First Night On My Own

[@Marissamarr]

Ari, literally every single college student is feeling like u do. Nobody goes in with friends or family and it’s really hard! You got this!

[@windy42305]

Agree I did too! Lived in Ohio, started school in Utah. Hang in there!! ❤😢

[@beverleypicard2116]

Exactly everyone is nervous your not alone .you can do this .

[@anacondaamazon8888]

Looks like shes getting ready to quit once again.come on your an adult not a little kid.

[@nickip1nkfr1day]

@@anacondaamazon8888you sound like you never been away from home and family lol

[@wendyhill5641]

Wowwww, give the girl a chance. It's her first time being so far away from her family, she has every right to be upset and nervous!! Why do you feel the need to be so rude!!!

[@LizKrause]

I was an RA in college. Everyone is feeling homesick those first few weeks. Go to as many events as possible. They might seem cheesy but it helps a ton to meet people. Also don’t be afraid to call your parents a bunch they feel the same way. I called my mom in between classes every day.

[@MelissaCardenas]

Great advice!

[@monaramirez-stanek8172]

Don’t be sorry/crying for missing your family. It just means they raised you with alot of love.

[@proper.role.model.819]

You went from a house of like 20 people to just you. It's alot girl. It's ok. We all love ya girl! You can do this!!

[@judisilverman5567]

It’s so hard to grow up and leave home. It’s scary, it’s overwhelming. You are strong and capable and you can do this! You’ll learn and do so many incredible things. Every new college person feels EXACTLY like you do.

[@pamamend5221]

Oh sweet girl I hope you are feeling so much better now…….. you are so loved.

[@melissav3199]

Ari, I moved from California to Louisiana after high school, for college. I felt 100% the same way you feel. It hurt, it was all I thought about, the culture was different than the West Coast, but it did get better. Day by day, I promise it gets better. Little did I know the amazing life long friends I’d make and I met my husband! We’ve been married for 25 years but together since college about 30+ years. Best thing you can do is get involved, even if you don’t want to or feel like it. Talk to the people sitting next to you in class, they are probably feeling the exact same way. You will do great! Just take it one day at a time. You got this! 🌸

[@jessicamazo-8942]

Ari give yourself some time. You can't go from the crazy pieces home to a quiet apartment with only your thoughts without feeling overwhelmed or lonely. I'm sure your family is crying right along with you cause you are very much loved and missed. Stay strong and it's ok to cry. Have a great first year. We your fans are all very proud of you 💚💚💚

[@arir789]

I'm sorry Ari, it's ok to feel that way and dont let people convince you otherwise. It's a huge change and being so far away from family and friends is hard but with time things will get easier and you'll find your own little community away from home. Instead of mourning your family being gone, try to grow excitement for the next time you will get to see them again. Wishing you the best 🙏🏽❤️

[@kyagomez5382]

Literally the best advice❤

[@linloser]

Ari, I’m 25 and my entire family moved away a couple of years ago, a 22 hour drive away, and I STILL cry. You aren’t alone, and you’re allowed to take time to feel these things and let yourself cry. Crying is a good way to let ourselves heal and find our way. The waves will come and go, but never question why you’re feeling the way you are, never try to push it down, never feel silly for being upset. From one long distance daughter to another, we will get through this. Hugs.

[@teresacorley7874]

Arreaina you should face time them or call them more you got this girl it's okay to feel sad but try a keep occupied and hang around friends join a sports group like softball wish you the best learning to deal with emotions is a whole new thing when your young but it will teach you alot as time goes on I've been on my own since I was 17 it's been a real learning experience I found getting in to sports was my best outlet for stress and emotional well being and being outdoors and just finding some one to buddies around with or to help another person with rhier needs also helped

[@teresacorley7874]

Sorry I didn't spell your name qright

[@teresacorley7874]

Sorry I didn't spell your name right

[@barbaraleding7028]

Arianna, you got this! You are so loved. Get involved in your church, or in school activities. Your family members are just a phone call away. You got it! Love you sweet girl.

