First Time Hearing Stay With Me by In Flames | Suicide Survivor Reacts

[@MentalAmanda]

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[@damienosullivan193]

3 uploads in 5 days, you have had a busy week😀😀😀.

[@deathjoker666]

You're never a burden. I will never put somebody down for their depression or other mental issues they go through.

[@josephmacalister5821]

Hey Amanda, it's been a month eh? Stay strong y'all.

[@GuChakk]

React listen to MILLENCOLIN - Farewell my hell // Acoustic @ Monster Bash, Berlin . On KZbin. I watched your Fade To Black and had tears in my eyes . I sang it back in school in a church at school ending or what you call it. In Flames are from Sweden 🇸🇪, so are Millencolin and so am I.

[@Poison669]

After i was in a surgery accident i did loose alot of my will of life, but i did always have my family and friends to back me up. I have lost 6 friends and really close one, some of them sucides. And everytime i visit the graveyard. I always ask my self why am i here and not those guys, and i have fought my inner demons. But life is so mutch more, and i know i have those guys and girls as my guardian angels. So we will always fight on! And be kind to eachother, you never know when someone is fighting a hard battle. Just a hello can be just a light for the day to still continue.

[@jjrod2988]

Anders Fridén the lead singer once said in an interview he doesn't like to tell people what the meaning is behind their songs, that if our interpretation makes the song special and touch us in a personal way, then there's no wrong answer.

[@swagnermiteTV]

I got goosebumps the first time I heard it. I was driving my car in the rain at night, while I was very broken. Now it is very special to me

[@xenogenesis9635]

I probably watched this reaction for the 20th time now. It's insane that barely anyone reacted to this beautiful song. What makes this reaction so good is the genuine happiness on your face when you see people enjoying a concert. I'm not religious, but bless you!

[@thesteakout]

Thank you for looking into In Flames, I wish more channels would react to more of the songs. Also Soilwork have very good songs. These two bands even did a collaboration music video thing where the both made a video that were mirrored to the other bands. Trigger-In Flames and Rejection Role- Soilwork

[@Adamantiummonke]

well said

[@andreas956]

Soilwork is my favourite metal band ever. Best Swedish metal band.

[@williamallen7984]

Agreed. I love In Flames so much and I feel like even after over two decades of just absolutely killing it, they’re still under appreciated

[@KrisiumSoul]

I second your comment

[@MusicmyZombie]

The way he changes voice in the end is just amazing and pure

[@dethincarnate1149]

Pure emotion

[@MusicmyZombie]

@@dethincarnate1149 fact

[@IamVintage72]

I love In flames. I found them after a bad break up. This song is so emotional and has the perfect balance. I love your reaction 😊

[@shannonmichael4773]

My favorite song from this band, so beautiful and powerful…like wow. Some people just don’t get metal isn’t just a bunch of dudes screaming, like man you really gotta listen and you hear the story behind there songs. I mean granted this song in particular is actually slower but still, such a good song.

[@thepeacesyndicate]

That’s because most of the people that say that sh** are either Taylor Swift fans or have never had such an intense emotional feeling as intense as heavy metal songs like this.

[@tonyv.8781]

As someone with our emotional situations, 8 suggest you listen to more metal. It's the only genre that truly has your back without pandering for points.

[@MusicmyZombie]

Always have evryone back...most depression is hidden and it shouldn't be ..let it out

[@PXIOMXTIC]

true

[@MIKEPGH]

I'm struggling not only with mental health but also alcoholism. No drugs EVER. Not even weed. I'm also trying to assist my mum that is mentally not good but also physically not good. I know it could be worse. This is difficult. You do give me hope.

[@MentalAmanda]

If you're ready, I'd be happy to help you look at options for recovery. I believe in you.

[@MusicmyZombie]

We all here for that ear...just someone to listen...let it out we all here for each other

[@brian9547]

I had to subscribe! I think you are a wonderful shoulder for people to lean on and a wealth of emotional support. The world is a better place with you in it. As for the song; one of my all time In Flame favorites! Great interpretation.

[@andhag]

I love everything about your interpretation of this song. It's one of my favorites from In Flames, and like most of their music it leaves a lot of room for people to find new and interesting meaning in the lyrics. You gave me a new perspective on this song and I'm so grateful of that. Being disconnected from your feelings is Only For the Weak.♥

[@KellKheraptis]

I can 100% feel you on fear of abandonment, and that anxiety over being ghosted specially has spilled over into other relationships for me. Just here recently even :/ The events of this past January massively agitated all of that, as did what happened around Halloween. If there is an upside, it's that knowing is half the battle.

