Sadia Khan - Your Ultimate Guide To A Better Dating Life (E010)

Sadia Khan is an online coach who specialises in one-to-one relationship and dating advice. Drawing upon her years of experience in trauma and relationship therapy, as well as her academic background in Psychology, Sadia has been able to improve all facets of her clients’ dating lives. In this episode, Sadia offered her expertise on dating-relating endeavours such as maintaining a healthy relationship; making the first move and dealing with emotional trauma.
0:00 Introduction
1:22 Sadia’s professional background and balancing work life in Dubai
4:40 The sad truth of modern dating and relationships: “practising for divorce?”
8:20 Dating and the different types of women in Dubai
13:13 “Men reward toxicity” and the other side of OnlyFans
19:26 Male and female body counts
25:40 Are high value men more likely to be cheated on?
31:00 Top 1% females, monogamy and self-control
36:26 Making the first move, rejection and the potential problems of a public relationship
45:41 The first date, who’s paying?
49:35 Personality clashes in a relationship
52:58 The friend zone and whether men and women can be just friends?
1:03:55 Open relationships and cheating
1:07:40 Dealing with emotional trauma and honesty
1:15:42 The most common problems in a relationship
1:18:30 The impact of social media in a relationship
1:24:00 Sadia’s dating life and life for men in their 20s
1:29:33 Love, accomplishing goals and starting a family
1:37:02 “Debunking” Myron’s book
1:40:55 Ending
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[@joshbailey1061]

“Self control is true freedom” - Sadia Khan

[@babyboasty6033]

She stole it from Eliud kipchoge lol

[@TV-wy1py]

Not sure why this vid popped up in my feed bc I don't know these ppl BUT she looks like Kim K. Ppl can say what they want about Kim but she has influenced sooo many women. I can't tell you how many women I've seen on YT who look like Kim.

[@Aerieswhuntermusicofficial]

True freedom is doing what the fuck you want and not caring what anyone thinks - me

[@flyandshy00]

No, she doesn't look like kim.@@TV-wy1py

[@joshuamendoza-]

I’ve never heard a truer thing. Hold yourself to a higher standard.

[@sadiapsychology]

Thank you for having me on! And Really appreciate the kind words ❤

[@moulayderissy5445]

Great work Sadia enjoying your long format conversations, hope your well. London is good I opened a new spot called bait lounge with I'm just bait. Also Omar got married finally hamdullilah

[@PeterSodhi]

You would be perfect for Chris Williamsons podcast.

[@blah44287]

what a sad woman

[@balancer182]

Help me understand, are you saying nice girls finish last too?

[@wisdomochei]

You were an amazing guest. Would love to see you correct fresh & fit 😅

[@dianamicu]

Thank God a smart woman like Sadia is finally speaking up and giving a voice to the people who want to live a balanced life and actually build an emotionally healthy family! 💕

[@lizatamayo1053]

Agreed!!! ❤

[@Deliahszepinzky]

Love that she can callout herself for being a toxic jealous woman i laughed so hard It was a nice podcast again Mike is a good host it seems like he genuinely enjoy having those conversations and ask good questions. But Mike is a bit hypocrite or a walking paradox saying that fitness model are crazy, or women with their ass*s out on IG are not exactly what he will go for settling. Yet his Girlfriend is an IG model in a bikini with her body parts all over IG hahaha, well i guess that's part of the human paradox that's why i always say look at what people do and who they associate themselves with, rather than what they are saying. Wish Mike and Sadia the best and hope she will heal from her jealousy because you can be the best person in the world with amazing qualities if you are jealous it spoils everything.

[@Deliahszepinzky]

@@badinstinctsKZbin-xb3oj you mistaken the message she does not teach about how to be a good mother 🤣 unlike redpill talkers or like pearly thing she just share her expertise on psychology in regard to relationship between men and women and she has experience as she is freelance you should Google her if you are curious.

[@kanga-blue]

Sadia is NOT a Psychologist! To legally be able to call yourself a psychologist, you need to complete 5-6 years of postgraduate Master's and Doctorate work at an accredited Clinical psychologist university, preferably from these countries AU/SA/UK/USA or Western Europe. Sadia is a high school teacher with a high school teaching degree, which may have included some brief basic undergraduate study in psychology. Sadia claims on her LinkedIn to have been "Head of Psychology" at two London High Schools, but of course, there is no such position on earth. Some schools may have a "School Counsellor" who has a post-graduate degree in Psychology, but she doesn't even have that requirement. Sadia appears to be an attractive and well-spoken fraud, I am sorry to say. Just because she says some common sense ideas occasionally doesn't make her a psychologist. Many times, she says things that a psychologist would never say, such as a "low-worth man" etc. I request that you remove promoting her as a psychologist, as it is illegal to call a person a psychologist without at least a postgraduate Master's degree in clinical psychology plus training in clinics and later Psychology board certification, even in Dubai. Dubai also requires the Western standard of at least five years of postgraduate study after your bachelor's degree. If she just promoted herself as a relationship coach, she could still do well; however, it would make it more difficult to ask for the 400 quid per 50-minute online session she currently charges.

[@Deliahszepinzky]

@@kanga-blue i think you are a bit crazy…well she have her master degree in psychology, usually psychologist need a doctorate, but it depends of the country or state or a few fields allow to work without any. Most therapists are working at master ‘s level and are ok 👌, and get called psychologist is ok and quite common after a master degree for ex in France… licensed psychologist do assessment, conduct research, testing, evaluations… (which she is not doing here right ? )but in this case the phd is obligatory but if you are experienced it doesn’t mean you are not skilled… she can still use the term, she never said she was a doctor in psychology…calling her a scammer is a crazy 😜.

[@chanell5457]

We do need more female role models like Sadia. I've only recently discovered her and she is a breath of fresh air. Girls are being taught to disrespect themselves and being told its empowering. What. A. Woman.

[@kjp88]

Agree!

