FIRST TRAIL RIDE GONE WRONG! Day 181 (06/30/19)

[@showjumpingpeggy2340]

I think Stella went faster up the hill, because it's harder work for them to walk up a hill than to canter or trot it.

[@ponylove4063]

Yes I agree

[@themcmillenfamily6631]

Mhmm

[@Sophie-sx4lu]

Showjumping Peggy agree

[@bella-bj6cw]

well it gives them more energy

[@alexandrasmith8650]

We have alot of horses and every single horse trots up hill it's easier.

[@halliegutierrez2000]

I've never seen a more stressed and nervous rider before just relax and enjoy the trails and ride the horse is really well behaved and knows what shes doing just guide her you'll be fine trust me!

[@Reggiezs]

Don't be rude literally everyone gets stressed props to her getting on that horse and slaying the day. Watch your mouth hater that girl ate and she slays till this day. What a thriving story love this youtube channel.

[@sofienielsen7625]

@@Reggiezs shes not rude?

[@jasonwarriner8568]

You should get a go pro so when you go on trails you have both hands to control your hors

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Totally

[@jasonwarriner8568]

@@aleksandraswiercz480 I didn't know that

[@chanelhawkins2387]

Agreed that’s why she had barely any control going up the hill as she was recording and holding the reins with one hand 🙅🏼‍♀️

[@abbykertesz4243]

Horse you mean Katelynn 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😅😅😅😁😁😁😄😄😄😆😆😆

[@abbieoakdeep6381]

Yea Like Kayleigh

[@destinylishea1475]

Panicking and Crying and whining is not going to make anything better. Laura, you're the adult there. You need to keep yourself together or you're gonna make everybody else start to get insecure and panicky. It wasn't even that bad.

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Yup!

[@annslimez1855]

I'm pretty sure it was all in jokes. And you can tell that, her daughters are just fine. Everyone just laughs at Laura's comments

[@darbyandolivia9075]

Destiny Lishea this was a scary situation. Complaining about a person isn’t going to make anything better it will make it worse. Laura was trying her best☺️

[@shealeon6284]

Destiny Lishea exactly what I was thinking

[@khall9248]

Thank you so much for this comment, now I don't have to try and type it out. It's incredibly frustrating when I see someone much older than me be so scared on a horse. Honestly, pull it together! There was sure as heck no immediate danger to be worried about. If you're calm your horse should feel a lot more secure.

[@moppymal4754]

Laura: *terrified* Stella: this is a pretty cool buffet

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Hahaha

[@g3a1ach14]

So cute 😂😂

[@ponylove4063]

Lol

[@milliebond4550]

Lamo

[@ftfstaats]

I just laughed out loud

[@equestriannewbies889]

I'll tell ya what Laura, that trotting will get you in shape fast! You have really got to do some confidence building exercises though. There's no reason to be so scared. Acting scared like that can be SUPER dangerous. You've been taking lessons for quite some time now, so you're not a new rider. You can do it!!!

[@horseandogs]

Totally agree!! Have confidence Laura you can do it!!

[@elizabethpeters9875]

I totally agree with you! That squeeling can upset your horse and when you want to stop, you pull on the reins and squeeze with your legs, until the horse stops. The horse is not the boss, you are!

[@AmyLouiseYT]

Keeping in mind that she only broke her hip in so many places back before Christmas and trails are new for her.

[@equestriannewbies889]

Amy Louise Yes, I definitely know the history. Being scared and yelling out can cause a horse to spook and possibly cause a wreck. Dangerous. Confidence is critical when riding though and very important to build again after a fall. I’m 54 and have definitely fallen a few times, including broken ribs earlier this year. You pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back on. After the bones heal of course!

[@elizabethpeters9875]

@@AmyLouiseYT she has been trained how to stop her horse though.

[@trinketskyelover5400]

stella is the best trail horse she doesn’t care about anything she’s just a little fast for laura

[@DayByDayVlogs]

She was so good!

[@equineedits8796]

She wasn’t even going fast

[@emilyrose1576]

TiernyJ - u have a point

[@ponylove4063]

Stella was so good

[@rosebrewis3718]

TiernyJ not to long ago before this she broke her tail bone so if you fell of and did that you would be scared to so she isn’t a wimp🙄

[@sophietong703]

I’m not hating but maybe Laura could have a helmet cam so it would be easier to vlog and ride ? Xx

[@soullessmute]

Jasmin Sears that’s not hating at all! I totally agree with you. I think it would be cool to do that!