[@skakangi]

When this song came out, I wrote the lyrics, to my 13 year old daughter , in a card and also put it on her iPod. Because I knew my marriage was about to end and knew she would be raised by people that would tear me down and raise her in a way I would never have raised both girls. Now, I went from a dad she adored to not caring enough to even respond to a simple “ I love you “. Sucks to be thrown away…

[@MentalAmanda]

I can only imagine how much that hurts. I hope one day she sees the truth.

[@juancarlos18867]

Thank you Amanda, I didn't know the group and I liked it very much. A hug

[@BerishStarr]

Swedish Metal! In Flames are legends over here. Also, break the mental health stigma. Mental Health matters!

[@MusicmyZombie]

Legends in the world....inflameswetrust

[@kylemiller4091]

Glad to see you are still here and working through your stuff. Alive and screaming, as it were. Seeing someone stand up to life, and come out better, helps a lot. The strength is in you, and seeing it might make someone else recognize it in themself. Every single one that does has unimaginable value.

[@OU-tn4nt]

Such a beautiful song Amanda, one of my favorite songs by them.

[@hughoneill9833]

Strength and love from Ireland and thanks for looking at In Flames. Ive loved them for 30 years, we say ... in flames we trust. You are never alone and all is never lost.

[@hughoneill9833]

You are too beautiful to leave this world

[@paulipirat76]

One of my favorite Bands, and one of my favorite Songs!!! Lots of love for you ,too Amanda

[@HiHoSilverAwaaay]

My single favorite song from In Flames! Thank you for doing this one. You got yourself a new subscriber! I look forward to viewing more of your videos!

[@ag0nii]

This song helped me alot and in many ways saved my life a couple of years ago when i was very close to the end. It is still a song i listen too often and everytime i cant hold back the tears but i feel stronger every time to so it is amazing

[@dmck6623]

This song always hits the feels switch. Great interpretation and reaction! Subscribed!

[@dopegamergrandpa7131]

i went through a phase of serious panic attacks out of the blue in january of 2021 and was admitted to the hospital for observation and of course covid didnt allow visitors, i clinged to this song and it literally helped me through that time. the chorus became my own mantra even til this day. anyone that has ever gone through severe panic attacks know it seriously feels like impending doom.. this song saved my life as kitschy as it sounds

[@MentalAmanda]

The night my mom died, I was admitted to the hospital because they said I was suicidal. I was all alone with no contact to the outside world. I sang Leave Out All the Rest by Linkin Park over and over and over. I get it.

[@ntolman]

A song that made cry recently was Dusturbed’s “Hold on to memories”. In Flames’s songs are typically more aggressive/heavy. Songs from them I like are “I Am Above” and “Only for the weak”. You aren’t annoying or a burden. I’d gladly listen to your problems. Another Linkin Park you should consider is “Heavy”. These songs aren’t necessarily being recommended for reactions. They are just to cheer you up when you feel low. “Hypa Hypa” and “We got the moves” by Eskimo Callboy. Funny videos and catchy as hell up beat songs.

[@MentalAmanda]

Heavy is my go to song when I need to fall apart and just be validated in my feelings.

[@Merkurius2]

OMG! I were at that consert, they had it at there own metal festival on northern Öland (Sweden) in an old castle ruin.

[@metalisdashitdude95]

I was there. It was such a surreal experience hearing this masterpiece of a song with the orchestra in the background. Not gonna lie that i got emotional and will remember that concert for many years.

[@fkisteppedonlegos1364]

Keep being awesome. Great tune, been listening to inflames since the late 90's. Love em

[@vladdrac17]

A beautiful song by one of my favorite bands!!! I see others saying do this or that song next but if you ever do In Flames again the number one song should be Metaphor. ONE of the most beautiful songs EVER written!!!

[@thesteakout]

In flames is such an underrated band. I wish more channels would give this band a shot

[@MusicmyZombie]

@@thesteakout there amazing since my h school days...decades...lol

[@vladdrac17]

@@thesteakout I 100% agree with you! First time I heard of them was when reroute to remains came out! Such a great band and so great live!

[@raymondaranda8716]

Great taste in music...I grew up with stabbing westward, linkin park, in flames, bullet for my valentine, finger eleven, 90s were awesome

[@builtonstruggle1]

I actually hadn't heard this song before but I used to listen to in flames a lot. They used to be a much more aggressive sounding band, but this was good in a different way and sounded like a good message. Like hearing your interpretation a lot too

[@saisixstring]

God, as soon as the guitar comes in, I immediately choke up. I unexpectedly lost my best friend almost two years ago; if I could speak to him just one more time, this is the song I would sing. Anders' screaming at the end rips my grief fully open, and I can't help but sob.