[@martinb.2697]

The strength you are embodying is really greatness. ❤

[@rachelbrennan8507]

This woman is brilliant, and 100% correct. Monogamy is hands down the most fulfilling way to live, among a million other points she absolutely nailed.

[@pcozzy]

For you maybe but not for the man 😅 that's why men arnt monogamous 😂 EVER.

[@Netwrk72]

she said so many lies things like a woman's body count doesn't matter

[@DoloresSimpson]

​@@Netwrk72You take what she says & misinterprets what she actually meant

[@robsonjcarter8942]

guys, she is right when she says that men always reward the opposite they say they actually want regarding women

[@gideonaning2399]

Bro, she is absolutely wrong. This needs critical thinking. HVM do not reward those women, getting flown to Dubai, being on a yacht, or a few expensive bags here and there is not the reward a woman can get from HVM but rather the title of a wife, the house the keys the legacy etc is the reward, so doing a bbl or being promiscuous will just get you in the door, get fucked and throw you back to the streets because the moment those hvm DMs them, he has already put them in the sex only category not relationship or wifey category, so modest women shouldn't think at all that the promiscuous women are getting the better end of the deal. This woman has a very skewed take on modern dating. She should go broaden her horizon and come back.

[@scazz007]

So foolish to think her advice or understanding is good, first need to separate the HVM from a simp and work from there 🫡

[@robsonjcarter8942]

If we were becoming influencers and giving more attention to women that don’t show off their intimacy and promote a good behaviour we wouldn’t be like this, there’s those kinda woman because is what they see that works with us. Those kinda women they do things wrong but let’s not put all the fault on them as if we were not buying what they sell

[@rohanvyas9325]

@@scazz007 tbh a lot of rich men are not hvm. They don’t know game but they got money. Men like them created this issue.

[@redboy8883]

Yes basically what alot if these "red pill" people are e doing LOL

[@chisuwochabu250]

This quickly evolved from an interview to a conversation, a beautiful conversation. Mike was literally scaling himself against her standards to see if he's got a chance with a high value beautiful woman.❤😅 Love it!

[@llsss777]

Literally I saw it too. Mike likes her lowkey fr that's why after this he stopped interviewing women for a while and went back

[@napertandy3579]

Yes he was scoping...

[@_hencethename]

Yall aren't scoring this correctly. He maybe once came across as "If we were dating". She on the other hand I lost count of the micro body language and nuanced signals she was trying desperately to hide. She was feeling him much harder than he was feeling her. But she's really good at trying to hide it. She can't hide it from me though cause I'm scoring pauses, corners of mouths, question tonality, vocal pitch, laughs vs giggles at what time how long each outburst was. There were way more uncontrollable nuances that she was trying to hide rather than him.

[@atanusarkar8384]

That was great Mike. She knows a lot, and spoke a lot of truths. Keep bringing more women like her. 😊

[@sunbugg]

There aren’t a lot of women like her speaking out in this topic. She is special and as a woman, I appreciate her content. ❤

[@lorgoogle220]

Men are so dumb women know this that’s why majority have only fans the men is the problem for rewarding it

[@xiaomoogle]

She is so high value. If you compare her to the not very smart woman who lacks total self awareness behind Lalalaletmeexplain... it's incredible.

[@darylgeanga6569]

This woman is so intelligent and logical! Highly impressed with her calm attitude and the ability to make her points so straightforward! Great podcast mike I loved it!

[@shanereilly9216]

I agree, I’ve been following her reels on IG she is extremely credible

[@user-th2fg8jf8s]

​@@shanereilly9216she has only fans?

[@dinero5322]

​@@user-th2fg8jf8s I'm just gonna assume that's sarcasm, if not....then 🤔🤦

[@MylezNevison]

Her philosophy on there being no reward or validation for being good women is flawed. Here is why: If many women are supposedly becoming promiscuous because men reward and give validation to promiscuous women that means the women are seeking validation and rewards at the cost of their morals and character (which good women wouldn't do)... Women choose bad boys a lot of the time, but l would never use that to justify becoming one because *"a boat doesn’t sink from the water around it, it sinks from the water it LET'S INSIDE IT."* Changing who you are for validation also means those women aren't in full control of themselves because who they are is controlled by male attention, validation, and reward, which contradicts Sadia's mantra of, *"SELF CONTROL IS TRUE FREEDOM."* (So Sadia needs to put accountability on the women for not having self control & for not having the true freedom to not need/let male validation define their goodness/promiscuity.) Being a good person(woman or man) is not done for rewards. It's a CHARACTER TRAIT. I am not a good person to people because they are good to me or deserve it. I do it because to behave otherwise would be out of my character. Once you find yourself looking for rewards for being a good woman/man, you are beginning to veer into the path of trying to cash in your "goodness" and manipulating it as a transactional tool to get what yiu want, WHICH A GOOD PERSON WOULDN'T DO... (Sidenote: her perspective on why men would even give attention to promiscuous women doesn't factor in biology & how men have a DUAL mating strategy: they either seek long-term committed relationships or short-term non-committal relationships (or combination of both). The male biology can compartmentalise sex and emotion so men are able to separate their sexual attention from their intimate relationship attention... Like most women, Sadia probably doesn't understand or accept this fact about male biology/nature, which unfortunately leads to women like Sadia mistakenly conflating a man's sexual attention with his intimate relationship attention... The promiscuous women only get men's sexual attention, which men are biologically wired to want to give anyway. The openly promiscuous women, en masse, aren't getting picked for serious long-term relationships unless the man is foolish. Rather, they are used for short-term non-committal fun.) *"Comparison is the thief of joy."* If the good women were wise, they would need to stop comparing the attention they get to the attention promiscuous women get. & Finally, if you are going to be a good woman, do it because it's WHO YOU ARE, not because you EXPECT to be rewarded for it. *"No-one ever breaks your heart, they break your EXPECTATIONS... & by breaking your expectations, they actually help you get closer to your heart." - Kyle Cease*

[@kanga-blue]