[@enolasilvester4249]

Jasmin Sears I agree ☝️

[@summerhew7038]

Agreed

[@florencerattray18]

I agree!

[@laurenspeck1559]

4:40 -everytime i get on a horse i say a prayer and if i die on a horse, then i die doing what i love best. I die doing what i was brought on this earth to do. I die doing what fulfils me in life. Im dead because my passion is dangerous. I take the risk every time my foot sets into my stirrup. Deep breaths and sit up. Breath the same breaths the horse breaths. Have your heart beat with the horses hoof beats. Think about why your on a horse, why you love the horse, why you are devoted hundreds of hours to taking hard riding lessons and pushing limits. You do this because what you love is deadly. Dont let fear have a fraction of you. Hope this helps, love you laura and soph!

[@sofiad3821]

Lauren Speck WOW! Well said!

[@stepheventing9414]

You know that is so true and I’m hoping that when I die I’m riding my horse

[@misslauracarrie]

I couldn’t have said it better

[@lizk12]

You’re yelling at your kid to relax but you’re panicking more than anyone in the group....

[@Sophie-sx4lu]

lizk12 agree

[@Raven_playys]

Kayleigh and gabby whent quite well

[@susanford6926]

I agree with you lizk12!

[@izzytorres6176]

100000 percent agree

[@mxmeltdown]

I know kids watch these videos but i have to say to Gabby...HELL YES GIRL! I see so much of my younger riding self in her and she is improving so greatly she ABSOLUTELY has natural talent for it. Keep up the good work Gabby and the confidence!

[@stepheventing9414]

Melissa Meltdown IKR

[@oliviag1664]

Yup are so right gabby is so good. And when I saw her jump over the tree I was so impressed. I wanted to do that so badly!!

[@Raven_playys]

My name is Melissa

[@parkerstephens4559]

Laura, Horses WANT a leader! YOU CAN NOT LET YOUR CONFIDENCE DROP!!!! YOU are in charge! NOT Stella! You need to DEMAND her to stop or for her to do ANYTHING!!!! Be the BOSS! be the STRONG LEADER!!!!! YOU CAN DO THIS!!!! AND STELLA WILL DO THIS WITH YOU AT YOUR COMMAND!!! She WILL listen to you! Not just maybe, or sometimes listen to you she WILL! You have got this Laura! I BELIEVE IN YOU!!!!! BE THE LEADER THE BOSS, THE PERSON IN CONTROL!!! You. Can. Do This.

[@ambersvlogs6269]

Wow

[@soullessmute]

Parker Stephens I honestly really appreciate how you said this, all the comments I’ve seen is about Sophie and Laura being little babies. Like.... it can be nervracking sometimes. Yes sometimes I agree on training a little bit in an arena but I don’t be a little butt about it.

[@parkerstephens4559]

@@soullessmute Thanks! The phrase I wrote is sometimes screamed to me also!😂

[@soullessmute]

Parker Stephens 😂

[@kendra4548]

Laura: now do you feel silly for all that crying you did. *laura thinks back to when she screamed cause her horse trotted* : oh.

[@deborahregan5377]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@hagwoodperformancehorses5132]

Hahaha

[@emmaward8248]

Lol

[@andyhockeyreview5368]

What video was it?

[@Isobel201]

Stella was fine, Laura, you just need to stay calm and enjoy the trail!

[@randyvilleneuve6632]

She just need to enjoy here life

[@themcmillenfamily6631]

She’s lucky to even have a horse to ride! She needs to suck it up and be the adult here

[@miadegrechie4144]

The McMillen Family she had a horrible fall and is now scared imagine breaking your pelvis and being in a hospital

[@bella-bj6cw]

@@NoThankUBeQuiet trails arent scary

[@shayleeslittlezoo1624]

KMichelle Argus, if you know how to ride a horse there aren’t scary😂

[@sarahhinckley6068]

Omg lol I just watched it! LAURA YOU STUCK IT!!!! It’s easier for horses to go faster up a hill because they get traction

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Ya! That's why I let her!

[@Rebelgirl-kv6bd]

I can't lie I laughed my butt off when y'all went up that hill, lmao!!! Stella did amazes tho, she's a good girl.

[@ameliasaville3833]

Their gaits are much smoother, too, when it's uphill. 😊

[@Sophie-sx4lu]

Agree

[@zanna2679]

Laura: lets just take a deep breath Everyone else: ..... 😂😂 Laura just remember Stella feeds off of your emotions so if you are calm she is calm

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Oh I was working on calm!

