First Week with a Newborn Baby -- Tips & Things I Wish I Knew.

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Our baby is 1 week old and this time around things have been wayyyy easier than they were with Eloise. Here are some of the tips I have for caring for a newborn baby. These are the things I wish I knew when I had my first baby. I hope they are helpful for you!
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[@DwaineWoolley]

My wife is in labor right now! Doing some last minute research 😂

[@babyolifantje]

I hope you don’t take this video as advice

[@Baniiize]

babyolifantje How come?

[@Ellie-hx5rj]

How's it going??? ❤️

[@RenaGoss]

😅

[@A.riri.ellie.]

babyolifantje uhhh why?

[@garciateresa13]

Due in a few days... wish me luck people UPDATE: I gave birth 3 days ago to a healthy baby boy! 7lbs 10oz!!💕🐥🥰

[@destinyd721]

Teresa G. Due in August with my baby boy! ❤️ best of luck! I hope you have a happy, healthy baby and an easy delivery ❤️

[@garciateresa13]

Destiny D thank you! I hope you have a safe and easy delivery as well!❤️

[@garciateresa13]

Destiny D as well as a happy healthy baby❤️

[@yaniquewest455]

Good luck sweetie x

[@yaniquewest455]

Aww congratulations I don't even know you but I'm teary eyed!! Well done mama xx

[@AshleySaville]

Just found out I am 11 weeks pregnant after 15 years of TTC and a previous ectopic! This is such a good video! Thank you!

[@mphoclaudiemathegka3064]

Ashley Saville congratulations 🎉

[@Lovedbythealmightyforever]

Yay Congratulations

[@carolfarina6686]

congratulations

[@Smkay_]

Congratulations wishing you a strong healthy baby 👶🏾

[@aquamini4940]

Awe congratulations!!! Wishing you a healthy pregnancy!!

[@manjirachakrabarti2844]

I am a first time mom. She is 2 month old now. One of the bad things about postpartum apart from the sleep deprivation and the exhaution is all the unwanted and frankly unhelpful advice.I was so nervous and underconfident that I listened and followed a lot of crappy advice. They made it worse. When I finally took charge the situation got much better quickly. Mamas listen to others but do what you feel is right.

[@dayi9629]

💗💗💗💗

[@PrettyBalanced]

Its the best! How are you doing? I feel like months 3-5 were the hardest for me.

[@manjirachakrabarti2844]

@@PrettyBalanced I am doing good , thank you. She is 4 months old now. Was sleeping pretty well ,now suddenly it is bad.I guess it is the 4 month sleep regression thing.Postpartum was still worse because even though technically it was less work then as baby slept most of the time and now you have to be there like 24/7 , but atleast I am confident of what needs to be done.I sleep when the baby sleeps, dont worry about chores and remain relaxed. Also its only me and DH.The first two months I was a mess.

[@manjirachakrabarti2844]

@@PrettyBalanced I am curious as to why did you find it hard?

[@szilvialakatos1519]

Manjira Chakrabarti DONT ever be worried it’s your baby and it comes to moms naturally what there baby needs I’m due next with my third baby and I know I will get lots of advice from different nurses and midwifes but when I’m home with my baby it’s all up to me to make my baby feel comfortable loved and cared for in time things will smooth it self out always listen to ur instinct I guess ur mommy instinct everything will be fine as long as ur baby is fed and clean and loved and cherished and u can make her stop crying when u feel like she’s fussing to much is all it matters other wise obviously if u feel like she needs medical attention then u will know that too 💓💕💓💕💓 just don’t worry it’s no point

[@jdub164]

Tip for new moms: for the first week or so out of the hospital, scratch the undies completely and get yourself some adult diapers. They're not bulky, they catch the blood well and don't shift all around. No more waking up with ruined sheets bc your pad shifted out of place! Also, they never leak! Well, I've never had one leak and used this trick many times. If you're having a lot of pain in your nether regions after giving birth, take a couple of those diapers, dampen the crotch just a little (spray bottle works good) and smear a little aloe vera gel on there too, n pop it in the freezer. Voila! Padcicle for soothing and healing! Well... diapercicle lol, you get the point!

[@stoutemeisie1]

Agree on adult diapers

[@thenitro5650]

Hello! I'm Adrian my fience is 3 moth pregnant. Thanks God. To be honest I didn't want no baby's ,relative love ones. I dices this when I turn 23. Now all change my fience is 27 I'm 36 I'm watching videos about all questions I have. Cause ultrasound personal , midwife do not teach a first time male how to treat a baby. This video is so helpful. I read the comments. Cause mom's knows. Thank you.

[@aprillowe4807]

Definitely I had to screenshot this!

[@manishaseshan5350]

I’m on Day 11 postpartum and completely agree!

[@kapersad1]

Thank you for this!

[@aryanahampton]

I just found out I was pregnant after a year of trying!!!

[@PhateKills]

Congrats! That is awesome!