Sadia is NOT a Psychologist! To legally be able to call yourself a psychologist, you need to complete 5-6 years of postgraduate Master's and Doctorate work at an accredited Clinical psychologist university, preferably from these countries AU/SA/UK/USA or Western Europe. Sadia is a high school teacher with a high school teaching degree, which may have included some brief basic undergraduate study in psychology. Sadia claims on her LinkedIn to have been "Head of Psychology" at two London High Schools, but of course, there is no such position on earth. Some schools may have a "School Counsellor" who has a post-graduate degree in Psychology, but she doesn't even have that requirement. Sadia appears to be an attractive and well-spoken fraud, I am sorry to say. Just because she says some common sense ideas occasionally doesn't make her a psychologist. Many times, she says things that a psychologist would never say, such as a "low-worth man" etc. I request that you remove promoting her as a psychologist, as it is illegal to call a person a psychologist without at least a postgraduate Master's degree in clinical psychology plus training in clinics and later Psychology board certification, even in Dubai. Dubai also requires the Western standard of at least five years of postgraduate study after your bachelor's degree. If she just promoted herself as a relationship coach, she could still do well; however, it would make it more difficult to ask for the 400 quid per 50-minute online session she currently charges.

[@Diya_285]

She is SUCH a role model and breath of fresh air. The way she articulates herself so calmly and sees things from different balanced perspectives without screaming opinions into your ears! Loved her and this conversation!

[@Meyouletsgo]

She’s different from these western women 😂 who are annoying on those podcasts !

[@Thugh130]

She is genuinely so smart & the way she portrays the message and her points are so clear. Love this chick!

[@manumaster1990]

Sadia : you should have female friends Mike : if we were in a relationship would you allow me to have female friends Sadia : No Logic goes out the window timestamp: 56:15

[@j2shoes288]

@@manumaster1990 you're misquoting, why?

[@muushoftijzer4678]

@@manumaster1990taking it out of context

[@usainbolt5153]

Really?😂😂🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@JmGmail]

Sadia is all about parroting words nothing In her life matches what she preaches. Fake internet psycho logist.

[@MegaSuperPaige]

Best podcast ive listened to in a while. No pointing fingere, simply two people listening, asking questions and willing to learn!! Their interest is about fixing what is broken instead of bashing on about how trash each gender is. Loved this. I was hooked!! ❤

[@pa1154]

Whatever she said about how men want promiscuous women is absolutely true. I'm a non promiscuous girl and girls who are promiscuous get way more attention and better treatment by men than I do. Never listen to men to what they want in a partner. Their action speaks louder than their words

[@bobanppvc]

Im men and i despise promiscuous women

[@pa1154]

@thesmileyone getting a ring isn't an achievement.

[@iamthedaughteroftheking3704]

True and I noticed that when I ignore a man or not so nice, I get him begging for my attention. Sad

[@scarletlady3727]

Not true, i had a huge body count ( over 100) and when I met my husband who is a successful cardiologist, he proposed and have been married almost 20 years….I just didn’t tell him exactly how many partners I had…it’s stupid people who tell the world their business…I wouldn’t tell anyone who I slept with…and I wasn’t making vidoes, taking photos ect back then….even during my marriage I had a couple of affairs and made sure I never spoke of it….

[@zarosderer4447]

@thesmileyone they cant be trusted...it doesnt shock me she slept with other affairs WHILE married. ITs disgusting but 95% is this way. She doesnt even regocnize that she never married for love. She just married after she got wasted and banged around and got the shiut banged out of her and been low value. Those beta guys who take this women and are dumb and naive to think they actually love them are fkced up. Those women who slept around will always sleep around. You see by her as example. 20 years and cheated many many times. hahahah we all know that when we wrote her first sentence. Let me guess you divorced now or just stay for more cash... Guys i am 35 year virgin and I lost my life and health because of women. I am not even ugly but average is new ugly in this new world. I suffered. I even tried hard for 5 years and i approached hundreds each year. 10x party each month. None of them had slept with me or meet and date. They all look for the hot face and bad raping guy. Only when they get old and feel wasted and ugly they talk to beta husband dumb candidate men who they trick into faking love but only showing nice polite attitude. So dont accept them. If she has no 0Zerooooo bodycount dont take her. Die alone with dignity then to spend a fakre marriage life. Dont accept them. NOW REJECT THEM!!! And they lie so you have to watch her face. You always see the same face expression from sluts. And tattos and metal rings are also a red flag.

[@ImmyAli]

It’s nice the way she said InshAllah when he said anything about his dreams.

[@the-ironclad]

I came here to say that I was listening to this while in traffic for two hours thinking it would be just junk for 2 hours and I was blown away by how valuable this is. Sadia Khan has so much wisdom and made me think “wow I never thought about it that way.” Her angles and takes are so interesting and quite controversial but she disarms them with such a nice and kind and soft tone where it lands so well. Her voice is so soothing, intelligent and beautiful. I wish more women were like this, truly a rare gem these days. Need more people like her

[@URMOM_247]

She is true class. It’s what REAL women look up too and should praise!

[@JmGmail]

Very classy hehehehe working her ‘craft’ in Dubai trying to pursue ‘high value’ men to trap them into marriage trying to advise them into leaving* the wives they are cheating on.

[@JmGmail]

Hehehe very classy has a bf in Dubai and complains about the cheaters wives taking him back as being disloyal…

[@JmGmail]

Hehehe this 35 year old paki actress trying to trap a 25 year old . When that was not possible she became an internet psycho as internet relation expert. She is unmarried and trying to trap a guy in Dubai.

[@sethlivingstone1999]

Mike Thurston with another phenomenal podcast. Love how he comes at it with genuine curiosity and top notch production. An educated female guest was a great conversation.

[@Batthbolda]

What new thing she tell that a man doesn't know?