[@judithgraves8294]

@@DayByDayVlogs Quit screeching, that is not calm.

[@jenniferlehman2464]

@@judithgraves8294 Laura expresses her anxiety by the high pitched voice. Yes, that does not help situations, but don't you dare take away from her and Sophie the fact that they faced a very real fear and conquered it. If you can't be positive in your criticism, please don't bully them with how you express yourself!

[@Emmmm8134]

@@judithgraves8294 shut up Judith!!

[@taylorgallant7123]

If you own horses and your too scared to go on a simple trail ride you shouldn’t own horses

[@xdodmoorchardonnayx5339]

Taylor Gallant that’s not it at all?? i own a horse and went through a stage of being terrified to hack, doesn’t mean i should have sold her though? instead of patronising equestrians everytime they show signs of nerves, encourage them to work through it with an instructor and in the school.

[@mennaequestrian1827]

If you fell of a horse and had a serious injury would you have the same confidence? Laura’s come so far since her accident and just because she is scared now doesnt mean that she will never be confident again!

[@taylorgallant7123]

Menna Equestrian no I went through the same thing I fell off and I understand that she was scared I’m not talking about her I was talking about Sophie she jumps she shouldn’t have this fear at that stage

[@xdodmoorchardonnayx5339]

Taylor Gallant i jump but i’m scared of going out. there’s a difference between jumping in an arena and riding your horse in an unknown place, where they could bolt to god knows where. stop making anxiety in equestrians into a taboo subject.

[@graceblack156]

Taylor Gallant, she’s all like omg am I gonna die on this trail today?! No I’m not... yes I am...

[@kieranhunter3037]

This lady genuinely make my blood curl. MAN UP. THE HORSE ISNT DOING ANYTHING. YOU ARE THE ADULT ACT LIKE IT!

[@BunnyHop126]

Kieran Hunter dead asss 😂😂😂😂 this channel makes me cringe but I can’t help but watch them, the little girl with Finn needs to either stop riding or grow some balllls 😂

[@carolinekrepel3203]

AnonymousBlue I KNOW 💀💀

[@angelinas1684]

AnonymousBlue OMG SOOOOO RELATABLE

[@daniqueschukkink9954]

AnonymousBlue so true😂

[@hannah2778]

Exactly !!

[@makaylahopwood1583]

i love it... heres Laura at the start of the video freaking out yet stella is being amazing...

[@graciechristinedavis3375]

Why are you blaming your horse for everything you do realize your in control

[@socialcommunist6253]

Why do you complain so much

[@hazelmerrill3932]

She never blamed her horse -.-

[@liaa815]

Ikr when she said don't go on the stick when she can turn!

[@chloemair1329]

Low ur channel. But Laura “shouts” at Stella and tells her not to trip on the stick and don’t canter but she isn’t controlling her she just speaking. No hate. Just saying😂

[@sunsetasmrr]

I think it would be good for Laura and Sophie to try a trail ride with Fiona, Bc it seems like you two just aren’t the most confident on the trail and it is helpful to have your trainers there to knock some sense into you 😂

[@jasmineskywater8577]

Stella is picking up on your fear. I know how hard this is because after a nasty fall I was the exact same way but I promise once you start to trust her again and calm down, she will too! I believe in you both

[@madelynlambert8670]

“if my horse starts to trot then we’re trotting.” no, you control the horses pace.

[@norabendz1691]

please don’t scream the horse can get frightened

[@queencharlotto8681]

A big tip if she gets quicker and spooks stay as calm as possible because otherwise she will get more scared and go faster and go further 😊

[@jasonwarriner8568]

I've been waiting for this all day never clicked faster in my life Edit:thanks for all the likes

[@McJLady23]

Yeah mean either! 😄

[@vlogqueensx3830]

Same 😂

[@anodogaron1554]

Laura: *tapes the jumping* Tex: *Comes in with leaves in his mouth* Sup. Lol that was funny. I think you did well. Maybe you would be better with a very flat and easy trail ride to get used to it more lol. I'm no expert, just wanna make that suggestion. I'm just glad you guys are all alright. I hope Kayley's lip is okay though.