[@barbaraadamson2699]

Ari, it’s a huge jump to go from such a huge family always around to sudden silence. Your feelings are normal and expected. It’s okay. Take one day at a time. Call home regularly, call your siblings. They will be so excited to hear from their big sister. Call Hallie, call Alex. Their on their own too but a lot closer to home so they can update everyone’s goings on. Face time often with grandma a d aunt Bonnie. Know you are very well able to get through this and the semesters will go fast. College is always busy flies by quickly. That I can promise. You’re an amazing young woman. You got this Ari. ❤️❤️❤️🙋‍♀️❤️❤️❤️

[@lennahajer]

Ari, we all love you so much! You’ve got this girl! All of your supporters are so proud of you!

[@sandrabaeza72]

Ari you’re soooo real for posting these moments. You might be helping someone else that its ok to have all these emotions at once. Everything will be ok 🤍🤍🤍

[@mariannaphillips9135]

Never ever apologise for crying.. it’s sadness and fear coming out in tears which helps release to make room for other things. You are in such a foreign situation and being soo far away from family/friends which everyone would struggle with. Hang in sweet girl. You are a gorgeous soul and once you get going at college and meet people then you will feel heaps better. But please never apologise for letting your emotions out and thank you for sharing your vulnerability as I’m sure lots of others will find this helpful if feeling the same. Much love and hugs, Maz 💜

[@blue_gill3752]

You got this, its hard to move away from family that love and care about you soo much and have always been there for you through the good and the bad no matter what kind of day you're having. You're an amazing person, loving, caring, helpful and smart. We are all here to support you and listen whenever u need to vent, talk, cry, whatever u need we are all here for support. ❤ Also, your place is nice and cozy looking.

[@---BAM---]

It gets better. Allow yourself to settle in and start talking to people. If there are any groups you have interest in, join them. Its a great way to safely socialize. This experience is so important for you to have. ♥️

[@abcdefg216]

Agree! ❤

[@karelynfuentes]

I agree two!!!!😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@LeahFairfield]

@@karelynfuentestoo not two

[@amywilliams6696]

I knew this was gonna happen, when your surrounded with family and love all the time ,it's hard too be alone.

[@janwagner7818]

Honey you are a beautiful young lady and I am sure this is hard for you, as a mom my heart goes out to you. You do have your family backing sweetie and you have us your followers. So stay strong, succeed in your dreams and we will be here along with your family to give you love, support and positivity❤

[@kristinclark3304]

Awe, sweetheart everything is going to be okay. I know it's hard being so far from home, but you will make tons of friends out there, and school will keep you busy. You'll be able to see your family and friends back home on holidays and on breaks. Your a beautiful, outgoing, smart, independent young lady and I promise things will get better once you meet people and get into a routine. Take care and stay safe Ariana ❤

[@klmn14658]

I was crying w/you, Arianna. The 1st few days are always the hardest. Never be embarrassed about crying...sometimes we need to just let it all out. You're going to be awesome & you'll get used to everything in no time. Hang in there kiddo. Hugs & smiles Xx

[@desireeglynn6230]

you really are such a strong person and have a personality that literally lights up the room. people can feel your love and light. you WILL make good friends at school. it'll take a little bit but you will find them. Youre in all of my prayers Arianna.

[@Butterflykisses3]

I'm 47 and my parents moved to Idaho, I feel your loneliness. Once you get into a routine and make friends it will get better.

[@katrinalongley]

it's completely normal to cry and feel all your feelings sad, alone, worried about the unknown and this new experience. You got this! Before you know it it will be break and you will be visiting home. ❤

[@sivonni]

My first night away from my family was the night before basic training. As soon as my folks left me at the hotel, I was like, "Oh no! I have made a huge mistake!" The first weekend of basic training we were kept busy during the day but nights I was so homesick and so was everyone else! Everyone was talking about ways to get out of their military contracts, one girl joked about sipping on cleaning supplies to create a medical emergency. Knowing everyone else felt the same actually calmed me down and helped me feel less overwhelmed. And staying busy really does help.

[@kristenriedel7593]

Ohhh my mom heart hurts seeing you sad!! You've got this, honey! You'll be meeting lots of people and start making friends and your family will always be there virtually when they can't be there in person. I bet by the time this video was posted you are already meeting your people and feeling better!