[@kaushikvsmaniyan]

@@Batthbolda quite a bit, read my comment

[@sarah14843]

Sadia “psychology” is not a real psychologist she has been deleting comments and has been name calling in response to constructive criticism 😂 please do not buy in to this hoax charlatan…she blocked my instagram account after I critically analysed her claims that children from single parent families cheat more and then proceeded to delete an entire comments thread to save her reputation. This person is not an accredited psychologist it is all for clout, judging from her responses she lacks the basic and fundamental quality of a psychologist which is empathy and compassion and above all professionalism which she evidently lacks. If you want actual mental health support please go to an accredited psychologist/ professional such as Dr Gabor Mate etc do not waste your money ohgn this individual she’s extremely deceptive

[@Kro2945]

@@Batthbolda you clearly didnt watch the video. she had some great points ! very well educated and aware for her profession.

[@smacc3670]

This is the first time I have ever heard anyone say that if men want traditional women why are they still supporting only fans girls and if that is what they like they will not be satisfied with a traditional woman. I guess men want the trad woman to be loyal so they can sleep around with ‘baddies’ outside of marriage without any consequences just as wealthy men have done throughout time.

[@peterwilliams6361]

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash

[@DavidVelasquez9]

amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

[@peterwilliams6361]

@@DavidVelasquez9 well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

[@DavidVelasquez9]

@@peterwilliams6361 please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

[@peterwilliams6361]

@@DavidVelasquez9 her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

[@peterwilliams6361]

you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

[@thenakedpeachwaxingboutique]

What a breath of fresh air! I have been praying for a women like her to speak up!

[@fisf.2148]

How can we make this podcast go viral? Sadia is so on point

[@kjp88]

Share it

[@MorphLesson]

Getting x10 better at the podcast game the more you do it Mike, the first podcast you were more laid back compared to now you’re just on the ball with intellectual questions and a more confident approach. Amazing to see you grow in this new space, keep it up G. Also Jwaller would be a great guest to get on 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@emmagiudici4211]

As a woman I sympathize soo much with what Sadia was saying, taking the time to know a woman’s body will take you way further than getting a lot of experience 👏🏻

[@joashedwards7206]

😂😂😂

[@richardvargas3308]

Elliot Hulse actually appraises this from understanding your wife’s body throughout the years is far better than sleeping with multiple women

[@adriansand5890]

I wish you only have virgin men that want to learn your body :) while you will deal with your frustration of not getting off! Let me know how it goes :)

[@omatseyeugen5697]

100 percent agree.

[@nas4235]

Emma, do you really think us men, those of who are aware of where our value comes from think that a woman’s body is special? Sex is sex, what you can do another woman can do or better, and that simply means you ain’t special. In fact, you’re easily replaceable. It is what It’s 🤷‍♂️

[@ravington666]

Have seen her psychology snippets for months and been fascinated by how she is able to make sense of things which I have also felt but could never express verbally as clearly and concisely as she is able to....but after watching this podcast she's probably the most grounded, intelligent and alluring woman I have ever come across on social media and in life.

[@wonderwoman9921]

What a brilliant podcast! As a women myself who is in-between its great to hear someone who has the middle ground! There are not many of us and we need more!

[@satin-samurai]

It was very refreshing to see two adults having an honest conversation about relationships and offering some guidance. Thank you Mike and Sadia. 👏 As someone who was raised with traditional values yet having to navigate my way and succeed in our modern world without giving up those values I struggled enormously. I was lost, broken, spent, and hopeless. Looking back, I do not know how I survived. And to my own surprise, found love. It was messy and hard. Yet despite of ourselves, our contrasting backgrounds, and cultural differences transformation took place. I chose to sacrifice the ‘known’ me to the unknown potential in me, and built a new woman ground up. Due to lack of role models I had to gradually forge one through confronting fears, having hard conversations, truthfulness, self-awareness, discipline, and selflessness. When I met my husband 13 years ago, I thought it was a one-night stand, except the next morning he made me pancakes. Nobody made me pancakes before. It was very confusing to say the least. We will hopefully🤞be celebrating our 10th anniversary this autumn.👹

[@mihalylorincz7737]

she has had very valid points on simping onlyfans, rewarding woman on their bad behaviour, but she also describes a man she would like who is superior to her and settles more than she does for him.

[@etaylor8028]

Since when are men settling? If a woman is birthing your kids, raising them, taking care of your home, then who gives a damn if she’s a bit older or not super attractive?

[@angelicpatel123]

Loved this! And I love how this was a two way conversation rather than her just rambling on about her views. She also asked questions and I love that.

[@fidelmaclifton1723]

Saw Sadia interviewed by Chris Williamson which led me to this interview tas I wanted to hear more from her. I was so impressed by her assessment, knowledge and clarity on this subject. Having lived in Dubai for 10 years, I know she has her finger on the pulse on how shallow relationships'are and in turn how devalued and vunerable traditional relationships become in that enviorment. The guy I worked with would plan his 'dates by nationality for the week ahead, Monday English, Tuesday French, Wednesdy American, etc ....like choosing from a Menu.. Sadia is doing a service by using her skills and profile to change the narrative. Thanks

[@salmarouf6840]

I really enjoy watching this conversation. Sadia is breaking this down nicely and then Mike seems to have very good understanding and empathy! It’s so calm😍😁

[@geenskihoho]

Thank God I found this woman!! I just love her.. very inspiring and have the same values as me. It's really hard to find a role model woman who still cares about motherhood and the future of our children. Smart, high value woman, beautiful, modest, charming, all in one package.. ❤❤❤

[@RollEyesDeeply]

I noticed that conversations around infidelity and promiscuity only became a problem when social media and the internet began to make it possible for women to capitalize on it. Ever since I was a young girl, I’ve watched and heard older women around me talk about how their husband stepped out of their relationship & brought shame to the family - especially when women judge other women. Traditional married women have always carried the shame of their husband’s infidelity & in traditional homes it’s rarely ever the woman who steps out. Now that the tables are turned and men assume there are less and less “high value women” they want to cry a war about it. I don’t condone what some women are choosing to do to gain some validation, but she is not wrong when she says men are hypocritical and have rewarded promiscuity. People really don’t understand how karma work do they? These are the sins and karma of mankind at play. The simple solution is, what you act upon and covet is what you will always nurture and harvest. So do not act dumb as if you are shock to find women no longer can be valuable to you. High value women exist and they’re not where you play and pretend you can’t find them.