[@s.wernerdudesdivast-shirts9007]

1. If your stressed the horse is stressed so dont stress 2.horses will always wanna eat its natural control your reins 3.if you cant control or work with a horse dont own one 4.crying and whining doesn’t stop anything 5. If your crying or whining the horse senses fear and takes advantage of you 6.dont go up a horses butt because that horse might buck and then you have a bunch of problems

[@tikkanlangland9533]

Preach.

[@mintbork7932]

7:41 I don't think getting whacked in the face by someone elses tail was a fun experience for stella

[@rockybreyers4466]

It’s kinda dangerous running in an unknown field. There could be holes and you horses could easily break a leg

[@ScarlettGreenhawk]

THREE THING YOU NEED TO CHANGE. -Get a helmet cam so you don’t have to only hold the reins with one hand. -Stay calm on your horse. -Also you can’t tell your horse to “stop looking at the grass” you have to make her. -If you don’t have any experience with it (like trail riding) get a professional! -Don’t stay up another horse’s but. -Don’t panic on a horse. -Please stop yelling on a horse. -Take control of your dang horse. -Don’t give your daughter your “afraid” of. I have bin on a trail ride, and fell off face first, down a hill.

[@newttherankinsdragon8478]

I love how Stella's ears perked forward when she was going through the water😍

[@thoroughbredqueen7207]

19:39 Everyone : Omg she cut her lip Me : Tex is a mood with dat snacc he grabbed

[@emmalou4633]

For trails I think Laura should have a helmet cam if she is riding. I think this is safer and you have more control over your horses, Because you have both hands free to stop your horse. Love you ❤️😘

[@cmilmequine145]

Ok I’m sorry but I was laughing through this entire video! 😂 Your doing great Laura. Maybe ride with a go-pro that has a mic so you can have both reins 😂💞

[@destinationdo-overandthead3525]

Me too!!! Love them all!

[@Raven_playys]

Pit one on top of your helmet

[@MissuMrBean]

I felt your heart racing, thanks for the giggles.

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Hahah thanks

[@bubblinequeen5287]

As hard as this sounds Laura, you just can’t be scared. The horses feed off that and they will become stressed too. You need to not worry about everything. Horses will be horses. They might trip, spook, bolt ect. You just need to try and get over this fear. You will be absolutely fine if you don’t worry.

[@faithathey109]

Laura it is ok to be scared. Baby steps. I see you in the near future galloping Stella in an open field having the time of your life. You are an amazing person and rider. Looking back on when I first started watching your vlogs you were scared to even touch a horse. Look at you now! You have a wonderful farm with four horses!! You and your family has come so far. I love you all very much have a wonderful day!!!♥️♥️♥️

[@lornaboynton840]

OMG, I about died laughing in the end when Willow was just walking through the water. Gabby and Storm looked amazing jumping the twin trees. Maybe she could try a beginner cross country event or even a huntet pace (if they have those up there). Very good job Sophie for overcoming your fears. Laura, you are an incredibly strong person. Keep doing what your doing and things will only get better. One thing you might want to talk to Fiona about is maybe getting Stella a short shank jointed western curb for going on trails with. It has a snaffle mouth but a curb and longer shanks for just a little extra stopping power. Just a thought. Happy trails from Arkansas.

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Thank you! I wasnt really controlling her. She is managed well with her bit. I hate pulling on her!

[@melbowell5601]

DayByDay Vlogs of course you do Laura. It’s just being a little more firm with your requests, so that she understands and respects them and obviously not helped by trying to do these things one handed. I’d really sort out a decent helmet cam or something similar for your trail rides 😊👍

[@haileyperry2973]

you need to act like an adult. grow a pair and stop being afraid. horses sense that. they will take advantage of you for being scared. when you say “stella don’t go that way.” well you kinda have to control the horse before they stop doing anything

[@Sophie-sx4lu]

hailey perry so agree she is crap scared of nothing

[@leonslionessnz4867]

That trail ride looks a lot of fun. Kids stuck on the other side of bushes. Loose mini doing a runner, horses rolling in the water with the rider. The horses would have loved the antics!

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Lol it was seriously fun

[@bonsaitree2771]

I feel like one of the more experienced riders rather than the mom should be bloging so she has both hands.

[@Itslex56]

I would have been enjoying cantering up the hill but I understand why you wouldn’t Laura because of your past which can’t stop you

[@dumbbread7564]

Ok, I’m sorry but you’re clearly not comfortable on that horse. There’s nothing wrong with her she was just a little fast. I am a saddle seat rider so I am writing Morgan’s and saddlebred’s horses that are much more dangerous than these. but if you let any horse know that you’re uncomfortable they are going to start doing things that they want to do and not listen to you.