[@MIKEPGH]

Happy to see you seemingly better. I hope you're actually better. 😊

[@pr0tese]

That scream in the end gets me every time!

[@darrenhunt9049]

Hello again Amber, my favourite song that sums up a lot of my self is "Paying my way " by the Dropkick Murphys. Could be seen as a downer but to me is like resurrection.

[@MusicmyZombie]

Rose tattoo...or state of MA....im not born in Boston..promise...lol

[@thepoisoncrow5721]

I interpret “stay with me” as this person reaching out to them and basically saying “i know what you’re going through, you should see where I have been. Stay with me and I can lead you out of this darkness”. The person saying stay with me has gone through the same thing and survived and wants to help the person they are talking to. And doesn’t want them to wind up losing their battle and being lost to the darkness

[@Horizzzz]

Hope u`re doing well, Amanda. Reaction`s heartwarming

[@deaankoekemoer5471]

Thanks for another good reaction 🤘🏻 I get a slightly different vibe from the song but that's the beauty of music imho. The back and forth between the person in the hole and the person trying to help is so true. There have been times that I was an asshole by not phoning friends when their loved ones have passed because I was "too afraid of saying the wrong thing". I'll have to work on that the next time something like that happens. Just that phone call could have helped a teensy tiny bit.

[@michaelhogan470]

Hi, loved your genuine reaction.

[@Justsomeboringjunk]

Been watching some of your videos, and love the channel! One song that REALLLY helped me a lot when I was in darker spots was "True" by Amaranthe. Based on some of the things you said in some reactions, it might be right up your alley!

[@fohelle1990]

As I suicide survivor this song hit hard when it came out (I have been in flames fan since 12 years old and they have helped alot), I almost took my life 2 times ( I got lucky both times that my older brother saved me both times) after I got in serious accident that had me stay more or less in hospital for 2 years, while all my friends had fun i could not sit, stand or lay in bed with out so much pain that even painkillers did not work on, and he is the reason I am still here as he kept me positive and helped with rehabilitation of body that my doctor said would no be possible, Then few years later my older brother took his life and 2 of my friends all with in 6 months. That took so much to stay positive as I blamed myself for what happend, as he had saved me 2 times and helped me through all the pain I had but i could not save or help him that one time he needed my help. And i almost fell back into this hole of depression and suicide thoughts, but that was not an option that i had, i have a beautiful daughter that I have to stay here for and she deserves that I give it everything I have to not fall in that hole again. My brother took his life when my daughter was almost 2 years old, I feel like he knew that I was safe now and I would take care of his son, so he could go to a better place Everytime I hear this song it reminds me that I have to stay as I have to much to live for. I have never told that story not even my wife or mother knows how close I came to take my life 2 times, only me and my brother. Also reccomandtions songs that helps me stay on the right track and remined me of the good side of life Five finger death punch - brighter side of grey Asking alexandria - You have made it this far

[@MentalAmanda]

I am so happy you felt safe to open up and that you are still here. I'm sorry for your brother, but he did go knowing how loved he was and trusted that you would keep fighting and make his memory proud. I hope he rests in peace and that you continue to heal.

[@nguyenquoctan547]

IT IS AWESOME TO SEE FEEL ON YOUR FACE. YOUR EXPLAINS ALSO REALLY BEAUTIFUL

[@lonelysdomain]

In Flames has been my favorite band since 95 ish. one of the songs on the same album as stay with me titled In This Life its a great song that to me describes how i feel when my depression kicks up. I believe you would appreciate the song but it will tug the heartstrings.

[@MusicmyZombie]

I miss his dreads...lol...95 sounds right...i was in h school when in flames we trust came to me

[@lonelysdomain]

@@MusicmyZombie ya im wrong. it was 94 cuz i was 10 when i first heard in flames (song) and hargalaten however 96 is when i really got into them with moonshield and the rest of the jester race. and now my 4 yr old loves them lol.

[@wonderbread4725]

They’ve covered so much ground in their decades . I’ve been stuck on cone clarity for a bit.

[@LegProj_ZP_UA]

Hello) Cool and cute react on that ON OF BEST SONGS EVER))) I in love with your nails, this manicure really suits you :) Have s good day🤘🤭

[@ilo5736]

Yo… that reaction at 08:09 was so adorable! Like you were trying to match his level of “aggressiveness” or whatever but failed miserably, but in a cute way hahaha

[@jesantana777]

I never watch reaction videos, but for some reason I stopped at yours. I'm a musician or at least I try to be and when you get to do something like that with someone it's been worth it all. That In Flames track is very important to me too. Hugs from Caracas, Venezuela.

