still laugh at that when I see squirrels in my yard. Lol. Ty for all the laughs. 😂

[@C_StewieDewie]

In this economy you never know what is going to happen. I have to agree with Jeff on the savings thing. Our world is so unstable right now that we should all really have at least 3 months savings for "just incase" money and food to live on. Sorry to get so deep. 😅 Love the Big Brother BTS stuff, Would love more of that!! Love you guys. ❤

[@estherlynebayangos6529]

Applaud for Jeff saving for family and emergency.

[@thevirg77]

Jeff for the win!!!!

[@chrissyp9325]

Omg you two are the Best!! The Finance conversation had me cracking up, because it was like watching me and my husband...😅 I love how genuine and real you two are, I thank you both for that. The party talk sounds exactly like is too!!😅 Love the behind the scenes BB stories, the Herp one is sooo funny. Can't wait until next week 😊❤

[@heathercook6504]

I just found this podcast!!! I have always liked the two of you and I am pumped to see you. You guys are hilarious and so good together. Great podcast. I will be watching.

[@ladyrevivalstudio]

i am a single mom. i own my own home and know exactly what Jeff is saying. home and car repairs are outrageous. you have to say or the hole will get deeper and deeper. i am Team Jeff on this one

[@devonelle9911]

The kids birthday dilemma is so relatable haha! Also loved hearing the behind the scenes of BB at the end. Love Together-Mess!

[@kevinandsharonneely4882]

I agree with Jeff 100% about having "emergency " money. If Jorden has "her" money to do whatever she wants , then she can pay for the "white" rug kind of items. Talk finance together and then if Jorden still wants that special item then use her own money.

[@julesc1437]

I’m sorry to say Jordan I agree with Jeff on this one!! Especially about the white rug😂. But on the savings side too he is so right.

[@joaniebarton6875]

An emergency fund is totally mandatory! Especially for someone that owns a house! And a white rug?!! Y’all got small kids! Holy smokes! I would not have one inside or outside till the kids are teenagers 😂😂😂😂

[@TutorialTony777]

😂😂😂😂 the white rug😂😂😂😂

[@alishajo1]

This background and couch take me back to yall being in the confession room on Big Brother!

[@jayndough68]

You guys were the best then and you’re still the best now! ❤😊❤

[@paulacorbello9322]

I know being a stay at home mom is a job in itself, but I agree with Jeff on the finances.

[@aslandeacon1536]

I bet a reality show of your family would be awesome! This show is sooo great!

[@pauldickinson-uk6rj]

You guys are hilarious brings me back to watching you in the house. Enjoying these so much keep them coming please

[@kaylah4843]

I am obsessive about our finances and never find it boring. I highly recommend Dave Ramsey, ya'll need an emergency fund and sinking funds to deal with these things so you're not in crisis mode if something happens, it takes so much stress off knowing that there is money allocated for what you need and/or surprises. And for us, it's imperative we have a healthy emergency fund because my husband is the only one who brings in an income so if something happens to his job we need to make sure there's a cushion to support us and the four kids for a sec.

[@ribbon186]

Agree with Jeff!! And a white rug....and kids and outside.......OMG Somebody is being a little stubborn rather then wise

[@russellschaffner62]

Hahaha you guy are HILARIOUS!!!! Jordan cracks me up!!!! Jeff too!

[@73feria]

Jeff is right! I'm a woman who didn't spend responsibly and now I'm playing for it.

[@rhondavarney4789]

Thank you for the good laughs today!! You two are awesome together!

[@colleenkelly2072]

I have been in withdrawal since your last reality tv show--thank you so much for doing this podcast! Season 11 was my absolute favorite BB season and I didn't miss. a minute. You are both adorable and I'm so glad to be able to catch up with you watching your down to earth podcasts! I agree with you about the birthday parties--as a former longtime elementary teacher, I was even invited to the parties! Yipes! Love you both!!

[@amyleighton4081]

Love your honesty and the back and forth!! But I agree with Jeff. Saving in this life, is crucial. Sounds like he is looking out for his family. And a WHITE rug for outside!

[@annettebisig8334]

Exactly Jeff! Love you Jordan but he is right!!