[@emilys.4791]

Moving away from home was one of the hardest and most overwhelming experience I’ve ever had. Going on year 3 of college I can tell you it does get easier. You will make friends and the day to day life will eventually keep you busy! Stay strong and know that you got this 💕

[@marypollick]

Your amazing, you got this, and please don't ever say sorry for crying, we understand, and love you from Toledo Ohio 🌹

[@blackvelvetchic4218]

Feeling alone is terrible. It’s hard being in a new place. It’s ok to feel like that. Get out as much as you can doing school events. If you need a break I’m up in Greenville sc so short flight or train. You’re always welcome for a weekend. You got this girl. I’m 26 and moved out at 18 it was rough. But you are strong and you are loved!

[@cynthiawallace5745]

Ariana you got this , my niece just graduated from Cornell university, and when I asked her, how was her four year experience what is the first thing she said to me is that she cries a lot, you got this I’m not going to tell you it’s going to be easy,because it’s not (you’re going to have ups and downs but you got this,keep going until the end so proud of you.

[@dayna2688]

Aww Arianna you will be okay. It’s normal to miss your family. FaceTime your mom and dad and you will feel like they are right there. As a mom we are always happy to hear from our grown kids. One of my daughters calls me on her drive home from work everyday.

[@irenagallagher8053]

Bless you Ariana. You've come from a big house full of people. Allow yourself time hunni it's a tough gig being alone. love you.

[@LoLoLifeinFlorida]

Omg awww ❤❤❤❤ I just want to hug you!! Your the same age as my daughter. What your feeling is totally normal and natural! You are venturing out into this big world and discovering Who You Are! Just take one step at a time one day at a time you will make a lot of wonderful friends you will have a lot of Life Experiences! I wish you all the best.

[@hizgrase]

I used to cry all the way back to texas from kentucky. It’s hard when you’re the one alone. And I was grown.

[@GrannyHugs]

AAAAWWW Honey. HUGS!❤ The first few days will be rough. Cry it out honey, it's ok. It's hard the first tome away from home. We're all here for you girl!🤗😘🥰

[@girlfromsouth214]

Hugs Ariana. Every emotion you are feeling is completely normal. It takes a little while to get adjusted when moving to a new state. But, you are a smart, kind person with a loving heart. Put yourself out there and you'll find your Georgia peeps.

[@jynblossom101]

Your pulling at my heart strings. You got this hun. Your strong. Changes are hard. ❤. Maybe join some groups to get to know people. You miss your family hun, don't be embarrassed to cry. Crying shows your human. ❤

[@JaTon]

I moved from Texas to Colorado at 19, alone. I remember desperately missing family and friends. Finding a church was such a blessing.

[@moonbuggg]

Hey there! Florida girly here! Publix definitely had Valentina. It’s just not with the rest of the hot sauces. It’s on the ethnic aisle. I know comfort foods can definitely help you feel better. Hope that helps!

[@awesomegrandma8977]

You make me cry I feel like giving you a hug and tell you everything is going to be fine you can do it. Your parents are so proud of you.

[@SuperBlackCat1313]

Ariana you got this girl.Growing up and being on your own is hard.But you are gonna make a tons of friends in a whole new state/city.Again you got this.

[@amberm2189]

moving away to go to college is such a massive change for anybody, it is totally normal to feel this way. I guarantee everyone around you will be feeling the same too. You will feel much better once you meet people and get settled in. Keep sticking in you've got this!!!

[@brookstevick3051]

This so hits home, my19 year old is fixing to move out for her first time! I just want to hug you...You got this though!!! 💕

[@SuperGirl-f6g]

You got this girl. Thanks so much for sharing your experience with us. Now get out there and make friends. You are the sweetest so that will be easy for you.

[@CristinaQV]

I'm sorry, Ariana. You are amazing for pursuing your career away from home. I cannot imagine being away from my family, so I can feel your pain. I hope this isn't weird but I'm a Director in Buckhead and also live about 20 minutes from Atlanta. If you ever need anything, let me know. I have a sister who is 22 and was away for school, and I understand. But anyways, know we are here for you! 😊

[@marciabinninger2840]

Awe sweetheart it’s ok. Many kids feel the same. You got this. I left home at 19 and went from Massachusetts to Florida for 4 months. It’s a very weird feeling with a lot of emotions. Lots of hugs to you!!