[@GeexTerror]

Congratulations! I know how you feel! We just found out we are pregnant as well after a miscarriage and a year of trying ❤️super happy for you I wish you a healthy pregnancy

[@madelinejosie]

Congrats 🎉💗

[@judith9577]

Awesome

[@nikkis7375]

Annie Skywalker congrats!!!❤️

[@esmeegloria]

I remember watching this video about three years ago longing for the day that I would have a baby of my own... now I'm 18 weeks pregnant.. god is good..

[@hoppingwren]

I'm in the longing phase like you once were! Still hoping, xoxo

[@bananarae9207]

I'm at the longing stage too 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@MichaelRicksAherne]

My wife is due in 6 months. This is great, but when is Sean going to come on and give me some tips for new dads?

[@analiagriffin3086]

Yes! I think my hubby would like that!

[@stupidintellect2474]

Oooh yes, my husband would love that. Good initiative!

[@martinascopes5274]

I'll help you there :) Feed your wife and help her nap. Foot rubs go a long way there!

[@Exhumed2]

Hope all went well brother.

[@MichaelRicksAherne]

@@Exhumed2 Day 7. Still figuring it out. The number of bottles and bottle-related items is insane.

[@KidrauhlLuva4Eva]

I’m 37 weeks today, unfortunately a single mum so I can’t use that first tip but I’m hoping the rest will be helpful! UPDATE: He came on 1 October, 3,7kgs.

[@KRBY555]

how you doin?

[@KidrauhlLuva4Eva]

krbcrwlr he’s 8 days old now and the pacifier advice has been very helpful, not worrying about how I look as well.

[@christinenzamuranga9366]

@@KidrauhlLuva4Eva I hope everything is going well with you. I really admire single mothers they are very very brave and caring as well.

[@ayierasheryl7214]

6months prego single mom here as well. What did you do about feeding him in the night? Did you have to like always wake up?

[@cassieannhawkins5597]

It’s not unfortunate! It’s a blessing. You’ve got this xxx

[@angiedsilva3582]

I'm an unmarried non pregnant undergrad student. And I have no idea what I'm doing here! But seriously tho- pregnant women, newborn babies and new mothers are soooo cute!!! Whenever I see them around I just wanna hug them tight and wrap them in blankets, marshmallows and plushies! To all the moms and future moms out there- I love you all sooo much!!!

[@angiesjerry5981]

Oh my God- am I gonna be a dad? Are we expecting?!!! Babe should I get the kits ready? Wait what are the kits? Are we gonna need kits? How far along are you? How about I tell our parents to do the shopping? Don't worry about marriage. We can take our time to leisurely give birth to this baby and then think about getting married. Want me to buy anything? I'm on my way to Starbucks so if you're craving something let me know. Oh and what about the name? There's so much we need to talk about I'm coming over right now

[@angiedsilva3582]

@@angiesjerry5981 wtf Jerry I'm NOT pregnant!

[@chloelaylane8671]

I am in the hospital right now about to give birth to my first baby!

[@therealbeautykween]

Chloe Laylane congrats

[@PrettyBalanced]

Ah congrats!!!! how are you doing?

[@TheFifeLife]

CONGRATS!!!

[@priya30081]

You were in the hospital, and spent your time on youtube?

[@rhiannonsikand2419]

@@priya30081 if you have a long labor or aren't dilating quick enough, etc. you have a lot of downtime. It's not some wild rush in most cases.

[@alyssamcelwaney4923]

Just delivered my baby 6 hours ago! So scared as a new mom. Worth every second though. ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for all the tips.

[@Nw2008]

You got this! Hang in there. Set boundaries if you need to and don't feel bad for doing what's best for you and baby.

[@wendyjordan2802]

Congratulations 🎈. I am Pregnant mom 42 weeks tomorrow she is do Valentines but my belly is feeling feels like she is turning while she is turning I feel it almost feels like you’re stomach growlingbut I have hi to check my baby schedule he able to check on Alexia s schedule when she is Do

[@sumbalschannel7410]

Due in November with my first baby boy ❤ .. need prayers. Really confused and afraid about labour pains ... best of luck for all those future mommies 🥰

[@PurpleIris1]

Same!

[@sumbalschannel7410]

@@PurpleIris1 aww god bless u and best wishes ahead xx

[@xxGuItArGiRLxx89]

Feels like period pains at first. Research hypnobirthing. Good luck mama

[@sumbalschannel7410]

@@xxGuItArGiRLxx89 periods pain really? 😭 thnQ hun x

[@xxGuItArGiRLxx89]

@@sumbalschannel7410 light period pains at first. Then they get stronger. You were built to give birth. Listen to your body it tells you what to do and when to push.

[@marissamoreno3619]

I'm 23 years old, 36 weeks with my first and feel like i can't get enough information. Hearing you say that not all advice is good advice is really helpful

[@juanamariamamasaurnation4415]

You've got this mama. I'm five years postpartum and I can tell you that the only way to survive motherhood is to take it one day at a time. I still have to remember that to this day. As a mom, you are constantly having to make decisions on how to parent. If you realize that the decision you made wasn't the best, you pivot, learn from it and keep on truckin'.