[@katiedunne518]

You know that in UK big brother they didn't search bags in the first year or two and one guy sneaked in a cell phone 😂. I think after that all the big brother's got much more strict about searching bags

[@lauriemoore9306]

I agree with Jeff on the savings. He sounds just like my husband. But savings is very important to have.

[@lorimoffet313]

Hysterical 😂😂 I absolutely love hearing about BB behind the scenes ❤

[@chulany0709]

You guys are awesome I loved this it’s always good to save for unforeseen circumstances so it’s understandable how Jeff feels take care guys can’t wait till next week ❤

[@Trouble405]

the birthday party solution is don't give out the invitations at school!! Have your child say who their favorite classmates are and mail their invites. And Jordan I hope you at least RSVP No before you toss the invitation in the trash!! Another idea is only allow the child to invite however many years old they are OR let them invite one friend to go with you all on your trip. I always had my kids birthday party at a hotel with a pool - get connecting rooms - order pizza and leave a nice tip for the housekeeping person!

[@edanrain4653]

I have to say thank you for this !! Because I feel like you do have to set aside money for random things that occur - that is reality, because anything that can happen. It is super good to have extra savings and a buffer for funds so you can say safe and stable. I think this is a very realistic discussion! I love you two ❤

[@merialusher5890]

I understand perfectly.Jeff because my husband passed an now I have to watch everything

[@dearally4787]

I am a woman who’s is with Jeff on this. Dave Ramsey talks a lot about the ‘nerd’ and the ‘free spirit’ when it comes to roles in relationships and who should handle the bigger money decisions. It’s super helpful stuff.

[@CyndiLouWho242]

You always look beautiful Jordan. Love seeing you both back online.

[@barbaraackerman57]

Jeff, I've been listening to you about your savings and I'm hearing my dad's voice. He was a really wise man. You are in good company. Keep that mentality.

[@darleneemery7997]

Loved this session.. so true about finances, it could end a marriage! Good luck big brother housemates!

[@berdenespring844]

I have watched you guys from the beginning. The first time you were in the house was when I got 24 hour feeds. My kids would always bug me that I was watch the computer again. Love this new podcast you are so real and I love it.

[@tiffaneybecker3434]

Love this podcast and your dynamic! So real and the world needs real.

[@lornag2227]

First of all, the two of you are definitely 100% hilarious. And it took me and my husband 32 years. Now that we are on social security to totally have our own money. He pays this bill and that bill and I pay this bill and that bill. And it is nice. Although we had no children. Didn't have to send anyone to college or pay for weddings. But to be able to know if this age we are financially set is just a very great feeling. I love you both. This podcast is awesome!❤ Lorna. Can't wait for big brother. It better be a great season

[@skinnwalker4515]

The most beautiful, fun and loving wholesome couple I have ever seen in my life! Growing up, this was the kind of marriage I was dreaming to have. Good luck and God bless you guys.

[@deemj61]

LOL at the herpes!! Y’all are the best storytellers!!!

[@loribufka3164]

Amazing haha 😂 Love that you guys are back!

[@april9435]

Jordan has the SAHM look down - it’s fine, girl. Riding in the same boat with you 😂😂

[@Googa2u]

OH Sweet Jordan Thank God you have a husband that saves for raining days. and you do need to know how Jeff does his saving raining day funds Life is short and you never know. I love you both but the first part of this was deep and every woman needs to listen and know. until next time.

[@rebeccafaussett4673]

Wow, I feel blessed I actually take care of all the finances. Me and my hubby have always had a joint account. I pay all the bills and always know how much we got in the bank and if I can splurge on something I want. It has worked out well for us we are about to be debt free our house is about paid off, I'm so excited. Trust me nothing more rewarding than to work hard and be debt free. GOD BLESS ❤❤❤❤❤

[@laurawardyn7131]

You can get the herp from parents too, so give your exes the benefit of the doubt! Love you guys so much.

[@Rusty8277]

Men give it to girls but nobody calls them sleazy. It’s only girls that are call sleazy. Why is that???? I love y’all! Always have! Maybe think before making general comments sometimes😊

[@brandyhurley7487]

So glad it's Wednesday!!! I hope Jeff knows all husbands money belongs to the wife! That's how it works.