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PLEASE NOTE: This video discusses scapegoating in DYSFUNCTIONAL family systems where the pathological FAMILY PROJECTIVE IDENTIFICATION PROCESS is fueling the scapegoating abuse. This process is an UNCONSCIOUS systemic defense mechanism and similar to a shared group psychosis. Recovering from family scapegoating abuse (FSA) is difficult enough - don't let it become even harder by believing in one or more of these five myths. For example, scapegoating can happen in ANY dysfunctional family system, not just a narcissistic one. Specifically: *In a dysfunctional (versus narcissistic) family system, scapegoating can by driven by the insidious and unconscious systemic defense mechanism known as the 'Family Projective Identification Process' (which is similar to a shared family 'psychosis') - This is especially likely when there is unrecognized systemic anxiety and intergenerational trauma. Alternatively, in narcissistic family systems, the scapegoating behaviors are likely conscious and intentional. * See my pinned comment for more information about the 'Family Projective Identification Process'. See Trigger warning, below. ✅ Check out my best-selling book on FSA, 'Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed' on Amazon amzn.to/3sEaqcx or via this Universal Buy Link: books2read.com/intro2fsa
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0:00 - Intro
0:50 - Myth One: Regarding types of families scapegoating occurs in.
1:10 - Why scapegoating can happen in ANY dysfunctional family.
2:38 - Myth Two: Regarding family awareness of their harmful behaviors.
3:15 - The insidious Family Projective Identification Process that fuels scapegoating behaviors.
4:20 - Your family may really believe you're the problem when you're the 'Identified' Patient'.
5:50 - Myth Three: Regarding family therapy and family scapegoating abuse (FSA).
7:30 - Why family therapy can potentially harm/re-traumatize the scapegoated family member.
7:50 - The conditions that should be established before participating in family therapy.
8:08 - Myth Four: Regarding needing family to recognize (and apologize) for abuse.
9:25 - Why dysfunctional family members are unlikely to own their part
11:00 - Why going 'no contact' may be the FSA adult survivor's only choice if they want to heal.
11:18 - Myth Five: Regarding self-help books and recovering from FSA.
12:08 - FSA, Complex Trauma (C-PTSD) and trauma-informed care.
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