[@HeyNewMomma]

Congrats Momma! Hope everything's going well!

[@kalilangewisch5053]

you were nursing so casually in the opening that it took me a hot minute to even realize! What a way to practice what you preach! Thanks for your advice. I’m 8 months pregnant with my first and your easygoing nature and simplicity was refreshing and helpful.

[@frostcube3845]

Same I didn’t notice until the 11 minute mark

[@BrynjaLives]

My husband did a bottle feed at 6 am while I slept. You are SO right. It made life SO MUCH BETTER. I did not learn until my 2nd time around either.

[@tinybooboopaw4116]

Starry Night Stronghold Do you need to warm up the bottle for the baby？

[@BrynjaLives]

@@tinybooboopaw4116 we did warm up her bottles. 14-15 seconds in the microwave. They say dont use the microwave because it can make hot spots but if you shake the milk after you put on the lid.. there are no hot spots. bottle warmers are a needless expense. We only make it warm, too NOT HOT.

[@tinybooboopaw4116]

Starry Night Stronghold thanks！

[@adelavalladares]

@@BrynjaLives thank you!

[@PrettyBalanced]

Thats sich a good idea. man I didn't give a bottle to barley!

[@Seeresss]

Hoping everyone has a safe and easy pregnancy and may you all be blessed with healthy, quiet, hungry babies ❤️ I’m six months and I’m having a beautiful first pregnancy, apart from the trapped gas of course 😂

[@cleokazakos3600]

How’s ur bubba

[@snowieskiesabove]

Why didn’t I realize that you were nursing until halfway through the video? So cool and really hits home your point that nursing is normal!

[@kim1416]

Great advice!!! Nipple confusion is not usually a problem if you start right away with a pacifier only for short term soothing or give a bottle. Mom's please, please if breastfeeding, do as she advises, pump and let someone else give an early morning bottle. You get much needed sleep, partner gets to help and baby is used to a bottle when/if you have to return to work.

[@PEEWHENYOUNEEDTO]

Kim so I have a question about this. If my baby slept longer than usual, I would get very engorged and leaking everywhere. It was super painful. Would skipping a feeding cause this issue too?

[@PrettyBalanced]

Isn't it? Its so hard to know.

[@ronancoffey1809]

@@PEEWHENYOUNEEDTO oh really

[@shawndla]

@@PEEWHENYOUNEEDTO I know what you are talking about it happened to me with first son. I never bottle fed him until he was 6 months old. I was home on maternity and vacation for a total of 7 months. I would pick him up and feed him when it gets too painful.

[@PEEWHENYOUNEEDTO]

Lashawndla Bailey-Miller I did that as well because it hurt so much and I know it’s all supply and demand and since his “sleeping in” wasn’t consistent, I was afraid it would diminish my supply to skip and feeding

[@Juliezemla]

"So try and be Spanish and learn how to nurse in public" You are SO unintentionally funny... I'm half Spanish and I was blown away by the stigma around nursing in the U.S.A. I couldn't understand why some would say "ew" to seeing a mom nurse; in my family, it's all you do, and if you don't, you're actually chided for bypassing the more inexpensive and nutrition dense option of breastfeeding...

[@jazzminober5741]

It's so annoying to hear negative opinions about breastfeeding in public! I will say, it's mainly insecure women with these opinions (from what I've noticed, at least). It's natural, beautiful and just an overall part of life. If the mother feels uncomfortable, it's understandable why she'd want to breastfeed privately but with all the bashing, I wouldn't blame her for feeling that way. I'm due in 2 months with my first child (baby girl), so maybe I should consider moving to Spain. 😂🇪🇸

[@ankita19871]

In India also I grew up watching other women breastfeeding in public and nobody misbehaved with them.

[@thecosmicbug]

I noticed my generation and younger are more open to it, but it's the older generation that has a problem! It's so frustrating!

[@KassiReyes]

Aury Zemla yesssss! Your family has the right attitude. Thank youuuu

[@edvh88]

I grew up in the US but within a more alternative community where breastfeeding was the norm, there was always someone with a breast out nursing. I didn’t even realize the stigma until the Internet.... fast forward to now, I’m 32 and about to have my first in January. Def planning to bf! Shamelessly.

[@ladybug4944]

I’m due in August, excited for my first baby

[@chelseabargone8545]

B oom me too!! I hope you have a safe and wonderful delivery💕

[@tylerporterphotos]

Me too 💕

[@jasminee.1701]

God bless you & your baby.. pray you have a safe & healthy delivery

[@tiannabrown566]

I hope you have a safe delivery ❤️❤️

[@88kellsbells]

Me too, August 1st!!