[@Vladyyy]

“In traditional homes it’s rarely ever the woman who steps out.” Talking out of your ass does nothing to help anybody. -Nearly 70 percent of divorces are initiated by Women -Among only college-educated women, that figure jumps up to 90% -Married adults ages 18 to 29 say that women are slightly more guilty of infidelity - 90% of women and 77% of men admit to committing emotional infidelity. -40% of women and 30% of men admit to having cheated through cyber sex. (From actual studies) And lol, the rise of promiscuous women hurts women more than it hurts men. The average girl thinks she has to compete with that kind of Woman and goes out of her way to be, look and act like one. Do you really think more Women openly devaluing themselves, engaging in casual sex more easily, and showing that they will do anything for money is negatively impacting Men more? Because it’s not. Boys certainly are rewarding promiscuity. But you’re a fool if you think that’s hurting the “crying” men more than it is women. Guess which gender values novelty more in sexual partners? 40% of Women cheat for emotional attention. Guess what kind of woman a HVM will never love and fully commit to (i.e give emotional attention)? A promiscuous one. You can laugh and think the tables have turned when in reality Women are devaluing themselves and calling it empowerment. And in case you didn’t know more promiscuous women only makes it THAT much easier for a married man to be unfaithful. So unless you are happily committed to being single for the rest of your life you’re only really laughing at yourself.

[@thrilla72]

Mmmm not so sure about but hear your point. It likely has some merit.

[@UmarMunir94]

Men don't reward promiscuity. Men hate it. What Sadia failed to mention is men don't go for promiscuous women, they go for women who are "potentially" promiscuous. What this means is that men look for women who are more attractive than the average. And there's nothing wrong with that since women also go for men who have 6ft height, money and looks. What a man wants from his girl is loyalty. So no, it's not karma. What you said about traditional women bearing the shame of their husband's adultery is the problem of your own society. I live in a Muslim country and although a person who commits adultery is not stoned to death in my own country, they are bringing shame to themselves. Bringing shame to the family means their actions have damaged the reputable name of the family. But the wife here, does not bear the shame of her husbands acts. Everyone shames the cheater, whoever they might be and everyone stands with the wife. She's the one with dignity if she's not the one who cheated. You know why traditional women in your country take the blame and not in my country? Because in your country it means the wife is not beautiful or attractive enough and in my country it means that he has weak faith and loose character and he has committed a cardinal sin.

[@AnaB012]

Potentially promiscous and promiscous are very close. Who chooses like that, deserves what gets. There are beautiful and sexual women (normal) who are not promiscuos. It is a matter of intelligence and character.

[@voccessbg5396]

Very plausible. Men just cannot accept the Frankenstein they have created...

[@rhirhi4172]

Great podcast I really like sadia she actually gives balance between the crazy extremes going on rn

[@Monkey_Funky]

bro the quality of the setup and cameras is amazing

[@EranBucai]

found a snippet of this one on IG as a reel, then tracked down the episode to youtube. honestly was a great episode... great job to both

[@nadz8911]

Sadia is stunner, so articulate and highly intelligent she don’t talk nonsense so happy we have Real lady answering questions

[@kas6017]

The biggest communication problem is we don’t listen to understand. We listen to reply. Negative comments on here are perfect example of that

[@mohdy.j.3532]

Learned A LOT from Sadia. Thank you so much you two. Great podcast!

[@jpm3052]

Great podcast! Loved the conversation and insights that Sadia shared. Very entertaining content. Thank you Mike for helping us make our lives better with this advice!

[@claudinearellano4943]

Yes, we do need more women role models like her. Loved this interview!🥰

[@roxanafarhadi3831]

Sadia: A high value man is a man with Self-control and discipline that doesn't sleep around. Mike: A high value woman is a woman with Self respect, class and doesn't sleep around. High Value persona doesn't have a gender.

[@et4330]

Its defo the same, not sure why ppl trying to divide those two genders

[@juniperk912]

A lot of this conversation seemed to be about Mike talking about past partners who were jealous, starting fights about unimportant things, issues around social media, etc. If you find someone who is mature, a good communicator and truly secure with who they are, all of these issues about being jealous because you liked a person's post, passive aggressive behavior, etc will be a non-issue. I've been with my husband since we were 18 and I couldn't disagree more about equating more partners to being a better partner because you have more "experience". I appreciate Mike being so vulnerable and openly sharing about his personal life. I think he could have benefited from a positive female role model after his mom died. Find a partner who has the same values, who is a person of good character and who inspires you to be a better person. Don't settle for the person who gets jealous about who you follow on Instagram.

[@torresleti3492]

Thank you for shining a light on Sadia. She is a Gem and a beautiful example for women ✨️💐👑

[@AutumnPrinceProductions]

Literally everything Sadia says is gold. Stuff I’ve been puzzling out myself for a couple years is all right here. Thank you

[@anatun2011]

Such an intelligent podcast, always very informative and respectful. Two way conversation between adults that are willing to hear each other opinions on respectful way and learn from each other! With each episode of this podcast I revaluate others and want to clean up the information I absorb! Great job, thank you and I am looking forward to new episodes!

[@JessicaM1111]

❤ great comment, I agree completely!

[@kacap_g]

Her + Myron is what we all need

[@calvinklein-tf7nu]

That’s all you require to make yourself feel generously

[@katherinevananhnguyen1088]

Having a Chat with quality people is extremely useful & meaningful. Thank you!!!!!

[@Jayyyyyyyyyyyy_657]

So emotionally aware and mature. When a women speaks like this everyone is so quick to call her an annoying feminist when that has nothing to do with it. Everything she said is gold.

