Finding Future Wife ft. Ben Cahn | TMG - Episode 287

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Trillionaire Mindset’s Ben Cahn beams up to get real vulnerable with Noel. The two of them share prior stories of horny engineering, how Ben is building XP in his life, and recent stories from their shows in NYC. Plus, they define what Gen Z slang really means.
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Chapters
0:00 No Cap
0:58 Intro
2:04 Dominos & Donuts
5:15 Everything is Food
6:50 Vulnerable Podcasting
8:24 Deep Plugs
10:05 ZocDoc
11:32 Horny Engineering
14:47 Ben & Food
17:05 Allergic to Sushi
18:46 NYC Live Shows
21:36 Hello Fresh
23:15 Pontificating Performers
26:52 Ben is Fully Okay
30:49 Maxxed Out XP
33:47 Supportive Through Struggles
39:14 Accepting What Is
41:44 Future & Past Wives
44:25 Ben? He’s Still Fully OK
48:01 Achieving Ikigai
51:35 Don’t Kill Us
53:21 Guessing Slang
54:55 Ai Is Not God
56:20 Help Me!!!
57:10 Is That Ben Cahn?
58:38 Sweetfeet
59:28 Pick Me vs Stan
1:01:06 Flopcorn
1:02:10 JBen
1:03:25 More Terms
1:06:47 See Ya In After Hours

[@smallfrymxmx]

Everyone at TMG just lowkey crushes on Ben, rightfully so

[@ExtendedRelease]

Haram..

[@islandsicedtea]

@@ExtendedRelease It’s a joke

[@x3xmikey333]

I'll be his girlfriend and then future wife, since the boys are taken!

[@HoodieGhoulGaming]

@@islandsicedtea HARAM

[@oogaboogass]

​@@x3xmikey333 back off sir

[@nataliemoreno763]

Ben getting shy when Noel compliments him is so adorable lol

[@Nova3482]

TMG Business Plan: 1. Step 1 put Ben in any TMG video 2. Profit

[@Rodviet]

Absolutely. He improves everything he's in haha, love him.

[@user-hu6tn7sh4k]

Ben is so relatable yet absurdly unique I love him

[@MoneyChump]

bingo

[@chrissyo.5522]

Maybe you are future wife?!

[@dewykay9855]

Love when Noel gets deep, he’s so supportive in this episode

[@noaag]

Funny to read this during the part of the intro where he says "Malone Brown dick in your mouth? AHAHAHA" ("NOOOO! NO!")

[@strgrlintrlde1]

pause

[@morglyne]

Probs after he got so much shit for coming after Brittany

[@5cDota]

Ayo 😳

[@jbone877]

Supporting Bens nuts with his chin

[@taylifts]

Ben exudes such raw dad energy so it cracks me up whenever he talks about his degenerate behavior

[@Rodviet]

I feel like Meatcanyon has helped Noel drop his "walls" a little bit, he's being more emotional and open this year, love to see it! Feels fresh.

[@sonjagonikman426]

I know Noel mentioned that he started therapy a while back so I feel like that’s helped over the recent years. But Meatcanyon has def helped and encouraged a lot in the content we’ve seen so I’m sure that’s been helpful.

[@Rodviet]

@Sonja Gonikman great point! Love to see it honestly. Watching the emotional evolution of someone you follow through the years is super interesting, the internet is wild man! Lol

[@shlopez121]

Ben being the 1st 5 dollar therapy patient Dr. Noel has seen irl was a welcomed surprise

[@andreajoan7193]

Ben's stream of consciousness really is just mesmerizing. I could watch him talk uninterupted all day.

[@audi10193]

💯💯

[@HeyItsBea123]

Noel flirting with Ben the entire episode 😍 lmao their energy together is hilarious

[@Maya-Hayden]

Something about them together is just so real, it’s not performative in the slightest, very real and straightforward emotions

[@lisbeth6240]

Ben looking back on his past relationship and praising her for how much she did for him makes me realize we all have that one person we always think about

[@lia.lia.lia.]

touching people after not seeing them for a while to confirm they are in fact still real... me too, noel, me too. nice to see you two together after a while.