[@darrenhunt9049]

Love you Kid never lose focus ❤

[@jeffgarlitz8747]

OMG great song. In Flames is great. Really check more out like Deliever Us, of Mirrors Truth, or Only for the Weak remastered

[@donaldparlettjr3295]

I hope things are on the upswing from your detestation a couple of days ago. I'm praying for you young lady.

[@matihero333]

I don't know if you already reacted to A tout le monde from Megadeth. That song meant a lot to me when I was fighting my first depression wave. Also, I love your content, keep the good job! :D

[@MentalAmanda]

I sure did! kzbin.info/www/bejne/nKKbaYt4nsagqc0

[@MusicmyZombie]

Amazing song and band

[@marinedude_06]

Hi Amber I'm Steve and as a TBI (traumatic brain injury) survivor I have mental health issues as suicide has is always looming at the back of my mind, usually late at night. I was in the Marine Corps on my way back to base from my great grandmother's funeral and was in a car wreck that left my in a coma for 3 weeks. This was back in '08. I still can't believe it was over a decade ago! Anyway a song that I think you'd appreciate is Stay by Cradle of Filth. A great balad from an extreme metal band.

[@MentalAmanda]

Thank you so much for your service and for opening up and sharing here. I'm a message away if you ever need to talk.

[@digitalmouse3314]

I freaking love this album it's their prettiest album wormhole is good too. Whole album has the same vibe and is amazing came out at the perfect time.

[@QingWeiSanguine]

One of my favorite bands! :) Kept me through my teenage years and beyond!

[@andrewdubs8643]

Ive been a huge a fan of this ban for year and the ups and downs the drinking drugs this band has been my everyting cause the lyrics hit every time.

[@CaptainRandus]

Nothing is better for mental health than metal music, specifically Swedish Melodic Death Metal

[@CollinsOEF]

There are a lot of great KoRn songs about mental health and struggles. “Dirty”, “Pretty”, “alone I break”. They are some of the songs that can really hit hard.

[@bararobberbaron859]

I realize I'm quite a few months late, but I've always understood it as a sort of mentor relationship, where the person singing has been through that particular hell. They are trying to get their person to open their eyes, face reality and stick with them as they are trying to lead them to the light, as it's a path the person singing has walked before. I grant you, their lyrics are multi-interpretable and I don't think that's on accident. But the way I hear it, it's transcended love being poured out. It's not platonic or romantic, it's purely love for the fellow human, let me do good with the bad I've experienced. It's very powerful, the idea that the scars you've caught going through life could actually be used in a positive way, your damage isn't all bad. Not to say you should look to get damaged obviously, but life will do that to most of us regardless.

[@darrenhunt9049]

I'm a 51yo Man and you sound exactly the same as I feel.

[@jamiepatterson5189]

I love this song and I love your channel. I’ll fight with you for a while 😢

[@jamiepatterson5189]

My journey has only made me stronger. I realize now that I can’t do it alone but with the help of others, I feel encouraged to move on.

[@MusicmyZombie]

So happy i woke to this.....stay with me...

[@TheTobaccoman]

I think it’s saying the world takes you to a dark place , stay with me feels like telling someone to take in life , stay in the light and away from wanting death. Maybe someone fighting to stay alive or stay away from thoughts of ending it all. It could work for either really. It’s a fight to stay , and when you care it’s your fight as well with them. Fighting to not let them give up.

[@Connorharris1204]

Another fantastic In Flames song is a very old one "Come Clarity" Love In Flames, awesome band

[@RaptorAmbush]

Love In Flames, Just subscribed been watching some of your videos. I'm 24 and a suicide survivor as well. Still fighting battles with my depression and anxiety but I'm doing a lot better these days. Would be awesome if you reacted to "Unfurl" by Katatonia. Gorgeous band

[@MentalAmanda]

The battle always wages, we just have to keep picking up ammo and stepping back as needed.

[@thedude9082]

Five Finger Death Punch - Coming Down. Video can be hard to watch but ending is so worth. Such a personal song for me. Keep up the great work girl.

[@josephwarrior4720]

If you've got time and need some inspiration... try out. Skillet - Not gonna die Skillet - Hero Skillet - Awake and Alive Skillet - Whispers in the dark God bless. Stay strong 💪🏼

[@davidward9737]

We love you. Just listen to the music.. King of Wishful thinking. After your divorce and I lost my hero

[@rob3040]

Man, just wait until you hear "Pure light of mind" form this band.