[@wearefarm-ish4986]

BAHAHAHA Laura if you spent less time worrying and stressing you would really enjoy it hahaha AND YOU WOULD RELAX MORE AND THEREFORE ENJOY MORE - that looked like an amazing fun trail - that's what trails are all about!!!! You need to teach yourself to be cautious in a sensible way but not to over think things ❤❤😘😘

[@DayByDayVlogs]

I do not know.what got into me! I got up there and panic happened! We went up the first hill and bam. I was stressed.

[@peggyc1423]

Stella is a natural trail horse. She had your back!

[@mackenziebernard439]

I love how when Stella cantered up the hill gabby goes "Good job" for laura staying on. lol

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Lol yep! Love that!

[@ava_and_dexter5381]

You guys are the best KZbinrs of all time. Every day you look make me realize that I can believe in myself. You guys are a true inspiration!

[@DayByDayVlogs]

You can believe in yourself! You are awesome!

[@ava_and_dexter5381]

@@DayByDayVlogs thank you so much!

[@rordongamsay1474]

Laura, you should be more calm and relaxed than freaking out, Stella is absolutely amazing and won’t do anything that would harm you x

[@c1ara333]

In my opinion if you are terrified to ride on the trail on Stella don’t force yourself. It dosent look like Stella was stressed but horses can feel your fear and your emotions

[@green_oak_stables1209]

grow up Laura! Stella ain't gonna do nothing to you, she the calm one. tough up and not be scared. btw this is cringy.

[@Addisonlolss]

Number one rule for trail rides! DO NOT LET YOUR HORSE EAT THE GRASS,LEAVES ANYTHING YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT COULD BE IN THEM (Edit) I am not a pro that’s just what my instructor always says when we go on the trail

[@gigikhadra9110]

You don’t deserve a horse if you don’t even know how to ride it🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️

[@QQ-dy6dq]

Gigi25 Khadra she does she rode for years!! She doesn’t know what came across her so you don’t deserve to watch this video if your gonna hate

[@sophiagrace194]

Laura! Stop getting worried and working your self up, if you start getting worried by every movement your horse does then you shouldn’t be riding!

[@marixeuri]

OMG man up! You cantered! When I was on on a trail ride my horse decided to GALLOP! I’ve never galloped before but it was fun. You acted like you were going to die!😑

[@isabellelivingstone2779]

Please calm down. Your horse will pick up on your anxiety and matters will be made worse. Enjoy yourself! If she trots, she trots. No big deal! You've got it! love your vids!

[@aylaespinosa7747]

Tell Sophie not to be so nervous and tell her just to sit and Enjoy the ride

[@landonbarker8711]

Stop with the mean comments she’s trying her best

[@incoherent_gibberish4702]

No offence to Laura at all but I think the best part of the video was watching her freak out😂

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Hahahaha yay

[@animesubya]

Honestly, this video pissed me off. I've been on a horse who was extremely spooky. Want to know what I did, sucked it up. You can't even blame falling off(idk if this is after you fell) because I've fallen off and yet once I was able to get back on, I was fine. Your horse can tell if you are scared. Just clam down, stop yelling at Stella, and enjoy the ride. You can't own a horse if you are going to be this nervous. Simple as that

[@avaschanzenbach3865]

Laura, i think you should take a deep breath and chill out. Horses can tell when you are tense and they will use that to their advantage. You need to focus on relaxing your muscles and calming your mind. This will reflect well on soph as well! :)

[@kazzoey9164]

(Sorry i always comment twice, people always tell me i have too much to say lol!) One very important art to learn is the art of laughing it off! It might not sound very effective but even a fake smile can do a lot in terms of confidence! When you laugh your brain goes “oh wait that means I’m happy! I’m doing great!” And it helps relieve some of the built up stress and panic and get your brain back into focus-mode! You might look a little silly doing it, but it’s definitely worth it in my opinion!

[@DayByDayVlogs]

That's all I do lol.

[@Aubs12-]

What Laura it thinking "why did I do this it's a nightmare" What Stella is thinking "this is great! It's an all you can eat buffet"

[@ayafacan]

Laura why are you so scared!?!?If you are scared your horse should be so scared.Animals are so strong they can feel your feelings.And you don’t have to freak out you are strong! you can do it!!