[@abdulsamadzakria9912]

She has asked very intelligent questions throughout. Mike must have felt a connection.

[@etaylor8028]

Mikes a good looking guy too so I’m sure they were both attracted to each other.

[@colinwhitehead7889]

What a fantastic podcast Mike. My wife of 20 years and I watched it together and both enjoyed and more importantly learned from it. Someone commented her logic went out of the door re no female friends but she was brutally honest with her own trait of jealousy just adding to her credibility.

[@sarah14843]

Sadia “psychology” is not a real psychologist she has been deleting comments and has been name calling in response to constructive criticism 😂 please do not buy in to this hoax charlatan…she blocked my instagram account after I critically analysed her claims that children from single parent families cheat more and then proceeded to delete an entire comments thread to save her reputation. This person is not an accredited psychologist it is all for clout, judging from her responses she lacks the basic and fundamental quality of a psychologist which is empathy and compassion and above all professionalism which she evidently lacks. If you want actual mental health support please go to an accredited psychologist/ professional such as Dr Gabor Mate etc do not waste your money ohgn this individual she’s extremely deceptive

[@marwood9421]

It ruins her credibility. She is fine with it when it benefits her but she opposes it when it doesn’t? This is hypocritical, toxic. You can see the conflict between her natural female nature and her western upbringing.

[@RidaBade1]

Really enjoyed that this felt like a conversation with the natural back and forth. Particularly enjoyed when Sadia would dig deeper through psychological questions! ❤

[@bored_-9375]

It's so important to analyse your own reaction when you hear out others perspective. I appreciate how she mentioned that if you leave feeling more angry and confused at the opposition then it's not serving you a purpose. I highly advise to tune into conversations like this that address the true issues and focus on the solution rather than creating hate toward each other.

[@MW-ob8jm]

Sadia is so on point. Men want a traditional woman with low body count but they go after and reward the promiscuous one!

[@Moi.26]

What is the reason behind this? I don’t understand why a man is doing this.. is this only about lust in the first place and later. On they think hmm this girl can’t start my family..? Or how should a woman view this.

[@redboy8883]

Yeah. Check these 'red pill' guys giving ' relationship ' courses lol. What's the end goal?

[@angelo.florescu]

Men want a traditional woman with low body count for a relationship,/as a wife, but they will chase the hot one for sex. Why is it that hard to comprehend such basic facts? Biology plays a role in male being visual and being turned on by visual factors and that is what happens. Then, after the act with that woman is consumed, they will not marry her.

[@NoLove040]

Y’all looking at the wrong rewards. We’re not rewarding promiscuous girls by giving them wife status. Don’t get it twisted

[@toni90000]

you are misinformed. promiscuous girls get sex only and die alone

[@realhaydenthomas]

This episode is fantastic Mike, great to hear both sides. I really like Sadia, keep up the awesome podcasts!

[@afifahishtiaq7]

This woman is so intelligent and logical! Thank God, a smart woman like Sadia sis is finally speaking up and giving a voice to the people who want to live a balanced life and actually build an emotionally healthy family! 💕 Great podcast mike, I loved it!

[@Heythere2810]

That’s why I watch her videos.

[@szymonswiatek3183]

Top shelve divine feminine energy.This lady is amazing. It is beautiful to hear people talking about importance of tradition, family unit and self worth. Great episode

[@redboy8883]

Respect to Mike for bringing on intelligent guests and have objective conversations.

[@gloriaemon6624]

omg everything she said was so on point and said so eloquently, calmly and considerately

[@Earthling.7]

Sadia : you should have female friends Mike : if we were in a relationship would you allow me to have female friends Sadia : No Logic goes out the window

[@Matt-fq6ly]

Timestamp for this? I want to laugh but I can't even get through 5 minutes of this garbage coming out of this so called dating coaches mouth....

[@wenzeladdug7602]

what´s the timestamp for this?

[@Earthling.7]

56:15

[@Matt-fq6ly]

@@Earthling.7 Thanks.

[@jongarica2475]

That’s was funny. She even laughed like WTF is coming out of my mouth lol

[@eliotcownden7395]

I enjoyed that podcast. I was only going to listen for a while and come back to it, but I was hooked and listened all the way through. Well done

[@lookup912]

The Dr is speaking about unaddressed trauma, low self-esteem (not to be confused w confidence) lack of relationship self-maturation, sexual self-discipline, fragile egos, and lack of wisdom.... Sis ate and left NO crumbs💯💕🔥

[@Conqueror92_]

Very impressed by this women even with her flaws that she courageously admitted to!

[@Tmo2024]

what flaws

[@tea.dubs8532]

Not very impressive when she's blaming all of women's actions on men. Lacks accountability like most modern women

[@Conqueror92_]

@@Tmo2024 when she speaks about jealousy.

[@Conqueror92_]

@@tea.dubs8532 she was pretty balanced in her answers. I believe we men shouldn't have accepted the situation to deteriorate as much. If we believe that we are leaders we should take the blame and fix the problem.

[@tea.dubs8532]

@@Conqueror92_ right! but we weren't around or in power of the media to create this change in women's independence. Also, if women want to be independent then they have to be accountable for their actions and receive the appropriate consequences. If women want to be codependent alongside men, then sure, us men need to be better leaders in terms of leading women. Unfortunately that's not how the "western" world is anymore. Men are seen as expendable pawns in a woman's world. She indirectly communicated this when talking about how it's men's fault for getting played by women. Chivalry is dead.

[@Umbasaa]

Props to Sadia, her comments gave me a lot of insight and made me reflect into my personal life and past experiences. Thank you.