[@jennavecialove9654]

I’m due February 2020 with my third❤️🙏🏼praying for a healthy strong happy baby and congratulations to all the mommas and soon to be mommas

[@jessicameyer7247]

Awesome! I'm also due in Feb with my first! 🤩 Good luck!

[@serenityfaith8038]

Same here!!!

[@ITSNYASWORLD]

Aww me too 💗

[@shyannerainey7360]

May 2020 with my first

[@delialia928]

Also in February 2020 with my first 🤗❤️

[@kathleenvlogs5792]

I’m due in 19 days with my baby boy 😩 wish me this best 🙌🏽

[@yanadai9311]

Good luck!

[@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690]

Aww congrats . Praying for a safe delivery and healthy baby for you

[@nqobilemchunu8654]

And I'm due in a week...I'm so nervous

[@le_th_]

@@nqobilemchunu8654 Good luck to you! Sleep now while you can (even though you're probably uncomfortable being so far along).

[@kaollakitten]

Hope you had a happy and healthy baby, all the best XX

[@kyannah9]

Just found out I am 5 weeks pregnant. I’ll be a single mom unfortunately because the dad has no interest in being there. But I’m super excited and thank you for this video ❤️❤️

[@philippa5101]

Congratulations.

[@alanna1259]

Congratulations momma! God bless you you'll be a great mom stay strong

[@missmills3305]

Congratulation. You will be a great mom

[@shanniedartsch]

Congratulations! Reach out to other moms and those you trust. Just because you’re going to be a single parent does not mean you’re doing it alone. Just remember it is ok to ask for help sometimes. I would definitely suggest a doula, both labor and postpartum, if you are able to get one then it would really help. Not just because you are a single mom, but from what you wrote it seems like a first time mom. Unless you have a very supportive friend or family that has been through birth and babies before. You will be a wonderful mom, always trust your instincts. And if a doula is not for you that’s cool too, just a suggestion.

[@edvh88]

Wishing you all the best, it’s a hard journey even with a partner. I hope you have a good support network cheering you on. You are amazing!!!

[@lazarlegacy2753]

New moms out there! You are not alone. Being a first time mom comes with some anxieties! Don't be hard in yourself you got this!!

[@tuppientuppi8356]

Two small feedbacks, just practical from a viewers perspective. 1. Backround music is disturbing, i'd love to just hear your voice on the subject :) 2. I love that you included text in your videos for the visuals, it's perfect for remembering your tips!

[@ilovespopcorn]

Or maybe something way quieter and more ambient.

[@carpediem880]

Might be disturbing for you only :) for me, it works!

[@TenilleNorberg]

Totally agree. It takes away from her calm demeanour. At least turn it out. Hard to hear her competing with the music

[@TenilleNorberg]

@Sandra Of course its her personal opinion. That's what feedback is

[@TenilleNorberg]

@Sandra duh its her personal opinion. That's what feedback is

[@entirelybonkers8832]

Due in November (2023) super excited but also nervous

[@KittiKatKawaiiness]

The way she nursed with ease gives me hope that I’ll learn! Expecting my first in July 2020 💕

[@mphoclaudiemathegka3064]

Me too first time in July ... happy 5 months

[@shessweethotspicy444]

Skittlez Reinbow awww me too! Baby due July and my birthday is in July 🥰😍🎊🎉

[@mermaidzoephiahart]

Me too I'm expecting a boy it's also my first child I'm due july22,2020

[@breeglasbergen1982]

I’m due in July too. All the best with yours x

[@noenduih]

Have you given birth yet?

[@jensanchez6199]

i'm 6months pregnant and im so excited to see may very first baby😊

[@MushroomBrain]

I'm 11 with two sister and my mum just had my baby sister ik watching this so I can be the best sister possible

[@jamieeverett9695]

🥺🥺🥺

[@jovankasmiljanic-jazic5987]

Not pregnant, or have any children... I'm here taking notes tho LMAO!

[@KassiReyes]

Jovanka Smiljanic-Jazic you are hilarious!

[@bethwilliam1825]

And there's nothing wrong with having a kid either cuz everybody was little and small mom's group birthdays love precious gift from God

[@PranaYanna]

Same!

[@MadameToadstool]

Just had my second baby 11 days ago, & I find your videos not only informative but so comforting. Thank you

[@sokarshwani]

Watching this video while my wife is in labor right now. September, 17 2020. 11:00am. Getting last minute information. I’m literally shaking and about pass out.! Sh*t is no joke fellas.

[@TheMightyBlackPearl]

Just gave birth last week! My baby was 38 weeks gestation, but I had IUGR. So she’s basically a preemie. I have to say, the first set of advice, having someone do a feeding at night while you sleep, EXTREMELY HELPFUL! This gives mama some time to get a lot more rest and this will help you SO MUCH! It has helped me a lot with my crying too. And I have to say, I was feeling some baby blues, but as soon as I got that extra rest, I felt so much better!

[@HalfInsaneJane]

After 4 years and 6 losses my husband and I finally had our first born son last Tuesday. Ive been saying it's like the worst jet lag.