[@sarahhinckley6068]

OMG I STARTED LAUGHING SO HARD WHEN STORM ROLLED!!!!! I CANT WAIT FOR TOMORROW AHHHHHHH

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Hahaha its sooo funny!

[@leah_bxxc6793]

@@DayByDayVlogs I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not 😂

[@equinedays3952]

Laura: ok ok ok i will be ok. STELLA be carful! Stella: I’m just vibin what u doin

[@horseandogs]

Stella had you the whole time Laura! She was like “I got this! Leading the herd or going through water? No problem!” When you’re on a trail a lot of it is just autopilot, especially when you have a great trail horse like Stella there isn’t a need for micromanaging which is the fun of a trail! Just relaxing! Gabby and kailey looked great going over the logs!

[@DayByDayVlogs]

That's exactly what happened! She handled everything

[@joieellington399]

The reason why she probably cantered up the hill, is because it's much easier to trot/canter upwards for them, especially if they're older. You probably also got a little spooked when she started to go up, and you felt the pushes from her butt, and it caused you to squeeze. It's alright, my little five year old's ( horse, lol ) first trail ride consisted of me being held/ponied loosely with the mecate, and I got so anxious. He's a saddlebred too, and so when I got super amped and nervous, he just got excited and wanted to go explore ahead of everyone else. It happens to the best of us 👍🏼

[@rebekah6087]

I cant wait to take my first trail ride❤ and get my first horse

[@EllaLillieEquine]

Im not sure but if you where holding the camera then trotting and cantering for you will be really hard. You should get a chest mount and stufd xx

[@monsieurbacteria7287]

Stella: *breaths* This lady: AHH SHES OUT OF CONTROL I WANNA WALK IM SO SCARED Dude be the adult, not only are YOU freaking out and crying, but your making the kids miserable with the whining 🤦‍♀️and probably worrying the horse

[@8trackheartbeat]

Horses a lot of the time will want to trot/canter up a hill because it's easier on them to get the momentum. Since Stella was just doing that to get up the hill, if it's easier, just remember that when going up hills, and get ready to hold her back, or make her do the serpentine pattern up or be behind a slower horse. But in all honesty, she is a ROCKSTAR on the trail! She just needs you to focus on leading, and staying calm and confident. She seems pretty at easy/comfortable out on the trail :) My horse is a speed demon, so I'm always 100% focused when trail riding, so when approaching hills I always make sure to just allow him to trot and keep him in a trot so he doesn't try to canter. Also, lean forward up hills and lean back down hills to help her stay balanced. :)

[@DayByDayVlogs]

she was definitely a rock star. She loved that ride a lot

[@skylynnetrevino8143]

10:56 i know you see these comments so I just want to say THAT HILL IS NOT STEEP!!!!!!!! look at you, your and adult im a teenager and i go up stuff that 3x that size, get a grip and quit being scared of everything.

[@lizandhorsesharley4781]

Laura your a great rider. But screaming is not going to help your case with Stella. You need to take a lesson from Gabby. She has control over her horse and isn't scared of a frog. No hate

[@gracebandy758]

Don’t worry Laura, it’s normal to be a little afraid when your trying new things. But don’t worry! You and Stella can work it out together, it will help build more trust and a bigger bond. I don’t mean to sound bossy, or like an online trainer, but I recommend doing some groundwork with her, like leading her around the arena, or making her stay and dropping the lead rope, picking it up and asking her to come without a tug. I find it works really well, it makes the horse know your in charge and they trust you. But, don’t let the girls do it, you should take time on your own, I bet it would work out really well for YOU and Stella. Btw, your hand placement looks great! Keep up the good work! xxx. -grace

[@brynmac3262]

Laura, I was taught that even when your scared to be on a horse you still need to be calm and confident. Horses can sense when your scared and that causes them to fell scared, so you need to talk to Stella let her know that everything is fine and that she is a good girl no matter what, that encourages her to feel confident.

[@sharroon7574]

Laura don't listen to the people being rude. You are a brave, strong woman and a great example for your kids.

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Thank you

[@kaitlyncox3747]

Their horses:being literally perfect Layra:freaking out for no reason

[@athleticequestrian4641]

GABBY! Storm jumped thoes logs like a champ!! So amoothly and with such power!! What a change!