[@sarah14843]

Sadia “psychology” is not a real psychologist she has been deleting comments and has been name calling in response to constructive criticism 😂 please do not buy in to this hoax charlatan…she blocked my instagram account after I critically analysed her claims that children from single parent families cheat more and then proceeded to delete an entire comments thread to save her reputation. This person is not an accredited psychologist it is all for clout, judging from her responses she lacks the basic and fundamental quality of a psychologist which is empathy and compassion and above all professionalism which she evidently lacks. If you want actual mental health support please go to an accredited psychologist/ professional such as Dr Gabor Mate etc do not waste your money on this individual she’s extremely deceptive

[@NA-ww9vu]

As a fellow Pakistani woman raised in England, I'm so happy that this common sense is being brought to the forefront. Thank you Sadia!

[@fayalyunania]

I wish more and more people all over the world continue following Sadia! She's spreading valuable ideas, that can change our global society to the better! God bless her!

[@kilibecher]

Indeed, but I must say I have little hope that any substantial amount of humans will change their ways because of it. Social media is an unstoppable force. So it will just be about finding the few gems in a mountain of dogshit.

[@Ianfonnie]

I love this podcast but this episode was a tough one, Mike. Can't wait to see who's on next!

[@abdirahman292]

It's hard to take serious someone who says they will debunk something while refusing to examine it first. Edit : this is about her refusing to read Myron book while saying the book is rubbish.

[@andremotivation6561]

Yup, essentially she's putting all the responsibility on men and not examining how women have played a major roll in the societal shift, when majority of women said they didn't want to be identified with wife and motherhood.

[@cantbendknee]

The book is rubbish.

[@gideonaning2399]

facts, that had me on my knees laughing🤣🤣🤣she is afraid she might get in her feelings if she reads it but I would love for her to "debunk" the book.

[@cantbendknee]

@@gideonaning2399 You don't need to read the book to know what he thinks of women, you can listen to his fragile masculinity podcast to know what he thinks. Any women who disagrees with him is kicked off his podcast also.

[@cfpzona]

​@@cantbendknee feminazi much?

[@criscorona007]

I’ve only seen her in a quick youtube short and have been looking for her and finally found her here! Idk who this guy is but I appreciated this entire conversation on both ends. How refreshing! Sadia all the things you’ve said in this podcast gave me reassurance! Thank you for speaking up for the average hardworking, tax paying women who still care about their autonomy more than instant gratification! God bless you Sadia!

[@wildsoniadiaries273]

This poor woman doesn’t have real equal when friends …my heart goes out to her.. she has totally helped me but I can see no one is helping her but she’s doing great regardless so good for her

[@yosamin88]

A blessing to have her on you prodcast ❤

[@sarah14843]

Sadia “psychology” is not a real psychologist she has been deleting comments and has been name calling in response to constructive criticism 😂 please do not buy in to this hoax charlatan…she blocked my instagram account after I critically analysed her claims that children from single parent families cheat more and then proceeded to delete an entire comments thread to save her reputation. This person is not an accredited psychologist it is all for clout, judging from her responses she lacks the basic and fundamental quality of a psychologist which is empathy and compassion and above all professionalism which she evidently lacks. If you want actual mental health support please go to an accredited psychologist/ professional such as Dr Gabor Mate etc do not waste your money ohgn this individual she’s extremely deceptive

[@aadilbassa]

Great episode and great guest - Well balanced, intellectual and thought provoking

[@sssoundslike2259]

Well balanced? She basically just blamed men for all of our problems in modern dating and relationships.

[@TheNewLifeOfFienie]

1:09:50 I'm truly sorry for this loss, Mikey T. I've been following you since July 2015 and have seen so much of you (on the Tubes) that I learned certain things about your life and your family. Your reaction to your mom's passing is very understandable. I hope and pray the Lord will fully heal you from that pain and traumatic times in your life. 🙏🏾 God bless you. 🤍

[@ahmadkotob7259]

I loved listening to Sadia she should start a podcast

[@kkkayz1]

Mike your videos are quality, as are your podcasts. Keep up the good work

[@amz7014]

Shes so amazing! Such a amazing role model for the younger generation! ❤

[@ababb4454]

Sadia has so much wisdom to offer. I really enjoy this. She is not one sided, blaming men or women - but telling the truth about today's society.

[@John__-ie3od]

Wisdom towards destroying your dating life.

[@HadiKhalifa]

I love these high quality podcasts. Makes everything much more like a vibe and interesting!

[@J___92]

Looking forward to see more guests like Sadia 👏🏼 Amazing podcast and really good conversation!

[@ikemmanuel-audu363]

Don’t simp

[@sisily15]

THIS IS SOOOO GOOD! ❤ I love her! This conversations is sooo insightful . Thank you

[@jackssssss]

Definitely Sadi is a role model, so much emotional intelligence and knowledge that I personally didn’t get growing up as a woman, I’m literally binging on her content! Thanks Mike for having her and how amazing to hear from your personal growth as well

[@MyDORAMEFASO]

An amazing listen. She's definitely become a role model for me.

[@dannyschleicher]

Very valuable episode! Thanks Mike and Sadia

[@VeganEnthusiastic]

Absolutely love this woman - what she stands for speaks volumes and many should be following her lead ❤

[@4xRomania]

its nice to see these two minds come together as I have been following both , I learned a lot

[@maipham4766]

Great podcast thank you for bringing so many interesting talks and topics

[@dalyaaraci4828]

Loved this podcast, great alternative perspective

[@blackjack7071]

God, this is such a breath of fresh air, i can relate to everything these two have talked about tonight. This conversation is gold

[@soniabataebo4632]

Sadia spoke so well! Especially when she explained why a high body count is worse for men. This is the best explanation ever. Also, let's talk about the risk of diseases. Our generation today talks as if infectious diseases don't exist!

[@MylezNevison]

She didn't explain the inverse of how women's high body counts affect them in comparison so we can't conclude the male repercussions are "worse" without examining the females' ramifications...

[@user-up5et1tj1v]

​​@@MylezNevisonexactly a high value woman and high body count don't go together point not proven. 😅 And I'm a female so.

[@maxim2091]

Just finished the whole interview. Incredible content, probably one of the most insightful and intellectual conversations on relationships that I have seen in a long time. Sadia 100% needs her own youtube channel.