[@ShhmiaASMR]

Ben looks great with or without glasses, and never looked fat at all, I'm actually annoyed

[@smjg783]

Based on what he said, and has said, I think he has body dysmorphia and disordered eating.

[@Bjorn_R]

It could be that he was skinny fat, even if he wasnt "fat" he could have looked undesirably without clothes on, in his opinion of course. I do not disagree with you, just what I thought 🙂

[@almostatami]

​@@Bjorn_R He did have a little belly but dude is getting so shredded now.

[@janalola8355]

Doesnt all matter given that he is HANDSOME

[@Whitlb]

My brain immediately went to “none pizza, left beef” Ben, I validate you 😂

[@islandsicedtea]

We got orders for that when I worked at Dominos and my manager wouldn’t listen to us when we told her it was a meme and we shouldn’t make it because it was a prank 💀

[@peterbrothers_]

Ben, I’ve been an audio listener of Trillionaire mindset since the first episode. I’ve never commented on any, but I felt compelled to for this. I’ve been in a similar situation most of my life. Never liked how I looked and always beat myself up. I’ve known the importance of self love but could never bring myself to love myself. I find that I do many of the same things you do. When you talk about Emil, you have a tendency to uplift him at the expense of bringing yourself down with self-degrading comments. I do that all the time and even found myself doing it yesterday when I took a picture with some friends. I have a bunch of positive qualities that I’m aware of regarding my mental. I know I’m strong and that I’ve been through a lot, I’m smart, I’m in decent shape, and I have expectations for myself and who I surround myself with, yet I can’t bring myself to love my image of myself. My friends complement me to uplift me and give me a boost of confidence, but I notice there’s always a tendency of mine to deny the compliment no matter what fashion. So I relate to a lot of what you’re saying. I just wanted to say thank you for speaking out and voicing what I’ve always thought. I’ve always been an over-thinker and a perfectionist with this stuff, so I usually try to solve all of these issues myself. I’ve been contemplating going to therapy for awhile now, I know there’s nothing wrong with it but I also understand there’s a stigma in saying you may need help. I think I’m finally going to go through with it, so thank you. I’ve always struggled with self love, no matter how I look. I always feel that if I gain weight, or lose weight, or lose fat, or whatever…then I’ll be happy with myself. But that’s not healthy, and I have a bunch of other things I need to resolve too, so I think now’s the time I start. I doubt you’ll see this and sorry for dumping here, but again just thank you for everything. Again, I usually don’t comment on these, but just know there’s a lot of people out there like me who connect to the message, even if they don’t interact with it. Stay strong Ben

[@trevor_r]

Glad Noel was able to tell Ben to his face how great he is!

[@izauraspence5135]

“I’m just waiting for the point” - Ben Kahn That cut deep.

[@jadechaya9025]

These two together is an absolute treat

[@jessicasellers2643]

I love Ben and Noel energy 🥲

[@chandrasekharlimit4547]

I cannot describe how hard I laughed when Noel asked Ben when was the best time to eat the plantains and he said without a second of hesitation “LUNCH” 😂

[@Luxiiist]

Then the comment about his eyes being closed lol so funny!

[@Ddkenscan02]

I read the title then audibly said “oh my gosh” and clicked immediately

[@Rodviet]

ME TOO! Amazing episode

[@audieh]

I’m w Ben on therapy. I’ve been seeing a therapist for OCD since I was about 3 (Karen and I are celebrating 20 years this year). I had a “flare up” fall of 2021 and it was a full year before I felt like I was back to myself. People don’t always share their experience w OCD so sometimes I also feel like I’m completely crazy. We’re just wired a little differently and we need a little help to navigate this world.