[@cristalcotrell]

I Love your video, it is so real... the nipple confusion is not for every baby. I have two boys and i used the pacifier and a bottle a day... and they rocked breastfeeding. New mommas, just try to make your life easier. and congrats, Wilson is soooo cute!

[@topanga26]

Cristal Cotrell yes yes yes!!!! Spread the word! Fed is best and pacifiers are good for baby!!!

[@SG-vy1lk]

Just wanna say nipple confusion isn’t real. What I mean by that is that they don’t get confused on what is and isn’t supplying milk, what they do is prefer a bottle over breast if it is a faster flow and less work to get milk from the bottle than it is the breast. To help this newborns should be given preemie bottles first. Not month 0 or month 1, but try to keep it just as difficult to get milk from the breast that it is the bottle. That said, some babies will still prefer the bottle, but they aren’t confused, just have preferences.

[@nickkrasny1562]

My wife is due any day now- I’m so excited to meet my little boy!!!!! Thanks for the tips and your baby is adorable!

[@isabelladamacena7957]

Honestly I haven’t heard these tips anywhere before. Thanks for that

[@Flufferz626]

Good momma. Honest momma. We need communities like this. It take a village to raise a child.

[@jessicalowingrosenberg4952]

This is the best video I’ve seen re: newborn care and expectations. You’re light and succinct with a humorous spin. So appreciated. Thanks for the tips.

[@taylorwilder2234]

This is the most down to earth, helpful, and encouraging video on this topic I have seen yet. Thank you! Congrats on your precious son.

[@jess_hover]

You’re so sweet! I’m glad that I can make a video that helps people, especially new moms in those first couple of weeks :) Thank you so much for watching!

[@romulusthemainecoon3047]

YES! I love her calming and encouraging nature.

[@brittanyrogers353]

I’m 35 weeks right now and just cried my way through this beautiful video ♥️😭

[@mychannel-1639]

I'm 16 and almost 17 I'm pregnant trying keep my body healthy and keep my baby thriving trying to find how look after my baby best possible.

[@Mother-hobbit]

Not sure if you’ve had yours yet but congratulations and good luck!!! :) I know being a young mom there isn’t a lot of congratulating or excitement from your peers, but it’s a beautiful thing to create a life, and support is always out there for you. I’m 20 years old and 2 weeks from my due date but I still get odd looks from people so it’s rough, but what matters is how good to your baby you are, not the circumstances around the baby’s conception. If you’re watching advice videos and trying your best, I truly believe you’re full of all the love your little one needs to grow up healthy and happy. You go, mom!

[@philippa5101]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Xenia2812]

Congratulations I got pregnant at 17 my daughter is 4 now and absolutely love being a mum. Im sure you will be the same X

[@moniccaleseyane5835]

I'm due in 2 months time with my first baby and I literally read / google/ youtube everything. My mom and husband think I will drive myself insane. I am just overwhelmed and excited

[@arlh2309]

I have a 6 week old and I gave her a bottle and pacifier from the start and I also breast feed. She had no nipple confusion. My Dr told me it was a good idea so the baby get's used to both and allows others to feed her. Honestly I do whatever works for us and don't take other people's opinions to heart. You do what works best for you 😁🙌🙋‍♀️ I am glad she took the bottle as the first few weeks are exhausting and it's so nice when someone else can take a feeding shift. 😊

[@topanga26]

Baking Girl good job mama!! 💕

[@bonitaparker87]

Due in 9 weeks with my first. Can’t wait to meet my little boy! 🥰

[@elizabethtimothy4776]

Good luck mama. You are stronger than you can imagine and you can do it. Praying for a peaceful delivery.

[@foodbeforefriends]

I’m also due in 9 weeks with my first, a boy. Lol but I’m sure yours is here by now ❤️😊

[@dennisrehmann2373]

@Tristan T. Moss The lack of reply is worrisome. Lol.

[@sabrinalemay-emond9354]

Just want to say that I used the pacifier and bottles right away even though my baby was struggling to attach because he was often fussy due to being hungry (bad attachment) and after 1 month he was able to attach very easily to my boob, he's healthy, and the bottle and pacifier made it easier on us while I worked through my nipple trauma :) also now at 2 months he's let go of his need for the pacifier all by himself, not attached to it at all!

[@ruksarharoon7278]

I thought I would never get pregnant or become a mum. I just never got pregnant. Now in my second marriage and 10 years later, I'm 11 weeks pregnant. Praise be to God. Pray for Me to have a healthy baby. I have a lot of anxieties about delivery.

[@shauni8806]

I’m due in 4 weeks and 6 days with my first child. Wish me luck😳😧

[@gguk6180]

good luck, lovely🥺❣wishing you both the best

[@shauni8806]

gguk thank you so much☺️

[@mailboxxy]

You got this just focus on pushing when the time comes. I recommend getting an epidural its just a light pinch on your back and then your done. Trust me you will want it some contractions feel SO painful but mostly focus on breathing through some contractions. The epidural helps you sleep when in labor unless you have a quick birth you wont have to worry too much. I had the epidural and didnt feel my vag tearing lol I only had 2nd degree tears and the only thing that hurt was when they stitch you up at the end. Just focus on pushing and you got this!