[@istvangranicz5082]

'Sadia 100% needs her own youtube channel.' yeah... but only for women because what she says most of the time does not make any sense to a rationally thinking man

[@maxim2091]

@@istvangranicz5082 all of it made perfect sense to me. Which part confused you?

[@istvangranicz5082]

@@maxim2091 for instance right at the beginning of the video... what is the connection between a man wanting a traditional woman and who he follows on instagram? I am a guy wanting a traditional woman but I would watch a beautiful female at any time and so do 99% of men... god created men this way. she does not know the way men think because she is a woman and she wants to make the female way of thinking the only correct way... later she says female can sell feet pics for 10 grands because of men willing to pay for it... and men should change the way they act and problem solved... she does not have the faintest clue about the male reality and how men think and there is no female accountability in her view, females should not change someone who does not know anything about the other gender think should not give any advice to the other gender and finally let me quote a commenter from below: Sadia : you should have female friends Mike : if we were in a relationship would you allow me to have female friends Sadia : No ??? I think it is more than enough for me not to listen to her podcast.

[@maxim2091]

@@istvangranicz5082 On first point, who told you that a “traditional” woman won’t get upset at you following the bikini model on instagram? Wondering eyes drive jealousy. How would you feel if your woman was following a bunch of bodybuilders? God also created women to feel attracted to fit muscular men. That’s why we all workout. So if you want to follow models on instagram then you will have to be fine with your girl following male models on instagram. On point 2, if it sounded like she was putting all the blame on men alone for the whole OF trend then she just didn’t articulate it fully in this interview. In her interview on TK Talks with Tate, she was very clear that both men and women are responsible for this degradation. Women should have more self respect and men should stop enabling these acts. I think everyone will agree on this point. Lastly, the female friends thing is a classic example of female logic. First answer was her answering logically (the way men think), second answer was her answering with her emotion aka if she was dating Mike and he had female friends she would not like it. It doesn’t mean that she would think it’s wrong for him to have female friends, she is saying that she wouldn’t “feel” good about it. Men think with their brain, women think with their heart. If you want women to think like men aka logically then it probably won’t be a very feminine woman. I understand why you’d feel confused about it, I would’ve thought the same in my early 20s. By my 30s as I got to spend time with many different women, I understand their emotional logic much better. There is an actual logic to it, it just slightly different to how men think.

[@gideonaning2399]

facts. most of her takes are flawed about HVM, someone has to challenge her viewpoints to see how flawed it is but when MIke rarely pushes back on her points someone might think she has it all covered. The only time she was on a pod with someone who can push back on her points (tate), she couldn't defend those points which makes one think...😂😂😂but she has a few good points though but I would love a pod between her and myron.

[@Sunshinelady888]

Many thanks for this amazing podcast! It's rarely in our busy fast mowing world people leave a written feedback. But your conversation suprised me in unexpected positive way, made me think deeply, helped me out to make some important decisions, reminding and confirming me what matters most and it was exactly what was needed at this point of my Life. In particular Sadia saying about importnace of self control, self respect, memory of long - purpose in our daily actions and wise selection of people we choose to share ourselves with. So as Mike thanks for the questions you asked and for showing your deep honest will to search for deeper connection with women.

[@blaqsteel9]

@MikeThurston I had just finished watching this podcast episode. I have to say thank you and Sadia Kahn for this discussion it has helped me figure out a lot of things in my past relationships and for my future ones. I'm going to share this podcast with all my friends and family to help better understand themselves and partners. Serious eye opener. 🧐 Keep up the great work!👍🏾👍🏾 Stay blessed!🙏🏾💯

[@klausalaribe6219]

i just love your podcast setup as well as the apartment vibe. it's quite serene

[@moderntipton]

She offers a measured female perspective, arguing in good faith. Her point about not reading Myron’s book is about staying grounded (ironically) in reality, avoiding weaponized facts and encouraging empathic communication among individuals. If your head explodes at such a concept, then you know you’ve been consumed by ideology.

[@gideonaning2399]

THAT IS CLOWN WORLD FOR YOU MY BRETHREN.

[@Deimonos85]

it is just her being solipsistic like most women.. being a feminist and a terrible shrink for that matter. What myron, rollo, donovan sharpe.. john modern life dating talk about is the reality.. women that are average DEMAND a super man.. and when asked what they bring to the table, they think by just existing it is enough.. besides pearly thing and melinda king.. you dont see many women talking about that.. oh even courtney ryan who has always been on the fence started overtly saying women are delusional

[@Vlogsonthego]

I find the girl so much educated and very well spoken .

[@XavierHipolito]

What a great interview! Thank you Sadia and Mike ❤

[@aislinn1991_]

I have to say, I did have misconceptions about you, Mike. However, taking the time to listen to you, you're actually quite humble and down to earth. I enjoyed watching you and Sadia😊 I genuinely learned alot about men. Thank you❤

[@m10ali46]

She is the perfect example that proves Myron right.

[@naturalLin]

What did Myron say

[@RR-et6zp]

@@naturalLin read his book

[@rizzla092]

Females with podcasts need to stop

[@gaurikiya]

I think Myron going back to Dubai this Wednesday so I guess maybe that debate with this girl can happen maybe this channel can moderate the debate

[@ogechiaden2870]

I agree with you!

[@selinamoll2721]

Absolutely loved this raw and open and honest take on dubai and dating in 2023! I’ve been here 12 years and I needed to hear a lot of what was said. Basically you confirmed lot for me that was just in my mind. Thank you both. ❤

[@kamillabingham7718]

She is sooo intelligent and so correct, makes many valid points…

[@lukedrysdale]

Sadia said your competition isn’t other men, your competition is her chaos….very interesting perspective and very true

[@DBsteppin]

I thoroughly enjoyed this interview. Sadia is so well spoken, thoughtful and has some great counter points to the entire red pill mindset. Well done Mike.