[@Raven_playys]

Tex is lovely but he died 😢 oh wait I meant stalla

[@tonisturgeon1321]

Stop yelling it wont do anything for the horse take some more lessons before another trail but gabby did amazing

[@mackenziebernard439]

You guys should get a gopro for your helmets so laura doesn't have to struggle with multitasking

[@melbowell5601]

Oh Laura, you did have me worried for a while, only because when you get so worried and start panicking things can go wrong. Don’t misunderstand me, I do understand your anxieties and the fact that most of your riding experiences are in the relative safety of an arena. Personally, I think at the moment this is perhaps step too far for you, having to think about yourself and also the kids ( Sophia in particular). Stella didn’t look like she was doing anything, other than wanting to get on with it, she seemed to behave perfectly, although vlogging can’t help much either ( not sure if you were holding a camera at times), which means trying to steer and control Stella with one hand, so much harder. You certainly have to keep your wits about you on the trail for the terrain and low hanging branches etc and best you keep to the well defined paths for now. Having said all of this, I’m glad you’re all in one piece and hope it hasn’t put you off. Just try to ride more Laura, get up on Stella and ride her at home, the more practice you can get, the more it will help you 😊 I really shouldn’t have, but it did make me laugh too, at least Gabby and Kayleigh seemed to be enjoying themselves and looks like a lot more to come 😧 ps I do know how hard this must have been for you Laura and how hard you were trying not to get too emotional, so even though there were signs of it, you clearly contained a lot too and at least you got up on Stella and ventured out 👍

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Stella literally was an angel. No spook. She went through everything. She never once acted like she was going to misbehave. My nerves did get the better of me at first. Having an experienced leader absolutely gives me confidence and knowing I was it qas terrifying. At one point when stella centered up a hill kailey yelled at gabby and gabby was ready to grab her reins. They were literally incredible. I'm definitely not ready to be in charge on a horse. I can't keep the kids back because of my fears. That trail was way too advanced. I swear so many more people would have been terrified. The hills were steep, huge and rocky. The path way overgrown. It was insane really. We won't go back to that one but I will try again!

[@melbowell5601]

DayByDay Vlogs that’s the spirit Laura, it can sometimes be about pushing yourself, but also knowing when to take a step back. Hopefully you’ll find some flatter trails 😊

[@sarahmason4698]

Oh I do agree Mel... Laura the more you can ride the safer you'll feel, because you'll have a more secure seat... Horses always like to go faster up steep hills, because it's easier for them, try not to worry, they're not running away... Going out on the trail is so different from riding in an arena, much more exciting (and sometimes scarier too!) Just take it all at your own pace, you have open fields and a nice small trail at home to ride if that feels safer... I think you did brilliantly on Stella, she seems a calm trail horse from what we can see...and Sophia seemed really chilled by the end!

[@melbowell5601]

Sarah Mason all true Sarah, I grew up mainly learning to ride in the open, so I guess it is quite different to the confines of an enclosed arena and you really do have to learn to control your horse ( if that makes sense). I feel the same about Stella too, she seems so good on the trail and happy. That was a big ask going out all together ( all credit to Laura for doing it) particularly when you’re not completely familiar with the trail etc. I agree with you, perhaps Laura can just start to venture out round the fields where they live on the trail and get used to steering etc out in the open. Not quite sure what happened at the beginning and why Sophia was upset to ride Finn, but she got on and off they went, so that’s good, again though they all have very limited experience of riding in the big outdoors and horses can have a knack of taking you under those low trees lol. A horse I used to ride was 17.3hh and the amount of times I was hanging round his neck to get under things lol, but you do have to be careful, a few times I whacked my head ( good job I wear a helmet) as there was a low branch hijdden in the foliage 😂 I’d never get off him unless I really had to as I couldn’t mount from the ground ( but bless him he’s was so good at standing by gates, tree stumps, picnic tables etc for me to get back on). He was so well trained that when we got back to the yard he’d automatically stop at the gate so I could clamber off. What’s so good is all their horses seem to like going out on the trail and often horses perk up, so much fun. Yes they can be a bit spooky at times, but at least they can get off the road to ride, such a bonus. I was secretly thinking though that I bet Gabby and Kayleigh would love to venture out in their own 😊

[@sarahmason4698]

@@melbowell5601 Yes, when I learnt to ride as a kid we went hacking a lot too and you get to experience controlling your horse or pony in amongst a group in the open (very different to riding in the arena!). For these guys I'm guessing it feels such an unfamiliar (and maybe for some, scary) thing... And unexpected things can happen of course (like low branches, mounting via logs, spooking, or steep hills!). On Friday I was riding out when another horse and rider from my stables came cantering up behind me to keep me company. I was walking along in my own little world on the buckle LOL, my pony heard the thundering hooves and shot off and I was left with my washing line reins up to my chin Haha... but it's all part of the fun / excitement! I think Gabby and Kailey would have a blast on their own (I was thinking that too), maybe Laura and Sophie could go off on a slower, more gentle ride!

