Fingering Etiquette

I'm a very shy person...so its not easy to talk about these subjects, but I also felt like it was necessary...cuz somebody's gotta do it! lol
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Wassup....I'm Amber! I make a range of videos from motivational videos, activism and politics, fashion, everyday life topics, LGBT topics, and more. I first started my channel to help others that may be struggling with their identity, to break stereotypes, as well as to showcase my unique androgynous/tomboy style, but now has become more. I believe in changing the world by changing within. My goal is to empower everyone through positivity, self love, and self confidence; so they feel inspired to show their true authentic self to the world and to show up as the best versions of themselves.I truly LUV and appreciate my supporters, so I want to always be a reminder to Stay Amazing, Stay Proud & Stay Woke. Welcome to the AmbersCloset Family!

[@indiasimone6645]

Amberscloset opens the door on Lesbian etiquette. And I'm here for it!!🌈💜

[@NoBSMase]

Mee too😊

[@AmbersCloset]

Make sure you send this to anyone that may need to hear this

[@fionakilpatrick9234]

💯👍🏻 ❤from 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿💋

[@dfuk66]

Thats a no for me 😂

[@DiMagnolia]

Resisting the urge to send this to the person I had the WORST sex with lmao 😂

[@fionakilpatrick9234]

@@DiMagnolia lol 😂 I think your comment crossed hhmmm probably at least 50% ( if not more !?) of ppl who watched this 😆🤦🏻‍♀️.

[@Dream-Me]

What's the name of the vibrator 😂please don't leave us hanging like that 😂😂

[@AmbersCloset]

Ps. I figured out that the setting on my camera were wrong🤦‍♀So from now on, my videos will be more clear!

[@NoBSMase]

I was never tripping

[@_AmikaC_]

Didn't even notice. Too focused on the content!!!

[@JimMesser-s6m]

One of the things I like to do when I eat is seal my lips around the cl1+, create a little bit of suction, then flick with my tongue.

[@NoBSMase]

I love learning about the lesbian world from your perspective.... I played soccer at University and have sooo many lesbian friends but I feel like your videos teach me so much

[@AiryBubblez]

I appreciate this video so much because in school we're not taught gay sex so we have to learn everything we know from porn which usually isn't accurate.

[@AmbersCloset]

Yea Lesbian porn is mostly made for the straights😩🤦🏽‍♀️

[@_AmikaC_]

in school we're not taught abt hetero sex either. or did I miss something.

[@louisedavis]

I learned about sex in high school, we used to have it once a week, the teacher give us a book with all male and female parts,me and my friends use to laugh alot.

[@_AmikaC_]

@AJValentine-bk6rg So do you mean they taught you guys abt the male and female bodies, the reproductive organs, how the sperm fertilizes the egg, and all of that stuff but not actual intercourse, not HOW to have sex?

[@_AmikaC_]

@AJValentine-bk6rg OK. So back to my original point, what does learning sex ed in school have to do with hetero or non-hetero? The body still works the same regardless. Sex ed is meant to teach exactly what I listed above, NOT how to have hetero and/or non-hetero sex. That's a private affair. What Amber's Closet is doing is great, but I get tired of people saying they didn't learn gay sex in school. The human body is the same no matter where you go and it operates the same no matter where you go, except for the very small percentage of abnormalities.

[@Sotobaby561]

When she did the motions with her fingers in the air I could have died . Love you Amber!! 🥰

[@diahjiagarland7586]

Amber, I wanted to take a moment to say, thank you for this video! I love how you have stepped out of your comfort zone to provide this content. I’ll be honest, I’m a straight woman and in my life I feel sex has always been geared more towards the man and making sure he’s being pleased, but I feel often times I wasn’t a priority for them in my sexual encounters, and now I’ve been blessed with a partner who cares about me having great sex with him as much as I want him to have great sex with me, so I love that I can share some of your content with him, and we can try some of these techniques and tricks to help me enjoy sex just as much as he does! 💕

[@AmbersCloset]

Yesss!! I love that for you!! So glad you have a partner that cares about your needs as much as his🖤🙏🏽

[@LoyceBango]

I ve started listening to this video ,i love it and l m listening quietly 😂

[@LoyceBango]

Position 1🎉

[@cooki3monstrrr]

