Henry thank for telling us your story , it sounds like timing was everything in your case too ! Missing that boat an then it getting sunk time was on your side needless to say. About Mary I understand her the persecution was to much for her the fear of almost everyone against me , I too would had done almost anything to get away with my live. What bothers me most about all this, is the children I would had left them with anyone n not put them through this, but again that's hindsight .