[@jessicaosborne1842]

The little orphan Annie is a play I would of picked for my situation when I was younger

[@loriexley1405]

You got this sweetie! Being that far from home in its self is hard let alone not knowing anyone. You are such an outgoing person you will make friends soon. We all love you

[@Camila-tn9ec]

Aww, this is a throwback to when I moved alone. The first month was really hard, and I thought I had made the wrong decision because it felt hard and new. But I swear two years have passed now, and the level of personal growth I've experienced is mindblowing and I love it. And yes, it's really hard, and at the time I thought no one felt this way because it's really emotional on a deep level. But then I realized most people actually go through this and it's just a new season in life. Try to enjoy and don't be hard on yourself, it can time timee

[@kaitlynwarren2563]

Oh Ari I wish I could give you a hug. Its normal to feel this way. Especially for someone who is very close to their family.

[@br6021]

Ariana, I have friendly advice for you. Please don’t show your weakness too much, because there are people who pray on that, and may take advantage of you. Girl, you hold your head up and be the queen you are! Stay steadfast and strong, and reach the goals you went there for. You can do it! Each day, look in the mirror and tell yourself “I’m strong, I’m beautiful, I’m smart, I can do this”. God bless you sweetie.👍🙏🏻

[@claireoverly4858]

That was me my first night at my apartment! It just feels like a big chance so it induces a bit of panic. You made the right choice and will do great, the overwhelming feeling will subside.

[@rawlyroo5975]

Oh you are doing so awesome! It's so natural to miss your family! They miss you too ! You are such a wonderful person you will make friends quickly you are kind and so smart ❤

[@melissagalvez6563]

Like everyone else is saying, every college student goes through this whether you realize it or not. Try to get involved in as many activities as you can. Go out and explore your campus and surrounding areas. You’ll make friends in no time and have the best time of your life. We’re all rooting for you Ariana 🙌🏻

[@mailecummings7731]

Ariana, it's going to be alright. I know how much your family means to you, and yes, family is everything. You'll find some friends, and once you do, you're going to enjoy your life. Stay safe and have a blessed day.

[@joannhempen8210]

Aww honey. It’s perfectly normal to feel all of these emotions. Your use to a big family and support. Your feeling overwhelmed and that’s normal. Once you start meeting friends and adjust your going to love it. You’ve got this! Your parents are just a phone call away❤❤

[@natashaprice2754]

Oh, sweet girl. It's okay to cry and to feel the way you do. It's a beautiful thing to have people on your life that you love and miss. You have an amazing personality and you'll make friends fast, but Atlanta is a great place to explore and find yourself. I can imagine being apart of a big family, you are used to having people around you most of the time and that can be very comforting. You are strong and intelligent. You'll do great in ATL. I'm a small town girl (not so much a girl any more) and I'm having a hard time living here... but I think you've got the personality needed to excel here. Good luck, Sweetheart!

[@haleystafford2953]

You will thrive! I felt this way moving out of my parents house after living there for 27 years. It’s hard but you will love this new chapter! Make friends and be open to new things! This is so normal and I have a heart for you!

[@cindywaldrop4287]

Best wishes Ari! You are strong & smart...you've got this! Muscle through and make us all proud! Well, prouder than we already are❤❤

[@MelissaCardenas]

I was sooo homesick at first when my parents and I separated by 1500 miles. Finding cheaper long weekend flights helped. Also try keeping yourself as busy as possible and do new things when you can. It gets easier, I promise! You got this ari!

[@nikitasavonzachery321]

You got this! We have you in our prayers!

[@Gizmo72710]

You are going to be ok. I promise! My Family lives 13 hours from me. I’m old now, but…it was super hard at first, but gradually, I adjusted, and felt more and confident in my ability to handle things without them. I love that you are sharing your experience. It will help other young people alone for the first time. Love ya!