I appreciate the inclusion of "lesbian nails" & finger condoms! I feel like people get intimidated or assume longer nails equal hetero before we even get the chance to offer solutions... or show them the other hand lol 😂

[@_AmikaC_]

That last part 😂🤣😂🤣

[@stephanieparker558]

As shy as i am this video had me blushing! I am learning though! Thank you and welcome back! 🎉🎉😅. New to the community

[@lashawnderonde9711]

OMG, I felt like I was blushing throughout the whole video 😂 and when Amber kept doing the motions 😮☺️ oh my 🫠

[@stephanieparker558]

@lashawnderonde9711 I know right! Ambers just very informative!

[@theeyonigawdess194]

As a bisexual who has never fingered my self or a woman successfully I thank you 🙏🏾 😂P.S. Men definitely need this video! Especially about hand 🖐️ washing! ( My early 20s self thanks you too 🙏🏾💙)

[@marlee7702]

You’re so real, entertaining, informative & amazing Amber✨

[@Olebogeng31]

The fact that i discovered Amberscloset a few days ago....i just love Amber 🤧🥺🥺

[@sanderson1363]

Thank you for this educational lesson. I love the way it is delivered- detail focusing on both physical and communication. Great Job! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@kettanistar]

I was curious and this was tastefully communicated!

[@AmbersCloset]

Thank you! I really appreciate that🙏🏽

[@DiMagnolia]

Oh my god the amount of people that DONT WASH THEIR DAMN HANDS??? I could’ve avoided a lot of infections as a teenager if demanded people wash their nasty hands.

[@TheBlessedQueen2000]

😭🤢🤮Germsss

[@angelalogue4633]

I know to many that need this video! This is a blessing 😂🤘♀️🏳️‍🌈

[@damariskenga3522]

I really wanted this too😅😊

[@charlyb9194]

Not me developing a crush on Amber! 🙇🏾‍♀️

[@okonkwoifunanya9029]

Fan from Nigeria/Africa Thanks

[@QueenGold-kd5cg]

Hi from Nigeria too

[@OwlofHorus]

She baack ❤

[@paulina.b]

Love this learning experience 🙌 ❤

[@niaevans6911]

Glad you are back Amber!! I have been a fan for years

[@anatvtime4323]

Men take notes also. Yall ne so selfish just goin in and out like yall doin sumthin 😒

[@marissaj8431]

Amber is so confident, although I can also see her being shy. 🥰 Thank you so much for the good information in this video. Also love the sound effect at 7:51 about playing with the booty. 😄Don't stop being you Amber. 👯‍♀️ ✂️ 🤗

[@deedeesmexilife861]

That vibrating in between ✂️ ✂️ ✂️...fire!❤❤.. I need that one you showed...😂🎉🎉🎉

[@SwashBuckTief]

C G A sounds like a chord progression 😂

[@evareich_]

No foreal 😂😂

[@AuthenticallyAlvarez]

Some mature sex lessons that I am here for! This applies to everyone, no matter gender, sexual preference, etc. Take lessons friends❤

[@fionakilpatrick9234]

Had to pause to say love the topic & women should be speaking more freely about it & yes yassss !!! CGA !!! Ding ding ding lol winner with the head !! Woman after my own heart , I think that’s why I had bi experiences years ago as I just felt men were always too rushed & id talk I’d say I’d ask etc I’m a huge believer in communication being the key 🔑 to everything. I have to say women know what women want no guys I’m not dissing at all just sharing my opinion ( obviously it depended on the lover as well ) well done as always Amber on the videos keep that he coming sorrry no pun intended xx

[@xXxTeemaBxXx]

🙏🏼 Appreciate you for the very real content, Queer Sex Convos are so important. Interested to see if you do any collab videos with other Queer Folks talking about Radical Love and Sex in the Queer Community!

[@AmbersCloset]

I’m so down to collab! If you have any suggestions on people to collab with or content I should check out, please let me know. I feel way behind on creators on here

[@Mely365]

had to share this one with my man xD he needs to hear some of these tips ♥

[@angelalogue4633]

I thought all lesbians knew the nail must 🏳️‍🌈♀️💅

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

I am actually learning something

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

Amber you are the best

[@AmbersCloset]

Thank you Edward!!🖤✨

[@lifeofsasha380]

The head finger combo does it ALL the time! 😏😋

[@benethahutchinson8704]

U got that og style. That's how u do it

[@astelaalahmari3899]

Girl you tube miss you too

[@seangee143]

Communication is 🔑

[@TheBlessedQueen2000]

Yes it is.