[@shauni8806]

Queen Syddy thank you so much❤️the closer it gets, the more nervous I get😳

[@noxylaquteemhlakaza9063]

I'm due in 5 weeks nd 1 day, it's my first born

[@ambrosehillsims]

Best tip you could ever get is to start good sleep habits from the start. Baby never sleeps in arms, always in their own sleep space. Always play white noise in the background to drown out noise. Dont make your house quiet just because Baby is sleeping. Teaching good sleep habits now, when Baby literallt is unaware of the world, will pay off so much in the future.

[@iLoveGumDrops]

Savannah C thank you for this! My sister in law just had her first August 2019 and she NEVER puts her down. She always says, “according to research...” 😂 we all find it hilarious but honestly now she’s such a fussy baby because she can’t ever be put down.

[@tsolberg4503]

Babies are different and mommies are different. Treat your sister with kindness ❤️

[@eatheather]

Most diaper bags I’ve found are actually made like backpacks now.

[@paulabelgrano331]

Great tips! I would also have lots of frozen food in the fridge, so that the cooking part is easyer for the parents! 😉

[@shannonpilittere200]

How are you so put together and beautiful after having a baby who is only one week old!!! Wow! You are inspiring!

[@chappiedelicieux3337]

Mine is 2 months away. I’ve watched 100s of videos and I’m still nervous but I can’t wait for her to pop out 😍😍😍😍

[@libbyjo3122]

This is the best new mom video I've seen because it was purely advice and no product placement, thank you! 🖤

[@romulusthemainecoon3047]

I just LOVE your calming, encouraging, helpful tone. You're not fake or Instagrammy (even though you're beautiful!) and I really appreciate the realness.

[@ciaobella9310]

Im due with my first in DECEMBER ! 😊 im literally stressin about every little thing. I found your video very reassuring so thank you. Wish me luck!

[@quickstuff000]

Congratulations, I am as well! I feel so overwhelmed but so excited, I keep binge watching these kinds of videos lol!

[@ciaobella9310]

@@quickstuff000 yess girl me too! I dont know if its good to watch or making me more paranoid! 😄😭😝

[@quickstuff000]

@@ciaobella9310 Haha i cant either but i cant stop watching!

[@rhodoraanas-santos7674]

Me too 😇😇😇 prayed for you ladies 😇😇😇

[@mariewarrior5288]

omg you're having a winter baby!! are you thinking of using a winter type of name? or just a regular one?

[@ChalissaB]

This video was super helpful! I'm 3.5 weeks postpartum with my first baby and man is there so much to learn and adjust to! I still have a million questions, but this video definitely provided me with some answers and some comfort.

[@vinventure5155]

Your voice is so soothing and motherly, I feel so calm and excited to meet my little bumpkin now ❤

[@maddylou4941]

Congrats!!! Hope all goes well happy and safe!

[@AMoondee]

I'm not pregnant but we are talking about starting the process to conceive next year. I am constantly educating myself to build my plans and everything. Thank you for showing me these tips. I cant wait to be a mom soon.

[@abbefagullar4450]

so helpful💜 I’m currently 4.5 months pregnant with my first baby. I’ve worked in childcare and baby sat for years but getting a moms perspective is so much more important to me and knowing i will try my hardest to breastfeed, your input was extremely helpful as well.

[@ryanmay736]

5 weeks till the due date for our first baby and this is the most down to earth video I’ve seen yet. Thank you.

[@MrLilnene10]

I’m going to be giving birth in 3 days and you have made me feel so much more calmer and more confident! Please keep making these videos to help new moms like me!

[@Thebergnest]

All great recommendations! I love the “be Spanish” recommendation 😂 So true! I’ve always wished people here in the US embraced the naturalness of breastfeeding our babies. I’d love to go to Spain someday!

[@jess_hover]

Thank you!! Haha now if only I was as good at speaking Spanish as I am at nursing in public. I hope you get to go to Spain one day too! You will love it :)

[@madwoman8297]

Spain is wonderful and the people are so kind and friendly. Hope to return one day.

[@amarigraham4719]

I am a new mommy and I'm 11 weeks pregnant and I just want to say thank you so much for your video!!!! I really appreciate it.

[@LydiaRene]

I'm 10 weeks congrats! ❤

[@Nicocchiixx]

I’m 37 weeks 😭 so nervous

[@NaeTaurus28]

I'm 11weeks 2 days ❤

[@Sweetheartred]

I’m going be 13 weeks soon!! Congrats to you all 🥰🤗

[@lindseyfollansbee768]

I am 37 weeks pregnant (first time!!) and this is so helpful and made me feel a little more prepared in some small, practical ways I wasn't sure of, thank you so much

[@_Erendis]

Thank you so much for this super encouraging advice.. I am currently 4 months pregnant with my first child, and I really appreciate "real mom" advice that helps me not stress about what's to come! Health and happiness!

