I can’t say it enough Imogen, you are absolutely precious . I’m 53 and I would give anything to have had a mom like you are to your girls . You are pure , your love runs so deep . We absolutely need more of you in this tough world .❤
@starryeyeskg Жыл бұрын
Don't be scared to try again , it could just be situational that she didn't settle. She may settle fine next time :)
@rachelpascoe2904 Жыл бұрын
Aww Imogen, if you don’t want to leave her then don’t. Don’t worry about whats going to happen when you go in hospital, everything will be all ok in the end. I know how you feel about leaving your babies especially at night, I’m the same! I just like them at home with us causing beautiful chaos! Sending hugs x
@dwynwenthomas4954 Жыл бұрын
Imogen, you and Spencer are wonderful parents, your precious little girls are very lucky to have you both ❤ I can completely relate as I am exactly the same with both of my daughters, the only time I was separated from my eldest for a lengthy period of time/overnight was when I was in hospital having my youngest and I can assure you, everything will be ok ❤ I now have a very social, independent and confident 4 year old little girl that constantly tells me that I’m her best friend and super hero. I was once told that it’s called secure attachment rather than separation anxiety, it’s natural for her to want her mummy and demonstrates how much of a strong bond that you and Renaelia have ❤ They’re not little for very long, embrace every moment ❤ you are a wonderful family xoxox
@Dalilymoll Жыл бұрын
I can relate. I am a mum of 3 girls and I never want them to stay away from me, I don't mind a few hours but that's enough I like them to be in their own beds at home I know they are safe. It's so special the bond a mother has with her children. They are just your whole world once you have them. Love watching your videos. ❤
@FluentlyAcademy Жыл бұрын
Some of my favorite memories are when my no longer here grandad would babysit me it’s such a special time to be with your grandparents
@MadameEster Жыл бұрын
Ok so regardless of if we have done the same or not separate or not you need to rock with what your kid needs her showing us the difficult bits makes it real meaning, I don’t feel alone when my baby is difficult or I have a hard moment makes it normal and for that I’m grateful to you Imogen! ❤❤❤❤
@Fatima-tx4nn Жыл бұрын
Nice vlog, your dads so funny. The baby cloths are so cute. Congratulations on your second diamond. Cant wait till it arrives and seeing your two diamonds running around. Bless ❤😊
@carkey91 Жыл бұрын
My sons are nearly 8 and 4 and they’ve never been apart from us for a night. Now they’re old enough for sleepovers with friends and they refuse. We wanted a night away for our tenth wedding anniversary and they both got so upset that we ended up doing a weekend away at a theme park with the kids. There will be plenty of years that they don’t want to be at home 😂. You do whatever feels right for you x
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@Karinnajane Жыл бұрын
My sons dad and I broke up when he was 1 and I was the exact same when he went away and he was also upset but honestly, the more it happens the easier it gets. Could you try your mum or dad having her over night at your house? Then the only change is mummy and daddy? My sons nearly 4 now and the only place he will stay and settle is mine and his dads but, he will sleep if I am not here🤍
@jellybabyaz Жыл бұрын
I had that feeling for like 3 months after that that feeling got better because you see them the next day ❤️
@taradeverill3372 Жыл бұрын
My daughter is 3/4 this year and hasn't spent the night away from me, she isn't ready she doesn't like it she gets really upset 😢 💔 so I haven't made her.. she's spent days away from me with grandparents and stuff but she's got upset after few hours so she's come home. Each to their own ❤️ looks like you had a nice time together! Love you all lots so proud of you and everything you do xxx
@nickysmith5406 Жыл бұрын
Spencer is looking like hes thinking, but look at my trainer's. Lol
@stephaniemacleod8473 Жыл бұрын
Exactly the same happened to me when I was going to leave my baby for the first time at 9 months I went and got him and drove 2 hours home in the night because we were both distressed!! So nice to hear stories that relate xx
@laurenhill5322 Жыл бұрын
Hey, sorry to hear this! So what will you do when you go into hospital if she can’t be without you? X
@Imogenhorton. Жыл бұрын
I'm sure she'll be fine, I think it was that she was out of her own environment probably! xxx
@Amandakeith92 Жыл бұрын
@@Imogenhorton. i just commented this is totally true, my son was the shame when I was at in laws house then left him, unsettled but when she picked him up eventually I was at home, best to have your mum stay at your house xx
@bethbevan111 Жыл бұрын
My eldest is 4 and I have never spent the night away from her. Even when I gave birth to my second I was home the same day!
@louisawillow Жыл бұрын
I love your channel so much! I stumbled upon your channel and I’m so happy that I did! It’s so nice the way you vlog!❤ and your voice is so nice!!! And your makeup 🥳
@fozibear2281 Жыл бұрын
You both r such good parents u do everything to bring joy in your little ones life . When Renaelia has her baby sister in her life she will b soo happy . I do not have a sister and I would have done anything to have a sister in my life.
@0Alwina0 Жыл бұрын
Have her nap at their house while you are there more often. What helped my son the most was that my sister knows his night time routine to the T and says things the exact same way I do. When he would wake up and my sister would read his favourite book in the exact same I would and he would calm right down. My son is not excited to have to stay at in laws when our August baby comes. He is 6 so he understands a lot better than when he was little. So I tell him about how things will likely go and that we will pick him up as soon as wee can. Even when he was little he would freak out if anything was out of his routine. So I started every evening to go through what was planned the next day if I had appointments and he would stay with grandma...if he was coming along what was likely to happen. It has helped him tremendously to kind of know what to expect. 18 months though they just don't understand as much. It's hard...we don't want them to struggle and cry or be upset. I hope she will be ok staying the night when your baby comes.
@andrainydaysx Жыл бұрын
Dya know what. well done for giving a night away ago even though you felt anxious about it. It’s really tough! I don’t think I could leave mine for more than a few hours… I know I need to because I need to return to work soon but it’s so hard, it’s like a tug in your chest to get back close to them again isn’t it? X
@0Alwina0 Жыл бұрын
I think we started letting my son stay over at our parents house around a year old and I was a nervous wreck, checking my phone over and over and asking for pictures... He is 6 now and stays with his cousins at my in laws and I am still worried but a lot less.
@bethanybamford9060 Жыл бұрын
You and Spencer are such amazing parents to your daughter, I lv watching your channel and watching u all grow as a family xx ❤
@sarahtolley7378 Жыл бұрын
I was the same as you, I am still like that and my daughter is 14. You and Spencer are doing a fab job, well it's not a job but you know what I mean 😊
@Imogenhorton. Жыл бұрын
Means the world thanks so much xx
@kellstinkerbell71 Жыл бұрын
When you have baby number 2 I’m assuming she will be in her own home when you leave her and I’m sure it won’t be as hard or painful for you all. 🌻
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@Amandakeith92 Жыл бұрын
My son done this best to leave them in there own house as leaving you this is safe for them as they have there things made videos for her to watch start with dinner again then week after go for a drive at bedtime and let your mum put her to bed, recorded you singing or reading a book over tonies box. 😊
@andrainydaysx Жыл бұрын
Yes I do this with mine as well although I haven’t braved overnight yet it’s sooo daunting! X
@katem86 Жыл бұрын
My niece used to stay over at my mums but now she's a bit older she doesn't want to 😂. we have baby sat her in her own house