[@DiMagnolia]

Me with my tiny little baby hands I can barely hit the G, the A is not happening without a toy or something 😂

[@SoBlessed803]

Sheesh, thank you for that informative video...and yeah, I had gotten turned on like WHOA, due to your descriptive words and saying whatchU LIKE 😆😆😆

[@veronicanoxolo1603]

Hi amber am watching you from south Africa love your content you always learning us how too feel about ourself you the best but i want too asked advice am still in the closet any idea how can i free myself its been years pls ♥️🙏

[@taneshatowns8055]

Great video.. thank you for being you and bring this kind of content to us

[@amberdiamond5604]

Thank u for the vlog and to tell u cuz im ready to come out and don't freak out ok so. I'M BISEXUAL but i do have a disability called Down Syndrome.

[@ImCaviar_UrSubpar]

I feel like this is expert level knowledge here 😂

[@souldreamer8838]

Amber You da GOAT lol 💯😎🫶🏾!!! So glad you're back!!!!

[@meghandavitt1618]

This was so good

[@IanBrodyStewart1992]

Quick question: would forearm workouts help with long lasting fingering, especially with a partner who loves a long sexy time?

[@cloreewhitlock3640]

Love Storytime

[@ncbassmaster25]

Position 3 is also my favorite with or with the fingers

[@Mabhonzoo]

Damn I have small hands..will it work?😢

[@AmbersCloset]

Absolutely! Just need 2 inches to get to the G spot

[@Frogonalog567]

@@AmbersCloset The G spot was debunked a while ago tho... Love your content, although all of the internal spots seem made up. I know many people with vulvas who don't feel much from penetration/on those internal spots since the vagina has a lot less nerve endings than the clit. Whether or not the G spot exists I think it comes down to communication with your partner☺Overall nice work and starting this convo!

[@gloriajames3773]

Not me knowing about the lesbian nails. Works wonders😏

[@seangee143]

You need a little “ kitty” model to demonstrate this …. 🙏🏽

[@beatricemurage9903]

Wow I love you girl amazing tips thanks for emphasising on cleanliness

[@AshleyLewisGrey]

Great tips!

[@djsmoothjackson630]

Amber I love your educational videos love u Amber❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Wilma.Flintstone]

"I'm a very shy person" - girl, if you don't stop 😂

[@AmbersCloset]

No foreaaaall🙇🏽‍♀️

[@figginsdalip]

I need straight men to hear this because they really don’t have no clue.

[@christinepitlover66]

Amber your 🔥

[@SarkazzHere]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@saundraodom9678]

I really enjoyed this video I thought I was the only one who knew I've been told these hands -+++ but yes I do enjoy your vids! I'm the older version! 😂

[@afolabiadedoyin]

I recently just found yuur strap etiquette video. I'm here to watch this too 😀

[@seangee143]

Good video Amber - just need a more “ live animation” or model … idk … something more for the visual learners. ✔️🙏🏽🤘🏽

[@tiffyn3804]

Didn't think it was possible to do all of that all at once. Daaam

[@SarkazzHere]

2:52 😅😅😅😅😅

[@TrVlogs82]

Aye let's gooo!

[@remstinks]

wow i’m learning love it !!!

[@2mrsnenajess]

Hey Amber, Could You Do A Video Of Your Top 5 Or 10 Compression Sports Bras For Masculine Centered/Studs That Are Trying To Flatten Their Breasts? 😬

[@Rehoxy]

Amber oooo😂😂😂😂

[@phenomenal5537]

Call it out Amber🙌 .. C! G! A! ... Love it!

[@jfaye9583]

You’re the business! Lesbian Love 101…👍

[@amandajeremiah2358]

I love that video but i need a live with case miss you'll ❤❤

[@benethahutchinson8704]

I need you to talk more about how to ✂️

[@KazManson]

Thank you for this intel.