[@annaluse9694]

Aw, hang in there Ariana🥺 you are such a strong woman! I know it's going to be a little tough in the beginning, but push through! Keep yourself busy/occupied with school and/or work. It should help the days pass and then it's fall break and you're heading home! Keep your head up! I can be like your cousin on the east coast haha!😂 Lots of Love from NC✌🏼🤗💜

[@monayhawthorne9420]

Ari your family and siblings are so proud of you and you are doing great things it’s ok to feel homesick and many miles away from your family can’t wait for the holidays so you can be with your family veen watching your videos since the very beginning and yall family channel as well can't wait for more videos you are so amazing awesome and beautiful stay positive

[@aso1673]

We always here with you. You can film your daily every day and we will watch it and be with you behind the screen. Love you you are very strong and independent beautiful woman❤❤❤❤❤

[@burco7626]

Im so sorry Arianna for crying i hope you enjoy your time in college 💓 stay strong 💪 💓 💗 💖

[@rithumattey7330]

Hey Ariana, I’m also a college student away from home. It’s definitely sometimes scary and stressful, but make friends and join a bunch of clubs at school! I promise it makes life a lot easier

[@denisverareyes6938]

I’m so sorry you’re feeling alone Ari, we are here for you !! I I hope you can find company and comfort soon within yourself and others, you’re amazing and like you said, you got this 💕

[@beckywilson8761]

You've got this. Trust yourself and your ability to handle all of this

[@conniephair6812]

You got this girl! Concur the world!!!

[@holly7877]

Yes, you can do it! You are going to look back and be so proud of yourself. It’s ok to feel how you are feeling. It’s scary and outta your comfort zone right now. But you are a bad ass girl. And have a great family and friends rooting for you. And stop being sorry for feeling how you feel. Trust me you will be great. You got this sweetie. Stay strong and enjoy your journey. ❤

[@susiegomez52]

Aw hugs ❤❤❤stay strong even adults get scare so I can imagine a young adult being more harder because is a big change . You got this just keep calling your family so you don’t feel lonely.

[@kashaf5884]

Girl, it's okay. I get it, okay, don't worry. Sometimes you need to cry it out. I had my own personal sob sesh in my bathroom my first week. But I have gone through a month without seeing my parents or my baby brother, and if I can do that girly, you can too. And this feeling of loneliness is just universal, I call my family almost every day. I know you will get through it and stay strong. ❤

[@Elaronna]

hi ariana i couldn’t think of what to comment when i had first watched this video since there were so many other comments doing a great job at comforting u already! i haven’t been to college yet and i feel really behind and most of all the least experienced to give advice lol. however i just thought of u and hope u are doing even the slightest little bit better. u deserve to experience the college life but this time around u are chasing something u really really aspire for urself! u have become a go-getter and that’s something u should applaud urself for 🫂🫂 sending u lots of virtual love 💗🩷💗🩷

[@momlifecleaningandeveryday1988]

I feel you I know how it feels I moved away and never got to say goodbye before my mom past away a year ago I miss her so much

[@brendad940]

I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs friend.

[@lenystipene60]

Ariana, that's life. Being away from your family prepares you for adulthood. Their roll to teach you how to survive lifes endless situations. Focus on your goals, your future & the magical journey ahead. Look at all of your blessings & be thankful for them. There are so many people who would love to be you. You got this honey. Much love & light. 🙏❤

[@briannamccarthy2366]

When I went to college I moved a couple states away and had no one that I knew and let me tell you that first time having to say bye for a long period of time is the worst. I was crying so much and felt so overwhelmed that I didn’t know what to feel. Like I was excited about where I chose to go but in that moment I felt so alone and I had never felt that so it was a scary feeling. It takes time to adjust but soon you’ll be doing a lot better and just remember some ppl long distance school from family just doesn’t work out and that’s okay. You’re trying a new experience though and that’s amazing no matter what. Good luck and you got this!!!

[@joanwallace28]

So proud of you. Ari . My youngest granddaughter will be going to college next year and I’m sure she’ll be going through these transitions the same as you. You’ve got this sweetie.think about your goals and go for it. The holidays will be here before you know it.

[@anitascolack3639]

Big hugs to you sweetheart ❤ you'll be able to get through this. You're such a strong girl.