[@katielyons8638]

After 8 years of trying we are going for IVF in July and I and nervous and excited at the same time I can't wait to be a mom

[@Olivia-cw7ch]

Katie Lyons good luck!!

[@oliviashannon6988]

Best of luck!

[@katielyons8638]

Thank you ill try to see if I can update you guys

[@oliviashannon6988]

Katie Lyons please do🥰

[@breannaclark4737]

I love that Spain is so accepting of nursing I wish it were like that here. I love that you are normalizing breastfeeding again. Your doing great momma thanks for all the wonderful advice.

[@patiencechristine3551]

Honestly THANK YOU as someone who’s not only very scared and nervous about having their first baby but also as someone who has pregnancy brain and is very forgetful the little notes added to the screen of the topics we were going over as we went over each one helped me keep up so much. Thank you seriously I really needed this video everyone’s advice is always “you’re a mom it will come natural to you” this reassures me it doesn’t come as naturally as we need it or want it to.

[@michaellind4320]

Have you looked into dunstan baby language? It took a lot of stress off us...

[@meaghanrowe744]

I haven't fallen in love with any moms on KZbin except you!! I love how gently you come across - very soothing :) I'm currently pregnant with my first and I'm so nervous, but you always give such calming advice!! Thank you :)

[@brizzuh3995]

just found out im 5 weeks pregnant with my first baby! due in November . 🥰🥰 im so excited .

[@LaNuevaAndaluza]

I'm due in November with my first. Nervous and excited is an understatement!

[@cheekya5770]

La TrotaMundos I know how you feel! I’m due in October with my second!! Good luck! I hope you have a safe delivery and healthy baby!

[@mlind-je5jn]

Me too 😪💖 November and scared!

[@cmc3kid]

I’m due in November with my first as well, on the 22nd ☺️

[@LaNuevaAndaluza]

@@cmc3kid oh cool! Mine is due on the 25th 😊

[@LaNuevaAndaluza]

@@cheekya5770 thank you lovely, same to you!

[@mallorywhite3491]

"Just be Spanish" hahahaha love that comment! - You have such a warm presence even in a video, Thank you for sharing these wonderful tips!

[@89tothbianka]

This speaks to me on so many levels. Sitting here with a 10 days old.

[@Rubykhan1226]

You’re so relaxing to listen to and offer great tips!! Can’t wait for my baby girl number 2! She’s coming 14 years after my first, so I’m definitely starting all over again! Appreciate all the advice! 💖

[@shandram19]

I have a 13 year old and I'm due with baby #2 in March 2024. In May 2024 my older daughter will turn 14. I'm kinda excited about it because with having an older kid I'll have a little more help than I did with my 1st daughter. This time I'll sometimes be able to leave my baby in the living room with my older daughter so I can use the bathroom, take a quick shower, or cook dinner! How was it for you having a teen and newborn at the same time? Are my expectations to high?

[@rebeccaatptypeglobal6401]

Watching Jessica's videos makes me feel like I'm getting advice from a best friend. Thank you so much for the awesome videos!

[@ElFamosoArt]

First time dad tips! Sleep when the baby sleeps, trust me! You'll make mistakes, just learn from them! And there will be times you'll get frustrated, but just be patient, every baby if different! I became a dad 2 weeks ago to my daughter! Enjoy 🙏🏾

[@chloem6298]

Currently 28 weeks pregnant with my first and I've been struggling to find some good information on tips for nursing and pumping early on. In the UK I've found there's a lot of emphasis about not giving a baby a bottle for several weeks until they're comfortable latching, so it's really helpful to know you've had success bottle feeding alongside nursing. I'm hoping that we have success with this combo method when our little boy is here, as I know I'm going to be struggling if I'm the only one feeding him.

[@coleworld1741]

This was super helpful. I stress about things and baby isn’t here. Baths, ppl touching him , sleep and schedule. But your absolutely right about not stressing about pacifiers, breastfeeding in public etc. thank you again. Due 9/22/19.... 1st child , baby boy !!!! :)

[@ashleynicole2546]

27 weeks today with my first baby. I never had any brothers or sisters, so I have zero baby experience. Your videos are very helpful!! 😊

[@JewlTonz]

Congratulations, Ashley! Here's a great website for having a good understanding of what to do when during labor: spinningbabies.com/start/in-labor/what-to-do-when-in-labor/. I'm a mother of 5 and I WISH I'd known about this for my labors! I'm also a childbirth educator and a doula. I share this website with people all the time! I wish you the best!! :)

[@JewlTonz]

BTW, if it gets a little overwhelming with information overload, try the Parent Training video. It's well worth the investment: spinningbabies.com/product/parent-class-digital-download/ or spinningbabies.com/product/spinning-babies-parent-class/ (DVD)

[@beautigirl31]

How old are you?