[@kathyscott9555]

Medical gloves mandatory

[@LivH.20]

Drop that spicy time playlist please ❤

[@DamnDemi]

I foresee a lot of lesbians getting carpal tunnel after this video.

[@damariskenga3522]

Oooh lord gaymen😊❤ i needed this Amber ❤

[@liyahwalker5416]

I love you ❤️

[@SarkazzHere]

Gaymennnnnn

[@avidparent4643]

📚📚📚📝🖍🖋✏️📁🗂📖📓📖📙🗃📋📌 Whew!!! Got it❤❤❤❤😂😂 Thanks Amber. I heard some things that were very helpful. 🎉🎉

[@HasaniTempest]

I hate when fems have long nails. It hurts.

[@ZenobiaAdams-m2c]

Hey Amber, hope tou well. Just came across this video and wanted to say thanks for the advice. ❤❤ I love when you say "can you fell me"...👿 👿

[@chauncydominique1986]

Gaymen!!!!!🤗👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@SugaMoma66]

Well damn...it sucks that nobody I ever been with had this knowledge. Those young bucks don't give a flying fk an I never had anyone older! 🤭 Thinkin I'm all dried up now! 😅🤬

[@AmbersCloset]

Yo foreal!!! But don’t give up! Just gotta find someone that is experienced and still open to learning🙌🏽

[@DeejayWilson7500]

Do a prank on Ezee or Stevie starting a argument then passing out

[@ElleThe1andOnly]

😂 I thought the title said “fingerling” (yarn weight) 😂. But since I’m here…. 😊 Don’t forget football 🏈 🏀 That is my biggest pet peeve….dirty nails TY I’d be surprised if lesbians didn’t know these things 😮 (still taking notes) I’m truly feeling like anyone having a party with Amber must follow her around for years afterwards ❤ I want every lesbian to know….learn to suck right. Like a Hoover y’all. It truly is a a dying art 🧐

[@antoinettedaniels158]

Amber you are so talented I hope your partner appreciates it keep giving us more food for taught love it 💚💚💚💚💚🌈

[@brandinstephens9933]

Brandin Stephens marry white girlfriend

[@СапашЖумакадыров]

❤првет

[@seangee143]

Position #1

[@katiehoholick420]

Omg I thought I was the only one 🤞🏻 is definitely better than a strap it feels extra n then we're both not enjoying it AND i never met anyone that knows what an A spot is im pissed just finding her now i found her out from Ezee

[@lindajones3356]

you need a course for straight men😊

[@Datb2]

I wish u were my teacher at school

[@remstinks]

yes that’s is so true i always look at your nails it needs to be clean !! n hands too also yes my ex didn’t like getting penetrated at all so understood her so i respected that !!! i have long nails sometimes n i broke my gf now her cherry 🍒 n i was scared that i hurt her but she said she was fine but now i know i need to get finger condom for my nails !!!

[@TrishaMAX-gw5ym]

That's one way to do it! Also, there's a sneaky technique to make his body experience a pleasurable kind of electricity that can make turn into a madman, try go'ogling Jevie Hindlerg's Mastery if you're not shy about these types of things!

[@TheBlessedQueen2000]

Amber, maybe the men should learn something from this video. 🙄😒😂😂😂

[@SophiaH-ov5dz]

LOL so amazing to make his eyes roll back as he immerses in bliss, it's a mind-blowing experience, I did what I mentioned last week and now he can’t have enough, I learned the exact moves by go’ogling Jevie Hindlerg’s latest, it doesn't even compare!

[@deedeesmexilife861]

It works great..great great😂❤😂❤❤❤😂...oh yes

[@TriinaG]

Pew pew pew😂

[@dearthandie1878]

Gay Man!!!

[@kathrynkissinger9758]

FO Who Cares

[@FarwanAhmed-g9z]

I have been suffering from an illness for several years. A doctor gave me some injections in different parts of my body for recovery. As a result, all the sexual excitement has gone out of my body. Now my penis can't be aroused even when I masturbate with my own hands. Even if my penis is massaged by the hands of beautiful women, my body will not get excited. I'm in a lot of trouble. I intend to commit suicide sometimes because of this problem. Finally I gradually regained some excitement, but did not regain full excitement as before. I eat good good nutritious foods to increase the testosterone hormone, but not fully regaining this power. I'm from Bangladesh.😢