[@1962MissPenny]

Sweetie, you'll be ok. I'm praying for you. Love from Canada.

[@GillianLarmond]

Hey Ari! When you are from a big loving family and then suddenly you are far away from them, you will feel the way you do. But I am glad to see you enjoy making and having your meal and feeling better. Yes, you will be alright. You can do it. Call your parents, siblings, or friends when you feel lonely. You will make new friends at school soon. It's part of your journey to be who you want to become. Sending you love and hugs.

[@Esisauden]

Gurl i know this feeling. I had this too. Just keep going and one day you are going to realize you come so far. Don’t bail. U just need to get used to this.

[@lynntoews5773]

Ari!!! You got this girl!! I moved out at the age 21.... it was hard... I have faith in you

[@Southern61678]

"People cry, not because they are weak. It's because they've been strong for too long."

[@susangartenberg3992]

You will be okay I am sure this brings back feelings from childhood. You are not alone. You can do it. Lots of love ❤️

[@re575817]

God Bless, good luck, pull it together. This what college is all about.

[@jillmax398]

Ariana, being away from home is harder than you’ll ever have to deal with, but you’re a strong young lady. Always remember your parents will answer the phone anytime you call them and you need to talk. My granddaughter just moved to Augusta Georgia and I haven’t seen her since July but she FaceTime to me whenever she gets time. Right now you’re feeling the loneliness but your life will get so busy with school that it will become easier to deal with. I’ll say prayers for you.

[@gweisa899]

Also same boat I went to college far from home and cried the first day. It definitely will get better when you find your friends and classmates. Take it some time understand the emotion you will be ok.

[@vivianencarnacion6946]

Sweetie you got this. Every college student that goes away is feeling just like you right this minute. I have to college graduate that felt just like you. Once you make friends and on your own everything will fall into place. Put yourself out there. Hugs Ari coming from a parent.

[@DianeSchneider-xe1ho]

Ariana, you've got this! Have a good cry. You are not alone. You may find others in your classes who feel the same way!

[@melissatomarelli287]

Ariana - the first time I moved away from my Mom, I was so home sick. I would call her crying daily. Once you make some friends and get into your routine, things will get a little easier day by day, and then Week by Week. Remember you only have a few weeks until Thanksgiving break! And than Christmas break too

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Good morning Ari happy Saturday morning and I just wanted to say that you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

[@MelJo684]

Feel your feels girl! Wake up everday and take it by the horns! You've got this! Your family is ALWAYS just a phone call away (or video chat) and they are NEVER leaving you. You have conquered 100% of your hardest days....you can do this!!! You're going to love school once you get into a routine and start making friends! Sending hugs and love from NJ! P.S....I also use both of my whole hands to apply moisturizer to my face! 🫢🤣

[@courtneymichaud1583]

You're doing fantastic Ariana !! Keep up the good work and the adulting

[@tracygalloup562]

You got this girl. I live in Georgia,I don't live that far.

[@ashleymcintosh7165]

I feel you girlie. I didn't go that far for college luckily, but in 2014, I decided I wanted to teach on the other side of the world, and I've been working here ever since. I'm now working 10,462 km / 6500 miles away and I'm 14 hours ahead of home. It is hard to have no one. But I'm sure you'll make lots of friends and do great!

[@Yahsharsarah]

Ariana, you got this! Never feel ashamed for missing your family….We all go though it. You will have a break and can go visit or they can come to you….Your mom and dad will be there on the double if you need them. We got you here in Georgia so no worries……

[@hazelnutmango]

You got this!! ❤️ one day you’ll look back and it will be memories ❤️❤️

[@baileylaudicina6255]

ARIANA , your gonna do big things , and your siblings and family is sooo proud of you as well and you GOT THIS ❤️😌 I’m here from Georgia and am always accepting new friendsss !! I’m located probably 30 mins south from you !!! 😊 stay strong love ❤️

[@patriciamartinez7889]

It’s ok to cry it’s a big adjustment , you got this ! You can face time them . I would be crying too ! You will be meet friends

[@hannahscakecreations]

Everyone feels like this moving away girl this is what shows how amazing your family is I am so sorry…it’s so hard. ❤️you will make friends