[@sheilaramirez6444]

That’s so awesome! I just recently found out I have OCD and yes it’s so hard finding people who talk about their OCD experience and the fact that it’s so widely misunderstood is so discouraging. Therapy has been so so so amazing to me I love my therapist, I’ve only been going for a little bit less than a year but it has been amazing :)

[@lexiebarry3527]

Therapy got me through struggles with severe OCD when I was in my teens. Therapy changed my life. Anyone going to therapy should be incredibly proud of the work that they've put in and of their commitment to themselves. I agree that OCD is very misunderstood. It can make everyday tasks very difficult and even scary. You're not alone and therapy is extremely helpful. Wishing you all the best! ❤

[@its.angelll]

i don’t think you can understand just how much i cant get enough of ben this guys pretty cool get him a podcast

[@Rodviet]

I want 10 hours of him talking to us every week.

[@metalsalsa]

Energy between these two is magic.

[@masonferris5910]

It always make me sad hearing someone be so judgemental of their own body like that. Amazing of Noel to be supportive but not favour a certain body type in his response. I love seeing men being supportive of their friends in a vulnerable moment. We don’t see enough of it. Showing vulnerability is courageous and it is powerful.

[@steamedpierogi2455]

Any episode with ben is a great episode. Love you benny boy :)

[@ureshgopaul1226]

😊😊

[@emmanememmanem]

this is such a great duo but so is literally anyone with ben, he’s just fun he has a great time

[@Pixilatedgirl]

“You got that worm build” had me DEAD 😂😂😂

[@annao9778]

I hope Ben will find a great woman who deserves him and will appreciate him because he is truly a beautiful person ❤

[@hannahcrouch22]

So I see this is the $350 therapy option noel offers

[@jpm80]

if i had a nickel for everytime ben talked about eating trader joe's tuna salad with plantain chips, i'd have two nickels....which isnt a lot... but it's weird that it's happened twice

[@Eaidin75games]

Ben Cahn has become a name that I'll click on every time I see it

[@devontekuykendall3565]

"Your turn, what do you want?" Audible LOL. And that closure bit is totally true. You just have to move on sometimes and make what you can of it.

[@juliette7907]

Today was a very heavy day for me but Ben’s willingness to openly talk about real struggles makes me feel really validated like I’m not the only one trying to get all my stats in check. Every time I feel like I’m spending too much time in my head these podcasts have genuinely been what I go to to pause life for an hr or hrs if I binge watch them. Thank you guys for making me laugh so fucking hard every time and giving me some relief❤️ y’all deserve nothing but happiness and success

[@SadCatSad]

I figured that a long time ago but i have to point it out again because of ben being on the Pod. Noel is that type of friend who can talk shit all the time and nag you and all that but he can also be serious and wise and show his empathy (at least to humans lmao). I just think its sweet when Noel shows us this side of him and how he cares for his friends

[@believeinmatter]

11:30 love that the time stamp is “Horny Engineering” 💀

[@isabelnewman155]

Ben is both so earnest and so entertaining. Noel makes anyone he talks to so comfortable and is just such a great addition to anyone. He matches their energy so well, seeing him interact one on one with different people just shows how effortlessly funny he is in any context.

[@TheHellRanger]

this was such a profound episode. probably one of the best yet.

[@vincentshanks4251]

a tmg physical challenge would be kinda dope, everyone from all of the podcasts do an obstacle course or something would be fun to see

[@MareeyaDee]

So funny when they get to the ‘vulnerable podcasting’ section bc today i learned i have never ACTUALLY SEEEEEEEN BEN’S FACE ?! all this time his front profile isn’t what i thought it was ?! lmaooo

[@tytychris]

Okay, I knew that I related to Ben... but damn, really feeling like he's describing my life. This episode was perfect timing for me and very much needed. Thank you, guys.

