Finding your niche as a transgender woman, I miss the camaraderie with the boys.

[@njlauren]

One of the things that makes being transgendered both interesting and hard is that as a trans person you grow up and socialize as a different gender. The hard part is that not growing up as a woman you dont have a common experience with other women, in how they interact and social cues, so you have to learn it,observe and imitate the way girls do growing up. The nice part about being trans is that you get to look at yourself and decide who you are, keep what works and throw out what you don't. If you are into being a more girly girl type of woman that is fine. If you are more the sweatshirt and Jeans type of girl, that is fine. If you are a girl who also enjoys hanging around the guys too, why not? There is often a lot of pressure when you transition to fit into some preconceived notion of being a woman, like you have to be into being ultra femme and talk about makeup and sex w men...which is idiotic, do what makes you feel good. I grew up a gearhead ( means being into cars, i think it is called a petrol head elsewhere), and I had a friend, a gay woman , who hung out at a women's bar i liked to go to. We had a blast talking about cars we had or worked on, she was a gearhead too. If there is a place where you can shoot pool or play darts or watch sports w a group of guys ,go for it , if you find a group of guys you can hang with. About all I can say about sex is that usually works itself out. If you feel badly about your sex drive, talk to your doctor about it. It could be a sign your levels are off or if you are taking a blocker like spiro you may want to talk about reducing how much you take.

[@leendertcalvis541]

😂😂 A great video again, well I should say just do the same stuff as you were a boy but now only with girls....but be happy you can go out and have friends. A lot of trans people don't have friends due there transition . Its weird but true. Enjoy you're day, I'm heading work and my is just started. Big hug from Holland

[@ChloeDaniels-dn5ve]

Haha I do love it when I see your name come up as a comment I always know it's a goody you have a good day at work and thank you for your comment

[@leendertcalvis541]

@@ChloeDaniels-dn5ve, thanks beauty... And watch out that you don't fall in love hahaha

[@JimmiAlli]

Hi Chloe, sorry if this is a 101 silly question, but if you were a straight man, why was it necessary to transition? I would have thought that gay men would be more likely to transition?

[@ChloeDaniels-dn5ve]

No way that is a myth a lot of straight men transition

[@ReikkiKyraJonsun]

​@@ChloeDaniels-dn5veis a lottery on where u end up,once start journey & HRT...also- not something u chose re/ sexuality.Thats my experience:" cute baby, in pram- go weak @ knees & have overwhelming urge- to get pregnant ( know that cannot physically- happen 😂)..guess what..mentally..happens now- all the time.If had said that might be possibility 4 years ago, would have said:" no way, that's crazy talk" Transition- is full of surprises. Estrogen is powerful stuff & past hobbies can continue but not define who you are or become.I still surf..is just a different wetsuit xxxReikki Kyra.

[@njlauren]

You are confusing sexuality with gender identity. A person who transitions feels more comfortable as a woman. The straight guy into a woman and likes women is technically a lesbian..a gay guy who transitions becomes a straight women.

[@ChloeDaniels-dn5ve]

​@@njlaurenwell said 😂

[@KandisXxx]

Womans converstatuons in general are boring compared to mens. Women just talk about babies amd childbirth, hormones, relationships and work thats about it lol, men seem to have more hobbies and a more interesting range of conversation and know how to have a laugh. Im a 'cis' woman but grew up with 6 brothers and prefer the company of guys for that reason mostly lol. I have girl mates too but going out drinking with giys is way more fun tbh 😂

[@ChloeDaniels-dn5ve]

@@KandisXxx haha I love what you say makes a lot of sense

[@KandisXxx]

Its just the harsh truth lol always had more of a laugh with guys but tend to have to watch what i say around females 😂 ​@ChloeDaniels-dn5ve

[@marcelloshumann1417]

If you are honest to yourself, girl talk more about men than men do about girls. You should know the difference now. The loss of camaraderie is quite normal, you are a woman now snd as such a person of the opposite gender and desire.

[@ChloeDaniels-dn5ve]

@@marcelloshumann1417 thanks very true😊

[@GaiaMiranda]

We should date who we are attracted to we should have a relationship with someone we love... many genetic women do and never bat an eyelash... All my best hon❤❤❤🙋‍♀️

[@ChloeDaniels-dn5ve]

Thanks beautiful Gaia

[@GaiaMiranda]

@ChloeDaniels-dn5ve sorry about being slow on reply lately, battling a UTI without meds until Monday unfortunately and weak and painful, can't wait until tomorrow, last night like this...

[@ChloeDaniels-dn5ve]

​@@GaiaMirandasorry gorgeous to hear that I pray for a speedy recovery nothing worse than feeling uncomfortable

[@user-jc8cc4ch6w]

You've been socialised as a dude that is why

[@ChloeDaniels-dn5ve]

Yes totally agree. Although I have softened and learnt to a woman it comes with its highs and lows