[@Maddie10102]

Stella is literally my horse on Trailride and ridding in General😱

[@Raven_playys]

Tex is mine

[@birbhjonk1710]

You should NEVER get off your horse if they are misbehaving. You always need to fight them yourself so that they don’t learn that behavior as a good thing. If you were that scared you should not have recorded, I know you wanted to but to be focused on a camera instead of your horse. Never squeal when a horse takes off, I know it’s tempting but you need to stay calm and quiet to keep your horse calm.

[@roganstoecklin5081]

Hey Laura, Gabby, Sam and Sophie. The best way to stop Stella is to lean back and if that doesn't work then pull her head to the side so that she goes in a circle. I love you videos. I love your determination Laura and Sophie, you can do whatever you set your mind to. Don't use your bit as your control but your body language

[@sivvy1154]

Laura probably needs to grow some balls and face her fears man. 😂

[@lovelylisawarriorqueen7923]

Omg lol, it's like watching a train wreck 🐎🚂At least you tried and you have to be very very proud of that! Btw nice forest jumps, Gabby and Kaley are really developing into confident riders.

[@chalronbjork4766]

I absolutely love how Gabbys confidence boosting, even Sophie seems chilled out now. Don't worry Laura, you too will grow soon. Just keep getting up there and doing the best you can. Its OK if sometimes you are scared and opt out. Everyone's growth is at different speeds and that's OK. Well done that you still got on Stella and tried. Hats off to you ❤

[@simplyequestrian8099]

Laura: how’d you cut your lip Kailey: I ran into a tree Then you look down at Tex and you see him munching on leaves😂

[@gilliantroy1530]

If you own horses and your too scared to go on a trail ride you really shouldn't own them

[@McJLady23]

When your on trail and your horse likes to eat the grass there is something that can help with that it is like a leather string that hooks to the pole or top of bridle and it comes to the saddle horn which is perfect cause you are in a western saddle so it might help comment if you think so it can keep their head up too by the way

[@azuldelgado83]

I used to have the same problem, I was afraid of riding . Horses are intelligent and they know who is riding therefore they take advantage of you if they feel that you afraid and weak and lack confidence. You have to try and bond more with Stella. You could lunge her or ride bareback or alone. Teach Stella that she is not in control.

[@DayByDayVlogs]

They totally do know who is riding them!

[@bucking.brunette6022]

Omg poor Laura!!! Stella was just having toooo much fun!! 😂 She was like I don’t care if you are ok I just want to GO!😆

[@Rebelgirl-kv6bd]

Yea, she did so good!!!!

[@sarahoconnor249]

No offense but Gaby is the only one who I can tolerate on this channel

[@equestriannewbies889]

Ok so Storm "rolling" in the water had me LOL! 😂🤣😅

[@caelenwilliams3581]

Love how the horses are acting perfectly fine and everyone is acting crazy

[@amypratt7102]

I gotta pull out my snacks for this one I feel like I’ve been waiting for years for this video 😂😂❤️

[@thatjodhpurlife]

The noise laura made when stella cantered up the hill omg 😂😂😂😂 I'm sorry, but it was so funny!!

[@sarahhinckley6068]

Oh no I just got to the part where you said you never should have said canter, I have a feeling I know what’s gonna happen. 😱😂

[@DayByDayVlogs]

Hahaha yup

[@destinationdo-overandthead3525]

I about died at that part...I spit tea across the kitchen!

[@sarahhinckley6068]

KJ's Barnyard 😂😂😂 such a mood

[@Raven_playys]

@@DayByDayVlogs Tex is so relaxed Kaleigh is a amazing friend to let sophie ride tex I love tex

[@avarudolph5730]

Gabby is the best rider in the group! Keep it up! But... the grownup needs to have a lot more in control! You need to stay calm! Not crying or screaming! Also when your on a trail ride your horse can’t understand why you’re saying “NO!!!” When your bumping into tree branches. She doesn’t know what is going on up on top of her! So get more training in the arena before your next trail ride! I’d say if you want to be better on the next trail ride do mina-mum month of good lessons and tell your instructor what you need to work on! Then you should be good to go!