[@nitroswmmer1146]

You’re videos are always amazing and have certainly helped me at some of my lowest points. One song I’d be interested in seeing you react to is “The Gift” by Seether. I think it’s an interesting view on the feelings one might have AFTER an episode or event.

[@conny74]

This video is performed at Öland in the Kings old castle ruin Borgholm amazing place that holds a lot of concerts summertime 🤟

[@jaystechroom]

Look up raised fist-Into this world Great video!

[@kentmalmstrom8528]

J.P And The homemade Band 1. No name (little about Fritzl in Austria) ". He´s Alive (very good) An amateur from sweden but I think you will like it

[@stefanandersson894]

You should do "All The Pain" by them. Another really magical song

[@CrazyWizardPyro]

Great reaction :)

[@jotun.616]

I can see the light. Just stay with me.

[@MusicmyZombie]

Awww so happy....

[@НикитаКиняев-ф4о]

Thx for reaction!

[@romanwrobel2770]

Those headphones are bad ass !!!

[@lostlothbrok7156]

My understanding of the song is someone crying out to someone dying "stay with me" and the other person who's fading "I can see the light" perhaps a story of suicide prevention? In Flames is awesome 🤘🏻

[@MusicmyZombie]

Scared for loving and fear...stay with me..dont let them winnn....ill have your back...please let me in...open eyes...ill be here for you....thats what i get from this song....the fear of loving someone

[@kananijames8488]

In flames rulez..... you definitely need to react to Disturbed "a reason to fight" its dedicated to mental health pretty emotional.......

[@MentalAmanda]

Here ya go! Special guest with me even! kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z3elZIasgt9pmrM

[@MusicmyZombie]

Yayyyyy... Thats my top 5 songs

[@jtarvid86]

You should check out Old Hearts Fall by Katatonia, it's awesome.

[@MichaelFaglier]

The Light - Disturbed Hold on to Memories - Disturbed A Reason to Fight - Disturbed Coming Down - FFDP

[@MentalAmanda]

I did A Reason to Fight! kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z3elZIasgt9pmrM

[@MusicmyZombie]

He begging for you to stay...ill show you the light...i will get better..please stay with me....

[@yergeaph]

What about Swallow the Sun - Cathedrals Walls. Huge emotional piece about anger, death, separation and detachement. Quite powerfull.

[@robgerhardterellen1488]

Mental struggling for light in the darkness, cry for relationship. In Flames, stay with me ..... means also stay with you ....

[@MusicmyZombie]

Stay with me..help me threw this nightmare...dont give up on me....

[@dewaldduplessis265]

Great reeaction and insights. I think the song "Reason to believe" by arch enemy would be a good one to react to at some point.

[@cuiwis]

Oh, I think you would love to hear In Flames: Crawl through knives

[@pavelsuvorov5036]

Hello, beautiful Amanda! Cool song! There are no words for delight!Thank you, dear, great reaction!Listen to Alice Supronova, who sings in the 4 octave range.Beautiful timbre and strong voice!You will be delighted! Give a link?🌹👏🇷🇺

[@Chelsworm]

My brother showed me this song after he found out I was suicidal

[@DavekayBSC]

I HIGHLY recommend "Second Chances" by Gregory Alan Isakov. It's soul healing for me.

[@kimeklund8880]

Awsome awsome love the Old sound… Other bangers Aviana - Rage Imminence - Ghost Orbit Culture - Carvings Night Crowned - Nattkrönt Vildhjarta - Kaos2 DEMOTIONAL - Bärsärk The halo Effect - shadowminds

[@benwebb4424]

I am going to recommend Psycho Killer by Talking Heads for a different take on mental health that I don't think has been discussed on the channel. Also the song is really damn catchy.

[@romanwrobel2770]

Is it about Jesper ? This is emotional song !!

[@grahamhennessy348]

Hi Amanda, listen to "Shakespears Sister - Stay (Official Video)". Its from 1992. A story within a video. Stay safe.

[@defter6800]

I think this song about that some of your friends or people around will die at some point, and you should be at current moment with them because this moment might be last

[@dkmcbigsley]

Have you heard Alone You Breathe by Savatage?

[@michaeldecker3480]

Check out Stay by Shakespeare 's Sister

[@raymondaranda8716]

The chosen pessimist is a great sad song

[@erichchiarelli4377]

Amazing

[@matthewdorado7506]

I'm so in love 🥰 😍 ❤

[@DavidBloodJohnson]

This song got me through my girlfriends suicide and holding her dead body

[@MentalAmanda]

Sorry for your lose.

[@tes33720]

Just wanted to ask you to react to "15 minutes of Fame" by citizen soldier. About suicide. Really good