[@hanniyaaaaa]

The love was dripping in this episode. Ben, you look great with and without glasses! Appreciate you being vulnerable in this ep. Takes a different kind of strength to do that. Noel, appreciate you showing up for Ben. I wasn’t able to see you in Auckland so I’m looking forward to the special! ❤

[@Starsim99]

This podcast is what “boys will be boys” should mean.

[@kaylatobias]

This is the best comment

[@eggsbruhnadict4298]

Facts

[@katherinethegreat22]

Aw Ben! Usually when we are ready for someone to come into our life it means that person is orbiting around you. You get the feeling of “okay im ready, where are they??” Because you can feel their energy. But future wife is literally in the future and you get to be yourself in the present moment until you cross paths with her. ✨

[@rhicatrimm]

Wow I love this so much

[@reulels]

Just saw Noel in Denver! He did so good 10/10 if you can go to his tour I highly recommend- super proud of him

[@impersonatingellaimamastermind]

his denver show was insane. i never laugh out loud but i was dying

[@jpvtx]

I did as well. Very funny show.

[@jennawest9054]

does he use his beloved dark humor a lot at the live shows ??

[@jadechaya9025]

@@jennawest9054 yes and it’s more intense and personal than what he says online. It was incredible, saw him in Orlando

[@impersonatingellaimamastermind]

@@jennawest9054 it is so much darker! no need to worry about staying monetized. it is awesome

[@tylerdavisphl]

Got dam this episode hit me in the heart strings

[@bruno0_u]

One ethnic man + one white man. The balance in the universe has been restored 🙏

[@newglowgurl]

This episode was every phase of being smoked out as hell with a homie

[@aya_____7921]

Yep, I cried multiple times watching this... wishing you well, Ben. Future wife is definitely on the horizon

[@aduckton]

I love being able to hear the crew dying laughing in the background

[@juleskathleen8131]

TALIBEN RISE

[@SKSKskaterbreh]

watching bens stability over time has made me realize i might need help

[@reymundo64]

One of my favorite episodes! I have always related to Ben a lot and to hear him open up about his struggles with mental health helps me feel less crazy (bipolar) and hopeful. I appreciate this episode a lot!! Thanks a lot Noel and Ben :)

[@Nat1900]

I love Ben he’s so wholesome, no hat!

[@jennawest9054]

I've always loveddd the way Noel and Ben riff off each other. loved this episode !

[@cbsixx]

BEEN DYING FOR THIS COMBO OF NOEN MILAHN

[@thepopo592]

I hope ben knows that he's not crazy, like literally everyone goes through this and not only that, especially right now everything is a little uncertain. We learn, we live, we just keep moving, not a lot more we can do than that.

[@janehenderson1922]

ben has an indescribable charm that would make me want to listen to a 3 hour solo podcast of him

[@lexiebarry3527]

Love Ben!! Trillionaire Mindset made me sign up for tmg studios and I don't regret it one bit -- after hours has me crying laughing. Love this episode, no hat. 🤠

[@cringelemon5365]

BENGHIS CAHN!

[@hannahhukill6003]

The boys are always so funny and I love it when they are, but when they get to talking about real shit it just makes me appreciate them that much more

[@tortillazucchini]

ok but no brim, this video kind of hit different with ben talking abt being vulnerable like obvi i’ve watched other tmg with him in it but wasnt invested and had no idea about his ocd or anything so hearing him talk about it was actually reaffirming as someone who also deals with ocd????

[@carolinegoldschmitt]

i’m only halfway through and this episode is so wholesome

[@rowanpetrey260]

ben i relate to you so deeply, i appreciate your openness it genuinely has made me feel so much less alone in what i’m struggling with especially OCD.