[@JewlTonz]

Sarah Hausman Sarah Hausman Hi Sarah! I just celebrated my 50th birthday 2 days ago! I have 5 kiddos of my own, ages 23, 20, 15, 11 & 5.

[@yogawithsacha4276]

Thank you- this was lovely :) I'm 24 weeks pregnant at the moment with my first so it is lovely to hear another persons experience.

[@jmlove6071]

31 weeks pregnant. Baby boy will be here in no time! Thank you for this !

[@maliamaley]

I'm 40 weeks and 4 days pregnant and I loved this video so much!

[@jess_hover]

Woah!! Anytime now! Congratulations!! So exciting! Thank you for watching!!

[@sabrinagonzalez9665]

Woah! Shouldn’t they be inducing you? I’m at 32 weeks and in the navy they induce you a few days after 40!

[@lindabass2321]

We are on the same page 40 weeks and 4days can’t wait for my darling I pray God gives us the strength in this very last phase

[@maliamaley]

@@sabrinagonzalez9665 they can't induce bc I'm not dilated. I'm mostly content to wait but I'm so excited to meet him!

[@sabrinagonzalez9665]

Malia Marcell oh! Well, good luck mamas 💕

[@nai-2]

I'm 21 weeks pregnant with twin boys ,this was so helpful thank you 🙏

[@whitneyhull4310]

21 weeks with one baby we must be due around same time! Oct.18th for me!

[@nai-2]

@@whitneyhull4310 October 8th but I may get a scheduled c-section

[@whitneyhull4310]

@@nai-2 gotcha! Well good luck youll be great🥰

[@nai-2]

@@whitneyhull4310 thank you and same to you ,congratulations 🎉

[@sanitaariyaburgi4602]

I'm due today (first time😱) and I'm having like these light little contractions since last night. Now I'm just waiting at home until we can go to the doctor 😅 nervooous, so watching these kinds of videos right now is rather helpful and calming.. 🙈 thank you for the tips, I'll see how it goes 😅🙈

[@Kaimaci]

howd it go???

[@Emily-ln5ko]

Omg was this July 3rd? I gave birth that day too!!

[@kerstinr8940]

Thank you for this video. 🙃 In my opinion the best tip is „stop caring what other people think, in general“. I learned that with our second. People will think anyways. But what counts is how you and your family feel.

[@DhruvDesai25]

Thank you Jessica.. helpful video.. Bottle at night and loud and bright in day and dim at night are the most useful takeaways for me😘

[@jess_hover]

Thank you so much for watching :)

[@rosevlogs4210]

Your demeanor relaxed my anxiety about taking care of a newborn soo much.. I know this video is old but this is my first pregnancy and I’m due October 2022

[@morganm.8822]

New soon to be mommy here! Due March 4th, 2021! I've watched so many videos on tips & tricks with newborns. This is by far my favorite video! Everything about you is a joy! Thank you! I hope to be as confident as you as a momma! xo

[@nadiastone6422]

New mama here too due march 6th!

[@breeglasbergen1982]

Watched this when I had my newborn and now two years later this is my go to vid to send people who need help/validation and advice x

[@sarahfisher3457]

I had my second at the end of May and I agree with all of these! Especially the go with the flow part and being graceful with your body and not worrying about it. It will all sort itself out! Congratulations! Wilson is adorable 💕

[@jess_hover]

Yes! So true! Thank you for chiming in and congratulations on your little one! I hope you are doing well!

[@MKFamilyVlog]

This video was posted 2 days before I found out I was pregnant with my first baby. :D Thanks for the tips, I appreciate it!

[@cleansocks]

"Try to be Spanish" is my new favorite parenting advice, lol. I just found your channel and I've loved every video so far, so thank you so much! I'm 24 weeks (tomorrow) with our first baby, so my husband and I are pretty clueless, excited and anxious. These advice videos are super helpful.

[@daisajames3608]

YOU BLEED THE FIRST WEEK AFTER !!!! I am 39 weeks pregnant , he can come any day now, and nobodyyyy told me this !! Lol oh lawddd .

[@jamiemarie5103]

Currently 38 weeks pregnant and this video was extremely helpful! Lots of practical tips that aren’t too cliche. I’ve been consuming lots of mommy and baby content on here lately and this video is one of the best I’ve seen so far. Thank you!

[@michellejessica5043]

Omg he is super cute! Thanks for the tip about “jet lag”.

[@nousentrefille1879]

I've been thinking about pumping so my husband could give the bottle at least from 3am to 8am (I am not really a morning person). But every site I was reading from , they advised not to pump first weeks and it made me feel like a horrible mom (like I don't want to spend time with her). Thanks sooooo much ! I don't feel guilty after seeing your video!

[@emaliehuggins6965]

These are great tips! Sleep is so important, I learned with a newborn.

[@Satevo35]

Currently 20 weeks pregnant with my first baby boy 💙