[@melaniegarcia1721]

Always love all podcast episodes but this one came at the perfect time, which made it 10x better! The human experience is fucking brutal but hearing candid conversations like the one you guys had about struggling with mental health really helps destigmatize depression

[@pixiebomb28]

That "but not in a desperate way" thrown in was hilarious. Ben is cute, he'll def find someone, also, this episode should be titled "you okay?"🤣

[@thekiji5249]

this whole episode was so personal and hilarious

[@caelanmurie-gq2sj]

This was a great episode. I appreciate the very real conversations y'all had

[@pirouzufan]

love Noels and Bens chemistry its really awesome :)

[@rcketfield7404]

This honeslty is one of my favorite episodes yet, when the two get vulnerable and and up touch with their thoughts its wholesome.

[@mestep94]

49:01 My mentor had that on a white board in his office and it hypnotized me. I revisit every couple of years and fill out the outer circles to see what parts of my life overlap to try and point something toward the middle. I'm so glad to know that there are other people essentially haunted by this thing like I am

[@Ashley-rw8wp]

I really will say Ben always makes me feel better about a lot of stuff, he really is such an amazing person

[@pandastyle1]

Ben is such a creature, i love him

[@Flashywashy]

this is truly one of my favorite episodes of the tmg podcast. I mean really it is so heartwarming to hear the both of you talk to each other about real things.

[@jackson4269]

This episode feels like therapy

[@cam-tv5rb]

So strange and refreshing to see Noel so raw and genuine and caring!

[@SerenaBustamante]

i love getting high & going down youtube video binges. i’ve been stuck in car chase videos, and olympic swimming

[@scottbutts6703]

I started going to therapy early in 2022. I had been stuck at a terrible job that tanked my mental health and took up all my time, and even when I had gotten a much more reasonable job, I still felt like shit all the time and couldn't seem to feel anything good. Things started to not go well personally, and I finally went to therapy. It helped a bit right away, but it still took until November or December to start feeling normal again. Sometimes you just need time (alongside professional help) to figure things out

[@justincruz5720]

Thanks for dropping this one, my guys.

[@miarose208]

ben and noel is such a good duo i love when noel gets deep it’s refreshing!

[@slaymaster01]

ive also had an ocd flareup lately, we will get thru this ben 🖤

[@JohnsonJJohnson33]

This episode was something that really helped me. Thanks, guys!

[@kdawwwg40]

This is such a great dynamic. I love you guys (and Cody too)

[@benauxo]

noel that idea you and spock talked about made me tear up .. thank you 💗💗

[@Hipy540]

Top ten episode just two friends talking it out loved it

[@giovanni4503]

Wholesome moments in this episode

[@Bjorn_R]

1:05 you guys just straight up breaking my heart 😢 lifting weights isnt boring! when Im properly challenged, I get a much needed break from my relentless thoughts

[@chandrasekharlimit4547]

It’s okay Noel, 3 sesame seeds can kill me lol, I can’t describe how scary it is when I tell the hibachi chef “no sesame seeds, they kill me” and they said “OOOOOOOO MORE SESAMEEEEE?!?!?”😂

[@tinygh0ul]

Wholesome episode. I love therapy with Noel and future wife Ben

[@sv-bd5em]

I love this! It’s similar energy as when Ben is with Emil cause they seem like genuine friends. I liked the episode with Ben and Cody too but it was clear they don’t real hang out outside of TMG low key performative.

[@jbone877]

Is it just me or has Ben gotten extremely handsome, lately?

[@fnyagweta3328]

this is my fav tmg episode possibly

[@tashybellgoesrawr]

❤❤ EDIT: I wasn't ready to watch this right after drinking a latte on an empty stomach. I'm buzzing and about to cry. I love it.

[@oriannaisabella7041]

I agree with Noel I’m now used to Ben without glasses and I think he looks great!

[@quiksilver330]

Ben needs to be on the pod with Cody and Noel his personality is so complimentary to the gang

[@dpo2078]

36:15 The white "no cap" would definitely be "Hats Off!"

[@annika6254]

Pls turn on auto captions!!!!! I cannot process without them

[@stateofchelsea]

I know s*x flashbacks when I see them Ben was going THROUGH it poor guy 😭

[@dpo2078]

pod really blasts into other galaxies from 41:44 onwards